The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Welcome to NK Podcast 277, where we dive deep into the complexities of blended families, co-parenting, and everything in between. In today's episode,  Lori has the pleasure of speaking with esteemed guest Bradley S Craig, a Licensed Master Social Worker and Certified Family Life Educator, known for his insightful book Between 2 Homes. Today’s conversation ranges from the nuanced roles of stepparents to the intricacies of custody modifications, all the way through effective co-parenting techniques and the societal impact of blended family dynamics. This interview was so full of information we had to split it up into two parts! 

We explore the often misunderstood influence of stepmoms, the implications of custody change requests post-remarriage, and the significance of terminology with terms like "bonus mom" and "nesting." Bradley shares his wisdom on maintaining consistent family dynamics, avoiding common pitfalls in high-conflict co-parenting situations, and adopting a professional mindset for better child welfare.

We'll also discuss practical tools like the "Our Family Wizard" app, the pressures societal norms place on stepfamilies, and Bradley’s recommendations for effective co-parent communication.

This is not just a theoretical discussion; Bradley also brings in his personal experiences and professional insights, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating the challenges of blended families.

Stay tuned for a thought-provoking conversation that offers valuable strategies, empathy, and a fresh perspective on stepfamily complexities. 

Let's dive in!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Stepmom Influence

• Trust and Boundaries

• Court System and Legal Procedures

• Parenting Facilitators

• Business Mindset in Co-parenting

• Terms and Perceptions

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

“I have never seen anyone care so much about helping others. Lori goes above and beyond for her clients. You can tell she and David both do this to truly help others. They are a blessing to the world of stepparents!” ~ K.H.

Welcome to Episode 276 of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this episode, hosts David and Lori discuss some of the complexities of stepfamily dynamics with special guests Will and his stepmom Jo. Jo, who has no biological children and has been in a relationship with Will’s father for four years. They explore Will’s transition from living with his mother to moving full-time with his father and Jo, discussing how responsibilities and structure have positively impacted his life. Will opens up about the emotional challenges he faced, including dealing with depression and adjusting to new household routines.

We’ll also delve into Jo’s role in Will’s life, how cool of a stepmum she is, and the importance of building trust and friendship between stepparents and stepchildren. Jo and Will share a story of being blessed to have each other in their lives.   

This episode is filled with heartfelt stories, practical advice, and relatable experiences that provide valuable insights into stepfamily relationships. Whether you're part of a stepfamily or just interested in family dynamics, you’ll find something meaningful in today’s conversation. So sit back, relax, and join us for a candid discussion on navigating life in a blended family!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Adjusting to New Living Arrangements

• Building Trust and Friendship

• Influence of a Stepparent:

• Stepfamily Challenges and Integration

• Celebrating Milestones

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

“As a family court attorney, I have had several of my client’s partners, who are stepparents, of course, mention Nacho Parenting over the past several months. Being curious about this method, I decided to look into it. I read the blogs but wanted to know more about these people and what they were teaching people. After reviewing the content, I’m convinced the family court system should mandate a class on the Nacho method!” ~ W.O.

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast, Episode 267. Today, Lori, David, and our iconic Nacho Intro Lady dive into the challenges of stepfamilies, starting with the important question: "When will my partner love my kid like their own?" Tune in as we explore the common struggles faced by blended families, share real feedback from our latest Nacho Kids Boot Camp Challenge, and address listener questions about step-parenting dynamics, from the usefulness of "nachoing" from day one to managing deep-seated resentments towards stepchildren. Whether you are new to stepfamily life or looking to improve your current situation, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice. Stick around for some heartfelt tips on navigating your blended family journey with patience, understanding, and a sprinkle of humor. Remember, life is good when you Nacho!

In this episode, we discuss the following:

• Relationship between stepparent and stepkid

• What if the bio parent doesn’t step up

• What if you hate your stepkid and have zero desire to fix it

• Should you Nacho from the beginning or wait until things cause stress

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

“I hated my life. I had no desire to continue my blended relationship. Then, my partner found Nacho Kids while listening to podcast and decided we should join the Academy together. Three months later, our lives are so much better! It was the best decision we ever made. We are creating a happy healthy blended family now thanks to Nacho!” ~ E.R.

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview Josh & Kristy Groce of the Perfectly Blended Podcast. They have been blending for over 10 years and have two bio kids each. 

*** Disclaimer: Mention of abuse and alcoholism. ***

In this episode, we discuss:

• Doing everything wrong
• When stepkid is mean to bio kid
• Overcoming blended challenges
• Being perfectly blended ~ or not

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids, interviews stepmom Hays. Hays grew up in a blended family and has been blending with her husband for 2-½ years, has two stepkids and one bio kid. Her husband was recently awarded custody of his daughter due to bio mom neglecting the child’s medical condition.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Growing up in a blended family vs becoming a stepmom
• When bio parent neglects child’s medical needs
• Family court - guardian ad litem
• Dealing with an insane bio mom

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids, interviews Ashley Gerhard of Phoenix Transformation ~ Phoenix Parent Coaching. Ashley has been blending for three years and has three stepkids and four bio kids. Ashley comes from a blended family herself. 

In this episode, we discuss:

• Growing up in a blended family vs becoming a stepmom
• Shifting your perspective with Nachoing
• Boundaries
• Being a sensitive stepmom

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids, interviews Shawn Simon, author of “Stepping Into A New Role: Stories from Stepmoms.” Shawn has been blending for 17 years, has two stepkids, and has no bio kids, but has dogs.. 

In this episode, we discuss:

• Being a childless stepmom
• Dealing with a high conflict ex
• When stepkid is mean to your animals
• You knew what you were getting into

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids, interviews a stepmom that fights being the parent that cares the most. She’s been blending for six years and has three stepkids and three ours kids!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Being a child of divorce and a stepmom
• Fighting being the parent that cares the most
• Court Trauma
• How Nachoing has helped
• Co-parenting with bio mom

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids, interview an adult stepkid. She shares with us what it was like growing up as a stepkid!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Being the eldest sibling
• Mini-parent
• Moving into stepdad’s home
• Dinnertime 
• Bonds with stepsiblings

** Disclaimer: This episode contains discussion of addiction and alcoholism. ** 

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori, co-founder of Nacho Kids, interviews a stepmom who has been blending for 1-½ years and Nachoing for about 5 months. She has three stepkids and two bio kids. 

In this episode, we discuss:

• Kids wanting a family
• Coming into the stepkids' lives at older ages
• It’s ok that you are not a nuclear family
• Stop comparing!
• Loving them like your own without parenting like your own