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What if your real career path didn’t start until after your ADHD diagnosis? 

In this all-new episode, we sit down with Kelly Baumgartner—ADHD Coach, content creator, and former school librarian—to talk about diagnosis at 30, trusting your instincts, and building a career that fits your brain. 🌱📚
From "just pushing through" to actually understanding her needs, Kelly’s journey is filled with insight, laughter, and some seriously relatable ADHD moments. 🎢🧠
Join Kelly, Stephen, and Aaron as they explore:

 🧩 What it means to “follow the breadcrumbs” of your energy and joy
 🧠 How ADHD shows up in high-functioning women—and often gets missed
 🎭 The pressure to mask and over-perform in professional settings
 💬 Creating content, connection, and community as an ADHD-er
 🛠️ Coaching tools for emotional regulation, boundaries, and burnout recovery

If you’ve ever felt like your ADHD story didn’t “look typical,” this episode will remind you: there’s no one way to be neurodivergent—and your lived experience is valid.

🎧 Catch all the episodes now on Attention Different—on YouTube! 🔗
 👇 Tell us your favorite takeaway in the comments.
📌 𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻 𝗻𝗼𝘄 & 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗹𝗼𝘄!

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Today, we sit down with Will Curb, host of Hacking Your ADHD, to talk about dismantling shame, redefining ‘Effort,’ and building strategies that actually work for ADHD brains.From late diagnoses to using stress as a survival tool, the ADHD experience is full of patterns that really start to make sense once you begin to understand your own brain. 

Join Will & Aaron & Stephen as they explore:

•  Why Anxiety became Will’s “go-to” time management tool.
•  How a Radical Acceptance based mindset informs Will’s approach to parenting (and so much more).
•  What happens when we mistake “having a genuinely difficult time” for “not working or trying hard enough”?
•  ADHD Adulting tools and reframes that support long-term growth.
•  How empathy and grace—especially directed at ourselves—can be non-negotiable.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly behind or beating yourself up for not doing “enough,” this episode is a reminder: “Trying” looks different with ADHD—you are making an effort and it shows; your efforts matter.
Catch the full episode on Attention Different—only on YouTube!
  Drop a  if you’ve ever used anxiety as a coping tool. Let’s talk about it!

#HackingYourADHD #ADHDPodcast #ADHDandAnxiety #ADHDAcceptance #NeurodivergentVoices #adhdtips #adhdinsight #attentiondifferent #attndifferent

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Staying active with ADHD can feel like an uphill climb, but it doesn’t have to be! In this episode of Adulting with ADHD, Stephen, Aaron, and Marlena share their personal experiences, laugh-out-loud moments, and creative hacks to make exercise work for ADHD brains.

🔍 Topics include:

💪Stephen’s take on perfectionism and self-judgment in fitness
💪Marlena’s smoothie accountability strategy 🥤
💪Aaron’s hilarious portable gym ideas (weighted phone checks, anyone? 📱💪)
💪How ADHDers can push through resistance and find joy in movement

Whether you’re a gym rat, a casual walker, or someone just starting out, this episode is packed with relatable stories, practical tips, and plenty of laughs.

🎧 Listen, laugh, and get inspired to move your body—your way.

💬 Let us know in the comments: What’s your go-to ADHD-friendly exercise?

📌 Subscribe for more tips, stories, and humor about life with ADHD!

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Welcome to the Radical Acceptance Lab, a unique series created by Attention Different for those navigating ADHD and looking to transform shame into self-compassion. 💡

In this lab, we dive deep into the concept of radical acceptance—a powerful tool for recognizing our unique strengths and moving beyond the cycle of self-criticism. Through honest discussions, personal stories, and insights from ADHD advocates, we explore what it means to embrace our brains as they are, without needing to “fix” or change ourselves to meet unrealistic expectations. Radical acceptance helps us see that ADHD is not separate from us; it’s part of our identity that enriches our lives and the world around us.

We’ll also cover:

The destructive nature of the shame spiral and how to recognize it
Breaking free from perfectionism and self-punishment
Why acceptance is the first step toward real change
Learning to embrace ADHD as part of who we are, and finding gratitude along the way

Radical acceptance doesn’t mean liking every challenge ADHD brings—it’s about holding space for all parts of our reality, especially the messy ones. Join us as we uncover how to move forward with self-compassion, strength, and community.

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Attention Different Labs are short form episodes centered around important adulting with ADHD topics. Stephen dives into specific research mixed with tangible coaching strategies and advice, delivered with a side of relatability and humor. 

In this lab, we discuss and educate on Adult ADHD Symptoms. 

Our mission is to reclaim the label, not reinvent it, in order to understand our condition in more accurate and self-affirming ways. Labels can be stigmatizing, leading to shame, guilt, and despair. We believe that “Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder" (ADHD), while a very real condition, has a tired and overly negative label.

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We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.

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In this episode of the Attention Different Podcast Co-founders of Attention Different Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith talk with Marlena Pavich about her journey of being diagnosed with ADHD later in life and accepting her diagnosis.  

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In this episode of the Attention Different Podcast Co-founders of Attention Different Stephen Tonti and Aaron Smith react to an old TEDx talk (ADHD As A Difference In Cognition, Not A Disorder: Stephen Tonti at TEDxCMU) that Stephen gave many years ago that was the inspiration for the launch of a new company.

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In this episode, we discuss when, how, and if you should disclose your ADHD status to your employer. We talk about some critical considerations surrounding ADHD and workplace stigma, asking for support, and accessing needed accommodations, among other topics.

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We discuss the common problems that arise in relationships between ADHD and Non-ADHD partners and what to do about these dynamics.

Show notes:
Dani Donovan – check out her awesome ADHD webcomic
@DaniDonovan. Facebook @DaniDonovanArt
https://www.bbc.com/news/health-48146166

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In this episode of "Attention Different," the hosts discuss the hunter-gatherer hypothesis and its connection to ADHD. They explore how ADHD traits may have evolved as adaptive features beneficial in early human societies, challenging the view that ADHD is purely a negative, maladaptive condition. The conversation delves into the genetics of ADHD, the impact of environmental stressors on its expression, and the role of neuroplasticity and epigenetics in shaping behavior. The episode emphasizes that ADHD should be seen as a feature of human evolution, offering unique strengths, rather than as a disorder to be "fixed."

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We are Attention DIFFERENT not DEFICIT An advocacy and edutainment podcast centered on radical acceptance and neurodiveristy. Attention Different aims to de-stigmatize and build community by exploring the intricacies of living life and "adulting" with ADHD in the modern world. We periodically feature experts, special guests and influencers in the ADHD community.

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