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	Title	Pub. Date	Duration
	Healthy Boundaries, Stronger Bonds with Rebecca Mullen	16 Oct 2026	00:58:46
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Letting Go Without Losing Love: Communication, Boundaries, and Adult Children James Moffitt talks with Rebecca Mullen, a relationship coach, writer, and author of Six Steps to Better Marriage Communication, about how parents can stay close to adult children without slipping into control, guilt, or mixed signals. The conversation centers on healthier communication, especially how to respect grown children as independent adults while still keeping the relationship warm and connected.Rebecca shares practical ways to navigate family dynamics, apologize well, and use praise, agency, and boundaries to build trust instead of conflict. Key topics Rebecca Mullen introduces her work as a relationship coach, podcaster, and author focused on clear communication in families and marriage The discussion frames adult parenting as a shift from control to mentorship, support, and respect for a grown child’s agency Rebecca explains how family intimacy is built through both repeated routines and exceptional shared experiences like vacations and camping trips A camping-trip story shows how mixed signals can create conflict when a parent says they want less responsibility but still wants control The episode explores how naming grief can help parents understand why letting go feels painful and why they may send inconsistent messages Rebecca describes how praise changes family dynamics by highlighting what is working instead of focusing on what is wrong The hosts discuss how children learn relationship patterns by watching how parents handle conflict, apology, and appreciation Rebecca lays out a four-step apology process that rebuilds trust by saying sorry, naming the behavior, naming the other person’s feelings, and stating a plan to do better The conversation distinguishes clean asks from attacks and explains why giving the other person agency increases intimacy Boundaries are defined as what you will and will not tolerate, not as a way to control another person’s behavior Timestamps 00:00 - Opening and introduction to the episode’s focus on adult children and communication 01:52 - Rebecca shares her background as a coach, author, and podcast host 03:21 - Rebecca’s family story, marriage, medical school years, and long-term resilience 06:49 - Why vacations and shared experiences help create family intimacy 09:37 - Respecting adult children as separate people with their own lives 13:15 - Camping trip story: mixed signals and a parent’s struggle with letting go 15:21 - Naming grief and understanding the emotional side of changing family roles 17:56 - The hidden labor problem in marriage and what gets overlooked 24:48 - Assuming positive intent instead of defaulting to blame 26:30 - Why praise works better than nagging or criticism 30:21 - Why children need a safe place to make mistakes and repair them 31:20 - The four-step apology that rebuilds trust 36:39 - Common communication blunders and why boundaries need clear requests first 39:17 - The clean ask formula: overcome fear, get clear, ask cleanly 42:33 - Why agency matters and how vulnerability strengthens connection 43:57 - What boundaries really are, and why they are not punishments 48:56 - Using affirmation to support boundaries without damaging intimacy 51:31 - Rebecca’s closing encouragement and resources for listeners Notable quotes “We all want to feel seen.” “An attack is not a clean ask.” “Agency in a relationship is the thing we're most scared to give away, but it is the thing that most fully cultivates intimacy.” Action items Ask yourself what you are really afraid of before reacting to your adult child Replace mixed signals with a clear, clean request Use praise intentionally and look for what is going well Apologize with specificity, not vagueness Define boundaries as your own limits Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Boundary Mistake Parents Make With Adult Children with Dr Beth Long	09 Oct 2026	00:42:56
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Healing, Boundaries, and Grace in Parenting Adult Children In this episode of ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Dr. Beth Long, a licensed professional counselor, board certified behavior analyst, and therapist who works with children, families, and parents navigating adult children. They discuss how childhood patterns show up in parenting, how to recognize triggers, and how grace and emotional regulation can reshape strained relationships.We discuss why parenting adult children exposes fear, shame, and approval-seeking, how boundaries differ from control, and what repair looks like when trust has been damaged. Dr. Beth Long also shares personal stories from her own family, including her son on the autism spectrum, her daughter’s wedding invitations, and the challenges of letting go while staying connected. Key topics Dr. Beth Long introduces her background in counseling psychology, her work with children and families, and her experience parenting two adult children. She Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment with Steve Barton	02 Oct 2026	00:22:55
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment with Steve Barton This episode focuses on the shift from parenting children to relating with adult children as equals, with Steve Barton sharing hard-won lessons from his own family and coaching work. James Moffitt and Steve discuss communication, boundaries, and how to stay connected without overstepping.Steve Barton, owner of Steve Barton Coaching and co-author of The Father, the Son, and the Aha Moment with his son Spencer, explains how the book grew out of real conversations about politics, growth, and accountability. The conversation centers on practical ways parents can support adult children while respecting their independence. Key topics In this episode: Steve Barton introduces his background as a coach in Portland, Maine, and frames parenting as a leadership relationship. Steve shares that the book began after repeated political debates with his son Spencer, which led him to ask, “What are you doing about it then?” He explains that the writing process revealed how similar he and Spencer are, especially around ADHD, procrastination, and direct communication. James and Steve discuss the common mistake parents make of treating adult children like children instead of respecting their adulthood. Steve says the best approach is to ask adult children whether they want advice or simply a listening ear. He describes the difference between a mentor and a helicopter parent, emphasizing that unsolicited advice often creates distance. Steve reflects on a major life change after 19 years of marriage, saying it forced him into a more hands-on, weekly shared parenting arrangement with Spencer. He outlines what healthy parent-adult child relationships look like to him: mutual respect and clear boundaries. Steve explains the “everyone is 10” idea from the book, meaning everyone is doing the best they can with the awareness they have. He connects the book’s message to self-awareness, emotional regulation, and moving from grievance and comparison toward authentic selfhood. Timestamps 00:00 - Welcome to the podcast and topic overview 00:49 - Steve Barton introduces his coaching background 01:18 - How a political disagreement with his son inspired the book 03:32 - What writing together revealed about father and son 05:17 - The biggest communication mistake parents make with adult children 06:50 - Mentors versus helicopter parents 07:49 - The origin of the book’s “aha moment” 10:39 - How a major family change altered Steve’s parenting perspective 12:30 - Supporting adult children who feel distant 13:20 - Respect, boundaries, and what healthy connection looks like 14:36 - The message behind the book and the “everyone is 10” framework 16:26 - Steve’s short pitch for his coaching and the book 18:32 - How to get the book and connect with Steve 19:08 - Closing thoughts and listener send-off Key frameworks Everyone is 10 - everyone is doing the best they can with the awareness they have Ask before advising - listen first, then offer guidance only if requested Healthy boundaries - love can include yes, no, stay, and go depending on the situation Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Healing the Past, Parenting with Grace with Dr Caturia	25 Sep 2026	00:49:17
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Healing the Past, Parenting with Grace This conversation follows host James Moffitt and Dr. Carla Kataria as they explore how childhood experiences shape our emotional patterns, parenting style, and the way we support young adults. The episode focuses on healing, emotional regulation, autonomy, and the grace parents need as their children move into adulthood.In this episode: Dr. Carla Kataria introduces her work as an elite mindset coach, helping kids, teens, and families build mental performance, emotional regulation, and stronger relationships. She shares that her biggest childhood challenge was not a lack of love, but not knowing how to handle big emotions, which showed up later in adulthood through anxiety and overwhelm. James reflects on his own childhood and how becoming a parent made him determined to do better than what he experienced growing up. The discussion highlights how some parents overcompensate by giving too much or preventing failure because they want to correct what they lacked. Dr. Kataria talks about healing through personal development, somatic tools, coaching strategies, and a deeper faith journey that brought her peace. They discuss the shift parents must make as children become young adults, moving from direct control into a mentoring and support role. Dr. Kataria emphasizes that autonomy builds confidence, and young adults need room to make choices, mistakes, and sometimes different life decisions than their parents expected. The conversation distinguishes between healthy independence and choices that are out of alignment, such as unhealthy relationships, chronic conflict, or careers pursued for the wrong reasons. James and Dr. Kataria revisit the importance of letting children catch their own vision rather than forcing a parent’s dream onto them. Dr. Kataria closes with three pillars for parents: regulate yourself first, see your child through the lens of who they can become, and allow ownership so confidence can grow. Timestamps 00:00 - Intro: how childhood shapes the way we parent and support adult children 01:28 - Dr. Carla Kataria introduces herself and her work with families 03:21 - Emotional regulation as a childhood wound that carried into adulthood 05:13 - Seeing parenting patterns more clearly as an adult and educator 07:04 - Overcompensating for a difficult childhood by giving too much 08:20 - Finding peace through personal development, faith, and inner healing 09:50 - What it means to let go as children become adults 11:24 - Dr. Kataria describes the strengths and gaps in her own childhood 13:14 - The specific qualities she appreciated most in her mother 14:46 - How parents can respond when adult children make choices they do not agree with 17:49 - Defining unhealthy decisions as choices out of alignment with the true self 19:16 - Unrealistic parent expectations and the pressure to follow a parent’s career path 20:24 - How to tell the difference between giving up and making an authentic change 22:20 - Preparing emotionally for the transition from parent-child to mentor-support role 24:32 - Reparenting later in life and making small shifts that matter 28:20 - A personal story about a teen choosing a bold hairstyle and staying calm 30:20 - Apologizing later in life and realizing some guilt weighs more on us than others 31:43 - Dr. Kataria explains her House of Rise framework 35:20 - A story about a young man who left medical school, then returned by choice 37:44 - Why young adults need to catch their own vision 39:04 - A college student shifts direction after reflection and support 40:49 - Three takeaways for parents of adult children 43:55 - How to get in touch with Dr. Kataria and where to find her work 44:45 - Closing reflection on healing, grace, and breaking generational patterns Key Frameworks House of Rise - Dr. Kataria’s framework built around resilience, identity, self-confidence, and emotional intelligence. Two millimeter shifts - Small, repeated changes in how parents respond can create long-term transformation. Identity before behavior - Seeing a child through the lens of who they are becoming, not just what they are doing now. Ownership builds confidence - Autonomy helps young adults develop trust in themselves through real responsibility. Notable Quotes Copy “The biggest thing that has made a shift for me through all of that is also my actual journey with my faith.” Copy “The key is really having values and standards as a family.” Copy “Ownership really builds that confidence.” Action Items Regulate yourself before difficult conversations with your adult child. Move from micromanaging to mentoring. Ask whether a decision is truly unhealthy or simply not the path you would have chosen. Let your child own age-appropriate mistakes so confidence can grow. Make small shifts in how you respond instead of trying to overhaul everything at once. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Dealing with Parenting Frustration: You Don't Have to Be Perfect with Dr Kutz	18 Sep 2026	01:00:11
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting advice to help you stop feeling guilty. Learn how to be kinder to yourself while navigating the challenges of raising kids. Being a parent is undeniably difficult, and it is common to worry about making mistakes with your children. This video offers perspective on the pressure many parents place on themselves, providing a reminder that learning as you go is a natural part of the journey. If you often feel guilty about your parenting style, this discussion is designed to help you release that weight. We explore the importance of self-compassion when raising children and why you do not need to be perfect to be a great parent. By acknowledging that you are doing your best, you can create a healthier environment for your family. This guidance focuses on practical ways to manage parenting stress and maintain your confidence, even when things feel overwhelming. Subscribe for weekly parenting advice breakdowns, and share in the comments: what is one way you practice self-care during a busy week? Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Divorce Insurance Idea Nobody Thought Would Work by Ron Platt	11 Sep 2026	01:11:18
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Adult Children, Unconditional Love, and Supporting LGBTQ Families This episode brings together James Moffitt and Ron Platt of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families to talk about parenting adult children, family boundaries, and how support systems can change lives. Ron also shares the story behind NASDF and its divorce support insurance product, plus how fostering and adoption reshaped his understanding of unconditional love.We discuss practical parenting challenges, the emotional realities of adult children making their own choices, and why love still has to include boundaries, accountability, and apology. The conversation also touches on LGBTQ acceptance, foster care, family court reform, and the role of community in helping children and parents navigate hard transitions. Key topics James introduces Ron Platt, co-founder of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families, and Ron explains that NASDF serves people who are divorcing, divorced, or in single-family households. Ron shares the origin of the organization and the Support Insured product, which is designed to cover child support and alimony for up to a year if the payer dies, becomes disabled, is involuntarily unemployed, or has to declare business bankruptcy. Ron tells the long backstory of how the idea came from a conversation with his father decades earlier, how investors initially passed, and how he eventually funded the launch through a mortgage and credit card debt. The conversation shifts to the challenges of launching a niche product with no direct competition and the need to educate both the family law community and the public. Ron explains his current push to build a credit card product specifically for legal fees, mediation, and court costs for people with limited credit and limited access to cash during divorce. James opens up about his own divorce, visitation struggles, and the impact of family conflict on parenting and access to his son. Ron shares the story of adopting his son, Michael, from foster care, including the realities of a child coming from abuse, instability, and the foster system with belongings in a plastic bag. Ron describes setting boundaries with his foster son, including school expectations, work, drugs, and a major moment when he threw him out for breaking house rules, then welcomed him back after a painful but necessary lesson. The discussion turns to LGBTQ identity, acceptance, religion, and family responses, including James discussing his son Jeremy and Ron sharing his own coming out story and his grandmother’s response. Ron and James talk about the difference between loving a child and agreeing with every choice they make, and why parents still need to show up for adult children even when they don’t understand them. The episode closes with Ron reflecting on a key lesson from therapy: apologizing to children when parents get it wrong, and why that kind of honesty builds respect. Timestamps (00:00) Welcome to the show and introduction of guest Ron Platt (00:28) What NASDF is and who it serves (00:56) Support Insured and how divorce support coverage works (01:13) James shares his own divorce and visitation experience (03:17) How Ron came from insurance product development into this mission (04:37) Why the market ignored the need for divorce support insurance (05:50) Mortgaging the house to launch the business (06:47) The first underwriter says yes to Support Insured (07:17) Why a brand-new category has to be built from scratch (08:16) The original idea began 30 years earlier (09:12) The Miami real estate story and the $5 million funding pitch (10:36) A new credit card idea for legal fees, mediation, and court costs (12:31) Ron’s toxic relationship and why fostering became personal (13:24) Seeing the foster system through a child’s history binder (15:20) Meeting Michael and giving him stability for the first time (16:41) The hard history behind his foster placement (17:09) Why Ron refused to let the child keep breaking the rules (20:32) The arrest that became a turning point in their relationship (22:01) James reflects on support for LGBTQ children and family acceptance (23:17) James shares his son Jeremy’s coming out and their strained relationship (29:11) James recounts Jeremy’s final illness and his death (31:20) Ron shares coming out to his grandmother and her response (32:45) Ron explains how his family and in-laws evolved over time (34:08) Why adults need to stop expecting children to fit a box (37:26) Helping LGBTQ youth find a safe, normal support network (39:32) James reflects on the stigma around being gay across generations (42:27) A church conversation about gay relationships and acceptance (44:26) Ron describes joining a more accepting Jewish community (46:21) Why discomfort keeps people from growing (47:13) Parenting does not stop when a child becomes an adult (49:30) Why parents should not enable adult children (51:31) Money lessons, budgeting, and the reality of financial independence (53:38) A cautionary car purchase and letting adults learn the hard way (54:44) Maintaining influence without control in adult children’s lives (56:17) James on accepting self-expression in teenagers (58:13) Why brain development matters when judging teen behavior (59:29) James reflects on his own strict upbringing (61:14) Why parents’ expectations can clash with who children actually are (64:25) Ron shares how his husband left policing and became a fashion designer (67:12) Another family story about a son thriving in the arts (68:48) A major parenting lesson from adopting Michael (70:05) Why parents should apologize when they get it wrong (71:55) Closing thoughts and ways to contact NASDF Notable quotes Copy “You don't ever stop being a parent.” Copy “The good news is I have no competition. The bad news is I have no competition.” Copy “Your kids will have a great deal more respect for you when they realize that you're not perfect.” Action items If you are navigating divorce, single parenting, or family court challenges, explore NASDF’s support and educational offerings. If you work in credit, lending, or legal finance, Ron is actively looking for partners to help build a card for legal fees, mediation, and court costs. Parents of adult children should focus on boundaries, not control, and be willing to apologize when needed. Families supporting LGBTQ children should prioritize safety, belonging, and consistency over rigid expectations. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Secret to Confident Kids / Mic Takeover by Special Guest, Jody Hill	08 Sep 2026	00:14:29
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, Jody Hill, mom of four, speaker, and best-selling author of The Parent's Secret Superpower: Raising Confident and Capable Kids, shares one of her Superpower Strategies from the POWer Parent Method, the framework at the heart of her course, that helps parents raise confident, capable kids. Drawing on her own experience, Jody walks through how she's lived out this strategy with her own kids, past and present, and shows you how you can start doing the same in your own home. Enjoy the episode as you pick up new ways to help raise confident, capable kids of your own. Learn more about Jody's course, The Confident Kid Audio Course: Unlocking Your Parenting Superpower, here: Jodi Hill Course offering Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Why Strong Marriages Shape Strong Families and Stronger Adult Children	04 Sep 2026	00:32:04
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Adult Children with Grace, Humility, and Connection Pastor and author Scott LaPierre joins James Moffitt to talk about the shift parents must make when their children become adults. The conversation focuses on moving from control to guidance, keeping your child’s heart, and staying connected without slipping into criticism or frustration. Scott also shares how marriage, fatherhood, and biblical teaching have shaped the way he thinks about parenting older children. Key topics In this episode, Scott LaPierre introduces himself as a teaching pastor at Woodland Christian Church, a husband, and a father of 11 children. Scott explains how he and his wife, Katie, approached marriage with a desire to honor God in family size, homeschooling, and pastoral ministry. He shares that his passion for teaching began long before pastoring, through military service, elementary teaching, and then preaching the Bible. Scott connects strong marriages to strong families, strong churches, and ultimately a stronger society. He describes how parenting adult children requires a real shift from direct control to relational influence and wise guidance. Scott emphasizes that parents need to keep their children’s hearts, not just enforce rules. He explains the importance of humility in family leadership, including saying “I don’t know” and learning alongside your children. Scott and James discuss the pressure many men feel when asked to lead family Bible reading or prayer, and why wives should encourage rather than compare them to pastors. Scott talks about the reality that some adult children rebel despite good parenting, and he points to free will and the prodigal son as a biblical picture of that tension. The conversation closes with practical advice for repairing strained relationships through confession, asking forgiveness, and learning to listen well. Timestamps 00:00 - Introducing Scott LaPierre and the focus on parenting adult children 00:48 - Scott’s background as a pastor, author, husband, and father of 11 01:52 - Meeting Katie, marriage, and surrendering family size to God 04:35 - From teaching and military service to pastoral ministry 05:31 - Why strong marriages strengthen families, churches, and society 07:20 - How fatherhood shapes prayer for children’s future spouses 08:53 - Why many husbands are spiritually passive and what that means 10:21 - Modeling spiritual leadership at home more than just talking about it 11:18 - Why many husbands feel nervous leading Bible reading and prayer 12:15 - Projection, insecurity, and the fear of leading family devotion 13:41 - Encouraging husbands instead of expecting pastor-level performance 15:37 - Wives, husbands, and the importance of realistic expectations 17:15 - Using study Bibles, commentaries, and humility when answering questions 18:45 - The biggest shift when children become adults: releasing control 24:48 - Balance, encouragement, and the warning that rules without relationship can lead to rebellion 26:54 - What it means to have your child’s heart 27:50 - Different children may connect better with different parents 30:15 - Helicopter parenting and the challenge of moving into a mentor role 34:36 - Why even good parents can still have rebellious adult children 36:49 - Responding to regret, confession, and asking adult children for forgiveness 41:37 - One practical step this week: take responsibility and listen well 42:59 - Scott’s books, speaking, and free ministry resource Notable quotes Copy “Rules without relationship equals rebellion.” Copy “There’s a Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Healing Parenting Cycles: How to Break Free from Overwhelm & Build Connection with Your Children	28 Aug 2026	00:55:20
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Discover practical insights and compassionate strategies to navigate the generational patterns, emotional reactions, and relationship dynamics that shape your parenting journey. In this episode, trauma-informed coach Lattie Ghanem shares how moms can identify triggers, release guilt, and foster a healthy, connected family environment—no matter where you are in your parenting path. Main topics: The neurobiological basis of parental reactions and how to rewire them Breaking cycles of guilt, overcompensation, and burnout The role of dads in building emotional safety and modeling healthy behavior Navigating family dynamics such as children’s identity explorations and cultural differences Practical tools for self-awareness, boundary-setting, and intentional parenting In this episode: 0:01 - Introduction to trauma-informed conscious parenting and Lattie’s approach 0:35 - Understanding the patterns behind the chaos in parenting 1:23 - How childhood roles influence parenting reactions 2:40 - The impact of family upbringing on current parent-child dynamics 4:44 - Recognizing the moment when parents feel overwhelmed and how to respond 6:31 - What subconscious beliefs are mothers really carrying beneath the surface 9:07 - The cycle of guilt, overachievement, and emotional exhaustion in moms 11:19 - First steps to break free from burnout and perfectionism 13:24 - Early warning signs and how fathers can support mothers proactively 15:15 - The importance of intentional, balanced relationships with children 17:27 - How dads influence daughters’ and sons’ understanding of love and success 22:36 - The neurobiological fight or flight response and managing emotional overload 25:27 - The differences between therapy and coaching for emotional growth 28:40 - Navigating the gap between how we were raised and how we want to parent 39:23 - The importance of vulnerability and authenticity in family relationships 43:23 - Preparing children for adult life and the significance of modeling resilience 46:19 - Embracing blended families and diverse life choices without shame 52:31 - Accepting children’s authentic identities and maintaining strong connections Resources & Links: Living Progress – Connect with Lattie for coaching support Parenting Adult Children – Official website for ongoing resources Connect with Lattie Ghanem: LinkedIn Instagram Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Navigating the Next Chapter: Parenting Adult Children with Wisdom and Love with Emily Jacobson	21 Aug 2026	00:55:58
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, James Moffitt welcomes Emily Jacobson, a somatic coach, to discuss navigating the evolving relationship with adult children. They explore communication, boundaries, emotional regulation, and the importance of understanding developmental stages to foster stronger connections. The transition from parent to mentor/support role as children become adults and brain development timelines Mindset shifts for parents: recognizing their prior hard work and trust in their child's independence The emotional grief that can accompany letting go of the parent-child dynamic The role of emotional intelligence and nervous system regulation in managing reactions and conflict Practical tools for emotional regulation: deep exhalations, breathing patterns, and nervous system exercises Strategies for handling disagreements with adult children, including setting expectations and consequences The importance of co-regulation and maintaining boundaries to prevent downward spirals of escalation Navigating self-expression choices in teens and young adults, and understanding their need for individuation Challenges around appearance choices, tattoos, and societal perceptions The significance of safety and trust in parent-child relationships for healthy merging into adult independence How parental permissiveness and authoritarian tendencies can create dynamic tension Handling family changes, such as divorce or blended families, with acknowledgment of grief and emotional validation The value of open conversations, setting clear expectations, and the power of consistency in boundaries The role of external environments, like community or church, in observing healthy relationship boundaries Resources for nervous system health: Emily’s free tools, her website Emily Jacobson, and social media Instagram The importance for parents and grandparents to foster safety, vulnerability, and trust to build resilient relationships <\|TIMESTAMPS\|> 00:00 - Navigating relationships with adult children and why boundaries matter 02:20 - The brain development timeline and implications for parenting 05:00 - Mindset shift: trusting the work you've done as a parent 07:03 - Recognizing grief in letting go of parental roles 08:20 - Emotional regulation and nervous system insights for parents 11:11 - Compassion and understanding emotional responses 12:23 - Repairing ruptures and maintaining relationship health 12:51 - The significance of presence and observation in adolescent self-expression 15:27 - How the brain predicts outcomes based on past experience 17:51 - Differentiation and individuation in teens and young adults 19:17 - The impact of appearance choices on societal acceptance and career prospects 22:32 - Balancing freedom and safety in youth self-expression 25:52 - Teaching inhibition and self-control through nervous system tools 28:04 - Inhibitory exercises with kids for impulse control 31:18 - Breathing techniques to regulate emotions in parenting moments 36:02 - Handling disagreements and setting expectations productively 39:42 - Preventing downward spirals in conflicts through boundaries 41:50 - Overcoming parental fears about boundaries and authority 44:12 - Parenting styles: permissive, authoritarian, and authoritative 45:38 - Lessons learned from separation, divorce, and co-parenting 52:10 - Supporting children through family transitions and grief 54:06 - Advice for engaging with adult children in a balanced way 57:36 - Resources available: Emily’s free tools and coaching offerings 58:46 - Closing thoughts: fostering trust, safety, and open communication<\|RESOURCES\|> Emily Jacobson's Website Emily Jacobson Coaching on Instagram Free Nervous System Tools - available via Emily’s website <\|CONNECTING\|> Connect with Emily Jacobson: Instagram Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Unlocking Your Parenting Superpower: The Power of Words with Jody Hill	14 Aug 2026	00:47:42
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Unlocking Your Parenting Superpower: The Power of Words with Jody Hill Discover how your everyday words can shape your child's confidence, identity, and future. In this episode, parenting expert Jody Hill shares practical strategies rooted in science and faith to help parents influence their children positively through intentional communication. Key Topics How words impact a child's self-belief and confidence The importance of modeling respect and responsibility Practical ways to establish healthy boundaries with children Using affirmations and micro-moments to reinforce good behavior Navigating the challenges of parenting preteens, teens, and young adults The significance of vulnerability and authenticity in parent-child relationships Addressing parental guilt and the never-too-late mentality How to foster resilience and responsibility in older children and adult children Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and guest, Jody Hill 00:12 - Jody’s background and her work on parental influence 00:34 - The impact of words on children's confidence and identity 01:56 - How parents’ words create beliefs and influence actions 03:26 - The power of affirmation and micro-moments in child development 04:37 - Handling bullying and building self-confidence 05:07 - The importance of standing up for oneself and others 06:27 - Real-life story: Overcoming a bully through confidence 07:35 - The “Parent’s Secret Superpower”: Words for life or death 08:50 - The dangers of neglecting emotional safety in schools and buses 09:44 - Addressing school bus safety and bullying prevention 10:23 - Raising kids who stand up against bullying and injustice 11:18 - Teaching children the importance of justice and morality 12:25 - Challenging negative beliefs about adolescence ("terrible twos" and "terrible teens") 13:35 - How parental expectations shape children’s behaviors and responses 14:23 - Responding calmly to children’s mistakes to promote learning 15:54 - The importance of a safe environment for failure and growth 16:16 - How kindness and affirmation build self-esteem in children 17:46 - The impact of parenting styles from childhood to adulthood 18:45 - Giving kids space to make mistakes and learn independence 19:32 - Teaching boundaries and responsibility without shame 20:45 - Reinforcing that it's never too late to influence your adult children 21:16 - Practical strategies for healthy boundary-setting with preteens and teenagers 22:26 - The significance of honoring commitments and building trust 23:49 - Encouraging responsibility through respectful conversation 25:07 - Creating a safe place for children to grow and fail 26:12 - Building confidence in children through micro-moments and affirmations 27:12 - The importance of recognizing and affirming goodness in children 28:01 - Affirming kindness and protective behaviors in kids 29:00 - Celebrating children’s uniqueness and individuality 29:57 - Shifting from outcome-based praise to behavior-based affirmation 30:28 - Healthy ways to reinforce positive actions and character 31:42 - Parenting adult children: respecting independence and offering support 32:40 - Reflections on mirroring and guiding older children 33:10 - Accepting imperfections and learning from mistakes 33:36 - The timeless nature of parenting; continual growth 34:23 - The enduring relationship as kids age into adulthood 36:01 - The importance of love, encouragement, and respect for adult children 37:24 - Owning up to parenting mistakes and fostering reconciliation 38:03 - Vulnerability and authenticity in mending parent-child relationships 39:38 - Managing reactions to children's choices and individuality 40:44 - Embracing children’s authenticity and self-expression 41:50 - The importance of parents managing their own emotions 42:52 - Modeling emotional regulation for children 43:41 - Final thoughts on parenting with authenticity and love 44:12 - Introduction to Jody Hill’s work and her book, Parents’ Secret Superpower 44:39 - Practical tips for parents to start using their words intentionally 45:11 - Resources and ways to connect with Jody Hill 45:40 - Closing remarks on the power of words and encouragement for parents Resources & Links: Parents’ Secret Superpower by Jody Hill Podcast: The Power of Words in Parenting [Jody Hill - Instagram] \| [Facebook] Science of Parenting & Faith Connect with Jody Hill: Instagram Website Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	How to Stay Connected With Adult Children in a Digital World — With Nathan Graham	07 Aug 2026	00:52:57
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Navigating Parenthood and Adult Relationships: Insights on Connection, Needs, and Digital Influence In this episode, James Moffitt and guest Nathan Graham explore the complex journey of staying connected with adult children, the underlying needs driving behaviors like gaming and social media use, and practical strategies for healthy boundaries. Main Topics: The core human needs: certainty, adventure, significance, and love connection How modern society and technology affect the fulfillment of these needs in young adults The impact of social media and gaming on emotional health and behavior Techniques for parents to foster understanding and set effective boundaries The importance of curiosity, grace, and relationship-building in parenting In this episode: Nathan explains how unmet needs can lead to addictive and withdrawn behaviors The challenges of participation trophies and changing educational dynamics The role of dopamine and social media algorithms in addiction cycles Practical tips for establishing device boundaries with children and teens The "three deep questions" approach to understand root causes behind behaviors The importance of emotional safety, validation, and shared purpose in parent-child relationships Timestamps: Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Story Behind Bucket List from a Redneck Girl by Jessica Danel	31 Jul 2026	01:23:16
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Through Crisis, Grief, and Resilience: An In-Depth ConversationThis episode explores the raw reality of parenting children with complex needs, navigating grief from personal loss, and finding resilience amidst life's unpredictable challenges. Join us as we share heartfelt stories, personal growth, and actionable insights for families facing difficult journeys.Main Topics Covered: Jessica’s journey managing parenting children with autism, ADHD, chromosomal disorders, and heart conditions. The impact of loss and grief, including Jessica’s story about her daughter’s cancer battle and her own grieving process. Practical tools for grief healing, including energy healing, emotional release, and honoring memories. The role of faith, legacy, and purpose in navigating trauma and loss. The importance of community, self-care, and authentic storytelling in healing and resilience. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Navigating Parenthood with Adult Children: Resources Insights, and Hope	26 Jul 2026	00:33:39
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's The Parenting Adult Children Podcast, host James Moffitt shares valuable resources, survey insights, and compassionate advice for parents navigating the complex emotions and challenges of adult children. Whether you're facing communication struggles, boundary setting, or emotional hurdles, this episode provides practical tools and encouragement to help you find hope and support. Main Topics: Overview of the Parenting Adult Children resources and community support options Key survey findings on communication, boundaries, finances, and emotional well-being of parents How faith, love, and understanding shape parent-child relationships in adulthood Practical advice on finances, boundaries, and supporting grandchildren The importance of self-care, retirement planning, and emotional resilience for parents How to access and utilize podcasts, reference sheets, and social media for ongoing support Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview of resources for parents of adult children 01:12 - Introduction to the challenges and emotions involved in parenting adult children 02:05 - Sharing survey insights on communication struggles and boundary battles 02:33 - The importance of the website and resources at parentingadultchildren.org 03:40 - How the Facebook support group has grown from 10 to over 1,500 members 04:10 - The value of the survey for understanding parents' needs and topics of interest 05:08 - Using the episode reference sheet created with AI to navigate topics like boundaries, mental health, and more 06:33 - Accessing the detailed reference sheet and podcast episode index 07:41 - Supporting ongoing education through workshops, YouTube, and email updates 08:57 - Navigating episode guest profiles and additional content on the website 09:37 - How to find specific episodes and guest information for deeper learning 11:41 - Common themes from parents: communication, boundaries, finances, and emotional tolls 12:04 - Practical communication tips: listening, asking permission, and respecting boundaries 13:16 - Boundary setting around finances, support, and lifestyle choices 14:06 - Supporting grandchildren responsibly and with love 15:04 - Retirement planning advice for parents and the importance of long-term financial health 16:06 - Parents' emotional landscape, including gratitude, worry, and frustration 18:07 - Faith as a stabilizing force and beliefs about spirituality's role in parenting 21:06 - What parents wish their adult children knew: love unconditionally, patience, and experience 22:21 - Personal stories of growth, estrangement, and understanding between parents and children 24:05 - The special bond and challenges of grandparenting and family relationships 25:36 - Accepting adult children's choices and continuing love regardless of differences 26:14 - Supporting LGBTQ+ children and respecting their identity 27:09 - The support parents seek: practical tools, community, workshops, and faith-based encouragement 28:45 - Promoting resources: YouTube, social media, and online content for ongoing connection 30:52 - How to access the detailed topics reference sheet and social media links 32:17 - Encouragement: You're not alone, and hope is available through community and resources 32:47 - Closing notes and gratitude for listeners, emphasizing that parenting requires strength but also offers hopeResources & Links: Parenting Support Website Episode Reference Sheet Facebook Group - ABC Parenting Adult Children YouTube Channel Instagram - Parenting Adult Children Reddit Group Podcast on Spotify Podcast on Apple Podcasts Connect with James Moffitt: LinkedIn Twitter Optional: Consider exploring upcoming workshops and classes (to be announced). Subscribe to the email list for updates on new episodes and resources. Follow on TikTok for short-form support tips. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	How Parenting Eight Kids Forced Me to Harness Systems Over Emotions with Paul Voss	24 Jul 2026	00:41:51
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting a Child with Autism: Insights from Paul VossIn this episode, Paul Voss shares his journey as a father of eight, including a daughter diagnosed with autism, and how his experiences have shaped his approach to parenting, systematizing family routines, and advocating for his children. His story offers practical advice and hope for parents navigating similar challenges. Key Topics Covered: Paul’s personal background and motivation for writing "Autism Sucks, Finding Hope in the Chaos" How autism diagnosis shifted Paul’s family dynamics and parenting approach The importance of systems and planning with a large family, including tools like big wall calendars The impact of dietary changes, grounding (earthing), and natural therapies on managing autism symptoms Challenges of sleep, public outings, and managing emotional responses Advocacy with medical professionals and questioning mainstream treatments The role of support groups and connecting with trusted specialists Small wins in progress: communication, potty training, and daily routines Practical tips for new parents receiving an autism diagnosis with encouragement and reassurance Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Paul Voss and his family journey 02:26 - How growing up with multiple children influenced Paul’s parenting style 03:52 - Using systems and structured planning to manage a large family 06:00 - Managing sports and activities with eight kids and prioritizing commitments 07:03 - Impact of autism on family life and changes in diet and lifestyle 09:13 - How autism diagnosis deepened Paul’s patience and appreciation for small wins 10:42 - The significance of positive communication from a non-speaking child 11:57 - Addressing complex medical decisions, vaccines, and natural treatments 12:16 - Recognizing early symptoms and navigating diagnosis procedures 14:14 - Challenges faced, including sleep deprivation and public environments 16:29 - Medical establishment’s role and questioning over-medication 17:54 - The importance of self-education and asking questions for better care 18:45 - The role of diet, grounding, and natural therapies in managing autism 22:43 - The importance of advocating for your child's unique needs 27:22 - The emotional and financial realities of raising a child with autism 29:50 - Grounding (earthing) and its surprising benefits for sleep and behavior 33:20 - The importance of parental advocacy and trusting your instincts 35:05 - Celebrating small wins and the journey of progress 38:25 - The role of support groups and community connection for parents Resources & Links: Autism Sucks, Finding Hope in the Chaos (Amazon link for Paul's book) Grounding/Earthing Products (Earthing mats on Amazon) Paul Voss on Instagram Support groups for autism parents Connect with Paul Voss: Instagram Book on Amazon < # > Remember, as Paul emphasizes, trusting your instincts and being your child's fiercest advocate are key. Every family's journey is unique, and small wins are meaningful milestones. Social Media posts Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Surprising Power of Intentional Screen Time for Kid’s Faith and Values	17 Jul 2026	00:37:16
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt is joined by Jonathan Utley of Light Tunes Animation. They explore how faith, creativity, and media shape the development of young adults and provide practical advice for parents and grandparents navigating screen time, storytelling, and faith-based content. <\|KEY TOPICS\|> The importance of nurturing creativity and gifts in children from an early age Impact of faith and values in shaping parenting and supporting adult children Strategies for intentional screen time and media discernment How stories and media influence faith development and character building Tools and resources for faith-based entertainment and story shaping The role of family discussions in connecting faith and everyday parenting The significance of pre-screening and choosing content aligned with family values Challenges of modern technology and social media in family life How core memories and quality time foster faith and life lessons The importance of supporting passions and allowing natural growth in children <\|TIMESTAMPS\|> 00:00 - Introduction to the episode and guest Jonathan Utley 00:34 - Jonathan's background and vision for Light Tunes Animation 01:43 - The unique challenges faced by parents of young adults 02:20 - Influence of faith upbringing on creative life and parenting 03:07 - Opportunities in arts and media during school years 03:55 - The journey from creative passions to running an animation company 05:27 - Nurturing creative gifts early in children's development 05:39 - Recognizing and supporting analytical and artistic talents 06:37 - The importance of providing opportunities without discrediting passions 08:13 - Supporting passions and avoiding diminishments in childhood 08:57 - Balancing passions with practical pursuits 09:16 - The mission of Light Tunes Animation and the importance of trustworthy stories 10:27 - Managing screen time within a tech-saturated world 11:14 - The evolution and challenges of social media and smartphones 12:25 - Mindful use of technology and filtering content 13:49 - The role of social media in shaping behavior and the risks involved 14:46 - Technology as a tool for good or evil, and understanding dopamine 15:14 - The business models of social media platforms and data mining 16:37 - The need for parental filtering and awareness of online predators 17:37 - Engaging grandparents and technology illiterate family members 18:32 - Purposeful content creation and media discernment 19:24 - The concept of intentional screen time and filtering content 20:20 - Books and storytelling as tools for faith and character development 21:41 - How to evaluate if story shaping is truly benefiting children 22:16 - Pre-screening and actively engaging with children’s media 23:43 - Faith-based content and the importance of biblical values 24:43 - Supporting faith at home through media and stories 25:20 - The role of Christian media in reinforcing faith and values 26:57 - Teaching core biblical stories and their impact 27:55 - Using entertainment education for values and lessons 28:48 - The vehicle of storytelling to impart values and lessons 29:45 - Balancing entertainment and education in children’s shows and books 30:24 - Practical ways to connect faith stories with parenting moments 31:25 - Building core memories through shared story time and faith discussions 32:24 - Organic faith conversations during everyday interactions 33:19 - How to access free faith-filled resources from Light Tunes 33:43 - The importance of accessible, trustworthy content for families 34:38 - Launch of Light Tunes Network app and streaming platform 35:45 - Family-friendly free content and subscription considerations 36:01 - Promoting children’s purpose-filled stories through books and media 37:19 - Final thoughts on supporting children’s faith and creativity 37:32 - Appreciation and Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Empowering Autistic Learners Through Innovative Education with Kenneth Mims	10 Jul 2026	00:43:01
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Kenneth Mims, founder of the Neurodiversity Education Research Center and Science Prep Academy. They discuss the importance of inclusive education for autistic learners, the challenges faced by parents and educators, and the innovative teaching methods employed at Mims' school. Kenneth shares his personal journey with autism, the societal changes in understanding neurodiversity, and the need for policy changes to support autistic individuals. The conversation emphasizes the importance of a strength-based approach to autism, the mental health challenges faced by autistic individuals, and the critical role of parents in advocating for their children. Takeaways Kenneth Mims emphasizes the importance of a strength-based approach to autism. Parents often go through a grieving process after a diagnosis. The Neurodiversity Education Research Center aims to advocate for policy changes. Society's understanding of neurodiversity has improved but still has a long way to go. Innovative teaching methods are crucial for supporting autistic learners. Mental health support is essential for autistic individuals transitioning to adulthood. Parents need to balance their expectations with their child's potential. Community engagement is vital for raising awareness about neurodiversity. Autism is often misunderstood as an intellectual disability, which is incorrect. Legislators need to be more aware of the needs of neurodivergent individuals. Sound bites "I discovered autism as a strength." "It's really just getting started." "Autism is an invisible disability." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Neurodiversity Education 01:50 Inspiration Behind STEM Education for Autistic Learners 05:39 The Evolution of Education for Neurodivergent Individuals 08:05 Personal Experiences Shaping Advocacy and Teaching 10:22 Innovative Education Models for Autistic Learners 12:12 Understanding Autism in Classroom Behavior 15:59 Media Representation of Autism 20:11 Core Messages from A Mother's Guide to Autism 22:31 Navigating Parental Emotions and Expectations 27:39 Supporting Transition to Adulthood for Autistic Individuals 32:31 Challenges in Workforce Integration for Neurodivergent Individuals 35:48 Policy Changes Needed for Neurodiversity Advocacy KennethMims.com – My WordPress Blog Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Parenting Beyond the Nest: Faith, Boundaries, and Respect with Angela Caldwell	03 Jul 2026	01:03:20
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Beyond the Nest: Navigating Relationships, Faith, and Boundaries with Angela CaldwellJoin James Moffitt and Angela Caldwell as they explore the ongoing journey of parenting adult children. From redefining boundaries and fostering respect to the role of faith and managing conflict, this episode offers practical insights for parents supporting their children through the complexities of adulthood.In this episode: The evolution of parenting: from control to influence at any age The critical transition from parent of a minor to supporter of an adult The importance of respect and how it fuels influence Faith as a guiding compass for adult independence Setting healthy boundaries that honor autonomy and parental wisdom Strategies to prevent enabling and foster independence Conflict resolution tips: shifting from content to process Navigating values clashes in today's social landscape Dealing with the emptiness syndrome post-child-launch The significance of mutual respect in family dynamics Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: parenting adult children 02:15 - The ongoing role of parents beyond childhood 04:50 - How family therapy can create lasting change 09:25 - Transitioning from parent of a minor to supporter of an adult 11:50 - Power, control, and influence in family relationships 13:55 - The myth of the perfect parent and parenting failures 16:24 - The impact of external influences on adult children 18:12 - Building respect for influence over authority 19:16 - Faith as a spiritual anchor in parenting 20:22 - Identifying core values through life choices 23:05 - Faith practices that support adult children 26:45 - Living authentically and role modeling integrity 30:23 - Setting boundaries: legal, emotional, and social 33:10 - Expressing concern without overstepping 35:38 - Navigating the "dumpster fire" years of independence 37:02 - Handling differences in political and faith beliefs 39:42 - Respecting ownership and individual paths 44:01 - When conflicts escalate: handling disagreements gracefully 47:33 - The importance of honest conversations about values 50:08 - Connecting through shared experiences and openness 54:30 - Managing the grief of Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Parenting Through Grace, Not Perfection	02 Jul 2026	00:06:10
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks James Moffitt shares his personal journey of healing childhood wounds, embracing grace, and how these experiences have transformed his approach to parenting, relationships, and faith. Keywords healing, grace, parenting, emotional health, personal growth, faith, self-awareness, emotional triggers, transformation Key Topics Healing childhood wounds The role of grace in personal transformation Emotional triggers and reparenting The ongoing process of sanctification Parenting with grace and presence Takeaways Healing is a lifelong journey that requires ongoing effort. Grace shifts the focus from perfection to faithfulness. Emotional safety in relationships is rooted in understanding and grace. Healing past wounds can positively influence future generations. Progress, setbacks, and grace are all part of growth. titles Healing Childhood Wounds with Grace How Grace Transformed My Parenting Sound Bites "Healing the parts of my childhood was the hardest work." "Grace slowed me down and made me less reactive." "Grace taught me to lead with compassion instead of fear." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Healing and Parenting 01:46 The Journey of Personal Healing 03:42 The Transformative Power of Grace 04:55 Embracing Imperfection in Parenting Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Navigating High Conflict Divorce and Co-Parenting Challenges with Lisa Johnson	26 Jun 2026	00:52:15
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Navigating High Conflict Divorce and Co-Parenting Challenges with Lisa Johnson In this episode, Lisa Johnson, a high conflict divorce strategist and legal advocate, shares her inspiring story of resilience and expertise in managing complex family court issues. Whether you're facing separation, custody battles, or co-parenting with a difficult ex, this episode offers real insights, practical tools, and hope. Key Topics Lisa's personal journey through a high-conflict divorce and groundbreaking case law Warning signs of high conflict and red flags in relationships and co-parenting Strategies for effective communication and strategic interactions with difficult ex-partners The role of legal advocacy in high conflict cases and navigating the justice system Recognizing and addressing parental alienation and weaponization of children The importance of transparency and trust in healthy co-parenting relationships How to support children emotionally during and after divorce Building community and finding hope through advocacy and shared experiences Key resources: books, legal tips, and educational courses for navigating high conflict divorce Timestamps 00:00 - Episode introduction and Lisa's background as a family court advocate 01:12 - Welcome and introduction of Lisa Johnson, high conflict divorce strategist 02:03 - Lisa's personal legal story and landmark case law 04:00 - Insights into the emotional journey of divorce and rediscovering hope 06:08 - Lessons from Lisa's 10-year legal battle — self-representation and advocacy 08:00 - Broader impact: expansion of domestic violence laws in Connecticut 10:21 - Recognizing red flags early in relationships and marriages 12:33 - Emotional toll and grief during divorce 14:10 - Family dynamics and in-law influences on relationships 16:02 - The importance of maturity and shared responsibility in partnerships 18:19 - Supporting children emotionally through divorce and separation 20:13 - Parental abandonment, the impact on kids, and co-parenting challenges 22:40 - Anecdotes of extreme behaviors and understanding mental health issues 24:20 - Red flags in early stages: love bombing, rapid moves, and dependency 26:23 - The significance of financial transparency and recognizing financial abuse 28:55 - Building trust through transparency in a partnership 30:29 - Lisa’s relationship journey and lessons learned about love and partnership 33:34 - Katie and the story of their love and marriage after friendship 36:17 - The lessons learned from past relationships and hope for the future 39:04 - Recognizing high conflict warning signs early, especially weaponization of children 41:34 - Strategies for co-parenting with a difficult ex-partner and managing communication 44:06 - The role of legal advocacy and understanding the justice process 45:46 - Recommended resources: books, legal tips, and upcoming courses 47:23 - Wrap-up, contact info, and encouragement for listeners Resources & Links [It Got Out: Toxic Relationships, High Conflict Divorce, and How to Stay Sane Under Insane Circumstances](Link to site or publisher) [Legal Abuse Prevention Tips PDF](Link to download) [Book: "It Got Out" by Lisa Johnson](amazon link) Jennifer's Law - Connecticut law expanding domestic violence definitions [Strategic Communication Course: How to Communicate with Your Ex](Link when available) Connect with Lisa Johnson LinkedIn Website Final Notes Remember, high conflict divorce and co-parenting situations are complex, but hope and effective strategies can lead to healthier outcomes for families. Lisa’s insights underscore the importance of informed advocacy, transparency, and emotional resilience. For support, resources, and community, visit our website and stay tuned for upcoming courses and tools designed to empower you. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Healing Generational Patterns: From Hurt to Hope	25 Jun 2026	00:32:44
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Adaptive Show Notes for Growing in Grace Episode 6 by James Moffitt Growing in Grace Episode 6: Healing and Breaking Cycles in Parenting In this heartfelt episode, James Moffitt reflects on how his childhood shaped his approach to parenting, emphasizing the importance of breaking generational curses and creating a safe, emotionally healthy home environment. He shares personal stories, practical insights, and faith-based principles to inspire parents to pursue change and growth. Key Topics Personal childhood memories: lessons from James' father and outdoor activities Exploring the influence of childhood patterns on adult parenting How to break cycles of negative parenting with intentionality The importance of active listening and emotional presence Shaping a home of emotional safety and connection Walking in faith: forgiveness, humility, and God's role in transformation Preserving valuable traditions, values, and strengths from the past The power of apology and vulnerability in parent-child relationships Practical steps for emotional healing and future growth Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Growing in Grace series and episode overview 00:31 - Childhood memories and lessons learned from James' father 01:15 - Significance of Father's Day and treasured family memories 02:27 - Funny stories from childhood and family dynamics 03:53 - Outdoor chores and family bonding experiences 05:53 - Reflecting on the importance of preserving positive childhood traditions 07:24 - Recognizing pain and the desire to build a healthier emotional environment 08:00 - Breaking the cycle of negative parenting through intentionality 09:39 - The importance of emotional availability versus distant parenting 10:37 - Active listening as a vital component of connection 12:17 - Addressing control versus connection in parenting 13:34 - The harms of fear-based parenting and physical discipline 15:15 - Supporting children through mistakes and teaching life lessons 16:16 - The importance of apology, humility, and owning mistakes 18:08 - Addressing parental stress, responsibility, and emotional intelligence 19:04 - How to handle anger and emotional outbursts with grace 20:58 - Building a home of emotional safety and trust 23:41 - The role of faith in reshaping family patterns and forgiveness 24:43 - Personal transformation through Jesus and the power of forgiveness 28:52 - Valuing traditions, work ethic, resilience, and loyalty 30:36 - Honoring the past while choosing a different future 31:44 - Final encouragement: childhood doesn't define your parenting path 32:55 - Invitation to subscribe, complete parent survey, and stay connected Resources & Links: ParentingAdultChildren.org – Official website for surveys and resources James Dobson – For parenting insights Connect with James Moffitt: Twitter YouTube Channel Remember, changing patterns takes intentional effort and faith. You're capable of building a healthy, emotionally safe home for your children and future generations. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Building Stronger Relationships with Adult Children: Practical Strategies from The Love Doctor	19 Jun 2026	00:43:10
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Building Stronger Relationships with Adult Children: Practical Strategies from The Love Doctor Discover actionable insights from Anil Gupta, known as The Love Doctor, on how to foster healthier, more connected relationships with your adult children. This podcast emphasizes the importance of communication, boundary-setting, and resilience in navigating mature family dynamics. In this episode: How societal changes and technology impact family communication and the parent-child relationship Practical family exercises to improve dialogue and understanding The significance of teaching resilience through adversity Creating respectful boundaries that foster independence Letting go of past guilt and practicing forgiveness for healing The role of intentional daily acts of kindness in strengthening bonds How to model respectful behavior and effective communication Adjusting expectations and embracing your children as they are Resources for personal growth and relationship improvement Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Anil Gupta and his background as The Love Doctor 02:03 - The origin of the nickname and branding insight 03:00 - Transition from optometry to life coaching and public speaking success 04:41 - Addressing societal challenges affecting family dynamics 04:58 - Strategies for parents to manage enabling behaviors and allow adversity 07:08 - Family conversation exercises to enhance communication and honesty 08:55 - Teaching children to handle real-life challenges with confidence 09:47 - Fostering open, truthful dialogue about difficult topics 10:35 - The importance of unplugging during family time 11:47 - Navigating social media's influence on communication skills 12:54 - The impact of early digital entertainment habits on children's development 14:08 - Setting respectful boundaries around devices and household rules 15:27 - Baby steps for parents in reducing device distractions 16:43 - The significance of early engagement and role modeling 18:36 - Teaching manners and respect through example 19:02 - The importance of understanding your child's world to foster connection 20:27 - The value of patience and allowing children to develop naturally 22:21 - Raising children with emotional maturity and realistic expectations 24:26 - Approaching adult relationships with respect and active listening 25:49 - The importance of prioritizing your partner to model healthy relationships 26:02 - Common pitfalls in communicating with adult children 26:46 - Asking meaningful questions to improve understanding and relationships 28:05 - Letting go of perfection and embracing your child's individuality 29:53 - Balancing household rules with respect and freedom 31:00 - Recognizing parents' best efforts and shared journey in parenting 31:53 - Creating safe spaces for honest conversations without judgment 33:08 - Boundary-setting tips to foster independence and safety 34:22 - Letting go of guilt through understanding intentions and forgiveness 35:41 - Daily habits to nurture parent-adult child connections 36:56 - Accepting your children as they are and managing expectations 37:00 - Resources and ways to connect with Anil Gupta’s work 38:34 - Final thoughts: Parenting adult children as a journey of connection, not fixing Resources & Links: Meet Anil - Elevate Your Love Life Book: The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman Connect with Anil Gupta: Website Instagram Facebook Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Changing the Story: Parenting Differently Than I Was Raised	18 Jun 2026	00:32:44
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, James opens up about the parts of his childhood that shaped him — both the painful and the meaningful. He shares the intentional choices he made to parent differently, the values he chose to preserve, and the early moments when he realized he wanted to build a healthier emotional environment for his children. This conversation gives hope to parents who fear repeating the past by showing that change is possible, even without perfect examples. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Power of Forgiveness: Releasing Resentment and Finding Peace	18 Jun 2026	00:43:56
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, James Moffitt explores the complex themes of forgiveness, grief, and freedom for adult children dealing with childhood wounds. He shares personal insights and biblical perspectives on healing from past hurts and establishing healthy boundaries. keywords forgiveness, childhood wounds, grief, healing, boundaries, faith, adult children, parenting, trauma, emotional health key topics Forgiveness without denial Grieving the childhood you didn't have Accepting parental limitations The role of faith in healing The process of forgiving and letting go Understanding childhood wounds and their impact The importance of boundaries and honesty Healing through biblical principles sound bites "Forgiveness is not minimizing the damage" "Healing begins when we stop pretending we're fine" "Let go of resentment—it's emotional and spiritual maturity" Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Forgiveness and Grief 02:59 Understanding Forgiveness and Its Challenges 05:54 The Process of Grieving Childhood Loss 09:00 The Importance of Acknowledging Pain 12:03 Self-Care and Healing 14:59 Recognizing and Processing Grief 17:50 Accepting Parents' Limitations 21:09 The Impact of Unresolved Wounds 24:09 Finding Freedom Through Forgiveness 27:11 Letting Go of Resentment 30:03 Creating Space for Joy 33:04 Conclusion: Moving Forward with Hope resources ParentingAdultChildren.org - https://parentingadultchildren.org guest links Website - https://parentingadultchildren.org Twitter - https://twitter.com/JamesMoffitt Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	From Caregiver to Mentor: A Parent's Transition with Desiree Taylor	12 Jun 2026	00:27:55
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's Apparenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Desiree Taylor about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the transition from caregiver to mentor, the importance of communication and respecting boundaries, and how to navigate conflicts without damaging relationships. Desiree shares her personal experiences and insights on supporting adult children through struggles, handling estrangement, and the role of faith and values in parenting. The conversation emphasizes the joy and challenges of this season of parenting, encouraging parents to foster strong relationships with their adult children. Takeaways No one prepares you for parenting adult children. Transitioning from caregiver to mentor is essential. Each child requires a unique approach. Failures are important learning experiences for children. Communication mistakes can harm relationships. Respecting boundaries is crucial for healthy dynamics. Conflict can be navigated without damaging relationships. Support should balance helping and enabling. Faith and values guide parenting decisions. Parenting adult children can be a joyful experience. Sound bites "Each child is different." "We don't need to preach to them." "It can be a wonderful season." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 01:26 Transitioning Roles: From Caregiver to Mentor 05:02 Navigating the Challenges of Letting Go 07:29 Communication: Building Trust and Avoiding Mistakes 11:05 Respecting Boundaries: A Parent's Guide 12:32 Conflict Resolution: Maintaining Relationships 15:52 Supporting Adult Children Through Struggles 17:02 Handling Estrangement and Emotional Distance 18:13 Faith and Values in Parenting 20:56 Encouragement for Parents on Different Paths 21:57 Finding Joy in Parenting Adult Children Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Growing With Grace - Importance of Emotional Intelligence	11 Jun 2026	00:33:13
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Growing with Grace: Reframing Emotions and Parenting Adult ChildrenIn this episode, James Moffitt explores the importance of emotional intelligence and how replacing fear with connection can transform relationships with adult children. He offers practical insights on reparenting yourself, managing boundaries, and cultivating grace in challenging conversations.Key topics covered: The concept of replacing fear with connection in relationships Developing emotional vocabulary for better communication Reparenting yourself to heal childhood emotional wounds The importance of self-care and setting healthy boundaries How to practice grace instead of control in parenting Letting go of unrealistic expectations for adult children Balancing truth and compassion during hard conversations The role of progress versus perfection in growth Practical examples of managing conflict with love and grace Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to emotional intelligence and relationship rebuilding 00:45 - Replacing fear with connection: understanding the shift 01:55 - How fear and connection influence parenting adult children 03:26 - Learning and using emotional vocabulary effectively 04:24 - Using emotional language to navigate conflicts 05:27 - The concept of reparenting and its significance in healing 06:23 - Practical ways to reparent yourself in adulthood 07:56 - Speaking kindly to yourself and overcoming negative self-talk 09:09 - Breaking free from childhood messages: don't cry, don't be needy 10:30 - The importance of inner happiness and self-acceptance 11:33 - Seeing yourself through compassion and grace 12:17 - Handling shame, regret, and mistakes from the past 13:23 - Choosing grace over control in difficult situations 14:48 - Giving adult children space to grow and learn from mistakes 15:17 - Debunking unrealistic expectations based on childhood roles 16:50 - The significance of being present and supportive without enabling bad choices 18:56 - Trusting the process of growth and learning to love through disagreements 20:07 - Managing boundaries and handling conflict with respect and honesty 21:32 - The importance of thinking before acting to prevent harmful consequences 22:28 - Having hard but necessary conversations with love and truth 23:44 - The difference between control and grace in parenting 24:33 - Listening and supporting rather than rescuing or controlling 25:18 - Sharing personal stories of mistakes and learning through grace 26:51 - The danger of helicopter parenting and enabling bad decision-making 27:21 - The concept of progress, not perfection, in growth 28:37 - Encouraging children to take responsibility and change their world 29:11 - Small steps toward change and the power of a safe space 30:02 - Final thoughts on hope, healing, and ongoing growthResources & Links: Book on Emotional Intelligence Reparenting Yourself United Way 211 Connect with James Moffitt: Growing with Grace YouTube Channel Twitter Instagram Remember, growth takes time. Practicing grace in your relationships with your adult children can open pathways to healing and deeper connection. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Role of Fathers in Adult Lives with Dr Jack Hinman	05 Jun 2026	00:56:31
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, James Moffitt speaks with Dr. Jack Hinman about the complexities of parenting adult children. They explore themes such as the role of faith, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the challenges of fostering independence in young adults. Dr. Hinman shares insights on how fathers can model vulnerability, navigate economic challenges, and reconnect with their adult children. The conversation also touches on the impact of social media and technology on relationships, emphasizing the need for presence and connection in parenting. Takeaways Parenting adult children is a continuous journey, not a destination. Fathers play a crucial role as emotional and spiritual guides. Vulnerability can strengthen the parent-child relationship. Creating a supportive environment allows children to explore their faith. Economic challenges can hinder young adults' independence. Building life skills in children should start early. Forgiveness is essential for healing past wounds. Social media can distort real-life relationships. Daily habits can help parents stay emotionally present. It's never too late to reconnect with adult children. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Simple Shift That Can Transform How You Heal Old Childhood Wounds	03 Jun 2026	00:22:57
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Growing in Grace: Emphasizing Emotional Healing and Authentic ParentingIn this episode, James Moffitt shares heartfelt insights on healing childhood wounds, cultivating emotional intelligence, and building healthier relationships with adult children through grace, vulnerability, and self-awareness. Discover how inner work and compassion can transform parental bonds at any stage.Main Topics: The importance of giving ourselves grace for past wounds and inner healing How childhood experiences shape adult parenting habits The impact of emotional suppression and the silence of past generations Strategies for emotional validation and creating safe spaces for feelings The role of faith and spiritual growth in personal healing and parenting Practical steps to seek support, forgiveness, and emotional connection Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Growing in Grace series and its focus on healing 00:27 - Why we need to give ourselves grace and recognize childhood wounds 00:53 - James’ personal journey of healing through faith and forgiveness 01:54 - The importance of vulnerability and apologizing to adult children 02:52 - How childhood trauma influences current parenting behaviors 03:30 - The brutal honesty of inner work and lessons learned from past 03:59 - The role of fathers in emotional and spiritual presence 04:28 - Grace explained: Christianity’s gift and how it empowers healing 05:29 - Resources for exploring faith and grace in modern life 06:25 - Connecting with James for faith discussions via email 06:52 - The silence of the 70s: emotional suppression and its legacy 07:37 - The cultural message that men don’t cry and suppress feelings 08:13 - The impact of emotional neglect and trauma unspoken in past generations 09:08 - The military context: trauma, silence, and suppression in Vietnam and Korea 10:31 - Parents’ inability to provide emotional comfort and its effects 11:05 - The importance of modeling compassion, mercy, and forgiveness 12:02 - How parenting is rooted in the emotional experiences we had or lacked 12:48 - Challenges in providing emotional safety and comfort 13:07 - Avoiding emotional conversations: fixing instead of listening 14:14 - The consequences of minimizing pain and dismissing feelings 14:56 - The cycle of emotional repression, guilt, and hyper-independence 15:06 - How parental emotional safety fosters secure attachment 16:01 - Reflecting on James’ adoptive parents’ love and limitations 16:31 - Understanding the generational hardships parents faced 17:14 - The emotional struggles of past generations of parents 19:01 - The importance of emotional support and safety over just provision 20:00 - Practical advice: seeking help for emotional wounds and self-care 21:12 - The power of vulnerability and hope for transformation 21:48 - Closing remarks: healing is possible, and growth is ongoing 22:17 - How to stay connected with James and continue healing journeyResources & Links: U version Bible App Parenting Adult Children Website ProtonMail Connect with James Moffitt: Email: james.moffat@pm.me Remember, healing from past wounds and fostering authentic connections with your children is never too late. Grace begins when we acknowledge the need for inner work and choose compassion. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	From Trauma to Triumph: Parenting Adult Children	29 May 2026	00:47:48
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt and guest Dr. Greg Linkowski discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, focusing on themes of resilience, grief, and the transition from authority to mentorship. They share personal stories of loss and the impact of family dynamics on relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-care, personal growth, and the need for parents to adapt their roles as their children become adults. Dr. Linkowski offers insights on navigating these challenges with love, understanding, and support. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Hidden Wounds of Adoption No One Talks About	27 May 2026	00:09:11
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Explore the deeply personal journey of healing childhood wounds, the impact of adoption, and practical steps for emotionally present parenting in this heartfelt episode. Host James Moffitt shares insights from his decade-long experiences and offers guidance for parents aiming to foster unconditional love and support.Key topics: The lasting emotional impact of childhood trauma and neglect The hidden wounds of adoption and feeling different or chosen The importance of emotional presence in parenting How conditional love shapes a child's sense of belonging The dangers of obedience driven by fear versus unconditional acceptance Strategies for parents to provide emotional support and validation The role of fathers in creating a sense of safety and belonging The significance of forgiving past parenting mistakes to foster healing Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome to Growing with Grace: Building healthier parent-child relationships 00:27 - James’s childhood in the 70s and the purpose of sharing personal stories 00:47 - How childhood experiences influence adult parenting styles 01:17 - Adoption experiences, feeling chosen yet different 02:01 - The physical and emotional healing journeys of adoption 02:37 - Growing up with medical challenges and feelings of being different 03:08 - Conditional love and the impact of performance-based acceptance 03:37 - The emotional distance and conditional love often experienced by adopted children 04:06 - The importance of unconditionally loving children regardless of performance 04:27 - Childhood rights: playing, exploring, and natural curiosity 05:01 - The damaging effects of rigid, punishing environments 05:11 - The longing children have to belong and feel accepted 05:32 - Parenting out of fear versus unconditional love 05:50 - The significance of emotional presence and understanding in parenting 06:20 - Practical ways to connect emotionally: listening, storytelling, validation 06:56 - Respecting children's emotions and providing physical needs 07:21 - Creating a sense of safety and belonging to prevent children from seeking it elsewhere 07:51 - The role of fathers in emotional presence and making children feel valued 08:25 - Encouragement to continue growing, healing, and loving with graceResources & Links: Book on Emotional Intelligence in Parenting (search for relevant titles) Growing with Grace Series (link to series homepage or relevant resource) James Moffitt on LinkedIn \| Twitter Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Growing in Grace Series: Experiencing Childhood in the 1970's	27 May 2026	00:17:22
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Understanding the Parenting Culture of the 1970s and Its Impact In this episode of Growing With Grace, James Moffitt explores the deeply ingrained parenting styles of the 1970s, how they shaped emotional development, and the lasting wounds they left. He shares personal stories and practical insights on healing and breaking the cycle.Key topics: The survival-focused parenting style of the 1970s, including corporal punishment and emotional neglect How strict rules and conditional love affected children’s self-esteem and boundaries The role of faith and grace in healing from childhood wounds The importance of speaking positivity and love into our children today Strategies for understanding our past without demonizing our parents The significance of identifying root causes for personal and relational growth Practical steps for breaking emotional cycles and fostering healthy parent-child relationships Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to the series and why understanding 1970s parenting matters 00:31 - The parenting norms of the 70s: survival mode, discipline, and emotional neglect 01:13 - Personal stories: discipline, punishment, and conditional love in childhood 02:23 - How authoritarian parenting impacted boundaries and self-esteem 03:17 - The influence of adoptive background and societal pressures in parenting 05:22 - The emotional toll: hiding feelings, fear of disappointment, and feeling unseen 06:29 - The power of speaking positivity into children’s lives 07:32 - Understanding without excusing: compassion for the limitations of our parents 08:29 - The importance of identifying root issues for healing and growth 09:17 - Personal faith journey and the healing power of God's unconditional love 10:36 - Building a new path through faith, grace, and intentional parenting 12:19 - Recognizing emotional baggage carried into adulthood and parenting 13:15 - Incorporating Christian principles and mistakes in parenting efforts 14:16 - The importance of love, grace, and emotional support in parenting 15:13 - Practical advice: speaking positivity, setting boundaries, and nurturing kids for 18 yearsResources & Links: Focus on the Family James Dobson - Christian Psychologist Connect with James Moffitt: Twitter YouTube - Growing With Grace This episode encourages healing through understanding, faith, and mindful parenting. Revisit your roots and start new, healthy cycles today. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Importance of Fathers in Family Life with Olaolu Ogunyemi	22 May 2026	00:58:37
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with US Marine officer and author Olaolu Ogunyemi about the evolving dynamics of parenting adult children. They discuss the critical role fathers play in family life, the importance of emotional presence, and the need to break generational curses. Olaolu shares insights from his personal journey, including his children's books, and emphasizes the significance of being engaged and empathetic as parents. The conversation also touches on practical advice for raising resilient children in a chaotic world, the impact of social media, and the importance of maintaining a strong parent-child connection as children transition into adulthood. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Why Grief Isn’t a Lifetime Sentence — Reframing the Healing Journey with Angela Clement	15 May 2026	00:44:27
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks This episode features Angela Clement, a certified grief coach, speaker, and author, sharing her inspiring journey through grief and healing. We explore the deep emotional process of loss, energy healing, and how to find purpose and joy again after tragedy — essential insights for anyone navigating grief.<\|MAIN CONTENT\|> Angela introduces her background, including her mission to help people cope with grief after losing her husband and daughter. Discussion on the unique nature of grief, emphasizing that it is a personal and non-linear process. Angela shares her experience with her daughter's cancer journey, highlighting how support systems and emotional expression are vital yet often lacking. The importance of self-care, emotional release, and creative expression as tools for healing. Introduction to energy healing and its role in emotional recovery, including Donna Eden's routines and brain research on grief. Advice on reframing grief beliefs and understanding it as a natural, healing process rather than a perpetual pain. The difference between mourning (outward expression) and grief (internal process) and engaging in activities like art, music, or nature to facilitate healing. Angela discusses her book, Awakening Through Grief, which combines personal journey, exercises, energy healing techniques, and brain science to assist others. How grief can be a legacy and use of loved ones' values to find purpose. Practical tips on managing emotion triggers, releasing pain, and the importance of community and spiritual faith. The significance of allowing emotions, including crying, and avoiding numbing behaviors such as gambling or drinking. Addressing the myths about grief lasting a lifetime and encouraging hope and resilience through different life stages. The impact of significant life changes, like empty nest syndrome, and identity shifts post-loss. Emphasizing self-care for parents and the availability of resources like grief counselors, coaches, and support groups. Angela’s personal insights into her ongoing healing process, feeling emotions with curiosity, and revisiting positive memories. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Letting Go: Parenting Adult Kids with Janet Krebs	08 May 2026	01:09:51
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, Janet Krebs shares insightful strategies on how parents can foster healthy relationships with their adult children, emphasizing leadership, connection, and intentional boundaries. We explore real-life scenarios, surprising lessons of adulthood, and practical tips for supporting without enabling. Key Topics: The importance of leadership as a posture, not a title, in parenting How to build and maintain strong connections early to ease later boundary setting Recognizing the difference between support and enabling Effective communication strategies for tough conversations Managing boomerang kids and set boundaries on return visits Seasons of distance: understanding the natural ebbs in adult-child relationships Handling sensitive topics like identity, lifestyle choices, and independence Creating agreements to guide behavior and expectations Strategies for parents experiencing empty nest syndrome The power of playful, disruptive parenting to teach independence Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	The Myth of the Super Mom: Embracing Imperfection with Dr Sue McCreadle	01 May 2026	00:57:28
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, Dr. Sue McCreadie discusses the complexities of parenting through midlife transitions, emphasizing the importance of self-care, effective communication, and understanding human needs in relationships. She explores the myth of the 'Super Mom' and the significance of fostering intimacy and connection in marriages. The conversation also highlights the role of coaching in navigating these changes and finding joy amidst life's challenges. Sound bites "Midlife is a time of significant transitions." "Rekindling a marriage requires understanding." "Finding joy in life's unexpected downpours." Chapters 00:00 Navigating Parenting Through Life's Transitions 02:47 The Myth of Super Mom 05:17 The Importance of Self-Care 08:13 Fostering Intimacy in Relationships 11:08 Understanding Human Needs in Relationships 13:59 Maintaining a High Vibe State 16:32 Rekindling Marriage in Midlife 29:10 Navigating Emotional Intelligence in Relationships 34:20 The Art of Unconditional Love 37:10 Active vs Passive Listening 40:44 Finding Joy in Life's Unexpected Downpours 45:13 The Impact of Personal Growth on Family 47:05 The Importance of Coaching for Midlife Women Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Understanding Addiction Through Personal Experience with Jennifer Chase	24 Apr 2026	00:52:36
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks n this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Jennifer Chase, a certified life coach with personal experience in addiction and recovery. They discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, particularly those struggling with addiction. Jennifer shares her journey through addiction, the impact it had on her family, and the lessons learned in recovery. The conversation delves into misconceptions about addiction, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for compassion and understanding in the face of addiction. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the significance of personal growth, healing, and the evolving nature of parenting as children transition into adulthood. Takeaways Jennifer's journey highlights the deep personal impact of addiction. Understanding addiction requires empathy and recognizing underlying issues. Setting rigid boundaries is crucial when dealing with addiction. Recovery is a personal journey that affects the entire family. Compassion for those struggling with addiction is essential. Codependency can exacerbate addiction issues within families. Parents must allow their children to experience discomfort for growth. Finding peace is possible regardless of a loved one's recovery status. Individualized parenting approaches are necessary for different children. Perfection is not required in parenting or recovery. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	From Parenting to Mentoring: A New Role with Rick and Clancy Denton	17 Apr 2026	00:52:35
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Parenting Adult Children and Embracing the Empty Nest PhaseIn this episode, hosts James Moffitt, Rick Denton, and Clancy Denton share heartfelt insights and practical advice for parents navigating life after children leave the home. From maintaining relationships to handling the emotional shifts, this conversation offers encouragement and strategies for thriving in the empty nest stage. Key Topics The evolving relationship between parents and adult children Maintaining connection and boundaries as children grow into independence The importance of parental self-care and managing caregiver stress Thriving emotionally after children leave, including grief and new opportunities Building a strong marriage during the empty nest phase Practical steps for reconnecting and reinvigorating your relationship as a couple Managing caregiving responsibilities for aging parents within the sandwich generation Addressing challenges like addiction, mental health, and boundaries with adult children The significance of faith, prayer, and spiritual support in parenting transitions Embracing individual growth and respecting children's autonomy Timestamps 00:00 - Welcome and episode overview: Parenting adult children and the empty nest transition 02:15 - The challenges of caring for pets and handling the transition from parental roles 05:30 - Personal stories of loss, grief, and resilience in parenting 09:05 - Navigating relationships with adult children and respecting their independence 12:45 - Strategies for maintaining open and honest communication 16:20 - The impact of faith, prayer, and spiritual perspectives in parenting 19:00 - Celebrating the opportunities and joys of the empty nest phase 22:40 - Reinventing your marriage: reconnecting and building intimacy 26:15 - Practical tips for activities and shared interests as a couple 30:05 - Managing caregiving for aging parents and balancing family duties 34:10 - Communicating effectively during crises and difficult conversations 38:25 - Addressing addiction and mental health issues with adult children 42:55 - The importance of self-care and compartmentalization during challenging times 45:50 - Tips for navigating grief and making critical life decisions 49:00 - Resources, community engagement, and staying connected with listeners 50:15 - Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Navigating Dyslexia: Insights for Parents with Russell Van Brocklen	10 Apr 2026	00:52:24
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Russell VanBrocklin, an expert in helping parents navigate the challenges of raising dyslexic children. Russell shares his personal journey with dyslexia and how it shaped his approach to education. He discusses the importance of focusing on a child's specialty, the craft of research, and innovative strategies to foster confidence and engagement in dyslexic learners. The conversation emphasizes the need for a tailored approach to education that prioritizes individual strengths and interests, ultimately leading to success in both academic and professional settings. Takeaways Russell's personal experience with dyslexia informs his approach to education. Dyslexic students often excel when focusing on their areas of interest. The craft of research is crucial for academic success. Engagement in a child's specialty can lead to significant improvements in learning. Structured literacy methods may not be as effective as tailored approaches. Parents can play a vital role in their child's educational journey. Dyslexic students need to be taught from specific to general concepts. Confidence in dyslexic children can be fostered through targeted strategies. The importance of passion in learning cannot be overstated. Older dyslexic students often learn faster than younger ones. Sound bites "It's all very simple for me to teach your wife." "You can do this. This is not that complicated." "You have to teach them from the specific to the general." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 02:46 Russell's Journey with Dyslexia 05:40 The Impact of Education on Dyslexic Students 08:25 Understanding Dyslexia and Its Challenges 10:51 Crafting Research Skills for Success 13:20 Engaging Dyslexic Students in Learning Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	How to Parent Adult Children in the Empty Nest Years, featuring Deanna Thayer	03 Apr 2026	00:54:36
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of "The ABC's of Parenting Adult Children," host James Moffitt is joined by Deana Thayer, M.Ed., from Focus on the Family. Together, they explore the emotional journey and challenges parents face as they transition to an empty nest. Deana shares her personal experiences and offers valuable insights into maintaining a healthy parent-adult child relationship. Key Topics: The emotional impact of children leaving home Transitioning from authority to influence Setting boundaries with adult children The importance of intentional parenting Guest: Deana Thayer, M.Ed. - Marriage and Parenting Associate at Focus on the Family Hashtags: #EmptyNest #Parenting #FamilyDynamics #FocusOnTheFamily Call to Action: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe and share it with others who might benefit from these insights. Visit our website at parentingadultchildren.org for more resources and past episodes. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Understanding ADHD and Anxiety in Parenting with Zoey Kyriacou	27 Mar 2026	00:39:39
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Summary Keywords parenting, adult children, boundaries, ADHD, anxiety, emotional regulation, single parenting, mental health, family dynamics, communication Summary In this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Zoe Kariakou, a licensed professional counselor and coach, about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the challenges of navigating shifting family roles, the impact of ADHD and anxiety on high-functioning adults, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. Zoe emphasizes the need for parents to allow their children to experience natural consequences and to resist people-pleasing tendencies, all while fostering emotional regulation and understanding in their relationships. Takeaways Zoe has a background in behavioral health and counseling. Parenting twins can be both challenging and rewarding. Single parenting involves a significant adjustment after divorce. High-functioning adults often mask their struggles with anxiety and ADHD. Setting boundaries is crucial in parent-adult child relationships. Anticipating others' emotions can lead to poor boundaries. Behavior can be interpreted as a form of communication. Parents must transition from authority figures to supportive mentors. Natural consequences are important for children's growth. Emotional regulation involves understanding the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. sound bites "I wanted to help." "It takes a village." "Communication is essential." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 02:57 Zoe's Parenting Journey and Professional Background 05:46 Understanding ADHD and Anxiety in High Functioning Adults 08:48 The Importance of Setting Boundaries 15:59 Reading Behavior as a Language 18:12 Navigating Parenting Boundaries with Adult Children 24:11 Resisting People-Pleasing Tendencies 30:36 Tools for Emotional Regulation Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	When Parenting Grows Up: Nancy Pickard on Communication, Healing, and Healthy Relationships	20 Mar 2026	00:44:57
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Nancy Pickard, an integrative life coach and author, about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, the impact of generational trauma, and the necessity of self-care for parents. Nancy emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding in relationships with adult children, as well as the importance of healing one's own wounds to prevent passing them on to the next generation. The conversation offers valuable insights for parents navigating the challenges of raising adult children and maintaining healthy relationships. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Navigating Dyslexia: Insights for Parents with Russel VanBrocklin	20 Mar 2026	00:53:17
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Russell VanBrocklin, an expert in helping parents navigate the challenges of raising dyslexic children. Russell shares his personal journey with dyslexia and how it shaped his approach to education. He discusses the importance of focusing on a child's specialty, the craft of research, and innovative strategies to foster confidence and engagement in dyslexic learners. The conversation emphasizes the need for a tailored approach to education that prioritizes individual strengths and interests, ultimately leading to success in both academic and professional settings. Keywords dyslexia, parenting, education, adult children, learning strategies, confidence, specialization, structured literacy, craft of research, engagement Takeaways Russell's personal experience with dyslexia informs his approach to education. Dyslexic students often excel when focusing on their areas of interest. The craft of research is crucial for academic success. Engagement in a child's specialty can lead to significant improvements in learning. Structured literacy methods may not be as effective as tailored approaches. Parents can play a vital role in their child's educational journey. Dyslexic students need to be taught from specific to general concepts. Confidence in dyslexic children can be fostered through targeted strategies. The importance of passion in learning cannot be overstated. Older dyslexic students often learn faster than younger ones. https://dyslexiaclasses.com/ABCsofParenting Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	When Feelings Feel Big: Helping Your Adult Children Feel Safe With Their Emotions	13 Mar 2026	00:52:07
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Keywords emotional development, parenting, resilience, children's emotions, mental health, emotional expression, parenting advice, emotional resilience, child psychology, family dynamics Summary In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Jacinta Field about the importance of emotional development and resilience in children. They discuss Jacinta's personal journey through healing and how it shaped her approach to parenting. The conversation covers practical advice for parents on how to model healthy emotional expression, the significance of validating children's feelings, and the myths surrounding children's emotions. Jacinta emphasizes the need for parents to take care of themselves and establish boundaries to foster a nurturing environment for their children. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder that parents are enough just as they are, and that mistakes are part of the journey. Takeaways Emotions are not the enemy; they are a natural part of life. Parents should validate their children's feelings instead of trying to fix them. Teaching children to express their emotions is crucial for their resilience. Tantrums are often a release of pent-up emotions, not just bad behavior. Children learn best when they are given responsibilities and independence. Modeling healthy emotional expression starts with parents being authentic. Self-care is essential for parents to avoid resentment and burnout. Creating a safe space for children to express themselves is vital. Understanding that children are our greatest teachers can change parenting dynamics. It's important to remember that everyone makes mistakes, and that's okay. sound bites "Emotions are not the enemy." "Kids are our greatest teachers." "We all make mistakes; it's okay." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Development 08:10 The Journey of Healing and Parenting 14:40 Understanding Emotional Resilience 22:28 Myths About Children's Emotions 34:17 Modeling Healthy Emotional Expression 42:36 Practical Steps for Parents 45:45 Final Takeaway: You Are Enough Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	From Manager to Mentor: A Parenting Shift with Troy Fink	06 Mar 2026	01:07:22
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Keywords parenting, adult children, family coaching, relationships, faith, mentorship, restoration, entrepreneurship Summary In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with family coach Troy Fink about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the challenges parents face as their children transition into adulthood, the importance of shifting from a managerial role to a mentoring one, and the role of faith in navigating these changes. Troy shares personal experiences of restoring relationships with his children and emphasizes the need for parents to become the individuals God calls them to be in order to effectively guide their children. The conversation also touches on entrepreneurship and the lessons learned through parenting. Takeaways Adulthood is confusing and nebulous for many parents. Transitioning from manager to mentor is crucial as children grow. Restoration of relationships takes humility, consistency, and time. Faith plays a significant role in parenting and personal growth. Parents must become who God is calling them to be. It's never too late to shift dynamics in relationships. Entrepreneurship can be a reflection of personal growth and parenting lessons. Children need both parents in their lives, regardless of circumstances. The importance of intentionality in parenting and mentoring. God's grace allows for new beginnings in parenting. sound bites "Adulthood is so nebulous." "You can start anew right now." "God can bring you full circle." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 02:02 Troy's Journey into Family Coaching 03:07 Understanding Adulthood and Its Challenges 09:32 Transitioning from Manager to Mentor 11:24 Restoring Relationships with Adult Children 20:23 Reflections on Parenting and Personal Growth 24:45 Building a Strong Foundation in Marriage 25:59 The Power of Redemption and Restoration 27:05 Navigating Fatherhood and Mentorship 29:32 The Importance of Self-Discipline in Parenting 33:07 The Role of Fathers in a Child's Life 40:07 Overcoming Family Court Challenges 43:22 The Need for Male Role Models 46:30 Becoming Who God Calls Us to Be 49:41 Entrepreneurship and Parenting Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Forgiveness & Healing in Family Dynamics	27 Feb 2026	00:40:53
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Keywords parenting, adult children, family healing, forgiveness, boundaries, trauma, faith, estrangement, relationships, spiritual growth Summary In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Reverend Cheryl Kincaid about the complexities of parenting adult children, particularly in the context of healing from trauma and fostering spiritual growth. They discuss the importance of forgiveness, setting boundaries, and the role of faith in navigating relationships with adult children. Cheryl shares her insights from her experiences as a foster parent and pastor, emphasizing the need for open communication, understanding, and the willingness to acknowledge past mistakes while building a hopeful future. Takeaways Parenting adult children requires understanding and compassion. Forgiveness is essential for healing in fractured families. Setting boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships. Faith can guide parents in releasing control while offering support. Acknowledging the past helps in building a new future. Open communication fosters connection and understanding. Trauma impacts parenting and relationships significantly. Estrangement can be healed with patience and love. Creating a sense of home involves accepting imperfections. Honesty and vulnerability strengthen family bonds. Sound bites "Love covers a multitude of sins." "You have to earn your own way back." "Honesty comes from our humanity." Chapters 00:00 Exploring Family Healing and Spiritual Growth 02:46 The Role of Forgiveness in Parenting 05:23 Navigating Boundaries and Relationships 08:21 The Importance of Confession and Vulnerability 10:53 Understanding Generational Trauma 13:57 Faith and Imperfection in Parenting 16:31 Honesty and Healing in Family Dynamics 19:16 Approaching Non-Faith-Based Perspectives 21:57 Estrangement and Emotional Distance 24:35 Creating a Sense of Home 27:30 Forgiveness and Boundaries 30:17 Lessons from Foster Parenting 33:16 Final Thoughts on Parenting Adult Children Rev Kincaid is the author of six books: Hearing the Gospel Through Charles Dickens A Christmas Carol, The Little Clay Pot The Little Candle that Was Frightened of the Dark, Karrie’s Thorn and A Forgotten Door Called Home. To learn more about Reverend Kincaid’s books and biography please visit: https://revcherylkincaid.com Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Money, Boundaries & Resilience: Guiding Your Young Adult Forward	20 Feb 2026	00:54:56
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Keywords parenting, young adults, life transitions, mental health, financial literacy, college readiness, therapeutic consulting, adulting skills, boundaries, independence Summary In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, James Moffitt speaks with Joanna Lilly, a therapeutic consultant, about the challenges parents face in supporting their young adult children during significant life transitions. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, the difference between being college capable and college ready, and the necessity of teaching essential life skills. Joanna emphasizes the need for parents to set boundaries and create plans when their children face setbacks, such as dropping out of college. The conversation highlights the complexities of parenting in today's world and offers practical strategies for fostering independence and resilience in young adults. Takeaways Joanna Lilly is a therapeutic consultant working with young adults. Parents need to support their children during life transitions. Financial literacy is crucial for young adults. There is a difference between being college capable and college ready. Teaching life skills is essential for independence. Setting boundaries is important for parents. Young adults need to contribute to household responsibilities. A gap year can be beneficial for mental wellness. Parents should have a plan if their child drops out of college. Resilience is key to navigating life's challenges. Sound bites "We need to be a little more positive." "It's important to have a plan." "Life is hard, it's difficult." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 03:16 The Role of a Therapeutic Consultant 05:58 Navigating Life Transitions for Young Adults 08:46 Understanding Financial Literacy 11:26 Signs of Young Adults Needing Support 14:30 Building Life Skills for Independence 17:17 The Importance of Communication and Support 20:11 Humor in Parenting Challenges 26:13 Navigating Daily Responsibilities 26:38 Understanding College Capable vs. College Ready 32:04 The Role of Gap Years in Mental Wellness 33:43 Rethinking the Necessity of a Four-Year Degree 41:17 Addressing College Dropouts and Setting Expectations 48:21 Establishing Boundaries as Parents Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Parenting Adult Children: What They Still Need From You	13 Feb 2026	00:37:56
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks In this episode, James Moffitt and Robert Hunt discuss the complexities of parenting adult children, emphasizing the importance of accountability, modeling behavior, and transitioning from a parent-child relationship to a mentoring role. They explore how parents can foster healthy communication, navigate differences in perspectives, and encourage personal growth in their children while maintaining their own accountability. The conversation highlights the significance of being present, understanding, and supportive as children navigate their own paths in adulthood. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	When ADHD Affects the Whole Family: A Mindful Way Forward	06 Feb 2026	00:41:21
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Keywords ADHD, parenting, executive functioning, mindfulness, neurodiversity, family dynamics, young adults, parenting strategies, support systems, personal obligations Summary In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with ADHD coach Corie Wightlin about the challenges and strategies for parenting young adults with ADHD. They discuss the importance of connection in parenting, the impact of executive dysfunction, and the role of mindfulness in managing ADHD. Corie shares her personal experiences as a parent of neurodiverse children and offers practical tools for creating supportive family dynamics. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding, patience, and effective communication in navigating the complexities of ADHD within family settings. Takeaways Connection is the primary goal in parenting. ADHD can create significant challenges in executive functioning. Mindfulness practices can enhance awareness and emotional regulation. Parents must set boundaries to maintain their well-being. Neurodiversity impacts family dynamics and relationships. Resources like CHADD can provide valuable support for parents. Creating a visual calendar can help ADHD individuals stay organized. Communication styles should be adapted for ADHD family members. Flexible routines can reduce resistance in ADHD children. Sticky notes are a practical tool for reminders and organization. Titles Navigating ADHD in Parenting Mindfulness and ADHD: A Family Approach Sound bites "Connection before everything else." "You can't pour from an empty cup." "ADHD affects the entire family." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges 02:41 Understanding ADHD and Parenting Dynamics 05:38 Navigating Executive Functioning in Young Adults 08:30 Daily Life with ADHD 11:09 The Role of Mindfulness in Managing ADHD 14:15 Balancing Parenting with Personal Obligations 18:17 Navigating Parenting Challenges with ADHD 23:29 Understanding Neurodiversity in Family Dynamics 28:40 Resources and Support for ADHD Families 33:49 Creating Sustainable Family Systems for ADHD Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	From Pain to Purpose: Healing Childhood Wounds With Courage and Grace	30 Jan 2026	00:38:17
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Keywords conscious parenting, inner child, reparenting, emotional intelligence, childhood trauma, authenticity, spirituality, parenting strategies, adult children, healing Summary In this episode, James Moffitt interviews Lisa Watson, a transformational life and parenting coach, discussing the principles of conscious parenting, the importance of understanding and healing the inner child, and the process of reparenting oneself. Lisa shares her journey into parenting coaching, emphasizing the significance of emotional intelligence, authenticity, and spirituality in fostering healthier family dynamics. The conversation provides practical strategies for parents of adult children, encouraging them to support their children's autonomy while also addressing their own past traumas. Takeaways Lisa Watson is a transformational life and parenting coach. Conscious parenting involves being present and aware in the moment. The subconscious mind is formed in the first seven years of life. Healing childhood trauma is essential for personal growth. Reparenting oneself can change disempowering belief systems. Authenticity is crucial for emotional well-being. Parents should validate their children's feelings and experiences. Spirituality can enhance emotional intelligence in parenting. It's important to model behaviors rather than just lecturing children. Parents should support their adult children without judgment. Sound bites "I help people to reparent themselves." "All we have is the now moment." "You are worthy and you are deserving." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Conscious Parenting 02:32 Lisa's Journey into Parenting Coaching 05:16 Understanding Conscious Parenting 08:23 Reparenting Yourself and Your Inner Child 11:12 The Role of Authenticity in Parenting 14:02 Healing Family Dynamics through Emotional Intelligence 17:04 Spirituality and Parenting 19:50 Practical Strategies for Parents of Adult Children Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.
	Parenting Before the Crisis: How Proactive Strategies Change Everything	23 Jan 2026	00:55:21
Click on Fan Mail link and give me feedback. Thanks Keywords parenting, adult children, family dynamics, recovery, emotional wellbeing, financial literacy, proactive parenting, spirituality, life skills, communication Summary In this episode of The Parenting Adult Children Podcast, host James Moffitt speaks with Steve Ward about the challenges of parenting adult children, particularly those transitioning from adolescence to adulthood. They discuss the importance of adapting parenting styles, breaking generational patterns, and the necessity of proactive parenting. Steve shares insights from his own family's journey through substance abuse and recovery, emphasizing the need for emotional, social, and financial literacy in parenting. The conversation also touches on the integration of faith and spirituality in raising children, the significance of modeling behavior, and practical steps parents can take to prepare for potential crises. Ultimately, the episode serves as a resource for parents seeking to navigate the complexities of raising adult children with compassion and understanding. Takeaways Parents need to adapt their parenting styles as children grow. Breaking generational patterns is crucial for effective parenting. Proactive parenting involves preparation and awareness of children's needs. Financial literacy is an essential skill for adult children. Emotional and social skills are vital for children's development. Modeling good behavior is key to teaching children values. Recognizing early signs of anxiety can prevent crises. Setting boundaries with love is important during challenging times. Parents can make mistakes and still raise successful children. Faith and spirituality play a significant role in parenting. Sound bites "We are all holistic integrated beings." "It's important to model good behavior." "You need to change your approach." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges 02:05 Navigating Substance Abuse in Family Dynamics 04:47 Transitioning from Teen to Adult: A Parent's Role 07:51 Breaking Generational Patterns in Parenting 10:29 Nudging Adult Children Towards Independence 12:42 The Importance of Life Skills in Parenting 16:19 Financial Literacy: A Critical Life Skill 18:42 Emotional and Social Skills in Parenting 21:13 Integrating Faith and Spirituality in Parenting 26:04 The Burden of Perfection in Parenting 27:35 Proactive Parenting: Preparing for Recovery 30:23 Recognizing Early Signs of Crisis 33:55 Setting Boundaries and Consequences 37:06 The Reality of Substance Abuse Among Teens 41:05 Avoiding Common Pitfalls in Parenting 44:14 Resources for Parents in Crisis Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system. Parenting Adult Children Call To Action Support the show Social Media Links https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055 r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

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