While navigating life as a twenty-something, Lily Rakow fully embraces the 80/20 lifestyle — a not-so-perfect ratio of function versus fun. Lily is on a journey to find balance - if it even exists - through candid conversations about faith, wellness, careers, friendships, relationships, mental health, and whatever else life throws her way. Lily combines her passions for communication and wellness to produce a well-rounded, relatable, fireside-chat-style show for twenty-something women. 224924
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transforming imposter syndrome into faith based confidence with Callie Gualy
Season 14 · Episode 15
Thursday, December 19, 2024 • Duration 46:47
Callie Gualy joins Lily on the mic today for a vulnerable conversation about imposter syndrome, self doubt, and rewiring your routines after a big life change. Callie is the founder two fitness studios - Sweaty Studio and Sunshine Pilates - and uses coaching as a means to empower women to become their best selves physically, mentally, and spiritually. Off the mat, Callie hosts Healthy But Human, a faith and self improvement podcast. As a new mom and entrepreneur, Callie chats with Lily all about the ebbs and flows of self growth in this ever-changing season of life!
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how to take an 80/20 approach to new years resolutions
Season 14 · Episode 14
Thursday, December 12, 2024 • Duration 33:13
new years resolution are overcomplicated. in this episode, lily breaks down what an 80/20 approach to a new years resolution looks like, how to ensure your goals actually stick, and what to do when you feel like you are not following through with your healthy habits, goals, or resolutions.
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how to cope with emotional burnout, the winter blues, and compartmentalization in your 20's
Season 14 · Episode 13
Thursday, December 5, 2024 • Duration 33:54
“Just because I’m spinning in circles doesn’t mean I’m dizzy. Just because I’m sitting still doesn’t mean I’m not busy..." this Matthew McConaughey quote struck a chord with Lily this week, and triggered today's episode surrounding emotional burnout, the winter blues, and compartmentalization. Lily get's real on the mic to discuss her current emotional middle ground state, and how she's handling the stress of confronting feelings.
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freedom on the other side of a tough decision + finding a new version of yourself after a breakup with Tori Desimone
Season 14 · Episode 12
Thursday, November 28, 2024 • Duration 01:09:19
"Take a look in the mirror and set a standard for your life..." Tori Desimone joins Lily on the mic to chat about finding freedom on the other side of a tough decision, and how those choices impact the current and future versions of yourself. Tori brings great energy to the studio, the girls share lots of laughs, a few interesting sidebar stories, and their morning and night routine for optimal wellness — including sleep, digestion, and mindset hacks to feel your best.
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a winter wellness guide! in this episode, Lily takes the mic solo to reflect on her growth in 2024, what might be trending next year, and her winter wellness routines! this chatty episode she include some vulnerable life updates, a few hot takes, and as always, lots of big sister type of advice.
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pivoting in your 20’s (and how to stop caring about what other people think) with Hannah Ashton
Season 14 · Episode 10
Thursday, November 14, 2024 • Duration 48:40
Start treating your 20’s is like a playground, not a waiting room. In this episode, Hannah Ashton joins Lily on the mic to discuss some big changes she’s made lately — like career pivots, a breakup, and moving in with a new roomie. The gals chat about being paralyzed by the fear of other’s judgement when making life changing decisions, and decide that no one is really watching you as closely as you may think. Pivoting in your 20’s can be a time for self discovery, growth, new friends, and fun if you just lean in!
Hannah Ashton is a 25 year old content creator, entrepreneur, and YouTuber known for her focus on productivity, personal growth, and lifestyle content. With a passion for helping young women reach their full potential, she shares practical advice on time management, business, and goal-setting. Hannah also launched her own stationery brand, Dream Daily to help others stay organized and motivated.
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the power of saying YES: how one decision can alter your journey for the better with Kenzie Wesp
Season 14 · Episode 6
Thursday, November 7, 2024 • Duration 59:42
When Kenzie Wesp’s post grad plans to become a marriage and family therapist shifted to owning and operating one of Nashville’s top fitness studios, she wasn’t afraid to say “YES” and dive headfirst into the opportunity. In this episode, Lily chats with Kenzie about stepping away from normalcy to be called to something higher, and how prepare ahead of time to tackle the challenge head on.
Kenzie Wesp, owner of TRUEFORM FITNESS and visionary of the format fitness, is a Nashville local who has made a splash in the fitness industry since stepping on the scene in 2020. Kenzie stepped into the fitness industry after a back injury hindered her from continuing in her dance career. After she found low impact/high intensity exercise, she never looked back. One “yes” led to another, and within just a few years of getting her initial fitness certification in Lagree Fitness, she has grown into a highly accomplished instructor, studio owner, and powerhouse. Her love for the Lord, wellness, family, and fitness, are what keep her going day in and day out.
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ASK LILY: mean roommates, growing in the faith, + uncomfortable comments about my weight
Season 14 · Episode 8
Thursday, October 31, 2024 • Duration 01:03:16
ASK LILY is back! In this episode, Lily is joined by her little sister, Lexie, to tackle some of your advice column submissions. The girls recap how their weeks and chat through recent stressors, then dive into situations submitted by listeners. From advice on growing in your faith, facing family members who make weird comments about your weight, and handling mean girls as roomies, this episode covers tons of relatable topics.
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5 things we learned working in a restaurant (ft. Lexie Rakow)
Season 14 · Episode 7
Thursday, October 24, 2024 • Duration 01:09:21
Lily is joined by her little sister, Lexie for a very special conversation reminiscing on their time working at an iconic downtown Annapolis spot. The girls chat about the good, the bad, and the ugly of working in the hospitality industry, share tips for new servers, and laugh about all the memories they made together through the years.
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your insecurities are not your identity
Season 14 · Episode 6
Thursday, October 17, 2024 • Duration 28:18
Your body is a temple, fearfully and wonderfully made. But sometimes, it’s hard to believe that. What happens when your main focus becomes all the things you wish you could change about yourself? In this episode, Lily dives into the concept of "your insecurities are not your identity", and explains how to shift the focus, initiate healing, and cultivate a self-love mindset.
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