We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, whether its Bravo, Drag Queens, or anything else that can be called even kinda gay. Basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. Our theme song is Pulsar by Shane Ivers which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
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This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the newest episode of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, where Salt Lake Socialite Amy becomes a casualty of World War Lisa. Then the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees Gretchen apply her self defense training quickly once Tamra confronts her on a brand new rumor. And finally, the season finale of Real Housewives of Miami, where nothing is jolly this Christmas for Adriana when she deals with a former friend in Julia and a longtime enemy in Marysol.
5:00 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 02
1:21:05 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 12
2:29:25 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 17
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 185: Blair Bitch Project
Sunday, September 21, 2025 • Duration 03:58:42
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the season premiere of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, that sees Angie make the women rough it as Britani gets roughed up from every angle. Then the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Gretchen carries Slade’s Tamra tea as Tamra tries and fails to connect with Shannon. And finally, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, as it’s time for Art Basel and Adriana spirals when finding out who doodled on her cake.
5:11 - Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Season 06: Episode 01
1:24:13 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 11
2:42:25 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 16
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 184: Merlin’s Guide to Parenting
Sunday, September 14, 2025 • Duration 03:12:26
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the past two episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Jenn cuts Katie out of her life as Tamra refuses to allow Shannon to. Then, two new episodes of Real Housewives of Miami, where Richard Branson’s cruise leads to a great deal of healing, yet new issues emerging with Alexia and Marysol.
4:29 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episodes 09 & 10
1:50:18 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episodes 14 & 15
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 183: Flamenco and a Funeral
Sunday, August 31, 2025 • Duration 03:51:18
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the Love Island Season 7 reunion, where the cast reunites after venting on a hundred different podcasts and before most of the couples break up. Then, the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees Emily celebrate Persian New Year by attempting to put the final nail in Katie’s coffin. And finally, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where Alexia and Marysol turn down a private jet in exchange for avoiding Stephanie’s bossy behavior.
5:07 - Love Island USA: Season 07: Reunion
1:44:25 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 08
2:56:47 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 13
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 182: Half a Xanny
Sunday, August 24, 2025 • Duration 02:45:10
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the newest episode of Real Housewives of Orange County, where Katie is done covering for Gretchen and Tamra is done… not filming. I guess. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, that sees Adriana’s loose lips lead to a war of words with Kiki and Lisa’s prized spot on Stephanie’s PJ gets put in jeopardy.
4:47 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 07
1:34:34 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 12
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 181: Who's Kylie?
Sunday, August 17, 2025 • Duration 04:00:32
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Three of The Valley reunion, where Janet and Jason take legalese to a whole new level, as we bid farewell to the former number one guy in the group. Then, two new episodes of Real Housewives of Miami, where nothing is civil in Seville, whether it’s a dog fight between Alexia and Stephanie or a follower fight between Larsa and Lisa. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, where Tamra’s shocking claim about Katie leads to Gretchen on edge and a drunken Tamra going over it. Maybe for the last time.
5:03 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 18
1:28:20 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episodes 10 & 11
2:44:08 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 06
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 180: You’re Not Columbo
Sunday, August 10, 2025 • Duration 03:52:04
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Two of The Valley reunion, where accountability is the word of the night, and some of the worst accepters of it dish out the most critique. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where the ladies drop the petty and get preppy, with a grand prize of a plane ride with Stephanie up for grabs.. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees the women head to NOLA and bond over turtle soup before the underlying tensions come to the surface.
4:31 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 17
1:56:23 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 09
2:47:23 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 05
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 179: Dry Bony Wrinkled Knees
Sunday, August 3, 2025 • Duration 04:20:54
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Three of the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion, where Charles is the last husband and lays down the law just like he did on the court. Also, Part One of The Valley reunion, where the darkness surrounding Jax’s treatment of Brittany seems to be an afterthought for Andy Cohen. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where dueling yachts lead to a drunken Adriana, who somehow still manages to be the voice of reason. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, where Tamra tries to weaponize an OG of the OC, but fails to slay the dragon that is Jenn Pedranti.
5:13 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 16: Episode 20
1:05:55 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 16
2:31:21 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 08
3:19:24 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 04
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 178: Cartwrights and Cart-Wrongs
Sunday, July 27, 2025 • Duration 04:07:58
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk Part Two of the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion, that sees bags, books and blowups as Porsha and Shamea’s friendship begins to get aired out. Also, the season finale of The Valley, where Michelle’s zen party is lacking just that as this friend group is ripped apart in different directions. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where Guerdy’s celebration of life features a receipt to remember. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, that sees Shannon make clear to Katie that she’s finished, and before she ever gets to finish her grilled cheese.
5:57 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 16: Episode 19
1:07:20 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 15
2:27:45 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 07
3:09:23 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 03
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
Episode 177: DumbleDoute
Sunday, July 20, 2025 • Duration 03:49:38
This episode, Eamon & Merlin talk the finale of Love Island USA, with a winning couple crowned and the most awkward rendition of Moon River imaginable. They then discuss Part One of the Real Housewives of Atlanta reunion, where Porsha came with hugs and Angela came with receipts? Also, the newest episode of The Valley, where Jax’s evil powers will no longer penetrate Brittany and Jason’s commitment will be marked on him forever. Then, a new episode of Real Housewives of Miami, where some god has tricked these women into believing Lisa is a bigger narcissist than Larsa at Alexia’s party. And finally, Real Housewives of Orange County, where Katie’s hot pot lunch gets way hotter as a returning Gretchen is serving up comeuppance for Tamra.
5:06 - Love Island: Season 07: Episode 36
18:50 - Real Housewives of Atlanta: Season 16: Episode 18
1:06:32 - The Valley: Season 02: Episode 14
2:04:24 - Real Housewives of Miami: Season 07: Episode 06
2:48:20 - Real Housewives of Orange County: Season 19: Episode 02
We are Eamon and Merlin, a queer married couple from Texas living in Pittsburgh, PA. We love reality television, wrestling, drag queens, and pretty much anything that can be called even kinda gay. A Gay & His Enby is a podcast where we talk about everything we love in terms of media and pop culture; everything thats gay and gay adjacent; basically all the conversations we have in our living room we are now putting in front of a microphone and on the internet for you.
We have launched our MERCH STORE! We are so excited to bring you these designs, all made by Merlin, commemorating some of our favorite iconic moments! Shop now at https://AGayAndHisEnby.Threadless.com
Every week, we have the pleasure and privilege of recording from Sorgatron Media Studios in Pittsburgh. The theme song for our main show is Pulsar by Shane Ivers, and the theme song for Binge Watch is Higher Up by Shane Ivers, both of which you can find at https://www.silvermansound.com
All of our social media can be found at our linktree: https://linktr.ee/agayandhisenby
We want to take a moment to uplift a powerful resource:
👉 Nationwide Bail Funds and Immigration Support (https://soinformed.substack.com/p/nationwide-bail-funds-and-immigration) from So Informed. This is a direct action guide that helps connect people to immigration bail funds, mutual aid efforts, and legal support across the country.
Let us be crystal clear: A Gay & His Enby stands for immigrant rights. Period.
We stand against the racism, xenophobia, and violent white supremacy driving Trump, his administration, and the illegal ICE raids terrorizing immigrant communities.
This isn’t just politics—it’s about people. Families being torn apart. Communities being surveilled and silenced. And the same systems that criminalize immigrants also criminalize Black people, trans people, queer people, disabled people—anyone who doesn’t fit white supremacist standards of “belonging.”
We believe:
🖤 No human being is illegal.
🖤 Borders are violent.
🖤 Solidarity means action, not just vibes.
If you’ve ever wondered how to help, this guide is a great place to start. Share it. Donate if you can. Speak out even when it’s uncomfortable.
None of us are free until all of us are free.
In recent years, states have pushed forward a record number of bills that attack LGBTQ rights, especially transgender youth. The current obession with Drag Queens is no exception. This is a thinly veiled attempt to outlaw gender expressions that do not fall within the cisheteronormative guidelines. Please consider donating to one of the following charities to help make the US a safer place for Queer folks to live in peace.
American Civil Liberties Union (https://www.aclu.org/issues/lgbtq-rights)
Trevor Project (https://give.thetrevorproject.org/give/63307/#!/donation/checkout)
PFLAG (https://pflag.org/donate/)
True Colors United (https://my.truecolorsunited.org/give/107399/#!/donation/checkout)
OutRight International (https://outrightinternational.org/take-action/give)
Lambda Legal (https://support.lambdalegal.org/site/Donation2;jsessionid=00000000.app30130a?df_id=6680&mfc_pref=T&6680.donation=form1&NONCE_TOKEN=D3311163DF16F06EEA5520010BAF90B5)
GLBTQ Legal Advocates & Defenders (https://donate.glad.org/give/123741/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=webheader)
Human Rights Campaign (https://give.hrc.org/page/118560/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=or_gnr_hrc_homepage2022)
It Gets Better Project (https://give.itgetsbetter.org/give/250737/#!/donation/checkout)
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