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New year, same dads — but this time we’re keeping it short, sweet, and only moderately caffeinated.

In this episode, we’re ringing in 2026 the way all responsible parents do:
by pretending we can stay up until midnight while our kids demand snacks, sparkly hats, and that we replay the same Frozen song 19 times “because it’s New Year, Daddy.”

Jason kicks us off by declaring his longstanding war on New Year’s resolutions (he hasn’t made one since 2010 and is very proud of this streak). Nate, meanwhile, tries to convince the world — and apparently every business owner — that changing tables belong in men’s restrooms too. Justice for dads with diaper bags!

Then we get a little reflective as we talk about what 2026 means to us as a two‑dad family:
✨ The hopes
😬 The worries
😂 The joys that make us laugh even when we’re covered in slime or stepping on LEGOs barefoot
And the big dream for the year: more date nights than dentist appointments. Please.

We also chat about what’s ahead for the show — more guests, more parenting stories, more voices from families like ours, and maybe one or two surprises if we figure out how to record without someone’s child demanding a yogurt pouch.

And of course, it wouldn’t be Two Gay Dads without This Week in the Gay Agenda, where we dive into everything from the mass exodus from anti‑LGBTQ religious spaces to how 2026 might (finally!) bring relief and progress for trans people — plus a wild but true fact about who’s actually getting breast‑reduction surgery.

Finally, we wrap up with our favorite tradition:
What We Learned From Lizzy This Week, followed by a little holiday‑card wisdom to carry us into the year ahead.

Grab your confetti, your sparkling juice of choice, and your most reasonable resolution (like “survive January”) — and join us for Episode 7!

We survived the flu and came back chatty. We gush over Heated Rivalries (no spoilers), salute Hallmark’s unexpected queer crown jewel, and sit down with our friends Chad and Erin Oban for a hilarious, honest, heart-forward look at their adoption journey—grief, cost, open adoption, the heroism of birth parents, and raising their Native son with everyday pride over performative checkbox culture. Then: the Gay Agenda brings legal whiplash from Texas to Massachusetts to Arkansas. We end with kid lessons: cuddles, catch, and a future wine-opener (when legal!).

What’s inside:

• Hallmark hot takes and Heated Rivalries hype
• Adoption real talk: money, control (or lack thereof), and language that honors birth parents
• Keeping Native heritage central in daily life, not just at powwows
• Gay Agenda: attacks on marriage equality, rollback of protections, and… policing hairstyles?
• Parent wins: remembering to slow down, play catch, and accept unsolicited cuddles

We will be back on January 5th with a new episode including interviews with our friends Chad and Erin about their adoptions story.

This last week we have all been battling Influenza A and we will take all the positive vibes you want to send.

Episode 5: Holiday Chaos, Ugly Sweaters & The Gay Agenda 🎄
It’s the holiday edition of Two Gay Dads, and Jason is rocking a Golfing Santa sweater that’s so tacky it might be a hate crime against fashion. Nate is not impressed. In this festive episode, we spill all the holiday tea:

• Our family traditions (yes, we decorate on Election Day—don’t judge).
• How we handle Santa without traumatizing Lizzy.
• The ultimate toy wish list (spoiler: still no puppy).
• Holiday movies we love, hate, and heckle—plus why watching Hallmark alone should come with a Surgeon General’s warning.

And in the Big Bad Gay Agenda: deadnaming in government, HIV discrimination in the military, and why love—not fear—should define the season.

We wrap it all up with what Lizzy taught us this week (kids are wise, y’all). Grab your cocoa, your wine, or your ugly sweater, and join us for laughs, love, and a little activism under the mistletoe.

Listen now wherever you get your podcasts—and subscribe on YouTube, or where you listen to your Podcasts for the full festive chaos!

What does it mean to build a family on your own terms? In this episode, Jason and Nate explore the growing movement of single parenting by choice—a bold, intentional path that’s rewriting the rules of what family looks like.

We sit down with our friend Kelly Healy, who made the life-changing decision to become a single mom by choice. From the spark that started her journey to the challenges, triumphs, and unexpected joys along the way, Kelly shares what it really takes to go solo on the parenting adventure. We’ll talk about adoption, donor conception, and surrogacy—and why these stories prove that family is built on love and intention, not tradition.

But that’s not all—stick around for This Week in the Gay Agenda, where we unpack the headlines shaping LGBTQ+ life:

• Human Rights Reporting Overhauled: The Trump administration directs embassies to frame gender-affirming care for minors as “chemical or surgical mutilation,” signaling a dangerous precedent that erases LGBTQ+ protections and threatens trans lives worldwide.
• Radical Love in Action: Parents of Black trans kids create a groundbreaking space for affirmation and empowerment, proving that when systems fail, families rise to rewrite the rules. Learn more at rainbowinblack.org.
• National Security Memo: The Attorney General prioritizes investigations into violent extremist groups, citing “radical gender ideology” and “hostility toward traditional family values” as ideological drivers. Welcome to the resistance, folks.
• FIFA’s Controversial Pride Match: Egypt vs. Iran during Pride Month and the Stonewall anniversary—set in Seattle. A bold move or a global eyebrow-raiser? We break it down.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to choose this path—or you just love hearing stories of courage and community—this episode will inspire you to rethink what family means and why advocacy matters.

🎧 Listen now and join the conversation about families built on love, not templates.

What happens when one phone call turns your world upside down? In this deeply personal episode of Two Day Gay Dads, Jason and Nathan share the emotional rollercoaster of their adoption journey—from the first conversations and endless waiting to the life-changing moment they learned their daughter was on the way.

You’ll hear about:

• The decision to adopt and the process of creating a family profile.
• The unexpected call during COVID: “She’s in labor—are you ready?”
• The whirlwind trip across state lines, NICU bonding, and meeting Lizzy for the first time.
• Life after placement—legal hurdles, first milestones, and building family traditions.

Plus, in This Week in the Gay Agenda, we explore why inclusive language matters during the holidays and reflect on the global significance of World AIDS Day—and what happens when silence replaces solidarity.

This episode is raw, heartfelt, and full of lessons about resilience, love, and the many ways families are formed.

Pack your bags and buckle up—this episode is all about the adventures (and misadventures) of traveling as LGBTQ+ parents. Jason and Nate kick things off with a quick recap of Episode 1, a few hilarious clean-ups, and Lizzy’s latest Christmas song obsession (spoiler: it involves a donkey and a hippopotamus).

Then we dive into the big stuff:

• Traveling as LGBTQ+ and adoptive parents—from passports and paperwork to navigating spaces that aren’t always welcoming. Hear stories from Disney cruises, solo parenting weekends, and the dream of international travel.
• The Gay Agenda of the Week—why marriage equality is still under attack and what’s happening in Texas courts. Plus, a shoutout to Memphis Public Libraries for being a beacon of inclusion.
• Pride merch—the good, the bad, and the cringe-worthy. How much is too much?

Finally, we wrap with a heartwarming segment on what Lizzy taught us this week—because parenting isn’t just about the big moments, it’s about the quiet ones by the firelight.

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to juggle parenthood, advocacy, and a little chaos (with a lot of love), this episode is for you.

Listen now and join the conversation: When is the right time to eat on Thanksgiving?

UCLA Williams Insttitute:

https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/

Lambda Legal

https://lambdalegal.org/

Tommee Profitt

https://www.tommeeprofitt.com/birthofakinglive

In the premiere episode of 2 Day Gay Dads – Parenting with Pride in a World Still Catching Up, Jason and Nathan introduce themselves, their sassy five-year-old daughter Lizzy, and the beautiful chaos of queer family life. From Meijer meltdowns over sunglasses (spoiler: she got them) to bedtime battles and lunchbox showdowns, they dive into the real, ridiculous, and rewarding moments of parenting.

They also get candid about the politics of playgrounds and paperwork—like why forms still ask for “Mother’s Name” and how book bans are hitting close to home. Plus, they dish on Full House rewatches, their love for Below Deck, and why Bluey desperately needs a gay uncle.

Stick around for fake listener letters (yes, someone’s toddler thinks RuPaul is Santa), a sweet moment from Lizzy that made them melt, and a teaser for next week’s episode on queer family travel and Pride merch for kids.

Come for the laughs, stay for the love, and join the community at 2gaydads.com. Because parenting is political, messy, and full of glitter—and we’re here for all of it.

The Power of Sibling Bonds, Adoption, and Advocacy – A Heartfelt Conversation

Dive into an honest, emotional exploration of sibling love, family transitions, and advocacy for the LGBTQ+ community. This episode hits home with real stories, family laughs, and the fight for justice and love.

In this episode:

• Celebrating family milestones amidst change and challenge
• Deep dive into sibling relationships and unbreakable bonds
• Behind the scenes of adoption journeys, support, and unconditional love
• Practical ways families can minimize the impact of big life moves on children
• The crucial fight against harmful practices like conversion therapy
• How community safety nets and local control impact everyday lives
• Personal stories of growth, faith, and resilience through adversity

Timestamps:

00:00 - Celebrating listener support and community growth
00:30 - Moving plans and family considerations
01:15 - Supporting Lizzy through big changes
02:24 - Family reflections on transition and adjustment
03:52 - How decisions are centered on children's well-being
05:24 - Introduction to Tante Suzy and her pivotal role
06:02 - Bonding stories and family fun
07:34 - The evolution of sibling relationships over time
09:00 - From childhood to becoming an aunt, the beautiful transformation
10:33 - Lizzy’s special household phrases and shared humor
11:56 - Supporting loved ones through adoption journeys
14:59 - The emotional journey of family support
16:42 - The importance of community and local control in public safety
18:08 - The unique bond between Auntie Tante and Lizzy
20:02 - The influence of childcare expertise in real family relationships
22:50 - Broader discussions on adoption and family dynamics
24:32 - The fight against harmful ballot measures and state reforms
26:42 - The vital importance of civil service and local control
29:40 - The dangers of property tax reforms and community funding
32:46 - Celebrating our supporters and civil servants
33:12 - Final thoughts on family, love, and advocacy
34:26 - The ongoing fight against conversion therapy
37:02 - The role of government regulation in healthcare and mental health decisions
40:25 - The devastating effects of harmful conversion therapies
43:28 - Personal stories of faith, acceptance, and resilience
47:17 - The importance of unconditional love in faith and family
51:45 - The damaging impact of words and the need for kindness
53:36 - Lessons learned from Lizzy and the power of patience
55:00 - Closing thoughts and encouraging grace in everyday lifeResources & Links:

• Congresswoman Sarah McBride - First trans member of Congress
• Paying for Public Services - Ohio Ballot Measure
• American Psychological Association on Conversion Therapy
• National Center for Transgender Equality

Join us next week for more honest conversations and powerful stories. Your support matters — hit subscribe, share, and let's keep building this community of love and advocacy!

Raising Voices, Building Equality: The Power of Community and Advocacy

This episode is a heartfelt explosion of stories, struggles, victories, and bold visions for the future. We’re diving deep into how parents, especially LGBTQ+ families, shape our communities through activism, representation, and relentless love. If you’ve ever felt the weight of societal expectations or the power of standing up for your family’s right to exist and thrive, this episode is your call to action.

In this episode:

• Jamie McGonigal shares his inspiring journey from Broadway to activism, highlighting how his family’s story fuels his fight for educational equity.
• Personal stories of overperformance and the crushing pressure to represent all queer parents.
• The importance of representation, visibility, and community-building in schools and neighborhoods.
• How advocacy transforms when becoming a parent — advocacy rooted in love, protection, and future generations.
• The fight for equitable school funding, diverse curricula, and safe spaces for all kids.
• Examining the dangerous narratives that demonize LGBTQ+ individuals on the world stage, and why language matters.
• How grassroots organizing, from Pride events to nationwide coalitions, creates real change.
• The urgent need for bipartisan support on international adoption protections.
• A rallying cry for recognizing local activism as foundational to national progress.

Resources & Links:

• Rainbow Families — community organization for LGBTQ+ parents
• United for Marriage Coalition — landmark advocacy coalition
• New York Times — Born Abroad and Fearful of ICE, Adoptees Try to Prove They Belong
• Support the Protect Adoptees in American Families Act — bipartisan effort, check your Senators' support

Connect with Jamie McGonigal:

• Twitter
• Instagram

Let's keep moving forward — together, change is possible when we show up, speak out, and build with love. This isn’t just a story — it’s a movement. Be the change you wish to see in the world.

This week on Two Gay Dads we sit down with Stephen Chukumba, co‑founder and advocacy/outreach coordinator of Rainbow in Black. Stephen shares his powerful origin story as an accidental advocate, frontline strategies for supporting Black trans and gender‑expansive youth, and how families — especially fathers and single parents — can show up as true co‑conspirators. We discuss community building, resources (including a dating/disclosure guide co‑authored with HRC), racial dimensions of anti‑trans attacks, the fight over trans athletes in the courts, and a moving family story about patience, boundaries, and eventual acceptance. Plus: This Week in Gay News — adoptions stalled, dangerous deportations to Iran, Iowa’s expanded “don’t say” push, and joyful trans mutual‑aid in Florida.

Takeaways:

• How to support Black trans youth and their families in culturally specific ways
• Practical advocacy steps: local organizing, telling stories, contacting officials
• Why patience, firm boundaries, and community outreach matter
• Joyful resistance as a form of survival and organizing

Actions:
Subscribe, rate, and share — and if you’re moved by Stephen’s work, learn more about Rainbow in Black and ways to support local trans organizations and legal defenders (ACLU, Lambda Legal, local clinics).

Hosts: Jason & Nathan
Guest: Stephen Chukumba — Rainbow in Black

Resources:

www.rainbowinblack.org

www.stephenchukumba.com

Trigger warning: discussion of violence, immigration enforcement, trauma, and political repression.

In this urgent, off-format episode of Two Gay Dads, Jason and Nate step outside their usual adoption and family topics to respond to the escalating crises they’ve witnessed — from Minneapolis where ICE actions coincided with the murder of Renee (Becca) Good, to nationwide targeting of educators and communities of color. A former law‑enforcement officer, Jason recounts what he saw on the ground, and Nate shares practical steps their family is taking to prepare (wills, apostilles, emergency funds, researching immigration options). They unpack signs of authoritarianism, why civil resistance matters, and concrete tactics and networks (including Freedom Trainers) that build collective power. They also recommend podcasts and resources listeners can use to stay informed and take action.

This episode is a call to speak up, document injustice, protect your loved ones, and build the 3.5% movement of civic resistance. Listen, act, and share.

Resources Mentioned:

Freedom Trainers: https://freedomtrainers.net/

Podcasts:

Pod Save America

Pod Save the World

Strict Scrutiny

The Ezra Klein Show

Autocracy in America (The Atlantic)

Prepare to be inspired and moved. In this episode, we welcome Jameel Mayers, a beacon of authenticity, storytelling, and resilience. He takes us on a journey—through the nuances of modern queer fatherhood, the power of honest storytelling, and fighting to see LGBTQ families reflected in media and society. Buckle up, because this isn’t just a talk—it's a rallying cry for representation, love, and unapologetic truth.

• How Jameel’s journey into podcasting grew from extending his family and a desire to create a space for authentic stories
• The importance of media representation and why queer stories still need to be told—more loudly and vividly
• The intersection of storytelling and activism: how sharing deeper truths can shift societal perceptions
• Jameel’s experiences with adoption, foster care, and building a family — honest insights into the challenges and joys
• How his books, Paper Cradles and Elysium, explore identity, legacy, and stepping into the unknown
• The power of community in podcasting: how genuine connections are transforming lives and breaking isolation
• Navigating raw conversations about politics, laws, and the urgent need for inclusive policies

• Fathernetics Podcast
• Paper Cradles by Jameel Mayers
• Elysium by Jameel Mayers
• Jameel Mayers - LinkedIn
• Bissell Spot Bot

• Instagram
• Twitter

This episode isn’t just conversation—it’s a movement. Jameel Mayers reminds us that our stories are powerful, our voices are needed, and love is the most revolutionary act. If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or silenced—this is the episode for you. Let’s stand with courage, authenticity, and fierce love.

When Life Throws Up & The Power of Adoption: The Raw Truth Be Told

Grab a coffee, because this episode is a rollercoaster of real talks—about sick kids, survivalist dreams, and celebrating the unstoppable power of family through adoption. This isn't your typical podcast—it's raw, it's relatable, and it's a call to celebrate every chaotic, beautiful moment of life, love, and resilience.

In this episode:

• How a sick kid turned into a lesson in patience and resilience
• The importance of celebrating "Gotcha Day" and what it really means
• Surviving chaos: prepping for the unpredictable with a survivalist mindset
• A candid discussion on Florida's anti-DEI bills and the threat to democracy
• The power of community efforts to preserve queer history on Wikipedia
• Simple, heartfelt lessons from a five-year-old’s honesty and joy
• Why managing mental health during turbulent times starts with control and preparation

Resources & Links:

• Wiki Education
• Zephaniah Farm Vineyards
• Race Forward
• Berkeley Wikipedia Preservation Project

Connect with Nathan and Jason:

• 2 Gay Dads on Facebook
• 2 Gay Dads on Instagram
• 2 Gay Dads on YouTube
• Join Our Show!

Special Mention:

Check out the creative storytelling of Ryan & Craig on YouTube
Follow their Instagram for hilarious parodies on Instagram @RyanAndCraig

Remember, life is messy, beautiful, and worth every chaotic second. Embrace the love, the struggle, and the resilience—because in chaos, we find our strength. Celebrate your journey. Share your story. And never forget the power of family—chosen or given.

Most of us are fighting the exhaustion that comes with advocating for change in a world that constantly pushes us to the brink. But what if rest isn’t just a luxury — what if it’s one of the most powerful acts of resistance? In this episode, we uncover why taking care of ourselves is essential to moving forward, not a betrayal of the causes we hold dear.Join us as we explore how bedtime stories can teach resilience, inclusion, and bravery—pillars that shape future generations. We break down the importance of diverse books that humanize cultures, challenge stereotypes, and normalize complex identities. You'll discover how stories about pioneers, queer icons, and everyday heroes build the foundation of a more compassionate, courageous world.We also dive into the toll of policing, activism fatigue, and the simple acts of sanctuary—like quiet mornings or moments of connection—that keep us standing. From the power of silence as an act of resistance, to celebrating small wins that fuel our fire, this episode ignites your passion for meaningful change without burning out.Why does it matter? Because in a world that demands relentless hustle, your well-being is your secret weapon. Rest isn’t laziness—it's strategy. It empowers you to show up stronger in every fight. Perfect for activists, parents, and anyone feeling overwhelmed but committed to making a difference, this is your call to reclaim your power through balance.Are you ready to fight for a better world — and also give yourself permission to breathe? Hit play now, and let’s resist, restore, and rise together.

Nate’s Gay Agenda Article:

https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2026/03/the-worlds-oldest-active-drag-king-has-shaped-the-art-form-for-decades-shes-not-slowing-down/

Jason’s Gay Agenda Article:

https://www.advocate.com/news/don-lemon-says-stand-up-to-bullies

Most LGBTQ+ people survive—and thrive—by building chosen families that shield, support, and save lives. In a world that constantly tries to divide us, true belonging is a act of rebellion.
This episode uncovers the unstoppable power of community born out of trauma, love, and defiance. You’ll hear raw stories of how families of choice keep us alive, sane, and free—especially when the world pushes back. From heartwarming moments of support to fights over institutions trying to erase us, this is a call to reclaim what’s ours: family, belonging, and hope.
We break down surprising history—from the AIDS crisis to the current battles over LGBTQ rights—that proves chosen families aren’t just emotional anchors—they are the backbone of our survival. You'll discover practical tips for building your own tribe, navigating transphobic policies, and creating spaces where love and acceptance defy every attempt to tear us apart.
Why does any of this matter? Because in a time when the right wing tries to politicize every aspect of our lives, choosing to stand together is an act of resistance. Your community could be your lifeline—your family of choice—ready to lift you up when the world tries to push you down.
This episode is essential listening for anyone who’s ever needed to find belonging beyond blood, who refuses to be silenced, and who believes in love that’s stronger than hate. Because family isn’t just who you’re born with—it’s who you choose to fight for.
Get ready to be inspired, empowered, and reminded: We are never alone when we stand together.

Perfect for LGBTQ allies, community builders, and anyone craving genuine connection in a world that’s constantly trying to divide us.

Special Guests: The Twin Dads!

Youtube: @TheTwinDadLife

Insta: @twindadlife_official

This week Two Gay Dads goes global with Wayne and Heitor — the Ireland-meets-Brazil couple who somehow turned surrogacy chaos, eight rescued dogs (yes, eight), and seven failed embryo transfers into twin-powered domestic bliss. Expect stories about meeting on Facebook after one too many glasses of wine (Wayne = tipsy giraffe), a theatrical golden-egg baby reveal, a Roomba named Samantha enforcing toy cleanup, and twin antics that prove Blake and Blair have already mastered sibling diplomacy. We also get real about the baffling legal limbo for LGBTQ+ parents in Ireland, Meta algorithm rage-baiting, and why Kansas’ new laws make everyone’s blood boil. Equal parts heart, laughs, and practical advice—this episode is proof that family is messy, global, and totally worth it.

Jason and Nate are back (and apologizing for the missed week) with a candid, funny, and heartfelt conversation about parenting in a digital world. This episode covers:

• Screen time: navigating apps, YouTube Kids, family movie choices (Madea, Mrs. Doubtfire, Full House) and how media sparks big questions from their daughter Lizzy.
• Parenting while traveling: the realities of dual-travel schedules, FaceTime rituals, calendars, map magnets, re-entry after trips, and tips for keeping kids included and secure.
• Gay Agenda: victories and fights — the Pride flag controversy at Stonewall (and efforts to restore it) and reflections on Jesse Jackson’s role supporting LGBTQ+ rights.
• What they learned from Lizzy this week: the importance of goodbyes, meeting kids where they are, and small parenting wins.

Light, personal, and practical — perfect for parents juggling travel, screens, and raising resilient kids. Hosts: Jason & Nate

Jason and Nate come out swinging: equal parts riotous dad energy and deeply honest parenting. Tonight’s episode is a nonstop mix of laughs and real talk.

Highlights:

• Parenting mayhem: sundresses vs. snow pants, rogue bangs, and the great ballet‑bun outsourcing confession.
• Tough love with heart: teaching body boundaries, consent language, and recruiting aunties and allies for Lizzy.
• Party politics: playdate protocol, gift‑opening drama, and the extra scrutiny LGBTQ parents sometimes face.
• Unexpected wins: Girl Scouts orientation surprises and Nate nearly signing up on the spot.
• Gay Agenda: alarming UK life‑expectancy data and dangerous T‑erasure, plus Winter Olympics queer highlights.
• Tiny moments, huge feels: sticky‑note love notes that melted both dads.

Fast, funny, fierce — laugh out loud, then feel all the feels. Hit subscribe and join the chaos.

This week Jason and Nate recap their favorite guest (Steven) and a powerful Netflix short featuring Matthew Shepard’s dad, dig into the difference between being an ally and a co-conspirator, and unpack how their parenting philosophy has evolved—from strict rules to positive, connection-first parenting for their daughter Lizzy. They compare parenting styles, share practical wins (and fails), and reveal the tiny rituals that bring joy to their household.

They also tackle aging with dignity (and the cultural weirdness of “Mar‑a‑Lago face”), then shift to an urgent news alert: a Heritage Foundation–backed campaign and hundreds of anti‑LGBTQ bills moving in state legislatures that threaten families like theirs. Candid, outraged, and hopeful, they explain why visibility and organizing matter now more than ever.

Light, loving, and unflinchingly real—tune in for honest parenting talk, culture critique, and a reminder that a child’s laugh can fix almost any day. Subscribe, leave a review, and join the community. Onward

ACLU Resource: https://www.aclu.org/legislative-attacks-on-lgbtq-rights-2026?state=