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Gabor Maté: Five Steps To Stop Scrolling, Bingeing, and Self-Medicating — And Reclaim Your Brain06 avr. 202600:54:09

Practical tools to break "automatic habits" and take back your agency.

 

Gabor Maté is a retired physician who, after 20 years of family practice and palliative care experience, worked for over a decade in Vancouver's Downtown East Side with patients challenged by drug addiction and mental illness. The bestselling author of five books, including the award-winning In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, Gabor is an internationally renowned speaker highly sought after for his expertise on addiction, trauma, childhood development, and the relationship of stress and illness. 

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • Practical strategies for dealing with both our addictive tendencies and scattered minds
  • The real question to ask yourself when it comes to addiction 
  • Maté's relationship with ADHD
  • The relationship between ADHD and addiction
  • Tools for conscious harm reduction 
  • The practice of "Compassionate Curiosity"
  • "Re-parenting" practices for your nervous system 
  • And more

 

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What To Do When Your Mind Won't Quit | Bart van Melik03 avr. 202600:26:48

Buddhist tools for forgiveness, boredom, worry, and getting out of your head.

Meditation teacher Bart van Melik leads a live community Q&A — and the questions that come in are ones most meditators have quietly wrestled with for years.

Bart is the guiding teacher at Community Meditation Center in New York, where he leads weekly sessions grounded in Buddhist tradition. In this episode, he takes on four of the most common sticking points in practice: forgiveness, boredom, disconnection from the body, and the spiral of anxious "what if" thinking.

His approach throughout is warm, precise, and grounded — less about achieving a particular state and more about learning to hold whatever arises with curiosity and kindness.

Topics covered:

  • Forgiveness — why forcing it can backfire, what it means to "bypass" difficult emotions, and the reframe that changes everything: forgiveness as giving up all hope for a better past

  • Boredom — how to get genuinely curious about it instead of fighting it, and what it can teach you about why you reach for your phone

  • Getting into your body — why embodiment looks different for everyone, and how to find the activities (yes, even mindful salsa dancing or vacuuming) that make it easier

  • Worry and "what if" thoughts — the Buddhist framing of worry as an obstacle to clear seeing, and a simple breathwork technique from Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche — exhale heavy, exhale calm — that works even in the hardest moments

  • Community as practice — the Buddha's teaching that friendship and community isn't half the path. It's the whole thing.

 

About Bart van Melik: Bart van Melik is a meditation teacher and guiding teacher at Community Meditation Center, a global and local community that meets weekly via Zoom. Monthly sessions are donation-based and open to all. Learn more at https://www.cmc-ny.org/.



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Modern Life Is Designed to Leave You Empty. Here's the Antidote. | Arthur Brooks01 avr. 202601:14:45

Six steps to reclaim your brain, find purpose, and escape the doom loop.

 

Arthur Brooks is a professor at the Harvard Kennedy School and the Harvard Business School, where he teaches courses on leadership and happiness. Brooks is the author of 15 books, including the #1 New York Times bestsellers, Build the Life You Want, co-authored with Oprah Winfrey, and From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life. His latest book is The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness. 



In this episode we talk about:

  • The three essential components of a meaningful life
  • Getting comfortable with boredom 
  • Why we need to be asking questions that google can't answer
  • The neuroscience behind "authentic love" 
  • Strategies for finding meaning in your work 
  • What Arthur means when he says "don't waste your suffering"

 

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The Neuroscience of Flourishing: Four Practices for Turning Stress and Anxiety Into Clarity and Calm | Richard Davidson and Cortland Dahl30 mars 202601:06:49

The Dalai Lama's longtime collaborator on achieving fundamental okayness, transforming daily annoyances, and rewiring your brain.

Richard J. Davidson, PhD, is a Professor of Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. He is also the Founder & Director of the Center for Healthy Minds and Founder of the non-profit Humin.

Cortland Dahl, PhD, is a scientist, author, translator, and meditation teacher for the Tergar community. 

Davidson and Dahl's latest book is Born to Flourish. They also author the Substack newsletter, Dharma Lab.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What it really means to flourish 
  • How difficult emotions like anxiety, fear, or grief can coexist with well-being
  • Why flourishing is a trainable skill set, not a personality trait or a self-improvement project
  • An introduction to the Healthy Minds Framework and its four pillars: awareness, connection, insight, and purpose
  • Why short, informal "micro-practices" can be just as effective as formal meditation
  • How to cultivate purpose

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Join Dan, Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren for Meditation Party, a 3-day immersive retreat at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY, October 16–18, 2026. Register here. 

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Stop Trying to Become Someone New: Get Past Constant Comparison and Return to What Works For You | Sam Sanders27 mars 202600:53:35

What if the most meaningful thing you did for your mental health wasn't something new — but a return to what already brings you joy?

Dan recently sat down with journalist and broadcaster Sam Sanders on the Sam Sanders Show to explore exactly that idea. Sam has a concept he calls "modern scriptures": the movies, albums, and TV shows you return to again and again because they ground you, center you, and remind you what matters. Dan shares the pop culture that never fails to lift his spirits — and along the way, the two get into why beauty and art are actually central to human flourishing, why Ferris Bueller is more Buddhist than you might think, and what the research says about making resolutions stick — including the one upstream habit that makes everything else easier.

The Sam Sanders Show is a co-production of KCRW and Sam Sanders Productions. Sign up for Sam's newsletter for behind-the-scenes extras from every episode.



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Join Dan and Emmy Award-winning journalist Allison Gilbert at 92NY on May 17th for a live conversation about how mindfulness can deepen connection and combat loneliness, available in person and via streaming. Register here.

Join Dan, Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren for Meditation Party, a 3-day immersive retreat at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY, October 16–18, 2026. Register here.

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A Toolkit for a Noisy Mind: How John Green Manages Anxiety, Depression, and Intrusive Thoughts25 mars 202600:59:42

Plus, how the bestselling author writes his way out of despair.

 

John Green is the award-winning, #1 bestselling author of books including Looking for Alaska, The Fault in Our Stars, Turtles All the Way Down, and The Anthropocene Reviewed. With his brother, Hank, John has co-created many online video projects, including Vlogbrothers and the educational channel Crash Course. His most recent book is Everything Is Tuberculosis.

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • John's toolkit for managing thought spirals and dispair
  • Why he wrote a whole book about the thing that terrifies him 
  • How he maintains hope in a chaotic and unfair world
  • Finding the "self"
  •  Shame reduction through naming
  • What John learned from his time as a chaplain in a pediatric hospital 
  • His current view of God
  • And the question of how much––or how little––we should be sharing about ourselves with other people

 

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Join Dan and Emmy Award-winning journalist Allison Gilbert at 92NY on May 17th for a live conversation about how mindfulness can deepen connection and combat loneliness, available in person and via streaming. Register here.

 

Join Dan, Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren for Meditation Party, a 3-day immersive retreat at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY, October 16–18, 2026. Register here.

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Handling Difficult People, Healing Breakups, and the Science of Talking to Strangers | Shankar Vedantam23 mars 202600:56:39

Practical strategies for navigating difficult relationships and building new connections.

 

Shankar Vedantam is host of the Hidden Brain podcast and radio show, where he explores the hidden patterns that drive human behavior. He is the author of the books, The Hidden Brain: How Our Unconscious Minds Elect Presidents, Wage Wars, Control Markets and Save Our Lives, and Useful Delusions: The Power and Paradox of the Self- Deceiving Brain.

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to stop trying to change your partner
  • Useful tools for overcoming conflict
  • The challenging practice of "eating the blame" 
  • The concept of "useful delusions"
  • How to manage a breakup (of any kind)
  • The real secret to finding closure
  • The value of micro interactions with strangers
  • And more

 

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Join Dan, Sebene Selassie and Jeff Warren for Meditation Party, a 3-day immersive retreat at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY, October 16–18, 2026. Register here.


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A Practice for Fidgeters, Restless Minds, and Anyone Who Hates Sitting Still | Meditation with Sebene Selassie20 mars 202600:13:09

Let go of your thoughts, stop getting caught in your stories, and try the ancient practice of walking meditation.

Walking meditation is one of the most practical and underrated tools in mindfulness — and in this episode, Dan shares a guided practice from his new audiobook, Even You Can Meditate (co-authored with Sebene Selassie), out now on Audible.

The practice is led by Sebene herself. The premise is simple: walk slowly and deliberately, pay attention to the sensations of each step, and when your mind wanders — just start again. It bridges the gap between formal sitting practice and everyday life, and it's a genuine game-changer for fidgeters, restless types, and anyone who finds stillness unbearable.

In this guided practice, Sebene leads you through:

  • Grounding yourself before you take your first step

  • Tuning into the physical sensations of lifting, moving, and placing each foot

  • Expanding awareness to include your whole body and your surroundings

  • Letting thoughts come and go — without getting caught in them

  • Closing with a moment of gratitude for your body and this moment of awareness

The Even You Can Meditate (audiobook) by Dan Harris and Sebene Selassie is available now at audible.com/danharris. And mark your calendar for the Even You Can Meditate 5-Day Challenge — running March 23–27 on the 10% with Dan Harris app. Each day features a different guided practice, plus two live online events with Dan and Sebene. Download the app at danharris.com




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Buddhist Monks On: Letting Go of Shame, The Opposite of Depression, and Dealing With Criticism | Ajahn Kovilo and Ajahn Nisabho18 mars 202601:11:33

Plus, staying sane in a crazy world, giving tough feedback, and how to orient to the dumpster fire of the news.

Ajahn Kovilo Bhikkhu and Ajahn Nisabho are North American-born, Theravada monks who founded Clear Mountain Monastery in Seattle, Washington. 

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to get stuff off your chest
  • How to live with less shame and regret
  • How to give feedback without pissing people off too much
  • How to accept feedback without getting pissed off or getting defensive
  • How to stay sane in a crazy news cycle
  • Why being miserable about the state of the world doesn't actually help anything
  • How to cultivate the opposite of depression

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The Science of Emotion Regulation: Strategies for When You're Anxious, Angry, or Comparing Yourself To Others | Marc Brackett16 mars 202601:08:56

Yale emotional intelligence expert on how to deal with other people's emotions (and your own).

Marc Brackett, Ph.D. is the author of Dealing with Feeling: Use Your Emotions to Create the Life You Want and the bestselling Permission to Feel. He is the founding director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and a professor in the Child Study Center at Yale University. You can watch Marc's podcast interviews here. 

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to deal with stress, anxiety and anger
  • How to use gratitude in moments of compare and despair, like when you're on Instagram comparing yourself to other people's lives 
  • How to talk to yourself in moments of high stress
  • How to talk to other people when they're experiencing powerful emotions themselves

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Anderson Cooper and Michelle Obama: Navigating Grief, Making Loss Less Lonely, and How to Know the People You Love Before It's Too Late13 mars 202601:11:39

What Anderson learned from losing everyone he loved, what we owe our parents, and how grief shapes all of us--a conversation from the podcast "IMO."

On IMO, siblings Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson aim to bring you candid perspectives on the everyday questions shaping our lives, relationships and the world around us. Each week, they're joined by a guest to tackle real questions from real folks just like you offering practical advice, personal storytelling, and plenty of laughs. In this episode, Anderson Cooper shares what he's learned about holding space for grief. The three talk about how they managed (or avoided) the grieving process and how their moms prepared their kids to live without them. Plus Anderson shares his thoughts on the Vanderbilts inspiring an episode of "The Gilded Age."

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Five Ways to be Less Distracted | Shaila Catherine11 mars 202601:10:13

Practical Buddhist strategies to focus the mind.

 

Shaila Catherine is a dharma teacher and author of the book titled "Beyond Distraction: Five Practical Ways to Focus the Mind." She authored two additional books on the concentration practices called jhana and approaches to insight meditation. She has practiced for more than 45 years, including nine years, cumulatively, of silent retreat. Shaila has been leading meditation retreats for 30 years, and has developed an array of in-depth online courses offered through BodhiCourses.org.

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • The Buddha's struggles with distraction
  • Shaila's attempts to make the teachings of the Buddha accessible to contemporary minds
  • The importance of getting to know your own thought patterns
  • the counterintuitive strategy of "avoid it, ignore it, forget it,"
  • Replacing seduction with mindfulness
  • Developing a flexibility of mind
  • And why we're vulnerable to our own tendencies when we're not mindful

 


This episode originally aired June 29th, 2022.

 

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The Neuroscience of Reducing Chronic Pain and Everyday Addictions | Eric Garland09 mars 202600:58:49

Plus: How to "turn down the volume" on suffering, how to reframe your problems, and the clinical evidence for "stopping and smelling the roses."

 

Eric Garland, PhD, LCSW is Endowed Professor in Health Sciences at the Sanford Institute for Empathy and Compassion, Professor in the Department of Psychiatry and the Center for Addiction Science and Treatment at University of California San Diego (UCSD), and Director of UCSD ONEMIND (Optimized Neuroscience-Enhanced Mindfulness Intervention Design). Dr. Garland researches treatments for addiction and chronic pain, and is the developer of an innovative, mind-body therapy founded on insights derived from cognitive, affective, and neurobiological science, called Mindfulness-Oriented Recovery Enhancement (MORE). 

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • The three parts of his MORE protocol
  • Simple practices for dealing with everyday addictions
  • Mindfulness techniques for dealing with pain 
  • What pain actually is
  • How to reframe negative thought patterns
  • Practical tools for regaining a sense of joy in your life
  • And much more

 

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How To Stop Getting Dragged Around By Your Anxieties, Thought Loops, and Insecurities | Sebene Selassie06 mars 202600:21:00

Plus: How to find practices that work for you, what "mindfulness" actually means, and a new audiobook out now.

Sebene Selassie has been meditating for decades, survived cancer three times, and still says the practice isn't a magic bullet. That honesty is kind of the point.

Today we're sharing a sneak preview of Dan's new audiobook, Even You Can Meditate, co-authored with Sebene. Think of it as a practical rescue plan for anyone who feels too distracted, overwhelmed, or skeptical to start (or restart) a meditation practice.

In this preview, Dan and Seb cover:

  • Why "mindfulness" is actually a bit of a misnomer — and what the practice is really about

  • What meditation can and can't do for you (it won't solve everything, but the benefits tend to kick in faster than you'd expect)

  • How to find the style that works for your specific brain, body, and life — including if sitting still feels impossible

  • The role of intention, and why getting clear on your "why" can become a surprisingly powerful engine for keeping a practice going

  • The five hindrances — the predictable challenges that come up for almost every meditator — and how to work with them instead of against them

Even You Can Meditate is out now on Audible. Listen now at audible.com/danharris.

And mark your calendar: Dan and Seb are running a free five-day meditation challenge March 23–27 on Dan's app, 10% with Dan Harris. Download the app at app.danharris.com.

 

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The Funniest Conversation You'll Ever Hear About Achieving Inner Peace | Pete Holmes04 mars 202601:10:55

The comedian on: connecting instead of separating, feeling whole, and the upside of being an affirmation addict.

Pete Holmes is a stand-up comedian, writer, and actor. He created and starred in HBO's Crashing and hosted The Pete Holmes Show on TBS. He has released stand-up specials on HBO, Netflix, and Comedy Central, hosts the popular You Made It Weird podcast, and is the author of Comedy Sex God.

This episode is a live conversation recorded in NYC as part of a benefit for the amazing organization New York Insight Meditation Center. 

In this episode we talk about:

  • How Pete Holmes's evangelical upbringing shaped his early ideas about fear, morality, and God
  • Psychedelics, awareness, identity and consciousness  
  • Mysticism and metaphor versus literal belief
  • Meditation and different paths of practice
  • What meditation reveals about awareness, forgetting, and remembering
  • Being an affirmation addict
  • Service and helping others
  • Happiness versus peace of mind

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Harvard Business School Professor on Building Trust, Reducing Regret, and the Underrated Power of Oversharing | Leslie John02 mars 202601:10:12

The brain benefits of self-disclosure, the costs of staying silent, and how to know what to reveal and when.

Leslie John is the James E. Burke Professor of Business Administration at the Harvard Business School. Her new book is called Revealing: The Underrated Power of Oversharing.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Why self-disclosure can feel risky but is often socially rewarding
  • The psychological and physiological costs of keeping secrets
  • How putting feelings into words can reduce rumination and anxiety
  • Why validation is often more helpful than advice
  • Why undersharing leads to missed opportunities in relationships, work, and life

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A Four-Word Buddhist Teaching for Instant Calm and (Just Maybe) Lasting Peace | Bart van Melik27 févr. 202600:16:14

If you struggle with the terrifying reality that everything changes, this conversation is for you.

Bart van Melik is a meditation teacher, psychotherapist, and our Teacher of the Month for January. In this live session recorded on Zoom with subscribers to the 10% with Dan Harris app, Bart and Dan explore one of Bart's favorite teachings: "Keep calmly knowing change"—four words that supposedly distill all 84,000 of the Buddha's teachings.

We talk about:

  • Why attuning to the flow of things brings peace (even though change is terrifying)—and what the Buddha said on his deathbed about impermanence

  • How to introduce meditation to kids without making it seem difficult or boring 

  • The three dimensions of mindfulness: internal (your own mind), external (noticing other people's breath on the subway), and relational (the field we're all co-creating together)

  • Whether connecting through venting and complaining is harmless or something to examine more closely

  • "Useless speech" (sampappalāpa)—the Pali term for saying stuff that doesn't really matter, and why the urge is often just "look at me"

  • Why Bart is still on this path after all these years: community

Bart closes with a beautiful dedication about coming home to the body and appreciating that we show up in community.

These live sessions happen every week in the app 10% with Dan Harris, where you can meditate with Dan and guest teachers and ask questions in real time. Get the app at danharris.com—there's a free 14-day trial.

 

 

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Michael Pollan On: Reducing Rumination, Reclaiming Your Attention From the Machines, and MDMA-Assisted Therapy25 févr. 202601:06:26

Plus, making the mundane sacred, meditating in a cave, and lowering the ego walls.

Michael Pollan is the author of ten books, all of which were New York Times bestsellers. His latest book is A World Appears: A Journey Into Consciousness.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to get over yourself
  • How to reduce rumination
  • How to lower the ego's walls
  • How to elevate mundane tasks
  • The value of what Zen practitioners call "don't know mind"
  • How to reclaim your attention from Big Tech (what Michael calls the "colonizers of consciousness")
  • The value of MDMA-assisted therapy
  • Michael's experiences meditating in a cave

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How To Handle the Feeling of Never-Enough, Quiet the Comparing Mind, and Reduce Financial Anxiety | Morgan Housel23 févr. 202601:11:03

A financial psychology expert on the science of contentment.

 

Morgan Housel is the New York Times Bestselling author of The Psychology of Money and Same As Ever. He's a partner at The Collaborative Fund, serves on the board of directors at Markel and is host of The Morgan Housel Podcast. His new book is The Art of Spending Money: Simple Choices for a Richer Life. 

In this episode we talk about:

  • What "irrational" spending habits really tell us
  • How to manage money ambition with sanity 
  • How to use scarcity to your advantage
  • A useful equation for finding contentment
  • The key defense against envy 
  • How to minimize future regret
  • Why young people should check their bank accounts more often
  • How to talk to your kids about money
  • How to disconnect self-worth from financial worth 
  • And more

 

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How To Increase Performance By Working At Your Edge -- Plus A Quick Hack For When Panic or Anxiety Swells22 févr. 202601:15:21

How do you stay engaged without getting consumed? That's one of the central questions in this conversation between Dan and high-performance psychologist Dr. Michael Gervais. 

Together they explore: 

  • working at your edge in meditation, panic disorder, and professional life

  • why love might be the most important skill we can develop 

  • navigating rage in difficult political times

  • and the Ideal Competitive Mindset — a concept Dan found surprisingly useful. 

Originally recorded for Dr. Gervais' podcast, Finding Mastery, this one turned into a real back-and-forth.

 

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The Best Way To Feel Calm (Is to Not Try To Feel Calm)20 févr. 202600:20:45

In this episode, Dan takes live questions from subscribers to the 10% with Dan Harris app. Topics include: meditating through grief and serious emotional pain, the hidden addiction to feeling calm during meditation, how to find focus and concentration without straining so hard you get a headache, whether guided meditations are just "training wheels," and how to practice when ADHD or restlessness makes sitting still feel impossible.

Throughout, Dan returns to a central theme: the point of meditation isn't to feel any particular way — it's to relate differently to whatever is already there. To join the live Tuesday sessions, sign up for a free 14-day trial at danharris.com.



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A Buddhist Antidote To Fear And Anxiety | Devin Berry18 févr. 202601:07:52

The two practices that helped turn this self described scowling, sarcastic skeptic into an expert meditator.

 

Devin Berry is a Core Guiding Teacher at the Insight Meditation Society and a residential retreat teacher at IMS and Spirit Rock. A meditator since 1999, his practice is rooted in long-term retreat practice and the mettā and vipassanā teachings of the Insight Meditation tradition. 

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • Why mindfulness alone is not enough
  • How mettā is part of four related mental skills called the Brahma Viharas
  • The story of how and why the Buddha (according to the legend) invented mettā practice
  • The role and practice of generosity
  • A year long experiment that Devin ran in mettā and danā
  • And lastly, how these practices can help us both on and off the cushion

 

This episode originally aired on July 31st, 2024.

 

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The Science of Happiness: Five Simple Strategies for Reducing Anxiety and Increasing Connection | Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis16 févr. 202601:03:17

What it really means to feel loved, and why many people who are loved don't feel it.

Sonja Lyubomirsky is a preeminent happiness expert and Distinguished Professor of Psychology at the University of California. Harry Reis is one of the world's leading experts on relationships and Dean's Professor in the Department of Psychology at the University of Rochester. They are the authors of: HOW TO FEEL LOVED: The Five Mindsets That Get You More of What Matters Most.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What it really means to feel loved, and why many people who are loved don't feel it
  • An antidote to loneliness 
  • A broader definition of love beyond romance
  • Why feeling loved may be the true key to happiness
  • How feeling loved is more in your control than you think
  • The "relationship seesaw": lifting others up to feel loved yourself
  • The power of curiosity, listening, and reciprocity
  • Why dropping emotional armor is necessary for real connection
  • Practical tools for feeling more loved
  • Tips on asking better questions and showing real enthusiasm
  • Why genuine curiosity, reciprocity, and emotional pacing deepen connection more than performative listening

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How To Handle Constant Exhaustion (Without Blaming Yourself) | Jay Michaelson15 févr. 202600:32:17

A conversation with meditation teacher Jay Michaelson about what to do when you're constantly tired, fried, and running on empty.

If you feel exhausted seemingly all the time—whether it's a low hum or something louder—you're not alone. In this conversation, Jay Michaelson, our Teacher of the Month for February, talks with executive producer DJ Cashmere about the relentless fatigue so many of us are experiencing, and what actually helps.

We talk about:

  • Why your first move should be self-compassion (not self-blame)—especially in a culture obsessed with sleep optimization

  • The important oscillation between being with difficulty versus reaching for an antidote

  • HALT: the acronym that can save you (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired)

  • How to investigate exhaustion without trying to fix it right away

  • Practical antidotes: screen hygiene, micro-naps, and yes, brain machines

  • How our Stone Age brains are being hijacked by tech companies

  • Why nap shame is "pure garbage" and you should kiss it goodbye

  • The social conditions causing exhaustion that are beyond individual control

The through-line: this isn't about becoming superhuman or gritting your teeth through exhaustion. It's about relating to it differently, being kinder to yourself, and using whatever tools actually work—even if they feel unconventional.

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How To Work With Insomnia, Pain, and Your Mom's Voice in Your Head | Jeff Warren13 févr. 202600:28:00

A live Q&A session with meditation teacher Jeff Warren, where Dan and Jeff tackle some of the hardest questions in meditation and life.

Jeff Warren is a meditation teacher, author, and co-founder of the Consciousness Explorers Club. In this live session recorded on Zoom with subscribers to the 10% with Dan Harris app, Jeff and Dan take questions about insomnia, chronic pain, caring for aging parents, existential fears for loved ones, and what to do when your meditation practice feels stuck.

We talk about:

  • How to get equanimity around existential fears for your kids (which Jeff calls "the single hardest thing in human life")

  • Why acceptance is a terrible word and equanimity is better

  • The difference between doomsday spirals and what's actually happening right now

  • Practical strategies for insomnia and chronic pain (including why your goal shouldn't be eight hours of unconscious sleep)

  • What to do when you feel stuck in your meditation practice (hint: the plateau is normal)

  • Three strategies for turning down the volume on your constant mental narrator

Jeff also introduces the practice of asking your meditation a question—literally seeding a question in your mind during practice and seeing what bubbles up. It's surprisingly effective for creative blocks and getting unstuck.

These live sessions happen every week in the 10% with Dan Harris app, where you can meditate with Dan and guest teachers and ask questions in real time. Get the app at danharris.com — there's a free 14-day trial.

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Stoic Practices for Getting Rid of Mental Junk, Your Morning Routine, and Talking to the Dead | Ryan Holiday11 févr. 202601:07:52

How to become the wisest version of yourself.

 

Ryan Holiday is one of the world's bestselling living philosophers. His books, including The Daily Stoic, The Obstacle Is the Way, Ego Is the Enemy, Stillness Is the Key and his #1 New York Times bestselling series on the Stoic Virtues, appear in more than forty languages and have sold over 10 million copies.



In this episode we talk about:

  • The value of asking pertinent questions 
  • How to create a second brain
  • Finding a teacher for yourself
  • How not to be a know it all
  • Achieving focus through a morning routine 
  • How to seek out criticism
  • Learning how to die
  • And much more

 

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Unlocking the Body's Innate Capacity for Healing: From Colds and Injuries to Anxiety and Heart Health | Dr. Victoria Maizes09 févr. 202601:19:28

Our bodies are brilliant at healing. An integrative doctor on how to tap that resource.

Victoria Maizes, MD, is the founding executive director of the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine. Her new book is Heal Faster: Unlock Your Body's Rapid Recovery Reflex to Feel Better—Quicker. 

In this episode we talk about:

  • What integrative medicine is (and isn't) 
  • How lifestyle, stress, sleep, and relationships factor into healing
  • Why "a pill for every ill" often falls short
  • What the Rapid Recovery Reflex is and why the body wants to heal
  • The biggest things that block recovery in modern life
  • Practical ways to improve our health, ranging from sleep to stress 
  • Why patients have more power than they think
  • How AI can help people ask better questions and work smarter with doctors
  • Why what and when you eat matters
  • How environmental toxins and social connection quietly shape our health more than we realize
  • Tips for handling colds and flu more effectively
  • Smarter ways to recover from pain and injuries
  • Practical tools for reducing stress and anxiety without immediately turning to medication

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This Quick Practice Will Make You Feel Lighter | Jay Michaelson08 févr. 202600:13:14

A guided loving-kindness meditation from Jay Michaelson that ditches the phrases and uses visualization instead.

If you've done traditional metta (loving-kindness) practice before, you know it involves bringing people to mind and repeating phrases like "May you be happy, may you be healthy." It's a great practice. But sometimes the words can get you stuck in your head—thinking about what would actually make this person happy, or getting into stories about their suffering.

This version takes away the verbal element. Instead, you work with a visualization: imagining a warm, golden light in your heart center that you can extend outward.

Fair warning: this involves imagination. If that makes you roll your eyes, that's fine. But as the Beatles said, "The love you take is equal to the love you make." It's worth a try.

Jay Michaelson is our Teacher of the Month for February. Find more guided meditations and live sessions with Jay throughout the month in the 10% with Dan Harris app.



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How To Stop an Anxiety Spiral, The Best Protections Against Financial Ruin, and a Workaholic's Guide to Productivity (and Self-Care) | Andrew Ross Sorkin06 févr. 202600:53:45

Life hacks life from one of the busiest journalists of our time.

 

Andrew Ross Sorkin is an award-winning journalist for The New York Times, a co-anchor of CNBC's Squawk Box, and the founder and editor-at-large of DealBook, an online daily financial report published by The New York Times. His latest book is 1929: Inside the Greatest Crash in Wall Street History--and How It Shattered a Nation.

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • The motivation behind his new book
  • Human nature –– and why FOMO might be a good thing
  • Personal finance hygiene 
  • The true antidote to irrational financial decisions
  • How to cope with financial stress
  • Practical tools to stop mental spiraling 
  • The "Would It Help?" mantra
  • The role of Transcendental Meditation (TM) in Andrew's life
  • Productivity hacks and life routines
  • Calendar blocking vs. to-do lists 
  • How much you should ––or shouldn't–– share or disclose about yourself with other people
  • And much more



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Three Buddhist Practices For Getting Your Sh*t Together | Vinny Ferraro04 févr. 202601:06:32

Practical advice from a straight-talking former criminal and occasionally profane Dharma teacher. 

Vinny Ferarro has practiced insight meditation (vipassanā) since the mid-90s. He's the Guiding Teacher of the Big Heart City Sangha in San Francisco and has led a weekly sitting group for almost two decades.

As a fully empowered Dharma Teacher through Spirit Rock/IMS, he has taught residential retreats at various centers and currently leads Spirit Rock's Year to Live course. 

This episode originally dropped in May of 2024, but we're re-posting it because it was one of our most successful episodes. 

In this episode we talk about:

  • Alignment
  • Vinny's concept of "flashing your basic goodness"
  • Noting practice
  • The deep satisfaction in not seeking satisfaction
  • Redirecting awareness
  • Being an "empathetic witness" for yourself
  • When to opt for distraction
  • Not taking what's not yours 
  • Vinny's ancestor practice
  • What is the connection between seeing our family patterns and not taking what is not ours?  
  • How loyal have we been to our suffering?



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How a Simple Mindset Shift Can Reduce the Risk of Heart Disease and Improve Overall Health | Dr. Tara Narula02 févr. 202601:00:30

A smarter way to think about disease prevention.

Dr. Tara Narula is a board-certified cardiologist at Lenox Hill Hospital in Manhattan and Chief Medical Correspondent for ABC News. Her new book is The Healing Power of Resilience: A New Prescription for Health and Well-Being.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What resilience really is, why most of us already have it, and how it can be strengthened
  • The overlooked link between mental health, physical health, and recovery from illness
  • Why mindset and acceptance matter as much as medical treatment when facing health challenges
  • How resilience applies to major life changes, trauma, and chronic disease.
  • Practical psychological tools for working with anxiety, fear, and repetitive thought patterns
  • Why flexible thinking matters
  • How to adapt when life doesn't go according to plan
  • How beliefs, mindset, and the mind–body connection shape stress, healing, and resilience
  • Why movement, sleep, and facing fear are essential ingredients in building real resilience
  • How reframing identity can help people move forward after illness, trauma, or loss
  • Why connection, love, and small acts of kindness are powerful  and underused medicine
  • How hope, faith, and purpose shape resilience, healing, and long-term health

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How To Create Micro-Moments of Sanity No Matter What's Happening Today | Jay Michaelson01 févr. 202600:28:58

A conversation with Jay Michaelson, our Teacher of the Month for February, about his path to meditation, navigating multiple identities, and why he calls himself a "cynical, sarcastic bitch."

Jay Michaelson is a meditation teacher, journalist, rabbi, and author. In this conversation with executive producer DJ Cashmere, Jay gets candid about his unconventional path into meditation—driven initially by greed for mystical experiences rather than a desire to reduce suffering—and how his practice has evolved over 25 years.

We talk about:

  • Why Jay identifies as a "greed type" in Buddhist psychology (and what that means)

  • How to balance worldly activism with contemplative practice without getting "hollowed out"

  • The concept of creating a "permission structure" to live the life you actually want

  • That moment of spaciousness between stimulus and response (and how it saved Jay when he got heckled during LGBTQ activism)

  • Whether meditation can help save humanity—and why Jay is both cynical and hopeful about this

  • How neurotic Jay still is after 25 years of practice (spoiler: he's less reactive, but still neurotic)

  • "Micro-moments" of awareness—five-second practices for people who can't go on long retreats

Jay's guided meditations and live sangha sessions are available throughout February in the 10% Happier app. You can also find him at jaymichaelson.substack.com, where he writes Both/And, a newsletter about the intersection of spirituality, meditation, and politics.

 

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George Saunders On: Getting Un-Stuck, Calming the Inner Critic, and Building Empathy Without Becoming a Chump30 janv. 202601:06:07

A conversation with celebrated author George Saunders about his new novel, Vigil, and what fiction can teach us about empathy, self-awareness, and mortality.

George Saunders is the bestselling, award-winning author of Lincoln in the Bardo, Tenth of December, and many other books. His new novel, Vigil, tells the story of a woman who died in 1976 and has spent the decades since comforting the dying—until she encounters a former oil executive responsible for early climate change denial.

In this conversation, Dan and George talk about:

  • Why George keeps writing about ghosts and the afterlife (hint: it's not just about mortality dread)

  • The lavish empathy at the heart of Vigil—and whether we should extend that empathy even to people doing civilizational damage

  • What George calls "warm metacognition"—the practice of dropping back out of your thought loops to examine what kind of goggles you're wearing

  • How fiction can turn your mind into a "reconsideration machine" (and why that matters in real life)

  • The difference between kindness and niceness

  • George's relationship with death anxiety, which he's had since childhood and which has only intensified with age

  • What George has learned about listening from teaching and hosting his Substack, Story Club

  • Why the older he gets, the more important it is to stretch himself creatively

  • His advice for dealing with stuckness (in writing and in life): curiosity over self-accusation

George's new novel Vigil is out January 27th from Random House. Check out his Substack, Story Club, where he discusses classic short stories with an incredibly thoughtful community.

 

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How to Regulate Your Emotions and Mental Chatter When Bad Things Happen | Maya Shankar28 janv. 202601:06:17

Practical techniques for dealing with all of life's curveballs.

 

Maya Shankar is a cognitive scientist and creator of the podcast A Slight Change of Plans, previously named "Best Show of the Year" by Apple. She served as a Senior Policy Advisor in the Obama White House and was also appointed as the first Behavioral Science Advisor to the United Nations. She is the author of The Other Side of Change: Who We Become When Life Makes Other Plans.



In this episode we talk about:

  • The two major life events that caused her to study the topic of change
  • How to build a more expansive sense of self
  • Practical tools for navigating change 
  • Cognitive biases such as  "the end of history illusion"
  • The utility of distraction and denial
  • Tools for getting unstuck from rumination
  • And much more



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A Counterintuitive Strategy for Sharper Decision-Making, Stronger Performance, and a More Meaningful Life. | Daniel Pink26 janv. 202600:52:09

How to have fewer regrets (and utilize the ones you already have).

 

Daniel Pink is the author of seven bestselling nonfiction books on a range of topics, from human motivation to the science of timing to a graphic novel career guide. His books include the New York Times bestsellers The Power of Regret, A Whole New Mind, and When—as well as the #1 New York Times bestsellers Drive and To Sell is Human. 



In this episode we talk about:

  • The myth of the "no regrets" philosophy 
  • What a regret actually is 
  • The very real benefits of regret
  • The four core regrets people tend to have 
  • Tools for dealing with regrets
  • The importance of talking or writing about your regrets
  • How to  create a "failure resume" 
  • The Regret Optimization Framework 
  • The crucial role of self-compassion and self-distancing
  • And much more



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How To Handle 4 AM Worry Spirals | Bart van Melik25 janv. 202600:21:59

A conversation with self-described "worry warrior" Bart van Melik about working skillfully with everyday anxiety.

Bart is a guiding teacher at the Community Meditation Center in New York and our Teacher of the Month for January. In this conversation with executive producer DJ Cashmere, he gets refreshingly honest about his own tendency to worry — and shares a bunch of practical tools for when your mind won't stop spinning through worst-case scenarios.

We talk about:

  • Why mindful breathing sometimes doesn't work (and what to do instead)

  • The practice phrase "this wants to be seen right now"

  • How to work with your aversion to worrying (which can be worse than the worry itself)

  • Why talking about your fears with other people is so crucial

  • The question "what is this?" as a low-barrier entry point to awareness

  • How the Buddha's teaching on clinging shows up in anxious thinking

  • Why community and sangha aren't optional extras

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Tim Ferriss On: Recovering From Anxiety and Compulsive Thinking, Rethinking Self-Optimization, and the Power of Saying "No."23 janv. 202601:11:49

Secrets to self-preservation in an age of burnout.

 

Tim Ferris is the author of five #1 New York Times bestsellers, including The 4-Hour Workweek and Tools of Titans. He's also the host of The Tim Ferriss Show podcast. Most recently, he has collaborated with Exploding Kittens to create COYOTE, a fast and hilarious card game. 



In this episode we talk about:

  • Tim's Antidotes to isolation
  • Past-year reviews
  • The perils of self-optimization
  • His meditation practice
  • Escaping rumitive loops 
  • The role of Accelerated Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS)
  • The ketogenic diet 
  • Talking to chatbots about your health
  • And much more



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Overwhelm Is Reversible. Here Are the Best Strategies From Psychology and Neuroscience | Claudia Hammond21 janv. 202601:08:01

A road map for taking the pressure off. 

 

Claudia Hammond is an award-winning writer and broadcaster. She is Visiting Professor of the Public Understanding of Psychology at the University of Sussex and is the presenter of BBC Radio 4's All in the Mind. Her latest book is Overwhelmed: Ways to Take the Pressure Off.

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to define "overwhelm" – and modern causes for its existence
  • Why the search for perfection is futile 
  • Claudia's three-part recipe for handling overwhelm
  • Antidotes for the comparing mind 
  • What we should all know about procrastination
  •  How to not let the news overwhelm you 
  • What we learn from regret – and how to stop beating up on your past self
  • A key technique for worrying less
  • The case for nostalgia
  • How to get into a "flow state"

 

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How To Succeed, Sanely—Without Toxic Productivity, Preconceived Notions, or Fear of Change | Anne-Laure Le Cunff19 janv. 202601:13:34

What does success look like? A neuroscientist wants you to question your cognitive scripts. 

Anne-Laure Le Cunff conducts research into the neuroscience of learning and curiosity at King's College London, and also runs Ness Labs. She is the author of Tiny Experiments: How to Live Freely in a Goal-Obsessed World.

 In this episode we talk about:

  • Her critique on our cultural obsession with "finding your purpose"
  • The value of knowing your "cognitive scripts"
  • Practical tools to live a more purposeful, curious, and fulfilled life
  • Her mini-protocol for experimentation (based on the scientific method)
  • Mindful productivity — and how it builds on moving us into an experimental mindset 
  • Whether procrastination is actually the enemy? And tools to work with it.
  • The upside of making space for your imperfections 
  • Tips for navigating uncertainty 
  • Why you want to avoid having too many experiments at the same time
  • The main difference between a habit and an experiment
  • How to learn alongside with other people — and why this matters 
  • Collective "flow" states 
  • Tips for community building
  • And this question: is legacy important?

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How To Handle Exhaustion, Disconnection, and Physical Pain | Meditation with Bart van Melik18 janv. 202600:12:33

A short, gentle body scan meditation from Bart van Melik, our Teacher of the Month for January.

This isn't about fixing anything or achieving some special state. It's about finding one small place in your body that feels okay—not great, just okay—and seeing what happens when you meet that experience with a little bit of kindness.

Bart is a meditation teacher and psychotherapist who has trained in Insight Meditation and Buddhist psychology. He's worked extensively in clinical settings with people dealing with stress, anxiety, and harsh self-talk. He's the guiding teacher for the Community Meditation Center in New York City.

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Seth Meyers On: Handling Performance Anxiety, Managing the Inner Critic, Hacks for Better Conversation, and Staying Joyful in Dark Times16 janv. 202600:44:27

Plus, much more from the famed late-night TV show host.

Seth Meyers is the host of Late Night with Seth Meyers. Before that, he was a cast member on Saturday Night Live for 13 seasons. In recent years he has released two standup specials: Lobby Baby, on Netflix and Dad Man Walking, on HBO. He wrote a children's book called, I'm Not Scared, You're Scared. And he co-hosts two podcasts, Family Trips with the Meyers Brothers and The Lonely Island and Seth Meyers Podcast.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How Seth maintains sanity while hosting a late-night show amid the firehose of news
  • Joy and humor as resilience
  • His early struggles with self-doubt 
  • How raising children is potentially harder than hosting a late night TV show
  • The upside of anxiety
  • The art of listening
  • Friendship, loyalty, and the emotional sustenance of creative partnerships.

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The "Wellness" Industry Sells Us On Rigid Optimization. It Doesn't Work–But This Might. | Nidhi Bhanshali Pandya14 janv. 202601:18:31

A deep dive on Ayurveda, a sophisticated system for health that's been refined over millennia.

Nidhi Bhanshali Pandya is a renowned NAMA-certified Ayurvedic Doctor, the bestselling author of Your Body Already Knows (2025), and international speaker/educator known for her modern approach to women's health and longevity.

In this episode we talk about:

  • What Ayurveda actually is beyond TikTok trends 
  • How ancient Ayurvedic principles align with (and differ from) modern medicine
  •  How to brace yourself in the face of an imbalanced ecosystem
  • The human tragedy of overoptimization
  • The value of awe, fascination, and pattern-seeing as more effective than discipline or force
  •  The three codes of life
  • The framework to come back into our own intelligence in the kindest way 
  • How modern life (especially electricity) disrupted our biological rhythm and created chronic imbalance
  • The concept of balance and the Buddhist middle path as echoed in Ayurvedic texts
  • The "inner climate" framework 
  • Practical tools for sleep, including concrete daily practices to offset "imbalances"
  • The concept of agni (digestive fire) and how to support it
  • A three tiered toolkit for self-regulation
  • The perils of jumping into change
  • Why cold drinks and excessive water can disrupt digestion
  • Radical acceptance and gratitude

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Why You Don't Exercise Even Though You Know You Should. And Strategies To Get Over the Hump. | Katy Bowman12 janv. 202601:17:47

A toolkit for bringing more movement into your life.

 

Katy Bowman is a biomechanist who runs a movement education company, called Nutritious Movement. She's the author of 11 books, and her most recent is I Know I Should Exercise, But...: 44 Reasons We Don't Move and How to Get Over Them.



In this episode we talk about:

  • What a biomechanist does 
  • What Katy means by "movement as nutrition" 
  • How to determine your "movement diet"
  • The distinction between movement and exercise 
  • Why people don't exercise
  • Strategies for consistency 
  • The role of values and attention
  • How to move if you don't like sweating 
  • How to find time to move 
  • The technique of "stacking your life"
  • Overcoming embarrassment and shame related to movement 
  • Strengthening your "so what" muscle
  • Getting comfortable with discomfort
  • What to do when you're addicted to your screen
  • And much more


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Buddhist Strategies for Protecting Yourself from Everyday Chaos | Bart van Melik11 janv. 202600:33:12

Ever lie awake at night replaying all the moments you lost it with your kids, your partner, or your co-workers? You're not alone.

Bart van Melik is back on the show (his first appearance was four years ago) as our Teacher of the Month for January. Bart has one of the more interesting origin stories in the meditation world: from a small town in the Netherlands to Kenya on an exchange program (where he met his wife of 30 years), to studying in Thailand, to teaching meditation to teenagers in juvenile detention in the South Bronx.

In this conversation with executive producer DJ Cashmere, we talk about:

  • The difference between being mindful and knowing you're mindful (and why this matters when your 11-year-old is pushing every button)

  • Why awareness feels like protection

  • How to stop the cycle of: snap, regret, repeat

  • What Bart learned teaching meditation to kids in juvie who told him his meditation was "lit"

  • Why your kids might be your fiercest Zen teachers

  • The surprising power of saying "no" without aversion

  • How everything actually goes faster when you stop rushing

  • His favorite teaching from a modern-day monk: "Keep calmly knowing change"

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How To Rewrite Your Story, Make Peace with the Past, and Break Old Patterns | Melissa Febos09 janv. 202601:08:45

Practical ways to upgrade your narrative.

Melissa Febos is the national bestselling author of five books, including Girlhood, Body Work: The Radical Power of Personal Narrative, and a new memoir, The Dry Season. She is the recipient of awards and fellowships from the Guggenheim Foundation, the National Endowment for the Arts and others. Her work has appeared in The Paris Review, The New Yorker, The Best American Essays and others. She is a professor at the University of Iowa.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to "audit" your personal narrative with simple questions
  • Melissa's five-step method for rewriting unhelpful stories
  • Why community, and vulnerability are required for real change; in other words, why it's harder to do this work alone
  • Melissa's own experiences running this playbook with regard to her relationships and her addictions.

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How To Use Psychology and Buddhism To Handle Your Inner Critic | Amita Schmidt07 janv. 202601:01:45

How psychology and spirituality can work together.

Amita Schmidt is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Hawaii. She has taught Vipassana meditation for over thirty years, and was the Resident Teacher at Insight Meditation Society for six years. She is the author of the book Dipa Ma: The Life and Legacy of a Buddhist Master. Amita currently teaches and practices non-dual meditation and is a certified IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapist.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How psychology and spirituality can work together
  • The basics of Internal Family Systems (or IFS)
  • Amita's personal path through trauma, depression, and a pivotal insight that changed everything
  • Why states like depression aren't as solid as they feel
  • How to work with the inner critic
  • Simple ways to access the sanest, wisest version of yourself
  • The shift from psychological healing to spiritual insight
  • The value of acceptance and surrender
  • Simple pointers for sensing "aware presence" beneath all the mental noise

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Esther Perel: The Modern World Can Sap Your Life Force. Here's How To Recapture It.05 janv. 202600:53:22

The legendary psychotherapist unpacks the concept of "hostile dependency" and explains why cutting people off doesn't always work.

Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is a leading voice on modern relationships, known for her widely viewed TED Talks, bestselling books and the hit podcast. She runs a New York–based therapy practice and advises global organizations and platforms on the complexities of contemporary relationships.

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In this episode we talk about:

  • What Esther Perel really means by eros
  • How modern life quietly depletes our sense of feeling alive
  • Why aliveness can coexist with grief, pain, and difficulty 
  • The danger of numbness 
  • Introverts, extroverts, and the many non-social ways we experience vitality
  • Vital sources of connection and meaning
  • Co-regulation, touch, presence, and why words alone aren't enough
  • "Hostile dependency" and the paradoxes of long-term relationships
  • Why loneliness has become normalized, and why it shouldn't be
  • How to rebuild community through small, practical acts
  • Rituals as a way to mark time, create meaning, and feel grounded
  • The tension between individualism, belonging, and responsibility to others

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Buddhist Hacks for Anxiety and Overthinking | Joseph Goldstein04 janv. 202601:17:30

Today we're gonna talk about some Buddhist hacks for two deeply related and all too common ailments: anxiety and overthinking. Most of us have struggled with one or both of these, and one of the people who has helped Dan the most is Joseph Goldstein.

Regular listeners to this podcast will be familiar with Joseph and his very direct, very down-to-earth style, but if you don't know – let us introduce you. He's one of the foremost Buddhist teachers in the west, he's been Dan's teacher for about 15 years, and Dan's recently convinced him to write a book together, using a collection of these little phrases that he's cooked up over the years. Dan's been keeping a list of around a hundred or so tiny, useful phrases – bite-sized wisdom for meditation practice and for daily life. The book won't be out for a few years, but we're conducting a series of interviews with him, each one covering a few phrases, and we'll be releasing those here on the podcast. 

The first installment of these interviews about Joseph's phrases just came out on Thursday, Jan. 1, and you don't have to listen to that episode for this episode to make sense, but they are useful together. 

Today, we'll be covering: 

  • The practice assessment tapes

  • Whatever works

  • Cowboy Dharma

  • Dead end

  • Is this useful

  • And a quartet about walking meditation: sensations moving through space, walking through space, walking in a dream, walking through the mind

Don't worry if those don't make sense right now – stick with us and you'll get a thorough explanation of where those phrases all come from and how they can help. 

 

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Joseph Goldstein On How To Train Your Runaway Brain01 janv. 202601:08:45

You may have noticed that your mind is out of control. It's filled with racing thoughts, ancient neuroses and grudges, revenge fantasies… So why are we like this and what can be done about it?

Today, we're talking to one of our favorite people and also one of the most prominent meditation teachers in the West, Joseph Goldstein, about how "ridiculous" our minds are – that's a word he uses a lot to describe the mind – and some really compelling ways to train the mind. Spoiler: having a sense of humor is crucial here.

Just by way of context: this is the first in a series of episodes with Joseph, focusing on the phrases he uses while he's teaching Buddhism and meditation. Dan and Joseph are collaborating on a book that will be a compilation of these phrases and how to use them. This book won't be out for several years, but as Dan conducts a series of interviews with Joseph, we'll release them here on the podcast. There's another part coming out this Sunday, January 4th. 

Just to give you a little taste, here are the phrases we'll be covering in today's episode:  

  • Just begin again

  • Sit and know you're sitting

  • Relaxed, not casual 

  • More or less mindful 

  • Thieves of meditation

  • Mara, I see you.

  • Ridiculous

  • The mind has no pride

  • Soundtrack 

  • The mind is the forerunner of all things. 

These might not make any sense right now, but you'll hear Joseph explain each of these, where they came from, and how to use them in your meditation practice AND in your daily life. Incredibly practical, bite-sized wisdom. 

 

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Rewire How You Talk To Yourself | Ofosu Jones-Quartey31 déc. 202501:05:11

Buddhist strategies for taming that nagging voice in your head.

Ofosu Jones-Quartey, a meditation teacher, author, and musician hailing from the Washington DC area, brings over 17 years of experience in sharing mindfulness, meditation and self-compassion practices with the world. Holding a bachelor's degree from American University and certified by the Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program, Ofosu is a graduate of the Teleos Coaching Institute and is the male voice on the Balance meditation app, reaching over 10 million subscribers. 

Ofosu leads meditation classes and retreats nationwide, having taught and led retreats at the Insight Meditation Community of Washington, The Insight Meditation Society, Spirit Rock, Brooklyn Zen Center, Cleveland Insight, Inward Bound Mindfulness and more.

As an accomplished hip hop artist under the name "Born I," Ofosu released the mindfulness-themed album "In This Moment" in 2021. Born I's most recent album, "Komorebi" (2025), has been hailed by listeners as "a missing piece in hip-hop," praised for its meditative flow and spiritual depth. The companion book, "Lyrical Dharma: Hip-Hop as Mindfulness" (Parallax Press), arrives with a foreword by Pulitzer Prize winner Alice Walker, further cementing Born I as a unique voice at the intersection of art and contemplative practice.

Beyond music, Ofosu is an author, releasing his self-published children's book "You Are Enough" in 2020 and "Love Your Amazing Self" via Storey Publishing in 2022. He lives in Rockville, Maryland, with his wife and four children.

In this episode we talk about:

  • The relationship between self-compassion and a successful meditation practice

  • All the reasons people resist self-compassion, and his rebuttals

  • Whether self-compassion is selfish

  • How to do self-compassion off the cushion, including practices like journaling, written reminders, establishing accountability partners, and simple questions you can drop into your mind when all else fails

  • How to do self-compassion on the cushion, including practices like body scans, metta, and a check-in practice you can use at the very start of your sits

  • And how to teach self-compassion to children

 

This episode was first aired in April 2024.

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