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In this episode, we sit down with married couple Alexis & Liam, whose relationship has existed across identities, labels and multiple “coming outs.”

Alexis shares her true timeline: first identifying as straight, then gay, then trans, then returning to gay, then finally stepping into womanhood again, this time for herself, not to make the world more comfortable. Liam opens up about how his own sexuality sits outside the binaries people want to force him into, and why he still identifies as a gay man, even though the world reads them as a straight couple.

Together, they discuss: why femininity was always the thread Liam was drawn to, how social media obsessively interrogates trans bodies, the concept of “dead names”, discovering personal style during transition, and what it means to let the world see you become yourself.

This is a raw, real, unfiltered conversation about identity, labels, sexuality, grief, love and the reality of building a life together while transitioning.

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In this episode, we sit down with Jeza Belle: drag queen, author, comedian and the first drag queen in history to publish a Christian devotional, for one of the most surprising, thoughtful and moving conversations.

✨ We talk queer spirituality, reconciling religion and sexuality, grace, and why faith doesn’t belong to bigots. Jeza opens up about growing up Jewish-Christian, evangelical culture shock, coming out later in life, and why drag became both ministry and rebellion. We also dive into her award-winning queer historical fiction and the controversy surrounding her interracial slave-era romance novel, exploring power, race, desire and historical truth with nuance and care.

In this episode, we sit down with Rossi Lewis:  storyteller, content creator, and accidental “dating diarist”  whose TikTok journey began with a chance meeting at the gym and spiraled into documenting the chaos, comedy, and heartbreak of gay dating.

Rossi opens up about his early years in Cardiff, navigating anger, therapy, and the challenges of growing up queer in a world that didn’t always feel safe. He shares raw stories of coming out, flying across the world to meet a stranger, and finding himself unexpectedly in a messy love triangle on day one.

From whirlwind romances to the lessons of heartbreak, Rossi reflects on love bombing, open relationships, and the unspoken expectations placed on gay men around sex, roles, and masculinity. With humour and honesty, he challenges the idea that romance is dead and insists that connection, vulnerability, and authenticity still matter.

Alongside the laughs and wild dating stories, Rossi offers a candid take on healing cycles, choosing honesty over performance, and what it really means to date as a gay man in 2025.

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In this episode, Chris and Jacob open up about how they met, fell in love, and built a relationship that thrives on both romance and friendship.

They share the story of meeting through the theatre world, touring together, and the unforgettable moment in Bali when one asked the other to be his boyfriend under a waterfall. From navigating life on the road to blending their different cultures, they reflect on the joys and challenges of being visible as an interracial couple in the LGBTQ+ community.

Chris and Jacob also dive into ideas of masculinity, relationship roles, and what it means to truly be “the man of the house” when your relationship doesn’t fit traditional molds. 

Alongside personal anecdotes, they discuss social perceptions, stereotypes, and how their love story has evolved in the public eye.

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In this episode, Fran Gomez, Spanish-born fashion and portrait photographer, opens up about growing up queer in Andalusia, navigating repression in a Catholic family, and building a creative career after moving to London.

Fran shares how working in an iconic gay bar became the unexpected stepping stone to shooting for major fashion brands and creating powerful portraits that uplift underrepresented communities. We talk about mental health, capitalism’s impact on creativity, and the pressures of youth and beauty within the LGBTQ+ community.

Fran reflects on photographing tender moments, including an emotional portrait of his mother during her battle with cancer, and the importance of intergenerational connections in queer spaces. His story is one of resilience, authenticity, and choosing a life that values creativity and humanity over hustle culture.

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In this episode, Alex Thomas-Smith, actor, performer and proud trans-fem non-binary creative shares their journey from growing up in Leeds to making it on the West End and breaking into TV. 
Alex opens up about falling in love during Covid, spontaneous moves to Berlin, and how communication became the cornerstone of a five-year relationship.

They speak candidly about gender identity, attachment styles, and the interracial dynamics of their partnership. Alex reflects on growing up mixed race in the north of England, discovering community later in life, and learning to stand proudly in both their Blackness and queerness.

We also dive into the realities of shifting from musical theatre to TV acting, the challenges of typecasting, and the joy of landing a breakout role in What It Feels Like for a Girl. Alex’s story is one of authenticity, resilience, and finding home both on stage and in love.

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🎉 1 Year of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend! | Mr & Mr Game, Bedroom Icks & Drag Names

We’re celebrating ONE YEAR of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend in pure chaos, hosted by Jamie from Podcast Rooms! 💖 Expect a “Mr & Mr” challenge full of bedroom icks, drag queen alter egos, and the real story of how Faris & Josh went from friends to boyfriends.

It’s unfiltered, hilarious, and a little too honest…

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In this episode, comedian and content creator Chris Hall joins us to talk about viral fame, sibling bonds, and the unexpected power of background vocals. From brushing Barbie’s hair as a kid to becoming one of TikTok’s funniest queer voices, Chris opens up about growing up gay in a religious family, discovering community at musical theatre college, and finding his creative voice online.

We explore how a spontaneous dance video with his sister turned into a career changing moment, what it’s really like working with stars like Cynthia Erivo and the Jonas Brothers, and how stand-up lets him turn vulnerability into laughter. Chris shares awkward dating stories, reflections on identity, and how queerness shapes his art, humour and family relationships.


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In this episode, Khaled Alesmael shares his remarkable story of life as a gay Syrian writer, journalist and refugee: from cruising in secret hammams under an oppressive regime to crossing borders on foot and building a new life in Europe.

Khaled talks candidly about growing up queer in Syria, the hidden LGBTQ+ community and the power of desire as resistance. He opens up about his journey through Egypt, Turkey and finally Sweden, where his writing became his sanctuary and where he learned to tell stories about survival, love and identity when freedom was denied.

He discusses masculinity, family, coming out, the layers of Arab culture, and why he believes we must see people beyond politics. Khaled’s story is a powerful reminder of what queer people endure and how writing can keep hope alive when the world tries to silence you.

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In this episode, we’re joined by model, DJ, Chef & reality TV trailblazer Joel Mignott.

From open relationships and reality TV edits to childhood trauma, healing through therapy, and navigating gay love without a blueprint. This conversation is raw, hilarious and full of depth.

Joel opens up about what it means to grow up mixed-race and queer in the UK, how it felt to go through relationship growing pains while being filmed, and why he’s had to rebuild his idea of safety, trust and love from the ground up.

From public vulnerability to private breakthroughs, this one’s for anyone figuring out how to love without a script.

💙 What is an open relationship, really?
🌀 Healing, therapy, and learning to self-soothe
📺 The reality behind Made in Chelsea
👶🏽 Queer identity, mixed-race childhood, and inner child healing

Whether you’re in love, in therapy, or in transition, this is about the courage to build love that works for you.

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In this episode, Saif Ahmed shares his story of growing up as a gay, Arab, Muslim man — and how he went from fleeing Iraq as a child to helping shape the UK’s Equality Act.

Saif talks honestly about leaving Iraq during the war, spending his childhood in Dubai, coming to the UK as a teenager, and trying to work out who he was in a culture that didn’t always accept him. He opens up about what it was like to come out to his family, survive homophobia and violence at school, and why language matters when we talk about equality, masculinity and privilege.

This is an honest look at identity, community, activism and what it really takes to fight for rights when the system — and sometimes your own people — push back.

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In this episode, we’re joined by Taylor and Jeff—the charismatic couple behind one of the internet’s most loved LGBTQ+ love stories. From DM slides and Halloween run-ins to IVF, visibility and making a home in NYC, this conversation is full of warmth, honesty and hard-earned wisdom.

We dive into coming out in small-town America, redefining masculinity, and the reality behind curating a “perfect” relationship online. Taylor opens up about his upbringing and finding stability. Jeff reflects on rewriting the gay love story he never thought he'd live.

From hot dogs and heartbreaks to house parties and hope—this one is intimate, hilarious and refreshingly real.

🌭 Dating, DMs & Destiny – how one message (and an unsend) changed everything
🗽 Gay life in NYC – the different “types” of gays, from Hells Kitcgen to club nights
👨‍👨‍👦 Navigating IVF and what expect 
💔 Childhood, emotional safety, and learning to slow down

Whether you're queer, questioning, or just curious—this is a story about love, resilience, and building the life you dreamed of.

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In this episode, we sit down with Georgia Robert, a standout from I Kissed a Girl Season 1 and semi-pro footballer for a raw, funny and unexpectedly emotional conversation about identity, labels, sport and self-acceptance.

🌈 We get into why the word lesbian felt impossible to say, how school culture shaped shame, and why doing the show flipped everything. Georgia also opens up about how women’s football still carries its own hierarchies, why femininity and masculinity are policed even inside queer spaces, and how representation on-screen changed how she saw herself.

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In this vibrant and deeply personal episode, we’re joined by stars from I Kissed a Boy—Callum, Jack S, and Ruben—for a raw, hilarious, and heartfelt conversation about life before, during, and after the show.

From Black barbers and messy sleepovers to discovering queer brotherhood and confronting racism growing up, nothing is off limits. We dive into the importance of representation, coming out stories, identity crises, and the real friendships that formed on and off screen.

This episode isn’t just about reality TV—it’s about reality. And the joy of finally being seen.

💥 Behind-the-scenes moments from I Kissed a Boy
🧠 Growing up queer & mixed race
🎭 From spin-the-bottle kisses to dinner party drama
👬 The power of queer male friendships
🎤 What the show meant for representation

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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Aryam Marafi, a survivor, storyteller, and Kuwaiti refugee who opens up Asexuality, domestic violence, and sexual trauma. From seeking refuge and safety abroad, their journey is one of resilience, pain, and reclaiming identity.

We talk about the impact of abuse within family systems, escaping a violent home, healing from sexual trauma, and the layered complexities of being stateless, Arab, and queer in exile.

This conversation holds space for truth-telling, cultural critique, and finding power after silence.

*TRIGGER WARNING* - This video contains references to domestic and sexual abuse.

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In this episode, we sit down with performer, creator and unapologetic queer icon Tyreece. From go-go dancing in Heaven at 18 to navigating identity as a gender fluid, mixed-race powerhouse—this conversation is loud, proud and unfiltered.

We talk about being “too gay” for straight people, growing up between cultures, coming out journey, and finding the freedom to be yourself!

🎭 The queer nightlife roots that shaped Tyreece—and why they ditched dance school to own their own stage.

💬 The power of confidence, community and saying “I love myself” out loud.

🧠 Therapy, attachment styles & how being seen changed everything.

👠 Fashion as armour, political statement and pure joy—and why it’s never “just a look.”

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In this episode, we sit down with Britain’s first out Muslim drag queen and transgender activist Asifa Lahore. From transitioning on the NHS to navigating faith, family, identity and the queer scene as a South Asian woman—this conversation is raw, eye-opening and deeply human.

We talk about losing male privilege, finding gender euphoria on a motorbike in Pakistan, the power of being visible, and why Asifa has finally stopped chasing love to focus on self-worth. It’s not about fitting in—it’s about standing firm in who you are.

🎥 The realities of transitioning in the UK – timelines, therapy, and why it’s not a walk in the park.
🧕 Life as a trans woman in Pakistan – between gender affirmation and restrictive tradition.
🎬 The story behind Unicorn – and the South Asian queer scene that shaped it.
❤️ On love, rejection, anxious attachment, and finally letting go of "the one."

It’s powerful, thought-provoking, and full of moments that stay with you.

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🌟 Kabir on Made in Chelsea, Queer Identity & Life Beyond the Screen 🎬✨

In this episode, we sit down with Made in Chelsea’s Kabir to talk about everything from reality TV and representation to sobriety, dating as a queer person of colour, and finding purpose after pain. It’s raw, it’s real—and it’s seriously empowering.

🎥 How Kabir Got on Made in Chelsea – The unexpected DM that led to his TV debut and what it’s really like behind the scenes.

🌈 Queer, Brown & On-Screen – Kabir opens up about navigating race, gender and sexuality in an overwhelmingly white space.

🍸 Sobriety & Healing – From mental health battles to spiritual retreats in the Himalayas, Kabir shares how going sober changed his life.

❤️ Dating, Self-Worth & Being Enough – We talk Grindr, rejection, and learning to not chase the approval you never needed in the first place.

It’s deep, funny, inspiring and 100% authentic. Don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe!

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🧔🏽‍♂️ Body Hair, Bias & Bloating – Let’s Talk About It!

In this episode, we go there — from body hair politics to bloated tummies and invasive procedures. What does it mean to be hairy and brown in a world that prefers smooth and white? While we also dive into Faris's IBS journey!

👀 Hair & Race – Why being hairy hits different when you’re South Asian, Arab, or Brown — and how it’s all wrapped in coded racism.

🪒 The Pressure to Laser – Why so many people of colour feel pushed to remove every follicle?

🔥 Embracing the Fuzz – From shame to self-love: how we learned to love every curl, chest tuft, and rogue shoulder hair.

💩 IBS & Identity – Navigating chronic gut issues while trying to hold it all together...

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🌍 Aisha on Queer Travel, Colonialism & Building Safe Spaces 🏳️‍🌈

In this episode, we’re joined by Aisha to unpack identity, activism, and what it really means to move through the world as a Black queer woman. From reclaiming queer history to building inclusive spaces like The Common Press, this conversation is honest, powerful — and full of heart.

✈️ Travelling While Black & Queer – How Aisha navigates the world, challenges stereotypes, and finds queer joy everywhere.

🛡️ Safe Spaces Beyond the Club – Why LGBTQ+ community spaces need to be more than just nightlife — and how The Common Press became a sanctuary.

🧠 Colonialism & Queer Erasure – The real history they never taught us: queerness has always existed across African cultures.

🤝 Building Community, Not Competition – Why solidarity inside the LGBTQ+ community is more important than ever.

Grab a coffee, sit back, and let’s get into it. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe — it helps us keep telling these important stories!

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🌊 Gay in Jordan: Culture, Boycotts & The Truth About Queer Life in the Middle East 🧳

In this on-location episode, we're coming to you live(ish) from the Dead Sea in Jordan, with coffee, shisha, and some serious conversation. We’re diving deep into what it’s really like to be gay in the Middle East—and why Western perspectives don’t always get it right.

🌍 Is It Safe to Be Queer in Jordan? – We talk life, love, and legality in a country where it’s not illegal to be gay—but acceptance still has a long way to go.

🚫 The Problem with Boycotts – Why shunning entire cultures and countries might do more harm than good to the LGBTQ+ community living within them.

💬 Our Atlantis Episode – We address the backlash from our Dubai episode and why meaningful change can’t happen without uncomfortable conversations.

🧖‍♂️ Mud Masks, Belly Dancers & Dead Sea Vibes – Because yes, we do get into the fun stuff too. Life isn’t all serious, babes.

Whether you're from the Middle East or just curious about queer experiences across the globe, this one’s for you. Respect, nuance, and lots of laughs.

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🌈 Dan Harry on Chemsex, HIV Stigma & The Truth About ‘I Kissed a Boy’  💋

In this episode, we’re joined by Dan Harry from I Kissed a Boy to dive into some of the biggest (and most taboo) conversations in the LGBTQ+ community. From his BBC documentary PreP, HIV & Me to the realities of chemsex, we break it all down—while still finding time for laughs and a little bit of gossip.

💊 Chemsex: The Intersection of Drugs & Sex – Why is chemsex so common in queer spaces, and what are the risks no one talks about?

📺 Was ‘I Kissed a Boy’ Staged? – Dan spills the tea on how much of the show was real and what might have been ‘helped along’ by producers.

🦠 The Importance of PreP & Fighting HIV Stigma – How PreP, HIV & Me is changing the conversation around sexual health.

🤫 A Bit of Gossip & Plenty of Laughs – Because what’s a podcast without some tea?

Grab a drink, get comfy, and let’s get into it. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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🌍 Exploring Dubai: Stereotypes, LGBTQ+ Life & The New Middle East Culture 🇦🇪

In this episode, we’re recording straight from Atlantis, Dubai—because why not? We dive into the stereotypes surrounding Dubai, its real culture beyond the glitz, and what it’s really like being LGBTQ+ in the Middle East.

🏙️ Is Dubai Fake? – People love to call Dubai artificial, but is that just a coded way of rejecting modern Arab culture? We discuss whether there’s a deeper bias behind this view.

🏳️‍🌈 Being LGBTQ+ in Dubai – What’s it actually like? From misconceptions to the reality on the ground, we break down the experience of being queer in a place with strict laws.

🛑 Western Privilege & Travel Ethics – Should LGBTQ+ travelers boycott places that aren’t 100% inclusive? Or is there a way to support local communities while respecting cultural differences?

📖 A Brief History of Dubai – From Bedouin tribes to a global powerhouse, we chat about how Dubai transformed in just a few decades—and why it’s unlike any other city.

🎢 Filming Without Permission & Getting Told Off – Yep, we got very politely shut down for filming at Atlantis. Here’s what happened!

Get comfy, grab a drink, and let’s chat about Dubai beyond the Instagram version. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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In this episode, we sit down with actor, writer and producer Eman, whose work and lived experience confronts the intersections of queerness, faith and Black masculinity.

From award-nominated stage work (For Black Boys…) to creating his upcoming play Limp Wrist & The Iron Fist, Eman shares the real story behind his art: including assault, silence, conversion therapy, estrangement and rebuilding family relationships.

The conversation moves from survival to self-definition: growing up between Ghana and the UK, being plus size and black in a dating landscape shaped by Grindr profiles displaying “no fats, no Blacks, no fems,” navigating Christianity as a gay man, ghosting, attachment styles, and learning to love yourself without shrinking to fit other people’s expectations.

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In this episode, we’re joined by the incredible Miles Asteri for an open and heartfelt conversation about reality TV, navigating identity, and the emotional weight of adoption and fatherhood.

🎭 TRAITORS – Miles opens up about his time on The Traitors, the challenges of playing the game, and the pressure of public perception.

👨‍👦 Adoption & Fatherhood – From his personal experience with adoption to becoming a parent himself, Miles shares the deeply personal journey of building a family.

🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQ+ Parenting & Representation – The importance of visibility, breaking stereotypes, and raising children in a loving, non-traditional household.

💔 Love, Relationships & Growth – How relationships evolve through life’s biggest transitions and the lessons learned along the way.

🎤 Pop Culture & Music Obsessions – From Mariah Carey to Cowboy Carter, Miles dishes on his love for music and the ultimate pop diva debates.

Grab a drink and tune in for this insightful episode! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more.

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In this episode, we're joined by the incredibly talented Lordin for an open and inspiring conversation about breaking stereotypes in the music industry, being an independent queer artist, and navigating identity through music.

🎶 Breaking into the Music Industry – Lordin shares the realities of working without industry support, building a career from scratch, and staying true to his vision.

🏳️‍🌈 Queer Identity & Music Labels – How does being openly queer impact an artist’s career? Lordin discusses the struggle of being put in a box and fighting industry stereotypes.

📝 Songwriting & Personal Growth – From personal struggles to triumphs, Lordin explains how music helps him process emotions and connect with his audience.

🚀 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome – Even successful artists deal with self-doubt. Lordin talks about learning to own his power and push forward in his career.

❤️ Dating, Love & Coming Out – Lordin opens up about his journey coming out at 14, how it shaped him, and what he’s learned from past relationships.

Grab a drink and tune in for this insightful episode! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more.

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In this episode, we’re joined by the charismatic and unfiltered Dean Quinton for a raw and revealing conversation about reality TV, media narratives, and life inside the Big Brother house. From the brutal audition process to how the show twists reality, Dean gives us the inside scoop with humor and honesty.

🏠 The Big Brother Experience
Dean breaks down what it’s really like—from five days of isolation before entering the house to the sleep deprivation, strategic editing, and behind-the-scenes mind games.

📺 The Power of Editing & Storytelling
How reality TV controls the narrative—what they show, what they leave out, and how Dean ended up being portrayed as the villain.

🚨 Pressing the Panic Button
What happens when housemates reach their breaking point? Dean spills on why some people quit, the diary room rules, and why you can’t just leave whenever you want.

🍷 Sleep Deprivation & Alcohol Tactics
Why does the show keep contestants up until 3 AM? How does alcohol play a role in escalating drama and tension?

🎭 What Happens After the Show?
From post-show media storms to handling backlash, Dean discusses life after Big Brother and what he’d do differently.

Buckle up for an eye-opening and entertaining deep dive into the world of reality TV. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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Is Whiteness the Default? We dive deep into the unspoken biases that shape our perceptions of beauty, desirability, and relationships. From dating preferences to Hollywood’s beauty standards, we unpack how whiteness continues to be seen as the "default" and why that needs to change.

🔥 Topics We Cover:

💡 Why Whiteness is Still the Standard – How media and society reinforce Eurocentric beauty ideals.
💬 Dating While Brown – The challenges of navigating attraction and "preferences" in a world that favours lighter skin.
🏳️‍🌈 Colourism in the LGBTQ+ Community – How internalised biases show up on dating apps and in social circles.
📖 Challenging the Narrative – Why we need to question the standards we’ve been given and redefine beauty on our own terms.

Grab a drink and join us for this raw, real, and necessary conversation. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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In this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking conversation about challenging societal norms and embracing personal agency. Our guest shares their journey of questioning expectations around relationships, marriage, and identity, revealing how they moved from simply following the "default" life path to making choices that truly align with their desires.

🧠 Rewriting the Rules
How societal norms dictate our choices—and why questioning them can lead to a more fulfilling life.

💬 Should vs. Want
Unpacking the difference between what we’re told we should do and what we actually want to do.

🏳️‍🌈 Sex, Gender & Expression
Exploring fluidity, identity, and the social constructs that shape our understanding of relationships and intimacy.

📖 Challenging the Narrative
Why it’s important to ask who made the rules we follow—and whether they actually serve us.

Grab your favourite drink and join us for a deep, insightful, and empowering discussion. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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In this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of queer history with Dr. Justin Bengry, a leading historian and pioneer behind the world's first MA in Queer History. From exploring historical gaps to addressing modern queer representation, Justin offers thought-provoking insights, blending academic expertise with personal stories.

🎓 Queer Academia & Research
Justin talks about launching the MA in Queer History, its significance, and the ongoing challenges of preserving queer narratives.

📜 Defining Queerness Through History
What does "queer" mean across time and space? Justin shares the complexities of applying modern labels to historical contexts and why representation matters.

🏳️‍🌈 Filling the Gaps
We discuss the intersectionality of queer history, highlighting the need for diverse voices and stories, including Black queer history and trans narratives.

💡 The Queer Spidey Sense
How does a historian "discover" queerness in historical records? Justin shares surprising stories, including decoding hidden queer lives through archives.

💍 Love & Academia
On balancing personal and academic life, Justin reflects on his journey of coming out, his marriage, and his long-term relationship with his partner.

Grab a cup of tea and prepare for an episode that’s as educational as it is enlightening.

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This week, we’re diving headfirst into the world of K-pop, exploring wild alien theories, and reflecting on the randomness of life. It’s fun, it’s deep, and just a bit chaotic—just the way we like it.

🎶 K-pop Craze: We break down the hype around K-pop and the intense training that shapes these global stars. Is the West ready for K-pop-style pop groups?

📚 Bridget Jones Revisited: A nostalgic yet critical dive into Bridget Jones, examining how its themes have aged and what’s still relevant (or not) today.

👽 Alien Theories: From the dark forest theory to multiverse musings, we tackle some of the universe’s biggest mysteries. Are we alone, or just too loud for our own good?

🌈 Pride Plans: Comparing Pride festivals and why Brighton might just have the edge over London when it comes to good vibes and inclusivity.

🎉 Celebrating a Year: Reflecting on our podcast journey, sharing laughs, and looking ahead to what’s next.

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In this episode, we’re back after a little break, and things get hilariously messy as we dive into what’s been happening in our lives. From attachment styles to a dramatic take on decorating our apartment, nothing’s off the table.

🏡 Decorating Chaos: We’ve been sprucing up the apartment, and let’s just say Faris doesn’t love my (Josh’s) taste. We spill all the tea about our “discussions” (read: arguments) over colours and furniture. Are you Team Blue or Team Orange?

🧠 Attachment Styles IRL: We break down how his anxious attachment and my avoidant tendencies clash (and occasionally harmonise) in everyday life. Spoiler: It’s not always smooth sailing.

🎥 Reality TV Obsessed: We couldn’t help but rant about Real Housewives, Bling Dubai, and how scripted reality shows have gotten. If you love or hate Made in Chelsea, you’re going to relate to this one.

❤️ Arguments & Growth: Why we actually love our hard conversations and how they help us reconnect, even when we’re being extra.

✨ 2025 Energy: We’re entering the year of “not giving a f*ck” (but with a sprinkle of PMA—Positive Mental Attitude). If we’re going down, we’re going down fabulously.

👉 Join the chaos and let us know your thoughts in the comments (but don’t pick a favorite—we’ll know). Make sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend.

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In this episode, we’re joined by the hilarious and insightful Morgan Rees for an honest and entertaining conversation about comedy, identity, and queer joy. From chasing the comedy dream to embracing body positivity, Morgan takes us through his journey with humor and heart.

🎭 Chasing the Comedy Dragon
Morgan shares the highs and lows of being a comedian, from his first open mic to learning the science behind making people laugh.

🏳️‍🌈 Queer Community & Identity
How moving to London shaped Morgan’s connection with queer spaces, his thoughts on labels, and the joy of finding community.

🪞 Body Positivity & Beauty Standards
Morgan’s candid reflections on body image, navigating pressures in the LGBTQ+ scene, and the liberating joy of queer spaces like the Scottish Bear Society.

💔 Coming Out Twice
Morgan opens up about coming out at 21, going back into the closet, and how he finally embraced his true self.

👨‍👨‍👦 The "Daddy" Discussion
What does being called "daddy" mean in the queer community? Morgan talks about his evolving feelings on the term, with a side of humor.

Grab your favorite drink and enjoy this lively and heartfelt episode. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more!

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In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, we continue our Christmas special with family members Sam and Sass. From hilarious science "facts" to cultural debates and growing up in two worlds, this episode has it all — heartfelt moments, sibling banter, and festive cheer.

🎄 Christmas in Jordan vs. England: The group dives into their experiences navigating traditions and family dynamics across cultures during the holidays.

🎁 “Science with Sass”: Get ready to laugh as Sass attempts to explain everything from how planes fly to why we can't travel at the speed of light.

🌍 Life Between Two Worlds: The siblings reflect on their upbringing in Jordan, their move to England, and how they’ve carried traditions (or not) into their lives today.

🤔 Body Positivity Battles: The crew shares how they’ve stood up against rude relatives and old-fashioned expectations to embrace self-love and confidence.

Join us for an episode packed with laughter, cultural insight, and plenty of festive family fun. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and ring that notification bell! 🎉

In this episode, we sit down with award-winning podcasters and community icons Nana and Ro, the duo behind Two Twos Podcast, a space that redefined what it means to be Black, British, and queer.

🌈 From humble YouTube beginnings to shaping conversations around identity, masculinity, and representation, the pair open up about five years of laughter, love, and legacy.

We unpack their journey from creating spaces where none existed, to hosting landmark queer events that celebrate Ghanaian pride, culture, and joy. The conversation dives deep into coming out stories, faith and family, toxic masculinity within the lesbian community, and how visibility can transform generations: from changing parents’ minds to inspiring the next wave of Black queer women.

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In this episode of Avoiding My Anxiously Attached Boyfriend, Faris and Josh are joined by family members Sam and Sassy for a hilarious Christmas special. From chaotic gift exchanges to childhood stories of sneaking out and sneaking back in, this episode is full of laughs, awkward moments, and festive fails.

🎄 Sibling Chaos: What happens when siblings can't wait to open Christmas presents? Faris shares a childhood memory that will make you laugh (or cringe).

🎁 Worst Christmas Gifts: From unwanted love lamps to confusing puppets, the group recounts their most bizarre Christmas gifts and family reactions.

🎅 Meeting Santa... For Real?!: One of the most heartwarming stories — or was it just a dream? Listen to find out!

Tune in for festive fun and family mayhem! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and ring that notification bell! 🎉

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In this episode, we're joined by the brilliant Connor Minney for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about LGBTQ+ community dynamics, fitness culture, and personal growth.

🏋️‍♂️ Gym Culture & Gay Spaces: Why do gay and queer communities have such a conflicted relationship with gym culture? Connor dives into the legacy and evolution of these spaces.

👀 Validation & Body Image: A deep dive into the quest for physical perfection, the double standards of fitness ideals, and how this affects self-worth and community interactions.

🏳️‍🌈 Creating Inclusive Spaces with "Gayns": From founding "Gayns" to discussing the need for queer-friendly spaces outside of nightlife, Connor talks about building community, friendships, and wellness.

💊 Addiction & Community Impact: An open conversation about the realities of addiction within the LGBTQ+ community and how it shapes lives and connections.

Grab a drink and tune in for this insightful episode! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more.

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This week, we’re diving deep into the cultural shifts that have shaped the world around us:

💄 Kardashians & Beauty Standards
How did one family redefine beauty—and at what cost? We break down the ripple effects of their influence on today’s society and self-image.

🇺🇸 The Fall of the American Dream
As kids, it was the ultimate goal, but Hollywood scandals and societal shifts have made us question everything. Is the American Dream still alive, or has it crumbled?

🪄 Our Harry Potter Reboot Wishlist
Imagine a series that takes us back in time to explore the origins of Hogwarts’ founders—Salazar Slytherin, Godric Gryffindor, and the drama behind the four houses. We pitch our perfect reboot!

📰 True or Fake News?
In this hilarious game, we try to spot the real headlines from the absurdly fake. Can you guess better than us?

Hit play for thought-provoking convos, pop culture hot takes, and some laughs along the way. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week! 🎙️

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🎙️ A Conversation with Mr. Gay World, David Allwood

In this heartfelt and dynamic episode, we’re joined by the incredible David Allwood, Mr. Gay GB, for a deep dive into his life, work, and passions.

🌈 Homoparody:
David shares the inspiration behind his company, which brings the LGBTQ+ community together through fabulous events and dance classes designed to foster joy and connection.

🏆 Life as Mr. Gay GB:
From the glitz and glamour to the challenges, David opens up about his experience competing and what it means to represent the global gay community.

💔 Loss, Grief, and Family:
In a poignant moment, David reflects on the devastating losses he’s experienced, including friends who have died by suicide, and the role family dynamics play during times of grief.

🎲 A Playful Twist – Guess the Amazon Product:
To balance the heavy moments, we dive into a lighthearted and fun game of guessing quirky Amazon products. Expect surprises, laughter, and a few hilarious discoveries!

💞 How He Met His Husband:
A love story that will warm your heart, David shares how he met his husband and what makes their bond so special.

This episode is a mix of fun, vulnerability, and inspiration—don’t miss it!

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This week, we’re leaning into the chaos with a messy, hilarious chat about relationships, reality TV, and everything in between. No structure, just vibes.

🫂 Attachment Styles: Josh opens up about his attachment type and why affection is strictly on his terms. Let’s just say, it’s a journey.

👰 Love Is Blind, Habibi: Our unfiltered thoughts on the latest reality TV drama—because what’s better than strangers trying (and failing) to fall in love on camera?

🎙️ Just Messy Chats: From random tangents to hilarious takes, this episode is peak “pull up a chair and gossip” energy.

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#AttachmentStyles #LoveIsBlind #PodcastVibes #MessyChats

This week, we’re diving headfirst into the intersection of feminism, the environment, and some good old-fashioned spooky chaos. It’s thoughtful, it’s funny, and it’s a little unhinged—just how we like it.

🌱 Ecofeminism: Diving deep into what Faris was researching during his PHD , exploring how feminism and environmentalism connect. Turns out, saving the planet might just be feminist work.

✊ The Waves of Feminism: From the suffragettes to TikTok activism, we break down the history of feminism and how the fourth wave became a social media movement.

👀 Smile 2: Our take on the horror sequel that might just ruin smiling for you forever.

🎙️ Hear Me Out: The game that makes us argue the impossible—and somehow, we make it make sense.

Hit like, leave a comment, and subscribe for more episodes that mix brains, banter, and a bit of chaos!

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In this episode, we’re joined by the insightful Jordan Hailwood for an open and honest discussion about some of the complex dynamics within the LGBTQ+ community.

👀 Experiences of Being Fetishised: We share personal stories about encounters with fetishisation, unpack its emotional impact, and explore how it shapes relationships and self-perception.

💞 Dating Outside Your Race: A conversation about the beauty of interracial relationships and why breaking down our own biases can lead to more meaningful connections.

💪 Men & Femininity: Why does femininity in men still scare some people? We discuss what this means for self-expression and acceptance within the community.

🏫 Queer Sex Ed in Schools: The need for inclusive sex education is real. We talk about how it could empower young queer people and normalize open, informed conversations.

🍆 How Big is Too Big? Yep, we’re going there! An unfiltered chat about body image, personal preference, and the truths behind this often-overlooked topic.

Grab a drink, tune in, and join us for this eye-opening episode. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more! #QueerSexEd #DatingOutsideYourRace #Fetishisation #MenAndFemininity

🧠 Navigating Anxiety & Intrusive Thoughts – This week, we're opening up about the struggles of anxiety and those intrusive thoughts that seem to come out of nowhere. From practical tips to personal stories, we share what’s helped us cope and remind everyone that they’re not alone in these battles.

🌈 Heartstopper & Self-Acceptance – The hit show Heartstopper captures so many moments we wish we had growing up, and it’s been a game-changer for LGBTQ+ representation. We dive into how shows like these can have a huge impact on mental health, self-acceptance, and even help us find peace with the parts of ourselves we might’ve hidden away.

💭 Looking Back: Our Journey to Realizing We’re LGBTQ+ – We take a trip down memory lane and talk about the moments in our past when we first realised we were part of the LGBTQ+ community. From funny, awkward realisations to heartwarming “aha” moments, it’s an honest look at what shaped who we are today.

So, grab a cozy drink, settle in, and join us for a heartfelt episode where we face fears, celebrate pride, and find solidarity in shared experiences. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more weekly episodes! 🌟

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🎃 This week, we're diving into a mix of personal experiences, societal standards, and some spooky vibes! 🍂

💆‍♂️ Dealing with Psoriasis: Scaling skin, broken finger nails, and chanting, no we are not talking about the witches of Salem. We are talking Faris' psoriasis situation. 

💄 Beauty Standards in the Gay Community: Are we too ugly to be gay? We unpack the often-unrealistic beauty expectations in the gay community, how they affect self-worth, and the importance of embracing individuality. Shouldn't we be all loving and inclusive?

🏳️‍🌈 Is the LGBTQ+ Community Really That Inclusive?: While the LGBTQ+ community is built on acceptance, there's still a lot of work to be done. We have an honest conversation about inclusivity, gatekeeping, and the struggles that some members of our community face.

👻 Halloween & Autumn Vibes: To get into the spooky spirit, we wrap things up with a creepy story that's perfect for this time of year. Grab your pumpkin spice latte and settle in for a fright!

Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week! 🎙️

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🌍 Exploring the World with Nomadic Boys’ Stefan: Gay Travel, Safety, and More!

This week, we’re thrilled to have Stefan, one half of the Nomadic Boys, joining us for a special episode! Stefan and his partner travel the world, offering invaluable insights on where gay travellers can feel safe and welcome. We’ll be diving into:

✈️ Travel Misconceptions: Ever crossed a destination off your list because you thought it wasn’t safe for LGBTQ+ travellers? Stefan busts myths and shares surprising places that are safer than you think.

📚 Out in the World: Stefan introduces us to his latest book, Out in the World, a comprehensive guide designed specifically for LGBTQ+ travelers. Whether you're searching for hidden gems off the beaten path or iconic destinations with a welcoming vibe, this book covers it all. Out in the World is more than just a travel guide—it’s an essential resource filled with firsthand experiences, safety tips, and practical advice tailored to the LGBTQ+ community.

💪 Body Image in the Gay Community: We also take a candid look at body image pressures within the gay community and how it impacts self-perception, especially in the context of travel and social media.

🏳️‍🌈 Coming Out Stories: Stefan opens up about the challenges he faced coming out and how his journey has shaped his perspective as both a traveler and an advocate.

Join us for this heartfelt conversation about gay travel, self-acceptance, and overcoming obstacles. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for new episodes every week!

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In this episode, we sit down with artist Nxdia, who opens up about growing up between Cairo and Manchester, navigating identity, and creating music that captures the complexity of queerness, culture, and self-expression.

From journaling teenage crushes that inspired viral tracks to processing faith, gender, and belonging, Nxdia shares the stories behind Nxdia’s most personal lyrics:  including “She Likes a Boy” and how an Egyptian upbringing and spirituality shaped them.

We also dive into top surgery journey, the realities of being an independent artist, and carving space for queer representation in music. This one’s raw, funny, and deeply human, a reminder that identity is never one note.

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💄 In this episode, we're unpacking GRWM culture and the way people flaunt what they own—what does it say about consumerism today?

👜 Dior’s Scandal: We discuss the recent controversy surrounding migrant workers being paid just $57 to make luxury bags under poor conditions, while the price tag tells a very different story.

👗 Fashion Powerhouses: A look at the history of some of the biggest names in fashion—how Louis Vuitton’s trunks and Chanel’s trousers changed the industry and influenced modern style.

🔥 Hot or Famous? We’re having fun with this one! We debate whether certain celebs are actually hot or if it’s just the fame talking. Prepare for some surprising takes!

🎤 Doechii: The next big rapper blending old-school hip-hop with modern flair. Why she’s making waves and what makes her stand out in today’s music scene.

Join us for some real talk about fashion, music, and pop culture! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more.

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This week, we’re back with a spicy mix of pop culture, music, and laughs! Here’s what we’re unpacking:

🎃 Agatha All Along and the Queer Legacy: We dive into the queer-coded characters that WandaVision has brought to life and why Agatha, in particular, resonates with the LGBTQ+ community.

🚂 Tyla and the VMAs Drama: We break down the Tyla Hate Train after the awkward moment where she asked Lil Nas X to hold her award—why all the shade? We’ve got thoughts!

🎶 The Weeknd’s New Music & Sam Levinson’s Messy Shows: From Euphoria’s highs to The Idol’s lows, we’re questioning Sam Levinson’s choices and whether The Weeknd is thriving or just vibing in his latest release.

😂 Hilarious Icks Between Us: Of course there wouldn't be an episode without us roasting each other with some funny “icks” we’ve discovered about each other.

Join us for a candid conversation filled with pop culture takes, some tea, and lots of fun! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week!

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This week, we’re unpacking the complexities of navigating the media industry with our special guest, Lee. Join us as we dive into:

⚔️ The Double-Edged Sword of Being Black in the Industry: Lee shares his experiences of how his identity can work for or against him in the competitive landscape of media.

💖 Sex and the City Deep Dive: We explore the iconic characters and their dynamics, reflecting on how they resonate with today’s culture.

📸 Behind the Scenes at Vogue and Harper’s Bazaar: Lee gives us an insider’s look at the fashion world and the unique challenges faced there.

😂 Funny Dating Stories: Get ready for some laughs as Lee recounts his most memorable (and hilarious) dating adventures.

🎶 Why Today's Artists Are Missing the Mark: We discuss the importance of struggle in artistry and why new artists may not have the same depth as those who came before them.

Join us for a candid conversation filled with insights, humor, and plenty of truth. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week!

Peace, Love & Rubber Gloves 

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Hey hey Anxious Bunnies✨

This week, we’re tackling some fiery topics that will definitely get you thinking! In this episode, we explore:

🔥 EDL and the Riots: What’s fueling the rise of far-right groups like the EDL, and how are they connected to recent unrest?

🇬🇧 Brexit - Why It’s Not Working: We dive into the aftermath of Brexit and why things haven't gone as planned for the UK.

💔 Love Island - Why No One Goes to Find Love: Is it all just for fame and Instagram deals? We break down the truth behind the reality show phenomenon.

🇵🇸 Palestine - Why Has It Been Forgotten?: Amid global crises, has the world moved on from the Palestinian struggle? We revisit the ongoing conflict and what’s being ignored.

💍 Love is Blind UK: A reality TV experiment or a recipe for drama? We spill all the tea on the UK edition of Love is Blind.

Join us for deep discussions, hot takes, and a few laughs as we break down these trending topics! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week!

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