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| 5 Things Absolutely worth spending your money on: Blind mom eddition | 31 Jul 2026 | 00:50:38 | |
We're finally back around the table, and this catch-up was long overdue. We jump into the viral "five things totally worth the money" trend, each putting their own spin on it. Kisha shares the blind mom purchases she swears by, including AirTags and a robot vacuum that help keep life running a little smoother. Josselyn is covering fashion and beauty, explaining why investing in a good foundation and finding the right pair of nude heels can make all the difference. Terrin rounds things out with the homemaking purchases she'd buy again in a heartbeat, from quality cookware to sheets that actually make you want to crawl into bed at the end of the day. Of course, the conversation doesn't stay there for long. The ladies swap stories about kids spending time with their grandparents over the summer, the excitement and stress of teaching a teenager to drive, and what a perfect night off really looks like when you're a busy mom. Expect plenty of laughs, a few side quests, and the kind of conversations that feel like catching up with friends after everyone's been way too busy. If you've missed hanging out with the BDBU crew, this is the perfect episode to jump back in. You might even walk away with your next favorite purchase along the way. Purchase our Blind Parenting Bundle: Connect with Babies Down, Bottles Up
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| Blind dads: My legacy is what I leave for my family|PT2 w/ Vission Cooper | 24 Jul 2026 | 00:39:46 | |
What does it actually take to build something that outlasts you? In Part 2 of our conversation with entrepreneur, husband, father, and blind dad Vission Cooper, the talk moves past the business wins and into the mindset behind them, the marriage, the mistakes, and the reason he calls it all legacy. Danny sets up each moment of the conversation for listeners, adding context as Vission unpacks what he's learned building multiple businesses, raising his kids, and creating opportunities for other blind entrepreneurs along the way. From his views on the American dream to the role communication played in his marriage, Vission gets honest about what actually paid off. You'll also hear how he met his wife, Rel, at the school for the blind, how the two of them built a life from a packed one-bedroom apartment with barely any privacy, and how becoming parents changed the way he shows up as a partner. It's a raw look at insecurity, support, and what it means to build something bigger than yourself. Josselyn and Terrin get in on it too, talking about what it would take to launch a business idea of their own, sparked by the conversation. By the end, the episode makes one thing clear: entrepreneurship isn't just about the money. It's about solving problems and leaving people better off than you found them. To learn more about Vission, explore his businesses, or connect with him directly, visit visioncooper.com. You can also check out Access Your Place and keep an eye out for what's next, including 420 Wellness and a few other projects in the works. Purchase our Blind Parenting Bundle: Take the systems built by blind parents to make your life easier and set your family up for success. | |||
| Checked on my Ex before Convention | 23 Apr 2026 | 00:39:33 | |
We’re getting ready for convention season, and you can feel the energy in this one. We talk about what it’s like heading into a big convention, the excitement of being in the same space as the community, and finally getting to meet the people who listen every week. From past experiences to what we’re looking forward to this time around, this is a real look at why these events mean so much to us. We also get into what it takes to actually make it work with kids. Traveling, navigating the crowds, keeping things organized, and still trying to enjoy the moment. If you’ve ever thought about going to a convention or you’re already planning your trip, there’s a lot here you’ll relate to. Of course, we don’t stay on track the whole time. We somehow end up debating ideal pets and getting into the random superstitions we all still lowkey believe, because that’s just how these conversations go. If you’re thinking about pulling up this year or you’ve been before, consider this your invite. Come find us, come say what’s up, and be part of it. Get your hands on the Blind Parenting Bundle, a resource to help you feel more prepared for your journey as a blind parent: https://bdbushop.com Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| we're having dum dums at Chucks house | 23 May 2024 | 01:06:21 | |
The moms are back with a new episode! Join them as they discuss navigating indoor and outdoor situations, sharing funny little white lies they've told their kids. They reveal their clever methods to have their kids come to them or find them in the home, offering insightful tips on how they, as blind moms, keep track of their kids no matter where they are. Email us at babiesdownbottlesup@gmail.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on Tiktok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| My baby's coming home with me! W/ Tremaine | 16 May 2024 | 01:12:53 | |
Check out the third and final episode of our series! Meet Tremaine, a resilient blind mom who faced every blind parent's nightmare: the temporary separation from her baby due to blatant discrimination. Listen to her recount her heart-breaking stories of not being able to take her baby home after birth, reuniting with her baby 57 days later, and offering invaluable guidance to future blind moms who may one day face this unjust discrimination. Blind moms, stand up and stand together! Email Tremaine at tremtation@gmail.com if you need advice as a blind parent. Find Tremaine on Facebook: Tremtation. Read the story about Tremaine in the news: Tremaine in the news. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on Tiktok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Don't Call CPS on me! | 09 May 2024 | 01:10:50 | |
Check out the second episode of our three-part series! Join our amazing moms as they share misconceptions professionals have about blind parents. From frustrating interactions with educators to navigating health professionals and public encounters, they share stories that highlight the normalcy of blind individuals' lives. Listen in as they recount their experiences in the delivery room, talk about the daily fears of being a blind parent, and touch on the heart-wrenching time when Terrin faced a CPS case. Plus, they express their love for Taylor Swift's latest album, share their drinks of the week, give shout-outs to supportive men, and tease an upcoming episode featuring blind dads. Email us at babiesdownbottlesup@gmail.com. Read the story about Tremaine in the news: Tremaine in the news. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on Tiktok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Give me a sugar daddy as my Caretaker | 02 May 2024 | 01:04:00 | |
Everyone's favorite moms are back this week to start a three-part series about public and private misconceptions. They cover interactions with those who come across a blind parent, have an in-depth discussion about the lack of grace blind moms have if they need to rush out, people complimenting that your child is taking care of you, plus so much more... Like our Facebook page. Follow us on Tiktok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Cosleeping with Sexy Whitney | 25 Apr 2024 | 01:03:16 | |
The girls of Babies down, bottles up are back.
Kisha, Josselyn, and Terrin introduce a new addition to the podcast, give life updates, and provide hot takes of things the ladies have done as moms that go against the norm.
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| BABIES DOWN, BOTTLES UP Trailer | 04 Sep 2020 | 00:00:48 | |
A group of blind moms that are changing the narrative. We discuss our kids, relationships, beauty tips, fitness, motivate, and share our experiences as blind women. We believe that the best way to change misconceptions and stigmas is through awareness and sharing our unfiltered truths. So put the babies down for bed, and come sip your glass of wine with us... Or the whole bottle. We don’t judge. | |||
| Red Velvet for menstrual rewards | 18 Apr 2026 | 00:43:08 | |
We’re talking about something a lot of people still try to avoid, periods and puberty. Terrin and Josselyn get into what it actually looks like to have these conversations with your kids, especially as blind moms raising girls who are trying to understand what’s happening to their bodies. From preparing for that first period to handling the emotions that come with it, this is one of those topics you can’t afford to ignore. They share their own experiences, what worked, what didn’t, and how they approach it in a way that keeps things open instead of awkward or shame-filled. We talk hygiene, body changes, and the importance of making sure your kids feel comfortable asking questions without feeling embarrassed. There’s also a real conversation around how these moments hit differently when you’re blind or raising a child who is, and why it matters to be intentional about how you explain things and build confidence early. It’s honest, it’s needed, and it’s the kind of conversation more parents should be having out loud. Get your hands on the Blind Parenting Bundle, a resource to help you feel more prepared for your journey as a blind parent: https://bdbushop.com Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Mom of the month: No excuses, just execution w/ Kimberly of Komfort by K | 11 Apr 2026 | 00:56:54 | |
Our Mom of the Month is here, and Kimberly from Komfort by K does not disappoint. She joins us to talk about what it really looks like to build something from the ground up while raising a family and showing up for your kids every single day. Kimberly is a blind entrepreneur running multiple lanes at once, from comfort meals and baked goods to body butters and event planning, and she breaks down how she makes it all work. We get into her story growing up with glaucoma, becoming a young mom, and figuring things out without a blueprint. She’s honest about the challenges, but also about the mindset it takes to keep moving when things don’t go how you planned. And then there’s her role as a team mom. The stories alone are worth pressing play. Between the chaos, the pressure, and the moments that somehow turn hilarious after the fact, she’s fully in it for her kids and not backing down from anything that comes with it. Kimberly brings a straight-up approach to everything she does. No excuses, just execution. If you’re trying to build something, hold it together at home, or just need to hear from someone who’s doing both at the same time, this one is going to hit. Find Komfort by KFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Komfort-By-K/61572698144831 Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. 92 | |||
| Precious moments with our step sons w/ Precious Perez and Stephanie | 03 Apr 2026 | 00:42:32 | |
This one’s a real one. Josselyn’s out handling a parenting situation, so Terrin and Kisha are joined by Stephanie and Precious for a conversation all about step-parenting and what it actually looks like day to day. We get into how these relationships start, those first introductions with the kids, and how quickly things can either click or feel complicated. From there, it’s the real stuff, co-parenting dynamics, knowing your place, handling discipline, and figuring out how to show up without overstepping. We also talk about that in-between feeling of not always being seen as “the parent,” while still doing everything a parent does. And at the same time, the moments that make it worth it, the bonds, the routines, and the relationships that grow over time. Different experiences, different family setups, but the same goal, doing what’s best for the kids. If you’re living this or about to step into it, this one’s going to feel familiar. Connect with Our GuestsPrecious Perez Website: https://preciousperezmusica.com Socials: preciousperezmusica (all platforms) Find her music on all streaming platforms under La Reggaetonera Ciega Stephanie Co-runs the Blind and Bookish Facebook group Find the group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/997080930144525/ Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| My City is just for me | 27 Mar 2026 | 00:49:10 | |
This one feels like a breath of fresh air after some of our heavier conversations. We’re back with a full cast episode, just talking, catching up, and letting things go wherever they go. No big topic, just real life updates, random questions, and the kind of conversations that remind you why we started this in the first place. We get into what’s been going on lately, from Kisha being deep in mom life with sports, gymnastics, and a packed schedule, to Terrin stepping into bodybuilding and prepping for the stage while working on a full Louisiana-inspired tattoo sleeve that keeps getting more detailed. Josselyn shows up with brand new pink hair after a full-day transformation that has her feeling like a whole different person. And Danny is doing what Danny does, dropping music updates, talking about AI projects, and somehow making his drink choices sound concerning. We also take a minute to talk about something we’ve been working on behind the scenes, the Blind Parenting Guide. It’s something we built with other blind parents to make things easier for anyone figuring it out as they go, from planning for a baby to handling everyday situations that don’t always get talked about. Then we get into the chaos. We run through a series of random “MySpace survey” questions that take us all over the place. From weird things our families collect to dream ice cream flavors, business ideas, childhood memories, and the kind of answers that probably say a little too much about who we are. It’s funny, it’s random, and it turns into one of those conversations where you realize you’re still learning new things about each other. We also touch on how different things feel now compared to how we grew up, especially with how much social media and AI have changed everything. There’s more access than ever, but also a lot more noise, and we get into what that looks like from our perspective. This episode is just us being us. No structure, no pressure, just conversation, updates, and a reminder that sometimes it’s good to slow down and just enjoy talking. Check out our Blind Parenting Guide and Toolkit Bundle at https://bdbupodshop.com. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Going, growing and glowing w/ Ms. Blind Diva pageant | 19 Mar 2026 | 01:01:40 | |
This one is a celebration. For Women’s History Month, Josselyn and Kisha sit down with the powerhouse women behind Eyes Like Mine Inc., an organization doing real work in the community and creating space for blind and visually impaired individuals to show up fully as themselves. Founded by Newark natives Krystal and Naquela, Eyes Like Mine has built something that goes beyond events. From Dancing with the Blind to the Miss Blind Diva Empowerment Pageant and their upcoming Marvelous Moms Community Baby Shower, they’re creating opportunities, visibility, and support where it’s needed most. We’re also joined by some of the titleholders from the Miss Blind Diva 2025 pageant, and they bring their stories, their work, and their personalities right to the table. Bianca Blaque Diamond Johnson, Ms. Altruistic 2025, is an award-winning author, poet, motivational speaker, and host of the BFF Empowerment Podcast. She’s written over 14 books, released multiple projects, and created the No Limits Girl Empowerment App, a platform focused on building confidence, independence, and leadership in blind and visually impaired youth. Everything she does is centered around showing people that there are no limits to what they can achieve. Courtney “Coco” Brown, Miss Blind Diva 2025 and Miss Photogenic 2025, is a full-on entrepreneur and leader. She’s the CEO and Founder of Cut Not Crushed Enterprises, along with Bling Boutique by Coco, Lillies Lifesavers LLC, and Blind Diamonds. Coco has taken her experience with vision loss and turned it into purpose, building brands that focus on confidence, advocacy, and community. She’s using her platform to uplift others while adding her own style and energy to everything she touches. Throughout the episode, we talk about what this pageant and organization mean to the women involved, the impact of having spaces like this in the blind community, and how each of these women is using their voice and their work to push things forward. This episode is full of energy, pride, and real conversation. It’s about showing up, supporting each other, and making sure the next generation sees what’s possible. Miss Blind Diva 2025 Titleholder InformationMs. Altruistic 2025: Bianca Blaque Diamond Johnson Website: www.bffempowermentpodcast.com Website: www.nolimitsgirl.com Miss Photogenic 2025 and Miss Blind Diva 2025: Courtney “Coco” Brown Courtney “Coco” Brown is the CEO and Founder of Cut Not Crushed Enterprises, an umbrella company rooted in faith, purpose, and empowerment. She is also the Founder and CEO of Bling Boutique by Coco, Lillies Lifesavers LLC, and Blind Diamonds. Living with vision loss, Coco has turned adversity into purpose by building brands and platforms that inspire confidence, advocacy, beauty, and community. As the reigning Miss Blind Diva 2025 and Miss Photogenic 2025 through Eyes Like Mine, she uses her voice, story, and leadership to uplift others and add sparkle back into the world one diamond at a time. Email: cbrown@eyeslikemine.org Link: https://vip.covergirl.maxim.com/p/X2MFKWSf Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Adult Female friendships, are they for you? | 12 Mar 2026 | 00:43:49 | |
Friendships look a lot different once you become a parent, and we’re talking all about it in this episode. Kisha, Terrin, and Josselyn get real about the friendships that shaped them growing up and how those relationships change once life fills up with kids, work, and responsibilities. From childhood best friends to the people who came into their lives later, they talk about how those connections influenced who they are today. The conversation moves into the reality of maintaining friendships as adults. Long-distance friendships, group chats that go quiet, the effort it takes to stay connected, and how hard it can be to build new friendships when your schedule revolves around family life. They also talk about the uncomfortable side of friendships, including disagreements, drifting apart, and the moments when a friendship simply runs its course. Along the way they share stories about setting boundaries, figuring out who truly shows up for you, and why having a supportive circle matters more than ever as a parent. Sometimes your chosen family ends up being just as important as the one you were born into. It’s honest, relatable, and full of the kinds of conversations people don’t always say out loud about friendships as adults. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Mom of the Month: Adapt to the sighted world through Katy's Eyes W/ @KatysEyes | 06 Mar 2026 | 00:51:45 | |
iv> Our Mom of the Month spotlight is back, and this time we’re welcoming Katie from Katy’s Eyes on TikTok to the mic. Katie is a blind mom of two who has built a growing online following by simply sharing what life actually looks like in her house. From raising her kids to running her day-to-day life without sight, she’s been documenting the routines, workarounds, and moments that most people never get to see. In this episode, Katie talks about her choice to homeschool and how she structures learning at home while still giving her kids space to explore and be kids. She shares how volunteering at her church became another place where she could stay connected to her community and contribute in ways that matter to her family. We also talk about what it’s been like growing a social media presence while being open about blindness. Katie explains why she started posting in the first place, the reactions she gets from people online, and how those videos have turned into a space where others can ask questions, learn, and feel less alone. Along the way we get into the everyday strategies she uses around the house, the moments that catch people off guard when they see a blind parent in action, and the importance of showing the world that blind parents are doing the same messy, funny, exhausting, rewarding job as everyone else. Katie brings honesty, humor, and a lot of perspective to this conversation. It’s a great way to get to know another mom who’s doing things her own way and sharing it with the world. Find Katie from Katy’s EyesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@katyseyes YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/KatysEyes Instagram: http://instagram.com/katyseyes Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| See me function in a non-related Blindness Field | 20 Feb 2026 | 00:36:02 | |
This one is real. We’re talking about what it’s actually like working outside of the blindness bubble. Not conferences. Not advocacy spaces. Regular workplaces. Offices. Meetings. Systems that were never built with us in mind. We share our experiences being the only blind person in the room, the pressure to prove ourselves before we even open our mouths, and the exhausting dance of deciding when to educate and when to just do your job. There are stories of discrimination, yes. But there are also stories of unexpected allies, managers who stepped up, and coworkers who surprised us in the best way. We get into inaccessible software, awkward interviews, assumptions about productivity, and the constant need to advocate for basic accommodations. We also talk about why it matters that blind people show up in every industry, not just blindness organizations. Visibility changes perception. Presence shifts culture. And sometimes just existing in the space is the statement. This episode is about honesty, growth, frustration, and persistence. If you’ve ever felt underestimated at work or wondered how to push back without burning bridges, this conversation is for you. And we really do want to hear your stories. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Mom of the month: Embodiment of a Mompreneur. w/ She's REL Cooper | 05 Feb 2026 | 01:04:31 | |
We’re kicking off 2026 by naming our very first Mom of the Month, and it had to be REL Cooper. Friend of the show, blind mom, entrepreneur, homeschooler, and all-around force, REL joins Josselyn, Kisha, and Terrin for an episode that feels like sitting at the table with people who really know each other. Danny pops in with his usual chaos, the drinks are flowing, and the stories come fast. The episode opens with catch-ups and life updates, from Kisha being nominated for a major PTA honor, to Terrin stumbling into a full-circle connection with a tattoo artist whose family shares a blindness journey of their own. Josselyn admits she’s running on wine and an empty stomach, Danny shocks everyone with his beverage choices, and the group dynamic does what it does best. Then REL takes the mic. She talks about growing up blind, losing her remaining vision as a kid, and building a life that now includes a marriage, two kids, homeschooling, and multiple businesses. She shares how she met her husband Vision, how their partnership grew from friendship into family and work, and why entrepreneurship became the path forward when traditional jobs weren’t opening doors. REL breaks down the businesses she and Vision have built together, from furnished rental investing through Access Your Place, to Penny Works, an AI website builder designed with blind users in mind, to her passion projects centered on supporting moms. She also gets real about past ventures that didn’t work, the lessons they left behind, and why no experience is wasted if you actually learn from it. The conversation moves into homeschooling, how they make it work day to day, why structure looks different in their house, and how learning happens in conversations, play, and everyday life. They talk socialization myths, flexibility, and the pressure parents put on themselves to do things the “right” way. Along the way there are parenting stories, throwback memories, and moments that only happen when people have real history together. This episode is equal parts laughter, honesty, business talk, parenting reality, and mindset shifts. It’s a strong start to a new year and a perfect introduction to REL Cooper as our first Mom of the Month for 2026. Find REL CooperSupport us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Blind dads: My vision to the bag|PT1 w/ Vission Cooper | 18 Jul 2026 | 00:57:33 | |
```html Meet Vision Cooper, a blind entrepreneur, artist, husband, father, and the definition of someone who's learned that success means a whole lot more than what's sitting in a bank account. In this episode, we sit down with Vision to talk about building businesses, raising a family, and the life lessons that completely changed how he measures success. As the owner of 14 businesses, Vision shares how he spent years chasing the next opportunity until a conversation with our own Josselyn made him stop and rethink what really mattered. That shift changed the way he approaches fatherhood, marriage, and the legacy he's building for his children. We also get into what it's like raising kids as a blind dad, how he and his wife refuse to let society place limits on their family, and why teaching resilience starts at home. Vision opens up about the work ethic that drives him, the importance of showing up for the people you love, and how he's creating opportunities not just for himself, but for others. Plus, we dive into his wellness company, 420 Wellness, where he's helping people explore alternative approaches to health and wellness while challenging the way many people think about health and wellness. This conversation is honest, funny, thought-provoking, and full of the kind of perspective that sticks with you long after the episode ends. Whether you're a parent, an entrepreneur, or someone trying to find a healthier balance between work and family, this is an episode you won't want to miss. Purchase our Blind Parenting Bundle: Take the systems built by blind parents to make your life easier and set your family up for success. | |||
| Achieving a better life Experience. W/ Ashley Melero | 29 Jan 2026 | 00:50:59 | |
Money planning can get complicated fast when disability benefits are involved, so we brought in someone who truly understands how the system works. In this episode, we’re joined by Ashley Melero from The Arc of Texas for a clear, grounded conversation about ABLE accounts and Special Needs Trusts, and why knowing the difference between the two matters more than most people realize. Ashley walks us through what ABLE accounts are, why they were created, and how they allow people with disabilities to save money without risking Medicaid or Social Security. We talk contribution limits, who can open and manage an account, how parents can use them for minors, and what happens as balances grow. She also explains what counts as a disability-related expense and why documentation is key. From there, we shift into Special Needs Trusts and the common mistakes families make when planning for the future. Ashley explains the difference between third-party and self-settled trusts, why inheritances need to be handled carefully, and how pooled trusts can remove a lot of the stress that comes with managing funds and staying compliant with benefit rules. We also cover the parts people often avoid talking about, including Medicaid payback provisions, how marriage and employment can affect benefits, and why small steps like adding transfer-on-death designations or updating a will can make a major difference down the line. If you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting financial security and fearing the loss of benefits, this episode helps untangle that tension. It’s a straightforward conversation about planning ahead, protecting access to care, and making sure your money works for you instead of against you. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Financial goals = changing behaviors. W/ Anthony Melena | 23 Jan 2026 | 01:07:13 | |
Money is one of those topics that can feel heavy fast, especially when you’re trying to rebuild, stretch a fixed income, or figure things out after time spent at home raising kids. In this episode, we sit down with Anthony for a grounded conversation about money that speaks to real situations, not perfect ones. He shares his own experience moving through debt and finding financial stability, along with the mindset shifts that helped him stop feeling stuck. We talk about budgeting in a way that makes sense for people living on a fixed income and for moms who are re-entering the workforce or trying to regain financial footing after staying home. Anthony explains how to be more intentional with spending, how to approach money conversations with a partner, and how everyday choices can quietly shape your financial future. He also walks through tools like IRAs and Roth accounts in plain language, so you can understand what they are and why they matter without feeling overwhelmed. This episode is for anyone who wants to feel less anxious about money and more aware of how to work with what they have. It’s honest, realistic, and focused on building confidence one step at a time, no matter where you’re starting from. Reach Anthony: amficoaching@gmail.com Anthony’s suggestions: Opening a Capital One account (no minimum banking fees), which can help you build a simple system to track spending and start budgeting: https://www.capitalone.com/bank/money-management/banking-basics/opening-a-bank-account-online/ Dave Ramsey’s book The Total Money Makeover (available on BARD and Bookshare): https://store.ramseysolutions.com/money/books/the-total-money-makeover-by-dave-ramsey/ Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| The rainbow Ribbon chronicles: all about Autism | 15 Jan 2026 | 00:56:48 | |
If you’ve ever wondered whether the signs you’re seeing mean something more, or you’ve already been down the road of seeking an autism diagnosis for your child, this episode is one you’ll want to sit with. Josselyn and Terrin speak honestly about their experiences raising autistic daughters, including the early stages of denial, the moment they realized they were the only ones in their families acknowledging what was happening, and what it took to fully accept and move forward with a diagnosis. They break down how autism diagnoses work today, why the term Asperger’s is no longer used, and what actually separates Levels 1, 2, and 3. They also talk through the day-to-day realities that come with parenting autistic kids, redirecting behaviors, managing sensory needs, and adjusting parenting styles to meet their children where they are. From different types of sensory input their daughters seek out to tools and items that help with regulation, they share what has worked in their own homes. The conversation also takes a necessary turn toward advocacy. Josselyn and Terrin discuss why organizations like Autism Speaks have faced backlash, and why person-first language is often pushed by people who are not autistic themselves. They draw clear parallels to disability language within the blind community and explain why lived experience matters more than outside policing. This episode is grounded in real parenting, real questions, and real learning. If you’re curious, concerned, or already working through an autism diagnosis, there’s a lot here that may help you feel less alone and more informed. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Walk on to your New Years mindset | 08 Jan 2026 | 00:22:38 | |
First episode of the new year, and we’re easing back in by catching you up on our lives. We talk about how the holidays actually went, who we spent time with, what worked, and what we are glad is officially over. From family moments to quiet resets, it’s a real look at how we wrapped up the year. We also share our resolutions and personal goals for the year ahead, the realistic ones and the stretch goals we are holding ourselves to. To close it out, we keep things fun with a quick Playlist Playoff, picking our walk-on songs for 2026 and explaining why each one fits our mindset going forward. New year energy, honest conversation, and a little music to set the tone. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Not so secret Santa | 25 Dec 2025 | 00:56:33 | |
Merry Christmas from the Babies Down, Bottles Up crew! This episode is a fun holiday special, full of festive energy and end-of-year laughs. We kick things off by talking about what our kids are most excited for this Christmas, from the gifts they have been counting down for to the little traditions that make the season feel special. Then it is time for a Playlist Playoff holiday edition, where we each share our top three Christmas songs we absolutely cannot stand. Strong opinions are shared, feelings may be hurt, and no one backs down. We also reveal what our Secret Santas got us, unwrapping and reacting in real time as we talk through the gifts and the thought behind them. Before closing out the episode, we take a moment to say thank you. To everyone who has pressed play, shared an episode, supported our work, mentioned us to a friend, sponsored an episode, or believed in the mission, we are incredibly grateful. A huge thank you as well to all of our guests and supporters this year. Celebrate the holidays with us, get a few laughs in, and wrap up the year together. We will see you in 2026. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Here are a few of my favorite Accessible toys. w/ Amber of wonderbaby.org | 18 Dec 2025 | 01:15:31 | |
Amber from WonderBaby.org joins us for a conversation that feels like sitting down with the friend every parent of a disabled child wishes they had sooner. Amber takes us back 20 years to when WonderBaby.org first started, long before Facebook groups and endless resource websites existed. What began as a need for information turned into a lifeline for families raising children with disabilities. She talks about the parents she’s connected with over the years, the friendships that grew out of shared experiences, and what it really means to be a steady resource for families who are figuring things out as they go. We get into adapting mainstream toys for kids with different needs and the simple materials Amber keeps on hand to make toys more accessible. She also shares practical advice for relatives and extended family, especially during holidays and gatherings, on how to make things easier and more inclusive for families who are already doing a lot of planning behind the scenes. Then Amber delivers something parents will want to bookmark, her favorite toy picks broken down by category. From sound and music toys to tactile and exploration toys, light-up toys for kids with light perception, movement and motor skill toys, braille toys, and other developmentally appropriate options, she gives thoughtful recommendations and explains why they matter. We wrap up with Amber offering grounded advice for parents and advocates who are supporting children with special needs and want to feel more confident doing it. If you are looking for ideas, reassurance, and tools you can actually use, this episode is one you will want to listen to more than once. Visit WonderBaby: https://www.wonderbaby.org Email Amber: help@wonderbaby.org WonderBaby on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wonderbaby.org/ Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Don't keep me at the hospital | 11 Dec 2025 | 00:58:05 | |
When your child has to go into the hospital, everything shifts. In this episode, Kisha and Terrin open up about their personal experiences with surgeries, long hospital stays, and what it takes to keep yourself together when your child is on the operating table. They break down how they prepared themselves and their kids, physically and emotionally, for surgery day, from pre-op appointments to fasting rules to finding age-appropriate ways to explain what is about to happen. They also talk about the anxiety that builds as surgery approaches and the different ways they have learned to stay grounded while waiting for updates. Once surgery is over, that is when the real work begins. Kisha and Terrin walk through the recovery phase at home, comforting kids through pain, handling mobility limitations, and staying on top of medication schedules without mistakes. They also get real about how they label and identify prescriptions as blind moms and why asking for weight-based doses is one of the most important safety steps you can take. This episode also digs into medication awareness inside the hospital, specifically fentanyl, why it is commonly used, how it is administered, and the questions every parent should be ready to ask before anything is given. They talk openly about overdose concerns, what warning signs look like, and how to advocate for your child in a medical setting. Terrin also shares her experience with long-term hospital stays: what to pack, how to make an unfamiliar room feel a little more like home, staying strong when you are hit with hard news, and balancing communication with doctors while still trying to maintain a sense of normalcy for the rest of your family. They also discuss anesthesia. Together, they talk through what parents should expect before, during, and after anesthesia, how kids often respond differently than adults, and the little things they wish they had known sooner, told through their own real experiences. From prepping your kid for surgery to surviving days or weeks in the hospital, this episode is an honest look at what families actually go through. If you ever find yourself in this situation, this one will prepare you in ways you did not know you needed. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Kiss the Cook | 05 Dec 2025 | 00:51:54 | |
```html The cookisode is finally here, and it is landing just in time for the holidays. Whether you are trying to keep the kids fed while they are home on break or you are just ready to level up in the kitchen, this one is for you. We are talking all things cooking and baking, starting with simple beginner meals and the kitchen gadgets that actually make life easier. We get into meal prep routines, grocery shopping strategies, and how to confidently drift away from a recipe without losing the plot. We also walk through how we orient ourselves around the stove as blind moms, from finding your bearings with burners to safely managing multiple dishes at once. And of course, we get into baking: the tips, the tricks, and the basic ingredient science that makes the difference between “it worked” and “why did it turn into a brick?” Some of our favorite lessons from independence training make their way into the conversation too, including the little skills and shortcuts that changed the way we move in the kitchen. If you have been wanting to sharpen your cooking skills, get more comfortable with baking, or simply feel more confident whipping up something good, this is your episode. Hit play and let’s get cooking. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. ``` | |||
| Sportsmanship among the baby bops | 02 Dec 2025 | 00:33:39 | |
BDBU in Austin? On the court? Absolutely. Kisha and Josselyn officially drag Terrin into their world of sports as Babies Down, Bottles Up reps Metro Blaze at the Texas Goalball Tournament. We break down what goalball actually is, how the game works, and what it felt like to finally play together as a trio. The sportsmanship, the teamwork, the chaos, and the inside jokes on the court, we’re giving you all of it. We swap stories from our weekend in Austin, our favorite moments from being reunited, and yes, the bruises we didn’t expect but proudly brought home. Terrin shares what it was like touching a goalball for the very first time, and how surprisingly natural she felt jumping into a game she’d only ever heard about from the other two. We also get into our first experience riding in a Waymo self-driving car and why we instantly became fans. No weird small talk. No unhinged rants. No “five-star if I drop you at this random corner instead?” Danny proves our point perfectly with a real recording of the chaotic Uber driver he got stuck with on the way to the airport. It’s friendship, sports energy, and pure BDBU vibes from the court to the rideshare. Hit play and join us in Austin. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| First aid and Safety plans: How we keep our babies protected | 24 Nov 2025 | 00:42:35 | |
Safety isn’t optional when you’re raising kids, and this week we’re getting into the real, everyday work that goes into keeping your home and your family protected. We’re talking first aid basics, what supplies you should always have stocked, and how we blind parents stay organized so we know exactly what we’re giving and when. We get into babyproofing, toddler-proofing, and teen-proofing the house as your kids grow, plus the importance of locking up anything that could become a temptation or a risk—meds, alcohol, firearms, and more. We also talk about how we tell what’s going on when our kids come running to us in pain or panic: listening for certain cues, asking the right questions, checking their bodies safely, and trusting our instincts even when we can’t see what’s wrong. And because emergencies don’t wait for you to get ready, we’re breaking down safety plans too: what happens if there’s a fire, a break-in, or any situation where every second counts. Why having a plan matters, how to talk to your kids about it, and how to make sure everyone knows what to do. It’s an important conversation full of practical tools, family-tested systems, and reminders that preparation really does make all the difference. This one’s for every parent who wants their home to be as safe and steady as possible. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| NFB Convention 2026 Reflections | 10 Jul 2026 | 00:13:43 | |
100 episodes later, and we're still walking away inspired. ❤️ In this special bonus episode, Kisha, Terrin, and Josselyn look back on one unforgettable convention filled with laughter, connection, and moments that reminded them why this community means so much. From kids experiencing the excitement of being surrounded by other blind people, to dreaming about a future with autonomous travel through the CyberTaxi, to meeting listeners who have become friends, this conversation is all about celebrating the people, technology, and experiences that continue to move the blind community forward. Whether you were there or missed it, come relive the memories with us as we reflect on a weekend we'll never forget. Purchase our Blind Parenting Bundle: Connect with Babies Down, Bottles Up: 📧 Email: info@bdbupod.com If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with someone who could use a community that truly gets it. 🥂 | |||
| Grief happens at your pace w/ Kristin Revere of Gold Coast Doulas | 13 Nov 2025 | 00:42:14 | |
We’re joined by friend of the show Kristin Revere from Gold Coast Doulas to explore a role that many don’t hear about often enough — the bereavement doula. Kristin walks us through the vital support she offers families who experience miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, or a traumatic birth. She explains how this work differs from therapy and why having someone by your side who truly understands these moments makes all the difference. We talk about what happens in the immediate aftermath of loss, both physically and emotionally, and how a bereavement doula helps families process shock, communicate with partners, and begin to heal. Kristin also shares ways to work through grief in healthy, sustainable ways, and how to set realistic expectations for yourself when it comes to recovery. The conversation moves into how families can find balance when they’re ready to re-enter daily life, and the importance of giving yourself grace through anniversaries, due dates, and other emotional milestones. We also touch on what it’s like when the doula’s work comes to an end, and how to continue that healing journey afterward. It’s a powerful and compassionate conversation — one that reminds us all that grief doesn’t have a timeline, and that no one should have to face it alone. Find Kristin Revere with the links below:Supported: Your Guide to Birth and Baby Check out Kristin's Podcast and Media Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Canes, trains and planes! | 06 Nov 2025 | 00:59:38 | |
Traveling with kids isn’t for the faint of heart, especially when you’re juggling strollers, car seats, and white canes. This week, the crew shares their best tips, stories, and survival tactics for traveling as blind parents. From wrangling car seats in Ubers and Lyfts to managing flights, trains, and buses, we’re breaking down how to keep the little ones safe, close, and calm. You’ll hear how we plan seating arrangements, pack efficiently, and handle those unpredictable moments in airports because there’s always one. We also talk motion sickness, yes, Dramamine gets a shoutout after Kisha’s unforgettable plane story, and the rules we set for the kids when we’re out in public. Whether it’s staying hydrated, staying together, or staying sane, this episode’s full of the small details that make traveling just a little smoother. Hit play, grab your carry-on, and let’s get going. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| I lost my baby | 23 Oct 2025 | 00:57:41 | |
This episode is one of the hardest we’ve ever recorded. Terrin and Josselyn open up about their personal experiences with miscarriage, sharing what it was really like to go through it from start to recovery. They talk about the first signs that something was wrong, how they identified what was happening as blind women, and what the medical process looks like when a miscarriage occurs. They walk through the procedures doctors perform, what recovery actually feels like, and how the emotional impact lingers long after the physical pain fades. The conversation gets deeply personal as they describe how grief affected them and their partners in different ways, and how even simple things—like attending events or enjoying certain activities—can bring back memories. They also share what it’s like dealing with doctors who don’t always say the right thing, and why it’s important to express your own feelings separately on medical paperwork. Both women reflect on the joys they felt during pregnancy, the parts of that experience they miss, and the moments that took time to enjoy again without the weight of those reminders. It’s a heavy, honest episode that doesn’t shy away from the details—but it’s also a reminder of the strength it takes to talk about what most keep to themselves. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Petty, Pretty and Witty (Live in Dallas) | 16 Oct 2025 | 00:49:49 | |
It’s giving petty, pretty, and witty! 💅🎤 The crew finally linked up LIVE in Dallas, glammed up and ready to pod with champagne flutes in hand! The energy was sky-high, the laughs were nonstop, and this one feels like you’re right there in the room with us. We’re spilling all the tea—from our airport adventures to whether our families actually listen to the podcast 👀. We share what we’re most proud of, get a little sentimental (in between the jokes), and even introduce you to our amazing studio engineer and photographer who came through for our Dallas photoshoot. And because no BDBU moment is complete without a surprise guest, Tanner Gers from Accessibility Officer pops in to tell us what he loves about the show and why he had to jump on board to support. So grab your glass, press play, and catch the vibe—it’s BDBU, live, loud, and unapologetically us. 🥂✨ Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Aces in their Places: Getting into the workforce w/ Tanner Gers | 09 Oct 2025 | 00:51:54 | |
Friend of the show Tanner Gers, founder of AccessAbilityOfficer.com, joins us to get real about employment in the blind and visually impaired community. With most blind adults still facing massive barriers to finding and keeping steady work, Tanner breaks down what it actually takes to stand out and succeed. He talks about learning your strengths, mastering assistive tech, and why staying close to people in positions of influence—what he calls “proximity to power”—can change everything. We also talk about the hidden skills that stay-at-home parents build every day and how to translate those into résumé-ready experience when it’s time to rejoin the workforce. Along the way, we share our own work-life balance struggles, the lessons we’ve learned about professionalism, and why effort matters more than excuses. Tanner keeps it straight, reminding us that in this world, cutting corners isn’t an option. It’s an honest, practical, and motivating conversation about knowing your worth, putting in the work, and creating your own opportunities—no matter where you’re starting from. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| It's a potty party | 02 Oct 2025 | 00:38:21 | |
Potty training—it’s one of those milestones every parent faces, and we’re sharing exactly how it went down in our homes. From spotting the first signs that our kids were ready, to the ways we encouraged them to keep going once they started, nothing is off the table. We talk about the rewards that worked (and the ones that didn’t), how we handled kids who just weren’t ready yet, and the creative methods we used to help them through the process. Kisha, being the only one on the team with experience training both a boy and a girl, breaks down the differences and what worked for her family. We also open up about teaching independence—how we showed our little ones to care for themselves after using the potty—and the tools that made life easier once they started going on their own. If you’re a blind parent trying to figure out what works, or you just want to hear a few tried-and-true ideas to make potty training less stressful, this episode is packed with tips, laughs, and a whole lot of real talk. Press play and learn a few things with us. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| LETS TALK ABOUT S*X! | 26 Sep 2025 | 00:38:13 | |
Last week we took you through pregnancy. This week—perfect timing for episode 69—we’re tackling sex. From pregnancy sex to postpartum changes, we’re laying it all out: the awkward, the funny, the “hell yes,” and the “not tonight.” We talk about how desire shifts before and after birth, how to bring the spark back when you’ve been with someone forever, and why communication is the real MVP of the bedroom. From straight-up saying what you like to experimenting with new ways of getting there, we’re giving you suggestions that will encourage your partner to listen—and deliver. Birth control makes an appearance too: how it affected our bodies, why we stayed on, why we came off, and what sex felt like on both sides of the decision. And then there’s the jaw-dropping part—sighted people who can’t seem to wrap their heads around the fact that blind people have sex. (Yes, seriously.) We’re not just laughing at it—we’re asking YOU to send us your best retort for the next time someone drops one of those comments. It’s blunt, it’s funny, it’s episode 69. Press play, because you know you want to hear this one. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| I'm having a baby! | 20 Sep 2025 | 00:56:47 | |
This one’s personal. We’re opening up and sharing our pregnancy journeys—everything from the moment we found out we were expecting to the rollercoaster of labor and delivery. You’ll hear how we navigated those early pregnancy tests, what it was like experiencing ultrasounds and hearing our babies’ heartbeats, and the ways morning sickness showed up during each of our pregnancies. We talk about what we packed in our hospital bags, the contractions that signaled it was time, and the unique challenges that came with delivering during COVID. We don’t hold back on the hard stuff either—the complications, the unexpected moments, and how it all felt as we entered motherhood for the first time. At the same time, we celebrate the joy, the belly, and the miracle of growing a tiny human. This episode isn’t just a trip down memory lane—it’s an honest look at the journey of becoming a mom, from the scary parts to the magical ones. We want you to walk away embracing the beauty of pregnancy, showing off that belly proudly, and knowing you’re part of something miraculous. Hit play and come along for the ride—we’re taking you from that first trimester all the way to the delivery room. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| I'm not popping my kids | 11 Sep 2025 | 00:43:43 | |
This week we’re keeping things fun and light! We’re talking about the people in our lives who knew us before we were moms—and what it’s like for them to see us as parents now. We also share the best (and worst) parenting advice we’ve ever been given and play another round of Playlist Playoff, this time featuring the songs that get us through our cleaning routines. But that’s not all. We reflect on the things we would never do now as parents that we might have done—or thought about doing—before motherhood. We get into gentle parenting, why “just popping your kids” isn’t the answer for us, and even share the wild story of a blind family who bought their teenager a car and expected them to chauffeur everywhere. And, as always, we kick things off with “What’s on your mind?”—because sometimes you just need to catch up, laugh, and get real before diving into everything else. It’s a mix of laughs, real talk, and plenty of stories to give you a better glimpse of who we are beyond the mics. Hit play and hang out with us—you’ll definitely get to know us a little better in this one! Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Time for an evaluation! | 06 Sep 2025 | 00:37:15 | |
When it comes to your child’s education, nothing is more important than understanding their rights—and yours. In this episode, Terrin and Josselyn roll up their sleeves and get into the world of evaluation plans, accommodations, and everything tied to IEPs, 504s, and ARD meetings. They break down the differences between an IEP, a 504 plan, and ARD meetings, explaining what each one actually covers and why it matters for your child’s success. From what’s typically discussed in these meetings to how to make sure your child’s true needs are reflected in their plan, this conversation gives parents the clarity and tools they need to walk into the room prepared. But it doesn’t stop there. Terrin and Josselyn also tackle the emotional side of these meetings—the overwhelming jargon, the intimidating number of professionals sitting across the table, and the pressure parents often feel to agree to whatever is suggested. Their message is clear: you are the boss in that room, and you have the final say. Along the way, they share stories from their own school days, recalling what it was like to go through ARD and IEP meetings themselves, and how those experiences now shape the way they advocate for their own children. They also talk about seeking outside advocates when necessary, making sure you know when and how to push for more, and the power of documenting exactly what you want in writing. Packed with practical advice, personal experiences, and encouragement, this episode is your guide to showing up strong in IEP and 504 meetings, ensuring your child gets the support they deserve. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Drunk Cherry-poppin' for our 100th | 25 Jun 2026 | 00:41:03 | |
100 episodes. Can you believe it? 🥂 We're celebrating this milestone with a special live episode featuring returning favorite Tremaine and a young listener from Florida.. We look back at how Babies Down, Bottles Up went from an idea to a community that's helping change the narrative around blind parenting, answer your questions about the podcast, share the story behind our name, play Name That Tune, create absolute chaos with BDBU Mad Libs, compare our favorite lip combos, and spend some time reflecting on the journey that's brought us here. We also have an honest conversation about navigating public perception and the intrusive questions blind moms still face today. Thank you for being part of these 100 episodes. Here's to the next 100. Purchase our Blind Parenting Bundle: Take the systems built by blind parents to make your life easier and set your family up for success. | |||
| You get a therapy, you get a therapy, you get a therapy! | 28 Aug 2025 | 00:44:02 | |
Your baby’s growth doesn’t come with a manual, but early childhood intervention comes pretty close. In this episode, we talk and get real about what it looks like from day one through those first critical years of development. We start at the beginning: screenings at birth for vision, hearing, and reflexes, and how prematurity can shift the timeline for everything that follows. Extra rounds of testing? Yep. Developmental charting? Absolutely—but with a reminder that it should be about your child’s progress, not your abilities as a blind parent. We as moms open up about our own journeys navigating early intervention services. Terrin shares her path of switching out therapists until she found the right fit, while Josselyn talks candidly about an occupational therapist that just wasn’t working out. Together, they dive into the ups and downs of speech therapy, the benefits they’ve seen in their kids, and the sometimes awkward invasion of home life when therapists show up at the door. You’ll hear about what therapists actually test for, how progress is measured, and why speaking up about what you are (and aren’t) comfortable with is essential. The conversation also covers the frustrating pushback districts can give when it comes to referrals—and exactly how to advocate for your child when they try to say no. If you’ve ever wondered what early intervention really looks like, how to gauge if your child needs services, or how to make sure you’re being heard in the process, this episode breaks it down with honesty, humor, and hard-earned insight. So grab your coffee, settle in, and hit play—because this one is packed with the info you’ve been waiting for. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Labubus, crocs and birkenstocks | 23 Aug 2025 | 00:45:43 | |
Backpacks packed, pencils sharpened—the kids are officially back in school, and Terrin and Josselyn are here to talk all about it. They kick things off with some Taylor Swift chatter before jumping into the real stuff: uniforms versus no uniforms, how pricey clothes and supplies have gotten, and even the added hit of class and lab fees for Terrin’s teenager. The conversation doesn’t stop there. They get into when it’s smartest to shop for supplies, the latest craze around Labubu figures, and how they keep track of school-issued tech like Chromebooks and iPads. They also break down what it looks like to meet teachers and stay on top of homework as blind moms, offering a peek into their routines and challenges. It’s back-to-school season BDBU style—equal parts laughs, real talk, and useful takeaways. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Mommy, your eyes don't work (BDBU Best of) | 14 Aug 2025 | 00:29:41 | |
In this “Best of BDBU” episode, the girls share the moments their kids first realized they were blind, the baby items they were given or bought but never actually used, and their experiences with breastfeeding. They also bring back the “Playlist Playoff,” picking songs that match their parenting styles, and talk about their opinions on sleepovers and slumber parties. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Salty milk while on the go | 31 Jul 2025 | 00:41:44 | |
Traveling with kids is already a challenge—but throw in summer heat, sports gear, and being blind, and you’ve got a whole new level of coordination. This week, Kisha and Josselyn break down exactly how they make it all work when it comes to traveling to sports events with their kids. From must-have snacks and hydration hacks for those long, hot days, to how they keep things flowing smoothly with their partners, this episode is packed with practical tips. Josselyn shares her experience as a beep baseball athlete, and Kisha brings in her perspective from both beep baseball and goalball, offering a real glimpse into what it's like to parent from the sidelines while still staying game-ready. They also talk about leaning on your village, mentally preparing for big trips, and how to balance your athlete mindset with your mom brain. Whether you’ve got a tournament coming up or you’re just trying to figure out how to not forget the sunscreen, this episode’s for you. Hit play and take notes. This is the real playbook for traveling as blind moms. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Mom of the month: Cane shame shame shame w/ Esmeralda | 25 Jul 2025 | 00:56:12 | |
This week, we’re shining the Mom of the Month spotlight on someone extra special—Esmeralda, childhood best friend of our very own Josselyn. Esmeralda wears a lot of hats: Girl Scout troop leader, former JROTC commander, PTA president and board member, mom of three, and partner to her high school sweetheart of 18 years. But behind all the titles is a story of growth, identity, and reclaiming power as a blind woman. For years, Esmeralda struggled with cane shame—avoiding using her cane in public out of fear of being treated differently or seen as less capable. It wasn’t until her early 30s that she fully embraced it, letting go of the shame and choosing to lead with confidence instead. Today, she works in administration at the Lighthouse for the Blind in Dallas—one of the few blind or visually impaired professionals to hold such a high-level role there. She’s not just breaking glass ceilings, she’s flipping the script on what blind leadership can look like in traditionally sighted spaces. Hit play to hear her story. It’s one of friendship, strength, and finally owning your space in the world. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Diarrhea Tia: The return of Tremaine | 18 Jul 2025 | 01:25:49 | |
Tremaine is back—and this time, we’re closing a loop that’s been 15 years in the making. If you’ve been with us for a while, you’ll remember Tremaine’s original episode: an emotional conversation where she shared how her newborn daughter Mikaela was taken from her the same day she gave birth all because she was blind. She wasn’t allowed to bring her baby home. She was separated from her child for 57 days. That story struck a chord with so many of our listeners because it’s every blind parent’s nightmare—and it actually happened. In this episode, we catch up with Tremaine to hear what life looks like now. Mikaela is a teenager. Tremaine is thriving. And most importantly, she’s been doing the work—traveling, speaking, and helping drive legislative change. Because of advocacy efforts like hers, seven states have now passed bills that protect blind parents from being denied custody, placement, visitation, guardianship, or adoption based solely on their blindness. This is real, tangible progress—and Tremaine has been part of that fight. She updates us on Mikaela’s growth, her own healing, and the ways she’s helping make sure no other parent has to go through what she did in 2010. After the update, we’re replaying her original interview—one of the most listened-to episodes we’ve ever put out. If you’ve never heard it, now’s the time. And if you have? You’ll hear it differently with everything you now know. This is a story about pain, power, and proof that change is possible when we refuse to be quiet. Press play. This is one you’ll remember. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| It was a bond struggle with my NICU baby w/ Alyssa Hicks | 10 Jul 2025 | 00:58:59 | |
We've been waiting to bring you this one. In this episode, we welcome longtime BDBU listener Alyssa Hicks to share her powerful story as a NICU mom. Alyssa, a dialysis patient, opens up about the emotional and medical rollercoaster of giving birth at just 26 weeks. Alongside her is our very own Terrin, who also walked the NICU path and is a fellow Tubey mom. Together, they reflect on the early days—what it’s like when bonding with your baby looks different because wires, machines, and hospital walls get in the way. They talk about the role of primary nurses in those fragile moments, navigating GI tubes, and how they managed the flood of emotions that comes when you can’t bring your baby home right away. This episode is honest, raw, and full of the kind of insight only NICU parents can truly give. Whether you’re in the thick of your own NICU journey or just want to better understand what so many families go through, this conversation is one of support, connection, and strength. And if you are going through it—we’re here. Please reach out. You don’t have to do it alone. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Keep it safety positive! w/ Amy SP Wilson and Erica Kress | 03 Jul 2025 | 01:17:23 | |
We’re tackling a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough in our community—consent, safety, and self-advocacy. In this episode, we’re joined by Amy SP Wilson, founder of the Safety Positive Foundation, a nonprofit organization promoting self-defense after her own experience as a domestic violence survivor, and friend of the show Erica Kress (aka Blind Barbie), a blind/visually impaired advocate, for a raw and necessary conversation about protecting ourselves and others, especially in blind and visually impaired spaces. From navigating large events safely, to the importance of speaking up and reporting sexual assault, Amy and Erica walk us through the realities too many people face in silence. They open up about the kinds of conversations we need to have with our kids early—about consent, respect, and boundaries—and share specific, practical ways to stay aware and avoid dangerous situations, especially at blindness programs and events. We also talk about what true allyship looks like in these moments, and how we can all be more prepared, proactive, and supportive when something doesn’t feel right. It’s not an easy episode—but it’s an important one. Vulnerable, honest, and packed with information we all need to hear. Press play, and let’s keep it safety positive! Learn more about Safety Positive Foundation: Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||
| Blind Dads: I'm too tired to f**k around. w/ Shane Lowe | 26 Jun 2025 | 00:56:24 | |
We’re closing out our blind dads series with Shane Lowe—drummer, percussionist, music director, accessibility consultant, ed tech professional, and the kind of dad who brings equal parts wisdom, humor and hussle to the table. Shane became a father at 16, making him our first-ever guest to talk about parenting as a blind teen. He opens up about how that moment lit a fire under him to push harder in every area of life—especially music. He walks us through his path as a percussionist, including studying under standout mentors (one of whom wasn’t even officially his professor), and how that training shaped the creative work he does today. He’s currently the music director for his wife Precious Perez’s live shows and directs and plays in two bands: Midair Decision, a pop band, and The Blues Pilots, a jazz/fusion instrumental band made up of musicians from Berklee College of Music. Shane also reflects on what independence training at the Kentucky School for the Blind taught him, what matters most in raising his 9-year-old son Kayson, and why he emphasizes commitment over perfection. And yes, there are stories—like the time Kayson learned his dad was blind and confidently offered to fix it. This one’s full of laughs, insight, and a whole lot of heart. A fitting end to a series that’s been all about honoring blind fathers who show up in their own incredible ways. Support us on Patreon. Email us at info@bdbupod.com. Like our Facebook page. Follow us on TikTok. Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Instagram. | |||