Explore every episode of the podcast Aren't Ya Tired Of? Smart Conversations for Living & Working Well

Send us Fan Mail

Starting something new? Whether it's a new job or career phase, becoming a parent, or taking on any new challenge, those first few months can bring a lot of pressure to get it right.

In this episode, Patti & Mark share practical advice for getting off to a great start without falling into common traps like trying to do too much, having all the answers, or relying on what worked before.

They discuss why it's important to learn before making changes, build relationships, get clear on what success looks like, and find those small wins that build confidence and momentum.

The goal of your first three months isn't to have all the answers or be perfect. It's to learn, build trust, and set yourself up for what's next.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Asking for help can feel awkward—especially when you’re asking for advice, an introduction, or a favor. But a good ask can open doors and build valuable relationships.

In this episode, Patti & Mark share what they’ve learned from being on both sides of the ask. They discuss who to approach, the difference between an advice giver and a connector, and why being clear about what you need makes it easier for others to help.

They also share the small things that matter—from making initial outreach easy to remembering to a thank you, following through, and sharing progress.

Asking for help doesn’t have to feel transactional. Done well, it can start a valuable relationship—and be an important part of learning, growing, and creating your next chapter.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

We all get some bad career advice—but every once in a while, someone tells you something that really sticks.

In this episode, Patti & Mark share some of the best career advice they’ve received—and why they still rely on it today.

From “just because you can solve a problem doesn’t mean you should,” to “be brief, be concise, and be gone,” to “your work can’t speak for itself,” - we’ve learned that sometimes the simplest advice can completely change how we approach our work.

We share the career advice that has stayed with us, why it matters, and how you can put it to work in your own career.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

You know what you need to do... so why aren't you doing it? And why does putting it off feel so good—until it doesn't?

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, Patti and Mark take a fresh look at procrastination. Instead of getting down on yourself for lacking discipline, they explore what procrastination is trying to tell you. Is it fear of failure? Perfectionism? Uncertainty? Or simply avoiding something uncomfortable?

They also share practical ideas that work—from taking a very small first step, setting attainable goals, creating momentum, and knowing when procrastination is actually a wise pause instead of avoidance. Whether you've been putting off a difficult conversation, a career move, or that one task you've ignored for weeks, this episode will help you stop waiting for inspiration and get moving.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

“We need to talk.” Nobody likes hearing those words—but being the one who has to say them can be even harder.

In this episode, Patti & Mark share practical ways to give honest, useful feedback to coworkers, team members, or friends without avoiding the conversation, watering down your message, or being too harsh. Being honest with someone shows respect—that you care about their growth, development, or the relationship.

Learn how to get clear on your intent and what you really want to say—and how to handle the conversation if it doesn’t go as planned.

Giving honest feedback that opens up a conversation takes courage, but when handled with care, it can make a real difference.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

What does your team wish they could tell you—but probably won’t? In this episode, we flip the usual leadership conversation and share 10 things your team really wants you to know.

From admitting when you don’t have the answer and cutting the corporate speak to asking for their input, giving feedback in real time, and being clear about what you actually want people to do, these practical reminders will make you a better leader—and make life easier for everyone on your team.

Whether you manage one person or an entire organization, this episode will help you see your leadership from your team's perspective. 

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Does your career need a quick tune-up? In this episode, Patti & Mark share some of their favorite practical ideas for building a great career—whether you want to advance or simply have a bigger impact.

They share why your career moves should be stepping stones, not parking spots, how letting others know your goals can open doors, and why great performance can create more freedom at work. Plus, they cover mentors vs. sponsors, thinking beyond your company’s org chart, and other small shifts that can make you even better.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Ever end the day wondering where all your time went—and why you still didn’t get enough done? Being productive isn’t always the same as spending your time on what truly matters.

In this episode, Patti and Mark look at time differently—not as a schedule to manage, but as a limited resource to spend wisely. They share practical hacks for deciding what deserves your time, making better use of small pockets of time, setting expectations and boundaries, and finding realistic ways to get more of what matters done.

Because you can’t manufacture more time—but you can be more intentional about how you use it.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Artificial intelligence (AI) is everywhere—and depending on who you ask, it's either exciting, overwhelming, or you'd rather avoid altogether.

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, we're skipping the hype and talking about AI the way most of us actually experience it. We're not AI experts—we're simply sharing the practical ways AI has helped us think better, work faster, solve everyday problems, and make life a little easier.

We'll share how we use AI, where we don't rely on it, and why human judgment, relationships, and wisdom still matter most.

Whether you're AI-curious or already using it, you'll leave with simple ideas and our thoughts on how it may fit your life.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

What if the hardest part of making a decision isn't choosing—it's being afraid you'll make the wrong decision? That fear keeps us waiting for certainty that rarely comes.

In this episode, Patti and Mark are joined by the Chief People Officer of Varsity Brands, Martha May, to explore why ambiguity feels so uncomfortable and why our brains crave certainty—even when it isn't possible. Together, they share practical ways to make thoughtful and wise decisions without having all the answers, including the 70/30 rule, taking smaller steps, and knowing when "good enough" is enough.

If you've ever found yourself overthinking, waiting for one more piece of information, or feeling stuck because the future isn't clear, this conversation will help you stop chasing certainty and start moving forward with greater confidence.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

What should you do if your manager consistently ignores your work-schedule boundaries? Or you keep bringing your own issues into the advice you give others? Or you need more tips for how to practice giving presentations? This episode is built around your questions and issues.

Patti and Mark answer your questions about becoming a better speaker, setting expectations with your manager, taking the very first step toward a meaningful change, separating your own issues from advice you give your kids, and navigating a workplace culture where you don't feel you can be yourself. Real questions, practical ideas, and the kind of conversation that reminds you that you're not the only one.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Do you hate small talk? What if the problem isn't the small talk—it's how you've been thinking about it?

Whether it's a social event, family gathering, or work party you have to attend, those conversations don't have to drain your energy. In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of...?, Patti and Mark share that a little pre-planning and keeping your curiosity are the secrets to better conversations. They also explore why small talk doesn't have to be so painful and how a few simple techniques can help you feel more comfortable, make it easier, and even enjoy those events you used to dread. 

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Are you tired of having a boring social life?

As life gets busier, it's easy for friendship, fun, and connection to take a back seat. In this episode, Patti and Mark explore why having a full life isn't just about work and responsibilities—it's also about spending time with family, friends, and the people who matter most. And, having fun.

They share practical ideas for creating more connection, fun, avoiding common obstacles, and building a social life that fits who you are today.

Because your social life doesn't have to look like anyone else's. Create a full life that's just the way you want it. 

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Most leaders have private moments when they're unsure about the next step, question their decisions, or even wonder if they are the right person for the role. The challenge is that very few of us talk about it.

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark are joined by leadership expert Neena Newberry to explore the hidden doubts many managers and leaders face—from making important decisions with incomplete information to feeling pressure to appear confident when they're anything but.

Together, they share practical tools for navigating uncertainty, building self-assurance, and leading effectively even when you don't think you have all the answers. 

Because great leadership isn't about feeling confident all the time—it's about knowing how to move forward.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

You spend months planning it. You count down the days. You tell yourself this vacation will be perfect!

So why do you come home exhausted?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of, Patti and Mark unpack how we can sabotage our long-awaited vacations. From becoming the cruise director and bad cases of FOMO to checking work "just in case" to not being in sync with your fellow travelers.

They share funny travel stories, vacation fails, and practical tips for creating a trip that matches what you actually need—whether that's adventure, family time, relaxation, or simply a break from being responsible for everyone else.

If you've ever returned home with some great photos, but you feel exhausted - this episode is for you. Because you deserve a true vacation —not just a trip.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Somewhere along the way, did you become responsible for... well, everyone?

Your kids. Your parents. The family calendar. The fundraiser. The birthday gifts. And somehow, you're still expected to keep up with everything at work too. No wonder you're exhausted!

In this episode, Patti and Mark are joined by Catie Keogh, Emmy Award winner and social media favorite on Empty Nest and College Humor. Together, they explore what happens when being the dependable one starts to feel like carrying the weight of everyone else's world.

With plenty of humor and honesty, they unpack the guilt, pressure, and invisible labor that so many of us take on without even realizing it. They talk about asking for help, setting boundaries, letting go of perfection, and finding more laughter in the middle of the mess.

Because maybe the goal isn't to stop caring. Maybe it's to stop believing you have to carry everyone all by yourself.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Graduation season isn’t just for graduates. It’s for all of us. It has a way of making us stop and ask: Am I living the life I thought I would? And is it still the life I want now?

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of?, we unpack the graduation advice that still matters. Mark and Patti talk about graduation memories, life’s “cliff moments,” pressure to have it all figured out, what we’re really wired to do, and what we’d say to our younger selves - now that we’ve lived a little more life.

Because maybe it’s not too late to reset your direction, rethink what matters, or stop being so hard on yourself. No cap and gown required.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

You show up for everyone else—but are you always at the bottom of your own list?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…?, Patti and Mark explore the habits and patterns of always putting yourself last—and the toll it takes on you. What looks like helpfulness or dependability can actually be driven by extreme responsibility, guilt, approval-seeking, and the pressure to make everything perfect - often at your own expense.

They break down how to recognize it, why it matters, and what to do about it—so you can stop running on empty and start showing up differently.

Because if nothing changes, you pay the price.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

What does The Devil Wears Prada teach us about bad managers?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…, Patti and Mark break down the profiles of the difficult managers—from the “Miranda Priestly” moody bully to micromanagers, credit takers, non-decision makers, and the conflict avoiders.

They unpack the most common bad manager behaviors—unclear expectations, control, lack of feedback, and workplace stress—to determine what’s really driving them and what to do about it. They share practical strategies and ideas to help you navigate a bad manager, keep your confidence, and stay in control of your career.

Because the real question isn’t just “Why are they like this?”
It’s “What do I do about it?”

If you’ve ever wondered, “How can I deal with this manager?" —this episode is for you

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

This episode is 100% driven by your questions—and hitting on themes many of us are struggling with.

In this episode, Patti and Mark give their take on what to do with:

•  The “hero manager” who creates chaos just to fix it 
•  Being addicted to being busy when you work in a culture that rewards busy
•  Phone addiction when your phone feels like your best friend
•  The emotional toll of job searching 
•  How to know when it’s time to leave your job and find a new one

If you’ve been feeling stuck, stretched thin, or unsure about your next move, Mark and Patti have ideas and tips that will help.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Ever think, “I’m just not good at presentations”… or worse, “What if I mess this up?”

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…, Patti and Mark break down the real reason presentations feel so stressful—and it’s not what you think. It’s not just nerves. It’s how we’re approaching them.

They share the shifts that actually build confidence: stop performing and start connecting, focus on your message (not your slides), and practice in a way that makes you sound natural—not scripted.

If you’ve ever overprepared the wrong way, rushed to get through it, or avoided speaking altogether—this will change how you think about presenting.

Because great speakers aren’t born—they’re built. And you can get there too. 

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Ever walk away from a conversation thinking… “Wait—what do you mean? What exactly am I supposed to do?”

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…, Patti and Mark unpack the frustration of fuzzy, unclear feedback—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. You know someone is trying to tell you something … but it’s not landing.

Why don’t we ask?

They dig into what’s really holding us back (it’s not just confidence), the hidden cost of staying quiet, and why those “I should’ve asked…” moments keep happening.

And here’s the shift—stay curious, ask better questions, and actually listen. Not to react… but to understand.

Because once you’re clear on the feedback, then you get to decide what to do with it.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Feel like your day is nothing but bad meetings—with nothing to show for it?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark call out the real problem: too many meetings that waste time, stall decisions, and leave you doing your actual work after hours - because you're in meetings all day!

They break down the signs of bad meetings —and more importantly, how to fix them. From deciding if a meeting should even happen to leading a meeting that actually creates results, this episode is your guide to taking back control and eliminating bad meetings!

If your calendar is full but your progress isn’t, this one’s for you.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Are you acting like your parents—and don’t even realize it?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark, along with guest, Charlotte Ntreh, explore the subtle—and funny—ways “parent energy” shows up in how we talk, behave at work, and interact socially.

From outdated phrases to workplace habits and social quirks, they break down where it shows up and why it matters. Plus, a quick quiz to see just how strong your “parent tendencies” really are.

Because sometimes it’s cringe… and sometimes it’s wisdom worth keeping.

Be you—but at least know when your parent vibes are showing up.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Why is there so much bad career advice and life advice out there?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of…, Patti and Mark unpack how advice is everywhere—from social media and podcasts to friends, coworkers, and online “experts.” But more advice doesn’t always lead to better decisions. The key is using your own personal algorithm to filter out what fits and what doesn't fit you. They explore three keys for evaluating advice: is it credible, relevant, and aligned with your values and goals? And, is it true?

Advice can be a wonderful gift and essential for growing and reaching your goals- even advice that may not be what you wanted to hear.

If you struggle with too much information, direction, and advice from the world, this episode will help you design your own filter so it's not so overwhelming.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Change can be exciting or scary —but it can also bring up one big question: what if I can’t do it?

In this episode of Aren’t Ya Tired Of?, Patti and Mark tackle one of the biggest barriers to change: the doubts and fears that stop us before we even start. Whether you’re thinking about a new job, launching a business, moving somewhere new, or leading change at work, the hardest part is often getting past the voice in your head that says you’re not ready.

Patti shares insights from years of advising leaders and studying how people successfully make change happen. Patti and Mark talk about why our brains resist change, how to sort through the worries that hold us back, and why starting small can be the key to making big things happen.

If you’ve ever thought, maybe someday… but I’m not ready yet, this conversation is for you.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

You don’t need to reinvent yourself. You need to evolve.

People sometimes joke that we have a “Snoop & Martha vibe.” That got us thinking—not just about them, but about how to follow their lead and evolve over time without losing who you are.

In this episode, co-hosts Patti Johnson and Mark Benton, tackle growth and giving yourself permission to change. From evolving without losing your core identity to embracing the unexpected, expanding your circle, forgetting imposter syndrome, and turning stereotypes into strengths—this conversation is about avoiding “ordinary” and stepping into what’s next. All with inspiration from Snoop Dogg & Martha Stewart.

If you’re ready to rethink how you evolve, grow, partner, and show up - join us! This episode is for you.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

In this episode of Aren't Ya Tired Of?..., Mark Benton and Patti Johnson explore the frustrations of managing draining personalities and dynamics in any group. If you recognize the Meeting Hijacker, Side Chatter, Brager, Sly Operator, Bus Driver or the Kiss Up - this episode is for you. And, office politics isn’t limited to just business—it's anywhere humans work together.

Mark & Patti break down what it is, why it survives even virtually, the personas that drain you, and practical cheat codes to keep your energy and authenticity. In this episode, you’ll learn how to spot workplace politics in all settings and any type of group. You'll leave with practical, smart strategies that safeguard your energy and keep your focus on the work — not on the personalities around you.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Do you struggle with always second-guessing yourself at work and in life? Ever make a choice or have a conversation… and then replay it for hours? Sometimes second-guessing yourself even before it happens? In this episode of Aren’t You Tired Of?, we sit down with leadership coach Ryan Halverson to explore self-trust and why it’s so hard to feel good about our decisions.

We explore the kind of second-guessing that drains your energy and keeps you off balance. The quiet replaying of conversations so your thoughts overtake you.

This conversation isn’t about surface-level confidence. It’s about decision-making, self-trust, and why so many capable, thoughtful people struggle to back themselves. If you’re tired of questioning yourself long after the moment has passed, this episode is for you.

Ryan Halverson brings more than 10 years of coaching and consulting experience across healthcare, financial services, insurance, technology, and nonprofit organizations. We're thrilled he brought his wisdom to this important conversation. Learn more about his work at ryanhalverson.com.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

As you kick off the new year—setting resolutions, goals, and plans—there’s a familiar tension: you want change, but you also want certainty. In this episode, Patti and Mark explore how playing it safe can get in your way in small but important ways.

Through a quick self-check, real stories, and practical strategies, they unpack the hidden cost of comfort and share simple, grounded ways to take smarter risks.

If this is the year you stop saying “someday,” this conversation will help you start making the changes you’ve been putting off.

Because the biggest risk isn’t failure—it’s playing it so safe you never try.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

In this episode of Aren’t Ya’ Tired Of…?, Patti Johnson and Mark Benton dig into one of our most common — and sneakiest — habits: being addicted to busyness. This isn’t just having a lot to do. It’s the feeling that if you’re not constantly busy, you’re not important, productive, or needed — and the subtle ways we create busyness even when we don’t have to.

Patti and Mark explore why so many of us chase full calendars, say “yes” when we’re already overloaded, or feel guilty when we slow down. Drawing on research and real-life experience, they unpack the identity, dopamine loops, fears, and avoidance patterns that keep us in motion.

You’ll also hear the real impact of busyness — on your creativity, leadership, and well-being — plus practical ideas to break the cycle: reclaiming your calendar, creating space, saying no sooner, stopping at “done,” and leading in a way that doesn’t spread the busyness habit to everyone around you.

A smart, funny, and real conversation that helps you grab the wheel on your time and your life — one small decision at a time.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.

Send us Fan Mail

Join Mark Benton — VP of HR with experience at companies like PepsiCo and now McKesson  — and Patti Johnson, former CEO, Board member, bestselling author, and strategic coach and advisor — for smart, funny, and real conversations about the things we’re all tired of — and, most importantly, what to do about them.

They first worked together at Accenture and now bring their humor, honesty, and experience to topics that hit home — like being addicted to busyness, expecting too much of yourself (and everyone else), and finding your voice.

It’s not their first rodeo — which is exactly why their insights and fresh ideas work in real life, helping you work and live just a little better.

Please leave a review, subscribe, and share this with anyone who needs to hear this conversation! Check out Aren't Ya Tired Of on YouTube, and follow us on Instagram at arentyatiredof_social.  Send your topic suggestions to podcast@pattibjohnson.com or through DM on LinkedIn or Instagram.