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Ask Mom Parenting with Sue Donnellan

Sue Donnellan

Kids & Family

Frequency: 1 episode/9d. Total Eps: 33

Are you a parent about to snap? I’m Sue, with 25+ years helping parents make sense of the behavior that leaves them thinking, “What do I do now?” Each episode unpacks what’s behind the lying, arguing, tantrums, pushback, screen battles and sibling fights, then gives you practical ways to get kids listening without losing your authority. We’re not just trying to survive today. We’re raising capable adults who trust you, count on themselves and still call when they’re grown. Tonight can go differently. Start with the episode that sounds most like your house.

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Simple Ways to Reconnect with Your Teen & Build Trust

Season 2 · Episode 20

Wednesday, September 23, 2026 • Duration 16:27

How do I get my teenager to talk to me without pushing them away?

In this episode, I unravel the real reasons behind teen distance, from biological brain shifts to the way we react as parents.

I share practical ways to reconnect, including ditching the dramatic sit-downs, choosing more casual settings, and prioritizing truth over immediate correction. We’ll look at how small shifts in communication can help rebuild genuine trust with your adolescent.

And I’ll leave you with one challenge: create just one moment this week with your teen where you bring zero agenda.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

Why does my teenager shut down or pull away every time I try to talk to them?
How can I address bad behavior or mistakes without destroying my child’s trust?
What can I control when teenage biology and independence take over?

…this one’s for you.

What You’ll Learn:

What is actually going on in your teen's brain, and what portion of their behavior you can actually influence.
Understanding why space is normal, but broken trust doesn't have to be.
How to trade heavy "talks" for low-pressure settings, and why asking "Help me understand what happened" yields truth before correction.

Parenting a teen isn't about controlling their independence, but rather managing your own reactions to keep communication lines open. By replacing interrogation with curiosity, you protect your bond and guide them through their mistakes safely.

Resources:

Fight Free Parenting Course
Join the Yell-free Parenting ⁠Facebook Group⁠
Read Sue's book, ⁠Secrets to Parenting Without Giving a F^ck
Connect with Sue on Instagram at @AskMomParenting
Watch the show on YouTube!

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Yelled at Your Child? 3 Ways to Repair It

Season 2 · Episode 19

Wednesday, September 9, 2026 • Duration 23:03

Can I repair my relationship with my child after losing my temper and yelling?

If you’ve ever lost your temper, yelled at your kids, and immediately wondered, Did I just damage my relationship with my child? this episode is for you.

I’m breaking down what to do after you yell at your child, how to apologize without over-explaining or making excuses, and why the way you handle the moments after you lose your cool can make a meaningful difference.

We’ll also talk about parenting guilt, what real parent-child repair looks like, and how to take responsibility for your behavior without getting stuck in shame or defensiveness.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

How do I apologize to my child even though they were pushing every one of my buttons?
What can I do to change the way my child experiences me after a high-tension moment?
How do I tailor my repair approach for a young child versus an independent teenager?

…this one’s for you.

What You’ll Learn:

How to deliver a clean, effective apology without conditional statements, and why you should save the "how do we fix this next time" conversation for a completely separate moment.
How children sense when the household atmosphere resets to safety, warmth, and a reassuring "we're still us" connection after going through a moment that felt hard.
Tailoring your repair strategy—whether that means offering a hug to a toddler, shooting hoops side-by-side with a school-aged kid, or giving a teenager space until they're ready to check back in.

Real relationship repair isn't about being a perfect parent, it's about stepping up as a calm and intentional leader in your home. Practicing consistent repair creates a foundation of trust that carries into their adulthood, transforming everyday mistakes into powerful lessons in empathy and resilience.

Teaching Kids About Money: The Value Lessons Most Miss

Season 2 · Episode 18

Wednesday, August 26, 2026 • Duration 33:16

Is your kid good with money, or just good at getting money from you?

In this episode, we dive into the right way to give kids money and the crucial lessons about value that most kids never learn. From turning back rubs into earning opportunities, to the ever-changing going rate for picking up dog poop, to using Whole Foods cookies to teach spontaneity and generosity, I’m sharing practical ways to help kids understand how money actually works so they can become more financially capable along the way.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

How do I stop handing out money just because it’s Friday?
What’s the difference between routine family expectations and value-added earning?
How can I teach my kids about spending choices and investing before they hit their 20s?

…this one’s for you.

What You’ll Learn:

How value is created, why kids shouldn't get paid just for existing, and how factors like supply, demand, and timing impact earnings.
Why spending their own money feels completely different than spending yours, and how to step back so kids experience real financial consequences.
Introducing kids to investing, "free money," dividend-producing funds, and family-friendly financial apps like Greenlight and BusyKid.

Instead of giving handouts or fixed allowances for basic responsibilities, teach kids that money is exchanged for value-added initiative and guide them to manage, spend, and grow their own funds early. Doing so gives them the real-world experience needed to make thoughtful financial choices.

Watch the show on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@askmomparenting571

How to Motivate an Unmotivated Child | 3 Strategies to Try Tonight

Season 2 · Episode 17

Wednesday, August 12, 2026 • Duration 24:27

What if the key to motivating your child is to stop trying to motivate them?

The reality is that motivation grows when kids learn one simple truth: What I do now affects what I get later.

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on why trying to manufacture ambition in your kids will drive you crazy, and how shifting the structure around them puts responsibility squarely in their hands.I am sharing practical examples from setting up a family structure where responsibilities come first to using a child's dream to anchor daily habits. I break down how to handle power struggles, screen time battles, and constant nagging without lecturing, so you can help your child build true accountability.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

How do I get my kid to care without having to invent a new lecture every week?
What can I say instead of "get off your game and do your homework" to avoid an argument?
How do I step back and hand responsibility over when it's so much faster to just do it myself?

…this one’s for you.

What You’ll Learn:

How to reverse the traditional order of your day so that responsibilities are completed before kids unlock screens, freedom, and fun.
How connecting today's effort to the bigger goal helps your child discover their own "why" and how you can frame daily choices around the future they say they want.
Why transitioning from constant reminding to handing complete ownership back to your child will help them build true capability.

Motivation isn't something you can force; it naturally grows when you set clear boundaries around earned access and let your child experience the real link between today's choices and tomorrow's freedom. When we stop over-functioning and step into the passenger seat, kids gain the space to step up and own their lives.

Raising Kids Who Make Good Decisions in a Distracted World

Season 2 · Episode 16

Wednesday, July 29, 2026 • Duration 28:57

"Good judgment doesn't suddenly appear when they turn 18. It has to be built in with small everyday moments long before the stakes become higher."

In this episode, we talk about how to raise kids who can think critically, pause, and make wise choices in a fast-paced, soundbite-driven world.

With stories like my son's sudden college decision over a diner breakfast and real talk about social media algorithms, teenage peer pressure, and empathy , I am breaking down how to give your kids actionable tools for lifelong decision-making.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

How do I stop my child from taking one headline, clip, or opinion as absolute fact?
How can I teach my teenager to look at the long-term impact of their choices instead of just seeking immediate gratification?
What can I do to help my kids slow down their judgment and show empathy when dealing with conflict?

…this one’s for you.

What You’ll Learn:

How to teach kids the 360-degree thinking process for making strong decisions.
How real-life experiences build the wisdom needed for good choices.
How practicing empathy helps kids pause and remove judgment before deciding.

By staying shockproof as a parent and teaching your kids to mentally roll around in a decision from every angle, you help them develop strong discernment and trust their own gut. Providing low-stakes real-world experiences and encouraging empathy turns fast reactions into thoughtful, lifelong judgment.

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Child Safety Tips: What Kids Need to Know About Secrets, Pressure, and Unsafe Adults

Season 2 · Episode 15

Wednesday, July 15, 2026 • Duration 38:13

"Nice and safe aren't always the same thing."

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on the realities of child safety, moving far beyond the outdated "stranger danger" speech. With the insight I gained from serving on a state grand jury for child sexual assault cases and what I've learned professionally about secrecy, grooming behaviors, and peer pressure, we're breaking down how you can empower your kids with practical, non-fear-based safety skills they can use for the rest of their lives.

If you’ve ever asked yourself:

How do I teach my child to recognize unsafe boundaries without making them overly fearful?
What should I say to my kids about sleepovers and monitoring who else is in the home?
How can I encourage my child to trust their gut instinct over being polite to adults?

…this one’s for you.

True protection comes from building an open, non-judgmental circle of trust at home so your children always feel supported to speak up. By layering these safety skills into everyday, low-stakes conversations, you transform fear into lifelong empowerment.

Resources

Watch the show on YouTube at ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@askmomparenting571 ⁠⁠
Join the Yell-free Parenting ⁠Facebook Group⁠: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yellfreeparentingforexhaustedmoms/
Read Sue's book, ⁠Secrets to Parenting Without Giving a F^ck: https://shorturl.at/lrcF2
Connect with Sue on Instagram at @AskMomParenting: Instagraminstagram.com/askmomparenting

You're Not a Bad Mom - You're Burned Out

Season 2 · Episode 14

Wednesday, June 24, 2026 • Duration 23:32

One hard moment doesn't define you as a parent, but burnout can make it feel that way.

Have you ever gone to bed after a tough day with your kids and wondered if you're doing any of this right? In this episode, I'm talking about the moments that make so many parents question themselves, like the bedtime battles, the meltdowns, the yelling, the exhaustion, and the guilt that follows. When we're running on empty, it's easy to confuse a hard day with a parenting failure.

I'll share why parenting can feel so overwhelming, how fear and self-doubt can quietly take over our thinking, and what often gets mistaken for "bad parenting." Most importantly, we'll talk about what parents really need when they're stretched too thin and why the answer may be simpler than you think.

If You've Ever Asked Yourself...

Am I a bad mom or dad because I lost my patience today?
Why do I feel like I'm failing when my child is struggling?
How do I stop spiraling after a hard parenting moment?
Why does my child's behavior affect my confidence so much?
How can I tell the difference between burnout and actual parenting problems?
What should I do when I feel completely overwhelmed?
How do I keep one bad day from turning into a story about who I am?

...then listen to this one for all the answers.

Parenting was never meant to be perfect, and you don't have to carry the hard days alone!

Watch the show on YouTube at ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@askmomparenting571 ⁠⁠

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Learn how you can work with Sue at:

Co-Parenting Conflict: How to Keep Your Kid Out of the Middle

Season 2 · Episode 13

Wednesday, June 10, 2026 • Duration 25:36

When co-parenting, you can't control the other parent...but you can protect your child from getting caught in the middle!

Co-parenting can feel exhausting when you're trying to navigate different parenting styles, unresolved emotions, schedule changes, and the constant worry about how it all affects your child. In this episode, I'm sharing a different way to approach co-parenting when things feel messy, tense, or completely out of your control.

Rather than focusing on what happens in the other home, we'll talk about where your real influence lives and how creating stability, emotional safety, and consistency in your own home can make a bigger impact than you may realize. If you've ever felt caught between wanting to protect your child and wanting to prove a point, this conversation is for you.

If you've ever asked yourself...

"How do I co-parent with someone who does things completely differently than I do?"
"What should I do when I disagree with what's happening in the other home?"
"How can I keep my child from feeling stuck in the middle?"
"Is it possible to co-parent well when communication feels difficult?"
"How do I protect my child's emotional well-being during a separation or divorce?"
"What should I do when my child comes home upset, overwhelmed, or confused?"
"How can I stay calm when co-parenting conflicts keep showing up?"
"Where should I focus my energy when I can't control the other parent?"

...then listen to this one for all the answers.

Creating a safe, steady home for your child doesn't require controlling someone else's parenting. It starts with leading your own home with confidence and consistency!

Watch the show on YouTube at ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@askmomparenting571 ⁠⁠

Gentle Parenting, Military Life & Raising Independent Kids Without a Village

Wednesday, June 3, 2026 • Duration 01:01:33

If modern parenting feels exhausting, overwhelming, or way more complicated than it needs to be, this conversation will feel like a deep breath.

In this episode, I sit down with Joy Alfred Brand for an honest conversation about gentle parenting, military family life, raising independent kids, and what it really means to lead at home without trying to control every move your child makes.

We talk about motherhood, entrepreneurship, military marriage, deployments, and the pressure so many parents feel to do everything “right” while quietly wondering why parenting feels so hard. I also share parts of my own story, going from one child to triplets, learning through Montessori, building a business, navigating military life, and slowly realizing that raising capable kids does not come from yelling, over-parenting, or managing every moment for them. It comes from leadership, structure, trust, boundaries, and letting kids build real skills inside the family.

If you’re trying to raise respectful, resilient, independent kids without losing yourself in the process, I hope this conversation gives you some encouragement and a little more confidence in the long game.

Thank you for listening and being part of this parenting community. If you like this conversation please like or comment your thoughts and subscribe for more updates.

Watch the show on YouTube at ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@askmomparenting571 ⁠⁠

Resources:

Learn how you can work with Sue at: https://www.askmomparenting.com/coaching/
Connect with Sue on Instagram at @AskMomParenting: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/askmomparenting/
Grab a copy of Sue's book, Secrets to Parenting Without Giving a F^ck: ⁠⁠https://shorturl.at/lrcF2

How to Help Your ADHD Child Before Medication: What to Try First

Season 2 · Episode 11

Wednesday, May 27, 2026 • Duration 25:59

What if your ADHD child doesn't need more reminders, but a better system?

Your child knows where the shoes go. They know the backpack needs to make it to school. And yet somehow, every morning still feels like a scavenger hunt mixed with a power struggle. In this episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest mindset shifts parents can make when it comes to ADHD: stopping the cycle of constant reminders and starting to build systems that actually support how your child’s brain works.

I’m sharing practical ways parents can create calmer routines, reduce chaos at home, and help ADHD kids build lifelong skills without turning every moment into a lecture or battle. This conversation is all about helping parents feel empowered again and showing kids that they’re capable, supported, and understood...not “the difficult one” in the family.

If you’ve ever asked yourself…

Why does my child forget things even when I know they heard me?
How do I help my ADHD child without constantly yelling or nagging?
Is my child being lazy… or genuinely stuck?
What can I do at home before jumping straight to medication?
How do I create routines that actually work for my child’s brain?
Why do mornings and transitions feel so exhausting in our house?
How can I help my child become more independent over time?

…then listen to this one for all the answers.

Small shifts at home can change the entire tone of parenting! This episode will help you start looking at your child, and your systems, through a completely different lens.

Watch the show on YouTube at ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@askmomparenting571 ⁠⁠

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