Looking for unapologetic honesty? This weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay delivers exactly that as James and Dan are joined by Australian singer, writer, performer and comedian Reuben Kaye. The trio dive deep into queer culture - addressing the spectrum from Queer joy to Queer rage, as well as Reuben's experience with homophobia and cancel culture. Along the way, we learn about the importance of faking it until you make it, the difference between social dynamics in Australia and the UK and how Reuben found his home in cabaret. Follow A Gay & A NonGay TikTok: @gaynongay Instagram: @gaynongay YouTube: @gaynongay Facebook: @gaynongay Website: gaynongay.com Email Us: us@gaynongay.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Following last weeks conversation about gay stereotypes, this week James and Dan are diving into another myth: that all gay people know each other! Hint: It's, obviously, not true. The question leads onto a conversation about social media habits and the awkwardness that can come with liking people's posts online. This weeks episode of A Gay And A NonGay ends with a discussion around polyamorous dating. James and Dan offer their reflections on navigating relationships whilst discovering yourself. Follow A Gay & A NonGay TikTok: @gaynongay Instagram: @gaynongay YouTube: @gaynongay Facebook: @gaynongay Website: gaynongay.com Email Us: us@gaynongay.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you go about making male gay friends as a man in your 30s? Are heterosexual people allowed to use terms like 'top/bottom' and 'pillow princess'? And how does a closeted Hip-Hop MC go about embracing who he really is without risking his career? James and Dan explore it all in this episode. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In a very special extended episode for LGBT History Month, James and Dan are delighted and honoured to welcome the legendary British human rights campaigner, Peter Tatchell. Originally from Australia, Peter has been campaigning on issues of LGBT equality, human rights, democracy, civil liberties, and global justice since 1967. We hear about his career as a protestor, including the public outing of gay bishops, disrupting the Archbishop of Canterbury's Easter Service, attempting to arrest Robert Mugabe and being beaten up by neo-Nazis in Russia. Join the Peter Tatchell Foundation, https://www.petertatchellfoundation.org/ Hating Peter Tatchell is out now on Netflix. Listen to new episodes of A Gay and A NonGay, ad free, subscribe at www.gaynongay.com/donate Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's been a rough week for James as he discovers he’s been playing the wrong Wordle. We chat Grindr hook ups, the importance of our queer history and the new BBC drama Four Lives. Listen to ad-free episodes of our podcast now by becoming a member of our patreon 😘. Visit www.gaynongay.com/donate. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James responds to an article in The Mail On Sunday, which suggested a piece he wrote about pronouns was 'misleading'. For ad free episodes of our podcasts visit www.gaynongay.com/donate. Support Mermaids, the UK's gender-diverse charity for children and their families. Visit https://mermaidsuk.org.uk/. View The Trevor Project's guide to being an ally to trans and non binary youth https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/guide/a-guide-to-being-an-ally-to-transgender-and-nonbinary-youth/. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We discuss the UK government's pardon for historic same-sex convictions and talk about Priti Patel’s Anti-Refugee Bill. Plus James didn't think he needed to explain cruise bars to Dan, but he does. Get ad free episodes on our Patreon, support our podcast at www.gaynongay.com/donate. Thanks so much for listening! Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's our first studio episode of 2022! Will Dan stop saying 'whatnot' this year?! Can James stop sending Dan e-mails saying 'let me know?'. We're setting each other some New Years Resolutions. Is it normal to be annoyed by your boyfriend/girlfriend/theyfriend? Plus some, err, washing up chat. Thanks for listening! You can now hear ad-free episodes of our podcast, become a member of our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate. Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 listen to our live recording with Richard Gadd and Christina Bianco. On today's episode James challenges impressionist diva Christina to make metal more ‘Gay friendly’ and the boys chat to comedian Richard Gadd about his latest show, the award-winning ‘Baby Reindeer.' Trigger warning - this episode does contain conversations about abuse. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by American political comedian Jena Friedman to talk democracy, the state of America, their fave bros Russia and smashing the trolls! Plus join James and Dan celebrating Slipknot's UK #1 album (let's face it - this is just Dan) Join James and Dan plus special guests at the #EdFringe every night from 10.25pm, until August 25th 2019. Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now http://www.underbellyfestival.com/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-non-gay. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Surprise! We're live from the Edinburgh Fringe festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness every Monday and Wednesday. In our first recording, Dan's baked cakes 😱we invite gay comedian Jack Rooke on stage to chat about homophobia, plus the stars of BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluid's Alix Fox & Riyadh Khalaf talk sex and... spaff. Join James and Dan plus special guests at the #EdinburghFringe every night from 10.25pm, until August 25th 2019. Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now http://www.underbellyfestival.com/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-non-gay. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan gets his tongue tied, and not just from kissing James! Plus we revisit a game from Dan's past. --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5? --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James and Dan caught up with the winner of 2024 Eurovision, Nemo. They chat about how the winning single was created, what's the tea on the dropped trophy and advice for anyone who is non-binary and struggling with their coming out. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live! -- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike? --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn't think so. --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay! --- Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongay Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we're hanging out with mates? Dan is triggered. -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues... 😞 -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A NonGay & A Grandaddy! The boys chat about our shared LGBTQ+ history, Trans rights, Stonewall 50 and err 'bumming'. We kick off our first ever Pride Tour this weekend, see you this Saturday 8th June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live We're playing Dublin (23rd) and Belfast (24th) this month too & return to the Edinburgh Fringe 2019 this August. Tap on gaynongay.com/live for info. -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS. Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special. -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James and Dan use a previous listener dilemma as a starting point for a wider discussion around labels and identity. They also answer the question of why gays and lesbians don't get along. Listen back to the chat with Helen Scott here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at gaynongay.com/live  --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there's A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex and child abuse. Today's episode celebrates Digital Pride: the online movement, created by Gay Star News so you can take part in pride whoever and wherever you are. This year Digital Pride is tackling loneliness and isolation, find out more at gaystarnews.com We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx Get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete? -- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com Get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand what it means to be Non-Binary, how to be a better ally and how gender identity can be confusing no matter how you feel. Listen to Caitlin & co-host Amrou’s NB podcast on BBC Sounds for more. & A Non Binary is the second in our series learning more about other identities and sexualities. You can listen to our previous episode & A Trans. --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com Mug someone off at our shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it's okay to 'mug someone off' if you've invited them back for sex? --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London. --- Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into...  Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan's advice on how to come out. For more advice on coming out listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and invite us to the Whale of the Year Awards at us@gaynongay.com -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks and the latest on homophobic protests outside a school in Birmingham. Plus NonGay Eye's back and our listener Mason wants to know if he's missing out on the fun of his 20s whilst being in a gay relationship?  We've taken loads of your wonderful messages to our favourite advice podcast! Listen to our brand new series with Radio 1's Life Hacks podcast via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0738blz.  We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why are so many gays anti-pride? Is it internalised homophobia? Plus - are bisexuals just greedy? Dan ran the London Marathon in 3h 27! You can help him help Marie Curie here. Get tickets to see James’ new show at www.jamesbarrcomedy.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new LGBT Education action plan -- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers. -- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean? --- We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it? We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets. Find out more about The Trevor Project's 50 Bills 50 States, or the podcast UnErased to understand more about conversion therapy in the US. Check out The Rainbow Project in Northern Ireland, promoting the health and wellbeing of LGBT+ people and their families. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story. For support and information about HIV we recommend Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK and in the US Greater Than Aids. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen! This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

James and Dan react to RuPaul saying that monogamy is a hoax. Is there such thing as monogamy with men, and is it a different script for gays and nongays? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson from our special episode A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans, and highlights from our 100th Episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival.  This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their singing. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship. Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop -- A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her) Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices