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Change 2: Leading Change Without Losing People20 Feb 202600:50:23

Resistance isn’t the problem. It’s the signal.

Philippa and Penelope from 4D Human Being are back — and if change is on your radar right now, you don’t want to miss this one. 

Two people who’ve sat inside enough organisations to know that most change fails not because the strategy was wrong, but because the humans weren’t brought along.

People don’t resist change. They resist being unclear, unsupported, and unconvinced.

The Switch Model nails it in three parts: 

  • Give people clear direction (Rider)
  • Speak to how they feel (Elephant)
  • Make the new way easier than the old way (Path)

Simple framework, genuinely useful — and Philippa and Penelope pull it apart in a way that actually sticks.

The conversation gets particularly good when they hit the leadership blind spot nobody wants to admit: you’re being watched more than you’re being heard. What you do and what you praise moves people faster than any slide deck. 

Three tools they leave you with that actually work:

  • Three Things for clarity when you do not have every answer
  • Vision people can picture and buy into
  • The Three Es: Experience, Emotion, Expectation, so everyone knows what is happening, how to hold it, and what to do next

Warm, sharp, and to the point. Whether you’re leading change, living through it, or quietly resisting it yourself — this conversation will shift something for you.

Less push. More possibility.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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Our team of 4D coaches and facilitators combine the knowledge, expertise and talents of entrepreneurs, business leaders, psychologists and actors to offer a unique suite of communication, leadership and wellbeing programmes to help you and your organisation choose your impact.

Our approach looks at our development in all 4 of our dimensions: physical, emotional, intellectual and intentional. Taking you from being a 3D Human Doing, to a 4D Human Being.

Change 1: Redefining Resilience: Bend, Don’t Break06 Feb 202600:43:03

What if resilience was less about armouring up and more about softening your step so you can spring back faster?

This episode shows you how to build real-world resilience you can use today, at work and at home.

You will learn:

  • What resilience really is. Flexibility, not rigidity
  • How to spot when you slip out of your window of tolerance into hyper or hypo states
  • A simple recovery routine to get back to calm
  • How to prioritise your internal state before the task
  • The CIA check. What to Control, what to Influence, what to Adapt to

Picture the moment you wobble. You pause, breathe out longer than you breathe in, change location for ten minutes, write the next three doable actions, and call a supportive colleague. You return regulated, clearer, and kinder. Over time your recovery time shrinks from days to minutes.

Listen today and choose one move. Name your early warning signs, plan your recovery routine, become self aware of it, and put it into practice this week.

Already feeling ready to bounce back? 

Team Toxins, Antidotes, and Choice02 Oct 202500:49:04

Want more cohesive, collaborative, and healthy teams? Most team problems don’t start in the plan—they start in the space between people. In this podcast, Philippa and Penelope break down the behaviours that quietly wreck trust and teamwork, so you can build teams that actually work well together.

You’ll hear about Gottman’s Four Horsemen and how they show up in everyday team life:

Defensiveness – That knee-jerk pushback, blame-shifting and excuse-making instead of listening.

Criticism/Blame – Attacking someone’s character rather than addressing the issue.

Contempt – Acting superior through sarcasm, eye-rolling, or mean-spirited jokes.

Stonewalling – Completely checking out and going radio silent.

Better yet, you’ll get practical antidotes you can use today. Curiosity turns defensiveness into learning. Constructive communication replaces blame with clarity. Appreciation undercuts contempt. Care and connection repair stonewalling. You’ll hear real examples, scripts, and simple tweaks you can try this week to cut drama and build a shared language for conflict that actually helps.

If you’re tired of being stuck in the “who’s right?” mud pit, this is your way out.

Follow the show, share it with someone who needs it, and drop a quick review. Which antidote will you try first?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

EP52 - Summer Mufflers10 Aug 202100:30:31

Welcome to the 4D Human Being podcast. Join Philippa and Penelope as they wander through a bull field and chat about the bull, mono-slippers and the topic of the day – fluid living. Life is uncertain and we have all been reminded of that over the past year. Planning and controlling our lives, work schedules and travel plans has become increasingly more challenging and perhaps there is a gift in that. 4D celebrate and integrate the wonderful world of improvisation into their work and those skills couldn’t be more relevant in the current climate - with the need to adapt to a much more fluid way of working and living. We hope you enjoy the show!

EP51 - The wonders of WellBeing with guest Jessie Pavelka20 Jul 202100:57:01

Hello and welcome to the 4D Leadership Podcast. The podcast that looks at everything around communication, team dynamics, leadership, culture and everything that impacts  you every day. We hope you enjoy the show and thank you for listening.

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EP50 - Carlo on the landing24 Jun 202100:29:08

How easy is it to find harmony both inside ourselves and simultaneously with others and the outside world. Finding congruence in life means really listening to ourselves AND having the skillset to respond and communicate with others so we can align how we live and respond with  the values we hold. Join Philippa and Penelope in a light hearted look at congruence. Enjoy the show! Find out more at 4Dhumanbeing.com.

EP49 - Cheese on toast with an egg on top13 Jun 202100:34:38

Welcome to this ‘joy-filled episode’. Join Philippa and Penelope as we explore the human need for joy and laughter. How can we bring more joy into our lives  - which as Philippa shares, can be as simple as recognizing the joy in cheese on toast with an egg on top! Please like and subscribe and find out more about who we are and what we do at 4Dhumanbeing.com. Enjoy the show!

EP48 - Bunnies and Tattoos18 May 202100:32:29

Welcome to the 4D Human Being podcast. In this episode Penelope and Philippa consider in a world full of uncertainty, where do we find as much certainty and security as we can? Do we look to the external world and other people to provide a sense of safety and ‘knowing’ and… can we find certainty within ourselves. From pop groups to tattoos, to returning to work… join us as we explore our sense of self-certainty in an inherently uncertain world.

Find out more at www.4dhumanbeing.com. Enjoy the show!

EP47 - Mini skirts and back to the office05 May 202100:31:04

Whether considering adapting to new fashion trends or to the ever-changing world around us, join Philippa and Penelope as we consider tips tools and ideas and consider how amazing we are as human beings stepping into change - and adapting to a new normal. Find out more at 4Dhumanbeing.com - please like and subscribe to the podcast. And… Enjoy the show!

EP46 - Owls and Bowels14 Apr 202100:23:59

When we think about how we communicate and how we interact with other people, how much time do we spend talking and how much time do we spend really listening. The power of the wise old owl is immense - so how can we be the ‘vase’ that  shapes conversations and ultimately... reality.

Check out more at 4Dhumanbeing.com, like and subscribe and... we hope you enjoy the show.

EP45 - Letting go to letting in31 Mar 202100:28:19

Today we ask - are we willing to let go, in order to let in? As the Professor of Literature - Joseph Campbell - said

“We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us “

Letting go of outdated plans and narratives can give space for new thoughts and new experiences. Find out more about 4D Human Being online at 4Dhumanbeing.com. We hope you enjoy the show. Like and Subscribe! 

EP44 - Porridge vs The Maldives16 Mar 202100:26:53

In a world where planning anything for the next few days, weeks and months are challenging,  Penelope and Philippa ponder on how we can adjust our thinking about what we look forward to. Whether that’s or appreciating a glove that works on an iPhone or looking forward to a pimped bowl of porridge.  Can we rethink where our actual pleasure and joy comes from and seek it in those smaller moments of life? Enjoy the show!

 

EP43 - Model Behaviour01 Mar 202100:29:59

Welcome to the 4D human Being podcast. Today we ask - What are you modelling? How can you “be the change you wish to see in the world (Credit to Gandhi for that one!😌).

What we do and model in the world is more likely to change our own experience, other peoples ideas and other peoples behaviours than perhaps we might think.

Enjoy the show - and find out more online at 4Dhumanbeing.com. Like and Subscribe!

Top Teams: Without Trust, Your Team Will Never Reach Its Full Potential18 Sep 202500:40:38

What makes teams work or fail? It all comes down to trust. In part 2 of our Top Teams series, Philippa and Penelope Waller dive deep into the essential foundation of effective teamwork, revealing that without trust, even the most talented groups will struggle to achieve their potential.

Drawing from Patrick Lencioni's "Five Dysfunctions of a Team" model, the hosts explore two critical dimensions of trust that operate in every team environment. Personal trust, built through vulnerability and relationship-building, creates the emotional bonds that allow teams to weather challenges together. Meanwhile, predictive trust, established through consistency and reliability, provides the stable framework that enables efficient collaboration. The hosts share powerful personal stories that illustrate how quickly trust can form when people feel safe enough to be authentic with one another.

Communication emerges as the lifeline that either strengthens or undermines trust within teams. The hosts offer practical wisdom about avoiding common pitfalls, like overreliance on email when dealing with sensitive issues, and instead choosing communication channels that foster genuine connection. They emphasize that effective communication isn't just about delivering a message, but ensuring it's received and understood in the way it was intended.

Perhaps most valuable are the actionable strategies provided throughout the episode. From approaching vulnerability through "concentric circles" of disclosure to changing the energy you bring to difficult conversations, these practical tools can transform team dynamics almost immediately. One particularly powerful suggestion: spend 80% of your time on positive, intentional communication with your team for just one week and watch what happens.

Whether you're struggling with a toxic team environment or simply looking to elevate an already good team to greatness, this episode provides the insights and strategies you need. Listen now to discover how building trust can unlock your team's full potential and create a more fulfilling work experience for everyone involved.

EP42 - Toxic Positivity 15 Feb 202100:35:28
EP41 - Worry26 Jan 202100:41:43

Don’t worry! In this episode Philippa and Penelope are talking about worry. And Philippa has gone bullet point crazy with all the topics we would love to cover on this very important subject. Enjoy the show!

EP40 - Dog walking and rollerblading our way to creativity12 Jan 202100:32:39

In this episode, Penelope and Philippa take a walk in the Surrey woods (in a support bubble kind of a way!) with their dogs Billy and Bear. Whilst the terrain isn’t that suitable for rollerblading - they do discuss the idea of rollerblading and much more as they explore the question ‘what do we want?’ Perhaps not a question we ask ourselves when we are juggling the challenges of life, especially in current times. But perhaps an important question, since it is particularly at times when we are under stress that it can feel like the world is telling us what we can and can’t do and who we can and can’t be. From wanting a muffin to wanting to be a mentor, take a ‘walk’ with them as they ramble through life and how we can try to do what we can to consciously create it.

EP39- Unpacking suitcases, moving furniture and... creating our own reality06 Jan 202100:27:58

Is the world happening to you or are you happening to the world? In this episode, Philippa and Penelope discuss how as human beings we have much more control over the creation of our own realities and experiences than perhaps many of us realise. Are we always being buffeted around by the changing weather of life, or do we find ways to stay on course, feeling clear about who we are, what we want and the reality we want to create? Join Phil and Pen as they laugh and look at some of those big questions.

EP38- Your Body is your Friend14 Dec 202000:31:06

In this episode, Master Coach and Cultural Change Consultant Rebecca Watson is back on the show talking with 4D’s Katie Churchman about listening to and learning from the body’s signals.

‘Not doing enough’ is a fear-based activity and in this episode Becks advocates for more space to listen to- and see- the body for what it is: an amazing and unbelievably complex system that’s only got our best interests at heart! This podcast covers a variety of topics including: personal energy, self-care, appreciating the body and changing the relationship we have with our body.

EP37 - Leading for Creativity - Lessons from the Theatre01 Dec 202000:43:46

In this episode of the 4D Human Being podcast Matt, Philippa and Claire are talking about the challenges of leading through uncertainty and managing a creative team. They draw on the parallels between business leadership and theatre from interviews held with current theatre directors and their own experience as actors, theatre directors and coaches.

EP36 - Finding joy in 4-dimensions... and on the carpet!25 Oct 202000:38:52

In this episode, 4D’s Matt Beresford and Penelope Waller use the 4D2C model as a foundation to discuss how the COVID pandemic and lockdown have radically changed the world around us. They discuss how it has impacted us physically, emotionally and intellectually and also, what we might do to respond. They also look at how we can find joy in the everyday- in the here and now- in a world where the future is less predictable than ever…

EP35 - Responsibility and capacity (and the dirty hand thing!)29 Sep 202000:26:44

Penelope and Philippa have very different approaches to being early and being late! They humorously discuss these differences, as well as different levels of responsibility we feel in life, how much capacity we each have to juggle things in our lives and of course... doing the whole dirty hand thing!

EP34 - Shame and unexpected Sunday delivery parcels31 Aug 202000:43:38

In this episode, 4D’s Philippa and Penelope look at the topic of shame. How this universal feeling arises through our interactions, how it can overwhelm us and dictate the choices we make. Join Pen and Phil as they laugh their way through the triggers, feelings and behaviours of shame,  getting told off, self-compassion and unexpected Sunday delivery parcels.

EP33- Life After Lock-Down11 Aug 202000:43:02

In this episode, 4D’s Katie Churchman is talking with Master Coach and Cultural Change Consultant Rebecca Watson about life after lock-down.

Rebecca Watson is a thought leader in the field of human consciousness and potential. She works with leaders to help create high performing sustainable cultures and she works with individuals who are going through what she calls 'Mid-Life Awakening'. She's a Speaker, Author and spends most days trying to 'walk her talk'!

For more information about Rebecca’s work check out this link.
http://www.bromptonassociates.com/

Top Teams: From Vulnerability to Reliability28 Aug 202500:55:31

What if trust isn't just something that magically appears in teams, but rather something you can actively build? In this insightful exploration of team dynamics, Philippa and Penelope Waller unpack the often mysterious concept of trust and transform it into practical, actionable strategies that anyone can implement.

At the heart of this episode lies a powerful revelation: trust operates through two distinct channels. Personal trust, built through vulnerability and relationship-building, offers the quickest path to connection but carries inherent risks. Meanwhile, predictive trust develops through consistency and reliability, creating a foundation of dependability that teams can count on. Both approaches are essential, yet many of us unconsciously favor one over the other based on our personal histories and preferences.

Through vivid examples—including an unexpectedly perfect analogy involving Elsa's costume change in Frozen—the hosts illustrate how seamless collaboration depends entirely on trust. When team members can't rely on each other, even the most talented individuals fail to achieve their collective potential. Conversely, when trust flourishes, teams can accomplish seemingly impossible feats through synchronized effort.

The discussion delves into practical communication strategies that build rather than erode trust. From avoiding the overuse of "Reply All" emails (which often serve as subtle accountability weapons) to understanding how different team members need to receive information, these actionable insights help navigate the complex human terrain of teamwork. Perhaps most importantly, the hosts emphasize the need to step toward rather than away from difficult conversations, recognizing that avoidance only widens trust gaps.

Whether you're leading a team, working within one, or simply navigating relationships in your personal life, this episode offers transformative perspectives on how to create environments where trust can thrive. Try their closing challenge: spend 80% of your time focused on brilliant communication with your team for just one week. The results might surprise you by Friday afternoon.

EP32 - When Sport Stops09 Jun 202000:39:53

In this episode of the 4D Human Being podcast, Penelope Waller and Matt Beresford talk to Jack Rathborn, a sports journalist with the Independent, on how the Coronavirus pandemic has impacted both the world of sport and those who love it. 

For many people sport is a huge part of life - whether that’s playing, spectating or arguing about it over a beer with friends. It provides the lubricant to a lot of our social interactions and acts as a series of waymarks through the year; it provides a sense of camaraderie, excitement, purpose and tribalism – all of which human beings have sought throughout our evolution.  

So join Jack, Matt and Penelope as they discuss how the postponement of sport is impacting both them, the people they know and the wider world.

EP31 - From Dirty Workouts to Tea Cosies22 May 202000:38:07

In this episode, Penelope and Philippa are exploring the diverse range of pandemic experiences.

The pandemic is so many things. There’s so much goodness showing up and there’s much to grieve. And just like life, it’s not one ‘thing.’

Even if we had identical lock-down situations, we would still experience them very differently. And perhaps ‘lockdown’ comparisons aren’t always useful. Because we aren’t the same. Our external and internal worlds are so different, and the challenges 

From the serious and sad to the lighthearted. From grief, to home schooling, dirty workouts and the pleasure of a tea cosy - can we step-in and embrace this diversity of experiences, within ourselves and in other people? 

 


EP30 - Calm in a Crisis05 May 202000:29:02

We’re pleased to welcome back monk and mindfulness coach Danny Hill back. In this episode, Katie is talking to Danny about staying calm in a crisis. Given that Danny has spent several months at a time in self-imposed solitude and silence, at various ashrams and retreats, we thought he’d be the perfect guest to offer advice and insight that can help us through this period of uncertainty. Many of us around the world right now find ourselves in lock-down and are dealing with varying degrees of challenge and change. So in this episode, Danny offers advice around mindful breathing, staying in the moment and enjoying the blossoms of spring.



EP29 - Should I get a dog? 21 Apr 202000:31:31

In this episode, Penelope and Katie are laughing about some of the not-so-glamorous realities of being in lock-down and talking about how this situation is forcing us to re-think our lives, our priorities and our goals. Across the course of their conversation, they discuss the new-normal, the potential for long-term lock-down, the so-called ‘gifts’ in this situation and whether or not Penelope should get a dog.

EP28 - Baked Peaches13 Apr 202000:40:04

Whether in normal life or in a crisis as human beings we will all suffer loss. And that may be loss of a loved one, or it may be loss of a routine or a job or loss of meeting a friend. It’s all loss. And we have very different ways of coping. So in this episode, Penelope and Philippa take a light hearted look at a difficult subject during a difficult time. Even in the moments of loss we can find growth, insights, strength and even humour.

EP27 - Home and work – colliding!27 Mar 202000:28:25

Many of us find ourselves in a situation of working from home. Now whether you typically work from home or not, it’s likely that the home-working circumstances we usually find ourselves in vs what we are now dealing with now, are somewhat different. Whether that’s because we have school-age children at home or because others in our home are now sharing the home-work space (who usually don’t!)  - let’s think about what these challenges might be and what’s important in a home-working time of crisis!

EP26 - From loo roll to love23 Mar 202000:30:23

From loo roll to love are we aware of response patterns in a crisis? And how might we become more conscious of these response patterns so we can choose the response that is going to best serve us in the situations we find ourselves in? Whether its resilience in work or relationships 4D are passionate about creating healthy response patterns in a virtual world.

#alwaysatchoice

EP25 - Anger08 Mar 202000:42:10

Episode 25 is all about anger. Anger is a natural response to feelings of embarrassment, disappointment or betrayal. Yet, many of us see anger as a negative response that we should try to hide and suppress. So in this episode Penelope and Philippa look at anger as a gift—a natural, internal signal that often identifies opportunities for healing and growth. Anger is sending us a message, it’s our internal system telling us something. 

So, how can we listen to our anger and understand it’s lessons?

EP24 - Dare to Dream10 Feb 202000:30:08

Our modern world stems from dreams – dreams turned into reality. So if we want to help shape the experience of ours and other people's lives, we have to value the dreaming stage in any project, decision or relationship. Of course, dreaming comes more easily to some of us than others, so in this episode, Katie and Penelope discuss ways to overcome dream blockers and look at how we can build our capacity to dream. Your reality starts from the essence of your dreams and the dreams of those close to you, so start living from your dreams today – with your whole being- and watch as your fantasies turn into your reality.

EP23 - Mindful Awareness02 Feb 202000:43:18

We’re delighted to have meditation and mindfulness coach Danny Hill (aka 'The Monk on a Motorbike') back on the show. In this episode, we’re talking about bringing mindful awareness into our everyday lives. Living with Mindful awareness is being fully aware and tuned in to what is going on right now, in the present moment. But as Danny and Katie discuss this is much easier said than done as it can be all too easy to go through life on autopilot, caught up thinking about past events or planning for the future. So how might we overcome some of the challenges many of us will have experienced with mindfulness? And how might this transform our experience of life- without necessarily changing anything tangible at all?

https://monkonamotorbike.com/ 

Summer Lessons: Embracing Uncertainty21 Aug 202500:42:47

What happens when expectations meet reality during those six fleeting summer weeks? In this thoughtful exploration of summer lessons, the 4D Human Being directors dive into the illuminating gap between what we anticipate and what actually unfolds.

Through stories of puppies, cats, teenage concerts in Barcelona, and dance competitions, Philippa and Penelope reveal a powerful truth: while we should aim to reduce unnecessary anxiety, learning to tolerate discomfort is essential for a meaningful life. Any experience involving connection, novelty, learning, or joy inherently requires stepping into uncertainty. As they put it, "The opposite of uncertainty isn't certainty, it's self-trust."

The conversation examines how "defensive pessimism", our tendency to ruminate over worst-case scenarios can both protect and constrain us. When we're caught in indecision, anxiety escalates; but the moment we take action, it begins to subside. This summer wisdom translates directly to workplace challenges, leadership roles, and team dynamics, where change and uncertainty are increasingly unavoidable.

Perhaps most poignantly, they discuss how our anxiety affects those around us. When we allow our fears to drive our behaviour, we create stressful environments for family members and colleagues alike. By developing greater self-awareness during these reflective summer moments, we position ourselves to navigate life's complexities with more intention and less reactivity.

As autumn approaches, carrying these insights forward can transform how we experience change, not by eliminating anxiety, but by expanding our capacity to work with it.

Ready to move from reactive to intentional in your personal and professional relationships? Connect with 4D Human Being for workshops, training, and free resources to continue your journey toward becoming a four-dimensional human being.

EP22 - Mirror Mirror28 Jan 202000:39:51

Instead of blaming another person in a relationship, can we turn the mirror on ourselves in order to uncover what we might be rejecting in ourselves? In this funny and light-hearted podcast, Penelope and Philippa turn the mirror on themselves and lean into triggers their triggers. What might we learn when we see our attitudes and behaviours reflected back at us?

EP21 - Relationship with Self09 Dec 201900:36:41

Join Penelope and Philippa, as they humbly and openly discuss the relationships we have with our ‘self'.

Developing and perhaps deepening the relationship you have with your 'self' can be a challenge in today’s non-stop, 24/7, instant gratification society. So in this podcast, Philippa and Penelope talk about the ways we can overcome some of these difficulties in our lives and how we can learn to appreciate the most important relationship in all of our lives: the one we’re having with ourself. 

 

EP20: Acting 'As If...'26 Nov 201900:32:33

In this episode of the 4D Human Being Podcast, Stephanie Kasen and Katie Churchman are talking about acting “as if.” Acting "as if" doesn't mean you have to be fake or inauthentic. It's about changing your behaviour or language and trusting that the feelings will follow. As long as your motivation is in the right place, and you stay connected to your truth, acting “as if” can help your goals become your reality. Just make sure you're interested in changing yourself on the inside, not simply trying to change other people's perceptions of you. So instead of “fake it until you make it” we like to say, “be it to become it.” Be the thing you want to be, start running before you can walk, and step into a new way of being and experiencing yourself and your life.

EP19: Internal or External Motivation in a Virtual World17 Nov 201900:37:15

In this episode, Penelope Waller, Stephanie Kasen and Katie Churchman talk about the challenges of working remotely and being part of an international team. As facilitators and coaches at 4D Human Being, they regularly find themselves travelling all over the world for work. However, the 4D team also live in different parts of the world as well, with bases in Milan, London, Charlotte and New York. So a couple of weeks ago, when the trio was running a workshop together in New Jersey, they took the opportunity to record a podcast and speak honestly about the challenges and rewards of working from home, travelling for work and staying connected as an international team.

EP18: Shifting Identity: Adapting your identity in a new (and foreign) community20 Oct 201900:36:27

There are many benefits to moving abroad: you may get to embrace new opportunities, perhaps learn a new language and experience the sights, sounds, traditions and flavours of a very different culture. 

However, moving abroad also comes with its challenges.

In April 2018, Etna International asked 500 expats: ‘has your sense of identity changed since living abroad?’, ‘do you like yourself more?’ as well as other questions related to the psychological impact of settling into a new culture. The survey revealed that 35% of expats surveyed said their sense of identity had changed

So, in this episode Katie Churchman and Penelope Waller discuss the challenges, changes and joys that come from moving abroad.

EP17: Relational Patterns15 Oct 201900:30:33

In this episode we’ve got both of the Waller sisters on the show at the same time talking about relationship patterns. As identical twin sisters Philippa and Penelope Waller  know a lot about understanding the self through relationship. And the truth is that whether we or not we are a twins, in a romantic partnership, or on only child, we are always in relationship. And always have been. We are shaped by the relationships we are in because we do not live in a bubble. We exist within two contexts, the environment and our shared culture. Today’s episode consider how the people in our lives and the relational patterns we form with them are constantly shaping who we are and who we will become. To quote Jacob Moreno, one of the 20th century’s foremost advocates of human interaction defined his fellow human beings as the following: “Man is a relational being.”

EP16: So what do you do?29 Sep 201900:35:46

In this episode Philippa Waller is talking with Anna Melville-James about portfolio identity, or rather the ‘what do you do’ question.

Anna Melville-James has been a travel writer for 20 years, writing and editing on national papers and magazines. She also helped to set up the Daily Mail’s first ever travel website in 2001. These days she is also...a podcaster on women in business, a journalist with particular interest in later life, environmental issues and the English countryside, a copywriter for luxury brands and a professional face painter. Just to make things *really* confusing when she tries to explain what she does for a living. 

The question “What do you do?” has basically become synonymous with “Who are you?”  And it can be helpful way of quickly giving others a snapshot of who we are and what we do. But there’s also a dark side to introducing ourselves with this kind of shorthand: because labels can  lead to stereotypes. 

EP15: Making Sense of Meditation21 Sep 201900:51:05

In this episode Katie Churchman talks with Danny Hill (aka The Monk on a Motorbike) about meditation and mindfulness. Danny is a meditation teacher and mindfulness and happiness coach who is helping people around the planet make sense of meditation.

Danny is a passionate advocate of mindfulness as a powerful yet simple and accessible tool for personal transformation. He is keen to explain this is a straightforward holistic practice that brings greater awareness to every aspect of our lives and with it a sense of calm and joy.

A former Buddhist monk, he has spent long periods on silent, intensive meditation retreats in Asia and the UK and has been practicing meditation since 1995.

Danny Hill lives in London, loves to get around on his motorbike, and is known to his friends and students as the ‘Monk on a Motorbike’. He also hosts a podcast of the same name.

 

Website link: https://monkonamotorbike.com/

EP14: Shadow Selves10 Sep 201900:46:37

In episode 14, Katie Churchman and Philippa Waller explore our shadow selves: the parts of self that we shy away from admitting and sharing with the world. This episode is all about understanding and embracing our shadow sides in order to step into a more whole and balanced way of being. Our shadow side doesn’t have to stay in the dark: it can be an asset for stepping into a much more rounded, accepting and open way of being. 

As Carl Jung writes in Psychology and Alchemy: “There is no light without shadow and no psychic wholeness without imperfection.”

EP13: Taking charge of your own life story (Part 2)07 Sep 201900:53:26

In this episode, Katie Churchman and Philippa Waller continue their exploration into the stories we tell ourselves. Remember: you are not your thoughts. And you are not your stories.

We cannot determine life events – they are a given – but you are not defined by them either. The proof is that people faced with similar tragedies have often shaped themselves very different destinies. This was done through the decisions they made and the stories they created. Becoming more conscious of the stories playing out in our lives empowers us with the ability to choose our response to any given set of circumstances; to choose our life rather than undergo it helplessly. It’s the only way our future can be different from our past.

Spiral Dynamics: Why YOUR Company Needs Every Colour of the Spiral07 Aug 202500:43:22

In this concluding episode of our Spiral Dynamics trilogy, we explore how leaders can create truly integrated cultures that honour diverse perspectives across the entire spiral.

Ever wondered why your carefully crafted company values resonate with some team members but fall flat with others? The answer lies in understanding that people operate from different value sets – what motivates someone with a process-oriented "blue" mindset differs dramatically from what drives an achievement-focused "orange" perspective. 

We break down five essential areas for building a spiral-aware culture: 

  1. Engagement
  2. Retention
  3. Flexibility
  4. Communication
  5. Brand

Offering practical insights for speaking to every colour on the spiral.

We dive into the fascinating world of holacracy – a decentralized approach to organizational structure exemplified by companies like Zappos and Whole Foods. Using the human body as a metaphor, we explore how organisations function as interdependent systems where each part operates both autonomously and as part of a greater whole. This systems thinking approach recognises that intelligence exists throughout an organisation, not just at the top of a hierarchy.

For leaders, developing an "improviser mindset" is key – the ability to flex between different value sets, meeting people where they are while moving the organisation forward. Even in moments of conflict, there's always a gift if you're willing to look for it. By understanding the vital role each spiral perspective plays, you can build cultures where people feel valued for their authentic contributions and your organization benefits from the full spectrum of human potential.

Ready to transform your organisational culture? Download our FREE Spiral Dynamics language handout here: https://www.4dhumanbeing.com/wp-content/uploads/4D-Spiral-Dynamics-Language-handout-4DHB.pdf

And don't forget to sign up for our Essentials membership at 4dhumanbeing.com and learn how to identify and communicate effectively with every value set.

EP12: The Fear of Living28 Aug 201900:37:37

In this episode Philippa Waller and Claire Galmiche flip the fear of dying on it’s head by exploring the ways in which a fear of living can hold us back and stop us from really living the lives that we want to lead…

EP11: Career Challenge and Change14 Aug 201900:33:20

In this episode Katie Churchman talks with Felicity Bown about career challenge and change. Felicity is a business development manager at a large multi national. After a highly successful career at a specialised publishing firm, Felicity moved into a large corporation looking for a career change. And she’s been speedily climbing the corporate ladder ever since. However, as with all change, the career move presented its own challenges...

This episode is for anyone who has or is currently dealing with difficulties at work whether that’s due to purpose, motivation or isolation. In this episode we discuss a range of topics including:

-The ever elusive concept of work life balance 

-How to blend your passions into your work

-How to shape a positive professional persona? For both yourself and others

-And how to stretch yourself into new ways of being, in order to change your experience of work. 

EP10: Journeys04 Aug 201900:29:00

In this episode Katie Churchman and Penelope Waller explore how our everyday journeys reflect the way we live our lives. Many of us live our lives rushing from A to B, so much so that we often miss the beautiful journey along the way. How can we reshape our relationships with journeys so that we can live with more purpose and meaning in the everyday? And how might we see our journeys as a destination in their own right? 

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