Something More Human – Détails, épisodes et analyse

From being all alone in a new city to navigating the intense spotlight of The Bachelor Season 20, Ben Higgins faced the most Googled breakup of 2017. In this candid conversation, Ben opens up about the challenges of separating his identity from 'Ben the Bachelor' and the pitfalls of social media, including the comparison and envy that can come with it. He shares how a friend's life-changing advice led him to shift his focus from fame to a higher purpose.

Join us as Ben answers tough listener questions with honesty and vulnerability, reflects on the power of deep friendships, and challenges us all to consider whether we are a safe space for those we care about. This episode is more than just a look back at Ben’s journey—it's a deep dive into what it means to live a life of purpose, connection, and intentionality.

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• Ben's website (+ download the connection deck!)

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Sam says, "Not allowing your friends to help robs them of the joy of being a great friend" and I felt that.

Asking your friends for help is easier said than done. When was the last time you explicitly asked your friend to help you with something related to your relationships, mental well being, professional development, creative expression?

Sam and I talk about how we feel compelled to lie even to the best of our friends and why; I tell a story about some of my best friends and the concept of how the three of us need to die in ways that we may live in other ways we have yet to.

A lot going on in this episode - it's heavy but we believe it's necessary conversation to help ourselves and you maximize our friendships.

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot

Dive deeper into conversations and community with The Something More Society! By joining The Something More Society, you’ll gain access to vibrant community chat channels, our monthly Book Club, exclusive mini episodes + ad-free listening, and the opportunity to connect directly with us and fellow listeners.

Grab your "IF NOT LOVE THEN WHAT" hat, your new favorite tea & shop our other merch!

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Is it possible to create and maintain a strong community while choosing van life, traveling full time, or working remotely? Maria shares everything from the challenges and risks to the power and fulfillment in choosing to live as a nomad doing remote work. Yes, it does include fractured ribs and expensive van repairs, but Maria also shares invaluable insight about not only how to make a living on the road, but how to cultivate a consistent community to avoid the perils of loneliness while constantly traveling.

Stay Connected with Maria
Follow her on Instagram @missmariabitner
and TikTok @mariabitner

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Stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman
and TikTok @somethingmorehuman

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE

Coming out as an adult is difficult enough, but in the midst of processing emotional trauma, relocating, and going to school full time, that’s enough to overwhelm anyone. We talk with one of our very best friends, Meghan, about her newfound insights as a lesbian, coming out as a 26 year old, how she cultivated self love after coming to terms with her trauma, and how that brought her to the love of her life, Serena. Serena provides heart-on-her-sleeve inspiration for those growing up in a household of people who may not agree or understand your sexuality, and talks about how she knew Meghan was the one for her.

Stay Connected with Serena:
Follow her on instagram @supreme_reena_

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot:
Visit our website & and stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman and TikTok @somethingmorehuman.

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE

A simple, cost-effective way to reconnect with our loved ones by putting our phones out of reach and prioritizing presence of mind, fun, and relaxation. We talk about how allowing ourselves the time and space to ask powerful questions creates an opportunity to explore and learn more about each other and ultimately reconnect our friendship. Elliot also talks about a realization he had about how to break the cycle of negative thoughts that turn into negative actions. Tune in to explore insights and actions that will lead to a more positive and fulfilling relationship not only with yourself but with those you love the most.

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot:

Visit our website & and stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman and TikTok @somethingmorehuman.

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE

How long does it take to get over a breakup? We sit down with relationship coach and therapist, Christina Abood, to discuss when to know to end it, how to get closure when you leave a relationship, recognize your dating patterns, get back out there without dating apps, and the do’s and don’ts for leaning on your community.

Mentioned in this episode: Signs It’s Time To Let Go Of A Relationship

More about Christina:

Christina Abood, MSW, LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Therapist, Trauma & Attachment Specialist, Relationship Coach, Podcast Host and Speaker. She has worked for years with individuals and couples on their relationships and is the founder and owner of Beyond Thought Therapy. She is passionate about helping people to create healthy lasting love for themselves and in their romantic lives. She works with her clients to heal past wounds and limiting beliefs, teaches them how to foster self-confidence and self-trust and how to find and maintain healthy love. She runs an Instagram account where she shares dating tips, relationship advice and practices and tools for creating an epic, fulfilling life. Christina also hosts the podcast Becoming The One where she goes in depth about love, relationship and becoming the person who has it all-self-love, confidence, juicy relationships and so much more.

Stay Connected with Christina:
 
Visit her website, follow her on Instagram @christinaabood, and check out her show, Becoming The One on Apple and Spotify. 

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot

Visit our website and stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman and TikTok @somethingmorehuman.

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE.

What happened on Friday the 13th, 1979 to a couple of lovebirds on their way to see Alien at the theatre? You may have a hard time believing what you hear, but Elliot's parents tell us about their close encounter on that night in 1979. Elliot realizes a specific Dateline NBC episode may be the starting point for the majority of his irrational anxieties. How do folks in their 60s feel about aging? We ask them!
Larry tells us a story about his idea with a match, a gallon of gasoline, and a manhole cover. Stay to the end where we set up Elliot's mom up to win a prize that we've been planning for for a while now!

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot

Visit our website and stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman and TikTok @somethingmorehuman.

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE.

Personal growth leads to growth everywhere else. In this episode, Sam downloads massive learnings from her first ever business conference and Elliot shares the easiest way to make friends in a foreign environment. Listen to this episode when you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next. Remember, there are no rules and there is no way.

Our favorite quote from the episode comes from Glennon Doyle: “Your job is to disappoint as many people as it takes to avoid disappointing yourself.”

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot

Visit our website and stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman and TikTok @somethingmorehuman.

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE.

In this episode, we talk with Alex, Erin, and Ariel, co-owners of the third wave coffee shop, Novel Point, located in Albuquerque, New Mexico. They get real with us about the grind of growing a small business, how they see their shop and community growing in the next several years, and how they’re engaging the coffee community in Albuquerque. If you ever find yourself at Novel Point, Elliot demands you try the Cascara Cream Soda.

Stay Connected with Novel Point:

Visit their website, give them a follow on Instagram @novelpointcoffee, and go visit them in person at 700 1st St NW, Albuquerque, NM 87102.  

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot

Visit our website and stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman and TikTok @somethingmorehuman.

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE.

George and Toviah Carter take us through their journey from corporate America and retail to selling weed on the side of a mountain to starting a family. As business owners and collaborators, parents, and a couple that’s been together for over 20 years, Sam & Elliot ask them about their strategies for keeping all the plates spinning at once, navigating conflict, and the keys for staying happy in marriage.

More about Toviah & George:

The two live in Albuquerque with their daughters, Hendrix Lou & Halston Bowe Loren, and their Miniature Schnauzer, Scout. Grab their favorite playlist HERE.  

The two have left the cannabis industry and now run a consulting business in the Ag-Tech space: Skout Strategy. Skout Strategy is a diverse team of controlled environment agriculture (CEA) experts who bring a combined 20 years of experience to developing, designing, and executing indoor agriculture projects across the globe.

Website: https://www.skoutstrategy.com/

Stay Connected with Sam & Elliot

Visit our website and stay in touch with us on Instagram @somethingmorehuman and TikTok @somethingmorehuman.

Want us to answer your question, address a special topic, or discuss a story of yours? Your input will be an integral part of our future episodes! Submit your question, topic request, or personal stories HERE.