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Thank you to today’s sponsors: Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co You know those moments when your whole body is screaming that something’s not right, but your mind is convinced you’re overreacting? What if waking up to that quiet inner nudge is the exact thing that saves your life? In this raw, breathtaking episode, artist and activist Evan Rachel Wood lays bare the true story behind her relationship with Marilyn Manson: How “love” so quickly twisted into control, fear, and survival. If you’ve ever wondered why smart, fierce women can get trapped in cycles of gaslighting, addiction, and isolation, homie, this is your episode. Rachel is more than an award-winning actress, she’s a survivor, advocate, and the driving force behind The Phoenix Act. Today, she pulls the mask off manipulation, giving you both the warning signs and the hope for healing. Here’s exactly what we dive into: • The earliest red flags women miss, and why no one thinks “it could be me” • What grooming, love bombing, and power dynamics really look like (before you see them) • The cult tactics that keep you silent, compliant, and cut off from everyone • Rebuilding after abuse: trauma therapy, brainspotting, and reclaiming your identity CHAPTER TITLES [00:05:34] Groomed by Art…and by Abuse [00:07:06] Early Warnings: Testing Boundaries and Gaslighting Yourself [00:10:33] Obsession, Love Bombing, and The Shift to Control [00:17:12] Shaming, Blaming, and Public Humiliation [00:19:00] Exploited on Camera: The Heart-Shaped Glasses Video [00:25:51] Crossing the Line: When Consent Disappears [00:43:05] Cult Tactics: Keep Her High, Tired, Hungry, Scared [00:46:33] Cutting You Off: Kicking Out Your Closest Allies [01:06:09] R*pe Within Relationships: What No One Tells You [01:14:08] Scarification, “Ownership,” and the Pattern Exposed [01:26:25] What Kept Rachel Trapped…And How Power Really Works [01:40:59] Outthinking a Narcissist: Gray Rock and the Escape Plan [01:54:43] Leaving for Good, The Aftermath, and Facing Him Again [02:17:39] The Phoenix Act: How You Can Help Change the Law Need Support? The 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Hotline Guides Women to a shelter in whatever area they live in in the United States. 1-800-799- SAFE (7233) https://www.thehotline.org/ Follow Evan Rachel Wood: The Phoenix Act: https://phoenixact.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.

Join Lisa Bilyeu in the riveting continuation of "Women of Impact," as she delves deeper into the world of coercive control and psychopathy with special guest Laura Richards. Laura, a seasoned criminal profiler, and advocate, offers invaluable insights into understanding harmful behavioral patterns in personal relationships and broader societal structures. In this segment, Laura elaborates on the hurdles faced in legal systems, the chilling cases she helped navigate, and the tools she created to empower victims. The conversation also covers the importance of trusting your instincts, recognizing manipulation tactics, and understanding the devastating impacts of powerful individuals like P. Diddy. This episode not only sheds light on the dark sides of human behavior but also serves as a beacon of hope and empowerment for those who may feel trapped. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Trusting Your Instincts and Early Signs 10:16 Case Analysis: Manipulation Tactics 20:02 Coercive Control in Relationships 21:45 Empowerment: Breaking Free 39:10 High-Profile Cases: Justice System Challenges 50:35 The Realities of Power and Control FOLLOW LAURA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crimeanalyst/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/CACrimeAnalyst FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this compelling episode of "Women of Impact" with Lisa Bilyeu, we are joined by the powerful advocate and expert Laura Richards. Known for her extensive work in criminal behavioral analysis, Laura dedicates her life to combating violence against women and ensures poignant conversations around coercive control in relationships. Together with Lisa, they unravel the chilling realities of psychopathy, coercive control, and how these translate into real-world relationships. Laura dives into her career journey, transitioning from setting up charities and changing laws to getting involved with high-profile cases like JonBenet Ramsey. She shares the intricate psychopathy checklist she uses, guides how to spot red flags in relationships, and reveals how even powerful individuals can mask dark intentions behind charm and charisma. This episode aims to empower women with knowledge and bravery to recognize and redefine harmful relationships. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Laura Richards' Journey into Advocacy 00:52 Case Involvement: JonBenet Ramsey 01:20 Psychopathy and Criminal Versatility 02:14 Checklist for Spotting Red Flags 02:55 Truth Behind Superficial Charm 05:43 Empowering Women in Relationships 06:48 Understanding Narcissism and Coercive Control FOLLOW LAURA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crimeanalyst/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/CACrimeAnalyst FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when your intuition screams “danger”, but the outside world tells you to be polite, compliant, and “nice”? This episode is your tactical masterclass to detecting manipulation and protecting yourself…before the mask drops. Today’s guest is Jason Hanson, a former CIA officer, security specialist, and spycraft expert. With firsthand insight from his years recruiting, assessing, and outwitting some of the world’s sharpest (and most dangerous) minds, Jason is here to reveal the exact tactics predators use to “spot and assess” targets, and how you can spot the red flags before they spot you. What women are unintentionally leaking online, lie detection tricks, and how to spot the manipulator BEFORE you’re the boiling frog. This is practical, empowering, and honestly, sometimes chilling. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The predator’s playbook: How manipulators “spot, assess, develop, recruit” vulnerable women How to protect yourself from “love bombing,” reciprocity traps, and fake authority How to spot hidden cameras in Airbnbs, and what to do if you need to disappear for real SHOWNOTES: How Criminals Target and Exploit Women Online The Boiling Frog: Slow Escalation & How to Catch It Lie Detection 101: The 3-Second Rule and Emotional Pauses The Hourglass Conversation Trick (and the Knock-Out Question) The “Loverboy Method” and Everyday Recruitment Tactics Money, Ideology, Coercion, Ego: The “MICE” Model of Influence The Overreaction Red Flag: Spotting Defensiveness When You Ask Questions Elicitation: How You Get Played for Your Secrets Tactical Counters: Rule Scripts, Code Words, and Escape Options How to Run a Surveillance Detection Route: The Everyday Spy Skill The 3-Step Plan to Disappear and Protect Domestic Violence Victims Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Jason Hanson: Website: https://www.spybriefing.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Jason+Hanson+CIA Facebook: facebook.com/spyandsurvivalbriefing  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spybriefingllc/  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this absolutely EYE-OPENING convo with NYT best-selling author, co-founder of a health technology company, and a frikin’ expert in what you need to do to feel incredible, avoid disease, and age well, Dr. Casey Means.   And we’re digging even deeper into the 3 types of food you need to start avoiding if you want to STOP feeling like crap all the time and like you’re just barely getting by, along with the real world tactics and tools so you can spot the hidden bad foods that companies want you to THINK is good for you, and start making better, INFORMED choices about your diet.  If you follow Dr. Casey’s advice and start to look at food and nutrition in a new way, you will take back control of your health and can actually improve your symptoms like infertility, low energy, anxiety, depression, weight gain, and more, and actually FEEL BETTER and live a happier, healthier life!  Trust me, you don’t want to miss this!! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Casey Means: Website: https://www.caseymeans.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcaseyskitchen/ Get Your Copy of “Good Energy”: https://a.co/d/gW9zypa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you’re experiencing symptoms like tiredness even after a “good” night's sleep, anxiety & depression, infertility, joint pain, neck pain, acne along your jawline, and generally just feeling like CRAP no matter what you do, then this episode of Women of Impact is for you!! Coz those symptoms (and sooooo many more) can actually all be linked to 3 foods that you’re eating every single day that you should actually totally avoid. And when you do, it’s going to completely change the way you look at your health and the power YOU have, my homie, to improve it!!  Here to drop this truly life-changing knowledge is medical doctor, NYT best-selling author, and co-founder of a health technology company, Dr. Casey Means. And she is a woman on a frikin’ MISSION to educate people about the root cause of why so many of us are sick – and that’s because we fail to take care of our metabolic health.  A whopping 93% of Americans are struggling with their metabolic health right now (and honestly homie, you’re probably one of them)! That’s insane!!!! This interview will help you connect the dots about what you put into your body and how it makes you feel, especially after we dig deep into: - The 3 foods that you should AVOID - What to eat instead to give your body GOOD energy - Tactical tools you can use to start putting better nutrition into your body TODAY!! When you finish listening to this episode, you’ll know exactly what you have to do to start feeling better – literally from the inside out!!  You’ll have more energy, lose weight, increase your libido and fertility, clear your skin, and seriously homie, feel soooo much better!!! There are seriously SO many symptoms that are actually related to your metabolic health and that YOU have the power to improve, simply by paying attention to WHAT you put into your body. And it’s NEVER TOO LATE to improve your nutrition, improve your health, and as a result improve your LIFE!!!! You can drastically better your life & increase your longevity, but ONLY if you take ownership of it, and this episode is here to help you.  Follow Dr. Casey Means: Website: https://www.caseymeans.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcaseyskitchen/ Get Your Copy of “Good Energy”:  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

We all watched in shock as Elizabeth Holmes, once hailed as the world’s youngest self-made female billionaire, rose to the top with Theranos, promising to revolutionize medicine through a single drop of blood. But when it all came crashing down, she left a trail of shattered dreams, empty bank accounts, and broken trust behind her. In this episode, I sit down with legendary former FBI special agent Jana Monroe, the real-life inspiration for Jodie Foster’s Clarice Starling in Silence of the Lambs. For more than two decades, Jana profiled serial killers, liars, and white-collar criminals. If anyone knows what evil really looks like, it’s her. With a new documentary about Elizabeth Holmes dropping soon, Jana Monroe digs into the secrets behind what really goes on in the mind of a woman who fooled some of the savviest investors on the planet. If you want to understand the truth about manipulation, charisma, and how women like Elizabeth rewrite the rules of deception, homie, you can’t miss this. SHOWNOTES Comparing Violent Crime and White-Collar Crime “How Far Can I Take This?” The Exhilaration of the Scam Altruistic Dreams or Calculated Con? Starting the Holmes Interview Trial Curveballs: Holmes’ Defense and The Girlfriend/Boyfriend Twist Signs from Childhood: Could We Have Predicted This? Body Language Breakdown: The Sociopath’s Stare Comparing Female Serial Killers and Holmes: The Mask of Emotion Munchausen and Sociopathy: Maternal Manipulation Explored Would We Have Believed Her If She Were a Man? Beauty, Gender, and Why Fraudsters Get Extra Passes Rooting for Women: Blind Spots and Big Lessons Female Spies, Attraction, and the Power of Disarming Charisma Follow Jana Monroe: https://jdmonroeenterprises.com/  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

You know those moments when you get goosebumps because your intuition is screaming that something’s off, but you just can’t put your finger on it? Or maybe you’ve dated Mr. Charisma only to realize (once you’re in too deep) that behind the perfect mask is someone who was never who they said they were. Homie, we’re bringing science and receipts today. I’m joined by Dr. Daniel Jones, the expert when it comes to dark personalities: Think narcissists, psychopaths, Machiavellians, and even sadists. If you want to finally understand why some of the most dangerous people are almost impossible to spot, and how to bulletproof your future self from toxic men, this part is for you. Dr. Jones delivers the psychology, the wild stories, and the step-by-step clues that will have you rethinking everything you know about trust, manipulation, and charm. Whether you want to spot red flags faster, learn how Machiavellians stay hidden for YEARS, or finally get closure on “how did I not see it?” this explosive conversation is your new girlfriend’s guidebook. SHOWNOTES: Case Stories: Married to a Machiavellian for 20 Years… and Never Knew  Bernie Madoff: Real-World Machiavellianism in Action  Argument Playbook: How Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Machiavellians Each Manipulate Differently. Insecurity vs. Evil: Why Not All Manipulation is “Dark Triad”  How to Help (and How to Walk Away) When Threats of Self-Harm or Suicide Enter Relationships  Can You Tell Confidence from Narcissism on a First Date?  Epstein: The Ultimate Dark Triad/Tetrad, and How He Got Away With It for So Long  The Arousal Trap: How Danger and Excitement Get Miswired as ‘Love’  Attraction to Serial Killers, Bad Boys, and Antiheroes: The Real Psychology Behind It  The Forbidden Food Trap: Why Telling Someone “Don’t Date Him” Backfires  How to Actually Help a Friend Spot Their Own Red Flags (Without Triggering Their Defenses)  Why Kind People Sometimes Feel ‘Boring’, And Why That Might Save Your Life  Using Technology, Therapy, and Support Networks to Recover & Stay Safe Thank you to our sponsors: Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Dr. Daniel Jones: Website:https://danielnjones.org/about/  Have you dated a Narcissist? Take the survey to find out! https://www.darktriad.co Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dan-jones-35746917/  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this FASCINATING episode of Women of Impact with the world’s leading brain expert Dr. Daniel Amen.   And if you thought we covered it all on brain health in part 1, we were justttttt getting started! Dr. Amen has EVEN MORE nuggets of wisdom to share with us so we can take better care of our brains and have healthier relationships as a result.  We keep diving into:  - Dr. Amen’s secrets for improving your brain health - what behaviors you should look for in a potential partner as signs of good brain health - what changes in men’s brains when they’re in love - how hormone changes throughout your life affect your brain - why you shouldn’t trust your thoughts  Trust me, you don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Dr. Amen! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Amen: Website: https://danielamenmd.com/ Clinics: https://www.amenclinics.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHz-vi0JIugmscU_CkUxUQ Pre-Order “Raising Mentally Strong Kids”: https://danielamenmd.com/raising-mentally-strong-kids/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAZING episode of Women of Impact that’s going to blow your mind! Now, today’s guest has scanned over 250,000 brains (and counting) in his career and is considered a cutting-edge, world renowned brain expert – it’s Dr. Daniel Amen.   And in this interview, Dr. Amen is answering ALLLLL your questions about the brain and the biggest differences between the sexes.  And while one isn’t better than the other, there are some BIG differences in the brains of men and women, and they actually explain a lottttt of the challenges and problems we face in our romantic relationships!! But when we understand our strengths and our challenges, we have the power to DO something about it! Lets stop looking at each other like we are different species and lets start understanding each other!  In this episode, we go DEEP into:  - the differences between the male brain and the female brain, and the strengths and challenges of each  - the differences in how we see love, romance and betrayal  - WHY do men cheat more than women  - WHAT specifically about men’s brains makes them more likely to cheat - what YOU can do to actually override the weaknesses in his brain - and soooo many other nuggets of wisdom from Dr. Amen   So if you want to be a badass and feel invincible in any journey you choose to take, then LISTEN CLOSE to this episode so you can stop comparing yourself to your male counterpart and start taking care of that wonderful female brain of yours!  We all have the power to change our brains and live AMAZING lives, and this information will help you get there. Follow Dr. Amen: Website: https://danielamenmd.com/ Clinics: https://www.amenclinics.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHz-vi0JIugmscU_CkUxUQ Pre-Order “Raising Mentally Strong Kids”: https://danielamenmd.com/raising-mentally-strong-kids/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

How often have you spent time with people you love only to feel frustrated and misunderstood? As humans we are all so complex in our network of feelings and emotions. Unfortunately, we’ve been raised thinking that negative emotions are bad and should be shunned. Many of us are barely holding it together, or are spiraling out of control because we don’t know how to handle the feelings that are leaving us totally overwhelmed. Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and author joins me and breaks down why we don’t have to run away from those taboo feelings of envy and jealousy. She explains how to communicate better and hold space for your partner or children and allow them to just be heard. This episode is packed with so much you may have to listen a second time. SHOW NOTES: Unreliable Narrator | Why your perspective isn’t the full story, it’s a faulty narrative [0:19] Unknow Yourself | Lori helping people unknow the stories they keep repeating [1:32] Insight | Lori explains why insight without action is useless [3:58] Idiot Compassion | Lori breaks down what this is and why it doesn’t help [5:05] Relationship Filter | Lori’s questions for examining people around you [6:45] Change | Lori on why change is difficult because of uncertainty and loss [8:17] 5 Steps | 5 stages of change to making a permanent change in your life [9:08] Change Anxiety | Getting through unfamiliar territory & anxiety with change [12:39] Choosing to Suffer | Lori on why we don’t choose pain but we choose to suffer [14:06] Numb the Pain | Distracting yourself from pain feeling overwhelmed [15:34] Feeling Compass | Lori on using feelings as a compass to know what you want [17:13] Negative Feelings | Why the way you deal with negative feelings matters most [19:28] Setting Intention | Lori on setting yourself up for a better day with confidence [22:55] Transformation | Lori shares why tiny steps are so important in change [26:35] Future Loss | Lori explains how change collapses the future & holds us back [32:18] Unfinished Business | How cycles repeat when we don’t address past issues [35:30] Selection | Lori confirms why selection is so important for healthy relationship [39:48] Childhood Wounds | Lori on why you have to give up hope for better childhood [41:53] Vulnerability | When someone opens up and how to navigate what they need [45:05 ] Understand | Why people need to be understood and heard, ask what they need [47:21] FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

You know those moments when everyone else sees a “perfect” relationship—but you know deep down something is wildly wrong? Or maybe you’re terrified for someone you love, but you don’t have the language (or the proof) to understand what’s really going on. This is the episode you cannot afford to miss. Today, I’m sitting down with Denise Brown—sister of Nicole Brown Simpson, fierce advocate, and survivor in the fight for justice—to share the raw, unfiltered truth about abuse: the subtle warning signs, the devastating aftermath, and the hope and healing that IS possible. You’ll hear the stories that never made the headlines, the grief behind the infamous case, and Denise’s no-BS roadmap for empowering yourself (and the people you love) against manipulation, coercion, and violence. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The first tiny red flags: inside Nicole’s secret world and what everyone missed Why leaving an abusive partner is actually the most lethal time—and what to do instead The hard truth about manipulation: why abuse is NEVER your fault (even when you’re convinced it is) Tactical steps: the cycle of violence, safety planning, and helping loved ones when you feel helpless Chapters - Why Survivors Keep Secrets (and How Abuse Hides) - The Trap of “It Wasn’t All Bad”: Love, Hope, and Manipulation - The Cycle of Violence: What No One Was Taught - Meeting O.J.: Charm, Narcissism, and the Need to Be Seen - The First Signs: Shifting Blame and Emotional Abuse - Tequila Night: The Outburst That Changed Everything - How Abusers “Choose” Their Targets. Why Nicole Was in Danger - The Evidence No One Saw: Diaries, Bruises, and National Headlines - Why Women Don’t Leave (and the Danger When They Do) - Strangulation: The Overlooked Warning of Lethal Violence - “He’ll Never Leave Me Alone”: The Devastation of Stalking - The Painful Legacy: Turning Grief into Advocacy and Change Follow Denise Brown: Website: https://denisebrown.com Buy her new book “For My Sister Nicole: Love Shouldn't Hurt”: https://www.amazon.com/My-Sister-Nicole-Denise-Brown/dp/B0FXYCGS99 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/DeniseBrownToo Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Want to search through every episode, explore specific topics, or ask me questions directly? Check out my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer.

What up homie! It’s time for part two of this incredible episode with the country’s top attorney in narcissistic negotiations, Rebecca Zung. In part one, Rebecca reveals her most effective strategy for manipulating the manipulator (ethically of course!). In the second part of this conversation we’re getting a real-world glimpse into navigating professional and personal toxic relationships with narcissists. We’re continuing this episode by ensuring that narcissists hiding among us are absolutely exposed so that the badass women among you get what you need on your terms: *Ways to respond if a narcissist is trying to use your vulnerabilities to crush you while you’re down *The secret to beating narcissists and making them shrink in any situation *The power of the story you tell yourself will be the kiss of death or the kiss of life. As in, it can literally become your superpower (the choice is yours!) All of this is unfolding now! This is for my homies aiming for success and balance in life. Learn how to navigate a toxic partner at home and in the corporate world, because when you know the game, you can actually win! Check out Rebecca’s book, Slay the Bully, How to Negotiate with a Narcissist & Win: https://www.amazon.com/SLAY-Bully-How-Negotiate-Narcissist/dp/1637586868 Follow Rebecca Zung: Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq Twitter: https://twitter.com/rebeccazung Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebeccazung/ ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up homie! I’ve got a powerful two-part episode that’s going to expose everything you need to know before you negotiate your time, your affection, or your peace of mind with a narcissist. Today we have the top globally recognized attorney who specializes in narcissistic negotiations joining us to spill the tea. It’s not enough to just spot red flags in your personal and professional lives, I want you to understand the danger of missing them and Rebecca Zung is delivering what you need to beat the narcissist at home and in the office. Spot the narcissists hiding among us and get what you need out of them on your terms in the first part of today’s episode: *Turn the tables and learn how to ETHICALLY manipulate the manipulator *Discover the narcissist’s scam that’s leaving high-value women like yourself feeling undervalued and worthless. *Genius phrases that’ll disarm your narcissist, protect you, and give you the leverage you need to beat them at their own game. After this power packed episode you’ll know the secret to beating narcissists and getting them to shrink in any situation. All of this is unfolding now! This is for my homies aiming for success and balance in life. Learn how to navigate a toxic partner at home and in the corporate world, because when you know the game, you can actually win! Check out Rebecca’s book, Slay the Bully, How to Negotiate with a Narcissist & Win: https://www.amazon.com/SLAY-Bully-How-Negotiate-Narcissist/dp/1637586868 REBECCA ZUNG QUOTES: “You have to be really clear about what you want in a negotiation or you’re not going to be able to get there.” “All narcissists are driven by one thing and one thing only. That is narcissistic supply.” “Not only is the narcissist not rational and reasonable when you’re dealing with them in negotiation, also the target person has been traumatized too…” Follow Rebecca Zung: Website: https://www.rebeccazung.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq Twitter: https://twitter.com/rebeccazung Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebeccazung/ ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! *New episodes delivered ad-free *Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more! *Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. *Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist. *Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab. *Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub. *And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when the “hero” turns out to be the monster? In part 2, acclaimed detective Paul Holes takes us into the darkest recesses of the criminal mind — dissecting the Gilgo Beach murders (Rex Heuermann), the tragic Micah Miller case, and showing how even smart, successful women can be hoodwinked by master manipulators. This is the episode every woman and every friend needs to hear for recognizing manipulative tactics, escaping control, and reclaiming your power. Paul (straight-up genius in criminal psychology), Nicole Schmidt, and I unpack: why the “rescuer” with a dark room is a huge red flag, how powerful men weaponize faith or mental health, and the horrifying stats about leaving abusive partners. We lay out, step by step, how to spot red flags early — and, most importantly, how to build a plan for your own safety when the system fails you. SHOWNOTES Why abusers pick certain women: the rescuing, the love bombing, the compliance Sadistic predators and the “room you can’t enter”: The dark psychology of secret spaces Why women sometimes protect the abuser, and the heartbreaking cycle of compliance Micah Miller case: faith, coercive control, and the weaponizing of power “Predators go where the prey’s at”: doctors, pastors, psychologists aren’t always safe Weaponizing faith, weaponizing sex: the step-by-step tactics of abusers When mental health becomes just another weapon Legal loopholes, system failures, and why the restraining order isn’t always enough Action steps: how to protect yourself, how to build your support network Reporting over and over… and still not being heard — the heartbreak of ignored warnings Bringing it all home: concrete steps every woman can take right now Micah’s last message. Why sharing and speaking out is the only way to create lasting change Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Follow Paul Holes: Check out his Patreon: patreon.com/kateandpaul. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Buy his book “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/08oJyivp Follow The Gabby Petito Foundation: Website: https://gabbypetitofoundation.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbypetitofoundation/?hl=en Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever wondered if you could be sleeping next to a psychopath... and not even know it? In this episode, I sit down with Paul Holes, (yes,THAT Paul Holes) the detective who cracked the Golden State Killer case. We dig into the scariest headlines lighting up the news right now: Hidden killers, the chilling Gabby Petito case, and how the seemingly "sweetest guy" could be hiding monstrous secrets. This one is heavy, raw, and so necessary for every woman who has ever questioned her gut, worried about control in her relationship, or just sensed something off but couldn’t put her finger on it. Paul brings his decades of investigative expertise, dissecting red flags most of us miss. We break down Gabby Petito’s tragic story step-by-step, what domestic violence looks like in real life (NOT just in textbooks!), and why even women’s closest friends or the cops sometimes get manipulated. Plus, I’m joined by Nicole Schmidt, Gabby’s unbelievably strong mom, who shares what she wishes she saw sooner… and what every woman, mother, and friend needs to hear. SHOWNOTES Can you really be married to a psychopath and not know it? How predators “pass” as normal & the Wild Bill Huff story Gabby Petito case: setting the timeline and heartbreak Evidence of emotional abuse — the “I’m sorry, it’s my OCD” pattern The mistakes police made and what should’ve happened Police protocols in domestic abuse: who gets arrested, who gets believed How women can get help in domestic violence stops Stat: 51% of women don’t even know they’re being controlled Nicole Schmidt (Gabby’s mom) joins: how manipulation fooled everyone The first red flags she missed: Gabby’s “I’m fine” mask, and the secret signals you need to look for How criminality can run in families (and why you need to look at the family dynamic!) Rex Heuermann (Gilgo Beach Killer): predator hiding in plain sight, luring victims online Why “it couldn’t happen to me” is the most dangerous mindset Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Follow Paul Holes: Check out his Patreon: patreon.com/kateandpaul. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holes Buy his book “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/08oJyivp Follow The Gabby Petito Foundation: Website: https://gabbypetitofoundation.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbypetitofoundation/?hl=en Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

In the second part of this enlightening conversation, Elle Macpherson discusses love, wellness, and overcoming life’s hardest moments with grace and determination. She opens up about her sobriety journey, redefining relationships, and why wellness is the foundation of empowerment. Elle shares actionable tips for navigating fear, building resilience, and creating a life that aligns with your true essence. From candid reflections on past relationships to starting her wellness company, Elle inspires listeners to take control of their journey and embrace the beauty of transformation. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa and Elle explore how relationships reflect self-love and inner well-being. [07:01] The dolphin tattoo story: A moment of clarity and self-discovery. [12:03] How Elle turned pain into purpose by channeling her energy into creating her lingerie business. [20:17] Overcoming addiction: Elle’s powerful sobriety story and advice for breaking harmful patterns. [28:26] Facing fear with clarity: How Elle approached her cancer diagnosis with research and inner trust. [34:54] The wellness journey that led to founding WelleCo and transforming her health. [40:37] Aging gracefully: How Elle reframed beauty and vitality as soul-deep qualities. [50:02] The power of meditation and self-connection in creating a life of fulfillment. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Elle Macpherson, one of the most iconic supermodels of all time, joins Lisa Bilyeu for a candid conversation about overcoming life’s toughest challenges. From battling alcoholism to navigating divorce and a cancer diagnosis, Elle shares the tools and mindset shifts that empowered her to reinvent herself and thrive in her 60s. In this episode, Elle dives deep into how to let go of external validation, the power of trusting your intuition, and her journey from self-doubt to self-love. She reflects on career-defining moments, personal growth through hardships, and how the lessons she’s learned can inspire women to embrace their strength at any stage of life. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Lisa introduces Elle’s inspiring story of reinvention and resilience. [02:14] Elle explains the importance of focusing on what you love and aligning with your heart. [03:38] How Elle learned to handle criticism early in her modeling career and use it as fuel for growth. [07:51] The power of self-reflection: Learning from mistakes without judgment. [09:26] Understanding the Four A’s (Approval, Agreement, Acceptance, Allegiance) and how they guide decisions. [12:32] Why listening to your intuition is like building a trusted friendship. [16:54] Elle’s life-changing decision to trust her gut and embrace unexpected opportunities. [22:25] Relationships as mirrors: What Elle discovered about self-love through her marriages. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

You know that feeling when you pour all your love and energy into someone… only to find yourself depleted, second-guessing, and begging for scraps? Homie, this is your episode. If you’re tired of being told you’re “too much,” exhausted by toxic loyalty, or want to become impossible to manipulate…hit play. In this conversation, I sit down with Margarita Nazarenko, author of “Unbothered,” advocate for radical self-worth, and the internet’s toughest love coach, for the raw, sometimes uncomfortable truth about why women outsource their value, fall for emotional breadcrumbers, and confuse drama with connection. Not only does Margarita break down the cycle of anxious and avoidant attachment (yes, she’ll tell you exactly which one you are), but she gives you real scripts, tactical moves, and mindset shifts to finally put your power back in your own hands. No empty affirmations, just the blueprint for creating unbreakable confidence and peaceful, drama-free relationships. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The “unbothered” mindset: How to validate yourself without toxic independence Scripts and pause tactics for breaking codependent patterns (text and real life!) How to trust “boring” love after chaos addiction (and why calm is actually chemistry) Negotiating power dynamics, resentment, and real partnership, without losing yourself Chapters Anxious vs. Avoidant Attachment: Jessica and Amanda Explained “Urgency Is Not Truth”: The Power of Pausing Before Reacting Why Anxious Attachment Attracts Manipulators (and Repels Healthy Men) The Three Ms: Mothering, Martyring & Managing in Relationships The Mental Load Dilemma: Partnership, Resentment, and Fair Trade-Offs Dopamine, Breadcrumbs & Phone Addiction: Why You Crave Their Attention “Look for Boring”: Detoxing from Adrenaline Addiction Care, Castration, and Masculinity: The Cost of Over-Functioning Guilt, Negative Voices, and the Art of Using Discomfort for Growth Reality Check: Handling Triggers, Rumination, and the Illusion of Closure From Anxious Chasing to Self-Respect: Stories That Change Everything Men, Masculinity, and the “Red Pill” Question Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Margarita Nazarenko: Website: https://www.margaritanazarenko.com/theunbotheredwoman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/margarita.nazarenko/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Margarita.Nazarenko Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES Ambitious folks just want to feel seen. Life cycle: belonging, connecting, leading, creating. Assumptions help the brain save energy, easily. Vasopressin boosts belonging, fuels frequent hookups. Ravens need more time with female targets. Sex boosts brain power differently for everyone. Exploited admin vulnerabilities for secrets over decades. Czechoslovakian spies faked marriage, stole U.S. secrets. Think logically, not emotionally, to avoid mistakes. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated? Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life. In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we’re pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled. Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps. Trust me homie, with Andrew’s insights, you’ll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!! In this episode, we go DEEP into: - How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games - The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships - How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion - The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest - And soooo much more!! By the end of this episode, you’ll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships. So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!! So let’s dive right in, guys!! I’m Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Dopamine and noradrenaline make things exciting. 08:52 Taylor Swift shirt makes me seem harmless. 15:51 Can't keep up with Taylor Swift convo. 18:59 She hits the gym hard daily, for sure! 25:50 Attraction and connection often lead to affairs. 27:53 Energy level ups with more intense activity. 33:53 Seduction in spy work: Building trust, not sex. 37:59 Women worry about being manipulated or seduced. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you've ever been controlled by someone mentally or emotionally, then you know how crushing it is to your confidence, your self-esteem, and your belief in yourself. You question HOW this person convinced you to do or say or believe things that you KNOW deep down to your core are not true? WHAT did they do to get you to fall for the lies and change so much, without you even frikin’ realizing it? And HOW can you make sure it doesn’t happen to you again?? Well homie, the reality is that this type of manipulation happens more often than you might think, 1 on 1 in toxic relationships and sometimes even whole groups of people at a time in a cult. So in this episode of Women of Impact, I wanted to get to the bottom of how good, well-intentioned, educated, “normal” people like you and me can fall into the trap of a controlling person like a cult leader or narcissistic romantic partner, and literally leave behind their life, family, job, money, friends, belief system, sanity, and everything about themselves for this person. And whether it’s coz of a cult, a toxic partner, or a guy at work that keeps trying to convince you to join this “amazing self-help group”, if you think it “won’t happen to you” – well homie you’re actually that much more likely to become their next target and victim!!!! And that’s why today’s guest is none other than the ultimate cult expert and deprogrammer, Rick Alan Ross. This guy is an aboslute LEGEND when it comes to cults!! We go deep into: - the type of people who start cults. - how cults like NXIVM and Scientology bring people in. - what specifically makes a person more vulnerable to saying yes and “drinking the Kool-aid”. - strategies used by notorious cult leaders to gain control and brainwash people (and you’ll be surprised by what they have in common with your toxic ex!!!). - HOW you can actually avoid getting into a cult or toxic relationship in the first place. - & so much more!!! This episode is truly FILLED with the knowledge you NEED if you want to have any hope of spotting the cult leaders, con men, and toxic boyfriends BEFORE they can rope you, or anyone you love, into their manipulative world and cut you off from the life YOU want to live!!! Follow Rick Alan Ross: Website: https://culteducation.com/ X: https://x.com/RickAlanRoss Get “Is This a Cult?”: https://a.co/d/hKoEsRt FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

The Lindsay Clancy case is one of the most gut-wrenching tragedies making headlines, and has torn the public opinion, (and even relationships) apart. Was it unspeakable heartbreak? Psychosis? Or criminal intent, plain and simple? Today, I’m joined by forensic psychologist Dr. Shannon Curry, the woman who bravely took the stand in the Depp-Heard trial, to unravel the real-life consequences every woman needs to think about. Not just for herself, but for every mother, wife, and daughter who might need help before it’s too late. We break down the psychology, the law, and those impossible “what would I do?” dilemmas that are dividing men, women, and the world. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The difference between baby blues, postpartum depression, and postpartum psychosis (and why most mothers never, ever hurt their children) The systems failures that are failing mothers, and what HAS to change Why women often hide dark thoughts, and why “blaming the husband” misses the real point The crucial first step to get help, without fear, shame, or losing your kids Chapter Titles: Baby Blues vs. Postpartum Depression vs. Psychosis: The Real Risks The Truth About Postpartum Psychosis and Filicide: Numbers No One Tells You Meds, Misdiagnosis & System Failure: Is This the Real Root? Overmedication, Missed Warnings & Hindsight Bias Should Kids Be Taken Away? The Danger of Overreaction Intrusive Thoughts vs. Hallucinations: How to Tell the Difference Did the Medical System Fail Her? Ethics, Testing, and Protocol Debates Why This Case Divides Men and Women, and the Hidden Biases at Play Can Insanity “Set You Free”? What Actually Happens If You’re Acquitted If You’re Struggling Right Now: What to Do and How to Get Help “I Don’t Feel Understood”: How Partners Can Actually Hear Each Other Thank you To our Sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Qualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% off Need Support? These Resources Can Help: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/ The National Maternal Mental Health 24/7 Hotline: https://mchb.hrsa.gov/programs-impact/national-maternal-mental-health-hotline?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=24031728478 National Helpline for Mental Health, Drug, Alcohol Issues | SAMHSA: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/helplines/national-helpline Follow Shannon Curry: Website: https://currypsychology.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/currypsychgroup Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to part 2 of this transformative episode of Women of Impact with the phenomenal Thais Gibson! We’re diving deeper into the stages of relationships and revealing the critically important role of understanding attachment styles. Seriously, homie, once you grasp these concepts, you’ll have a whole new perspective on your relationships. You’ll learn how to navigate the power struggle stage, set healthy boundaries, and communicate your needs effectively – all essential skills for building a rock-solid connection with your partner. Ready to reclaim your relationship power? Let’s jump right back in! SHOWNOTES Understanding the real challenges behind the power struggle phase and how to grow from it Recognizing attachment styles and how they shape your relationship behaviors Mastering the art of communicating needs effectively without spiraling into conflict Breaking free from toxic patterns and moving toward stable, committed, and blissful relationships And soooo much more!!! FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome to another insightful episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu. You know the feeling when you're in a relationship that's going so well, but suddenly you hit a rough patch? It's like everything was sunshine and rainbows, and then BOOM, you're questioning everything. You think, 'If we were so right for each other, why does it feel so hard now?' You’re constantly wondering if this is just a phase or if it’s a sign you’re not meant to be. You start doubting yourself, your partner, and maybe even relationships as a whole. Well, let me break it down for you! You’re not alone in this. Being in a relationship comes with stages and trust me, they aren't all easy-breezy. We go from the excitement of dating to the honeymoon phase and then hit the power struggle – the make-or-break stage where vulnerability and communication are EVERYTHING. But don’t worry, homie! Today’s episode is a crash course in navigating these stages with grace and insight. Our special guest, Thais Gibson, is here to guide us through the maze of relationship dynamics. If you've ever found yourself caught in a whirlwind of relationship struggles and doubted if you could ever find stability and happiness, this episode is your guide to transformation! You’ll walk away equipped to handle challenges with compassion and clarity, and learn how to turn those tough moments into building blocks for a stronger connection. SHOWNOTES Understanding the real challenges behind the power struggle phase and how to grow from it Recognizing attachment styles and how they shape your relationship behaviors Mastering the art of communicating needs effectively without spiraling into conflict Breaking free from toxic patterns and moving toward stable, committed, and blissful relationships And soooo much more!!! FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Let’s get real: ever wonder why you sometimes second-guess yourself even when you KNOW something’s not right? Or why people, yes, even “friends,” partners, or bosses, can keep you stuck, controlled, or exploited for YEARS? This second half is your masterclass on psychological defense and reclaiming your power. Former CIA ops officer Andrew Bustamante is back, ripping the lid off the step-by-step manipulations used by abusers, cult leaders, narcissists, and even the “nice guy” you’re dating. He breaks down his framework for vetting trust, seeing through hidden motives, and how to un-park yourself from a relationship where you’re “on the backburner.” If you want the bulletproof system for seeing through lies, protecting your heart, and never getting played again, this is your guide. SHOWNOTES The disposal (“parking”) framework: How cheaters keep you on the back burner How to spot when the “new normal” in your relationship is a trap “Switch tracking”: The hidden sign someone’s changing your reality Wanted vs. unwanted information: The question that reveals honest intent Detecting lies: how CIA ops actually build trust (operational tests you can use today) False assumptions, unwanted info, and feelings-based vetting Vet, validate, analyze, and synthesize: The CIA trust formula for your relationships Synthesis: making choices that ACTUALLY serve you (and not the abuser’s agenda) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Andrew Bustamante: Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andy’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever get that chill down your spine, the one that whispers, “You’re being watched” or “He’s hiding something”? You question yourself. You second-guess your intuition. And before you know it, you’re tangled in someone else’s game. In this first half of our conversation, I’m sitting down with a former CIA spy and human behavior expert who’s about to blow open the playbook on manipulation, lying, and the dark side of seduction. We break down exactly how predators target women, from body language to emotional hooks, plus, the CIA frameworks you can use to stay two steps ahead and protect your power. SHOWNOTES: The body language shift that makes you untouchable Simple hacks to avoid being targeted (and why sunglasses work) Target the strays: Why isolation makes women vulnerable Digital manipulation: How tech amplifies danger for women Control by rideshare: Everyday ways we give up safety Filters vs. funnels: How abusers “pre-select” their victims online The authority con: Why we don’t question doctors, teachers, or “father figures” The RICE framework: The 4 levers manipulators use to control women Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Andrew Bustamante: Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andy’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age. Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence. Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction. SHOWNOTES Interviewed 103-year-old author Noel post-accident. Seduction involves complex emotions of pleasure-pain. Show effort specific to her interests continually. Seduction: Women's ancient strategy to gain power. Women prioritize emotions over looks in attraction. Stardom's impact diminished due to technology. Exploring the sublime in our contracted world. Acknowledge mentor's impactful work; use knowledge responsibly. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age. Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We’ll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don’t shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence. Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction. SHOWNOTES Spotting dangerous signs in relationships for protection. Build trust by becoming their genuine friend. Trust your gut intuition and observe cues. Analyze interactions later to understand true intentions. Supportive community with occasional negative comments reflected. Authenticity is crucial; avoid insincere niceness. Beware of isolation tactics, stay vigilant. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you’ve ever agonized over those “did I just imagine that?” moments, or you’re paralyzed by whether to stay or go in a relationship, this episode will shake you awake. Robin Dreeke is back, and he tears down the mechanics of emotional hijacking, trauma bonding, and why so many women end up excusing, rationalizing, and staying loyal to partners (or bosses, or friends) who are flat-out unsafe. We dissect the psychology behind infamous true crime cases to expose exactly how predators normalise their worst behaviours, and how families, even professionals, look the other way. Robin hands you the roadmap to reclaim your curiosity, develop laser-sharp situational awareness, and finally break the cycle of manipulation and abuse. We talk about red flags, the paralysis of indecision, and the step-by-step playbook for handling “hard” conversations that aren’t about feelings, but observable facts. This is self-defense for your mind, relationships, and future. SHOWNOTES Reading Courtroom Behavior: What’s Performative, What’s Real Can You Predict Violence? The Truth About “Best Masks” & Past Patterns How to Research & Investigate People in Your Life BTK’s Family: How Predators Set Household Rules & Silence Curiosity Why Critical Thinking Gets Beaten Out of Us, and How to Get It Back The Three Questions That Break Emotional Hijacking Why It Takes 7 Times to Leave: The Science of Trauma Bonding & Paralysis Why the “Titanic” Can’t Turn: Recognizing When It’s Time to Go The Art of “Hard” Conversations: Why You Must Stick to Observable Behaviors Hope, Change, and the Truth About Relationship Recovery FBI “Code of Trust” & Jedi-Level Relationship Building Tactics That Manipulators Use to Fast-Track Trust Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Robin Dreeke: MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/robindreeke Website: https://www.robindreeke.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rdreeke X: https://x.com/rdreeke YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCms3TC7728CLcm4XVxtVOfg Hidden Killers: https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Speaking / booking: https://www.robindreeke.com/speaking Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever had that gut feeling something (or someone) is off, but you just can’t pinpoint why? Or maybe you’ve trusted someone who ended up betraying you in ways you didn’t even imagine? This episode is your life-saving masterclass—straight from the FBI. I sit down with Robin Dreeke, 21-year FBI veteran and former head of their Counterintelligence Behavioral Analysis Program. If you want to become “un-manipulatable,” Robin is your ultimate guide. We dive deep into the world of deception: how to spot manipulators, the real meaning of “psychopath,” and the subtle signs that someone’s mask is slipping. Robin breaks down the mistakes even smart women make when falling for people who don’t have their best interests at heart (or… any heart at all). He shares wild stories from headline cases, but more importantly, hands you the exact tools to protect your heart, mind, and even your wallet. SHOWNOTES Psychopaths: What They Really Are & How to Spot Them Why We Miss Deception: Confirmation Bias, Tunnel Vision & Fear Real-World Example: The Corrie Richens Case Manipulators & Grandiosity: What Really Motivates Them How Master Manipulators Fool Everyone Around Them The “Creepy” Factor: Trusting Your Instincts Red Flags & Banners: What Happens When You Question a Manipulator Creating False Patterns: The Bryan Kohberger & Serial Killer Case Recruitment Tactics: Lessons from FBI Spy Operations Emotional Hijacking in the Gilgo Beach Case: How Victims Get Blinded Gabby Petito: How Police & Society Get Victims Wrong Postpartum Psychosis & The Controversial Clancy Case Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Robin Dreeke: MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/robindreeke Website: https://www.robindreeke.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rdreeke X: https://x.com/rdreeke YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCms3TC7728CLcm4XVxtVOfg Hidden Killers: https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Speaking / booking: https://www.robindreeke.com/speaking Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to another empowering episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today we'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey. Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! SHOWNOTES 130:53 Family dynamics complicate boundaries; break generational patterns. 132:43 Avoid discussing food-related topics; set expectations. 142:07 Hold boundaries for self-worth and safety. 143:35 Setting boundaries can revoke undeserved privileges. 152:58 Boundaries have shifted; reevaluation is essential. 154:34 Attempt to set boundaries led to escalation. 101:01:06 Shifted mindset: openness, curiosity, self-assured communication. 101:04:51 Embracing change transforms difficult family dynamics. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another compelling episode of Women of Impact! Today, we're diving deep into the world of personal boundaries, narcissistic family dynamics, and the power of self-preservation. Joining us is the insightful Terri Cole, an expert in boundaries and emotional intelligence. In this episode, our host Lisa Bilyeu opens up about her journey towards self-empowerment, particularly her desire to feel strong enough to leave a relationship in the event of infidelity. We'll explore the complexities of dealing with narcissistic mothers, the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries, and how to handle inappropriate or intrusive questions with confidence. Terri brings a wealth of strategies, from using humor to deflect provocations to preparing mentally for challenging family gatherings. She also emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, self-preservation, and the necessity of clear, open communication in maintaining healthy relationships. Whether you're struggling with boundary issues, dealing with a narcissistic parent, or looking for practical tips on maintaining your mental health, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable advice. Then, We'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey. Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! SHOWNOTES Challenge invasive questions with "Why ask me that?" Strategically prepare to manage family gathering interactions. Setting boundaries takes time and practice. Understanding narcissistic mothers: It's a hidden struggle. Ineffective delegation leads to disordered boundaries. Betrayed friend's trust drops relationship level. Unwillingness to discuss toxic, narcissistic relationships. Stopped engaging due to unhealthy relationship dynamics. Overcame abuse; family reacted with disbelief, slander. Boundaries clash with cultural differences, acceptance needed. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m PUMPED to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today about something SO important and SO hard to do, and that’s setting AND HOLDING your boundaries! And the amazinggggg woman here to help is the Boundary Boss herself, my homie Terri Cole.! Terri has been on the show a number of times because she is SO DAMN GOOD at empowering women to put toxic people in their place!! And in this episode, she’s sharing soooo many amazing tactics and insights into setting and holding your boundaries AND how to deal with the people in your life and exactly WHAT to say to those who don’t respect your boundaries. We go into: - The 5 categories of boundaries & why you need health boundaries in all of them - Why boundaries are the best BRIDGES in your relationships, NOT BLOCKS!! - How to get away from the manipulator who is exploiting your good heart to get you to stay - Actual word for word Boundary scripts you can use to flip the conversation and power dynamic when someone is blatantly crossing your boundaries - How to deal with someone who repeatedly & purposefully crosses your boundaries - And MUCH MORE! So listen up homie!! Cause your comfort and your feelings frikin’ MATTER, and the ONLY person’s feelings that are YOUR responsibility are YOUR OWN – it’s NOT your responsibility to take care of the feelings of others!!! Follow Terri Cole: Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ Podcast: https://www.terricole.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu

Ever ask yourself, why does leaving a toxic partner have to hurt THIS much? Or why do even “normal” people become someone you don’t recognize during divorce? This episode is for the woman who’s drowning in manipulation, confusion, and that sneaky cycle of regret, wondering if fighting for your freedom is even worth it. Today I’m sitting down with divorce lawyer Holly J. Moore, who’s spent nearly two decades deep in the trenches of human behavior, breakups, and what our ugliest moments reveal. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by threats, blamed for everything, or scared to start over, Holly’s seen it all, and she gets brutally honest about the hardest parts…and how to survive them with your soul intact. Here’s exactly what we dive into: The secret psychology of revenge during messy divorces (and why it’s NOT about the stuff) Why “normal” people act totally unhinged, and what’s REALLY fueling their actions How to handle emotional, financial, and physical abuse when you’re trying to leave Smart moves to protect yourself, legally and emotionally, when the other side plays dirty Chapter Titles Revenge Tactics: Emotional, Physical & Financial Abuse The Survival Instinct: Why Threats Center on Kids (and Women’s Triggers) Hidden Money? Forensics, Accusations, and What Clients NEED to Know “Sometimes Staying Feels Easier Than Leaving”: Stories of Manipulation The Real Pain Chart of Divorce (And Why You’re Not “Crazy”) When Playing the Victim Becomes a Legal Strategy Top Causes of Divorce, And What Holly Really Sees Behind the Stats Money, Control, and Avoiding the Conversations That Kill Relationships When Your Past Is Used Against You: Celebrity Divorce Examples Addiction’s Role, and The Heartbreak No One Talks About Perimenopause, Power, and Why Women Walk Away Now Who Plots, Who Grieves: Divorce Games That Reveal Gender Differences Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Holly J Moore: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollyjmoore Moore Family Law Group: https://www.moorefamilylawgroup.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MadeForMoore Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Welcome back to the second half of this illuminating episode of "Women of Impact!" The conversation with Afrika Brooke continues as she shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming fears rooted in childhood and how these experiences shape her current approach to brave, honest expression. Lisa and Afrika dive into actionable strategies for handling disrespectful behaviors, especially within family dynamics, and stress the importance of establishing firm boundaries. Listeners will gain valuable insights into the art of pausing and reflecting before reacting, maintaining integrity while being empathetic, and building confidence through consistent, truthful actions. Lisa and Afrika also explore the concept of self-betrayal, setting the stage for practical advice on navigating social pressure, groupthink, and developing effective communication skills both personally and professionally. Tune in to discover transformative strategies for asserting yourself and living authentically, no matter the situation. SHOWNOTES [00:00] Recap of Part 1 and diving into values alignment. [05:30] Honest communication: Balancing truth and relationships. [12:15] Navigating family dynamics and setting boundaries. [18:40] Groupthink and the courage to think independently. [23:50] Vulnerability: Building stronger relationships through honesty. [28:30] Closing thoughts: The ongoing journey of self-expression. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another episode of "Women of Impact!" In this riveting first half, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with the profoundly insightful Afrika Brooke. They delve deep into the nuances of honesty and accountability in our relationships. Afrika shares her powerful reflections on defensiveness in relationships, emphasizing the difference between desired and embodied values. We'll hear from Lisa as she opens up about her own journey with her husband, Tom, detailing how they navigate giving each other permission to hold one another accountable without slipping into defensiveness. Afrika and Lisa discuss the impact of direct honesty, the importance of practicing honesty to avoid self-righteousness, and how addressing insecurities can lead to true alignment with one's goals. This part of the episode sets the stage for understanding how self-awareness and emotional intelligence play critical roles in personal growth and intimate connections. Get ready to uncover groundbreaking insights that will transform the way you communicate and relate to others around you. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Understand your fears before addressing patterns. 19:01 Environment shaped my hyper independence and feelings. 26:29 Fragmented identity led to decade-long alcohol struggle. 38:24 Resentments led to manipulation in relationships. 42:04 Shame and embarrassment hinder self-awareness. 53:39 Ownership interrupts conflict through personal responsibility. 01:01:45 Apologetic demeanor affects many, especially women. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you thought part 1 was jaw-dropping, you’re NOT ready for the second half. Gregory Hartley and I dive into one of the wildest “he said, she said” true crime stories, where the difference between life and death comes down to tiny, split-second clues in body language. Want to know how to spot a liar in real time? Or how to tell the difference between someone genuinely afraid and someone just putting on a show? This episode is filled with practical, empowering insight that you’re going to use for the rest of your life. We break down the testimony from a brutal attempted cliff murder (the Koenig case), showing you signs of lying, truthfulness, shock, and residual emotion, with step-by-step analysis you can apply to your own gut instincts. Plus, Greg gives us the science behind culture, gender, “women’s intuition,” and why some people refuse to see the truth (until it’s too late). There’s even a rapid-fire game to test your own skills. This isn’t just for true crime lovers, it’s survival 101 for every woman who refuses to be caught off guard ever again. SHOWNOTES Comparing his and her stories: congruency, illustration, and the gestures that mean “truth” Adapting, stress, and grooming: The difference between nervous energy and a liar’s “tell” Why neither side wants to reveal every detail, and where the truth hides Memory, trauma, and why big stress rewires what you actually recall Cultures, gender, and why you can’t spot red flags until you know their baseline Harsh truths: Why the most dangerous men are the ones you already know The Pink & Blue Flag Game: Who lies better, who cracks first, and why women’s intuition can save your life Follow Gregory Hartley: Website: https://readbodylanguage.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanel FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa

Do you ever wonder if you’d know how to spot a dangerous man before it’s too late? Or feel like your intuition is screaming at you, but you just can’t put your finger on why? This episode is an absolute masterclass in reading people, protecting yourself, and never again missing the signs that could save your life. I’m joined by one of the world’s top experts in body language, interrogation, and deception detection, Gregory Hartley. He’s spent decades training military, law enforcement, and intelligence agencies, and now, he’s here to give US the tools to see what others miss. We break down the infamous Scott Peterson case, why the man who murdered his wife fooled so many, and the real red flags that women too often overlook. Greg walks through the real signals of grief, shock, and deception (in the wild and in relationships), and gives me and all of you a crash course on how to spot liars, manipulators, and the body language tells that might literally save your life. Trust me, you’ll NEVER look at a first date,or a true crime story, the same way again. SHOWNOTES The Scott Peterson case and why women miss red flags Shock vs. sorrow: How trauma affects emotional responses Lies of omission, lies of commission, and the “verbal bridging” technique The brain under stress: How stress hormones make people slip The 5 key body language tells: gestures, illustrators, regulators, adapters, barriers Psychopaths, stress, and why they don’t react to fear like you do Peterson’s baseline vs. performance: Spotting the real person through his voice Introducing the Koenig case: When a hike turns deadly and he said/she said gets real Why “odd” isn’t always guilty, and how women (and horses!) are wired for risk The logic test: How stories fall apart when the narrative is fake Universal emotional tells; why true fear and grief ALWAYS leak out Follow Gregory Hartley: Website: https://readbodylanguage.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanel FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate. Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts. The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly. SHOWNOTES -No charges yet; potential expanded investigation forthcoming. -Suing politicians or celebrities risks scrutiny, safety. -Abusers target easy victims; legal systems complicate. -Questioning celebrity adoration and accountability in society. -Karen Conti: author, radio host, crime expert. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate. Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts. The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly. SHOWNOTES -Prosecutor challenges: doubt, juror skepticism, evidence. -Normalization leads to acceptance of inappropriate behavior. -Narcissism fueled by adoration led to crime. -Hollywood power and blackmail delayed revelations. -The entertainment industry is extremely abusive. -Reputational protection industry safeguards high-profile individuals. -We define our own privacy, not others. -Diddy appears dazed; Cassie tries escaping situation. -Apology video seemed scripted and well-produced. -Professionals empathize with aggressors, differing amateurs. -Was his organization structured like a business? FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome back to another inspiring episode of "Women of Impact"! Today, our incredible host, Lisa Bilyeu, sits down with the brilliant and insightful Gretchen Rubin, best-selling author and happiness expert. Together, they explore the fascinating world of personal tendencies and how they shape our ability to meet expectations and form lasting habits. Gretchen delves into her "Four Tendencies" framework—obligers, questioners, upholders, and rebels—offering invaluable insights on how to leverage these traits to achieve personal success and happiness. In this episode, you'll discover the powerful role that outer accountability, self-awareness, and embracing individual differences play in our emotional well-being. Lisa and Gretchen highlight the importance of enjoying the journey rather than just the outcome, the impact of sleep, diet, and exercise on our moods, and the transformative effects of focusing on relationships and connecting through our senses. Gretchen also shares her wisdom from her latest book, "Life in Five Senses," and offers practical tips for using music, taste, and even scent to enhance our emotional states and deepen our relationships. Whether you're a rebel resisting the norm or an obliger thriving with accountability, this conversation will provide you with the tools and perspectives needed to craft your unique path to happiness. Tune in and get ready to be inspired! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Seek new experiences, address loneliness, take action. 05:27 Focus on actionable steps, not just outcomes. 08:44 Questioning traps, obstacles, and external validation in happiness. 13:40 Meditation didn't work, that's okay, I'm different. 15:54 Four tendencies framework identifies individual personality types. 18:47 Obligers need outer accountability for inner expectations. 22:55 Questioners seek thorough understanding before taking action. 26:36 Sweetheart not ideal as accountability partner. 28:01 Empowerment through understanding habits and choices. 34:29 Strong relationships, support crucial for happiness. 36:26 Five senses are key to happiness and wellness. 39:37 Lost memory leads to new taste experiences. 45:19 Indulging senses can uplift and energize. 46:14 Effusive praise for genius scent and yearning. 49:28 Encouraging self-improvement through subscription and following.

You know that feeling when you’re dismissed, underestimated, or downright disrespected, and you start to wonder if you’re the problem… or if the world is just stacked against you? Homie, THIS is your episode. I’m sitting down with Tracy Walder: Ex-CIA and FBI, one of the only women in history to serve as a special agent in both agencies, and literal expert at uncovering the truth when lives are on the line. But today isn’t just about spy stories. It’s about training YOU to stand your ground, outsmart manipulation, and build unbreakable emotional resilience…no matter who tries to make you small. From surviving toxic workplaces and “Malibu Barbie” insults to resisting gaslighting from the world’s most powerful men, Tracy shares the mindset, boundaries, and psychological tools you need to protect yourself and rebuild your confidence. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How to spot (and survive) subtle disrespect, from the boardroom to the bedroom Real-life “spy tactics” any woman can use to stay in control under pressure How to recognize and resist manipulation, even when it’s weaponized kindness Handling gaslighting, shrinking to “fit in,” and dealing with toxic women Chapter Titles Male Allies: When Do You Clap Back, And When Do You Play the Long Game? Managing Emotions Under Fire: Should You Shut Down or Speak Up? The Art (and Cost) of Compartmentalization,And When It Backfires Manipulation Tactics: When “Kindness” Is Actually Control Gaslighting on the World Stage, And How to Hold Your Reality Firm The Power of Evidence: Staying Grounded With Facts (Not Just Feelings) How Not to Shrink: Advocating for Yourself and Naming Disrespect When Women Tear Down Other Women: Isolation, Rumors, and Self-Esteem The Secret to Building Resilience: Naming Emotions, Facing Fears, and Finding Your Crew Follow Tracy Walder: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunexpectedspy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunexpectedspy Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@theunexpectedspy Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com

Today we are diving into the murky world of destructive cults and manipulative relationships with our expert guest, Rick Alan Ross. In this eye-opening discussion, we'll explore the sinister techniques of love bombing and conditional affection, the perils of manipulation and dependency, and the devastating impacts of isolation and indoctrination. We'll also delve into the challenging journey of leaving these toxic environments and the intricate process of recovery. Rick will shed light on the startling realities of female cult leaders, such as Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and discuss the role of intelligence and success in cult recruitment. We’ll get a closer look at extreme cult behaviors and the manipulative power of leaders like Charles Manson, while highlighting the importance of cult awareness in today's society, especially through social media. Additionally, we'll cover fascinating stories of high-profile cases like Susan Carlson’s “Love Has Won” and the notorious cult leader Keith Ranieri of nxivm, dissecting the dual-edge sword of the internet in both aiding and exposing cult activities. Join us as we delve into the psychological entrapment of cult members and uncover interventions that can potentially save lives. Whether you're familiar with cult dynamics or learning about them for the first time, this episode promises to be both informative and chilling. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's jump right in! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control. 04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency. 08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following. 12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors. 15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle. 18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover. 21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults. 25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame. 29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives. 33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation. 35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family. 39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation. 44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns. 47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions. 51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact, where today’s conversation will take you deep into the world of cults and manipulative relationships. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and joining me is cult expert Rick Alan Ross. In this episode, we unravel the insidious tactics of love bombing and conditional affection, the manipulation and dependency that cults and abusive relationships foster, and the isolation and indoctrination techniques that rob individuals of their autonomy. We also delve into the intricacies of leaving such environments and the intense feelings of shame and guilt that often accompany this challenging process. We'll discuss gender dynamics in narcissistic behaviors, the rise of female cult leaders like Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and the complex realities faced by cult members. From high-profile cases like Charles Manson’s manipulation tactics and Leslie Van Houten's eventual transformation, to the impact of modern social media in cult awareness, Rick offers invaluable insights into how cults recruit even the most intelligent individuals and celebrities. Plus, we explore the critical role of intervention and the journey towards recovery, touching on compelling stories like Elizabeth Smart’s and Patricia Hearst's abductions and subsequent reprogramming. Whether you’re curious about the psychological traps of cults, or looking for ways to protect yourself and others, this episode is a powerful guide to understanding and safeguarding your autonomy. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control. 04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency. 08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following. 12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors. 15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle. 18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover. 21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults. 25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame. 29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives. 33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation. 35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family. 39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation. 44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns. 47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions. 51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en

If you thought Part 1 was wild, just wait, because now, we’re flipping the script and digging even deeper into the mindsets and tactics you NEED to recognize if you want to protect yourself from psychological warfare. Writer, content creator, and, yes, openly diagnosed sociopath Kanika Batra is back for the second half of our conversation, going even deeper into the “rotation” of romantic partners, how sociopaths weaponize compliments, and the terrifyingly effective 4-act psychological cycle they use to keep you hooked and doubting your sanity. We even bring Kanika’s husband into the studio for a raw, honest look at what it’s like to love and live with a sociopath, and why it actually works (sometimes better than you’d expect). Plus: real talk on sobering up, finding faith, and what to do if you think you’ve got a sociopath in your circle. Learn the tricks (from mapping insecurities to reputational warfare) that could save you from the worst heartbreaks and con-games. And yes, find out what makes women harder to fool, why even “ride or die” friendships can go nuclear, and the crucial (sometimes tragic) differences between a sociopath and a narcissist in relationships. SHOWNOTES The Perks (and WARNING SIGNS) of Being Friends with a Sociopath The “Rotation” and Dating Playbook: Regent, Placeholder, Decoy How Women and Men Manipulate Differently, And Why Women Are Harder to Fool Psychological Terrorism: The 4-Act Formula for Gaslighting Inside Kanika’s Marriage: Stability, Manipulation, and Facing the Truth Addiction, Dopamine, and Getting Clean Confessions of a Sociopath: Rapidfire Truths and Petty Wins How to Spot a Sociopath: Eye Contact, Yawn Test & the Deeper “Mask” Why Rules, Faith, and Structure Actually Help Kanika On Parenting, Self-Worth, and Building a Good Life Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Kanika Batra: Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Ever wondered if you’d know if a sociopath was your friend… or even YOU? In this episode, I sit down with Kanika Batra: Author, beauty queen, and one of the most self-aware diagnosed sociopaths on the internet, to rip the mask straight off the stigma. Kanika doesn’t just talk about living with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD), she tells you exactly how a female sociopath thinks, strategizes, and manipulates, in brutal, unfiltered detail. But don’t get it twisted: this isn’t just about danger and darkness. Kanika is here so YOU can spot the manipulation and betrayal before it happens: Wether it’s in love, at work, or in your closest girls’ group chat. We’re bringing you the red flags, the psychology, and yes, the protection plan, so you never ever get caught off guard again. From “masks” and hot rage to psychological cages and the razor-thin line between loyalty and revenge, Part 1 lays everything bare, including how and why Kanika targets, tests, and treats people, plus what women need to watch for most. SHOWNOTES How Sociopaths Lie and Manipulate, and Why You’d Never Know Understanding the Ingenue, Femme Fatale, and Therapist Masks “Snark Pages” and True Stories of Retaliation How Sociopaths Treat Their Real Friends vs. Everyone Else What Betrayal Means, and Why It Fuels Extreme Payback Inside a Female Sociopath’s Mind: Family, Childhood, and Hypocrisy Loyalty, Control, and the Calculus of Friendship Why (and How) Sociopaths Can Love Their Own Way “The Hidden Suffering of the Psychopath”: Loneliness, Loyalty, and Why Sociopaths Snap The Art of Psychological Cages: Obligation, Triangulation, and Blacklisting Reputational Warfare: How Female Sociopaths Destroy Without Violence Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Kanika Batra: Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she’s lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Netsuite: Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/women Caraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchase FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en LISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and I’m soooo frikin’ excited to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today!! Today’s guest has been singing about “GIRL POWER” since the 90s, but secretly dealt with abuse in her toxic marriage for 10 YEARS. She tried to leave SO MANY TIMES but kept going back to him and the vicious cycle of abuse before she finally got her power to leave, once and for all!! It’s the inspiring, cheat-print-wearing, the one and only “Scary Spice” of the Spice Girls, Mel B!! She is getting so real and honest about how she finally escaped the abuse FOR GOOD and took back her power AND how now she’s helping spread the word and support the strong, amazing abuse survivors allllll around the world. Mel is here to help us spot the warning signs and GET OUT of toxic relationships before it's too late. We cover soooo much in this interview, including: - Why the abuser is SO GOOD at hunting you down & controlling you - How abuse slowly sneaks up on you and why IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT - The 15 signs of what abuse looks like - Why it’s SO HARD to break the abuse cycle and how 1 promise Mel made actually helped her to leave FOR GOOD - The 2 words Mel has for ANYONE stuck in an abusive relationship - How shame and guilt will keep you trapped & hiding the toxic parts of your relationship - How to deal with the 2 questions you will be asked again and again after you stop hiding the abuse and leave - Why you should ALWAYS listen to your gut intuition So homies, listen to Mel B and don’t let your shame, guilt, and denial keep you abused, used, and trapped in misery!!! It’s time to stand up and take your GIRL POWER back and never let someone take it from you again!!! Follow Mel B: Website: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmelb Get Your Copy of “Brutally Honest”: https://geni.us/brutallyhonestpb Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu