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05. Becoming best friends with your ex with Ori Dahan18 Oct 202401:02:47

In this episode, I sit down with my ex-partner, Ori Dahan, to explore the journey of cultivating a deep friendship after our two-year romantic relationship. We open up about the challenges and rewards of evolving our connection, sharing how we’ve both committed to working through old triggers, and how our friendship profoundly impacts our current romantic partnerships.


We also dive into…

  • Ori’s journey with healing his relationship to his sexuality and masculinity

  • Cultivating a practice of walking with prayer and holding yourself accountable to them

  • The importance of both partners being committed to the evolving friendship after a breakup 

  • Surrendering to the natural flow of love instead of forcing what no longer works

  • How releasing our romantic relationship made space for more aligned connections with others

  • The significance of spaciousness after a breakup

  • Navigating lingering dynamics from a romantic relationship

  • Determining whether developing a friendship with an ex is truly honest or not


Ori Dahan is a transformation facilitator focused on guiding individuals through embodiment, empowerment, and shadow integration. His work supports people in reclaiming their wholeness, integrating shadow aspects, and stepping into their fullest expression.


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04. Rites of Passage & accessing purpose with Jose Alejandro03 Oct 202401:04:28

In this episode, Jose explores how relationships evolve over time, discussing how being with someone for many years means witnessing multiple iterations of that person. He shares how men can find balance between showing up for partnership, leadership, and other areas of life with integrity. He offers insights into expanding our definitions of leadership to include all relationships, and how that can shift the way we show up.

We also dive into…

  • The challenges men face in being vulnerable with themselves and each other

  • Why "peak experiences" don’t always create lasting change and what works better

  • The three phases of Rite of Passage work

  • The power of severance and why clarity on what to let go of is crucial

  • The significance of intentional initiations and the destructive outcomes of lacking them

  • How to honor liminal spaces, those sacred moments of transition

  • The role of community in taking ownership of one's life

Jose Alejandro is a master certified men’s life and leadership coach, business consultant, somatic practitioner, men’s work facilitator, and rite of passage guide. He is the Co-Founder of Modern Renaissance Man, a movement empowering self-led men to master themselves and create the life they love. Over the past six years, Jose has supported hundreds of men in cultivating healthy relationships, improving well-being, increasing income, and deepening their purpose. He integrates his personal life experiences with leadership training, trauma-informed coaching, somatic practices, and ancestral wisdom to help men expand their capacity to lead and love with intention and integrity.

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03. Aggression, anger & emotional intelligence with Eric Uresk19 Sep 202400:54:21

In this episode, Eric discusses how his relationship with violence transformed throughout his life, and how martial arts have transformed the way he shows up as a partner. He delves into the value of moving toward fear rather than running away, and explains the complex relationship between vulnerability and strength. We explore why it's so necessary to become emotionally integrated for the sake of our well-being and relationships.


We also dive into…

  • The common instinct to look up when asked about feelings and what that indicates about our emotional state

  • What it feels like for the body to experience “no”

  • The role of personal responsibility in shaping a healthier masculine identity

  • How men can help their partners feel emotionally safe

  • The importance of letting go of one’s personal story to push the edges of our capacity

  • When shapeshifting is healthy approach versus a defense mechanism

Eric Uresk is a Jiu-Jitsu and Judo Blackbelt with over 20 years of martial arts and mindfulness experience. After transforming his life from a career criminal and drug addict into a world champion MMA and mindfulness coach, he’s on a mission to transform the lives of men through radical honesty, personal responsibility, and his signature Martial Arts Mindset program.


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02. The appreciation men need with Imari Tuakli 05 Sep 202401:05:45

In this episode, Imari discusses the importance of sharing ideas before they’re fully formed, as it’s through communication that our ideas evolve and take shape. We delve into how to choose the right spark of inspiration to follow when faced with many, and the significance of being guided by and nurturing a relationship with parts of ourselves beyond the mind. Imari explains what healthy masculinity means to him, and we explore how to balance masculine and feminine energies within us.

We also dive into… 

  • The complexities behind the fear of asserting boundaries

  • The role of self-trust in expressing challenging emotions

  • How the fear of being shunned by our communities stunts self-expression

  • The buildup of resentment between genders due to the patriarchy

  • The deep desire for men to feel respected and seen for their efforts

  • Why the aggressive response of feminism was a necessary step toward achieving balance

Imari Tuakli is a personal development coach and keynote speaker who has worked with thousands of artists, leaders, and entrepreneurs to bring purpose, confidence and authenticity back into their lives. He's spoken in diverse spaces from Harvard Medical School to Los Angeles Homeless Shelters, and coached audiences from federal prisoners to Silicon valley hotshots and has leveraged social media to bring his ideas to over half a billion viewers.

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01. Integrating the masculine shadow with Chris Orozco22 Aug 202401:12:34

In this episode, Chris shares his unique approach to shadow work, purpose, and polarity, drawing from his experiences overcoming a profound mental health crisis that nearly ended his life. Chris introduces the framework that informs the deep work he does with his clients, which he began to develop over 12 years ago.

We also dive into… 

  • The distinction between “shadow work” and “shadow integration” 

  • The deeply ingrained societal patterns of shame that many men silently face

  • Divorcing ourselves from the idea that your purpose is a “job” rather than a feeling 

  • How polarity teachings are often warped and misconstrued

  • Bridging the gap between the infinite and the finite 

  • The importance of playfulness in validating and integrating the shadow parts of ourselves

Chris’ passion for freedom and self expression and his experiences overcoming anxiety and depression have provided the foundation for truly understanding the inner workings of the personality. His keen eye, natural curiosity and desire for a world full of free people fuel his compassionate and fun method of connecting you to your deepest self and send you on the path to finding and living your purpose.

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00. Where are all the good men? With Fabienne Annick15 Aug 202400:14:22

In this introductory episode, we begin to unravel the question that inspired this podcast; “Where are all the good men?” We explore the concept of what it means to be a man in today’s day and age, and why it’s crucial to dispel the narrative that masculinity is inherently toxic. I also explain who I am, what my mission is, and elaborate on why I, as a woman, have devoted my career to being a men’s coach. 

I’m so grateful that you found your way to this podcast, and I hope it serves to remind you of the core truth that, indeed, good men are everywhere. Let’s dive in. 


A Gift: 

  • I’ve created a free guided 20 minute practice specifically designed to support men in starting the day with clarity, embodiment, focus & intention. You can download it here! 


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07. Exploring masculinity through psychedelics with Ismail Ali14 Nov 202401:05:41

In this episode, Ismail Ali comes on to explore the nuances of psychedelics and how they impact the human experience. We discuss the multi-layered impact that altered states of consciousness can have on our relationship with ourselves and with the world, including our gender identity and expression. 


We also dive into…

  • Reframing our use of the term “recreational” in the context of drug use 

  • Recognizing that we have more agency than we’ve been led to believe 

  • The illusion of “safety” and how it prevents us from growing 

  • The purpose of the spiritual path as increasing our capacity to sit with discomfort 

  • Why plant medicines get gendered 

  • Post-binary thinking as the evolution of our consciousness 

  • Suffering as an innate part of the human condition 

  • Removing the mediator between us and The Divine 


Ismail Lourido Ali, JD (he/him or they/them) has been personally utilizing psychedelics and other substances in celebratory and spiritual contexts for over half his life, and has been actively participating in the drug policy reform movement for a decade. As the Director of Policy & Advocacy at the Multidisciplinary Association of Psychedelic Studies (MAPS), Ismail supports the design, building, and implementation of psychedelic policy reform across the country and world. Ismail co-founded and co-chairs the Board of the Psychedelic Bar Association and is licensed to practice law in the state of California. Ismail advises, is formally affiliated with, or has served in leadership roles for numerous organizations in the drug policy ecosystem, including Students for Sensible Drug Policy, Chacruna Institute, the Ayahuasca Defense Fund, and Alchemy Community Therapy Center (formerly Sage Institute).

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06. Creating safety within with Soma Miller31 Oct 202400:54:03

In this episode, Soma Miller shares a transformative vision for modern masculinity, discussing how men can redefine their relationship to themselves and others through deep inner work. He explores the power of reparenting the nervous system, emphasizing the importance of meeting childhood needs to prevent unconscious void-filling. Soma brings a unique “East meets West” perspective to his coaching, blending indigenous wisdom, shadow work, and somatic practices.


We also dive into…

  • How safety and challenge work together to foster healing and growth
  • A man’s relationship to the feminine as a mirror of his inner world
  • The influence of Lakota traditions and connecting to nature as a masculine balance
  • Why mentorship and community spaces model healthy nervous systems
  • How fatherhood reshaped his understanding of masculinity
  • Embracing and honoring the unconscious self with reverence for the feminine
  • Navigating confrontation and aggression without losing inner power
  • Soma's group program and its role in supporting men’s journeys


Soma Miller is a father, transformational men’s coach, and visionary at the forefront of redefining modern masculinity. Fusing shadow work, somatic practices, indigenous wisdom, and relational mastery, Soma guides men to align with their deepest values, creating secure, sexy intimacy and a life fueled by purpose and impact. Devoted to fostering emotionally mature and empowered masculinity, Soma is passionate about helping men break through societal conditioning to live authentically, connect deeply, and lead with integrity.


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08. Integrative semen retention & sexual embodiment with Taylor Johnson12 Dec 202401:09:14

In this episode, we explore how sexual embodiment, presence, and intentionality can transform our lives both inside and outside of the bedroom. Taylor introduces the concept of integrative semen retention, advocating for a non-dogmatic approach to sexual mastery practices. We discuss the impact of societal narratives on masculinity, offering actionable insights for a more fulfilling sexual and emotional life.

We also dive into…

  • Practical techniques for moving out of the head and into the body

  • Balancing structure and flow in sexual practices

  • How understanding ejaculation frequency can enhance creativity and mental clarity

  • Shifting from goal-oriented to pleasure-oriented sex

  • Reclaiming the power of sexual language and shifting societal narratives

  • The importance of men connecting with each other to share vulnerabilities

  • How shame is the biggest energy leak 


Taylor Johnson is a men’s coach and facilitator specializing in helping men create epic sex lives by combining esoteric sexual wisdom with Western science and practicality. He is the creator of the Orgasmic Mastery course and host of the Sex Upgraded podcast. Taylor’s mission is to guide men toward more fulfilling, connected, and powerful relationships with their sexuality.

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09. The dance of attachment with Adam Schlender09 Jan 202501:17:38

In this episode, I sit down with Adam Schlender to explore the dance of attachment, and the multi-faceted dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. We discuss the importance of presence, emotional regulation, and understanding in fostering healthy connections, while diving deep into how communication, trust, and embodiment shape our relationships. Adam shares his personal journey and insights on navigating purpose, offering actionable practices to create more fulfilling relational experiences.


We also dive into…

  • How emotional regulation is foundational to personal and relational growth
  • Navigating attachment styles through the lens of the island, wave, and anchor
  • How embodiment influences love and connection
  • Building trust and respect to create a new template for healthy relationships
  • The cyclical nature of relational growth and evolution
  • Practices for deepening intimacy, communication, and connection
  • The transformative power of choosing connection over judgment


Adam Schlender is a visionary entrepreneur, founder of OPUS, and inventor of the SoundBed, a revolutionary sound healing device that serves as a powerful tool for nervous system and emotional regulation. With a first-principles somatic approach to healing and growth and a deep understanding of sound’s influence on the physical and energetic bodies, Adam merges science and ancient wisdom to create transformative practices that unlock expansive personal growth, including Expansive Sacred Union (ESU), which integrates somatic experiencing, Vedic teachings, and tantra to help individuals and couples live lives of purpose, power, and pleasure.


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11. My relationship with the masculine18 Apr 202500:24:48

In this first solo episode of All The Good Men, I open up about my personal journey with masculinity - both in the men I’ve known and within myself. I’ve had to untangle the stories I inherited about what it means to be a man, to be a woman, to be in relationship, and to hold both masculine and feminine energy within me.

I share how my experiences with men, and my own inner masculine, have evolved over the years—from admiration and disappointment, to deep healing and profound respect. I talk about the importance of role models, the impact of societal gender roles, and the need for more examples of healthy masculinity in the world. This episode is a love letter to both the masculine and the feminine, and an invitation to all of us to meet each other with more reverence, curiosity, and grace.


I also speak to…

  • What I’ve learned from both the beautiful and painful expressions of masculinity
  • How I’ve healed my relationship with my inner masculine over time
  • The role that women played in shaping my understanding of gender
  • Why honoring the feminine is essential for balanced power
  • How men can be powerful role models for the next generation
  • Why vulnerability is not weakness—it’s the foundation of real strength
  • The ongoing, transformative journey of redefining gender and relationship


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10. Food, hormones & masculinity: The hidden link with Martin Pytela 03 Apr 202500:47:50

In this episode, I sit down with Martin Pytela, a functional medicine expert and metabolic typing coach, to explore the profound connection between nutrition, mental health, and overall well-being. Martin shares his personal health journey, revealing how conventional medicine failed to address his root issues and how metabolic typing transformed his approach to healing. Together, we discuss the impact of diet on emotional regulation, the effects of plastics and environmental toxins on hormonal health, and the importance of self-awareness in making informed dietary choices.


We also dive into…

  • How metabolic typing helps identify your unique nutritional needs

  • The connection between diet, mental health, and emotional well-being

  • The dangers of refined foods and how impulse control is tied to nutrition

  • How mixed heritage influences dietary choices and health

  • The role of mindset in creating sustainable health habits

  • Understanding estrogen dominance and how diet impacts hormonal health

  • How toxicity, malnutrition, stagnation, and trauma shape overall wellness

  • Practical steps men can take to improve their health today


Martin Pytela is a functional medicine expert and metabolic typing coach committed to "Restoring Vitality to You and the Planet." His journey into holistic health began after struggling with mercury toxicity, which led him to explore natural healing methods. Since 2011, Martin has coached over 12,000 clients and educated more than 60,000 students on topics like metabolism, detoxification, gut health, and longevity. Through his Life Enthusiast platform, he provides resources and solutions for individuals seeking to reclaim their health.


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13. Grounded spirituality & the power of simplicity w/ Evan Meyer13 Jun 202500:58:41

In this episode, Evan Meyer joins us for a rich conversation about masculinity, spirituality, and the importance of simplicity. Evan has a gift for cutting through the noise, and pointing us back to what actually matters.

We talked about what it means to embody healthy masculinity in today’s world, and how so many spiritual practices have become overcomplicated and disconnected from life. Evan invites us to return to the natural world, to hands-on experiences, and to the kind of emotional honesty that leads to true transformation rather than just performative growth.


We also explored…

  • The tension between ascension culture and grounded spirituality
  • Why simplicity is often the most transformative practice
  • How men can redefine masculinity through presence and conviction
  • The importance of reconnecting with nature, creativity, and community
  • Why transformation usually finds us—especially when we’re not chasing it
  • How to return to your essence by unwinding layers of programming
  • Letting go of perfection and learning to listen to what’s real

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12. Hunting in reverence to life w/ Andrew Simpson05 Jun 202500:43:22

In this episode, we explore a conversation that bridges the worlds of plant medicine, sacred hunting, and the primal connection between life, death, and spirit. I sat down with a man whose personal journey took him from resistance to reverence; from having strong judgments about guns and hunting, to experiencing the act of taking life as a sacred ceremony.

We spoke about how his ayahuasca ceremonies opened the door to an ancient remembering. We explored being in  reverence, responsibility, and reclaiming something most of us have been taught to fear or reject.


Together, we explored…

  • How plant medicine revealed his desire to connect with the land
  • The healing that came from confronting his judgments about hunting
  • What it means to take a life with prayer, intention, and gratitude
  • The power of brotherhood and community in primal experience
  • Why honoring death deepens our relationship to life
  • How these experiences are shaping the way he moves through the world
  • The role of sacred hunting in men’s work and spiritual practice

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