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Welcome to another episode of "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that brings you practical advice and inspiring conversations to help you become a better and more confident communicator. I’m your host, Tim Newman, and today we have an exceptional guest with us, Chris Fenning. Chris is an accomplished engineer, rocket scientist, and an award-winning author known for his expertise in clear communication. Whether you're looking to enhance your public speaking skills, improve your day-to-day workplace interactions, or write more effective emails, this episode is packed with actionable tips and insights.

Our guest for today, Chris Fenning, has navigated through multiple industries and countries, bringing a wealth of experience in both technical fields and communication. From being a rocket scientist to an expert in communication, Chris has authored several award-winning books, including "The First Minute," which focuses on the importance of being clear and concise in communication. His practical frameworks and experiences provide a unique perspective on overcoming fears and mastering the art of effective communication.

In this episode, we dive deep into various aspects of communication—both verbal and written. Chris shares his personal journey of overcoming public speaking anxiety and the transformation he underwent to become a confident communicator. We discuss the role of scheduling theory and project management in planning events and the significance of clear communication in this context. Chris introduces valuable frameworks like Context, Intent, and Key Message, as well as Goal, Problem, Solution (GPS), to help you frame your messages effectively. We also touch on the psychological reasons behind excessive information sharing and how to overcome them. Lastly, we emphasize the critical role of active listening and provide tips for writing impactful emails.

Key Takeaways

1. Framing Your Communication:
   • Chris emphasizes the importance of framing in communication. The Context, Intent, and Key Message framework is a powerful tool to ensure your message is clear and relevant to the audience. For instance, in job interviews, compressing complex information into a succinct answer can make a significant impact.
2. Overcoming Public Speaking Anxiety:
   • Chris shares his personal fears of public speaking and creating videos. By setting a challenge for himself to create 101-minute videos, he practiced consistently and eventually overcame his fears. Repetition and practice in small steps are key to becoming a confident speaker.
3. Effective Written Communication:
   • Understanding how people read large bodies of text is crucial. Chris mentions that people often read in an "f" shape, focusing on the first line and skimming downward. To make emails more effective, use informative subject lines, repeat the topic and purpose, and label questions clearly.
4. Balancing Team Dynamics and Communication:
   • Effective communication is not just about individual performance but also about how well team members coordinate and cooperate. Tim shares insights from his experience in the sports industry, emphasizing the interconnectedness of different departments and the need for effective interdepartmental communication.

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Welcome back to another episode of "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast dedicated to helping you conquer public speaking anxieties and find your voice. In today's episode, our host Tim Newman sits down with Scott Allan, confidence coach, author, and mindset strategist who has transformed his own life by embracing failures and translating them into opportunities for growth. We'll discuss overcoming imposter syndrome, the philosophy of "failing big," and actionable strategies to keep procrastination at bay, equipping you with the tools to take ownership of your career and personal development.

Scott Allan is a celebrated author whose works have been published in 16 languages, helping thousands of readers overcome self-doubt and cultivate a mindset geared toward success. With over 10,000 hours invested in confidence development and mindset mastery training, Scott brings a wealth of experience and practical wisdom to our discussion. He also runs websites like scottallenbooks.com and scottallenpublishing.com, where you can find his latest publications and resources aimed at personal growth.

In this episode, Tim and Scott cover a wide range of topics central to personal and professional development. They begin with a deep dive into imposter syndrome, exploring how it affects young professionals and the importance of recognizing that everyone is hired for a reason. Scott candidly shares his own struggles and triumphs, recounting his experiences with career challenges, massive failures, and the incredible value of learning from mistakes. 

Key Takeaways:

1. Embrace Imposter Syndrome: Imposter syndrome often stems from a deeply ingrained fear of failure and feeling unqualified. It's important to remember that if you were chosen for a job or an opportunity, there’s a reason behind it. Acknowledge your capabilities and embrace the chance to share your input.

2. Fail Big and Learn: Failure should be viewed not as a setback, but an essential part of the learning process. Scott’s narrative about the million-dollar mistake and his own costly work error underscored the importance of facing failures head-on, learning from them, and moving forward with greater awareness and preparedness.

3. Intentional Action Over Habit Building: Overcoming procrastination is rooted in taking small, intentional actions daily rather than focusing on building habits. By making decisive moves and celebrating small wins, you gradually build confidence and trust in your capabilities.

4. Shift Your Mindset: Adopting a positive mindset can significantly alter the way you approach challenges and opportunities. Scott’s transformation from a negative to a positive outlook, reinforced by reading, listening to motivational content, and turning his apartment into a vision board, propelled him toward achieving his goals abroad.

5. Be Authentic and Vulnerable: Authenticity and honesty in communication, especially in public speaking, can alleviate pressures to impress and control outcomes. Scott emphasizes that people rarely think about your performance as much as you do, and being genuine can help in navigating fears of rejection and judgment.

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Ever wondered what it takes to captivate an audience, whether it's in a lecture hall or on a sports field? Join me, Tim Newman, as I sit down with Dr. Matt Blaska, an associate professor and chairperson at Indiana State University with a flair for public speaking. Together, we navigate the path from anxious speaker to confident communicator, dissecting the nuances of assertive communication and the power of a commanding presence. Matt's tales of triumphs and tribulations are not only relatable but also packed with actionable insights that promise to elevate your own public speaking game.

Matt's journey through an internship at Lehigh University Athletics sheds light on the critical aspects of email correspondence and relationship building—skills that are transferable to any professional domain. Whether you're mentoring up-and-comers or engaging with seasoned donors, the lessons learned in the trenches of athletic programs are universally applicable.

The episode culminates with a rich discussion about the significance of thorough preparation and the art of adaptability, be it for major conferences or leadership transitions. We'll also touch on the upcoming launch of the Speaking with Confidence community's Formula for Public Speaking, set to revolutionize how we approach this essential skill. So, if you're ready to embrace your missteps, communicate more effectively, and find your authentic voice, this conversation is an essential listen. Your voice has the power to initiate change—let's harness it together.

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Have you ever wondered what it takes to command the room during a high-stakes business meeting? Jennifer Bridwell, a trailblazer in the banking world, joins us to reveal how she navigates the intricate dance of communication in the face of demanding leadership roles. With Jennifer's stories of transformation through public speaking, this episode is a treasure trove for anyone looking to bolster their own communication skills, whether in the boardroom or at the dinner table.

In the constantly evolving world of banking, Jennifer and I dissect the changing roles of women and the power of a well-crafted message. The art of persuasion and clarity in conveying complex banking concepts becomes our playground as we share anecdotes and strategies that will sharpen your ability to engage any audience. We then pivot to the heart of leadership, discussing how empowerment and mentorship can foster not only professional growth but also personal fulfillment.

Wrapping up, we explore the balance of giving back to the community while juggling a demanding career and family life, a challenge many of us grapple with. And for a bit of levity, I recount an unexpected Family Feud escapade, proving that public speaking skills can come in handy in the most unexpected moments. This episode is more than just a conversation; it's a call to action to use your voice to make an impact and navigate your own journey toward excellence.

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They say the mark of a true leader not only lies in their vision but in their ability to convey that vision with unwavering conviction. This is the very essence we unravel in our latest episode, where the art of public speaking becomes a beacon for personal and professional triumph. Join me, Tim Newman, alongside the insightful Dr. Chris Hobbs, as we share anecdotes and strategies from our journeys in mastering the spoken word. From the meticulous preparations of Steve Jobs to the seamless adaptability required in diverse professional landscapes, this session is a treasure trove for anyone eager to command the room and leave a lasting impact.

How does a leader foster a culture that reveres transparency and forgiveness? We tackle this with a candid look at the communication strategies that not only inspire but cultivate growth within a team. Dr. Hobbs, with his rich background, offers a unique perspective on the intersection of communication skills and leadership, especially when guiding teams spread across different locations. This episode isn't just about speaking with confidence; it's about the transformative power of being other-centered and the courageous mentorship that propels emerging professionals into realms of unexpected greatness.

As our conversation progresses, we pay homage to the indomitable spirit of Coach Mike Show, whose legacy of persistence resonates through the lives he touched. Our discussion transcends the mechanics of public speaking to embrace the holistic development of leaders. Whether it's embracing the evolution of personal priorities or meticulously preparing to captivate an audience, this episode is a testament to the profound influence of effective communication in leadership and life. So, if you're ready to refine your oratorical skills and lead with an impact, let this episode be the catalyst for your journey to speaking with confidence.

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Welcome to "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that's here to help you unlock the power of effective public speaking. I'm your host, Tim Newman, and I'm excited to take you on a journey to becoming a better public speaker.

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Unlock the secrets to captivating your audience and transforming your presentations in our latest episode of Speaking with Confidence. Visual storytelling guru Emily Schneider joins us to share her journey from creating a Sweet 16 invitation to becoming a leading expert in presentation design and marketing. Learn how she turns complex information into visually compelling stories, and discover her powerful "less is more" strategy. Get ready to simplify your slides, choose impactful colors and fonts, and maintain your audience's focus with Emily's insider tips.

Discover how to make your presentations unforgettable by focusing on visual consistency and strategic design. Emily explains why maintaining a simple, consistent look across your slides can dramatically enhance information retention. She shares practical exercises that guide you in cutting down unnecessary content, ensuring your visuals support rather than distract from your message. By emphasizing key messages and using visuals effectively, you will leave a lasting impression on your audience.

From mastering animations to the strategic use of colors, Emily covers all the essentials for elevating your presentation game. Plus, explore the role of AI tools like ChatGPT in content creation while keeping your unique voice. Emily's insights on understanding your audience and designing with clear intent will empower you to make your presentations more engaging. Don’t miss her downloadable guide with top tips, available on our website, and join our community for more resources to boost your public speaking confidence.

1. Good Slide Design is Essential: Effective slide design keeps the audience engaged and aids memory retention. Bad design stands out negatively, while good design is subtle, enhancing the presenter's delivery and the overall message.

2. Consistency and Visuals Matter: Our brains retain significantly more information through visual design (65%) compared to purely content-based information (10-20%). Emily shares tips for maintaining visual consistency such as using uniform fonts, bullet treatments, logo placement, and color schemes.

3. *Less is More" with Animations: Overwhelming presentations with excessive animations can be distracting. Emily and Tim both advocate for strategic use of animations to highlight specific points and suggest simple transitions to maintain engagement without overpowering the content.

4. Simplicity and Color Usage: Simplifying slides by minimizing text and using visuals can create a stronger connection with the audience. Effective use of color, with 2 to 3 varied shades, enhances readability and interest, while caution is advised against overwhelming use of colors.

5. Importance of Storytelling: Presentations should focus on telling a compelling story rather than conveying a plethora of facts. People are more likely to remember stories, and simplicity helps maintain this narrative, making it easier for the audience to connect and retain the information.

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Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that empowers you to become a better public speaker by unlocking the potential of effective communication. In today's episode, our host Tim Newman sits down with the incredible Sara Lohse. Sara, the owner of Favorite Daughter Media and the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders," joins us to dive deep into the art and science of storytelling. Together, they explore the importance of sharing personal stories, the power of authenticity, and how embracing vulnerability can create meaningful human connections.

Sara Lohse is an acclaimed storyteller, thought leader, and the visionary behind Favorite Daughter Media. She is also the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders." Sara joins us to share her insights on the value of personal storytelling and how it can transform both personal and professional communication. Her expertise in marketing and her candid experiences make her the perfect guide for anyone looking to improve their storytelling skills.

In this episode, Tim Newman and Sara Lohse have an in-depth conversation about the multifaceted nature of storytelling. They discuss the significance of sharing personal stories and the impact it can have on both the storyteller and the audience. Sara highlights key elements from her book and offers practical tips on crafting compelling narratives. The conversation also touches on overcoming impostor syndrome, the role of authenticity in leadership, and the balance between striving for success and maintaining personal happiness. Sara shares her own experiences, including dealing with ADHD and the challenges of staying true to oneself in a professional setting. Tim and Sara emphasize the importance of relatability in storytelling and the necessity for businesses to innovate and adapt.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Power of Personal Stories: Sara stresses that personal stories hold immense power in connecting with others. These stories don’t need to be grand or headline-worthy; even everyday experiences can hold valuable lessons and resonate deeply with audiences.

2. Authenticity and Vulnerability: Both Tim and Sara emphasize the significance of being authentic and embracing vulnerability. Whether in personal or professional settings, sharing failures and mistakes rather than just highlight reels can help build genuine connections.

3. Overcoming Impostor Syndrome: The discussion addresses the common issue of impostor syndrome and the cultural reluctance to celebrate personal achievements. Sara advises that it's crucial to acknowledge and own one's accomplishments to foster a healthier self-image.

4. Crafting Compelling Stories: Practical storytelling tips from Sara include having a compelling and unexpected ending, crafting stories to fit different environments, and using a hook at the beginning to capture the audience’s attention. She also discusses how knowing the ending upfront helps her given her ADHD.

5. Value of Support Systems: The episode underscores the importance of having family, friends, and colleagues as support systems. Tim and Sara talk about the need for kindness towards oneself, having a network of cheerleaders, and prioritizing happiness and relationships alongside professional success.

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Welcome back to Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that's here to help you unlock the power of effective public speaking. Today, we have the incredible Roberta Ndlela as our guest. With 15 years of corporate business experience in South Africa, Roberta shares her journey and the invaluable lessons she has learned about communication, leadership, and embracing imperfection.

In this episode, we'll dive into the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and the importance of considering others' perspectives. We'll also explore the shift from one-way communication to a more inclusive approach in marketing, leadership, and personal relationships. Roberta's insights from hosting over 200 podcast episodes shed light on the power of storytelling, authenticity, and the need for human connection.

Tim and Roberta discuss the crucial role of soft skills, the impact of technology on communication, and the challenges of bridging the gap between young professionals and corporate formality. Roberta also opens up about navigating cultural differences and language barriers in the workplace and the significance of understanding others' perspectives to resolve conflicts.

Join us as we uncover actionable advice for effective communication, share humorous anecdotes, and emphasize the Platinum Rule—communicating with people the way they prefer. Whether you're looking to improve your public speaking skills, enhance your leadership, or build better relationships, this episode is packed with insights you won't want to miss. Tune in and start your journey toward speaking with confidence!

Key Takeaways:

1. Ask and Listen: Always ask questions and listen to the individual's needs before offering help or solutions. This principle is vital in personal relationships, business communication, and customer service.

2. Embrace Imperfection: Making mistakes is part of the communication journey. Authenticity and sincerity can often leave a more lasting impact than flawlessness in public speaking.

3. Importance of Soft Skills: Soft skills such as empathy, listening, and adaptability are crucial in managing a diversified workforce and enhancing team dynamics in various professional settings.

4. Platinum Rule in Communication: Communicate with others as they wish to be communicated with, rather than adopting a one-size-fits-all approach. This tailored communication fosters better relationships and understanding.

5. Bridging Generational Gaps: Leaders should be open to innovative ideas from young professionals and consider having young mentors. This mutual exchange can mitigate the challenges posed by the intersection of casual and formal communication styles in the workplace.

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Unlock the secrets of becoming a confident public speaker with insights from Drew Jackson, a seasoned coach who has transformed communication strategies for companies like Chick-fil-A and Habitat for Humanity. Drew shares his expertise on iterative improvement and the role of AI in refining your communication skills. Together, we explore how AI can serve as a powerful editorial tool to enhance tone, clarity, and purpose while also offering practical tips to boost your interactions with peers, employers, and family members.

Ever wondered how to navigate different communication styles for better connections? Discover the DISC framework, a powerful tool for understanding and adapting to various behavior patterns. Learn the art of treating people how they want to be treated to build stronger relationships, both personally and professionally. Drew’s invaluable advice on handling conflict constructively and communicating value and respect within teams will change the way you approach both everyday interactions and challenging conversations.

Prepare yourself for effective presentations with methods drawn from high school choir practice, where meticulous preparation meets real-world application. From breaking down content into manageable blocks to rehearsing in environments that mimic the actual performance setting, Drew’s strategies for refining delivery and building confidence are game-changers. Embrace lifelong learning and adapt your presentations to truly connect with your audience. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to master the art of communication—subscribe to our podcast and join our community for more transformative tips and updates.

Key Takeaways: 

1. The Power of Honor and Humility: Showing honor and respect toward both authority figures and peers can significantly impact career advancement and organizational effectiveness. Humility helps individuals hold ideas lightly and influence decisions positively.

2. Importance of Conflict Management: Addressing conflicts directly and evaluating whether an issue needs confrontation, getting over it, or considering a job change is crucial for a healthy work environment. Conflict resolution should prioritize organizational goals over personal egos.

3. Adaptability in Communication: Understanding and adapting to different communication styles using frameworks like DISC can improve relationships and team effectiveness. Tailoring communication to meet individual's needs fosters better interactions.

4. Public Speaking Preparation: Effective public speaking requires extensive preparation, practice, and feedback. Techniques such as recording oneself, having a "walk-up song," and practicing in realistic settings add to building confidence in presentations.

5. Learning with AI and Lifelong Mindset: AI can serve as a powerful tool for improving communication skills as long as it's used effectively and thoughtfully. Maintaining a mindset of lifelong learning and continually seeking to understand others enhances personal and professional growth.

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Have you ever faced the terror of a silent room, all eyes on you, as you fumbled through a speech? Join me,  as we navigate the rollercoaster of public speaking with the exceptional Peter George. From conquering speech impediments to handling the unexpected, like the zipper debacle in England, we uncover the resilience required to turn public speaking into an art form. Peter, with his wealth of experience and heartwarming triumph over his own challenges, provides an arsenal of strategies to not only survive but also thrive at the podium.

This episode is about more than just talking; it's about engaging, rehearsing, and connecting. I'll let you in on the secrets of rehearsing that aligns with the discipline of elite athletes, ensuring your next speech is more than just words—it's an experience. Peter and I also tackle the nuances of authentic connections in a digital age, offering insight into making every interaction count. Forget slides and formalities; we're here to show you how to captivate through stories and genuine presence, turning potential yawns into applause.

It's not just what you say but how you say it that leaves a mark. We'll explore the power of body language, the symphony of gestures, and the grace of 'full frontal nudity'—metaphorically speaking, of course! Learn how to present yourself with confidence and openness, making every gesture count and every listener feel heard. From the physical to the emotional, this episode with Peter George is your toolkit for transforming every speaking opportunity into a memorable performance. Now, zip up and step into the spotlight; we're about to make public speaking your forte.

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Ever stood on a stage, palms sweating, heart racing, facing a sea of expectant faces? That's where Tyler Foley, seasoned actor and public speaking sage, comes in.  His journey is as captivating as his command of the crowd – from triumphing over a health scare to teaching the masses to take the stage with poise and passion.

We're not just talking tips and tricks here; we delve into the psyche of speaking, debunking myths like the "imagine them naked" fable and rethinking what it really means to engage an audience. Tyler and I dissect the nuances of introversion and extroversion, how personal energy dictates your delivery, and the indelible mark of authenticity. Whether you're a self-proclaimed introvert or the life of the party, this episode will equip you with a fresh perspective on public expression.

In our final act, Tyler takes us through the power of vulnerability, of speaking 'naked' before an audience. It's about stripping away the facade and connecting with your core values – that's the message in "The Power to Speak Naked," a testament to Tyler's commitment to cultivating genuine interactions. And remember, finding one's rhythm isn’t just for musicians; it's for anyone ready to resonate with the beat of their own message. So tune in, be inspired, and let Tyler Foley set the stage for you to conquer your public speaking fears.

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Ready to conquer your fear of public speaking and communicate with confidence? Our esteemed guest, Neil Thompson from Teach the Geek, guides us through the transformative journey from a nervous engineer to a commanding presenter. Neil's evolution serves as a beacon for all the introverts and technical minds out there, offering a treasure trove of unorthodox yet effective tips to manage those presentation jitters. From the power of wiggling your toes to structured logic and deep breathing, we unpack the essentials that will have you articulating ideas with unparalleled clarity.

Reflecting on his communication escapades, he shares how a series of less-than-stellar presentations led him to Toastmasters, where the real magic of practice played out. We dissect how the ability to think on your feet and tackle impromptu questions isn't just a career booster—it's a game-changer for personal interactions too. Embrace those pre-talk nerves; they're not just butterflies, they're your commitment to the audience taking flight. We'll equip you with the strategies that turn anxiety from a foe into an ally on your path to public speaking mastery.

Wrap your message in a narrative that resonates, a lesson especially poignant for STEM professionals aiming to captivate diverse audiences. Through the podcast, we explore how to avoid the career-forward yet audience-aloof pitfalls of many technical presentations. Instead, we focus on authenticity and engagement, adapting to the educational and cultural shifts in communication. The resources from "Teach the Geek to Speak" – including a course, book, and workbook – are also spotlighted, offering insights into refining your presentation prowess. Get inspired by the journey of guests like Christine Vartanian and transform your public speaking skills into your most compelling asset.

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Navigating the high-stakes world of collegiate sports and effective communication is no small feat—just ask Jessica Huntley, a trailblazer in intercollegiate athletics leadership and a master of maintaining authenticity in a challenging field. Join us, as Jessica shares personal stories from trembling novices to confident speakers and dissect the art of powerful messaging. Whether you're rallying a team or captivating a boardroom, this episode is a playbook on how to engage your audience and deliver your message with genuine conviction.

The journey from intern to influencer in sports administration is a game of strategy and endurance. Learn from Jessica's experiences, from the pivotal role of mentorship to navigating the complexities of NCAA regulations and the novel landscape of Name, Image, and Likeness deals. We explore how the right words can open doors and build bridges in the athletic community and the importance of relationship-building in fostering real dialogue. For anyone looking to climb the ranks of sports leadership or simply improve their interpersonal skills, this episode is a slam dunk.

Finally, step up to the podium with us as we share tried-and-true strategies for overcoming the jitters of public speaking. Feel the triumph of delivering a captivating speech and discover how tapping into your authenticity can electrify your presence. Whether you're an aspiring orator or a seasoned professional, we unpack the formula for public speaking success. This episode is not just a conversation—it's an invitation to empower your voice and leave a lasting impression on your audience.

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast dedicated to helping you master the art of effective communication. I'm Tim Newman, your host, and today we are opening up about a struggle we all deal with—imposter syndrome.

In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome back Sara Lohse, a storyteller, marketer, and brand architect who helps mission-driven brands through Favorite Daughter Media. Sara is also the co-host of the "Branded" podcast and the author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders." Sara's experiences and insights make her the perfect guest to explore today’s topics, and I’m incredibly grateful to have her as our first repeat guest on the show.

Our conversation traverses several foundational elements of developing confidence in communication and self-promotion. We start by recounting how Sara and I met at a pivotal point in my professional development, emphasizing the importance of seizing transformative opportunities. We then delve into the art of self-promotion, exploring the emotional barriers and practical strategies that can help overcome these challenges.

We redefine what it means to be an expert, highlighting how endless curiosity and continuous learning can turn you into one. Drawing from personal experiences, we also cover the significance of adapting to new media, like transitioning from audio podcasts to video content, and the associated struggles and triumphs. Another key focus is the imposter syndrome—how it can deeply affect our professional journey and how to combat it effectively.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. The Art of Self-Promotion:
   • Promoting oneself can often feel daunting due to emotional hurdles and self-doubt. The key lies in building trust, maintaining a strong work ethic, and continuously preparing for opportunities. It’s about putting in the incremental effort to present your best self.
2. Redefining Expertise:
   • Expertise isn't just about having all the answers but about maintaining an endless curiosity and being committed to continuous learning. Tim's meticulous research and preparation are highlighted as the true markers of expertise.
3. Adapting to New Mediums:
   • Transitioning to different forms of media, be it stage, podcast, or video, can be challenging but rewarding. Tim's journey from an audio-only podcast to creating daily minute-long videos exemplifies the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone to grow and improve your skills.
4. Imposter Syndrome and Self-Worth:
   • Both Tim and Sara grapple with imposter syndrome despite their achievements. Recognizing these feelings and surrounding oneself with a supportive network are essential steps towards managing self-doubt. Sara’s journey from feeling undervalued to running her own successful business is inspirational for anyone facing similar challenges.
5. Continuous Improvement and Authenticity:
   • Practice makes perfect, especially when it comes to speaking and content creation. Both Sara and Tim stress the importance of continuous improvement and transparency about one’s struggles. Sharing your journey and showing your growth not only humanizes the experience but also builds authenticity and trust with your audience.

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Get ready to unlock the secrets of captivating public speaking with our special guest, Conor Cunneen, famously known as the Irishman Speaks. From his early days as a nervous speaker to becoming an award-winning humorist and keynote speaker, Connor shares his incredible journey and the transformative power of humor in communication. You'll hear firsthand how storytelling and a positive attitude can elevate your personal brand and make you stand out, whether in job interviews or daily interactions. Plus, Connor's unforgettable award-winning humorous speech on customer service, featuring the contrast of San Quentin Prison, will leave you in stitches while teaching valuable lessons.

But that's not all—discover how humor and attitude can revolutionize your business interactions. Connor explains the concept of using mental triggers, such as calling police cars "mobile discotheques," to create memorable messages that stick. We emphasize the importance of personal connections in business, showcasing how a good sense of humor can set a salesperson apart and lead to stronger relationships and more successful outcomes. Learn to harness the power of humor to make your communications engaging and unforgettable, ensuring that your key messages are remembered.

Finally, we'll dive into practical strategies to create a positive work culture using Connor's innovative acronyms like CHAPS and LAUGH. Micro goals like giving compliments and using positive language can significantly boost motivation and team morale. The E4 brand promise—energize, educate, entertain, and be easy to work with—provides a robust framework for professional interactions. And as we explore the art of incorporating humor into presentations, you'll gain invaluable tips to keep your audience engaged and entertained. This episode is packed with laughter, insightful advice, and actionable strategies to enhance your public speaking skills and foster a positive workplace environment. Tune in for an unforgettable experience!

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence. Today, we're diving into the realm of effective communication, leadership, and the power of positive influence, especially through community-based programs. This episode sheds light on how mastering communication skills and building relationships can significantly impact both personal and professional lives.

Joining us in this episode is Ryan Pederson, Vice President of the Positive Athlete Program. With a rich background in sport management and marketing, Ryan shares his journey and the transformative power of the Positive Athlete initiative. The program honors high school student-athletes for their outstanding character and leadership qualities, spotlighting their contributions beyond athletic performance.

Ryan Pederson and host Tim Newman have a conversation centered around communication, career reflections, and community involvement. They emphasize the importance of presenting key information upfront in both written and spoken communication to capture attention effectively. Ryan shares his insights on building confidence through practice and preparation, the value of early career experiences, and the significance of treating professional athletes as regular people to foster better relationships.

The episode also covers Pederson's personal journey, including his internship at Georgia State University, which helped him discover his career path and develop a well-rounded skill set. Additionally, they discuss the Positive Athlete program, its origins, successes, and plans for future expansion. The conversation highlights the importance of making positive impacts within communities and the role of effective communication in achieving this goal.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Effective Communication:
   • Emphasize key information at the beginning of any communication—whether it’s an email or a conversation. This approach helps in capturing the audience's attention immediately, aligning with principles from Chris Fanning’s books "The First Minute" and "Effective Emails."
2. Building Confidence Through Repetition:
   • Confidence in communication parallels sports training. Continuous practice and preparation build confidence, making it essential for young people to engage in conversations with industry professionals to prepare for their future roles.
3. Creating Value Early in a Career:
   • Starting from the bottom provides opportunities to showcase one's value. Ryan's experience at Georgia State University, where he created his own internship, is a testament to the importance of taking initiative and creating value within an organization. This proactive approach can lead to significant career insights and progression.
4. Personal Connections in Communication:
   • Adjust communication style based on the audience while maintaining a conversational tone. Establishing personal connections by understanding individuals' experiences and interests can break down barriers and make interactions more effective.
5. Impact of Community Programs:
   • Programs like Positive Athlete highlight the importance of recognizing and encouraging positive character traits and leadership qualities among young athletes. Such initiatives not only benefit indiv

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Welcome to "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast that helps you unlock the power of effective public speaking. In today’s episode, we are thrilled to sit down with the dynamic duo, David Pullan and Sarah Jane McKechnie, to discuss the DNA of Engagement and explore the powerful role of storytelling in both personal and professional contexts.

David and Sarah Jane bring a wealth of experience from the world of acting, having spent 30 years performing with the Royal Shakespeare Company and Paramount Pictures. Their transition into the business world led them to establish "StorySpotters," a venture dedicated to enhancing communication through effective storytelling. Their latest endeavor, "The DNA of Engagement," offers insightful techniques to improve engagement and leadership through storytelling.

Overview of the Discussion:

• Tim, David, and Sarah Jane emphasize the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and giving back.
• They introduce the concept of "same paging" and discuss how it ensures cohesive understanding within teams.
• They elaborate on the practical application of storytelling in business, the PREP structure, and the principle of "show, don’t tell."
• The conversation touches on the rapid pace of modern life and how it impacts deep conversations and storytelling.
• They emphasize ethical storytelling and discuss the scientific, artistic, and craft elements of storytelling.
• The episode highlights the neuroscience behind storytelling and practical techniques like the "Dream, Nightmare, Action" (DNA) framework.
• Sarah Jane shares insights on making stories more engaging through context, detail, and dialogue.
• David and Sarah Jane also discuss their experiences of transitioning from acting to business coaching and helping clients communicate effectively.

Key Takeaways:

1. Authenticity and Vulnerability:
   Authenticity and vulnerability are critical when it comes to teaching, storytelling, and making genuine connections. Being open and seeking feedback helps in connecting with the audience on a deeper level.
2. Same Paging for Cohesion:
   The concept of "same paging" involves turning facts into cohesive stories, ensuring that everyone within a team has a unified understanding. This technique is pivotal for achieving alignment and effective communication.
3. PREP Structure for Effective Stories:
   David Pullan introduces the PREP structure (Point, Reason, Example, Takeaway), which is essential for crafting compelling stories that leave a lasting impression. For example, illustrating an individual's problem-solving skills through a personal anecdote can make their abilities more relatable and memorable.
4. Ethical Storytelling:
   Ethical storytelling is imperative. The responsible use of storytelling should aim at doing good rather than manipulating the audience. Stories should reflect values and behaviors in a genuine manner to build trust and integrity.
5. Engagement Through Details and Context:
   Sarah Jane emphasizes the importance of bringing listeners into the world of the story. Specific details, context (time and place), and dialogue make stories more vivid and engaging, helping listeners to form mental images and connect emotionally.

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Welcome back to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that dives deep into the art of public speaking and personal development. In today's episode, we're thrilled to have Aaron Parry join us for a discussion about overcoming self-doubt, embracing challenges, and the power of self-improvement. Aaron is the host of the They Not Like Us podcast and brings a wealth of experience from his diverse career path and shares valuable insights that are sure to inspire and motivate.

In this episode, we'll dive deep into effective breathing techniques, particularly the 5-second interval method, and how it can be used to calm the mind before high-stress situations like public speaking. Aaron will also discuss the importance of focusing outwardly on the audience, the role of emotional connection in communication, and creating psychological safety for making mistakes. We'll touch on generational differences in leadership, the evolution of coaching young athletes, and the need for adaptive progress to avoid stagnation.

Key Takeaways:

1. Focused Breathing Techniques: Both Tim Newman and Aaron Parry emphasize the importance of the box breathing technique (inhale for 5 seconds, hold for 5 seconds, exhale for 5 seconds, and hold for 5 seconds) to calm the mind, especially useful before public speaking or engaging in high-stress activities. This technique helps in managing stress and maintaining composure.

2. Positive Mindset and Self-Discovery: Aaron Parry discusses the value of maintaining a positive mindset, focusing on self-discovery, and pursuing personal goals regardless of external support. Adopting a "with or without you" mentality and stepping out of one's comfort zone can lead to significant personal growth and resilience.

3. Generational and Cultural Mindset Differences: The episode sheds light on the differences in mindset between the UK and the US, with the UK generally being more pessimistic. Aaron also discusses the need for older generations to adapt their leadership styles to better engage with the younger workforce, emphasizing understanding and supportive approaches.

4. Emotional Connection in Public Speaking: Aaron stresses the importance of making an emotional connection with the audience during public speaking. It's crucial to focus outwardly on the audience rather than oneself, as people are more likely to remember how you made them feel rather than the specific content of the speech.

5. Resilience and Learning from Failure: Both speakers underscore the significance of resilience and adaptability, developed through facing discomfort and challenges. Aaron shares personal experiences of failure and emphasizes that learning from these experiences is key to eventual success. Understanding and making necessary adjustments based on failures can lead to growth and better outcomes in business and personal life.

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Welcome to Speaking with Confidence, the show dedicated to helping you enhance your public speaking skills and boost your confidence in front of any audience. Our guest today is Evgeniy Kharam, a renowned cybersecurity consultant, author, and host of unique networking events that combine professional networking with thrilling activities like skiing, snowboarding, and biking. 

In this episode, Evgeniy shares his incredible journey from struggling with public speaking anxiety to mastering the art of engaging diverse audiences. He discusses his unique approach to networking by hosting events that foster easy communication in relaxed environments, touches on the importance of combining technical skills with effective communication, and shares actionable techniques for managing performance anxiety and improving presentation skills.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Blending Networking with Fun: Evgeniy’s unique approach to networking through activities like skiing and biking fosters genuine connections in an informal atmosphere. These events break traditional barriers, enabling more meaningful interactions between participants.
2. Overcoming Public Speaking Anxiety: Evgeniy started his speaking journey in the Navy and faced significant challenges, including anxiety and fast speech. Through consistent practice, customer interactions, and receiving feedback, he managed to transform these struggles into strengths, enhancing his ability to connect with audiences.
3. Box Breathing Technique: Tim and Evgeniy discuss the box breathing method, a powerful tool for managing anxiety and improving focus. This technique, which involves controlled breathing steps, is beneficial for both athletic and professional settings, helping speakers maintain composure under pressure.
4. Embracing Personal Authenticity: Authenticity is essential in public speaking. Evgeniy emphasizes accepting one's unique traits, such as an accent, and focusing on clear pronunciation, pacing, and reducing filler words. Both speakers agree that genuine self-presentation helps build stronger connections with the audience.
5. Practical Communication Strategies: For effective communication, especially with non-technical audiences, it's important to offer information through multiple formats like slides, diagrams, and demos. Verifying audience understanding through feedback ensures the message is accurately conveyed and comprehended.

Join us as we explore these themes and more, gaining valuable insights into the seamless integration of technical knowledge and soft skills. Whether you're an experienced professional or a student just starting out, this episode is packed with tips to elevate your speaking prowess and connect more deeply with your audience.

Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation with Evgeniy Kharam on Speaking with Confidence. Tune in now, and let's get started on building your confidence one word at a time!

If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe to "Speaking with Confidence" for more compelling interviews and valuable public speaking tips. Follow Evgeniy Kharam on LinkedIn and explore his work further at softskillstag.ca and softskillstech.com. And remember, practice makes perfect—so keep honing those public speaking skills!

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Have you ever wondered what it's like to sell live on television, where every second counts? Join us as we chat with Mitch Carson, former pitchman on the Home Shopping Network in the 1990s, who shares his experiences of live TV sales. He takes us behind the scenes to explore the pressures of crafting messages that not only grab attention but also trigger that irresistible urge to buy. Discover the adrenaline rush that comes from turning viewers into buyers in mere moments, and how this fast-paced environment draws fascinating connections to today's click-happy online shopping culture.

In this episode, Mitch Carson shares his profound experiences and actionable strategies on various aspects of public speaking and professional communication. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including:

• Audience Engagement Techniques: Mitch emphasizes aligning speech with the audience's culture and level, using humor as a bridge, and the importance of finding a friendly face in the crowd to create a strong connection.
• Navigating Cultural Differences: Mitch recounts his first speaking engagement in Karachi, where he used humor and cultural respect to overcome initial fears and build rapport.
• Building Credibility and Networking: Mitch discusses how engaging directly with audiences and respecting their cultural norms have helped him gain credibility and forge international opportunities.
• Resourcefulness and Strategic Market Focus: Mitch explains his perseverance in markets like Singapore, how he built relationships through small initial audiences, and why strategic focus on certain markets can be more lucrative.
• Challenges of Today’s Generation: Both Tim and Mitch contemplate how the current generation’s heavy reliance on technology affects their communication skills, emphasizing the need for situational awareness and face-to-face interaction.

Key Takeaways:

1. Audience-Centric Speaking: Align your speech with your audience’s cultural background and understanding, and use humor to break barriers. Finding a "friend" in the audience can help establish an immediate and personal connection.
2. Overcoming and Respecting Cultural Norms: Mitch's experience in Karachi illustrates the importance of engaging the audience while respecting local customs. Avoiding cultural missteps, such as respecting gender norms, can significantly enhance your credibility and acceptance.
3. Networking and Long-Term Strategy: Building personal relationships and networks is often more effective than traditional marketing strategies. Mitch's engagements in Singapore started small but grew exponentially due to his consistent efforts and network-building.
4. Technology and Communication: While technology offers access to constant information, it can hinder personal communication skills. Public speaking requires a balance between harnessing technology and maintaining face-to-face interaction skills.
5. Continuous Practice and Preparation: Public speaking, like sports, requires rigorous preparation and practice. Recording your speeches, joining groups like Toastmasters, and getting continuous feedback can improve confidence and performance over time.

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In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, we dive deep into the often-overlooked art of setting boundaries and the importance of clear communication in our daily lives. With many of us struggling to say "no" and feeling compelled to participate in activities we don't enjoy, learning to set boundaries without guilt can significantly enhance our personal and professional relationships.

Today's guest is Suzanne Culberg, also known as "The No Coach." Suzanne has made a name for herself by helping people-pleasers break free from their tendencies to agree to everything and instead, set healthy boundaries. Through her straightforward approach and personal anecdotes, she provides invaluable insights into the complexities of saying "no" and the power of honest communication.

Overview of What Was Discussed:

The Importance of Saying "No": Suzanne underscores the necessity of openly communicating when one lacks interest in participating in activities to avoid feeling obligated and to maintain authenticity in relationships. She shares personal stories to illustrate this point, such as her lifelong choice of being a teetotaler.

Boundaries and Honesty: Both Suzanne and Tim discuss the societal tendency to sugarcoat refusals and how refreshing direct communication can be. Suzanne shares her frustration with insincere declines and emphasizes the importance of framing questions clearly to avoid misunderstandings.

Challenges of Coordination: They explore the intricacies of managing schedules across different time zones and the convenience of digital tools. Suzanne expresses her preference for digital calendars and highlights the importance of clear communication preferences.

Setting Boundaries with Loved Ones: Suzanne advises starting the practice of saying "no" with strangers before moving on to close relationships, sharing personal experiences to illuminate the gradual process of setting and adjusting boundaries.

Balanced Relationships and Reciprocity: The discussion touches on the potential for unbalanced relationships, illustrated by Suzanne's story of overextending herself to help another mom. The conversation also dives into the importance of sustaining meaningful relationships through mutual respect and understanding.

5 Key Takeaways:

Learning to Say "No": Begin with strangers and practice saying "no" in low-stakes situations to build confidence. This gradual approach helps prepare for setting boundaries in more significant relationships.

Honesty Over Sugarcoating: Direct communication can prevent misunderstandings and foster genuine interactions. Instead of giving insincere excuses, be honest about your disinterest in an activity.

Digital Tools for Scheduling: Utilize digital calendars to manage time effectively and coordinate across different time zones. This can significantly reduce the stress of back-and-forth communication.

Setting Boundaries is a Gradual Process: Making small adjustments and having open conversations about new boundaries can lead to significant long-term changes. Acknowledge past behaviors and be clear about your new intentions.

Balanced Reciprocity in Relationships: Understanding the importance of equal effort in relationships helps prevent feelings of being used. Setting expectations and

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Welcome back to "Speaking with Confidence," the podcast dedicated to enhancing your public speaking skills and boosting your self-confidence. I'm your host, Tim Newman, and today we have a deeply inspiring and thought-provoking discussion lined up for you with our guest, Brian Fleming.

Brian Fleming is a retired US Army sergeant, motivational speaker, author, and advocate for trauma survivors. Having served four years in the Army and survived two near-death encounters in combat, Brian brings a wealth of experience and wisdom to our conversation. He has spent over a year recovering from severe injuries and has turned his personal trials into a powerful platform for helping others. Brian is also the host of the "Podgasm" podcast, where he aids individuals in becoming effective communicators.

In this episode, we explore several pivotal themes surrounding overcoming the constraints of others' opinions, the dual nature of social media, the importance of reading and critical thinking, and personal stories of resilience and self-worth. Brian Fleming shares his journey from combat to becoming a motivational speaker, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, positive self-talk, and the transformative power of overcoming life's challenges. Tim Newman complements Brian's insights with reflections on generational differences, mental health, and the significance of strong mentorship.

1. The Fallacy of External Opinions:
   • Brian Fleming highlights that we often imprison ourselves by valuing others' opinions too highly, even those of people we hold in high regard. He stresses that true freedom comes from being authentic and true to oneself rather than seeking external validation.
2. Navigating the Dual Nature of Social Media:
   • Both Tim Newman and Brian discuss the positive and negative aspects of social media. While it offers connectivity and information, it also presents challenges like cyberbullying. Brian advises using tools like blocking negative interactions to manage this, drawing a contrast with past methods of resolving conflicts face-to-face.
3. The Importance of Reading and Critical Thinking:
   • Brian emphasizes personal and professional growth through meaningful reading, warning against the prevalent biased and agenda-driven information. He stresses the need for critical thinking and evaluating different perspectives to form well-rounded opinions.
4. Transforming Trauma into Value:
   • Sharing his story of surviving traumatic incidents in Afghanistan, Brian talks about how these experiences led him to become a motivational speaker. He believes that trauma, when channeled positively, can create significant personal value and help others, aligning with Viktor Frankl's philosophy on finding meaning in suffering.
5. Self-Worth and Authenticity:
   • The episode concludes with reflections on self-worth and the importance of minimizing the influence of others' opinions. Brian suggests that embracing imperfections and being authentic can foster a stronger sense of self-worth and lead to more fulfilling personal and professional lives.

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast that empowers you to master the art of public speaking and live with genuine confidence. I'm your host, Tim Newman. In each episode, we dive into the world of effective communication, exploring strategies, sharing insights, and interviewing experts to help you unleash your potential. Don’t forget to check out our comprehensive public speaking course available at formulaforpublicspeaking.com. Today’s episode is particularly special as we venture into the realm of introversion and leadership.

 Joining us today is the incredible Stacey Chazin, a seasoned leadership coach specializing in empowering introverts. With a Master’s degree in organizational development and leadership, and certification as a Myers Briggs Type Indicator practitioner, Stacey brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to our conversation. We’ll explore her journey, insights, and strategies to help introverts thrive in both personal and professional settings.

Key Takeaways:

1. Embracing Introversion: Stacey emphasizes the importance of understanding and embracing one's introverted nature. Introverts gain energy from solitude and small group interactions, and recognizing this can lead to more fulfilling personal and professional relationships. By being authentic and self-aware, introverts can harness their unique strengths to achieve success.
2. Practical Strategies for Meetings: Stacey shares invaluable advice for introverts to succeed in meetings. She suggests requesting the agenda in advance, preparing one key point with supporting data for each relevant topic, and asking for opportunities to contribute in writing before or after the meeting. These strategies help introverts to feel more prepared and confident in contributing to discussions.
3. Networking Tips for Introverts: Networking can be daunting for introverts, but Stacey provides actionable tips to make it easier. She recommends setting a goal to connect with three people per day at a conference, researching discussion points for those individuals, and using icebreakers to initiate conversation. Managing energy levels by selectively attending sessions and scheduling alone time is also crucial.
4. Navigating Professional Challenges: The conversation addresses challenges introverts face in modern work environments, like constant connectivity and the expectation of always being available. Introverts can struggle with saying no and taking on tasks that don’t align with their skills, risking burnout. Effective communication and leveraging natural strengths like listening and reflective thinking are key to overcoming these challenges.
5. Preparation for Negotiations: Stacey offers strategies for introverts to excel in negotiations. Preparation is vital—gather data on industry standards, set clear goals, and maintain a record of accomplishments. Using active listening to read nonverbal cues, reflecting on negotiation language, and scheduling time for self-care before and after negotiations can also boost confidence and effectiveness.

Discover more about Stacey’s work and access her productivity guide for introverts, conference survival guide, and meetings playbook at ifactorleadership.com. Addit

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In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman has an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Greg Bennick, a world-class speaker, best-selling author, and a master of connection. Together, they explore Greg’s journey from overturning Seattle’s infamous Teen Dance Ordinance to becoming a leading voice in communication and leadership. 

Greg shares how his mother’s influence shaped his speaking style and how personal experiences, like the legendary “pinball incident” and a heartwarming train journey in India, demonstrated the power of humor, kindness, and shared humanity. Along the way, they uncover how laughter strengthens bonds, how listening builds bridges, and why stepping into the unknown is the key to unlocking new possibilities.

From his encounter with the Dalai Lama to his cross-cultural experiences in Ukraine and Russia, Greg reminds us that communication is more than just words, it’s about fostering understanding, breaking down barriers, and finding connection even in the most unexpected places.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How Greg Bennick and a community of young activists overturned Seattle’s Teen Dance Ordinance, proving that people can make a difference.
• The role of personal experiences, like Greg’s balloon animal icebreaker, in shaping communication styles and building relationships.
• Why humor and self-deprecation are powerful tools for leadership and public speaking.
• The transformative impact of listening and finding common ground, especially in divisive times.
• How Greg defines success on his own terms and the importance of overcoming self-limiting beliefs.
• Practical insights on how to embrace kindness, foster connection, and create space for new opportunities.

Key Takeaways:

• Listening is the foundation of meaningful communication.
• Humor enhances leadership and builds stronger relationships.
• Smiling and kindness are universal languages that transcend cultural barriers.
• Success is personal—define it on your terms and let go of fear.
• Embracing the unexpected opens doors to growth and deeper connections.

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Welcome to another episode of Speaking with Confidence, the podcast where I help you become a powerful communicator. I’m your host, Tim Newman, and in each episode, we explore the art of effective communication, sharing strategies, insights, and expert conversations designed to unlock your potential. Don’t forget to check out our resources at TimNewmanSpeaks.com to take your communication skills to the next level. Today’s episode is especially meaningful as we explore the power of advocacy, authenticity, and finding your voice to drive meaningful change.

In this enlightening episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman is joined by Dr. Almitra Berry, a nationally recognized expert in educational equity. Together, they explore the systemic inequities in K-12 education and discuss actionable ways to empower culturally and linguistically diverse learners. Dr. Berry shares her deep insights into building trust in the classroom, teaching critical life skills like self-advocacy, and embracing linguistic diversity to create an equitable educational landscape. Whether you're an educator, parent, or advocate, this episode will leave you inspired to drive change. 

Key Takeaways

• Advocating for Marginalized Learners: Dr. Berry highlights the crucial need for educators and communities to champion the needs of historically underserved students. 
• Systemic Inequities in Education: The public education system often falls short in addressing the diverse needs of students, especially those from marginalized communities.
• Building Psychological Safety: Fostering trust and relationships in classrooms creates an environment where students can thrive academically and personally. 
• The Role of Soft Skills: Public schools often neglect teaching essential skills like communication, self-advocacy, and collaboration. 
• Linguistic Diversity Matters: Recognizing and valuing all forms of communication, including regional dialects and multilingualism, bridges the gap between home and school languages.
• Empowering Future Generations: By supporting students in finding their voice and passion, we set the stage for societal change.
• AI in Education: If leveraged effectively, artificial intelligence has the potential to transform education for the better.
• Social Media's Impact: The conversation addresses the challenges posed by social media on youth mental health. 
• Finding Your Voice: Dr. Berry emphasizes the importance of authenticity and passion in public speaking to connect meaningfully with any audience.

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In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, host Tim Newman sits down with Aleya Harris, a dynamic speaker, marketing expert, and storytelling powerhouse. They explore the transformative power of authenticity, the role of mindset shifts in public speaking, and how to craft a message that truly resonates with an audience.  

Aleya shares insights from her book, Spark the Stage, offering practical strategies for aspiring speakers to refine their storytelling, captivate audiences, and build confidence. Whether you're battling stage fright, struggling with imposter syndrome, or looking to enhance your communication skills, this episode is filled with actionable advice to help you speak with impact.  

What You’ll Learn in This Episode  

• Authenticity wins – Why being yourself is the most powerful public speaking tool  
• The magic of storytelling – How personal narratives create lasting audience connections  
• Mindset shifts for success – Overcoming stage fright and embracing your voice  
• The role of ego in speaking – How to stay coachable and keep learning  
• Networking through curiosity – Building meaningful relationships in professional settings  
• Serving vs. self-promotion – Why public speaking is about impact, not just presence  
• Captivating audiences from the start – The secret to holding attention and inspiring action  

Key Takeaway  

Your voice matters. Your story is powerful. Own it and inspire others.  

Resources & Links  

Website - https://www.aleyaharris.com/  

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/aleyaharris/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/aleyaharris/

Book a call with Tim - https://timnewmanspeaks.com/

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Ever felt like your shyness is holding you back from becoming a confident speaker? This episode is for you! Host Tim Newman sits down with Philip Sessions, a public speaking coach who transformed from a shy child into a powerful communicator.  

Philip shares his personal journey and the lessons he learned along the way, from the power of storytelling to the role of self-development in building confidence. They explore how effective communication can enhance personal and professional success, why listening is key to better conversations, and how networking can help unlock new opportunities.  

Philip also discusses the unexpected connection between engineering and coaching, emphasizing that structured thinking and problem-solving skills can help anyone become a more effective speaker. He highlights the importance of practice, preparation, and mindset in overcoming fear and delivering impactful messages.  

Key Takeaways:  

• Confidence is built through action – Start speaking, even if it feels uncomfortable at first.  
• Storytelling is a superpower – It helps make your message more engaging and memorable. 
• Listening is just as important as speaking – Understanding your audience makes your message more impactful.  
• Networking and personal connections matter – Building genuine relationships can open doors in ways you never imagined.  
• Silence is powerful – Learn to embrace pauses instead of filling them with “um” and “ah.” 
• Engineers can make great coaches – Their problem-solving mindset translates well into communication coaching.

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What if your biggest public speaking blunder could become your greatest lesson? In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I’m joined by the incredible Vicki Noethling, a speaker, coach, and master storyteller who knows firsthand that confidence isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence, practice, and having fun along the way.

From her infamous "pee-pee" incident on live TV to a less-than-graceful fall in church, Vicki shares some of her most humbling (and hilarious) public speaking moments. But more importantly, she reveals how those experiences helped her become a more resilient, authentic, and engaging communicator. 

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:  

• Why public speaking is just a conversation, not a performance
• How to embrace mistakes as part of your growth journey
• The secret to engaging younger generations and teaching eye contact
• Practical strategies to elevate your virtual presence (lighting, sound, and more!)
• How storytelling can capture your legacy and impact future generations  

Key Takeaways:

• Mistakes are part of the learning process—embrace them!
• Confidence comes from knowing your material and being yourself
• Public speaking requires continuous improvement and practice
• Effective communication can open doors for leadership and career growth
• Expressiveness helps you connect and engage with your audience
• A strong virtual presence (lighting, sound, and setup) makes a difference
• Every story matters—your experiences are worth sharing  

Vicki’s wisdom reminds us that confidence comes from practice, preparation, and most importantly, being yourself. Whether you're refining your public speaking skills, improving your virtual presence, or simply looking to communicate more effectively, this episode is packed with insights that will help you grow.  

Tune in now and take your communication skills to the next level!  

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What can climbing a mountain teach you about becoming a powerful communicator? In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim Newman sits down with Vesela Mantegna, a business coach and corporate finance expert, to explore how preparation, adaptability, and authenticity shape how we connect with others.  

Vesela shares how her experience scaling Mount Fuji mirrors the challenges of effective communication, navigating unexpected obstacles, pushing past self-doubt, and learning to trust the process. Whether in boardrooms, networking events, or personal conversations, confidence isn’t about perfection, it’s about being prepared, present, and real.  

This conversation goes beyond the mechanics of public speaking to explore how self-awareness, feedback, and storytelling transform everyday interactions. Vesela unpacks the four communication archetypes and how understanding them can help you engage, influence, and inspire any audience. If you've ever struggled with imposter syndrome, fear of speaking up, or feeling like your message isn’t landing, this episode is packed with insights to help you communicate with impact.  

 Key Takeaways:  

✅ Preparation builds confidence – The more prepared you are, the more naturally you can adapt in conversations.  

✅ Authenticity is your superpower – People connect with real, not perfect.  

✅ Fear fades with action – Confidence is built by showing up, speaking up, and learning from experience.  

✅ Feedback accelerates growth – Seeking input from others sharpens your ability to communicate effectively.  

✅ Know your communication archetype – Understanding your natural style helps you connect with different audiences.  

✅ Engagement is everything – Powerful communication isn’t about what you say—it’s about how you make people feel.  

✅ Every conversation is an opportunity – Whether in meetings, networking, or everyday interactions, your words have impact. 

Tune in now and take your communication skills to the next level!  

Resources & Links

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vesela-mangeyna-fcca-a54058b/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EMTVeselaMangeyna/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vmangeyna/

Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@veselamangeyna

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If you've ever hesitated to step onto a stage or doubted the power of your voice, this episode is for you. Today, we’re joined by Bobbie Carlton, founder of Innovation Women, a game-changer in the world of public speaking. Bobbie shares her personal journey from being a nervous speaker to becoming a sought-after expert on stages worldwide.

We’re tackling some big topics today, why visibility equals opportunity, how women can break into the public speaking space, and the systemic barriers that still keep too many voices unheard. Whether you’re an introvert, a seasoned speaker, or just starting to explore public speaking, Bobbie’s insights will help you take the stage with confidence.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The biggest public speaking challenges and how to overcome them
✅ Why practice and preparation are the key to confidence
✅ How to handle interruptions and take control of the stage
✅ The power of diverse voices in public speaking
✅ How women can gain visibility and recognition in leadership
✅ The impact of virtual events and how they’ve changed speaking opportunities
✅ Why saying “yes” to speaking opportunities can unlock career growth

Key Takeaways:
🎤 Public speaking is a skill anyone can develop with the right mindset and practice.
🎤 Visibility leads to opportunities—speaking on stage can open doors in your career.
🎤 Introverts can be incredible speakers with preparation and confidence-building strategies.
🎤 Women are still underrepresented in speaking roles—it's time to change that!
🎤 Diversity on panels matters—it leads to richer conversations and better solutions.
🎤 Men can be allies in promoting gender diversity in speaking events.
🎤 Virtual events have created more speaking opportunities than ever before.

Whether you're looking to level up your communication skills, gain credibility, or step into leadership, this conversation with Bobbie Carlton will inspire you to take action.

📣 Ready to become a more powerful communicator? Tune in now!

Resources & Links: 

Website - https://innovationwomen.com
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiecarlton
X - https://twitter.com/WomenInno
TikTok - https://tiktok.com/@womeninno

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What’s it like when your business partner is also your spouse? Tim Newman sits down with his wife, Jennifer, for a candid conversation about the challenges and rewards of working together as a couple.  

With nearly three decades of marriage and experience running multiple businesses—including their work with the Golfweek Amateur Tour—Tim and Jennifer share how they navigate communication challenges, decision-making conflicts, and role transitions in both their personal and professional lives.  

This episode dives into: 

• How to communicate effectively when switching between personal and business roles
• The impact of different communication styles on teamwork and conflict resolution
• Why defining clear roles helps prevent tension and micromanagement
• Managing high-pressure decisions when you and your partner don’t transition at the same speed
• The power of self-reflection and continuous growth in strengthening both relationships and leadership
• Why giving each other grace is essential for long-term success  

 Takeaways:

• Balancing Personal & Professional Roles Is a Constant Adjustment
• Different Communication Styles Can Create Both Strength and Struggle
• Decision-Making Under Pressure Exposes Communication Gaps 
• Defining Clear Roles Prevents Micromanagement & Builds Trust
• Giving Each Other Grace & Space Is Essential for Long-Term Success 

Whether you’re building a business with your significant other or just looking to strengthen your interpersonal skills, this episode is packed with insights on becoming a powerful communicator in any partnership.  Have you ever worked with your partner? What’s been your biggest challenge? Drop us a message or share this episode with someone who needs it!

Tune in now to learn how to balance business, relationships, and communication with confidence!

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Get ready for an incredible conversation with Juanita Wheeler, a powerhouse in public speaking coaching and the CEO of TEDx Brisbane. With over 100 TEDx speakers coached, Juanita has mastered the art of helping speakers communicate effectively and own their awesome on stage.  

In this episode, we dive deep into:  

• Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking – Why fear of judgment holds us back and how to shift your mindset. 
• The Neuroscience of Persuasion – How behavioral science shapes effective communication. 
• Preparation & Practice – Why stagecraft is the last five meters of a hundred-meter race.
• Authenticity Over Performance – Why outdated presentation techniques fail and how to engage your audience naturally.  
• Tailoring Your Message – Content is king, but it must be audience-specific and strategically crafted. 
• Owning Your Unique Voice – The power of being direct, honest, and confident when speaking. 

Juanita shares hard-hitting advice on how to turn speaking anxiety into a strength and how strategic objectives—not just awareness—drive real impact. Whether you're a seasoned speaker or just starting, this episode will transform how you see public speaking!

📣 Ready to become a more powerful communicator? Tune in now!

Resources & Links: 

Website - http://fullandfrank.com/tools
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/juanitawheeler/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/fullandfrank
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/fullandfrank/

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What happens when entrepreneurship, parenthood, and powerful communication collide?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim sits down with Devan Gonzalez, fitness industry leader, coach, and proud girl dad, to explore how mastering communication skills can transform not just your business, but every relationship in your life.

Devan shares how he stopped compartmentalizing his life and started blending his roles as a father, husband, and entrepreneur, using communication as the bridge between personal fulfillment and professional development. From navigating the emotional terrain of family dynamics to building a thriving team at Strive 11 Fitness, Devan reveals how communication shapes success on every level.

You’ll hear:

• Why vulnerability is a strength in both business and parenting
• How understanding different communication styles leads to deeper connection
• Devan’s unique multi-step hiring process that evaluates interpersonal skills—not just résumés
• The real talk about imposter syndrome and how Devan pushes past fear using the five-second rule
• How storytelling, especially the "ordinary" kind, can be your most powerful public speaking tool
• Why gratitude communicates more effectively than apology

Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, or learning to speak up in a room full of strangers, this episode will equip you with tools to become a more powerful communicator and break through the barriers holding you back.

Tune in to discover how effective communication isn’t just a soft skill—it’s your superpower.

Takeaways:

• Public speaking starts with personal storytelling
• Vulnerability deepens trust—professionally and personally
• Communication styles differ, and adapting is key
• Imposter syndrome is real—but action beats fear
• Coaching and leadership require both confidence and compassion
• Sharing your story helps others find their voice
• You can't inspire others if you stay silent

Connect with Devan 

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What if the key to powerful communication started with a better understanding of numbers?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim sits down with Dr. Craig "Dell" Hane—math innovator, NASCAR engineer, and education reformer—to explore how practical math isn't just about numbers... it's about building confidence, developing communication skills, and unlocking real-world opportunities.

Dr. Hane's story begins with a near-failure in high school algebra—and a principal who told him he’d never go to college. But thanks to a few great teachers and a belief in his own potential, Craig earned a PhD in algebraic number theory, launched a career of innovation, and created a revolutionary approach to math education.

From developing racing technologies for legends like Dale Earnhardt to founding a self-paced math program that teaches real-world skills in weeks, Dr. Hane shows us how effective communication—even through something as simple as a scientific calculator—can change lives.

You’ll hear how:

• Practical math builds powerful communication and soft skills
• Technology like the HP-35 calculator changed the game (and still does!)
• Math anxiety can be overcome with confidence and the right method
• Storytelling and belief systems shape how we learn and lead
• Public education might be failing students—and what we can do about it

This conversation isn’t just about math. It’s about personal development, interpersonal skills, and becoming a more powerful communicator by mastering something many people fear. And if you’ve ever doubted your abilities in math—or anywhere else—Dr. Hane's story will inspire you to rethink what's possible. 

Resources & Links 

Grab Dr. Hane’s free book, How and Why Public School Math is Destroying the USA: CraigHane.com 

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What if your greatest strength as a leader wasn’t how well you speak, but how well you listen?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim sits down with leadership development expert and executive coach Therese Miclot for a powerful conversation about the kind of communication skills that truly set great leaders apart. With over 25 years of experience coaching global tech executives and co-authoring The Facilitation Advantage, Therese brings a fresh, human-centered approach to what it means to lead and communicate effectively.

They dive deep into the art of “deep dive listening”, a next-level skill that helps you understand not just what’s being said, but the motivations and unspoken needs behind it. Whether you’re in a high-stakes public presentation or a one-on-one with a team member, Therese shares how intentional listening can shift everything.

You’ll also hear why your self-talk is more visible than you think, how to replace awkward meeting questions with ones that spark real engagement, and why vulnerability isn’t a weakness, it’s your leadership superpower.

If you're ready to future-proof your career, connect more meaningfully, and develop the soft skills that actually drive results, this episode is your roadmap to becoming a more powerful communicator.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why “Any questions?” is the worst way to end a meeting—and what to say instead
• The real reason your communication might be falling flat (hint: it’s about mindset)
• How to keep the attention of neurodiverse teams and foster better engagement
• The link between imposter syndrome, self-talk, and leadership presence
• Why public speaking is about connection, not perfection
• How soft skills like listening and facilitation yield massive ROI in business
• The secret to making people feel safe, seen, and ready to contribute
• Why networking and internships matter more than GPA
• How to develop interpersonal skills that boost both personal and professional development

Key Quote:
"Your thoughts are like a billboard on your forehead, people can read them, even when you think they’re hidden." – Therese Miclot

Connect with Therese
https://www.linkedin.com/in/theresemiclot/
https://www.thefacilitationadvantage.com/

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What do a backstage pass to a Whitney Houston concert and a boardroom presentation have in common? According to Greg “G” Wright, everything. In this episode, Tim sits down with the sound engineer-turned-public speaking coach to unpack what it really means to be a powerful communicator.

G’s journey from teenage radio DJ to coaching leaders on “rock star frequency” is a masterclass in confidence, mindset, and overcoming imposter syndrome. With over 25 years in the music industry, G shares how live performance principles translate into unforgettable public presentations. From manifestation to preparation, he shows us that effective communication isn’t a gift—it’s a skill anyone can develop.

You’ll hear how the shift from analog to digital mirrors the evolution in interpersonal skills, why authenticity beats perfection, and how to tap into your “why” to build connection with any audience. Whether you’re facing a mic or a meeting, this episode will help you show up like the rock star you already are.

What You'll Learn:

• Why the rock star frequency is the secret to Powerful Communication
• How imposter syndrome disguises itself and how to silence it
• The real reason fans scream at concerts, and how to create that in a speech
• Why mindset and visualization matter more than talent
• How to stop caring what others think and start owning your story
• Lessons from Whitney Houston, classic rock, and the art of rehearsal
• Why confidence isn’t born—it’s built

Tim + G Talk About:

• How to harness fear and turn it into fuel
• The emotional foundation of effective communication
• The power of storytelling in building relationships
• Why soft skills matter more now than ever
• Connecting with audiences across generations (even grandkids!)
• How to practice like a pro—even if you’re not one yet
• Getting past the “overnight success” myth in speaking and performance

Favorite Quote from G:

“It takes 10 years to create an overnight success. But when you show up with conviction, your audience can’t help but lean in.”

Links + Resources:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gregorygwright/
G Wright Coaching: https://www.gwrightcoach.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/gwrightcoaching/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@rockstarspeakers

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Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That could’ve gone better…”?

In this solo episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman explores how asking better questions can unlock more effective communication, stronger interpersonal skills, and, believe it or not, career-changing opportunities.

Inspired by his conversation with communication coach Michelle Schafer, Tim shares how simple shifts in our approach to networking, interviews, and public presentations can turn small talk into a powerful connection. Spoiler alert: it’s not about having all the right answers, it’s about asking the right questions.

You’ll learn how thoughtful questions like “What energizes you about your work right now?” create deeper and more authentic conversations than the typical “So, what do you do?” You’ll also discover how preparation, just 15-20 minutes of intentional research, can skyrocket your confidence before any public speaking opportunity or job interview.

What You’ll Walk Away With:

• How to use communication skills and curiosity to create meaningful conversations
• Why better questions matter more than polished answers
• Practical ways to prepare with purpose before a public presentation or interview
• Tips for following up in a way that builds strong professional relationships
• Why soft skills like listening and intentional follow-up are your secret career superpowers

Whether you're navigating a job search, trying to overcome imposter syndrome, or simply looking to become a more powerful communicator, this episode is packed with practical tools to help you communicate effectively and with confidence.

Listen now and start your journey toward personal development and professional growth—one thoughtful question at a time.

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What if the key to your next career move isn’t on a job board, but in a conversation you haven’t had yet?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I sit down with career coach and author Michelle Schafer to explore how powerful communication, genuine curiosity, and intentional relationship-building can unlock career growth. Whether you're navigating a job search, considering a transition, or mentoring young professionals, this conversation will shift how you think about networking.

Michelle opens up about her own career journey—leaving behind 18 years in financial services and finding her most fulfilling role not through applications, but through a bold conversation she almost didn’t have. Her story speaks to anyone who’s ever let imposter syndrome hold them back from reaching out.

We dive deep into the mindset behind effective communication and what it means to approach conversations with confidence and purpose. This isn’t about “selling yourself”—it’s about creating meaningful interactions built on curiosity, follow-up, and being genuinely interested in others. From preparing for a networking event to turning everyday chats into career opportunities, Michelle offers strategies that turn soft skills into superpowers.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

• Reframe networking as connection, not a transaction
• Communicate effectively by asking better questions
• Turn conversations into career breakthroughs
• Overcome limiting beliefs that block outreach
• Build confidence through preparation and follow-up
• Tap into the “hidden job market” where 80% of opportunities live
• Embrace interpersonal skills as key tools for professional development

If you're ready to ditch the script, speak with confidence, and build relationships that move your career forward this episode is for you.

Download a free chapter of Michelle’s book, Cultivating Career Growth: Navigating Transitions with a Purpose at mschafercoaching.ca

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Ever feel like your brain is in a constant game of tug-of-war between clarity and your notifications? You’re not alone, and this week’s Speaking with Confidence episode is for you.

I’m joined by Craig Mattson, communication professor and organizational researcher, for a conversation that’s part public speaking class, part digital detox, and all about powerful communication in a tech-heavy world. Together, we dig into how digital overwhelm is hijacking our attention and what we can do to get it back, without swearing off technology completely.

Craig brings storytelling, research, and real conversations with Gen Z and millennial professionals to the table as we explore:

• How to communicate effectively across generations without falling into the “kids these days…” trap
• Why interpersonal skills are harder—but more important—than ever in today’s tech-driven workplace
• The surprising power of analog practices like journaling to anchor your focus and build self-knowledge
• How to set workplace boundaries with confidence and clarity
• What it means to shift from being a spectator to a performer in our digital lives—and why it matters for personal and professional development

This isn’t just about public speaking, it’s about becoming a powerful communicator who knows how to show up, stay present, and build real relationships… even in a world of pings, posts, and pressure.

Whether you're a team leader, educator, or just trying to survive your inbox, this episode will help you reclaim your attention and communicate with purpose.

Tune in now and let’s get confident, one conversation at a time.

Links & Resources:

https://www.themodeswitch.com

https://themodeswitch.substack.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-mattson-bb861445

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What does it truly take to become a powerful communicator in today’s world? On this episode of Speaking With Confidence, host Tim Newman sits down with Shirlee Engel, seasoned TV reporter turned on-camera coach, to unpack the tools, mindsets, and effective communication skills that bring authentic connection to every conversation, far beyond just public speaking.

Whether you’re building a business, leading a team, or growing your influence online, Shirlee shares how to master leadership communication, develop active listening skills, and overcome those confidence hurdles (yes, even the dreaded imposter syndrome and speaking anxiety). Spoiler: The secret has less to do with memorizing scripts and more with showing up as yourself.

You’ll learn how storytelling, authenticity, and embracing imperfection can transform presentations, video content, and daily conversations into powerful moments of connection and impact. Tune in for practical advice to:

• Build public speaking confidence, even if you’re not on a stage
• Use storytelling techniques as your “currency” in a noisy, AI-driven world
• Master the art of showing up authentically (camera “resting face” and all!)
• Repurpose content and leverage technology for presentation skills development
• Turn your presence into profit through strategic visibility and messaging

Key Takeaways

• It’s Not Just About Public Speaking: Powerful communication is about how you connect, listen, and share your story across every channel, from Zoom calls to videos and live events.
• Authenticity Is Your Superpower: Shirlee explains why embracing imperfections and showing your human side create true connection—and why storytelling is more critical now than ever.
• Overcoming Imposter Syndrome & Anxiety: Both Tim and Shirlee get candid about their own struggles with confidence, sharing tips for breaking through self-doubt and putting yourself out there.
• Actionable Techniques for Any Communicator: Discover practical ways to build confidence on and off-camera, structure your message, and ensure every interaction—whether leading a meeting or posting online—leaves a lasting impact.

Connect with Shirlee Engel

https://www.youtube.com/@ShirleeEngel

https://www.linkedin.com/in/shirlee-engel/

https://www.instagram.com/be.camera.confident

http://www.sizzlereelschool.com/

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Are your conversations interrupted by the constant buzz of notifications? In today’s world, digital overwhelm has reshaped not only how we interact, but our very brains—fragmenting focus, empathy, and genuine connection. This week on Speaking With Confidence, Tim Newman dives deep into the real cost of screen-driven distractions and offers practical strategies to reclaim your ability to be a powerful communicator in every interaction that matters.

If you want to sharpen your active listening skills, cultivate effective communication skills, and develop true leadership communication, this episode is for you. Tim explores the latest research on digital habits, attention spans, and what it takes to rebuild the human connection that turns everyday conversation into a force for influence.

In This Episode:

• Why “multitasking” is damaging your storytelling techniques (and what works better)
• The neuroscience behind digital distractions—and how it chips away at public speaking confidence, empathy, and memory
• How to overcome speaking anxiety and imposter syndrome when it feels like everyone’s always “on”
• What the “goldfish effect” means for real-world communication skills and how to break the cycle
• Practical steps to increase confidence in public speaking by practicing better presence and attention in your daily life
• How tech boundaries spark more meaningful, memorable conversations—at work, at home, and everywhere in between
• Small, science-backed habits for lasting presentation skills development (you don’t need to quit tech cold turkey!)

Key Takeaways:

• Being a powerful communicator isn’t just about public speaking—it’s about showing up, listening, and connecting in every conversation.
• Simple shifts, like device-free meals and analog breaks, help you gain back focus and emotional depth.
• Leadership communication hinges not on quantity, but quality: better communication is the secret to better relationships.
• Progress, not perfection. Even imperfect changes lead to measurable improvements in your attention span, memory, and the confidence you bring to every interaction.

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That awkward tension you feel when the camera turns on? It’s not a sign you’re bad at speaking, it’s your body trying to help. In this solo episode, Tim Newman breaks down one of the most common confidence killers in modern communication: camera anxiety. Whether you’re recording a 60-second update or giving a virtual keynote, your nervous system is along for the ride. But with a few mindset shifts and setup tweaks, you can turn those nerves into powerful communication tools.

This isn’t about being perfect. It’s about showing up consistently with presence, purpose, and a message worth listening to.

What You'll Learn:

• Why your brain mixes up fear and excitement, and how to use that to boost your public speaking confidence
• How poor lighting and audio sabotage your message (and how to fix it without buying a studio)
• Box breathing and the “power pause” in calming nerves and commanding attention
• How body language and strategic gestures silently build trust and credibility
• Why consistent, imperfect action beats waiting for the “perfect” take every single time
• The 21-Day Video Challenge that will take your presentation skills to the next level

Tim’s Take:
Being a powerful communicator isn’t about flawless delivery. It’s about authentic presence, consistent practice, and learning to lead even when your hands are shaking. Stop waiting to feel ready, just press record.

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Ever feel like the fear of public speaking is holding you back from being the leader, teammate, or communicator you know you can be?

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, Tim Newman welcomes Harriet Bratt—international speaker, firewalk facilitator, and fierce advocate for authenticity—to unpack what it really takes to become a powerful communicator.

From walking across fire to navigating ADHD, Harriet shares how confidence isn’t about being fearless, it’s about feeling the fear and showing up anyway. Together, Tim and Harriet dive into active listening skills, leadership communication, and storytelling techniques that help speakers, and humans show up more fully in every room they enter.

This isn’t just about presentation skills development. It’s about transforming how you connect with others, lead with love, and own your voice on stage and off.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• How firewalking becomes a metaphor for overcoming fear of public speaking
• Why ADHD can be a superpower in powerful communication
• Tools for emotional management and building self-awareness
• The truth about overcoming speaking anxiety (spoiler: it’s messy and real)
• What “leading with love” actually looks like in personal and professional communication
• Why honest feedback and knowing when to shut up are underrated superpowers
• How to embrace authenticity without losing your edge

Whether you’re prepping for your first keynote or simply trying to speak up with more clarity and confidence at work, this conversation will help you tap into the mindset, strategy, and soul of effective communication skills.

Connect with Harriet:

Grab Harriet’s free masterclass on the 5 Pillars of Public Speaking at harrietbratt.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/harrietbrattspeaker/
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Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/harriet-bratt-429b1b1a6/

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Ever been told to “just focus harder” in a conversation?

That advice doesn’t just miss the mark, it overlooks the superpowers hidden in how the ADHD brain works.

In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, Tim Newman flips the script on conventional communication strategies and shares science-backed techniques that align with how ADHD brains naturally function. From rapid-fire thinking to memory gaps and impulsive interjections, Tim reframes these common traits not as barriers, but as opportunities for transformation.

You’ll learn:

• Why ADHD brains process language up to 20x faster, and how to adjust for it
• The 2-second pause that boosts perceived competence by 37%
• How nonverbal signals can reduce interruptions by 62%
• A 3-word memory trick that can increase recall by up to 80%
• How to turn impulsivity into authenticity in every conversation

This isn’t about “fixing” communication, it’s about rewiring your approach so it works with your brain, not against it. Whether you live with ADHD or lead someone who does, these insights offer practical tools to create more meaningful, effective conversations.

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What do a sports statistician, a leadership coach, and a master storyteller have in common? A powerful understanding of what truly makes communication effective.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I welcome Kirk McCarley, executive career coach, ESPN talent statistician, and self-proclaimed "wealthy man" (thanks to his relationships, not his bank account). Kirk shares how his behind-the-scenes role in live broadcasting taught him lessons that apply far beyond the sports world, especially about presence, preparation, and the power of listening.

From stories of maraschino cherry theft to lessons from a beloved neighbor, this episode dives deep into what it really means to be a powerful communicator. It’s not about saying more—it’s about listening better, slowing down, and connecting with intention.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why active listening skills are your #1 communication tool
• How technology is killing connection, and how to fight back
• What leadership communication looks like in daily life
• Why “being present” is more powerful than being polished
• How overcoming imposter syndrome starts with preparation, not perfection

Kirk’s take on communication is both grounding and inspiring, reminding us that our greatest influence doesn’t come from speaking louder, but from listening more deeply.

Connect with Kirk:

theseedsowercoach.com
kirkmccarleyauthor.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/kirk-mccarley-1bbba950/
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https://www.facebook.com/KirkMcCarleyTheSeedSowerCoach/

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Your brain might be sabotaging your listening skills, and you don’t even realize it.

In this solo episode, Tim Newman dives into the five most common listening mistakes that quietly destroy relationships, teamwork, and trust. From the sneaky dopamine hit that pulls the conversation back to you to the science behind why your brain zones out mid-sentence, this episode unpacks the hidden habits that keep us from being powerful communicators.

Backed by neuroscience and loaded with actionable fixes, you'll learn:

• How to use the “two-second pause” to instantly improve leadership communication
• Why even a face-down phone can drop conversation quality by 32%
• How asking verification questions increases team innovation by 22%
• Why removing distractions can help you reclaim public speaking confidence in everyday conversations

Whether you're leading a team, speaking to a crowd, or connecting with a friend, these small changes in listening habits can radically improve how people respond to you.

Which mistake are you ready to fix first?

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What if your so-called flaws were actually your superpowers as a communicator?

At 86 years old, Annie Korzen, a character actress best known as Doris Klumpus on Seinfeld, has found viral fame on TikTok by being unapologetically herself. In this episode, Annie joins us to talk about how embracing her bold, outspoken nature led her to become a powerful communicator for a whole new generation.

From navigating social media at an age when most people are avoiding it, to crafting stories that connect across generational divides, Annie brings humor, heart, and a refreshing dose of real talk. She shares her thoughts on storytelling techniques, why being “too much” is often just enough, and how to handle speaking anxiety when your audience is the internet.

This is more than a story about going viral, it’s a blueprint for owning your voice, even when others have tried to silence it.

In this episode:

• How authenticity became Annie’s superpower
• What makes a story more than just a collection of events
• Why Gen Z craves imperfection
• Overcoming imposter syndrome, online critics, and speaking anxiety
• Leadership communication and the art of saying “actually, no”
• Humor, heartbreak, and wisdom from a storyteller who’s still going strong

Grab Annie’s book The Book of Annie: Humor, Heart and Chutzpah from an Accidental Influencer

Connect with Annie:

www.AnnieKorzen.com
https://www.tiktok.com/@akorzen
https://www.facebook.com/anniekorzen/f
https://www.instagram.com/anniekorzen/
https://www.youtube.com/@AnnieKorzenVideos

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Ever felt like you're one awkward pause away from being “found out”? You’re not alone. Up to 82% of professionals struggle with impostor syndrome, even when the evidence proves they’re more than capable.

In this episode, I unpack the three-part system that turns imposter syndrome into authentic, grounded confidence. This isn’t just a pep talk, it’s a roadmap to becoming a powerful communicator through structure, voice, and momentum.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• Why the three-act structure gives your message clarity and your brain relief
• How to uncover your authentic voice (hint: stop trying to “sound professional”)
• Why small wins, like a well-placed pause or active listening, create lasting confidence
• How to build a “confidence flywheel” using neuroscience-backed techniques
• Why public speaking confidence is about habits, not hype

This episode is for anyone who’s tired of waiting for confidence to magically appear (spoiler alert: it is NOT going to happen) and is ready to build it instead. Whether you’re leading meetings, pitching ideas, or just trying to be heard, these tools help you show up powerfully.

Because your voice doesn’t need to be perfect, it just needs to be yours.

Visit TimNewmanSpeaks.com to grab your free resource, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and start building the confidence you deserve.

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Some people walk into a room and instantly connect. Others spend the night hovering near the veggie tray, wondering how anyone makes networking look effortless.

In this episode of Speaking With Confidence, I talk with Michael Morgan, author of The Power of Networking and a seasoned leader with experience at Amazon, JPMorgan Chase, Walmart, and Chevron, to explore how meaningful relationships can fuel career growth and unlock opportunities you never saw coming.

From fraternity events at Penn State to Fortune 100 boardrooms, Michael shares how one connection changed everything. But this episode goes beyond traditional networking tips. We dive deep into leadership communication, active listening skills, and the presentation skills development needed to stand out, especially when you feel like an imposter in the room.

Key highlights include:

• How to build authentic connections (even if small talk drains you)
• The power of “disagree and commit” and speaking up without stepping on toes
• Using storytelling techniques to build trust and open doors
• Overcoming fear of public speaking and speaking anxiety in high-stakes moments
• Strategic preparation tips to tailor your communication and personal brand

If you want to become a powerful communicator, the kind people remember and want to refer, this episode will give you a roadmap to do just that.

Connect with Michael:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelvmorgan/

https://www.instagram.com/michael.v.morgan/

https://www.tiktok.com/@michael.v.morgan

https://michaelvmorgan.com

Visit TimNewmanSpeaks.com to grab your free resource, The Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them, and start building the confidence you deserve.

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