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This episode is what will lead right into the Big Reveal Video that I will be putting out next week.  In this show, I talk about the various things that have given me pause and the realization that we do in fact get too old for some things. 

I also talk about changes in content moving forward with the YouTube channel (The Joey Hernandez Show).

I hope you enjoy this episode, and that you laugh along with me.

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This is one of my favorite episodes. It is 100% true. I apologize that the audio is so loud at times, this was pulled from a video on the YouTube channel. I decided that this STORYTIME, as I told it on the video, was just too perfect the way I told it, that I decided not to re-record it.

If you like the STORYTIMEs, I know you will LOVE this!

In today's episode, I give you two subjects: "Sucking Your Own D." & "Gym Cruising Etiquette". The first part came about because of reading various postings by straight guys who insist that even if they could suck their own dick, they would not because it is SO GAY ?!?!?  The second part lists some rules to abide by when cruising guys in the gym.

One of the joys (being sarcastic) of being on this planet for many years, is your body changes as the years go by. While many of us will get ailments that are not a part of the regular aging process, there are many facets of getting older that are common amongst us. Let's discuss some of these commonalities that we will be facing. 

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The toenail fungus topical medicine is Ciclopirox 8 % solution (I couldn't remember the name during the taping of the show)

Being back in the gym building some muscle again, it got me thinking in the sauna the other day about a guy who I had a crush on back in the late-1980's. This is my STORYTIME of a very unusual encounter I had, that kept going in an erotic way. This guy is permanently etched in my mind, and I continually look for porn trying to find guys that look like he did. 

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Once again we turn to Reddit Stories for an interesting variety of unusual experiences that guys have had with gay encounters. Strange men and strange hook-ups. Stories to titillate, shock and offer warnings. 

This is a controversial topic, but one that I often get email about. So in this episode I first do a presentation about how to approach this important discussion. It talks about what your goals are, when is the right time to have such a conversation, what your partner's reaction might be and how to continue this subject in an open and honest way that helps protect your partner from hurt.

Then.....I give you MY opinion, which contradicts some of the info presented in the first half of the show, and gives you some 'food for thought' from my own experiences and what many clients have discussed with me. 

The taint, or perineum, is a small area of muscles that are important for male sexual health.  In this episode we talk about what the taint is, what it does, problems that can occur and prevention tools that help you stay healthy well into your senior years. 

Many older people feel overwhelmed and a bit fearful of new tech. And A.I. can be especially concerning since we have heard of the scary future potential of this tech. But maybe A.I. as it exists now, can be a useful tool to older folk, including LGBTQ+ seniors. In this episode, I introduce you to the A.I. I use most, that is named Oscar. I ask some important questions about some of the fear we have about A.I. and I ask his (its?) opinion about what it can do to assist the older LGBTQ+ community. I hope you enjoy this show. 

Life can sure be stressful and difficult at times. Sometimes we can barely catch our breath from one disaster before the next one hits us. Sometimes we feel that no matter what we do, we can't overcome certain obstacles, and we feel we can't go one...that we have to just give up. But maybe there are shifts in our perceptions and attitudes that might help relieve some of the impact of those challenging parts of life. It might be worth exploring.

My very first hospitalization in my whole life, I tell you a Story about my very unusual roommate that was brought in on my second night there and the commotion that he started with the staff.

In today's Reddit Stories, we discuss the concepts of 'Sides' and 'Soft Tops' as new terminology in the gay community.

I start the episode with a short story updating my cancer situation and what possibly resulted from the operation. 

I had an emotional, but good week. I have to tell you about it. 

This is a short episode, I have dreaded recording this one.  Please understand this is beyond my control. I do ask that you don't message me with complaints or disappointment. Again, this is beyond my control. 

There are many reasons why friendships become increasingly important as we age. This is a light-hearted look at the state of Senior LGBTQ+ people, and some suggestions on how to find lasting friendships, no matter what age we are. 

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In today's episode I update you on how Subscriptions to the YouTube Channel are going, I read answers to a question I asked of you a few weeks ago, and the very important main topic of this episode is:

Is This Normal Aging? We all forget things sometimes. But as we age, where do we draw the line on whether something is just a normal part (albeit it, annoying) of our aging process, or is something that we should be concerned about?

I think all of us (as patients, family members, or caregivers) can benefit from a short discussion about what the signs of normal aging are and how to distinguish that of dementia.

This is just for general knowledge. It is not meant to diagnose or treat any illness. Please seek a Health Care Specialist if you have any questions or concerns.

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In this conclusion of a two-part series, we talk about whether you can permanently increase the size of your dick. We discuss the psychological issues that can develop from comparing yourself to others, the effect porn has on our self-esteem and other factors that we encounter when considering our own dick size.

I conclude with talk about the average erect length and girth of dicks in the top 50 countries.

*I am trying very hard to increase the subscriptions on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube Channel. Please consider helping me get to 3000 subscribers, and then I will put out my long-promised video showing my weight-loss (52 pounds) and subsequent muscle development. And then I will posts videos about my training and my successes (or not) as I continue the quest at age 68 to get fully back in shape.*

Here is the link to the most recent video short on YouTube. It is just under 1 minute long and shows what I consider to be how the 4 main characters from Northridge High Football Camp and now in The Guys of Northridge look and speak. I enjoyed creating this very much. I think you'll think the guys are hot!

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Continuing on in this new Season 11, I FINALLY give you an episode(s) that I have discussed doing for several years. I offer to you, a two-part exploration of D*ck Sizes around the globe and the issues and problems that arise because of expectations and societal pressures.

There will be four distinct areas discussed. Two in this first episode of the series and two in the last. Additionally, at the conclusion of the two parts, I will give a breakdown of 42 countries that have been studied regarding this subject and I will list all 42 from the largest to the smallest dicks, including measurements. Where will YOUR Country fall on the list?

Help me reach 3000 subscribers on An Older Gay Guy Show YouTube Channel !              Once I reach 3000, I will post a video showing my 52 pound weight loss and show off the muscles that I have once again started to have show.  I worked hard to achieve this from age 65 until now (soon to be 68), and I will proudly show you what I now look like. I will also show you the new gym set-up here in the basement of our new house.                                                          To SUBSCRIBE, click the link below !

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Welcome to Season 11 ! To start us off this season is a Reddit Stories episode that talks about Erectile Dysfunction and problems getting boners.  The men in the posts I will read have all kinds of reasons they feel it is becoming more and more common for gay men to experience problems getting and staying hard, specifically when it comes to topping someone.

The question I pose at the conclusion is to get YOUR opinions, experiences and possible solutions to this issue. You can send your comments and stories to:

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A brief episode to conclude Season 10, and I give you my latest idea for something that can be a lot of fun in the new season. BUT, and it's a BIG BUT(T), it depends on your participation! 

So many ideas I have had over the years for trying something new fizzle out because I only hear from the same dozen guys over-and-over. This will require NEW guys participating (and still my regular dozen guys too!)

So give this a listen, and see if you can overcome your hesitancy and respond. The more the merrier!

This is my year-end episode outlining some important plans for the 2026 Season 11 of An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast & YouTube channel, as well as the Jockstrap Stories podcast reading of The Guys of Northridge, the sequel book to Northridge High Football Camp.

Joey is joined by Joefer from The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show, to reminse about some of the annual Christmas Specials that we watched as kids from the 1960's and 1970's. This is the conclusion of the series.

This is Part 2 of a 2-part series.

There is a VIDEO of this show, available on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube Channel !

Watch the Christmas Show - Part 2 HERE

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In this episode I offer up some very strange things that happened recently with cancer. It's kinda weird and kinda funny.

Joey is joined by Joefer from The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show, to reminse about some of the annual Christmas Specials that we watched as kids from the 1960's and 1970's.

This is Part 1 of a 2-Part series.

 There is a VIDEO of this show, available on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube Channel !

Watch the Christmas Show HERE:

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Returning to a Reddit Stories episode, today we hear a couple of very detailed experiences of guys that went skinny-dipping with a straight friend and what can happen when two hot guys get naked together and leave their inhibitions along with the pile of all their clothes. 

**These are VERY detailed erotic stories. These stories are for 18+ only**

I wanted to give you an update of what has been going on and how it will affect my shows, both An Older Gay Guy Show podcast and the Jockstrap Stories podcast, through the end of the year.

In this episode I share some various points we might want to think about if we are attracted to someone 15 or more years older/younger than ourselves. I tried to look at the positive as well as the negative in this presentation. The episode concludes with some Reddit comments on the subject. 

This concludes Sweeps Period 2025! Thank you for joining me. 

Continuing on where we left off in Part 1, Joefer and I talk about other Vintage TV Shows that we grew up with and loved.

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A news bulletin about something coming up in my life. 

Today I am joined by a wonderful, yet cranky, gentleman who has a popular YouTube Channel named 'The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show'. Joefer joins me for a two-part episode series discussing our favorite vintage tv shows that we grew up with (Joefer is 5 years younger than myself, so we watched many of the same shows).

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The conclusion of my 3-part conversation with JoJo Bear.

JoJo Bear is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Educator in the San Francisco Bay area. JoJo uses somatic coaching, sexological bodywork, and hypnotherapy as tools to help people get out of their "heads" and into their bodies! His commitment is to create an environment where men, single or coupled, can feel safe enough to explore their wants, needs, and desires around their body, sex, and sexuality! 

His passions include teaching the Wheel of Consent™, Belly2Belly Embodiment, and Medibation.

Learn more about JoJo !!

Continuing 2025 Sweeps, we have another Reddit Stories episode, this time the sub-Reddit is called 'I Can't Believe I Did That!'

Continuing with Sweeps Period 2025, we have Part 2 of a 3-Part Series with JoJo Bear. JoJo is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Educator in the San Francisco Bay area. JoJo uses somatic coaching, sexological bodywork, and hypnotherapy as tools to help people get out of their "heads" and into their bodies! His commitment is to create an environment where men, single or coupled, can feel safe enough to explore their wants, needs, and desires around their body, sex, and sexuality! 

Learn more about JoJo !

"Remember" James Taylor Jr.'s Website

Continuing Sweeps 2025, I know that many of you have not had the opportunity to ever listen to the Jockstrap Stories podcast. I have used that show to put out my two novels as audiobooks.

My original book Northridge High Football Camp, is on the podcast in its 12-chapter entirety.

I just started putting out the first chapters of the sequel book, the 20-chapter The Guys of Northridge which picks up 10 months after the conclusion of the first book. This is a more comphrehensive book in that it takes the original 6 characters and gives them their own backstories and adventures, giving you a deeper understanding of the characters and their motivations. 

I hope you enjoy this peek at the new book.  Thanks so much for listening to it!

Welcome to Sweeps Period 2025! To start us off, we have Part 1 of a 3-Part Series with JoJo Bear. JoJo is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Educator in the San Francisco Bay area. JoJo uses somatic coaching, sexological bodywork, and hypnotherapy as tools to help people get out of their "heads" and into their bodies! His commitment is to create an environment where men, single or coupled, can feel safe enough to explore their wants, needs, and desires around their body, sex, and sexuality! 

Learn more about JoJo:

"Remember" James Taylor Jr.'s Website

Continuing where 'A Day That Changed My Life' left off which had discussed my Elementary and Junior High experiences, this concludes with stories about my Senior High School days.

From my social life picking up when I joined the Music and Drama Departments, to my first car and the problems that developed from my too frequent skipping of school, these four years began to form who I ultimately became and taught me important life lessons.

I hope you enjoy this episode!

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As we move toward the 2025 Sweeps Period of shows, this episode speaks of what I consider the biggest issue that faces the LGBTQ+ community.

If you wish to support this show at no cost to you.....VOTE in the Podcast Awards !

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4.  It will take you to the Nomination Page.

5.  Using the drop-down menu, select An Older Gay Guy Show in the both the People's Choice category (it is the first one) and then importantly, scroll down to the LGBTQ category and vote for the show. Should you only want to vote in one category, please make it the LGBTQ category. 

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In this episode I tell a STORYTIME about something that happened to me in the late 90's.

I hesitated to tell this story because almost all of my friends thought I was being an idiot. While I often cop to being an idiot, perhaps in this story I wasn't one? I do ask for your opinion if your podcast player allows comments. If not, you can reach me at AnOlderGayGuyShow@gmail.com.

If you wish to support this show at no cost to you.....VOTE in the Podcast Awards !

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3.  Register your email (they delete it once the awards are done).

4.  It will take you to the Nomination Page.

5.  Using the drop-down menu, select An Older Gay Guy Show in the both the People's Choice category (it is the first one) and then importantly, scroll down to the LGBTQ category and vote for the show. Should you only want to vote in one category, please make it the LGBTQ category. 

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Have you started feeling invisible to those around you as you age? Are you not getting the kind of attention from people as you did when you were younger?

This is a Reddit Stories episode discussing this issue. 

In this episode, I have another INTERVIEW with LGBTQ+ musician James Taylor Jr., and we discuss his new gay anthem Remember.

Link to James' Website

REMEMBER

I have told you many stories about my life. But what I haven't told you is there was a series of events that occured that laid the groundwork for many things to come in my life. 

I am not proud of what happened, but in hindsight maybe it was all for the best. This talks about my life in elementary school and Junior High School. I will do a second part to this talking about my High School experiences in another episode. 

Today's episode is a reply to an email that I got concerning the last episode titled "Have 100 Orgasms Every Single Day!".

Are you an older gay guy that is confused and anxious that you need to learn all the new pronouns? It seems they change all the time. How is one to learn how to navigate this new set of rules??

We all want to shoot our spunk more. Instead of relying on another guy, or endlessly looking for the right porn to get us off, what if you could have an orgasm multiple times per day automatically? You don't even have to try. It just happens. Sounds amazing, doesn't it? Well, maybe not so amazing......

In previous years I had done this STORYTIME's Part 1 & Part 2 (and then deleted them), however, this is the first time I give you the conclusion of this sexually explicit adventure. 

We pick up right where we left off in Part 2.

Picking up where we left off in the last episode, I tell you what happened once I left my construction job that fateful day when I followed one of my construction buddies home.

**This is a very descriptive erotic story. Please be forewarned. **

The return of a much requested STORYTIME from a number of years ago, prior to the big 'purge' of sexual content, that I have always regretted.

This STORYTIME is from when I was just 19 years old and had taken a part-time job in construction. It tells of a little adventure that I got involved in during after hours drinking with a couple of the guys who were in their early 20's. This is Part 1 or a 3-part story. Part 2 will be on the air next week, with the brand-new Part 3 coming out a couple of weeks after that.

I hope you enjoy the show.

** Please note that there is some sexual content in this story, so steer clear of it if you are offended by descriptive guy-on-guy sex **

I have always believed that one of the reasons I am still alive despite illnesses that were supposed to shorten my life, is because of my attitude and the way I look at the world. It is so easy in today's society to get all caught up in the day-to-day negative emotions that are a result of the ever-changing world and our discomfort and inability to change with it. 

I found a few items on the internet that are in keeping with my philosophy and way-of-life. I wanted to share some of these with you today, and comment on how a few have affected my mindset and quest for life.

The Podcast has moved to a new home! Effective with this episode is the launch of the next phase of An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast. I am hoping that the majority of you who are Subscribed to the show have had your Subscription moved over along with the episodes. But, there may be some of you who will need to re-subscribe to the show. I apologize if that is the case. 

Additionally, I want to introduce you to the NEW Blog and Podcast/YouTube page that has been started to go along with the movement of the show:

AnOlderGayGuyShow.com

The above link is to the new home of the show. This will be where you can find all the information regarding An Older Gay Guy Show Podcast & YouTube content.

Here you will find the various Blog entries (several times per week), LGBTQ+ community information and articles, Photos (currently there is an entry showing photos from our first Family Christmas Party in our new house), Polls (regarding future content, etc.), info on Upcoming Shows, all my Social Media links, and info on any delays/problems with the shows.

The .com website will be replacing An Older Gay Guy Show's Facebook Page and the Blogger Blog.

Thank you for continuing to follow the shows as I make improvements to how we all interact together.

My best to you,

~Joey

Well my friends, today I start my 10th Season of An Older Gay Guy Show! I have all kinds of plans for this season, highlighted as always by my Sweeps Period which will be for the month of August (after voting for the Podcast Awards during July).

Today I start with an easy-breezy episode, which includes an edited part from one of my 'disappeared' episodes from a few years ago. This is actually what I consider a Part 2 of a video I did on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube channel that is titled 'Getting Over My Social Anxiety'. This podcast episode is a stand-alone show. It is not necessary to see the video prior to listening to this episode.

I hope you enjoy it. I tried to have some humor in the content, but there is a serious message underlying it.

This is a jam-packed episode! 

1.  I was INVESTIGATED ! ,

2.  An sexual email from a listener,

3. STORYTIME - My, (ahem) 'friend', had an amusing adventure while cruising for men on a brightly 

 moonlit Summer night. 

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Being single gets a bad rap. Over the many years that I could only manage relationships that were at the most, eight months in duration, I learned a number of lessons on how to not only accept being single, but to actually enjoy being single and in my own company. These are some of the things that I learned along the way. 

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