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Small Bites: Queerness in Buffy the Vampire Slayer01 Oct 202400:32:10

In the first Small Bites episode of season three, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint talk about the impact of queer storylines and characters on the series and pop culture and television in general. They debate what BTVS did well and what the show could have done better. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Did Willow’s romantic relationships redefine queerness on TV?24 Sep 202401:00:37

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint discuss the Buffy the Vampire Slayer character Willow Rosenberg, her primary romantic relationships, and whether or not her coming out as gay impacted television storytelling. 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Tommy Westphall Universe Fan Theory09 Apr 202400:11:56

Welcome to Small Bites. These are discussions we had in the main episode that didn’t fit the overall conversation, but we still wanted to share them with you all.

This week, we nerd out over the Tommy Westphall Universe, a fan theory that connects "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" to all your favorite TV shows. One universe to rule them all.

Spoiler alert: The entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed.

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

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A Girl and A Guy Discuss Pop Culture02 Apr 202401:03:52

In the first episode of season 2, hosts Kate Balzer and Charles Swint return to Sunnydale. We explore the deft use of cultural references in the series, and how such a small show made a big impact on pop culture.

Spoiler alert: The entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed.

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

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A Girl and A Guy Chat with Paige Troxell and Ian Carlos Crawford19 Mar 202401:06:09

We are so excited to sit down with documentarian and Buffy fan Paige Troxell and host of Slayfest98, Ian Carlos Crawford. In this episode, we celebrate the 25th anniversary of season 3 by discussing plot points that occurred in season 3 that impacted the rest of the season.

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. There are also mentions of events from “Angel” and “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” comics seasons 8-12. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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A Girl, A Guy, and Slayers: A Buffyverse Story28 Nov 202302:18:58

We geek out over the new Buffyverse story from Audible, discussing what we loved, what didn’t work, and how it felt to have a new story involving our favorite television series. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series and Slayers: A Buffyverse Story will be discussed. There are also mentions of events from “Angel” and “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” comics seasons 8-12. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Does Buffy the Vampire Slayer perpetuate rape culture?14 Nov 202301:09:47

We discuss what is rape culture and examine its many uses in "Buffy the Vampire Slayer."

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

Content warning for a discussion of sensitive topics related to power dynamics, sexual harassment and sexual assault. If you or someone you know is in need of help, please see the resources below:

 

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/resources 

RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country. Click on the link to connect to crisis support services, including telephone and chat hotlines, for sexual assault and harassment and domestic and dating violence. 

 

National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI): https://www.nami.org/help 

NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness, is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness. Click on the link to connect with the NAMI HelpLine and NAMI Teen and Young Adult HelpLine. 

 

SAMHSA: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline, 1-800-662-HELP (4357) (also known as the Treatment Referral Routing Service), or TTY: 1-800-487-4889 is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations.

Also visit the online treatment locator, or send your zip code via text message: 435748 (HELP4U) to find help near you. Read more about the HELP4U text messaging service.

 

Links mentioned in the episode:

Domesticshelters.org: https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/in-the-news/what-is-rape-culture

Vox: https://www.vox.com/2014/12/15/7371737/rape-culture-definition 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Misogyny, sexism, chauvinism, and patriarchy in Buffy the Vampire Slayer31 Oct 202300:55:37

We discuss the concepts of misogyny, sexism, chauvinism, and patriarchy in “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” and whether the series used these ideas to bring about change or perpetuate these behaviors and ideas. 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

Content warning for a discussion of sensitive topics related to power dynamics, sexual harassment and sexual assault. If you or someone you know is in need of help, please see the resources below:

 

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/resources 

RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country. Click on the link to connect to crisis support services, including telephone and chat hotlines, for sexual assault and harassment and domestic and dating violence. 

 

National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI): https://www.nami.org/help 

NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness, is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness. Click on the link to connect with the NAMI HelpLine and NAMI Teen and Young Adult HelpLine. 

 

SAMHSA: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline 

SAMHSA’s National Helpline, 1-800-662-HELP (4357) (also known as the Treatment Referral Routing Service), or TTY: 1-800-487-4889 is a confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year, information service, in English and Spanish, for individuals and family members facing mental and/or substance use disorders. This service provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations.

Also visit the online treatment locator, or send your zip code via text message: 435748 (HELP4U) to find help near you. Read more about the HELP4U text messaging service.

 

Links mentioned in the episode:

PsychCentral: https://psychcentral.com/blog/whats-a-misogynist

ThoughtCo.: https://www.thoughtco.com/patriarchal-society-feminism-definition-3528978 

Anti-Defamation League: https://www.adl.org/resources/backgrounder/incels-involuntary-celibates 

Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/act-four/wp/2017/03/08/the-villains-on-buffy-the-vampire-slayer-showed-just-how-pervasive-misogyny-can-be/ 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Was sex empowering in Buffy the Vampire Slayer?17 Oct 202300:44:59

We discuss how teen sex was portrayed on television before “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” and how it did or did not differ on BTVS. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

If you or someone you know is in need of help, please see the resources below:

RAINN: https://www.rainn.org/resources 

RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline in partnership with more than 1,000 local sexual assault service providers across the country. Click on the link to connect to crisis support services, including telephone and chat hotlines, for sexual assault and harassment and domestic and dating violence. 

 

National Alliance on Mental Health (NAMI): https://www.nami.org/help 

NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness, is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness. Click on the link to connect with the NAMI HelpLine and NAMI Teen and Young Adult HelpLine. 

 

The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ 

The Trevor Project has to put together a list of resources for healthy relationships on their website. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Does Buffy the Vampire Slayer have feminist villains?03 Oct 202300:36:48

Episode 3

Title: Does Buffy have feminist villains?

We discuss the female villains of “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” and whether or not they are feminist characters. 

 

Spoiler alert: The entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

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Is Buffy the Vampire Slayer a feminist show?19 Sep 202300:37:33

In this episode, we introduce the main theme, or “Big Bad,” for the season and discuss if “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” is a feminist television show. 

 

Spoiler alert: The entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams.

 

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A Girl and a Guy Fall in Love with Buffy05 Sep 202300:41:55

In the first episode of “A Girl, A Guy, and a Buffy Podcast,” hosts Kate Balzer and Charles Swint share how they were introduced to the television series “Buffy the Vampire Slayer,” what the show means to them, and the impact and legacy of the series. 

Spoiler alert: The entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed.

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

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Small Bites: Atlanta Comic Con04 Jun 202400:12:42

In this episode of Small Bites, Kate and Charles hit Atlanta Comic Con!

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Fan Culture: Shaping the Legacy of Buffy the Vampire Slayer28 May 202401:00:52

In this episode, Kate and Charles discuss fandoms, especially Buffy's fandom, and how the fans continue to breathe life into the series.

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Bands at The Bronze21 May 202400:21:52

In this episode of Small Bites, we list some of our favorite acts to play The Bronze. 

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Slaying the Charts: The Musical Legacy of Buffy the Vampire Slayer14 May 202401:01:25

In this episode, Kate and Charles discuss Buffy the Vampire Slayer's music, from the onscreen bands at the Bronze to the haunting melodies of the series' musical score. Don't worry we talk about "Once More With Feeling" too.

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Our 90's Fashion Style07 May 202400:09:10

In this episode of Small Bites, we explore 1990's fashion and give you a glimpse of our personal styles.

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

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Storytelling Through Costuming30 Apr 202401:15:44

In this episode, Kate and Charles discuss the iconic looks of Buffy the Vampire Slayer and how they help tell this timeless tale.

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Slanguage23 Apr 202400:22:10

In this episode of Small Bites, we get lost in translation and dive into the origins of the use of the word Slayer in pop culture and the many translations of the title Buffy Slayer of the Vampire. 

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

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Language in Buffy the Vampire Slayer16 Apr 202400:54:17

In this episode, Kate and Charles discuss Buffy the Vampire Slayer's language and jargon and the show's impact on television writing and pop culture.

Spoiler alert: The entire Buffy the Vampire Slayer series will be discussed.

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Sources

Slayer Slang: A Buffy the Vampire Slayer Lexicon by Michael Adams

The Power of Slang by Tom Dalzell: https://www.pbs.org/speak/words/sezwho/slang/ 

Understanding the Language of Buffy the Vampire Slayer: https://h2g2.com/edited_entry/A13492776

Conversations with a Therapist10 Dec 202401:12:59

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint are joined by a special guest clinical social worker and therapist, Jenna Gould, LMSW. Together, we break down the complex relationships we have been discussing all season long.

 

Show Notes:

If you or someone you know needs help with a mental health issue or need sexual assault resources please contact:

https://www.claritycounselingatlanta.com/

https://rainn.org/

 

Book Referenced:

Wired For Love

Attached

Wired For Dating

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Missed Connections03 Dec 202400:20:23

In this episode of Small Bites, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint discuss the missed romantic connections in the Buffyverse. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Does Buffy have tragic taste in men? (Part 2)19 Nov 202401:07:43

In part two of dissecting Buffy Summer’s romantic relationships, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint discuss her relationships with Riley Finn and Spike. They continue to explore the ups and downs of Buffy’s primary relationships through a modern lens. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Does Buffy have tragic taste in men? (Part 1)12 Nov 202400:51:20

In the first part of this two-part episode, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint tackle Buffy Summer’s primary romantic relationships through a modern lens and how that might change their perspectives on her relationships. Part one focuses on her relationship with Angel and a brief discussion of Parker Abrams. 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Spike’s attraction to slayers05 Nov 202400:26:47

In this episode of Small Bites, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint dig into Spike’s attraction (and obsession) with slayers and how it evolved over the years, culminating in his relationship with Buffy Summers. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Is Spike doomed to be love’s bitch? (Part 2)29 Oct 202400:54:04

In the second part of this two-part discussion, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint continue to delve into William/Spike’s romantic relationships, tackling his relationship with Buffy Summers. This discussion focuses on the relationship primarily from Spike’s perspective. Content warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault and toxic relationships.

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

Link to previous episode mentioned: Does Buffy the Vampire Slayer perpetuate rape culture?

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Is Spike doomed to be love’s bitch? (Part 1)22 Oct 202401:03:14

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint break down the major romantic relationships of William/Spike and wonder if he will always be doomed in love. The first part of this two-part discussion focuses primarily on William/Spike’s relationships with Cecily/Halfrek and Drusilla. Content warning: This episode contains discussion of toxic relationships.

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Xander Harris, Demon Magnet15 Oct 202400:16:42

In this Small Bites episode, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint continue the conversation about Xander Harris’ romantic relationships and his attraction (and attractiveness) to demons. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Xander, what is your childhood trauma?08 Oct 202400:58:53

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint delve into Xander’s romantic relationships (and brief liaisons), his traumatic childhood, and how that impacted his romantic relationships. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

Content warning: This episode contains discussion of adverse childhood experiences such as parental neglect, alcoholism, emotional and physical abuse, and divorce. 

 

Sources mentioned in the episode:

NPR - https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-mean 

Science Daily - https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2024/02/240205165831.htm 

UK Trauma Council - https://uktraumacouncil.org/resources/childhood-trauma-and-the-brain?cn-reloaded=1 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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What is family in Buffy the Vampire Slayer?15 Apr 202500:57:14

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint discuss what family looks like in Buffy the Vampire Slayer, its importance in the series, and how it prioritizes chosen family over biological family. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Favorite Summers women moments06 May 202500:20:34

Kate and Charles discuss their favorite moments between Joyce, Buffy, and Dawn Summers in this Small Bites episode. Joyce, Buffy, and Dawn often feel the most relatable during their authentic family moments. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Who is mother?29 Apr 202501:01:03

Kate and Charles discuss the Summers women and the dynamics of their relationships. They particularly delve into the dynamics between Joyce and Buffy and Buffy and Dawn and wonder about who really takes on the role of mother. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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What to expect when a Scooby’s expecting22 Apr 202500:29:22

In this Small Bites episode, Kate Balzer and Charles Swint have fun discussing which Buffy the Vampire Slayer characters are most likely to become a parent and why and what kind of parent they would be. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bite: Missed Connections - Friendship Edition17 Jun 202500:19:58

Kate and Charles imagine the great friendships that could have happened between characters on Buffy the Vampire Slayer, but never had the opportunity to develop. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Is there more to friendship than slaying?10 Jun 202501:19:13

Kate and Charles discuss whether or not Buffy, Willow, and Xander’s friendship needs the slaying to stay together or if they can be friends beyond the slaying. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bite: Dysfunctional Families - Villains in Buffy the Vampire Slayer03 Jun 202500:29:57

Kate and Charles turn the conversation to the “Big Bads” in this Small Bites episode and discuss the familial dynamics of the main villains and their actual or found family members.   

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Are Darla, Angelus, Drusilla, and Spike a family?27 May 202500:38:35

Kate and Charles delve into the relationship between Darla, Angelus, Drusilla, and Spike and discuss whether these four are a family and what it means for a group of vampires to be family. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series and “Angel” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: Faith and The Mayor20 May 202500:26:18

In this Small Bites episode, Kate and Charles discuss the relationship between Faith and The Mayor and debate whether the relationship was genuine, manipulative or both. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Does Giles Know Best?13 May 202500:51:20

Kate and Charles delve into the multifaceted relationship between Buffy Summers and her watcher Rupert Giles and discuss whether or not their relationship is the most complex one in the series. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Conversations with a Therapist, Part 224 Jun 202501:08:09

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint are joined again by clinical social worker and therapist Jenna Gould, LMSW. Jenna helps break down the family relationships and friendships in Buffy the Vampire Slayer from a therapist’s perspective. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Jeremy Williams. 

 

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Small Bites: The weight of potential power05 May 202600:25:19

Kate and Charles talk about Dawn and the potential slayers. They are characters who have the potential for power, but it hasn’t yet been activated. What does that feel like and how does it impact the characters? 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Christy Ward. 

 

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Is slaying about power?28 Apr 202600:43:59

It’s not about right. It’s not about wrong. It’s about power. Or is it?

In this episode, Kate and Charles discuss the power of being a vampire slayer and how each of the three primary slayers from the series, Buffy, Faith, and Kendra, deal with that power and explore the question of when did each young woman truly become a slayer. 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Christy Ward. 

 

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Small Bites: Is Buffy Summers the leader we need?21 Apr 202600:18:48

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint discuss how part of Buffy Summers’ success as a slayer is due to her leadership style and that she instinctually builds a strong team around her and that when she goes against her instincts is when she stumbles as a leader. 

 

Spoiler alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Christy Ward. 

 

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What’s wrong with The Watchers Council?14 Apr 202600:37:32

Kate Balzer and Charles Swint discuss how The Watcher’s Council in Buffy the Vampire Slayer uses and abuses its power. The Council hoards their knowledge and resources to the detriment of the slayer, but met their match in Buffy Summers.  

 

Spoiler Alert: the entire “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” series will be discussed. 

 

This episode was produced by Kate Balzer and Charles Swint. Edited by Christy Ward. 

 

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