2 Lives βThe second begins the moment we realize we have only one.β
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We had planned to launch season 11 today with a new episode. But at the last minute the guest we interviewed asked us to hold off.Β
At 2 Lives we share the script with the person we interview before the story is finalized to make sure we got everything right. We do that for two reasons: one, because Iβm often asking people to share their worst day and I want them to feel comfortable with the way we share it. And two, because the same courtesy was shown to me when I was featured in a newspaper and I caught an error. We all make mistakes. Iβve been told by other journalists that this practice is βradical,β but these arenβt investigative exposΓ©s of corrupt political leaders, these are peopleβs most vulnerable personal stories and heartfelt truths.
I thought this might be an opportunity to share with you another practice we have and that is in the pre interview with assistant producer Valerie Shively she makes sure people are in the right time in their life to share their story. And before every interview I say, while sharing stories can be therapeutic, I am not a therapist. What I ask and share might be triggering. I also say there are seasons when we are more open to sharing our stories. And there are seasons when we are closed. Obviously this was one of those for our guest; she just didnβt realize it.Β
At a time when itβs so easy to click submit and share and over share on social media in an effort to sell our book or our brand, I think we often donβt listen to that voice inside thatβs saying NO donβt do it. This thing youβre about to exploit, we havenβt gotten enough distance from it yet. It feels too raw to share.
At 2 Lives, our intention to shine a light on stories of transformation is governed by the principle that these stories shared are symbiotic in nature, mutually beneficial for both the teller and the listener. We donβt share a personβs story unless they really want to share it. We honor that, even if it is to our own detriment. And those ethics are more important than numbers.Β