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Addiction: Problem, the Solution, and How to Work the Solution | The Problem Was Me with Tom Gagliano: Break the cycle of negative thinking leading to addiction, infidelity, & self-sabotage.

The Super Bowl is one of the most exciting events of the year in our country. Unfortunately, many lives will be destroyed by gambling excessive amounts of money and this will have devastating consequences. A gambling addiction, or any addiction, is so powerful that the addict forgets the pain it causes themselves, and those they love. The addiction feels like a form of oxygen to the addict where they emotionally feel they can't find happiness without it. Gambling becomes their coping mechanism to deal with the discomforts of life. This podcast will address why some can control there gambling and others destroy their life by gambling uncontrollably. We will discuss what creates all addiction, as well as the solution to not only stopping the addiction but also 'staying stopped'. It's difficult to understand any addictive disorder. It's like putting together a jigsaw puzzle and it's not easy to see how the pieces fit. In this podcast I will clearly demonstrate how each piece fits by discussing the Problem, the Solution, and how to work the Solution.

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 Thomas Gagliano is a successful entrepreneur and is also a high profile leader in addiction and self-help therapy. He has helped develop unique methods and procedures which have helped numerous institutions and individuals in the greater New York area. Having been featured as a key note speaker at a number of meetings and conferences, Tom has become a regular on the speaking circuit. With a Master's Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University Tom is now a Life Coach and Author. Along his path to a better life, he has had opportunities to share his experiences and insights with people from all walks of life. Some would share Tom's healing methods with their therapists, many of whom would ask to meet him and encouraged him to put his techniques in book form. The result is The Problem Was Me, which has brought those same methods to a broader base.

The Super Bowl is one of the most exciting events of the year in our country. Unfortunately, many lives will be destroyed by gambling excessive amounts of money and this will have devastating consequences. A gambling addiction, or any addiction, is so powerful that the addict forgets the pain it causes themselves, and those they love. The addiction feels like a form of oxygen to the addict where they emotionally feel they can't find happiness without it. Gambling becomes their coping mechanism to deal with the discomforts of life. This podcast will address why some can control there gambling and others destroy their life by gambling uncontrollably. We will discuss what creates all addiction, as well as the solution to not only stopping the addiction but also 'staying stopped'. It's difficult to understand any addictive disorder. It's like putting together a jigsaw puzzle and it's not easy to see how the pieces fit. In this podcast I will clearly demonstrate how each piece fits by discussing the Problem, the Solution, and how to work the Solution.
 
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Breakups can be one of the most painful experiences in our lives. After a breakup, many times we go through the grieving stages of denial, anger, sadness, and finally acceptance. It's not healthy to jump into the next relationship until we have time to heal and to take inventory of our last relationship in order to avoid making the same mistakes. Take this opportunity to self-reflect and learn lessons from past behaviors and actions, in order to improve oneself and achieve an enduring relationship in the future.
 
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship and conflict is inevitable. This podcast will offer strategies on how to communicate with your partner in a healthy way. This is why attending counseling before a major disagreement occurs is very beneficial for a couple. This podcast outlines how a third party can add clarity and serve as a guiding light in a relationship. We will highlight key components that should be addressed in order to prepare the couple on ways to effectively communicate.  
 
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Today's youth have received confusing messages, which has led to distorted values and cultivated an anxiety-ridden society. They have gone thru a Covid, a virus that shut our country down. Multiple wars going on in other countries and now hurricanes of unbelievable magnitudes. Many of us have learned to escape with social media. What are the benefits and the cost associated with this. Social media and advertisements are more powerful than ever in deciding the way our children should behave, dress, and act. Many individuals compare themselves to the filtered, "picture-perfect" photos that they see on social media, which can lead to feelings of sadness or inferiority, or anxiety. They have also consciously or subconsciously been enslaved by the number of likes or followers they have on Instagram and Facebook. Through self- awareness and positive actions this podcast will provide the listener with tools to help them battle through their depression on a day-to-day basis. We will then discuss the ways their loved ones can also help those they love gain victory over their fight against depression. We all hurt when those we love suffer. Its important to understand which actions can help nurse them to health and which actions, even with the best of intentions, can actually fuel the person's anxiety and depression.
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Join me this Tuesday October first on Transformational talk radio at 10 Pacicific 1 Eastern discussing the ways to fix a broken relationship. Many times relationships are destined to fail due to fears of intimacy, poor communication, and lack of healthy boundaries, which are all created by childhood messages and are acted out in adulthood. If there is betrayal in a relationship, it takes courage, willingness and diligence to rebuild trust with the partner. This starts with the willingness to seek help, followed by the willingness to take direction. The good news is devastation can create a miracle. After working through the pain of betrayal, many times I've helped couples find greater intimacy then they ever thought possible. This devastation forces the couple to recognize the areas of the relationship that needed attention, which may have been ignored if the betrayal never occurred. Also we are dealing in an age where digital infidelity is very easy and comes in different shapes and sizes—from emotional affairs to adultery. And now, more and more instances of inappropriate online relationships are surfacing. Digital infidelity is when we use digital products, computers, phones, wristwatches or televisions where we are viewing, listening or writing about sexual innuendo that should only be shared with our significant other. It is betrayal, only its betrayal using digital products. This comes in the form of pornography, sexting, texting, chat rooms etc. Usually, they are kept secret from our significant other and shameful in nature.
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Unfortunately, many men and even women are so afraid of intimacy they sabotage their own happiness by subconsciously pushing their partner away.

This approach begins with strengthening the most important relationship we have, the one we have with ourselves. We are the common denominator in all our relationships. The keys to healing and growth is building self- awareness so we can choose healthier actions with our partner and ourselves. Remember if we work on our relationship it will work as long as there is this commitment by both parties. This podcast will provide the tools and a blue print to make this happen. The willingness to take this direction has to come from you the listener.

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Unfortunately, many men and even women are so afraid of intimacy they sabotage their own happiness by subconsciously pushing their partner away.
This approach begins with strengthening the most important relationship we have, the one we have with ourselves. We are the common denominator in all our relationships. The keys to healing and growth is building self- awareness so we can choose healthier actions with our partner and ourselves. Remember if we work on our relationship it will work as long as there is this commitment by both parties. This podcast will provide the tools and a blue print to make this happen. The willingness to take this direction has to come from you the listener.
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Addiction and Intimacy: The Missing Link | The Problem Was Me with Tom Gagliano: Break the cycle of negative thinking leading to addiction, infidelity, & self-sabotage

 

90% of addicts begin their addiction before the age of. This presentation will reaffirm that without healthy emotional connection in childhood, the individual will trust addiction as their coping mechanism instead of trusting people.

90% of addicts begin their addiction before the age of. This presentation will reaffirm that without healthy emotional connection in childhood, the individual will trust addiction as their coping mechanism instead of trusting people.
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In this podcast we will discuss seven key parenting skills designed to enhance self- awareness. Strengthening self- awareness will help bring the best of ourselves to parenting to help raise healthy, strong, confident children and grand children. Understanding which area of our parenting skills is strong and which areas need attention. The listener will be given poll questions to rate himself or herself in each area.
Childhood messages will be discussed in great detail. Is the child viewing the world the way we think they are, how do we know for sure? What are the handed down messages we are giving our children that we may not be fully aware of.   This podcast will also discuss the messages the child gets from society, peers, and the media as well. 
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