The Divorce Course Podcast – Détails, épisodes et analyse

• You're in the middle of a separation and unsure what advice to follow
  
  

• Friends, family, or Facebook have told you "what to do"
  
  

• You've heard you can't leave the house without losing everything
  
  

• You feel pressured not to bring up domestic violence
  
  

• You're confused about disclosure, super splitting, or property rights

 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. This discussion is based in Australia. ALSO TRIGGER WARNING Discussions of Family Violence

Have you been told that if you leave the house, you lose everything? Or that you shouldn't mention domestic violence in family court? These are just a few examples of the harmful myths in Australia we hear all too often in separation and divorce.

In this episode, Laura & Lyn expose some of the worst legal advice circulating in family law and explain why it can derail your case, delay your outcome, or damage your safety and rights.

They break down five of the most common (and dangerous) misconceptions, share what the law really says, and help you feel more confident about asking the right questions of your lawyer and making informed decisions. 

⏱️ Episode Timeline: Episode 221 Family Law Myths Don't Fall for These 5 During Separation

00:00 – Introduction: Debunking Common Family Law Myths
Why bad legal advice is everywhere—and how it can derail your case.

01:42 – The Real Impact of Misinformation in Separation and Divorce
What happens when you follow outdated or incorrect legal advice.

05:37 – Myth #1: "If You Leave the House, You Lose Your Property Rights"
Why leaving the family home doesn't mean forfeiting your share.

12:48 – Myth #2: "You Must Have Every Document Before You Can Settle"
The truth about financial disclosure and realistic expectations.

19:40 – Myth #3: "Don't Mention Domestic Violence in Court"
How this dangerous myth puts safety and outcomes at risk.

24:19 – Understanding Family Violence and Property Entitlements
How abuse can affect how assets are divided.

25:19 – Should You Mention Domestic Violence in Family Court?
Legal perspectives on disclosure and protection.

25:50 – Spousal Maintenance: Know When and How to Ask
Why it's often overlooked—and how to advocate for yourself.

26:43 – Myth Busting: Are Addbacks Still Used in Property Settlements?
Clarifying a misunderstood financial concept in family law.

28:57 – Myth #5: "Superannuation Must Be Split 50/50"
Exploring how super splitting really works under Australian law.

32:16 – How to Educate Yourself and Work Better with Your Lawyer
Tips for being informed, assertive, and legally empowered.

35:32 – Final Thoughts and How to Enrol in the Divorce Course
Practical next steps and how to get more support.

41:53 – Listener Reviews and Community Shoutouts
Sharing your feedback and how to get involved.

Resources

Central Practice Directions

https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/pd/fam-cpd

Free Disclosure Checklist

https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist

Episode Links

Superannuation and Equalising super https://youtu.be/2BQEHmIwjio?si=kWg9F8c8rh4X8HqB

🚨 Support Services:

• 1800 RESPECT (Family Violence Support – Australia)
  
  

• Lifeline: 13 11 14 (Crisis Support – Australia)

📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances.

• You've been offered child inclusive mediation and don't know what to expect
  
  

• You're worried about how separation is affecting your child
  
  

• You're in a high-conflict co-parenting situation or dealing with coercive control
  
  

• You've been told that involving your child in mediation will "help"
  
  

• You want to make informed, child-centered decisions in your family law journey

 📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances. This discussion is based in Australia.

In this powerful episode, Mum and I dive into a topic that's being promoted more and more in family law: Child Inclusive Mediation. On the surface, it sounds like a child-focused solution. But is it really in the best interest of your child?

We break down what child inclusive mediation actually involves, why it's not always as neutral or helpful as it's made out to be, and the serious emotional and legal implications it can have especially in high-conflict separations or situations involving coercive control.

From personal reflections to legal insights, we share why we're concerned about this process and what you need to consider before agreeing to include your child in any mediation setting.

What You'll Learn

• What child inclusive mediation really means in practice
  
  

• The difference between therapeutic support vs. pressure on children to speak up
  
  

• When this process might backfire emotionally or legally
  
  

• Why family reports may be a safer and more protective alternative
  
  

• Red flags and questions to ask before you say yes
  
  

⏱️ Episode Timeline: Is Child Inclusive Mediation Helpful or Harmful?

00:00 – Introduction: What Is Child Inclusive Mediation?
An overview of this growing mediation trend in family law and why it's controversial.

01:29 – How the Mediation Process Works in Parenting Disputes
Understanding how mediation fits into separation and custody discussions.

03:44 – Defining Child Inclusive Mediation in Australian Family Law
Breaking down what actually happens when children are included in mediation.

05:52 – The Risks and Red Flags of Child Inclusive Mediation
Emotional pressure, manipulation, and when this process may do more harm than good.

08:00 – Confidentiality Issues and the Emotional Toll on Children
What children are told, how their information is used, and the psychological impact.

13:42 – The Problem with Over-Interviewing Children in Family Law
Why repeated interviews can traumatize kids and undermine the process.

20:00 – Real Concerns About Child Inclusive Mediation in Practice
Legal and ethical questions raised by lawyers, parents, and professionals.

21:07 – How Child Inclusive Mediation Affects Older Children
Teen-specific concerns, autonomy, and the danger of putting kids in the middle.

23:42 – Family Reports vs. Child Inclusive Mediation
A safer alternative? What to expect from a court-ordered family report.

24:41 – DIY Divorce Blueprint: Free Resource Mentioned
How to get practical tools to guide you through separation and co-parenting.

28:27 – Key Questions to Ask Before Agreeing to Child Inclusive Mediation
What to consider if this process has been suggested to you.

32:49 – Final Thoughts: Protecting Your Child's Voice and Mental Health
Wrapping up with a parent-first, child-protective perspective.

Resources

Central Practice Directions

https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl/pd/fam-cpd

Free Disclosure Checklist

https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist

🚨 Support Services:

• 1800 RESPECT (Family Violence Support – Australia)
  
  

• Lifeline: 13 11 14 (Crisis Support – Australia)

📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek your own legal support for your specific circumstances.

🎧 Listen to This Episode If…

👩‍👧 You're in a custody dispute and want to show the court you're the primary carer

⚖️ You're unsure what "primary carer" really means under family law

📚 You need to know what kind of evidence proves you've been the day-to-day parent

😟 You're worried your ex is twisting the truth about who cares for the kids

📝 You want practical tips on documenting your role as the main caregiver

🏛️ You're preparing for mediation or family court and want to feel more confident

💡 You want to understand how judges assess who the primary carer is

⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses family and domestic violence, coercive control, and financial abuse.
📌 Legal Disclaimer: This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice. Please seek independent advice for your specific situation.

primary carer. What does it actually mean? How do courts define it? Why does it matter so much in custody battles and interim hearings? And most importantly, how can you prove you've been the primary carer if your ex tries to rewrite history?

We unpack the recent changes in family law in Australia, the shift away from the old 50/50 presumption, and why the courts now focus on the best interests of the children over parental entitlement. Along the way, we share practical examples, strategies for gathering evidence, and insights into how controlling or manipulative ex-partners sometimes exploit this concept.

Whether you're negotiating custody in mediation, preparing for court, or simply trying to understand your rights, this episode is for you.

• 00:00 – What does "primary carer" mean in divorce and custody cases?

• 02:08 – How do courts define the role of a primary carer in family law?

• 03:46 – What changes in family law affect interim parenting orders?

• 06:50 – How do judges decide the "best interests of the children"?

• 16:07 – How can you prove you are the primary carer in custody disputes?

• 23:13 – What practical steps help parents show primary carer status?

• 23:37 – When should you seek legal or psychological support in custody battles?

• 23:48 – How do you handle high-conflict separations in family court?

• 24:07 – What role do parenting plans play in custody and court proceedings?

• 25:38 – How does family violence impact child custody decisions?

• 28:01 – Do grandparents and babysitters count in proving primary carer status?

• 30:29 – What is the "first right of refusal" in custody arrangements?

• 34:39 – What evidence do you need to prove you're the main carer for your children?

• 41:59 – Final thoughts and encouragement for parents in custody cases
  
  

• Cowlings Case : https://www.austlii.edu.au/au/journals/FedJSchol/2002/2.pdf

• The Purple Book https://domesticviolence.com.au/resources/the-purple-book/

• Family Law Changes episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/4nPB5tKDwMC95G9IrFXGSq?si=SeyXIoDDRN-MJy4Q513WAQ

• Family Law Act Australia Definition of Family Violence https://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s4ab.html

• Family Law Act Section 61DAB https://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s61dab.html

• Safeguarding against unfair accusations in Family Court Custody Battles https://open.spotify.com/episode/2vgyr4S8LWECnqspEfrdij?si=-oZRAP06S7yTNGVxHyV4GQ

• Enrol now: The Divorce Course https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol

💜 1800 RESPECT – Domestic and Family Violence Support
📞 Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7 Crisis Support)
⚖️ Legal Aid – Visit your state's Legal Aid website
👧 Kids Helpline – 1800 55 1800

Feeling lost and overwhelmed in the divorce or de facto separation process? In this episode, we've got you covered with nine invaluable tips that you can put into action today. Gain the clarity and breathing space you need to confront your divorce head-on with essential family law legal tips and crucial mental health strategies.

Learn how to set achievable goals, decode intimidating legal letters, select the perfect lawyer, and prioritise your mental well-being. Discover the power of taking control of your situation, making well-informed choices, and finding moments of self-care amid the chaos. 

Whether you're facing a divorce or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen for insights that can make a significant difference during this life-changing journey.

Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

Legal and Emotional Wellness in Divorce: 9 Expert Tips to Guide You

Don't miss out on the answers to these questions:

• How to stop feeling overwhelmed during divorce?

• Why is reading legal letters so stressful in divorce?

• What are red herrings in divorce paperwork and negotiations?

• Ways to recognize and avoid red herrings during divorce.

• Managing financial stress and legal matters during a divorce.

• Finding the right lawyer for your divorce – Does personality matter?

• Is an aggressive lawyer worth the cost in a divorce?

• Importance of self-care in reducing stress during a divorce.

• Proactive steps for better mental health during divorce.

• Why are health check-ups crucial during a divorce?

• How to set achievable goals during a divorce?

• What strategies can help make reading legal letters less intimidating?

• Why is choosing the right lawyer essential for a smooth divorce process?

• How to create a divorce plan A and plan B for better decision-making?

• What does it mean to get your 'head out of the sand' during divorce?

• Why is finding a lawyer who shares your ethics important?

• How can one maintain composure and a level head during a divorce battle?

• Why prioritise mental health when going through a divorce?

• Importance of weekly self-care routines during divorce.

Tune in now to transform your daunting divorce journey into a manageable one!

Episodes mentioned:

• "Do I really need to respond to that?! When co-parenting communication becomes tricky during divorce proceedings."

Useful Resources:

Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE

Click here for our free before you leave checklist 

Click here for our free mediation checklist

Sign up here for our next free online webinar

Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course

Emergency Contacts:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Don't forget to hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on our upcoming practical steps and guidance for your divorce or de facto separation. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review to help others. Thank you.

Please note that this podcast provides general education only and is not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice, as every situation is different.

The last thing anyone really wants in their divorce is the thought of going to court. The cost, the worry and the work involved is enough to put anyone off. So in this episode we are going to guide you through the ways you can stay out of court for your propery settlement, or childrens arrangements and custody issues. Explore possible ways you can get your negotiations and agreements sorted without taking a step into a court room or leaving it all up to a judge. 

If you are feeling overwhelmed by even thinking about starting the process this is a good start for you. If you are headed to court and want to stop it, this episode is also for you. If you just want to know what your options are before you take that next step this episode is for you. 

It's time to take control of your new future. It's time to educate, empower and equip yourself so you are in the driving seat of your divorce process. 

How to avoid going to family court: property, children's matters during your divorce

Questions you wont want to miss out on

1. What are the options for avoiding court when it comes to property settlement?
2. What are the two primary methods for property settlement without going to court?
3. How do financial agreements work for property settlement?
4. What is the significance of consent orders in property settlement?
5. What is arbitration and its role in property matters?
6. How can parents avoid going to court for parenting arrangements?
7. What is a parenting plan, and how does it differ from consent orders?
8. Can informal parenting agreements work effectively without legal documentation?
9. How can you avoid going to court when dealing with the divorce process?
10. What's the difference between a divorce application and other family law matters?
11. When is it advisable to lock in a parenting plan or consent orders?
12. Are there cases where financial motivations impact parenting arrangements?
13. How do you enforce parenting arrangements when outlined in a consent order?
14. What is an overview of the divorce process for de facto couples?
15. What's the difference between a parenting plan and consent orders in terms of enforceability?
16. How do you draft consent orders that the court recognizes?
17. What is the role of mediation in avoiding court for parenting arrangements?
18. Can you avoid going to court for divorce if you don't have children?
19. What is the significance of the 12-month separation requirement for divorce in Australia?
20. How long does it typically take to get your official divorce documents after the court hearing?
21. Can you avoid going to court if you have a parenting plan and are happy with the arrangements?
22. Why might someone want to shorten the time it takes for their divorce to become final?
23. What are the legal grounds for divorce in Australia?
24. Is there official paperwork for de facto couples who want to separate?

Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE

Click here for our free before you leave checklist 

Click here for our free mediation checklist

Sign up here for our next free online webinar

Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. 

Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

Learn about the new updates to the course based on the changes happening in the FCFCOA Family Court of Australia. We dive deep into a game-changing resource for anyone facing the challenges of divorce. We introduce you to the "DIY Divorce Blueprint," a comprehensive course designed to empower, educate, and equip you with the legal know-how and tools needed to navigate your divorce journey confidently.

Discover the course's unique features, real success stories, and the benefits of taking control of your divorce process. From creating property orders to settling parenting agreements and attending mediation, this course provides a roadmap to a better life post-divorce.

Join us as we explore the course modules, insights from current members, and the incredible value it offers. Don't miss the opportunity to take control of your divorce journey with the "DIY Divorce Blueprint."

Enrol now and empower yourself to navigate divorce confidently while saving money and your sanity.

BONUS EPISODE: NEW UPDATES IN THE FAMILY COURT FOR THE DIVORCE PROCESS AND NEW UPDATES IN OUR DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT

Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE

Click here for our free before you leave checklist 

Click here for our free mediation checklist

Sign up here for our next free online webinar

Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. 

Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

Are you currently navigating a challenging divorce situation, dealing with an ex-partner who seems like a special case? Worried it might be game over before you've even had a chance to get what is fair? Well in this episode we will walk you through 9 scenarios that are commonly worried about during divorce.  

• Asset Concealment and Non-Disclosure: What to do when your ex is hiding assets.

• High-Conflict Exes: Strategies for managing highly contentious situations.

• Claims of Total Ownership: How to handle an ex who insists they're entitled to everything.

• Short De Facto Relationships: Navigating divorces in shorter-term relationships.

• Complex Trusts and Business Entities: Deciphering the complexities when assets are tangled in trusts and businesses.

• Honey Traps and Coercive Control: Escaping manipulative, controlling situations.

• Narcissistic Exes: Strategies for dealing with classic narcissistic behaviour in divorce proceedings.

• Ex's that you are worried will outsmart you in the end

• Wealthy and Powerful Exes: Understanding your rights when your ex holds the financial power.

Listen to this episode to alleviate some of that worry as you get educated on the power of the family court and the power within yourself. 

Uncover the secrets, tips, and strategies for each of these scenarios. We promise you'll leave feeling a lot better about your situation. Discover what steps to take next. Hit that play button and empower yourself to thrive amidst the challenges of divorce.

Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

You Don't Want to Miss Out On

1. What do you do if your ex's family has money, and you can't afford a lawyer?

2. What are dollar-for-dollar orders in the context of legal fees?

3. How can you deal with a situation where your ex is financially controlling you?

4. What happens if your ex has put all assets into trusts and legal entities?

5. Is a short de facto relationship entitled to a property settlement?

6. What should you do if your ex insists that you're not entitled to anything?

7. How do you handle a high-conflict or narcissistic ex in legal proceedings?

8. What are some common reasons people give for avoiding divorce proceedings?

9. What happens when one party wants to move on with their life, but the other party is dragging their feet?

10. How can you handle situations where one party is trying to delay or stall the divorce process?

11. Is it a good idea to use delay tactics in divorce proceedings?

12. How can you protect yourself from financial harm when going through a divorce?

13. What can you do if you're concerned about your ex-spouse selling or transferring assets during the divorce?

14. How do you navigate divorce when one party is emotionally volatile and prone to arguments?

15. What should you do if your ex-spouse is refusing to cooperate with the divorce process?

16. Are there consequences for arguing during divorce proceedings?

17. How can you ensure that your divorce proceedings have an adjudicator and move forward efficiently?

18. What if your ex-spouse is hiding assets, being sneaky, or telling lies during the divorce?

19. Can you find out if someone is hiding assets without them disclosing it?

20. How do you deal with someone who is sneaky and manipulative during divorce proceedings?

21. What if they won't cooperate or disclose financial information?

22. How can you address the issue if your ex is a narcissist?

23. Is it a bad idea to get lawyers involved if you're afraid of negative consequences?

24. What if one party claims that you're not entitled to anything or that it was only a short de facto relationship?

 Balancing the Unbalanced: Navigating Divorce When the Scales Seem Tilted

Podcast Mentioned in this Episode

Financial Fairness During Divorce: A How to Guide for Spousal Maintenance & Child Support

DIVORCE ON A BUDGET: How to negotiate, mediate and go to court on a shoestring

DIY Divorce Disclosure and Discovery, for property settlement & child support

The Narcissist Playbook in Divorce

Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE

Click here for our free before you leave checklist 

Click here for our free mediation checklist

Sign up here for our next free online webinar

Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. 

Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.

We're pulling back the curtain on the financial costs of divorce or de facto separation, helping you understand the complexities that often baffle many. Whilst it might be a topic no one wants to hear about, it could very well be the one topic you'd wish you were across when you get your legal bill at the end of your divorce proceedings.

Join us as we demystify the fearsome realm of legal fees. We will address your common fears associated with hiring a lawyer, offering insights into trust accounts and the importance of transparency. Ever heard of drafting charges, reading fees, or the staggering costs of court proceedings? We break that all down for you also.

By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with 6 simple hacks that will help you keep your legal costs down. Arm yourself with knowledge, making confident decisions as you navigate this pivotal moment in your life.

Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

Divorce Budgeting 101: Understanding Legal Fees & Six Simple Saving Strategies

You Don't Want to Miss Out On

1. What factors contribute to the varying costs associated with legal services in family law?

2. How can you proactively inquire about the fees during your initial consultation with a lawyer?

3. Can you elaborate on the concept of trust accounts and their significance in legal transactions?

4. In what ways can you effectively dispute legal fees that seem unreasonable or unexpected?

5. What are the practical steps for you to manage legal costs, especially concerning documentation and administrative expenses?

6. When faced with unexpected charges, how can you address discrepancies in your legal bills?

7. What strategies can you employ to question specific charges and gain a clear understanding of your legal fees?

8. How can you dispute fees if you believe you are being overcharged, ensuring a fair resolution?

9. Amidst legal complexities, how can you navigate the intricacies of legal fees, especially when scale costs are involved?

10. How can you assess the value of legal services based on hourly rates and scale costs, ensuring transparency and fairness?

11. How can you leverage online resources to compare scale costs and the charges quoted by your legal representatives?

12. In transitioning to a paperless office, what benefits can you expect in terms of reduced costs, especially related to photocopying expenses?

13. What strategies can you implement to minimise photocopying costs, ensuring efficient use of resources during legal proceedings?

Resource Mentioned in this episode 

FCFCOA Website Costs Information

Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE

Click here for our free before you leave checklist 

Click here for our free mediation checklist

Sign up here for our next free online webinar

Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. 

Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

Have you got concerns about starting or current property settlement in your divorce? Are you concerned about the cost of consulting a lawyer? Worried that pursuing property settlement might disrupt your peace? Anxious about your ex having a savvy legal team? Concerned about how others might perceive you during this process?

We discuss all these apprehensions and more, offering practical tips and guidance to help you navigate property settlement with confidence. Our goal is to ensure you get a fair outcome without the stress of these worries looming over you or you just giving up on it altogether.

Tune in to gain valuable knowledge and empower yourself during this challenging time. Don't let these concerns hold you back from achieving a just property settlement. Listen now to find the solutions you need to address your worries and secure what's rightfully yours.

In this episode, we delve into the top seven worries people commonly have about divorce property settlement. Join us as we explore these concerns and provide valuable insights on how to address them.

Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

Your Top 7 Property Settlement Concerns During Divorce: How to Address Them

You Don't Want to Miss Out On

• "What do you say to people who claim that their ex is too smart or has hired an expensive lawyer, making the fight for a fair settlement too difficult?"

• "How do you address concerns that the ex-spouse is manipulative, sneaky, or dishonest, making the divorce process not worth the effort?"

• "What advice do you have for individuals who think it's not worth pursuing consent orders for property when they believe they have very little to divide?"

• "How can you assure someone who wants to prioritize peace for the sake of the children that pursuing a property settlement won't lead to unnecessary conflict?"

• "What should someone consider when they're afraid of the potential cost of divorce and would rather spend that money elsewhere?"

• "How do you respond to individuals who have seen others go through amicable divorces and feel embarrassed or ashamed to confront a more challenging situation?"

• "Can you provide guidance on handling a divorce situation when you feel overwhelmed by the comparisons with other people's experiences?"

• "What steps can someone take to protect their legal rights in a divorce, especially when dealing with a manipulative or controlling ex-spouse?"

• "How important is privacy when going through a divorce, and how can one balance personal privacy with seeking support and advice?"

• "Are there specific strategies for maintaining effective communication with an ex-spouse during a divorce, even if it's expected to be high-conflict?"

• "What considerations should someone keep in mind when deciding whether or not to pursue a divorce?"

• "How can individuals ensure they make informed decisions and navigate the divorce process effectively?"

• "Can you explain the importance of seeking professional guidance and support when going through a divorce?"

• "What are the potential risks of comparing one's divorce situation to others, and how can one avoid feeling pressured to conform to someone else's experience?"

• What do you say to someone who feels overwhelmed and ashamed because they believe their ex is smarter or more cunning in the divorce process?"

• "How can you encourage individuals to seek legal help when they fear that their ex-spouse will make the divorce difficult?"

• "What advice would you give to someone who thinks their case isn't worth pursuing because they believe there are minimal assets to divide?"

• "How important is it to maintain one's privacy during a divorce, especially when dealing with a manipulative or controlling ex-spouse?"

• "Can you explain why it's essential for people not to be embarrassed or ashamed if their divorce experience isn't as amicable as others?"

• "What steps can someone take to regain a sense of control and power when they've been guilted or shamed into giving up in their divorce?"

• "How can individuals ensure they make informed decisions and navigate the divorce process effectively, even when they're feeling overwhelmed?"

• "What's the significance of taking action in a divorce rather than procrastinating and avoiding it?"

• "Can you elaborate on why comparing one's divorce situation to others can be misleading and unhelpful?"

• "What are some strategies for maintaining peace and effective communication with an ex-spouse during a potentially high-conflict divorce?"

• "How do you address the concern that it's not worth pursuing a divorce due to a busy life, especially when dealing with kids and work responsibilities?"

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If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. 

Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

Are you on the verge of selecting a family lawyer for your divorce, property settlement, or child custody concerns? Worried about the looming spectre of a colossal legal bill? Tune in as we unravel the answers to the most frequently asked questions about the art of choosing and collaborating with a divorce attorney or family lawyer.

Discover under-the-radar, yet incredibly effective, strategies for engaging with a lawyer that can potentially save you thousands in legal fees. Unlock the secrets of what to inquire when seeking the perfect lawyer and delve into the myriad of approaches you can adopt with your legal counsel, tailored precisely to suit your unique needs and circumstances. 

Empower yourself with a deep understanding of how lawyers operate and what to anticipate. Step into that legal office or pick up that phone with unwavering confidence. This episode might just be the game-changer you need to make informed decisions early on, securing a brighter outcome for your divorce, your finances, and your legal expenses.

Please note this is general education only, this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different. 

Three ways to choose and use your family lawyer (that you probably haven't heard of.) 

You Don't Want to Miss Out On

• How do you choose a lawyer for your divorce or separation?

• What are the different ways to use a lawyer in divorce proceedings?

• What is the "first class approach" to using a lawyer in divorce, and what are its drawbacks?

• How can being educated about family law and the legal process help you in your divorce journey?

• What are some common misconceptions people have about lawyers and divorce?

• How can taking a step-in, step-out approach with your lawyer benefit you in divorce proceedings?

• What role does mediation play in divorce, and why is it important to be aware of this process?

• How can understanding the stages and steps of divorce proceedings reduce stress and uncertainty?

• What are the potential pitfalls of not sharing important information with your lawyer during divorce?

• How can being proactive and informed about your divorce process lead to a smoother and less stressful experience?

• How can you use a lawyer in a divorce case without spending a fortune?

• What are the different ways to involve a lawyer in your divorce process?

• How can having a lawyer for a "legal look" benefit you in a divorce case?

• What is the significance of understanding the legal process in a divorce case?

• Why is it important to have a lawyer review any documents before you sign them in a divorce?

• How can understanding the Family Law Act help you navigate your divorce more effectively?

• What is Section 102 NA of the Family Law Act, and how can it help victims of domestic violence in divorce cases?

• Why is it crucial to be smart about using lawyers in divorce, especially in terms of costs

Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR FREE DISCLOSURE CHECKLIST GUIDE

Click here for our free before you leave checklist 

Click here for our free mediation checklist

Sign up here for our next free online webinar

Waitlist for our self represent in the family court course

Episodes Mentioned in this episode- Link to listen below

Can't afford a lawyer? Seven top tips to follow for children's or property settlement in the family law court

Choosing a Family Lawyer & the Red Flags not to ignore

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

• WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE 

• LEGAL AID

• Lifeline 13 11 14

• Mensline Australia 1300 789 978

• Kids Help Line 1800 551 800

• Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123

• Relationships Australia 

• Police on 000

• DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill

• DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636

• National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don't miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you've found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you. 

Please note this is general education only this is not legal advice. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.