The Kink Consultant – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Welcome to the first episode of The Kink Consultant! I’m excited to take you on a journey into the world of kink, BDSM, and sex positivity.

In this episode, I share my story—starting with a childhood fascination with spanking that grew into a passion for kink. At 24, while working in finance by day, I answered a Craigslist ad for dominatrixes by night, and it changed my life.

Balancing my Wall Street career with my secret life as a dominatrix was thrilling, but when both worlds collided, I had to make some tough choices. Eventually, I left the dungeon and followed a new path: becoming a sex and relationship coach. Now, as The Kink Consultant, I’m here to demystify kink, break down stigmas, and create an open, fun space for exploration.

Join me, subscribe, leave a review, and keep on kinkin' on!

Episode Highlights 

01:07 First Encounter with BDSM

02:38 Becoming a Dominatrix

04:53 Balancing Two Worlds

07:33 Transition to Kink Consultant

10:37 Why I started the Podcast

Connect with Me: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!
Book your consultation here.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I went from a Wall Street Journal desk job to stepping into a dominatrix role I never saw coming. I’ll take you through the nerve-wracking moments of my first day in a Garment District dungeon, where I faced unexpected client requests and discovered a side of myself I didn’t know existed. I’ll also share the adrenaline-pumping experiences that made this the most exhilarating job of my life—and why I couldn’t wait for the next session.

Tune in to hear how my secret life began, the wild twists along the way, and the invaluable lessons I learned!

Episode Highlights 

01:03 The Craigslist Ad That Changed My Life 

05:39 First Impressions and Rules

08:49 Preparing for the First Shift

13:28 Meeting the Clients and Learning the Ropes

18:34 What Made Me Want to Go Back 

Connect with Me: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!
Book your consultation here.

In this episode, I’m joined by AGoodSpankin as we dive into one of the most common yet misunderstood fetishes—spanking. AGS shares his personal journey, from discovering his love for spanking at a young age to becoming a SpankTube content creator. We discuss how he uses his platform and podcast to help others embrace their kinks more openly. 

You’ll also hear some wild stories—from being mistaken as gay because of his love for spanking, to dealing with a creepy stalker, and even paying $75 to watch spanking videos back in the '80s!

On top of that, we tackle the crucial topic of boundaries in kink. AGS and I explore how to set and maintain boundaries while ensuring clear communication, consent, and safety in any dynamic. If you’re looking for practical advice, authentic stories, and a deeper understanding of spanking, this episode has it all. Tune in for raw, honest insights and expert guidance!

Connect with AGoodSpankin: 

Listen to his podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2nmEpCSJn9UEigZp3Z1uKc?si=8d9da2a32c424813

Watch his videos: 

https://www.spankingtube.com/user/agoodspankin

Connect with Me: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!

Book your consultation here.

https://thekinkconsultant.com/bookings

In this episode, I answer your burning questions from the first two episodes!

From balancing finances with my dominatrix career to navigating dungeon dynamics, I spill the details on rates, tips, and the unwritten rules of conduct. I also share some valuable lessons that are pretty useful even outside the dungeon like how to negotiate, set boundaries, and truly connect with people on an intimate level.

If you’re curious about all of these, then be sure to tune in as I take you behind-the-scenes. 

Episode Highlights 

00:54 How Much I Make as a Dominatrix 

04:09 Some Challenges and Realizations

05:33 Favorite and Least Favorite Clients

09:34 Dominatrix Name and Conduct Rules

Connect with Me: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!
Book your consultation here.

Buckle up for a wild ride as I sit down with Veronica and Jim, the power couple of the Las Vegas kink scene. Veronica and Jim spill the beans on their whirlwind romance, from a fast-tracked military marriage to discovering their kinky sides. Ever wondered what it's like to go from a vanilla relationship to throwing legendary BDSM parties? They dish the dirt on everything - the excitement, the mistakes, and the oh-so-important rules of the BDSM road. Join in as they recount side-splitting tales of epic parties, including a fiasco with a threesome and a bottle of Fireball in the kitchen, and unforgettable moments like someone actually seeing her actual "Daddy" in one of the parties (yikes!). Learn about their unique roles as community leaders, how they navigate the tricky waters of consent, and the usual party mishaps. Find them on FetLife: Pope - Jim Caramel Aphrodite - Veronica Episode Highlights: 03:00 Community Roles: The Community Mom and Dad 33:51 Establishing Party Rules and Safety 40:25 Navigating Kink Communities 41:40 Advice for Newcomers 01:09:06 Dealing with Fetish Missteps Connect with Me: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Book your consultation here: https://thekinkconsultant.com/bookings Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!

I’m beyond excited to have Pieter and Paul, the brilliant minds behind the groundbreaking BDSM dating app, BeeDee. We'll dive deep into how the app uses your BDSM test results to algorithmically connect you with compatible kinksters. We'll explore their unique approach to creating genuine and meaningful connections within the BDSM community, and how they overcame challenges to bring this revolutionary app to life. 

You'll also get an insider's look at the incredible features that set BeeDee apart from other dating platforms, including higher-quality matches and community-focused interactions. Plus, there's a special offer just for our listeners that you won't want to miss. Tune in to discover how BeeDee is transforming the way kinksters find love and companionship. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one! 

Episode Highlights  

02:36 The Evolution of the BDSM Test 

12:01 Exploring the BD App Features 

24:37 Challenges with iOS Approval 

28:34 Team and Community Focus 

36:00 Addressing Rumors and Anonymity 

40:38 Advice for Newbies in BDSM 

43:50 Future Features and User Interaction 

Download the BeeDee App and use the code: THEKINKCONSULTANT 

Head over to the Android Play Store and get 50% off your first month of premium by using this code!  

Help us get BeeDee on iOS! Sign the petition here:  

https://www.change.org/p/approve-the-beedee-dating-app-in-the-apple-app-store 

Know more about the app at:  

http://www.beedee.com 

Connect with Me:  

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant 

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ 

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! 

Book your consultation here. 

In this episode, I get to dive into the fascinating world of Jana Wimer and Robert Bullwinkel, the creative minds behind the spectacular theater production 'Abandon.' Join us as we explore the show's conception, its deep ties to the controversial Marquis de Sade, and the immersive experience it offers.

They also insights into the challenges and rewards of bringing such a daring project to life, including the complexities of promoting a kink-centric show and the incredible support from the kink community.

'Abandon' is more than just a show; it's an experience that leaves audiences breathless. We discuss the intense atmosphere, created through pitch-black darkness and haunting soundscapes, that makes 'Abandon' a completely unique theater experience.

As 'Abandon' returns to Vegas Theatre Company this October, don’t miss your chance to witness this blend of horror, kink, and masterful storytelling. 

Get your tickets at: https://www.theatre.vegas/abandon

Connect with Me:  

⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant⁠ 

⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ 

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! 

⁠Book your consultation here⁠.

In this episode, I'm sitting down with the incredible Brad Jones, the mastermind behind my all-time favorite dating app, Meet Kinksters!

We dive into how Meet Kinksters is revolutionizing the dating scene by merging sexual and romantic compatibility and explore Brad's passionate commitment to help people form genuine, fulfilling relationships. Trust me, you don't want to miss Brad's innovative insights and the inspiring origin story of this groundbreaking app! We get real about the pitfalls of mainstream dating apps and Brad spills the tea on the dark underbelly of the dating industry. You'll hear all about how Meet Kinksters maintains a safe, respectful environment for kinky individuals to connect authentically.

Plus, Brad's unfiltered advice on putting your best foot forward and the exciting future for Meet Kinksters will leave you buzzing with anticipation. Tune in for an empowering conversation that could transform your dating life! 

Episode Highlights  

05:32 Creating a Safe and Authentic Dating Experience

10:33 Addressing Market Gaps and User Concerns

25:38 Navigating Non-Traditional Relationships

26:41 Creating an Attractive Profile

28:51 The Dark Side of Dating Apps

34:32 Truth Bombs: Dating Advice for Men

46:37 Join Meet Kinksters: A New Approach to Dating

Go to http://www.meetkinksters.com/TKC and you can get 50%off your first month of premium membership!

Know more about this dating app and community at:  

http://www.meetkinksters.com

Connect with Me:  

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant 

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ 

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! 

Book your consultation here.

In this episode, I’m sitting down with the fierce and fabulous Larah Sky where we dive deep into her journey from viral videos to becoming a trusted voice in the kink community. And trust me, you don’t want to miss her unfiltered takes on boundaries, fantasies, and embracing kink with confidence.

Lara breaks down how she uses humor and creativity to handle internet trolls, and yes—we talk all about those infamous spit videos that have captivated audiences! We also explore the nuances of Locktober and the role of chastity cages in kink culture. Whether you’re curious about foot fetishes or fascinated by giantess fantasies, this conversation has something for everyone. 

Lara brings the heat with practical advice on exploring kinks safely, setting boundaries, and unlocking deeper connections with yourself and others. Plus, her tips on caging, feminization, and more niche kinks might just inspire your next adventure! Tune in for a fun, eye-opening chat that’s sure to leave you thinking—and maybe even exploring—new possibilities. 

Episode Highlights

04:06 Chastity Cages and Locktober

17:04 Hard Limits and Intrusive Thoughts

29:16 Personal Icks and Boundaries

37:35 Cross-Dressing and Communication in Relationships

42:48 Unique Kinks and Fetishes

48:27 Online Scams and Safety Tips

52:38 Advice for Exploring Kinks

Watch Larah’s Content:

https://www.larahsky.com/

http://www.tiktok.com/@larahsky69

http://instagram.com/larahsky

Connect with Me:   

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant  

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/  

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!  

Book your consultation here.  

This week, I’m thrilled to have a candid and insightful conversation with my dear friend, Catherine Drysdale, a dedicated sex and relationship coach whose passion shines through every aspect of her work. We explore Catherine's unique journey to becoming a coach, the impactful sex education and workshops she offers, and the challenges she bravely navigates as a voice in the sex-positive space.We dive into the hurdles she faces with social media censorship, as well as her innovative methods like group guided masturbation workshops and the use of NLP to help clients release pleasure blocks. Her mission is powerful and clear: to provide support, foster community, and create safe spaces where people can explore, embrace, and celebrate their sexuality. 

If you're ready to connect more deeply with yourself, reclaim joy in your sexual life, or simply learn more about Catherine's transformative approach, listen in and join the conversation. Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode with someone who might need it, and leave a review if you found value in our discussion.  

Episode Highlights  

03:43 Challenges in the Sex Education Space 

04:47 Navigating Social Media and Censorship 

09:26 Innovative Workshops and Guided Practices 

15:27 The Power of Hypnosis and EFT Tapping 

22:06 Catherine's Personal Journey and Career Shift 

Connect with Catherine:  

https://www.catherinedrysdale.com 

https://www.instagram.com/iamcatherinedrysdale 

https://www.tiktok.com/@iamcatherinedrysdale 

Connect with Me:  

https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant 

https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ 

Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you! 

Book your consultation here.