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| #323: Thanksgiving Debate + Cozy Fall Home | 26 oct. 2026 | 00:43:55 | |
This week we're chatting about Thanksgiving dishes, discussing a hot take about why Thanksgiving is the worst meal of the year and answering a question about rugs. We'll also share a book report, so grab your warm beverage and let's get into it.
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Elsie's Autumn Senses: Eating and drinking: Apple cider slushies and Baked Brie with pie crust Smelling: Heirloom Pumpkin Watching: East of Eden Listening: Neptune by Sufjan Stevens Wearing: Christy Dawn Dresses
Emma's Autumn Senses: Eating and drinking: Collagen hot chocolate, apple cider, cinnamon tea, royal icing sugar cookies and pumpkin crumb cookies Smelling: Pumpkin candles Watching: Nothing but wishes Bob's Burgers would come back Wearing: Sweater
Favorite Thanksgiving sides: Elsie: Stuffing, Stuffing meatballs, and Shrimp cocktail Emma: Baked macaroni and cheese, Dinner rolls with honey butter, and Green bean cassorole
Book Report: Hollywood Ending by John Green
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| #322: Ghost Stories | 19 oct. 2026 | 00:57:31 | |
This week we're doing our annual reading of listener submitted ghost stories. We're also sharing our review of the movie Verity and a hot take about spoilers in book reviews. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Timeline is offering a 15-day trial of the Mitopure Resurfacing Exfoliator for just $22. Go to Timeline.com/MESS to try it for $22. Ready to make it part of your routine? Go to Timeline.com/MESS20 to shop the full-size Timeline Mitopure Resurfacing Exfoliator and save up to 20% Head to LolaBlankets.com and use code MESS to get 40% OFF your order.
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| #321: Cozy Fall Dream Day | 12 oct. 2026 | 00:48:18 | |
This week is all about fall, what our dreamiest autumn days look like, and what we were like as kids.
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Elsie's cozy Fall dream day: Wake up at 5am and work on her novel Paint for an hour and listen to audiobook Take a fall walk Have the best sandwich in town for lunch Paint some more Pick up kids from school and talk with other parents Halloween movie and baking project Family dinner Make popcorn Watch TV show with Jeremy
Emma's cozy fall dream day: Wake up at 6am with kids and have coffee in a Halloween mug Workout/Go on a walk Do paint by numbers and listen to audiobook Wear a cozy sweater Thifting Activity with the kids Make bread with Oscar Read a Halloween book with the kids Make soup for dinner
Book Report: Elsie - The Parisian Heist by Jo Piazza Emma - Margo's got Money Troubles by Rufi Thorpe
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| #320: Emma's Book Querying Journey | 05 oct. 2026 | 00:53:08 | |
In this week's episode, Emma is telling the story of her querying journey and the path to traditionally publishing her romance novel. It's a great story, and we are very excited for you to get to hear it. We're also going to answer a listener question about holiday decorating and a hot take about potlucks.
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On holiday decorations: Elsie - complete but likes to buy 1 thing every year for fun Emma - Adding to her collections
Check out The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron
Check out Query Bootcamp by Lauren Kay
What goes into a query letter: A hook (very short one paragraph what your book is, don't give away the ending) A synopsis Some comparable titles 1-2 paragraphs about yourself what your writing goals are
Tips for navigating rejections: Talk about it with others Find inspiration books It's ok to feel sad
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| #319: Finding the Good Stuff | 28 sept. 2026 | 00:44:47 | |
This week's episode is a treasure-hunting guide — how to actually find the best antiques, vintage and handmade stuff online and off. We're also sharing our tips for starting and maintaining a Little Free Library. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Head to Oakessentials.com and use code MESS for 15% off your first order at checkout. Visit ernesta.com and order five samples for only $10, and you'll get $50 toward any rug of your choice.
Tips for buying art on Ebay: Put in the type of painting Keep the words "vintage" or "antique" in the search to weed out all the new stuff Be consistent Give it good and different kinds of search terms Find the fanciest stores that sell vintage
Tips for buying on Etsy: If you are looking for art, you have to have the word original in your search Go down your own rabbit holes Save your favorite shops
Tips for a Little Free Library: Check out littlefreelibrary.org Clean out your library every once in a while
Book Report: Emma - The Lost Bookshop by Evie Woods Elsie - Understory by Chloe Benjamin
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| #318: Old Houses, New Chapters | 21 sept. 2026 | 00:33:58 | |
In today's episode we're chatting about the pull of old houses and hometowns — the charm, the challenges and what it actually feels like to move home. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Timeline is offering a 15-day trial of the Mitopure Resurfacing Exfoliator for just $22. Give it 15 days and see how your skin looks and feels. Go to Timeline.com/MESS to try it for $22. Ready to make it part of your routine? Go to Timeline.com/MESS20 to shop the full-size Head to LolaBlankets.com and use code MESS to get 40% OFF your order.
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| #317: Autumn Traditions | 14 sept. 2026 | 00:30:48 | |
Today's episode is about the rituals, recipes, and rhythms that make Autumn the coziest season — including traditions we repeat every year and the ones we're trying for the first time. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Visit ernesta.com and order five samples for only $10, and you'll get $50 toward any rug of your choice. Head to Wayfair.com to shop all things home.
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Favorite Annual Autumn traditions: Elsie: Kitchen movies, decorating the house, and making fun recipes Emma: Halloween sugar cookie decorating, decorating the house, and Halloween movie night New Autumn traditions: Elsie: Boo baskets and Halloween cookie boxes Emma: Thanksgiving cookie box Autumn traditions that flopped: Elsie: Trying movies (keep trying theme very year) Emma: Weather related activities (have a backup plan) Autumn non-negotiables: Elsie: Baked brie, decorating, and neighborhood witch's weekend Emma: Orea truffles, pumpkin decorating, and wagon walks Book Report Elsie: Peter Pan by J. M. Barrie Emma: The Pumpkin Spice Cafe by Laurie Gilmore
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| #316: Fall Bucket List | 07 sept. 2026 | 00:51:06 | |
This week we're sharing our Fall Bucket Lists and giving you ideas to make your own. We've also got a spooky season debate and a decor hot take that we're so excited to rage about.
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Halloween manifestos: Elsie - Do what feels good to you Emma - Loves fall
Elsie's Fall Bucket List: Halloween Mouse House Apple Cider Slushies Pink House (Witch Theme) Social Media Challenge (100 days) Finishing my novel revision and query
Emma's Fall bucket List: Family Halloween Costume Fall/Halloween Activities with kids Apple picking Bake seasonal treats Query children's picture book
Book Report The Marriage Portrait by Maggie O'Farrell
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| #315: Our 3 Style Words & Tattoo Talk | 31 août 2026 | 00:47:34 | |
Today we're figuring out our three style words, trying to convince a skeptic that cookbooks are worth it, and giving our best tattoo advice to a listener. Plus we'll share a hot take on gender reveal parties.
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Elsie's 3 style words: Cozy Vintage Goth
Emma's 3 style words: Weird Colorful Mom
Tips for buying cook books: Something that fits your diet and your needs Buy your kids a cookbook and let them pick out some recipes,.
Tips for getting Tattoos: Start with 2 tattoos Fine line is the quickest If you want a small tattoo, go to someone who specializes in fine line Choose one style Don't overthink how it's going to look in 20 years Research your tattoo artist Speak up for what you want
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| #314: Enjoying Summer (Ew!) & Favorite Old Houses | 24 août 2026 | 00:37:20 | |
Today we're helping our fellow autumn souls survive the remainder of summer heat and we're reminiscing about our favorite features from old houses that we still miss. We're also debating whether painting brick homes white needs to stop.
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Tips for surviving summer: Collect everything that you love about summer Start shopping for Autumn home decor
Miss from previous old houses: Emma - Black exterior Elsie - The secret library, theater room, and pool
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| #313: What We Love about Writing | 17 août 2026 | 00:42:47 | |
Today we're chatting about what we love about writing, our different privacy boundaries, a fun hot take and a brand new ghost story that happened in my bedroom recently.
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What's in Emma's cauldron: A smut book Crochet sweater Frank Sinatra CD
What's in Elsie's cauldron: A novel that made her cry with an artsy cover Designer dress that looks witchy A paint set or camera
Book Report: The Andromeda Strain by Michael Crichton
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| #312: When Your House Doesn't Feel like Home | 10 août 2026 | 00:58:29 | |
Today we're discussing what to do when your new home isn't speaking to you, and you aren't sure what it needs to feel cozy. We're also discussing whether we think modern design has lost its charm, and we're sharing a few of our favorite home decor books and art books
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Mentioned in today's episode: Grandma Moses: An American Original Julie Blackmon: Midwest Materials
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| #311: How to be the Ultimate Host | 03 août 2026 | 00:42:41 | |
This week we're discussing the best parties we've ever thrown, tips for hosting that will save you a little sanity, and we're debating a hot take about Doctor Seuss.
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Best party they have thrown: Halloween house warming party New Year's party Nova's Survivor theme birthday party Wine pairing dinner party Clothing exchange party Wine ranking party
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| #310: Day Planning | 27 juil. 2026 | 00:51:15 | |
Today we are sharing how we play our days to stay productive and also happy. We are also debating hot takes on the controversial topics of astrology and raisins. Planning Styles: Emma - Uses paper planner for meals and notes app for daily to-do list Elsie - Only appointments go on her digital calendar Project Management: Emma - Make a roadmap and seasonal bucket list Elsie - Checklist What makes a productive day: Emma - Activity with the kids and play time for her Elsie - Reading with kids for an hour, one household chore, and reading or watching TV before bed Book Report: The Hotel Nantucket by Ellen Hilderbrand
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| #309: Chatty Listener Questions Episode | 20 juil. 2026 | 00:42:41 | |
This week we're digging into all kinds of interesting topics listeners emailed us about from body image and the glow up to being the best aunt and even some home decor topics. It's random but it's fun!
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Questions we answer: What are you doing for a "Summer Glow Up"? Has retiring from influencing affected your relationship with the way you look? Do you have any tips on how to be a great aunt? What do I do with an heirloom crib that I'm no longer using? How do I renovate without losing the history of my house? If your life was a sitcom what would your genre tags be on Netflix?
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| #308: Designing Your Dream Life | 13 juil. 2026 | 00:46:05 | |
This week we're chatting about creating a dream life schedule that includes routines and rituals that work together to create a highly customized DREAM LIFE. We love this subject and I think it's something that can really help us through this current season of life and can help a lot of our listeners. Consider it a group project.
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Designing a dream life:
Book Report: Emma: The Mountain in the Sea by Ray Nayler Elsie: The Dollhouse by Fiona Davis
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| #307: Mini Comforts | 06 juil. 2026 | 00:59:34 | |
This week we're chatting about small, free or inexpensive comforts you can employ to fix a bad day.
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Mini Comforts: Elsie:
Emma:
Book Report: Emma: Shark Drunk by Morten Stroksnes Elsie: Whistler by Ann Patchett
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| #306: Disney Mom Episode | 29 juin 2026 | 00:51:32 | |
This week we're sharing all things Disneyland and Disneyworld with children including our best advice for keeping magical vibes, favorite traditions, special foods and things we've learned from almost ten years of visiting Disney with small kids.
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Favorite things to do/ traditions: Small World Get every kind of snack possible Bibbidi bobbidi boutique Meal with characters
Book Report: Emma: Her Body and Other Parties By Carmen Maria Machado Elsie: Famesick by Lena Dunham
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| #305: Business Ideas (Past, Present & Future) | 22 juin 2026 | 01:08:50 | |
This week we're sharing stories from our past businesses, updates on our current ventures and dream business ideas we're still saving for the future.
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Businesses we talk about: Emma's Cupcake / Bubble Tea Shop Elsie's Scrapbook Product Line Emma's Bar Querying The Golden Bakery
Book Report Emma: First Person Singular by Haruki Murakami Elsie: The Book Witch by Meg Shaffer
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| #304: Poolside Books | 15 juin 2026 | 00:43:29 | |
This week we're sharing our Poolside book recommendations as well as Elsie's favorite hot takes. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Get at least 15% off any annual membership at masterclass.com/abeautifulmess Get 10% off + free shipping at Tumbleliving.com/mess Elsie's Pollside Books: The Paper Palace By Miranda Cowley Heller The Wedding People by Alison Espach The Wishing Game by Meg Shaffer Emma's Poolside Books: The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman Things you Save in a Fire by Katherine Center The Vacationers by Emma Straub You can support us by leaving us a couple of 5 star recipe reviews this week at abeautifulmess.com Have a topic idea for the podcast? Write in to us at podcast@abeautifulmess.com or leave us a voicemail at 417-893-0011.
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| #303: Best Date Night Ideas | 08 juin 2026 | 00:39:40 | |
This week we're sharing our favorite date night ideas including date nights at home and a listener topic about the trend of romanticizing everything.
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Elsie's Favorite date nights: Movie Double date Concert Weekend getaway
Emma's Favorite date nights: Fancy Dinner Festival Mini golf Book store Ax throwing Karaoke
Elsie's Favorite date nights in: Movie Nights Fancy takeout at home Sitting on the porch hot tub or night swim walk around the neighborhood
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| #302: Top 3 Places We've Visited | 01 juin 2026 | 00:41:36 | |
This week we're sharing the top places we've visited as well as places we thing might be overrated and a listeners hot take on faux plants. Thank you to this week's sponsor: You can try their products and support our show by going to DrinkLMNT.com/ABeautifulMess
Elsie's Best Places:
Emma's Best Places:
Elsie's Overrated Places:
Emma's Overrated Places:
Elsie's best trip before kids: Palm Springs Emma's best trip before kids: LA Elsie's best trip with kids: Disney Emma's best trip with kids: Costa Rico
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| #301: Comfort Objects | 25 mai 2026 | 00:32:53 | |
This week we're discussing comfort objects- little things that bring inordinate comfort into our lives. We're also sharing our cozy rituals and ideal way to spend a day.
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Elsie's comfort objects:
Emma's comfort objects:
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| #300: Summer Bucket List | 18 mai 2026 | 00:40:05 | |
This week we're sharing what's on our Summer bucket list and discussing a hot take about shoe-free rules in homes. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Get 15% off at Masterclass.com/ABEAUTIFULMESS Go to Dupe.com to finally feel confident about what to buy Elsie's Summer Bucket List:
Emma's Summer Bucket List:
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| #299: Yesteryear & What Kind of Genius are You? | 11 mai 2026 | 01:00:45 | |
This week we're discussing Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke and taking a quiz on what kind of genius we are. We'll also chat about a listener hot take on whether or not kids should be taught euphanisms. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at Shopify.com/abm Get 10% off + free shipping at Tumbleliving.com/mess
The 6 Types of Genius: Wonder Discernment Invention Enablement Galvanizing Tenacity
Feel Something, Make Something by Caitlyn Metz Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke
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| #298: The Five Minute Practice that Changed my Life (with guest Katie Day) | 04 mai 2026 | 00:55:36 | |
This week we are joined by our bestie Katie Day who is here to share the five minute practice that changed her life. We'll also discuss a hot take about white tennis shoes.
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Katie's 5 minute practice:
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| #297: What it's really like working with family | 27 avr. 2026 | 00:49:49 | |
This week we're getting honest about what it's really like working with family. We've been working together since our early 20s and people always ask how we do it so today we're spilling the tea. We're also discussing what we're reading and a hot take about long vs short books.
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Biggest Pro: Time spent together
Biggest con: More risk to the relationship
Book Report: Elsie: Lincoln in The Bardo by George Saunders Emma: Lights Out By Navessa Allen You can support us by leaving us a couple of 5 star recipe reviews this week at abeautifulmess.com Have a topic idea for the podcast? Write in to us at podcast@abeautifulmess.com or leave us a voicemail at 417-893-0011.
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| #296: Books That Changed How We See the World | 20 avr. 2026 | 00:51:58 | |
This week we're talking about the books that genuinely shifted how we see the world — not just 5 star reads, but the ones that rewired our thinking and books we still find ourselves talking about years later.
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Elsie's books: Jurassic Park by Michael Crichton Station Eleven by Emily Sr. John Mandel Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro
Emma's books: Brave New World by Aldous Huxley The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
Nonfiction Bonus: Elsie: Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and Supercommunicators by Charles Duhigg Emma: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt
Book Report: Elsie: The Astral Library by Kate Quinn Emma: One Golden Summer by Carley Fortune
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| #295: Millennial Time Capsule | 13 avr. 2026 | 00:53:10 | |
This week we're entering a world in which there are no iPhones, no internet, no apps, no online shopping, no social media no steaming and no smart tech of any kind. Yes: We're traveling to a land where you get advice from magazines, information from encylopedias and to speak to someone you must pick up the phone and dial numbers.
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Things we miss:
GUILTY PLEASURE TREASURE Elsie: Traitors Emma: Little Debbie Cosmic Brownies
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| #294: Developing Your Signature Style | 06 avr. 2026 | 00:38:39 | |
This week we're talking about how to develop your creative palette and style without being derivative. This is a subject that applies across different creative practices from art to writing and even how you dress or decorate your home.
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Steal like an Artist by Austin Kleon
Steps to develop your creative palette: Step one: Develop your taste (Be a fan! Appreciate art!) Step two: MAKE DERIVITIVE WORK (keep doing so until your own style emerges) Step three: Keep developing, keep growing, keep making (to infinity & beyond)
BOOK REPORT State of Wonder by Ann Patchett
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| #293: Vision Board and 5 Year Plan | 30 mars 2026 | 00:43:31 | |
In this week's episode we're diving into how to make vision boards and 5 year plans. If you're in the mood to think about your goals and dreams, you're in the right place. We're also answering some listener questions and engaging in a Hot Take Debate about whether romantic comedies are actually the worst. How to make a vision board: Create different categories for your goals (family, work, fitness, etc) Write in present tense Get pictures from the internet or magazines "We overestimate what we can do in a day, but we underestimate what we can do in a year." Check out Remit Sethi's books: You can support us by leaving us a couple of 5 star recipe reviews this week at abeautifulmess.com Have a topic idea for the podcast? Write in to us at podcast@abeautifulmess.com or leave us a voicemail at 417-893-0011.
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| #292: Spring Bucket List | 23 mars 2026 | 00:42:32 | |
In this week's episode we're sharing our Spring Bucket List since it's officially the first week of Spring. It's still pretty cold where we live, so a lot of this is wishful thinking, but it's fun to plan things to look forward to. We're also sharing an extra hot Hot Take Debate about kids and iPads. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at Shopify.com/abm Head to Wayfair dot com right now to shop all things home. Elsie:
Emma:
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| #291: Work from Home Stories | 16 mars 2026 | 00:59:40 | |
In this week's episode we're talking about the highs and lows working from home and how we balance our career dreams with raising young children. We've got several great listener questions to cover and we'll share an extra hot Hot Take Debate. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code MESS at checkout to get 30% off sitewide Just use code [MESS] for 15% off the Premium Starter Kit at BranchBasics.com Our home work spaces: Elsie - Uses her sunroom as her art studio and moves around to different spaces in her house with her laptop Emma - Extra bedroom is office, sometimes works from coffee shop or library Pros and cons of working from home: Pros - Good way to keep life balanced Cons - Lots of distractions How you deal with distractions: Set timer to get tasks done Time boxing Use a reward system Book Reports: Elsie: The Prestige by Christopher Priest Emma: Twisted Love by Anna Huang HOT TAKE DEBATE Anne: Here's my hot take: we don't need any more movies based on books. They're different mediums! Let books be books and movies be movies. I want to see more movies that were written to be MOVIES and tailored to that medium, written to take advantage of all the cool things you can do onscreen. Same for books: I want more authors to take advantage of the cool things you can do in a book that you CAN'T do onscreen. I've read books that felt like they secretly wanted to be screenplays. Play to the strengths of your medium! No more crossing the streams! A Joke & A fact with Nova. You can support us by leaving us a couple of 5 star recipe reviews this week at abeautifulmess.com Have a topic idea for the podcast? Write in to us at podcast@abeautifulmess.com or leave us a voicemail at 417-893-0011.
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| #290: Life Changing Mindset Shifts | 09 mars 2026 | 00:38:12 | |
This week, we're talking about mindset shifts that changed our lives. Sometimes, before your life can change, your perspective has to change first. We're also doing a rapid fire hot take debate with a bunch of listener submitted hot takes. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at Shopify.com/abm
Mindset Shifts:
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| #289: How To Start Over When You Fail | 02 mars 2026 | 00:48:54 | |
This week we're talking about the inevitable experience of failure and how to hone the skill of starting over. Setbacks can be crushing, but they only turn permanent if you quit. In this episode, we're sharing our own vulnerable failure stories and the things that have helped us to get back on our feet.
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Mindset shifts: Sometimes you have to quit no one owes you anything
BOOK REPORT Emma: Uprooted By Naomi Novik Elsie: The Correspondent by Virginia Evans
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| #288: Winter Comforts We Rely On (a snowed-in episode) | 23 févr. 2026 | 00:38:39 | |
This week we're sharing winter comforts that reliably get us through our least favorite season of the year.
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Winter Comforts: Elsie: Books in bed! Emma: Snow Suit Elsie: Hot water - tea, coffee, apple cider, hot toddies, hot tubs, and bathes Emma: Daydream, redecorate, and organize your house Elsie: Go out with friends. (get out of the house!!) Emma: Game of fire, cozy life
Guilty Pleasure Treasure: Elsie: Christopher Nolan movies Emma: Turkish Delights and Vanilla powder from Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf
Book Report: Elsie: The Emotional Craft of Fiction by Donald Maas Emma: The Ministry of Time
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| #287: Comfort Rewatch - Empire Records | 16 févr. 2026 | 00:32:39 | |
This week, we're watching the 1995 classic Empire Records. We're also doing a hot take debate about technological advances, and we're bringing back our segment guilty pleasure treasure.
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Guilty Pleasure Teasure: Elsie - American Funyuns Emma - American Oreos
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| #286: Core Values | 09 févr. 2026 | 00:40:15 | |
This week we are discussing core values. We'll share our results from the Values Bridge quiz, as well as our thoughts on how defining core values can improve your life. And in our hot take debate, we're discussing separating art from the artist and rounding it out with whether or not we refrigerate our butter. All the important things that you need to know.
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| #285: Midlife Crisis But Make it Fun | 02 févr. 2026 | 00:53:18 | |
In honor of Emma's 40th birthday, this week we're doing an official midlife crisis episode. Our experiences didn't go exactly like the movies, and we have a lot to discuss. It's going to be fun!
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Guilty Pleasure Treasure: Emma: Cinnamon dragons Elsie: Watch a period piece while on period
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| #284: Tips for New Writers | 26 janv. 2026 | 00:54:51 | |
We get a lot of questions from people starting on their very first novel. So in this week's episode, we're giving you all the advice that we wish we could time travel back and give ourselves on the day we started our first novels. There's so much writing advice out there, and no matter who you are, it's not all going to work for you. So in this episode, we'll share things to think about and consider as you plot and plan to begin a draft of your very first novel. And the bottom line is, you can do it, and we are here to cheer you on.
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Tips for new writers: Give yourself a writing assignment Just write your first novel Immerse don't tell Read Get really comfort drafting unpolished Be a joyful student Invest a lot of time in ideation Learn about the business of publishing Your writing routine matters
Resources: Show Don't Tell by Sandra Greth Romancing the Beat by Gwen Hayes Writing the Breakout Novel by Donald Maass Write your Novel from the Middle by James Scott Bell The Author's Publishing Playbook by Carly Watters https://www.laurenkaywrites.com/
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| #283: Learning Something New | 19 janv. 2026 | 00:42:41 | |
This week we're discussing big and small things we want to learn. This episode is a great space for brainstorming. If you've been thinking that you'd like to pick up a new hobby. We're each discussing five big and small things that we'd like to learn in the near future. And we're also doing a hot take debate on the topic of plastic treat bags at children's birthday parties. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Start saving money with Dupe.com today Go to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code MESS at checkout to get 30% off sitewide 5 Things we want to learn Emma:
Elsie:
Book Report: Emma - The Cottage Around the Corner by D. L. Soria Elsie - The Da Vinci Code by Dan Brown You can support us by leaving us a couple of 5 star recipe reviews this week at abeautifulmess.com Have a topic idea for the podcast? Write in to us at podcast@abeautifulmess.com or leave us a voicemail at 417-893-0011.
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| #282: The Lost Arts | 12 janv. 2026 | 00:53:46 | |
This week we're talking about Elsie's new newsletter, why newsletters are sometimes even better than blogs, and our advice for how to make your newsletter stand out if you're starting your own. We are also going to be debating a listener hot take that's about homeschooling. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Head to Talkiatry.com/mess and complete the short assessment to get matched with an in network psychiatrist in just a few minutes. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at Shopify.com/abm
Check out Elsie's newsletter: https://www.elsielarson.com/
Check out Elise's newsletter: https://www.elisejoy.com/
What will the newsletter be: Cozy Curious Photos of crafts and things she's making Stories and essays Life updates Entertaining
What the newsletter won't be: Writing DIYs Not written by AI
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| #281: Winter Bucket List | 05 janv. 2026 | 00:47:29 | |
This week we're sharing our winter bucket lists (aka how to survive the cold season if you live in a region like we do). We'll also be debating a hot take that personally makes Elsie's blood boil. Let's jump in! Check out https://ramonamuselambert.com Emma
Elsie
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| Bonus: Nova's Meditations | 31 déc. 2025 | 00:17:51 | |
We just wanted to wish you a wonderful Christmas or holiday, and we decided to put together a supercut of all of Nova's meditations, just for fun, because they bring us so much joy. Thank you for being here all year, and we're so excited to keep going into the new year. You can support us by leaving us a couple of 5 star recipe reviews this week at abeautifulmess.com Have a topic idea for the podcast? Write in to us at podcast@abeautifulmess.com or leave us a voicemail at 417-893-0011.
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| #280: Goals and Vision Boards for 2026 | 29 déc. 2025 | 00:35:19 | |
This week we're sharing our goals for the new year and our process for creating tactile vision boards. We'll get a little woo-woo and share our experiences with manifesting and debating a literary hot take. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Get an additional 15% off any annual membership at masterclass.com/abeautifulmess Emma's goals for 2026:
Elsie's goals for 2026:
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| #279: New Year Goals Recap | 22 déc. 2025 | 00:46:57 | |
This week we're recapping the goals we set for ourselves for 2025, what we accomplished, what we didn't and anything that we're keeping on the list for 2026. We're talking about what makes a good goal and our personal goal setting criteria. We're also sharing our weekly book report and beginning a new segment where we debate listeners hot takes at the end of every episode!
The goals we set in our 2025 NY Goal episode: Emma: Get a minivan - No Ambitious food blogging list - Had to pivot in April Pitch cookbook idea - Did pitch but not working on right now Emma's romance (outline and write half) - Yes Elsie: Write every day - No Query my novel - Yes Write second novel - Started it Launch art website and sell art - Did sell art but didn't make a website One renovation to rule them all - Yes
Most proud to have accomplished in 2025: Elsie - Got passports and taking first trip Emma - Finishing her novel
Unforeseen project you spent a lot of time on in 2025: Elsie - Rewriting her novel Emma -Hugo
Accomplishment that wasn't on the list: Elsie - Retraining for a new career Emma - Celebrated 40th Birthday
Book Report: Emma - Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez Elsie- The Uncool by Cameron Crowe
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| #278: Favorite Things of 2025 | 15 déc. 2025 | 00:52:18 | |
This week we're recapping our favorite things from the past year, including movies, books, purchases, favorite memories and new things that we tried. Thank you to this week's sponsor: Get 25% off your first month at Ritual.com/ABM Favorite movie: Elsie - Weapons and The Italian Job (1969) Emma - Wicked: For Good Favorite book: Elsie - The Wedding People and 100 Years of Solitude Emma - Lessons in Chemistry, Funny Story, and The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo Favorite purchases: Elsie - Louise Carmen Journal and her kitchen Emma - Lavender Birkenstock Clogs, pastel lime green sweater, blue sweater, scarfs, and new tattoo Favorite memory: Elsie - Going to italy Emma - Hugo walking and going to Italy Favorite new thing you tried: Elsie - Water color painting Emma - eyeglasses and eating raw fish/sushi Favorite candle: Elsie - Walmart Fresh Cut Frazier Emma - Bath and Body Works Leaves, Burlap Bag, and Thistle Farms You can support us by leaving us a couple of 5 star recipe reviews this week at abeautifulmess.com Have a topic idea for the podcast? Write in to us at podcast@abeautifulmess.com or leave us a voicemail at 417-893-0011.
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| #277: Comfort Rewatch - The Family Stone | 08 déc. 2025 | 00:49:02 | |
This week we're doing a Comfort rewatch episode for a holiday movie that we love, The Family Stone from 2005 and we're dedicating this episode to Diane Keaton.
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Cozy interiors: Front room with the Christmas tree Entryway
Favorite moments: Emma - Love story between Amy and Brad, when the sister can't get the engagement ring off her finger, and the mom and dad in bed when they show she's had a mastectomy Elsie - Bar scene, opening scene of Diane Keaton looking at Christmas tree, Judy Garland scene, and when she spills the egg mixture on the floor
Moment you cringed the hardest: Emma - From the beginning when they are really mean to Meredith Elsie - When he goes for her sister
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| #276: Christmas Cookies & Novel Updates | 01 déc. 2025 | 01:00:43 | |
This week we are riffing about our favorite Christmas cookies to make every single year, and we're updating you on our novels. So two of our favorite subjects, cookies and novels!
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Top 3 Christmas Cookies: Emma - Butter cookies, Snowball cookies, Peanut butter Blossoms, and Puppy chow Elsie - Sugar cookies, Gingerbread cookies, Thumbprint cookies, and Oreo truffles
Novel Update: Emma - On third draft - still need to have it proofed one more time Elsie - Rewrote entire novel after getting feedback on it
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| #275: Gift Giving Ideas | 24 nov. 2025 | 00:55:29 | |
This week we're going to share ideas for putting together advents, unique ideas, low cost or free holiday gift ideas, epic personalized gift ideas and neighborly gift ideas. And we'll also share our book report.
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Adult Advent Ideas: Books Lipgloss Hair oil Dutch oven Water bottle Small treats T-shirt
Kid Advent Ideas: Reuse old toys Cookies Candy Snacks
Creative Gift Ideas: Watercolor post cards Fancy set of watercolors Journal
Low Cost (or free): Used book that you loved Pictures
Epic personalized gift ideas: Leather bound of their fave book CD player with CDs Record player with records Go on Etsy Jewerly Recipe engraved on cutting board Quilts Fancy food Snow outfit (for kids) Art
Neighborly gifts: Teachers - Have kids make cards with picture and money inside Jar of baking ingredients Free library
Book report Elsie: Piranesi by Suzanna Clark Emma: Apprentice to a Villain by Hannah Nicole Maehrer
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