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Loving Through the Little Things: Letting Go of Assumptions Ep. 725
28 Apr 2026
00:18:10
Most of us have experienced that shift in marriage—where the little quirks that once felt endearing during dating suddenly become everyday annoyances. The real challenge comes when those small frustrations start to build, creating distance, resentment, and barriers to connection. And often, it's not just the habits themselves—but the assumptions we attach to them—that carry the most power, quietly shaping how we see and respond to our spouse.
In this episode, Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy share practical ways to keep the small things from becoming big issues. They talk about the power of open and honest communication, setting realistic expectations, and choosing grace in the moments it's needed most—especially when assumptions threaten to take over.
Our hope is that this conversation encourages you to strengthen your connection and approach the little things in your marriage with greater understanding, intention, and grace.
Episode Highlights:
Assumptions do not help the marriage relationship.
Open communication is key to highlighting the differences in your relationship and developing an alternate way to move forward together.
Quotes from this Episode:
You begin to think God made a mistake, which He doesn't.
The way I think about Nancy, is going to impact the way I treat her.
When you start thinking negatively toward someone, just stop and lay it at the Lords' feet.
God wants us to have a good marriage. He gave it as a gift to us so He wants it to be good.
It's hard to build a case against Nancy, when I'm taking her to the Lord in prayer.
Marriage doesn't have to be complicated. God didn't create it as this maze we have to figure our way through.
Time to Talk About it:
When's the last time you prayed for the Lord to help you see your spouse the way He sees them.
Is there something you need to share with you spouse that you've been viewing negatively? Something that is going unmentioned and ignored?
Take time to write down 10 things you love or admire about your spouse. Now share it with them.
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Wider Lens: All Things Together: Apprenticeship to Jesus in a Fragmented World with Heath Hardesty
24 Apr 2026
00:48:09
In this episode, Dr. Kim talks with author and pastor Heath Hardesty about his new book, All Things Together. Heath shares how his time apprenticing under his earthly father became a living picture of what it means to be an apprentice of our Heavenly Father. They discuss what it looks like to live as image bearers in a fragmented world, why discipleship is more than "extra credit," and how God redeems, not erases, our humanity. Together, they unpack how to see with wonder again, order our imagination around Christ, and live a whole, beautiful life that reflects Him.
Episode Takeaways:
Wholeness comes from staying connected, not from doing more.
Slowing down is often the most spiritual thing we can do.
God loves us and desires to dwell with us.
Our focus and intention shape the way we experience life and who we become.
Life feels scattered because we're often living disconnected from what truly grounds us.
Our actions are connected to our faith.
We ache and long for relationship with our Creator. He is a good Father.
Quotes from this Episode:
How we imagine the world really affects how we inhabit it.
Technology can connect, but the digital world often pulls us apart—scattering our presence across time and place until we forget what it means to truly be together.
When we take things out of context and mix the sacred with the trivial, our souls are shaped by confusion and chaos.
God weaves beauty from even the most ordinary or unwanted chapters of our stories—if we let Him, nothing is wasted.
We are made to be apprentices of the Master—union, abiding, obeying, and becoming like Him is the heart of how we truly change.
Faith isn't just belief in our heads—it's trust that spills out through our hands, our words, our feet, our relationships. It's embodied and lived.
Serving others, especially those closest to us, by following Christ's example, transforms both them and us. True love is found in humble service.
Faith has everything to do with our hands, our feet, our mouth, and our relationships. It's an embodied thing.
Reflect on This:
Where does life feel most rushed right now? How can you invite Jesus into this space instead of just trying harder?
What small daily habit or rhythm is shaping you the most right now, for better or for worse?
If following Jesus is more about apprenticeship than perfection, what is one simple practice you could lean into this week to stay more connected to Him?
Making Blended Families Work with Ron Deal Ep. 716
03 Mar 2026
01:05:19
Blended families are beautiful—but they're also complex. When two lives, two histories, and often two sets of kids come together, figuring out what "family" looks like can feel overwhelming. From divided loyalties and differing parenting styles to navigating ex-spouses, finances, and faith, blended families face unique challenges that many couples aren't prepared for.
In this episode, we're joined by Ron Deal, director of FamilyLife Blended and author of The Smart Stepfamily. Ron shares practical wisdom, biblical insight, and deep encouragement for couples navigating stepfamily life. We talk about earning influence before exercising authority, managing divided loyalties, setting realistic expectations, and protecting your marriage while building unity in your home.
Whether you're part of a blended family or love someone who is, this conversation offers real hope, grace-filled guidance, and a reminder that healthy blended families are built over time—on purpose, and with God at the center.
Episode Takeaways:
Blended families are not repairs of biological families.
Creating a blended family involves new rules and dynamics.
Respect and communication are key.
Quotes from this Episode:
"You are not repairing a biological family structure. You are creating an entirely new blended family structure where the rules are different." -Ron Deal
"To be a great co-parent, you need to act divorced—respect your boundaries, let go of control, and focus on parenting your own way."- Ron Deal
"Stop pretending you have the right to influence your ex's choices. You can share your preferences respectfully, but after that, let go and parent your own way." - Ron Deal
"Your spouse is the most important adult relationship in your life—honor that allegiance, but never abandon your children." - Ron Deal
"You cannot demand love out of a child. That's something they decide on their time."- Ron Deal
"If you support the stepparent in front of your kids, if you are a team member in the parenting system, then your blended family has a chance." -Ron Deal
"You cannot have two parenting styles under one roof; blended families thrive when standards are more alike than different."- Ron Deal
Questions to Talk Through:
Where do we feel the most tension in our blended family right now—and how can we face it together instead of alone?
What is one way we can better support each other when parenting, scheduling, or outside relationships feel overwhelming?
What does "progress" look like for our family in this season, even if it doesn't look perfect yet?
Your words, your tone, your attitude- they all matter in how your spouse hears you. Check out our new devotional: Cut the Criticism and Cultivate Companionship
Show of hands: Are you an Amazon box hider? … or do you have your spouse break down the boxes for you?
All joking aside, online shopping can be an issue that hinders couples' closeness. Money management in general can be a hot topic, but the wide range of ways we can spend money online with just the click of a button can create some additional obstacles, and we hear about it from couples all the time. Today we're equipping you to resolve this issue.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Red flags that you need to address online spending with your spouse.
The role of trust in marriage money habits
How to know when online shopping has become a problem
The negative cycle of emotional triggers
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"When you look into what's most important with money, you make a lot more progress more quickly." - Lindsay Few
"When you quit being a team, that's when it becomes a problem." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If shopping is getting in the way of closeness with your spouse, then something needs to change." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
Couple's Conversation Guide:
Main takeaway: Money secrets do not serve your marriage well, so do what it takes to build trust with your spouse around finances.
Questions to Discuss:
Are there any money habits your spouse does not know about you?
What areas bring out money tension for your marriage?
What is one step that would help you work through that and build unity today?
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Learn how to avoid the 4 common budgeting mistakes couples make when in the FREE Centsei Class. Learn more here.
Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more!
Finding Hope Through Our Failures with Becky Kiser | Ep. 639
10 Sep 2024
00:54:15
We don't often talk about our failures, but maybe that needs to change. It's easy to focus on others' highlight reel, while we're highly aware of our own personal shortcomings. But the shame of feeling like we don't measure up keeps us from real relationships.
Today we're going there with special guest, Becky Kiser, as we talk about the power of the gospel and how God uses us in spite of our shortcomings. Don't miss this powerful conversation.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Fight the cascade effect of feeling like a failure
The two most debated sections of Becky's new book - and why!
The 1st step to start loving your spouse well
How to move out of shame and into freedom
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Even women who are successful; women who have accomplished a bunch, deal with failure." - Becky Kiser
"The Gospel message is not, 'Get your life together then God can do something with your life.'" - Becky Kiser
"I've found the most freedom from acknowledging I can't." - Becky Kiser
"Not all failures are actual failures. They're just a part of life." - Becky Kiser
"We spend so much time 'dying to ourselves' that we think there's no value to ourselves." - Becky Kiser
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Tips for Care-Giving Spouses with Kristin & Todd Evans | Ep. 638
06 Sep 2024
00:48:42
After five years of marriage, Kristin and Todd Evans' world was rocked when they learned they were about to become parents to a child with a disability. The stress, grief and the demands of learning to be caregivers to a child with disabilities transformed their once-joyful marriage and nearly broke it apart.
When spouses are also caregivers, the marriage will face challenges that others may not know anything about. Today Todd and Kristin share their powerful story of learning to navigate this reality and how they have kept their marriage strong through it all.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
The additional challenges parents face as caregivers
Learning to cope with the 'living loss' of disability
How to set and communicate priorities in an unending to do list
Ways to deepening emotional connection & intimacy while always "on call"
Handling grief and chronic sorrow together
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"For all parents, there's a sacrificial piece to it. For special needs parents, it goes to a new level of what you have to sacrifice." - Todd Evans
"1 in 3 caregivers experience depression and anxiety." - Kristin Evans
"I couldn't understand why I couldn't' get over my grief, but Todd had moved on." - Kristin Evans
"There's not a right or wrong way to grieve, it's just different." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more!
Simple Budgeting Tips that Work | Ep. 637
03 Sep 2024
00:46:42
Reduce money stress in your marriage by making sure your money knows where to go!
Don't avoid talking about money with your spouse: Establishing a budget you can both stick to will certainly pay off long term. Today Dr. Kim shares several simple tricks that help him and Nancy to stress less and be intentional with their finances.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
The basic starting point for building a budget
The budget category Dr. Kim & Nancy would NEVER cut out
The power of breaking a scarcity mindset and becoming generous
Strategies to better money management
How to get started if you've never budgeted
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"We felt like it was always important to have a date." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Make sure to build in your budget that you can go out somewhere each week and not have to worry about it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"God is so generous, and that's really what we want to emulate." - Lindsay Few
"My lack of generosity was not the person I wanted to be." - Lindsay Few
Continue to ask, "What are our financial goals? How do we budget to make them work?" - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If you need help, get it. If you're going to fight about money for 50 years, that doesn't sound fun at all. "- Dr. Kim Kimberling
"When you tithe 10%, the 90% you have left goes a lot further than you thought the 100% would." - Lindsay Few
"I don't know anyone personally who would say they regret tithing." - Lindsay Few
Learn how to avoid the 4 common budgeting mistakes couples make when in the FREE Centsei Class. Learn more here.
Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more!
Healthy Tech Habits For A Healthy Marriage with Arlene Pellicane | Ep. 636
30 Aug 2024
00:54:54
Do your habits online support your marriage? Or damage it?
Fewer couples are getting married than ever. Tech is hitting marriages hard today. Yet research shows that marriage can provide a huge boost to personal happiness. Today's guest Arlene Pellicane has written several books on how technology is impacting relationships, and today she shares tech habits that will help you and your marriage to thrive.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
The 1 habit that leads to a 99% marriage success rate
Simple to streamline your tech habits for more connection
Why today's tech affects relationships differently than before
Research shows how marriage can impact happiness
Parenting tips to break unhealthy tech habits and get your child back
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"If we seek God and His guidance, He's always going to have an answer." Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Is technology bringing you closer together? Or causing you to grow farther apart." - Arlene Pellicane
"We're missing all these little times to connect. That's why you feel disconnected." - Arlene Pellicane
"You have to prepare to be unpopular, because as a parent, it's your job to protect your child." - Arlene Pellicane
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
If you need help with family tech habits, DO NOT miss Arlene's books on the topic.
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Learn more about what boundaries can do for your marriage in Dr. Kim's free Building Healthy Boundaries Webinar. Learn more here!
What could 1 intentional weekend do for you and your spouse? Find out when you take on our Marriage Weekend Challenge! Click to learn more!
Marriage Multiplier is a quick and highly practical weekly email to help you invest in your marriage. CLICK HERE to learn more!
Tech Boundaries Your Marriage Needs | Ep. 635
27 Aug 2024
00:37:18
Help! My Marriage Feels Out of Control | Ep. 634
23 Aug 2024
00:35:58
Is it Too Late To Save My Marriage? | Ep. 633
20 Aug 2024
00:35:04
Is Everyone Else Happier Than Me? with Sarah Bragg | Ep. 632
16 Aug 2024
00:42:00
We've all wondered at some point … is everyone else living a better life? It looks like they might be, and social media only seems to confirm it!
That's why we're delighted to bring you Dr. Kim's conversation with today's guest, Sarah Bragg, of the Surviving Sarah podcast. In today's episode, we'll hear Sarah's take on feeling "stuck" in life, how to become happier, and steps to overcome the idea that someone else's life is better than yours.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Why we face the questions that keep us up at night
Practical strategies for when you feel stuck in life
How to deal with experiencing grief in midlife
Guardrails to protect yourself from the effects of comparison
Staving off the effects of unhappiness in your marriage
Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode's content. Click here to get each week's guide!
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"We can look back and see where we've been. But when we look forward we don't know what it's going to look like." - Sarah Bragg
"When we keep it inside, it grows. It feels bigger than it really is." - Sarah Bragg
"We all grieve in different ways, over different things." Dr. Kim Kimberling
"It's okay to just keep showing up and trying." - Sarah Bragg
"In this age of social media, it's nothing but compare and compete." - Sarah Bragg
"Connection is the root of happiness." - Sarah Bragg
Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode's content. Click here to get each week's guide!
Why Get Married? The Health Benefits of Marriage | Ep. 631
13 Aug 2024
00:39:07
Did you know that marriage can be good for you? Marriage is not always viewed as the gift from God that it actually is, but He has designed this relationship to provide some *amazing* benefits to both spouses.
Today Dr. Kim is sharing several of the ways a healthy marriage supports health and wellness for you, your spouse and your family. Tune in to learn more!
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
The benefits of a good marriage for mental and physical health
Health effects on kids and families
The damaging effects of loneliness - even in marriage
Steps you can take to combat loneliness
Hidden benefits of the process of working on things you need to work on
Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode's content. To get each week's guide click here to subscribe!
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"There's all kinds of incentives to work on your marriage, and this is one of them: If you have a healthy marriage, you have a healthier, longer life." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"We hear about so much depression; so much anxiety. Everybody's under stress. Marriage can help your mental health." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"I was out of my comfort zone, and any time you do that is uncomfortable, but on the other side there might be something really helpful." - Lindsay Few
Wider Lens: A Life Bigger Than the Work with Terry Storch
27 Feb 2026
01:02:31
In a world full of distractions and pressure to perform, how do we keep our identity rooted in Christ instead of our work?
In this episode, Dr. Kim sits down with long time friend, Terry Storch, to talk about leadership, stewardship, and the often unseen cost of carrying responsibility that affects others. From navigating pressure and seasons of life to holding the tension between efficiency and presence, this discussion explores where leadership ends and identity begins.
Be encouraged to establish healthy rhythms, protect what's sacred, and remain centered on Christ—remembering that the work will come and go, expectations will shift, and seasons will change, but all glory belongs to Him.
Episode Takeaways:
The "work" of life was never meant to give you value. Only our Creator can do that.
Accomplishments and achievements are driven by healthy rhythms.
The technology advancements create unique pressures and require adaptability.
Finding centeredness in a distracted world is essential for faith.
Quotes from this Episode:
"Life is a season of wilderness after wilderness because we're not in the garden yet."
"I want to be known for the small little things that I did for those people right around me."
"The need for centeredness, the need for Jesus, is more important now than ever."
"Technology, for the most part, is neutral, like money. It can be used for really good things and really bad things."
"The real story is the commitment to surrender and release, knowing it's not mine.
Take a Wider Look:
How do I define my identity beyond my accomplishments, and what steps can I take to focus more on who I am becoming?
In what ways might I be allowing the distractions of the world to pull me away from my core values or spiritual focus?
How can I separate my calling from my vocation, and what changes might I need to make to align my work with my deeper purpose?
Why Get Married? Biblical Purposes for Marriage | Ep. 630
06 Aug 2024
00:36:00
Does marriage still matter in this day and age? We say a resounding yes!
Marriage was designed by God, and there are several purposes the Bible gives for why marriage matters. Today we're digging into what Scripture says about the value of marriage. Tune in to learn God's purposes for the marriage relationship, and why they matter in your marriage!
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Dr. Kim's list of biblical purposes for marriage
Several ideas for what it means to "be fruitful" in marriage
The power of a marriage model - and tips on how to find one
The ripple effect of an intentional marriage
Ways your marriage can be a light in our dark world
Our Couples Conversation Guide helps you apply each episode's content. To get each new guide, click here to subscribe!
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"No marriage is perfect. But if you're a couple steps ahead, you've navigated some things that others haven't." - Lindsay Few
"My dream for the marriage changers is that they're learning, growing and passing that on." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Prayer has had such an impact on our marriage. When God answers prayer like He does, we want to tell everybody what He's done!" - Dr. Kim Kimberling
The things God calls us to do bring glory to God. They bring us joy, life and peace, and they also bring light and encouragement to others." - Lindsay Few
"Yes, it's hard at times. Yes, there are things you have to work through. But the big picture result is worth it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
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Hope for Marriage in Today's Culture with Gabrielle McCullough | Ep. 629
30 Jul 2024
00:54:28
Is it harder to live a faithful life today than in times past? Today's world does provide some unique challenges that couples face, but there are also unique opportunities. Today's conversation with Gabrielle McCullough sheds light on some of the ways today's world can be deeply impacted by Jesus and the effects of our faith can have on marriage.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Unique challenges and unique opportunities for faith in Gen Z
3 questions for biblical accountability
A challenge to help you find your place in the local church
The impact of following Jesus on every aspect of life
Why the local church is still relevant and needed today
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Following Jesus impacts every area of your life." - Gabrielle McCullough
"We follow Jesus because he has our hearts. There's an obedience that is compelled that isn't out of drudgery but out of true delight." - Gabrielle McCullough
"They want something that's authentic. That excites me about my generation." - Gabrielle McCullough
There's a beauty in asking, 'how can I serve the church?' instead of asking how others can serve me." - Gabrielle McCullough
"As Christians, our responsibility is to love people the way Christ loves them; with love and with truth." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If marriages can be healthy and strong, what a testament to the world of who Jesus is and the way he fights for his Bride." - Gabrielle McCullough
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Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount.
Help for the Insecure Spouse | Ep. 628
23 Jul 2024
00:33:05
Has you or your spouse's insecurity affected your marriage? We're all insecure about something, and the way we see ourselves will end up spilling over into the way we relate to others. Nowhere is this more likely to happen than in marriage.
In this episode Dr. Kim and Christina share ways to address your insecurity and your spouse's insecurity, including a surprising way Dr. Kim has learned to turn his weaknesses to strengths. Tune in for wisdom and practical tips.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
How insecurity affects a marriage
Advice if your spouse's insecurity is weighing you down
Advice if your OWN insecurity weighs you down
Practical steps to overcome insecurity
How to fight back against your insecurities
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"How you view yourself absolutely affects how you're going to interact with others." - Christina Dodson
"I think the role of the spouse is to build each other up. Your marriage should be your safest place, next to your relationship with God." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Perfection is not what God expects from you, nor should anyone else be expecting it from you." - Christina Dodson
"You begin to believe the things God says about you and who you are in Christ, and that changes your countenance. You will look like a different person." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"There's less holding you back if you're not weighed down by your insecurities. There's more joy, more abundance, freedom to enjoy life together. " - Christina Dodson
"One thing God does so well for us is he loves us right where we are. Our goal is to love our spouse right where they are." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"You can't take it over. You can't fix it for them. But you can come alongside and do what God wants you to do." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"No one is thinking about you as much as you're thinking about you. To me, that's really freeing!" - Christina Dodson
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount.
The Christmas in July Sale is on at Awesome Marriage University and that means you get 30% OFF ANY and ALL of our online marriage courses! BROWSE our course offerings to find which one your marriage needs and use the code JULY at checkout!
Deepen The Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage | Ep. 627
16 Jul 2024
00:34:42
Want better connection with your spouse? One thing we hear a lot from couples is that they don't feel close to each other or that their relationship feels like it's missing some depth. That's why today we're re-airing this episode from Dr. Kim and Christina that talks all about emotional intimacy and gives you ideas of practical ways to deepen the emotional intimacy in your marriage.
We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
What is emotional intimacy, and why does it matter?
Warning signs you need to grow in this area
Emotional intimacy killers to avoid
Tips to start working on this - alone, and together
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"It is hard work knowing someone. You have to pay attention. It takes work to be intimate." - Christina Dodson
"Laziness and business are going to block your intimacy, so we have to fight against those things." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Give yourself opportunities to connect." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"It adds value to my marriage for me to have a relationship with my friends, just like it benefits our marriage that he has guy friends." - Christina Dodson
"You could have had the best childhood in the world and you still have baggage because we're human. That's okay, and you can deal with that." - Christina Dodson
"You can't be emotionally intimate with your spouse if you aren't aware of your own emotions." - Christina Dodson
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount.
Your marriage can only be as healthy as the two of you are. The Bible says, "Let us examine our ways and test them and let us return to the Lord" (Lamentations 3:40). Our new Self Check-In Guide will help you do just that!
Print out this Feelings Chart and use it to help you talk about your emotions.
Our Questions To Help Your Spouse Open Up resource is a simple way to help build the closeness between you and your spouseAccountability is a biblical and helpful tool for growing in holiness.
Gospel Truth for Your Marriage with Willie Robertson | Ep. 626
12 Jul 2024
00:54:19
What is a "gospeler"?
It's probably a lot simpler than you think! It is something that will certainly impact you and your marriage, but also has the potential to have a huge impact on others around you.
Today Willie Robertson shares how one person sharing the Gospel impacted thousands, starting with his family, and he explains just how simple it can be to begin to care enough for others to share the Gospel with them.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Gospel genealogy & the ripple effect one conversation can have
The Biblical basis for this kind of conversation
Where to start if you don't know where to start
Advice for parents to share their faith in parenting
Different ways to approach sharing your faith
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"When you're active in sharing your faith, it takes care of a lot of other things for you as well." - Willie Robertston
"The great commission was for all of us." - Willie Robertston
"Make disciples, baptize people, teach people; you're not going to do any of those 3 unless you open your mouth." - Willie Robertston
"It starts with caring about people." - Willie Robertston
"You start learning the Word, you'll start standing out in the crowd." - Willie Robertston
Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount.
Worth Repeating | Intimacy VS Control - You Can't Have Both | Ep. 625
09 Jul 2024
00:47:04
Are you ever a bit too helpful in your marriage? Do you find yourself frustrated with the way your spouse responds to you?
You may be trying to control your spouse by "helping" even if you don't mean to!
Today Laura Doyle from the Empowered Wife Podcast joins Dr. Kim to teach us some ways to shift our marriage culture - without resorting to control tactics. Tune in to learn how!
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Empowering ways to shift the culture of your marriage, even if your spouse isn't on board
"Cheat phrases" to help you shift from controlling tendencies to deeper intimacy
The unexpected lesson of sitting down with your spouse and getting nothing done!
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Find more of Laura's content, including her free Empowered Wife Road Map on her website
Our 5 Days to Deeper Emotional Intimacy digital resource provides practical steps to understand and share your emotions, and to work together to grow your emotional intimacy…and it's our gift to you for your donation of any amount.
Love Your Spouse...As You Love Yourself? with Bryan Crum | Ep. 623
21 Jun 2024
00:42:41
Most of us deal with self doubt, regret, and feelings of not measuring up. But learning to love ourselves properly means learning to see ourselves as God does, and it allows us to love others more freely and graciously.
Today, Bryan Crum will help you step away from nagging self doubts and into a solid biblical perspective. Give your marriage the gift of seeing yourself and your spouse through God's eyes.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Unexpected lessons learned from people who are facing their mortality
Why is it hard to accept loving and valuing ourselves properly?
Rewriting negative messages we've learned
Ideas to break away from self-doubt
Why relationships are needed to help us learn to love ourselves
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"I'm on a mission to help people fall in love with God's greatest creation; and that's us." - Bryan Crum
"We all want to know our time on this earth means something." - Bryan Crum
"I've discovered 2 truths about living: 1. We're priceless. 2. For some reason, we've forgotten that truth." - Bryan Crum
"We interact with people every day but we don't always treat them like they are valuable." - Bryan Crum
"When we acknowledge the truth of what we're worth, we're acknowledging a truth heaven knows well." - Bryan Crum
"The first step is to stop comparing ourselves to each other." - Bryan Crum
"There's power in giving each other the benefit of the doubt." - Bryan Crum
"Giving each other grace is a small step that covers a lot of distance." - Bryan Crum
"Marriage is promising each other that we're all-in. We've got to make the conscious choice to say, 'I'm still here.'" - Bryan Crum
How Does the Bible Say to Handle Conflict? With Donna Jones | Ep. 624
19 Jun 2024
00:58:05
Conflict is no one's favorite, but it is an inevitable part of life. And today Donna Jones teaches us why it's nothing to be afraid of by busting some of the most common misunderstandings that lead to conflict avoidance, and providing a biblical roadmap to handle conflict in a healthy way.
Tune in to learn more about approaching conflict in a healthy, biblical way.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
The biggest mistakes most couples make in conflict
The trick to de-escalate in the heat of the moment.
The inner characteristics that build better conflict habits
Help to break conflict patterns in your marriage
The healthy way to apologize well
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"When we handle conflict in a healthy way, the outcome is peace. Peace between us and who we have conflict with; peace in our own souls." - Donna Jones
"When we are in conflict, it literally affects everything about us. We function, but on the inside, we're torn to pieces." - Donna Jones
"The reason so many of us think conflict is bad, is that we never learned to see how conflict can turn out good." - Donna Jones
"When we have conflict, we tend to think it means 1 of 3 things: There's something wrong with you; there's something wrong with me, or there's something wrong with us. But conflict doesn't mean that." - Donna Jones
"No relationship can survive an atmosphere of disrespect over the long haul." - Donna Jones
"The most important thing is not an act, it's an attitude: Humility." - Donna Jones
"If you want to know how strong a person really is, look for humility." - Donna Jones
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Gaslighting & Narcissism Q & A | Ep. 622
18 Jun 2024
00:50:03
We have gotten a lot of questions about gaslighting and narcissism, and today Dr. Kim is answering. This topic is layered and one podcast episode cannot take the place of more in-depth interventions, but we can offer helpful and hopeful next steps. In today's episode we're covering how to know what constitutes abuse versus the sin nature we all struggle with. Listen for
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Marriage counseling doesn't work with abusers – So what does?
Can a marriage recover after long-term gaslighting?
How to diagnose abuse using the power and control wheel
Does the "gray rock" strategy work in marriage?
Reasons why emotional abuse is often dismissed
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Narcissism is all about power and control. Neither of those have a place in marriage at all." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"I don't think God expects anyone to live in an abusive situation. In many ways, it's as much a violation of vows as adultery is to not take seriously your vow to love and cherish your spouse." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"You deserve to be safe." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If you look at the message of the BIble, you can't defend any type of abuse, for any person, ever." - Lindsay Few
"The goal would be repentance and reconciliation." - Lindsay Few
"The reason a lot of people minimize emotional abuse because they haven't seen it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"I've seen people who gaslight and don't really understand what they've been doing." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Nobody's uplifted or brought closer to Christ through manipulative behaviors." - Lindsay Few
How to Find Purpose As a Dad with Kent Evans | Ep. 621
14 Jun 2024
00:59:07
Is there a war on fathers? Our guest on today's podcast thinks so. The impact of fathers on their kids is so valuable, yet it's incredibly difficult to know how to engage purposefully in the process of parenting.
If you've had a hand in raising kids, you already know that parenting is not for the faint of heart! That's why we are so thankful to share today's episode and Kent Evans' practical advice and encouragement for dads. Kent Evans is a wise and helpful mentor for dads who are searching for their purpose in parenting. Listen and learn Kent's simple, practical tips for dads and moms alike.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
What prevents dads from being confident to engage in fatherhood?
The reasons why your kids need an imperfect dad
Advice for the dad who feels like it's too late to start to engage well
Steps to growing in your purpose as a dad
Advice for the wife who wants her husband to engage
An incredible tip for finding friends & community
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Satan wants us to take us out of the fatherhood game by getting us to self-select and walk off the field." - Kent Evans
"God wants to be known as a dad, therefore there's a war on fathers." - Kent Evans
"My experience as a dad is that God can take care of the things I mess up." - Dr. Kim
"Even if we could be perfect, it would not be beneficial. It would deprive them of the example of how to fall off the horse then get back on." - Kent Evans
There are few things more motivating to a man than the praise of his wife, but it's multiplied by an exponent when she does it in front of the children." - Kent Evans
"I didn't get it right. I didn't do it perfectly, but God took my loaves and fishes and they landed as nourishment."
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Foreplay 24/7/365 Ep. 714
24 Feb 2026
00:16:51
When we hear the word foreplay, most of us immediately think about the bedroom. But intimacy in marriage was never meant to be confined to a single moment behind closed doors. Today, we're talking about foreplay 24/7/36 the idea that emotional, spiritual, and relational connection is built continually, hour by hour, day by day. We'll explore how intentional connection outside the bedroom sets the stage for deeper intimacy inside it, why this matters so much for the health of our marriage, and how small, everyday choices can radically change the temperature of our relationship.
Episode Highlights:
What happens in the bedroom is directly affected by what happens outside the bedroom.
There are five types of intimacy that every strong marriage needs.
The goal is not perfection, it's progress.
Quotes from this Episode:
When couples neglect the other four intimacies and they only focus on the physical the relationship becomes transactional sex becomes about physical release instead of real connection. - Dr. Kim
That's often how affairs begin, not with physical attraction, but with unmet emotional needs. - Dr. Kim
When intimacy is only in the bedroom, the temperature of the marriage runs cold. - Dr. Kim
Replace bad patterns with good ones. Don't just stop the negative, start positive. Instead of scrolling, ask about their day. Instead of logistics, share something you're grateful for about them and finally give each other grace. -Dr. Kim
When you come home, prioritize your spouse above anything else. -Dr. Kim
When there's unresolved tension,when there's hurt or anger or distance, that vulnerability feels unsafe. -Dr. Kim
Awkward is better than distant. Have the conversation. -Dr. Kim
Intimacy isn't built in a single grand gesture. It's rebuilt, one conversation, one touch, one prayer at a time. -Dr. Kim
Questions Worth Discussing:
What's one moment from today (or this week) where we felt connected—or disconnected—and why do you think that was?
Did anything in the episode help you see everyday moments differently when it comes to intimacy or connection?
What's one small thing we could do differently this week to stay more connected outside the bedroom?
Marriage doesn't have to get boring … but for too many couples, it has. If you're ready to break out of the routine and restore the joy in your marriage, this one's for you!
Listen for ways to have more interesting and connective conversations, new ideas of things to try, and how to avoid common mistakes that keep couples from enjoying their marriage.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Better questions to ask for better conversations
2 common mistakes that keep couples from having fun together
Several ideas for fun things to try
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*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"When we're dating our future wife, we guys up our game." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"We loved our time with our kids, but we realized we also had to be intentional about our marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"You have to give yourself time to do the fun stuff. The mundane will still be there when you're done." - Lindsay Few
How to Reconnect a Disconnected Marriage | Ep. 619
07 Jun 2024
00:29:57
Do you ever feel like you and your spouse are two ships passing in the night? Strangers living under the same roof? Business partners executing the plans you've made for your kids and household? Then you're in a disconnected marriage. The marriage relationship should nurture both spouses.
If you've lost the connection in your marriage, or just want to step up from where you are right now, tune in today to learn the practical steps for reconnecting.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Why do couples disconnect?
The steps to reconnection
A helpful source for fun marriage ideas and resources
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Little tweaks can make such a difference." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Living separate lives is not going to get you a connected, fun marriage." Christina Dodson
"We weren't always there but we chose to stay in the marriage and work through things. It's worth it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"You can continue to grow, but you have to work at it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
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6 Communication Tips for Tough Times | Ep. 618
04 Jun 2024
00:43:09
If your marriage communication is a struggle, you are NOT alone. So many marriage issues come back to communication, and if your communication is awesome, your marriage will be too! But most of us will have some trouble with communicating well with our spouse, and it's the biggest issue couples ask us for help with. That's why today we're equipping you with 6 tips to communicate well in the good times and in the bad.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
How to talk so your spouse can listen
Use the "title page" trick to help your spouse listen to you
Dr. Kim's 6 tips to communicate well
How to find a good counselor if you need one
How to restart the openness & honesty in your marriage
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"I think what happens for guys is that when we're dating our future wife, we up our game." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"It's hard for me to put my thoughts and feelings into succinct words.I can easily ramble on… but that doesn't make for good communication." - Lindsay Few
"The bottom line is you want them to hear what you're saying, so how do you best communicate in a way that they're going to hear it?" - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If you're going through a hard time, call it that. Work together to reclaim your time and energy." - Lindsay Few
"We can't give away every piece of our heart, mind, time and energy to things that drain the life out of us." - Lindsay Few
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Why Things That Don't Matter, Matter Deeply With Charlie & Andi Ashworth | Ep. 617
31 May 2024
01:04:37
It often feels like the world around us is too broken. Where would you even start if you wanted to try and fix it? On the podcast today, Charlie and Andi Ashworth answer this question, and thankfully their answer is much simpler and more doable than it might seem.
The Ashworths have spent decades sharing their creative gifts and encouraging others to do the same, and in today's episode they artfully equip you to take small steps toward creativity, community, and reflecting the light of God's love, right where you are.
Don't miss this bonus episode! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
How should Christians engage with culture?
A call for culture making - and how simple it is to actually do it
Why the small things matter - and how to use them for good in your life
Hope for becoming the remedy to the loneliness epidemic
How to balance the desire for creativity and the need to get things done
Battling the dis-integration of "mundane" versus doing things we like
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"We make less and less meaning of everything now, because it's happening so fast and we're receiving so much information." - Charlie Ashworth
"There's no small people; there's no small things. Everything matters." - Charlie Ashworth
"We don't know the stories that will continue after we do." - Andi Ashworth
"If all of life matters to God, then all of life matters to us." - Andi Ashworth
"We want a formula … but it is a process." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Based on your faith in Christ, what kind of culture are you making? Are you contributing good? Or are you contributing negativity?" - Charlie Ashworth
"It's antithetical to the word of God and to creation itself to think that we as people of God are somehow standing outside of it. It actually creates an 'us' versus 'them' mentality that is so unhealthy." - Charlie Ashworth
"Start with where you're at: You're actually getting up and making culture every day." - Andi Ashworth
"As an artist, maturity looks like a seamless integration of a diversity of creativity over time." - Charlie Peacock
How to Heal and Rebuild After Trust is Broken | Ep. 616
28 May 2024
00:45:20
Your marriage needs trust in order to be healthy. Without it, your connection with your spouse will fade, and you'll experience more conflict and tension, and less of the closeness and intimacy marriage is meant to have. Don't stay stuck like this! Turn things around by closing the trust gaps between you and your spouse and make your marriage a safe refuge for both of you.
Episode highlights include:
Areas where you might not realize you lack trust
How to address it effectively with your spouse - without blaming
How to have grace in the rebuilding process
Tips to building financial trust
Practical tips to become more trustworthy with completing tasks
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Without trust in a marriage, the marriage just crumbles." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"We don't realize how valuable trust is until it's broken." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Trust can be unique to the person and the situation." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"We have to own what's driving our trust-breaking behavior." - Lindsay Few
"The budget isn't a prison, it's a plan. But sometimes it will be uncomfortable." - Lindsay Few
"The sooner you go to counseling, the sooner you'll resolve your issues." - Lindsay Few
"If you get stuck, you don't have to stay stuck." - Lindsay Few
"Your spouse may make some mistakes, so look for Jesus in your spouse." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"I felt like he should trust me … but my action was not giving him anything to trust." - Lindsay Few
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
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Today we answer some of the most frequently asked questions we hear about sex. Dr. Kim and Christina covered this on an episode in 2021, and we've distilled their conversation into the most timeless and practical answers to common sex questions.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
How often is "normal"?
Dealing with dead sex drive
Is oral sex ok in marriage? What about anal?
Is there such thing as too much sex when trying to conceive?
How to start talking to your kids about sex
What do do if your spouse withholds sex
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Guys, you have to continue to be romantic." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"I wanted my kids to talk to me about sex before they went to a friend or read it on a bathroom wall or a magazine. You want that door to be open." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"You need to honor each other and respect each other's body to honor God in marriage." - Christina Dodson
"Guys, if you please your wife first, does it really matter when you orgasm? There's this unspoken pressure." - Christina Dodson
"There's always an answer. I've never had a couple we couldn't figure out an answer for." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Stay at the comfort level of the one who is least comfortable. If you do that, you're going to be ok." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
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Types of Trust Every Marriage Needs | Ep. 614
21 May 2024
00:35:57
Trust in marriage is not one-size-fits all. There are many areas where your marriage needs trust in order to thrive, and some might matter to your spouse more than they do to you, and vice versa. So today we're talking about how to navigate any trust gaps you may have with your spouse, how to start the conversation about it, and rebuild what's been broken so you both feel more connected and secure in your marriage.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Several types of trust marriages need, and why they matter
The side effects of missing trust
Simple steps to catch a trust slip-up so that trust is not broken
Specific trust-killers you need to avoid
How to build trust - and keep it
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"It helps to build trust if you accept me as I am, not as you wish I would be." - Lindsay Few
"I may not even be aware if I did something that affected the trust, and I want to know." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If it's important to her and it keeps coming up, I want her to tell me about it." Dr. Kim Kimberling
"I'd be so offended when he didn't trust me, but when I think about the reality, I wasn't trustworthy." - Lindsay Few
"Trust is between two people. It's not just your perception of yourself." - Lindsay Few
"It's not like we quit making mistakes, it's just that we handle them differently now." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
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Lust vs Desire: What's the Difference? | Ep. 613
14 May 2024
00:47:12
Does lust have a place in marriage? What sets it apart from sexual desire? Today we're working through the reasons this question matters for your marriage, and how to have a marriage that glorifies God in every aspect, including how you steward your sexual desires.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Defining the difference between lust and desire, biblically
The godly purposes for sexual desire in marriage
Specific reasons why misused sexual desire is destructive
How to maintain purity in marriage
Why porn affects your marriage even if your spouse doesn't know you use it
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Lust is more about what you see, what you're attracted to and what it can do for you." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"In the Bible, it's not like they lived in a Puritanical culture at that time. No, it was probably every bit as bad…we just access things in a different way now." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If we look at Scripture, lust was never mentioned in a positive light." - Lindsay Few
"We won't ever clear that bar, but he's taken care of it through his life, death and resurrection, so there is grace and forgiveness." - Lindsay Few
"The best sex is within the context of a Christian marriage." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"If it's reduced to that 'just get it over with' kind of situation, whoa. Red flag. The goal is not just to satisfy the urge, the goal is mutual enjoyment, pleasure, connection and building of the marriage." - Lindsay Few
"Vulnerability is uncomfortable, but it can lead you to prevent something a lot more painful." - Lindsay Few
How to Handle Mismatched Sex Drives in Marriage | Ep. 612
07 May 2024
00:44:17
Most couples are not going to be completely aligned with sex drive. There are a lot of factors that can cause this, but there are also a lot of solutions!
Today we want to equip you to have a productive approach to making your sex life the best it can be in marriage.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Why is it so hard to have a productive conversation about sex?
Should the lower-drive spouse "just do it" for the spouse's sake? Why or why not?
Why respecting your wife's drive level helps her feel sexy
Ways to respect your spouse's drive
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
What would happen if you took the next 4 weeks to reframe your spouse and your marriage with a biblical approach? Learn how to have a better perspective – and a better marriage, with our Reframing Challenge
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Breaking Generational Cycles For a Healthy Marriage with Kristen Hallinan | Ep. 611
30 Apr 2024
00:39:39
Do you hope to break generational patterns of pain? Are childhood hurts haunting your marriage? Today's guest Kristen Hallinan is a writer and speaker, and today she helps you see how to identify and break generational patterns to find hope, healing and redemption.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
How your past trauma can affects your current reactions
What makes it so hard to break cycles
Red flags of unhealthy family dynamics
How to work with God to find his redemption
Steps to making a redemption plan for your marriage
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"It can be easy to say, 'Why didn't I know better?' You didn't know better because that's all you knew." - Kristen Hallinan
"The more I've gotten to know who God is, the more I understand who I am."- Kristen Hallinan
"I used to believe if I just tried hard enough, I could grow up and create this perfect family." - Kristen Hallinan
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Sacred Intimacy: Linking Sexual and Spiritual Connection in Marriage with Dan Purcell Ep. 713
17 Feb 2026
00:53:37
Today on the Awesome Marriage Podcast, we're joined by Dan Purcell, creator of Get Your Marriage On! and the Intimately Us app. Dan is passionate about helping Christian couples build stronger, healthier marriages through better communication, playful intimacy, and gospel-centered connection. In this conversation, we explore the powerful link between spiritual and sexual intimacy in marriage. From God's design for sex to common misconceptions, practical habits, and healing struggles in the bedroom, Dan shares how faith and intimacy were always meant to work together. This episode offers encouragement and actionable wisdom for couples who want to honor God while cultivating deeper passion, joy, and closeness in their marriage.
Episode Highlights:
Experiencing really good sex in marriage requires living with virtue.
What works in marriage will change over time. You must be willing to adapt together.
Repair work is most of the work in marriage.
Quotes from this Episode:
This is a gift from God. He gave it to us to enjoy.
You can't love a person you don't know.
The more honest we can be about things, the better our marriage will be.
Sex can be really fun. It can be incredibly replenishing. It can be good for your health.
You want to get to a place where you're at ease talking about sex.
Questions Worth Discussing:
What part of this conversation felt most relatable to where we are right now?
Did anything we heard make you think differently about how our faith and our intimacy connect—or even just spark a new thought?
What's one small way we could be more intentional with each other this week—emotionally, spiritually, or physically?
Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 3: Help to Get Out and Get Safe | Ep. 610
25 Apr 2024
00:48:28
Today we are sharing the final episode with Kathy McAtee Young and her story of finding safety after decades in an abusive marriage. In this episode Kathy shares some of the barriers that prevent spouses in abusive marriages from seeking safety and help, ways to begin moving out of the abusive relationship, and the ways healing begins afterward.
Don't miss the conclusion to Kathy's story. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Reasons that abused spouse don't trust their own judgment
Steps to get out of an abusive marriage
Is it ever appropriate to intervene if you believe someone is being abused?
What the process of healing looks like after you get safe
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"One of the hallmarks of an unsafe relationship is confusion." - Kathy McAtee Young
"God sees you. He cares. And he is faithful." - Kathy McAtee Young
"We don't want your pity. Compassion, yes. There is a difference." - Kathy McAtee Young
"Healing is a lifestyle, not a finish line." - Kathy McAtee Young
"When you can name it, then you can process it." - Kathy McAtee Young
Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage Part 2: Seeking Church Support | Kathy's Story Ep. 609
24 Apr 2024
00:47:08
Today in Part 2 of Kathy's story, Kathy shares the ways she sought support from the church when she realized her marriage was in trouble, the responses she received, and the effects that had on her marriage. In this episode Kathy shares why it's not possible for the abused spouse to end the abuse, and the difference between biblical versus unbiblical advice about abuse.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Interventions the church put in place, and why they were not successful
The wake up moment that turned things around for Kathy
What is an appropriate response to spousal abuse?
The red flags that advice or counsel about abuse is unbiblical
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
Red flags that advice or counsel about abuse is unbiblical
They won't call out that abuse is abuse
They will not call the abuse sin
The safety of the abused spouse is not top priority
There is no call for repentance
They advise you to stay, regardless
Blaming the abused for the abuse
QUOTES
"There is one person responsible for abuse: It is the abuser." - Kathy McAtee Young
"The Bible definitely commands forgiveness. It does not command reconciliation." - Kathy McAtee Young
Escaping an Emotionally Abusive Marriage: Kathy's Story | Ep. 608
23 Apr 2024
00:39:32
When does an unhealthy marriage become an abusive marriage? Where can you go when you need to get out? In today's episode we hear part 1 of Kathy's real marriage story. Kathy shares how she came to believe that divorce was the most God-honoring option in her situation, and how she found safety after 30+ years in an emotionally abusive marriage.
We are so grateful to Kathy for generously sharing her story. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Dispelling myths about who falls into abuse
Why marriage counseling does not work in abusive marriages
How Kathy learned her marriage was abusive
Why she stayed as long as she did, and why she later divorced
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
This previous episode defines a clear Biblical perspective on abuse:
"I want to debunk the myth that abused women are poorly educated, lower income, women who can easily be taken advantage of. That's just not accurate." - Kathy McAtee Young
"Within the first year, I knew we had trouble…" - Kathy McAtee Young
"Marriage counseling does not work if there's abuse involved. I know that now." - Kathy McAtee Young
"Most people who are narcissists are really good at it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"You have this idea that, 'If she could fix all these things, then I wouldn't be this way.' That's the blame shifting." - Kathy McAtee Young
"The heart of abuse is power and control. Everything else is tactics." - Kathy McAtee Young
Ground Rules to Help You Fight Fair & Make Up Well | Ep. 606
16 Apr 2024
00:35:33
Do you fight fair, or do you wish there was a referee to call a stop to the foul play when you argue with your spouse? Ground rules are an important step toward having healthy marriage conflict, so today Dr. Kim will spell out how to make sure you're fighting fair in your marriage. We want to empower you to fight fair, and resolve issues in a kind and loving way.
If you need help to fight fair and truly resolve issues without making things worse, you will love today's conversation.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
The DOs and DON'Ts of fighting fair
The side effects of unhealthy conflict
A healthy way to "let it all out"
Can honesty go too far? How do you know?
Tips to the reconnection process - how to make up well
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"We both learned we needed to reconnect and apologize, but sometimes we werent' ready to take that step at the same time. We had to learn that somebody needs to take the step. It doesn't really matter who started the fight or who was wrong."
"Taking responsibility is huge. Owning your part in it, even if you think you only did 10%, you still did 10%."
"What are you sorry for? Be very specific in what you did and why you're taking responsibility."
"I say it a lot: One of the best gifts you can give your marriage is to learn how to resolve conflict."
Forgiveness and apologies need to have no strings attached. It's just that I choose to do this.
We're not just trying to clear a slate so our spouse stops bugging us. Have you repented before the Lord? That's where this starts.
We are accountable to Him before being accountable to our spouse. Did I just treat my spouse in the way He would have me treat them? If not, I need to take that up with Him
QUESTIONS FOR YOU
When you really think about it, how did it affect your spouse when you had this conflict?
Repentance. Learning from the mistakes made and committing to work on them together.
If you're ready to learn how to do conflict well, the Conflict Resolution Guide helps you diagnose the problem areas in your marriage, then learn the steps to resolve them.
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How to De Escalate Marriage Conflict & Resolve Issues | Ep. 605
09 Apr 2024
00:48:44
Sick of the same old fights over and over with your spouse? Learn to de-escalate marriage fights and resolve issues in a healthy and helpful way. Conflict in marriage is inevitable, but the way you handle it is what matters most. Learning to deal with it well will benefit your marriage in so many ways! Tune in today to learn how.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Common conflict pitfalls to avoid
The problem with "winning" marriage fights
Tips to help you break the fighting cycle
What to do if one spouse is not ready to reconnect
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
Are you stuck in a conflict cycle? If so, work together to identify what's triggering it.
Choose 1 tip from Dr. Kim's list below that you will both agree to use this week.
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"When we try our best to avoid conflict, we're not really equipping ourselves with the skills to handle it well." - Lindsay Few
"Awareness gives you some insight that can really be useful." Dr. Kim Kimberling
If you're ready to learn how to do conflict well, the Conflict Resolution Guide helps you diagnose the problem areas in your marriage, then learn the steps to resolve them.
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Learn to Turn Conflict Into Connection with Dana Che Williams | Ep. 604
22 Mar 2024
00:57:57
Learn how conflict can create a deeper connection between you and your spouse. Today's special guest, marriage coach Dana Che is very open about the struggles her marriage faced. In today's episode she shares her marriage story, what got them through, and how you can use the conflict you face in marriage to draw you toward deeper connection.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
What we can learn from our conflict triggers
How to deal with different conflict styles in marriage
Steps to break generational cycles in your marriage
The power of speaking life to our spouse and our marriage
How being emotionally unavailable tends to show up in husbands and in wives & what to do about it
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"As a wife, I knew I couldn't change my husband … but that didn'' keep me from trying." Dana Che
"When you actually engage in conflict, you can start to learn more about your spouse, what's important to them." -Dana Che
"You've got to feed the right things if you want to change the wrong things." - Dana Che
"Just like you learned that bad behavior, you can unlearn it and learn something new." Dana Che
"True repentance is visible." Dana Che
"What we believe, we will begin to speak. What we speak, we will begin to behave." Dana Che
QUESTIONS FOR YOU
What does your most recent marriage conflict reveal about what's most valuable to you?
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Find more from Dana at DanaChe.com, where you can take her "Connection Check" quiz
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Should Christians Go To Counseling? With Jason VanRuler | Ep. 603
19 Mar 2024
00:43:59
Why do Christians need counseling? Isn't the Gospel enough to transform us? We hear these questions fairly often. Today Dr. Kim and special guest Jason VanRuler dive deeper into these questions and the conversation about the role of therapy and counseling in a life devoted to following Jesus.
Don't miss this helpful conversation! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
How often do clients have no idea that they haven't gotten past their past?
Unexpected ways your past might be showing up & affecting your marriage today
Updating the negative messages we believe about ourselves
The effect of vulnerability on our marriage connection
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Where there's a disconnect in relationships, it's often a disconnect from the system we witnessed growing up and what we're trying to make happen today." - Jason VanRuler
"When we get comfortable, the old ways seep out to the surface." - Jason VanRuler
"Every time a client says a negative message about themselves, I ask, is that the message you think God gave you?" - Jason VanRuler
"One of my great joys is working with people to eliminate distractions so they can focus on the truth and live the life God has called them to."- Jason VanRuler
"If we want to feel connected and we're not feeling connected, a lot of times that emotional intimacy and depth is the missing link." - Jason VanRuler
"When we get vulnerable and honest, it attracts intimacy from our partner and we have a different relationship." - Jason VanRuler
"The marriage we want is often on the other side of vulnerability. We just don't often know how to get there."- Jason VanRuler
QUESTIONS FOR YOU
Do you recognize any ways you haven't gotten past your past?
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How to Become the Husband You Want to Be with Jim Ramos | Ep. 602
15 Mar 2024
00:59:40
Are you a man living in the stress bubble? It's when the years of marriage, career building and raising kids all happen at once. You're figuring everything out, trying to be there for it all, and it. Is. Stressful. If you're there, you want to hear from a godly dad who has been there.
We're so happy to share this conversation with Jim Ramos. Jim's wisdom and experience will equip and encourage you to be the husband and dad you want to be. Don't miss this episode.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Jim defines the 4 phases of fatherhood
Advice for the dad who never had a role model to guide him
Common mistakes dads make in the "stress bubble" years
Types of provision that the family needs from a husband / father
3 easy things Jim did that he recommends for all couples
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Whether we tell our kids that we've made mistakes or not, they're still noticing. Especially during those teen years." - Jim Ramos
"Our families require much more than physical provision. The damage most men do has nothing to do with physical provision; it has to do with heart care and soul care." Jim Ramos
"You don't have to be flashy. You don't have to be Superman. You just have to show up." - Jim Ramos
"As men we have to realize our wife is the most important person on the planet, and it's our job to make one person feel special." - Jim Ramos
"You will not be remembered for what you did 9-5, you will be remembered for what you did 5-9." - Jim Ramos
QUESTIONS FOR YOU
Jim shared 5 traits that set a "man" apart from a "male":
Protect integrity
Fight apathy
Pursue God passionately
Lead courageously
Finish strong each day
Which one of these is God calling you to grow in today?
4 More Biblical Prayers to Pray Together to Grow Your Marriage | Ep. 601
12 Mar 2024
00:32:43
Dr. Kim has said that prayer is the #1 most impactful thing you can do for your marriage. Today he explains why that is, and how to make it a habit in your marriage. Today we want to make praying with your spouse more approachable by sharing 4 biblical prayers to pray with your spouse that will grow your marriage.
The Bible lists a lot of reasons for marriage, and praying in line with God's purpose and intention for marriage is very powerful.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Why prayer is an essential act of spiritual protection against the enemy
Why it's so hard to get started, and how to overcome
Healthy perspective shifts praying will provide in your marriage
How to handle some of the uncomfortable realities of answered prayers
The power of prayer to help you take personal responsibility
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Praying together puts God where he wants to be in our marriage: Right in the center of it. - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"The enemy does not want Christian marriages to work." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"When you pray together you find that it unites you." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"There's a ripple effect: It's not just about the couple, it's about the family; it's about the community." - Lindsay Few
"I am more of who God created me to be after being married to Nancy all these years than I would have been without her." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"God put us together. He's got some fun stuff for us to do. Let's look out and let's get this stuff going!" - Lindsay Few
Blame is a very human response…but we all have a way we can influence the world. We do have control over how we're responding to God's call on us." - Lindsay Few
4 Biblical Prayers to Grow You & Your Marriage | Ep. 600
05 Mar 2024
00:34:11
When we pray, it can be tempting to make our prayers a wishlist. But praying in line with God's word changes things, and today we're talking about why that matters and how to pray biblically for your marriage. Today Dr. Kim shares 4 prayers that line up with Scripture that you can be praying daily to grow you, and your marriage!
Don't miss this powerful episode. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Why it matters to pray biblically
What makes a prayer biblical
The risk involved in praying these things, and the reward they provide
How these prayers have impacted Dr. Kim and Nancy's marriage
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
We've probably all heard some things taught, or caught, that were not biblical. We've heard ideas like, 'If God loves you, He'll make you happy,' or 'If you marry the right person, marriage will be easy,' that do not line up with Scripture."- Lindsay Few
"Trusting him may be the hardest first step for some of us, because we're not sure what he'll do." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Sometimes the prayer we want answered is just the thing that's easiest for us." - Lindsay Few
"He's always good, even though we don't see it at times." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Each of us can be thankful that God knows not only what's best for us, but for the whole world. We don't have to be burdened with that. He's got that." - Lindsay Few
"If you're lining up with what God states in his word that He wants to have happen, that's going to be really powerful." - Lindsay Few
"We can't hide anything from God." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Sexual desire is created for a reason. It's not a secret from God." - Lindsay Few
4 Prayers to Grow You and Your Marriage:
Pray that God will help you love like Christ loved.
Ask God to search you, know your heart, and reveal any offensive way.
Pray that your desire will be for your spouse only.
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Physical Health & Marital Intimacy: Why Our Bodies Matter in Marriage Ep.712
10 Feb 2026
00:26:18
How are physical health and marital intimacy connected—and why does it matter more than we often realize?
In this episode, Dr. Kim and Mrs.Nancy sit down for an honest conversation about the link between physical health and intimacy in marriage. They explore how stress, exhaustion, illness, aging, and life seasons can impact connection, desire, and closeness—and why caring for our bodies is not just personal, but relational and spiritual.
This conversation helps couples navigate physical barriers to intimacy without shame or pressure, and instead with patience, understanding, and love. Whether you're in a season of strength or struggle, this episode offers hope, clarity, and encouragement to pursue intimacy the way God designed it—rooted in grace and mutual care.
You'll hear:
• Why intimacy doesn't stay effortless—and why that's normal
• How sleep deprivation, stress, and hormones impact desire and connection
• Why exhaustion often gets misread as rejection
• How physical neglect creates emotional distance
• What stewardship of your body has to do with loving your spouse
• How couples can talk about intimacy without shame or defensiveness
• Practical, realistic steps to rebuild closeness—even in demanding seasons
Quotes from This Episode:
Often as women, we feel like we have to do it all. We become physically drained and spiritually drained. -Mrs. Nancy
Our bodies aren't machines. They need to be connected to the Lord and good health. -Mrs. Nancy
We have to get past the stereotype that if you love each other that your sexual intimacy will be great. - Dr. Kim
Body, soul and spirit- you have to work on all three to get yourself in shape, to live life to the fullest. - Mrs. Nancy
The better I feel, the better I take care of myself, one our marriage is better, and two I have the energy and focus to serve Him and do the things God has lined out for me to do. -Dr. Kim
Physical health and marriage are more connected than we realize. When one suffers, the other does too—care for both intentionally. -Dr. Kim
You don't have to be 'super mom' or 'super spouse.' Recognize your limits and give yourself grace in each season of life.- Dr. Kim
Taking care of your health is not just self-improvement—it's an act of love toward your spouse and those you serve. -Dr. Kim
Even in illness, exhaustion, or stress, don't give up on intimacy. Adapt, support each other, and let these challenges draw you closer.-Dr. Kim
You don't need a perfect body—just a healthy one that lets you show up for your spouse and God's call each day.-Dr. Kim
Fitness is about being strong enough to live, love, and serve as God intended—not about looking a certain way.-Dr. Kim
Questions for Conversation:
How has our current physical season (energy, stress, health, sleep, life stage) been shaping our intimacy—emotionally and physically—and where do we need more understanding for each other?
Are there any physical or emotional barriers to intimacy that we've avoided talking about? What would it look like to approach that conversation with curiosity, prayer, and grace instead of pressure or defensiveness?
What is one small, realistic way we could care for our physical health together this season as an act of love and connection—not obligation?
Mentioned in this Episode:
Dr. Kim mentioned rating your intimacy in order to open the door to communication. We have a great tool for that! Check out our Love Making Survey.
What Does It Mean to Find Intimacy with God? With Faith Eury Cho | Ep. 599
27 Feb 2024
00:48:22
What does it look like to live in intimacy with God each day? We are delighted to have Faith Eury Cho with us today, sharing about what friendship with God means, even in the "wilderness" times in our lives.
Faith is the CEO and founder of the Honor Summit, a gospel preacher, and author of the new book, Experiencing Friendship with God: How the Wilderness Draws Us to His Presence. Faith does a great job de-mystifying this lofty topic, so you don't want to miss this conversation.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
What does "friendship with God" actually mean?
Practical ways to "practice God's presence," even if it seems out of reach
How friendship with God impacts marriage
How to grow spiritually with your spouse
Ways to take these concepts into parenting / grandparenting
How to navigate the wilderness seasons of our faith
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Sometimes without even knowing, we believe so that God can give us a better life." - Faith Eury Cho
"Friendship with God is just intimacy on a day to day level." Faith Eury Cho
"We need to really redefine what experience actually means. Because if we go into any relationship, any - our spouse, our kids, our friends - having a set agenda of what experiencing that relationship should look like to us, it can be very unhealthy really quick." - Faith Eury Cho
"Start simple. Start with something that is a natural offshoot to your regular rhythms of life." - Faith Eury Cho
"I remember moments I would tell God, 'I don't have a prayer to pray, I don't have a song to sing, but I'm here.'" - Faith Eury Cho
"God cares about every little thing, and we want to give him the opportunity to show us that." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Some of us are friends with fear, not the presence of God, and I think we've got to break up with our fear!" - Faith Eury Cho
QUESTIONS FOR YOU
What is one way you and your spouse like to worship God together?
Have you seen God move during a 'wilderness' season?
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How to Make Romance Realistic in Your Marriage | Ep. 598
20 Feb 2024
00:32:31
How's the romance in your marriage? How does it compare to when you were dating? (… and does that matter?)
Romance can fall by the wayside in marriage because it seems like an "extra" that you'll get around to when you have extra time or money, or if you feel inspired to make a grand gesture.
But today Dr. Kim shares several reasons NOT to let that be the case in your marriage. Listen to learn why you need to bring the romance back and HOW to realistically make that happen.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
Dr. Kim shares specific ways romance benefits a marriage
What does romance look like for men vs. for women?
What to do if you're just not feeling it
Whose job is it to make sure the romance is good?
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"Most people would say at some point it was there. So how do you get it back?" - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"We kind of quit doing romantic things because we're not feeling it. Sometimes we have to go ahead and do them, so that we feel it again." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Marriage is a lot better when you've got romance in it." - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"I think we'd like it to come naturally, like it does in the movies
"It's ok to have the conversation. We have to get past the mindset of, 'If you really loved me, you'd know.'" - Dr. Kim Kimberling
"Romance is a great way to show your spouse, I see you, I appreciate you, and I care about what you care about." Lindsay Few
QUESTIONS FOR YOU
Have you talked about romance with your spouse?
Ask them: What is sexy to you? What is romantic to you?
Don't judge their answers!
Answers may change over time, so check in every now and then.
MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
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Why Your Everyday Work Matters for Eternity with Jordan Raynor | Ep. 597
16 Feb 2024
00:44:45
Whether you love it or hate it, you spend the majority of your waking hours doing it. And as today's guest tells us, it's mentioned over 800 times in the Bible: We're talking about work.
That's why we're so pleased to have Jordan Raynor join us on the podcast today to talk about how your work matters to God - today, every day of your life, and for eternity. This conversation will leave you inspired and encouraged to engage well with the word God is calling you to do, every single day.
We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.
Episode highlights include:
3 ways your everyday work matters for eternity
Why Jordan advocates for making an "Anti-Bucket List"
The Biblical truths of Heaven & Eternity that NO ONE is talking about
The "abridged Gospel" that most of us believe & the implications we miss if we do
The practical ways these deep biblical truths will impact your marriage
*Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!
QUOTES
"When we understand what God's word has to say about work, it frees us up to be exceptional both at work and at home." - Jordan Raynor
"While God's word is clear that our labor in the Lord is not in vain, it also makes clear that GOd doesn't need you or me - His purposes will not be thwarted. He does not need us, he wants us." - Jordan Raynor
"I can be at peace walking away from my work at the end of the day … because I know that if the things on my to - do list are on God's to - do list, he's going to complete them with or without me. That's terrifically freeing." - Jordan Raynor
"Scripture mentions work more than 800 times. There's no need to doubt whether or not God cares about your work." - Jordan Raynor
"When you understand that 100% of your time at home and at work matters to God, you become fully alive. And this world is desperate to see people that are fully alive." Jordan
"I went to Christian school for 13 years. And I remember frequently sitting in chapel, and quietly dreading the thought of heaven.
"We are called to keep watch for Christ's return, not by sitting on our hands and waiting for heaven to drop from the sky, but by working with our hands and joining him in cultivating heaven on earth today." - Jordan Raynor
QUESTIONS FOR YOU
How does the Biblical idea of stewarding your time change your daily work life?