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Anger Management: Practical Tools to Control Anger

Alastair Duhs | Anger Management Expert

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Frequency: 1 episode/7d. Total Eps: 102

Learning anger management is easy. Applying it in the moments that matter is the hard part. The Anger Management Podcast helps you turn anger management principles into real-world results. Hosted by anger expert Alastair Duhs, each episode delivers practical tools, proven strategies and straightforward guidance to help you control anger, stop losing your temper, and stay calm under pressure. You'll learn how to identify anger triggers, improve emotional regulation, communicate more effectively during conflict, understand the root causes of anger and develop healthier responses when emotions run high. Whether you're struggling with recurring frustration, explosive reactions, relationship conflict, parenting challenges, or the feeling that anger keeps coming back despite your best efforts, this show provides practical anger management strategies you can use immediately. If you're looking for an anger management podcast focused on real-life solutions rather than theory, you're in the right place. New episodes every week. Popular episode topics: Anger Management, How to Control Anger, Anger Triggers, Staying Calm Under Pressure, Emotional Regulation, Managing Frustration, the Anger Iceberg, Conflict Resolution, the Root Cause of Anger and Healthy Responses to Anger.

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103 - Your Arguments Are Never About What You Think

Sunday, October 18, 2026 • Duration 10:55

For help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/.

Two weeks after the last argument, you are having it again. Different trigger, same fight, same ending. In this episode, Alastair explains why the argument was never about the thing you were arguing about, and shows you the pattern running underneath it.

If you keep having the same fight in different clothes, if your partner goes quiet and withdraws after you have spoken to them, or if your kids tiptoe around you after a row, you will recognise this pattern.

You will learn the three roles people fall into when conflict starts: the persecutor who blames and criticises, the victim who feels powerless and deflects responsibility, and the rescuer who smooths things over and stops the real issue being addressed.

The pattern has a name, the Drama Triangle. The part most people miss is that nobody stays in one role. Alastair walks through one argument over a burnt dinner where a husband and wife switch through all three roles in minutes, and both go to bed feeling like the victim. He also gives you the one question that starts to break the cycle: not what role were they in, but what role was I in?

The Anger Management Podcast helps men and women master anger management, improve healthy conflict resolution, repair relationships after arguments, and create calmer, happier homes.

Hosted by anger specialist Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

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102 - 3 Simple Skills To Control Your Anger

Sunday, October 11, 2026 • Duration 10:24

For help controlling your anger, visit https://angersecrets.com/.

You know you should stay calm. You promise yourself you will. Then something happens and you are already shouting before you have decided to. In this episode, Alastair explains why controlling your anger is not one big act of willpower, but three small skills most people have never been shown.

If your anger feels like a switch that flips out of nowhere, if your jaw tightens or your voice changes without you noticing, or if you only realise you have lost your temper once the damage is done, you are not alone.

You will learn three practical skills you can start using this week: how to recognise your early warning signs of anger, why slowing down for one or two seconds changes a conversation, and how knowing your anger triggers lets you prepare instead of react.

Alastair shares the two-word technique one client used to force a pause, starting his next sentence with "I think" or "I feel". His wife noticed the difference within weeks. You will also hear about a dad whose anger felt like it came from nowhere, until he learned to spot his shoulders creeping up and his answers getting shorter.

The Anger Management Podcast helps men and women master anger management, stay calm under pressure, manage anger triggers, and build calmer, happier relationships.

Hosted by anger specialist Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

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101 - Is Your Anger Tearing Your Marriage Apart? 5 Things to Do Right Now

Sunday, October 4, 2026 • Duration 12:26

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Is anger creating distance in your marriage? Maybe your partner has started walking on eggshells around you, conversations keep turning into arguments, or you feel like you're drifting further apart despite wanting things to be different.

In this episode, I share five practical steps you can take today to start repairing your relationship. You'll learn how to take responsibility without blaming yourself, communicate instead of making assumptions, listen in a way that rebuilds trust, reconnect with your partner, and stop small disagreements from becoming major conflicts.

You'll discover:

Why taking responsibility is the first step toward rebuilding trust.
How assumptions quietly create unnecessary conflict in relationships.
The listening skill that can completely change the way you and your partner communicate.
Why making intentional time for your marriage matters more than you think.
One simple question that can stop unnecessary arguments before they cause lasting damage.

If your anger is hurting your marriage, this episode will give you practical tools to strengthen your relationship, improve communication, and begin creating a calmer, happier home.

The Anger Management Podcast helps men and women gain control of destructive anger, improve emotional regulation, strengthen relationships and create calmer, happier lives. Hosted by Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

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100 - Is This Just Who I Am? 10 Stories That Prove You Can Control Your Anger.

Sunday, September 27, 2026 • Duration 10:23

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Have you ever found yourself thinking: "Maybe this is just who I am?". If you've tried to control your anger before and slipped back into old patterns, you're not alone. It's one of the biggest reasons people stop believing lasting change is possible.

In this special episode, I share the stories of 10 real people who once believed they were too far gone to change. They'd spent years making promises, apologizing after angry outbursts, and wondering if things would ever be different. Today, they're calmer, happier, and rebuilding the relationships that matter most.

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Why self-doubt keeps so many people trapped in the anger cycle.
What changed for these 10 men and women—and why their progress happened faster than they expected.
How learning practical anger management skills transformed their marriages, families, and daily lives.
Why lasting change comes from following a structured process, not relying on willpower alone.

If you've started believing your anger is simply part of who you are, let these stories remind you that change is possible, and that it's never too late to begin.

The Anger Management Podcast helps men and women gain control of destructive anger, improve emotional regulation, strengthen relationships, and create calmer, happier lives. Hosted by Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

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99 - Do I Have an Anger Problem? 5 Questions to Help You Find Out

Sunday, September 20, 2026 • Duration 11:12

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Have you ever wondered "Do I have an anger problem?". You don't have to be shouting, throwing things or losing control for anger to be quietly damaging your relationships, your family, and your peace of mind.

In this episode, I answer the five most important questions people ask about anger. You'll discover what anger really is, why it happens, when it's helpful, how to recognize when it's becoming a problem, and the practical steps you can take to regain control.

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What anger really is - and why it's an emotion, not a behavior.
Why your thoughts create anger more than the situations you face.
When anger can be useful - and when it damages your relationships.
The warning signs that your anger may be affecting your partner, children, or work.
Three practical ways to start controlling your anger before it controls you.

If you've been told you have an anger problem (or you've started asking yourself that question) this episode will help you understand what's really happening and show you where to begin.

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98 - Three Things to Do Before Your Anger Takes Over

Sunday, September 13, 2026 • Duration 10:43

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Have you ever wondered why your anger seems to take over before you even realise what's happening? The truth is, there is a brief moment when you still have a choice - and what you do in that moment can change everything.

In this episode, I share three simple strategies you can use before anger takes over. You'll learn how to recognise your body's early warning signs, ask one powerful question that interrupts angry reactions and shift your focus in a way that can transform your conversations and your relationships.

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How to recognise the physical warning signs that anger is building.
The one question that helps stop anger before it escalates.
Why curiosity is more powerful than defensiveness during conflict.
How these simple habits can strengthen your marriage, improve family relationships, and help you stay calm under pressure.

If you've ever found yourself wondering, "How did I lose my temper again?" this episode will give you practical tools to interrupt the anger cycle before it turns into another argument.

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97 - "Don't Take It Personally" Is Useless Advice - Here's What Actually Works

Sunday, September 6, 2026 • Duration 12:16

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Have you ever been told "Don't take it personally"? It's advice almost everyone has heard - but almost nobody explains how to do it.

The truth is, taking things personally isn't a character flaw or a sign you're too sensitive. It's a pattern. And once you understand why it happens, you can stop reacting defensively, handle criticism more calmly, and build stronger, healthier relationships.

In this episode, I explain why people take things personally and share two simple principles that can change the way you respond when someone criticises you, snaps at you or says something that hurts. You'll hear real stories from clients who learned to stop assuming every comment was a personal attack, communicate more effectively, and create calmer relationships at work and at home.

We'll explore:

Why most criticism says more about the other person than it does about you.
How to tell the difference between a personal attack and feedback that's worth listening to.
Why getting defensive keeps you stuck - and what to do instead.
Practical ways to build emotional control, reduce anger, and respond with confidence under pressure.

If you often replay conversations in your head, feel hurt by criticism, or struggle not to take things personally, this episode will give you practical tools you can start using today.

The Anger Management Podcast helps men and women gain control of destructive anger, improve emotional regulation, strengthen relationships, and build calmer, happier lives. Hosted by Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

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96 - His Daughter Sat Him Down at Christmas. Eighteen Months Later, Everything Had Changed.

Sunday, August 30, 2026 • Duration 17:13

For help controlling your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

One Christmas, Michael's daughter finally told him what decades of uncontrolled anger had done to their family. Eighteen months later, his life (and his relationships) look very different.

For years, Michael believed everyone else was the problem. He could control his temper at work, but at home his wife and daughter experienced a very different side of him. After a painful Christmas conversation and weeks of follow-up emails from his daughter, he reached a point where he knew something had to change.

In this episode, Michael shares how he learned to take responsibility for his anger instead of blaming other people, why controlling anger turned out to be easier than he expected, and how lasting change comes from understanding the real causes of anger rather than simply trying to suppress it.

We also talk about rebuilding trust after anger, repairing relationships that have been damaged over many years, and why personal change has to be driven by your own values—not by waiting for someone else to forgive or acknowledge you.

If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to change, whether your marriage can recover after years of anger, or whether your family can learn to trust you again, Michael's story offers hope, honesty, and practical insight.

The Anger Management Podcast helps men gain control of destructive anger before it damages their marriage, family, and future. Each episode explores anger management, anger control, emotional regulation, healthier relationships, and practical strategies that create calmer, happier, and more connected lives. Hosted by Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System.

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95 - 10 Rules to Control Your Anger for Good

Sunday, August 23, 2026 • Duration 12:52

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Most people think anger management is about calming down after they've already lost control. But if that's all you're focusing on, you're missing the bigger picture.

Lasting anger control isn't built on a single technique. It's built on a set of principles that change how you think about anger, responsibility, communication and self-control. In this episode, I share the 10 rules I've taught clients for more than 30 years to help them gain lasting control over their anger.

You'll learn why awareness is the foundation of anger management, how your thoughts create your emotional reactions, why anger and aggressive behavior are not the same thing, and how taking responsibility for your actions builds stronger relationships. I also explain the tension scale, the importance of listening skills, and why seeking to understand is often more powerful than trying to win an argument.

Whether you've struggled with anger for years or simply want better tools for handling frustration, these 10 rules provide a practical framework you can start applying immediately.

The Anger Management Podcast helps people gain control over destructive anger, stop losing their temper, and create calmer, healthier relationships. Hosted by Alastair Duhs, creator of The Complete Anger Management System and founder of Anger Secrets.

Resources & Next Steps:

Book a free 30-minute phone call

Access the free training on "Breaking The Anger Cycle"

Learn more about The Complete Anger Management System

94 - Why Couples Drift Apart (And the 6 Hours a Week That Can Change Everything)

Sunday, August 16, 2026 • Duration 12:00

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Have you started feeling more like housemates than partners?

Most relationships don't fall apart because of one big event. They drift apart slowly through dozens of small moments of disconnection. The good news is that the same process can work in reverse.

In this episode, I share Dr. John Gottman's research-backed "Magic Six Hours" framework and the seven simple habits that help couples rebuild connection, intimacy and trust. You'll learn why small daily interactions matter more than grand romantic gestures, how to create meaningful moments of connection throughout the week and the habits that help couples stay emotionally close even during busy seasons of life.

We explore practical strategies including better daily check-ins, expressing appreciation, physical affection, quality time, stress-reducing conversations and weekly relationship reviews that prevent small problems from becoming major sources of resentment.

If you feel like you and your partner have gradually grown apart, this episode will show you how small, consistent actions can help you reconnect and strengthen your relationship.

Resources & Next Steps:

Book a free 30-minute phone call

Access the free training on "Breaking The Anger Cycle"

Learn more about The Complete Anger Management System

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