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| Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D.: From Flirting to Fidelity — Attachment in Relationships | Reloscope #72 | 13 Feb 2025 | 00:48:16 | |
Ever wondered why your early relationship experiences tend to unfold similarly? This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella picks the brain of postdoctoral research fellow Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. to find out how attachment shapes our relationship beginnings. Having received her Ph.D. in developmental psychology from the University of Minnesota, Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. currently researches childhood maltreatment at the University of Calgary. Her research largely focuses on how early childhood relationships with parents shape attachment quality across the lifespan, including romantic relationships. Following the completion of her postdoctoral fellowship, Marissa aims to obtain a tenure-track professorship at a leading research university. In this episode, Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. reveals that, from a child’s infancy, parents lead by example when it comes to relationship attitudes and behaviors. Additionally, she sheds light on what individuals can do to navigate through relationship transition periods with certainty. Together, Marie and Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D. address the role of healing relationships in a change of attachment styles, from anxious or avoidant, to secure. So, tune in this week as we explore the fascinating world of attachment theory and its impact on the early stages of romantic relationships! Visit Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D.’s work: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=psKNvKwAAAAJ&hl=en&oi=ao/ Connect with Marissa D. Nivison, Ph.D via Twitter: https://x.com/MarissaNivison/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sc-4911255/episodes/recent | |||
| Marco Dehnert, Ph.D.: Trust and Jealousy in the Digital Era — How Technology Shapes Our Emotions | Reloscope #71 | 30 Jan 2025 | 00:49:52 | |
Technology has revolutionized the way we communicate and form relationship, offering a slew of opportunities. However, it has also introduced new challenges to trust and jealousy. This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella interviews communication and technology professor Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. on how technology shapes our emotions. Situated at the University of Arkansas, Marco Dehnert, Ph.D.’s work focuses on how people communicate through and with machines, such as social robots, AI companions, or virtual reality. His research is regularly published in peer-reviewed international journals and handbooks. Additionally, Marco Dehnert, Ph.D.’s work integrates methods, concepts, and theories from a variety of disciplines and areas, including communication studies, social robotics, new materialism, as well as sexuality studies. In this episode, Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. reveals the common triggers behind jealousy when technology is involved, such as social comparison, adding that algorithms play a huge role in limiting alternative perspectives. Together, Marie and Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. discuss both the positive and negative effects of technology on relationship. So, tune in this week for a deep dive on the complexities of modern relationship, and learn healthy habits on maintaining connections in a technology-centric world. Visit Marco Dehnert, Ph.D.’s work: https://www.marcodehnert.com/ Connect with Marco Dehnert, Ph.D. on the following platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarcoDehnert LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marco-dehnert-624b1a18b/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sc-4911255/episodes/recent | |||
| Nicole Koelewijn: Commitment and Long-term Planning in Relationships| Reloscope #62 | 26 Sep 2024 | 00:47:51 | |
You've found someone special, and the spark is undeniable. But as the novelty fades, what truly sustains a romantic relationship? It's not just love; it's commitment. Dive into this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by relationship coach Nicole Koelewijn where we unpack the critical role of commitment in long-term relationship planning and discover the keys to forging a bond that stands the test of time. With over a decade of experience in coaching, mediation, and consulting and her insights from motherhood, Nicole Koelewijn offers a comprehensive perspective on relationships. She believes relationships are the cornerstone of a fulfilling life, driving her dedication to empowering individuals with the tools to nurture healthy connections. In this episode, Nicole Koelewijn dissects the essence of commitment within relationships and sheds light on its profound impact on long-term planning with a partner. She advocates for proactive measures such as open discussions on personal values, life aspirations, and decision-making processes, emphasizing their role in fostering understanding and strengthening bonds. Furthermore, Nicole dispels common misconceptions surrounding relationship commitment and provides valuable insights into the delicate balance between dedication and overcommitment. Join Marie and Nicole Koelewijn this illuminating dialogue that promises to redefine your perspective on commitment and long-term relationship planning. Subscribe to our podcast for more thought-provoking conversations and unveil the blueprint to nurturing enduring connections. Resources as recommended by Nicole Koelewijn this episode: The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com Fair Play Card Game: https://www.fairplaylife.com/the-cards Follow Nicole Koelewijn’s work here: https://www.nicolekoelewijncoach.com/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Shira Etzion, LMFT: Shared Responsibilities for Personal Growth| Reloscope #61 | 12 Sep 2024 | 00:43:51 | |
Join the conversation this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast! Hosted by Marie Stella, this episode features the incredible Shira Etzion, LMFT. Prone to laughter, silliness, and (when it's called for) seriousness, Shira Etzion, LMFT has a natural ability to connect deeply with her clients: her style vacillates between an assertive coach and a celebratory champion. She wholeheartedly believes that whatever brings a person into therapy can be a powerful catalyst, ultimately helping them create a more enriched and honest life experience for themselves and those around them. In this episode, Shira Etzion, LMFT dispels common misconceptions about sharing responsibilities in relationships, challenging the idea of merely dividing housework equally. Through her insights, you will discover the positive impact shared responsibilities can have on a couple and gain practical suggestions on supporting each other. Join Marie and Shira Etzion, LMFT as they unravel daily habits and practices that empower romantic partners on the journey of sharing responsibilities. Take advantage of this insightful conversation that promises to redefine your perspective on bearing responsibilities in a relationship! Hit play now and enrich your relationship experience. Follow Shira Etzion, LMFT’s work: http://www.shiraetzionmft.com/ Connect with Shira Etzion, LMFT via LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/shira-etzion-lmft-45735092 Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Dr. Claudia Six: Sex Positivity — Fostering Healthy Attitude Towards Desire | Reloscope #60 | 29 Aug 2024 | 00:50:54 | |
This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by Dr. Claudia Six to discuss what it takes to foster healthy attitudes towards desire. Born and bred in France, Dr. Six grew up in a culture that is comfortable with sexuality. She moved to the United States at the ripe age of 19 for college, and subsequently pursued a Master of Arts in Psychology, along with a PhD in Clinical Sexology. Ever since, Dr. Six has served as an adjunct professor at the University of San Francisco, presented a TEDx talk on sexual performance anxiety in women, and even written a book ‘Erotic Integrity’. In this episode, Dr. Six posits that one’s attitude towards sexual desire can have a major effect on their relationships. She further addresses common misconceptions surrounding sexual desire, and shares recommendations on bonding exercises that may help with sexual stimulation. Together, Marie and Dr. Six discuss various obstacles that may arise when attempting to adjust perspectives on sex, and how those challenges can be navigated. So, tune into this episode for a riveting and liberating sex-positive conversation! Follow Dr. Claudia Six’s work: https://drsix.net Connect with Dr. Claudia Six on the following platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/claudia.sixphd Twitter: https://twitter.com/drsixnet YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_KRHr7JJOs5XoZ8amEtzag LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claudiasixphd Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Hui Wen Tong: The Path from Conflict to Violence in Intimate Relationships | Reloscope #59 | 15 Aug 2024 | 00:42:58 | |
This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by relationships counselor, Hui Wen Tong, to discuss the path from verbal conflict to physical violence and when to take an exit. Drawing on various person-centered modalities, Hui Wen Tong empowers clients by helping them address their internal struggles and self-belief systems. Outside the counseling clinic, she is a martial arts instructor with a fourth degree black belt in Ninjutsu, as well as a second degree black belt in Taekwondo. In this episode, Hui Wen Tong addresses the importance of creating a safe and non-judgemental therapeutic space for individuals who are dealing with relationship violence, be it the victim or perpetrator. That aside, she highlights triggers and stressors that might increase the likelihood of violence in intimate relationships. Together, Marie and Hui Wen discuss the various challenges that may arise in attempting to leave violent relationships, as well as how to overcome them. So, tune in today for an incredibly insightful conversation about the journey from words to wounds. Follow Hui Wen Tong’s work: https://sg.bebee.com/bee/hui-wen-tong Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Tessa Sinclair, LMFT: Navigating the Realities of Daily Life Together | Reloscope #58 | 01 Aug 2024 | 00:40:47 | |
This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist, Tessa Sinclair, LMFT, to uncover what lies beyond the honeymoon phase in the daily lives of a couple. Drawing from an eclectic background of therapy modalities, Tessa Sinclair, LMFT tailors every session to the needs of each client at her own holistic private practice operating in San Francisco since 2016. She specializes in helping high-achievers who've been suffering from burnout, overwhelm, and self-sabotage find connection and relief. In this episode, Tessa Sinclair, LMFT begins by offering her definition and perspective on the honeymoon phase. She further elucidates the reasons why couples might choose to live together, and outlines some realistic expectations for a daily life together. Together, Marie and Tessa Sinclair, LMFT address the trend of couples living together, debating benefits and drawbacks. So, tune in for an expert’s opinion on couple life beyond the honeymoon period! Visit the resources and tools mentioned by Tessa Sinclair, LMFT below. Fair Play: https://www.fairplaylife.com/the-cards Terrence Real’s Feedback Wheel: https://www.facebook.com/TerryRealRLI/photos/20-using-the-feedback-wheela-contract-with-your-partner-to-do-the-process-dont-j/2060336067326918/ Esther Perel’s Where Should We Begin: https://game.estherperel.com Connect with Tessa Sinclair, LMFT via the following platforms. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/talkwithtessa/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkwithtessa/ Website: http://www.talkwithtessa.com/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Wardrobe sponsored by AEGENDA. Experience the fusion of art, science, and technology in fashion with AEGENDA. Elevate your wardrobe to new heights of luxury and functionality. Visit https://www.aegenda.com today Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Robert Weiss Ph.D., LCSW: Prodependence — Building Healthy Relationships | Reloscope #57 | 18 Jul 2024 | 00:41:20 | |
This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by Robert Weiss, Ph.D., LCSW to discuss the notion of ‘prodependence’ rather than codependence. An educator, author, and licensed clinician for nearly 30 years, Robert Weiss, Ph.D., LCSW currently serves as the Chief Clinical Officer of Seeking Integrity, providing online education, support, and residential treatment for male sexual addicts and their families. But that aside, he has authored 11 books, including ‘Prodependence’, ‘Sex Addiction 101’, and ‘Out of the Doghouse’. In this episode, Robert Weiss, Ph.D., LCSW first establishes his definition of ‘prodependence’ and shares his rationale for coining the term: he believes that ‘prodependence’ is a healthier way of viewing relationships. He goes on to detail just how viewing relationships through the ‘prodependent’—instead of codependent—lens can benefit a couple’s mental health. Together, Marie and Dr. Rob discuss daily habits that can prove useful in reframing our mindset to prodependence. So, tune in for a fresh perspective on relationship dynamics, and perhaps in the process, re-evaluate your own. Follow Robert Weiss, Ph.D., LCSW’s work through the following platforms. Prodependence: https://prodependence.com/ Seeking Integrity: https://www.seekingintegrity.com/ Sex Love & Addiction Podcast with Dr. Rob: https://open.spotify.com/show/6ekzL2wCS0h8blEFychtSH?si=caef3898e85a4fa4 Overcoming Betrayal & Addiction Podcast with Dr. Robb and Tami VerHelst: https://open.spotify.com/show/0k142GoVlEcd3ibbK71arv?si=6b22a933bc034885 Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Linda Johnson: Unmasking the Four Horsemen in Emotionally Abusive Relationship | Reloscope #56 | 04 Jul 2024 | 00:56:24 | |
This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by licensed marriage and family therapist, Linda Johnson, to uncover the four horsemen of emotionally abusive relationships and how they manage to ride through undetected. With over two decades of experience providing psychotherapy and supervision services, Linda specializes in helping individuals and couples overcome relationship issues, addictive disorders, and unresolved trauma. Her expertise extends far beyond the therapist’s couch, as Linda has overseen the professional growth of numerous interns and trainees throughout her years. In this episode, Linda starts off by shedding light on the history of the term ‘four horsemen’, and what they represent in the context of emotionally abusive relationships. Together, Marie and Linda discuss signs—both internal and external—of emotionally abusive relationships, as well as the psychological and emotional effects it can bear on parties involved. To top it off, Linda shells some heartfelt advice for anyone currently in an emotionally abusive relationship. So, tune in for insights on how to identify if you’re in one or if a friend of yours is in one—and it might not be now, but it’s always good to know for later. Follow Linda and her work via the following platforms: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/lindajohnsontherapy Website: www.lindajohnsontherapy.com Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Cynthia Flores: The Power of Self-Worth — Overcoming Codependency in Love | Reloscope #55 | 20 Jun 2024 | 00:44:44 | |
This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella sits down with first-generation Latina therapist, coach, and speaker, Cynthia Flores, to discuss the role of self-worth in overcoming codependency in romantic relationships. As a daughter to immigrant parents in California, Cynthia has had similar experiences as her client base, leading her to be highly empathetic in her practice. Through her career, she aims to empower BIPOC groups to heal from their past traumas, alongside guiding them through work and life in general. In this episode, Cynthia posits that overcoming codependency in a romantic relationship without breaking up is possible, sharing her firm belief that therapeutic relationships are far more beneficial for our healing than isolation. Together, Marie and Cynthia delve into how self-worth contributes to healing, and identify the necessary steps toward this path. So, whether you’re questioning codependency in your relationship, or simply want to learn more about how to improve your self-worth, this episode promises to be eye-opening. Cynthia’s recommended resources: Attached by Amir Levine: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139 Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood: https://www.amazon.com/Women-Who-Love-Too-Much/dp/1416550216 Follow Cynthia’s work via https://www.cynthiagflores.com/. Connect with Cynthia on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cynthiafloreslmft/ Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Pauline Ryeland: How Physical Affection Strengthens Emotional Bonds | Reloscope #54 | 07 Jun 2024 | 00:42:08 | |
Welcome back to another episode of Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast! This week, host Marie Stella is joined by intimacy and sex educator, Pauline Ryeland, for an in-depth conversation about the connection between physical affection and emotional bonds. Dubbing herself the Intimacy Whisperer ®, Pauline Ryeland works as an intimacy, sex, & libido coach and educator, who is certified as a Somatic Sexological Body Worker, Tantra Teacher, & Facilitator, as well as a Master Trainer & Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and a Havening Techniques™ Trauma Specialist. In this episode, Pauline shares that physical affection is unequivocally necessary for a deep emotional connection. While some natural occurrences, such as erectile dysfunction and loss of libido, can inevitably pose a threat, she asserts that these can be overcome in various ways. Together, Marie and Pauline discuss the range of daily habits couples can engage with to strengthen their physical affection, and by extension, their emotional bond towards each other. So, tune in today for an eye-opening episode on just how compelling physical affection can be in your relationship! Follow Pauline’s work on www.paulineryeland.com/ Connect with Pauline via the following social media platforms. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/intimacywhisperer Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacywhisperer/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MultiPauline7 Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Kerrie Lumbewe: Reducing Lingering Stress from Relationship History | Reloscope #53 | 28 May 2024 | 00:41:35 | |
Welcome back to another episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast! This week, host Marie Stella is joined by relationships and marriage counselor Kerrie Lumbewe to understand what it takes to resolve relationship issues from the past. Kerrie is a fully registered psychologist and a member of the Psychology Board of Australia. She is also a registered Medicare provider and an Associate Member of the Australian Psychological Society. Having completed a Postgraduate Diploma of Psychological Practice at the Australian College of Applied Psychology, she is now a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist and uses the Gottman Method in her therapeutic work with couples. In this episode, Kerrie shares that reducing lingering stress from relationship history can make all the difference in a couple’s attitudes towards each other. For starters, she recommends reflecting on one’s ‘pain points’ or seemingly minute issues from the distant past that still affect them in the present. Together, Marie and Kerrie discuss the ways in which couples can reconcile and move forward with their relationship. They also mention daily habits that couples can practice when attempting to reduce relationship stress. So, whether you’re finding yourself detonating at every word your partner says, or simply eager to learn about how to nip it in the bud, tune in today for some words of wisdom! Follow Kerrie’s work via https://www.motivatingmarriages.com.au/. Connect with Kerrie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerrie-lumbewe-9b1363169/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Georgi Gardiner: Constructing Love — How Society Shapes Our Romantic Preferences | Reloscope #70 | 16 Jan 2025 | 01:05:22 | |
Ever wondered why you find yourself drawn to certain ‘types’ of partners? This week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella sits down with Georgi Gardiner, a gender & sexuality studies professor, to investigate the uncanny occurrence. Specializing in epistemology and meta-philosophy, Georgi Gardiner currently sits on the philosophy faculty at Tulane University. Previously, she held roles on the faculty and as a research fellow at the University of Tennessee and St. John’s College, Oxford University respectively. Fascinated by how people gather and how innovative gatherings can help individuals flourish, Georgi Gardiner also works on the philosophy of attention, sexuality, love, relationships, circus, risk, and the occult. In this episode, Georgi Gardiner reveals that media, advertising, and language are among some of the main societal and cultural factors that shape our understanding of love, attraction and relationships. She sheds light on collective belief, and how its strength in any given culture may contribute to the mutability of one’s preferences. Together, Marie and Georgi Gardiner weigh up ways to reflect on society’s influence on our romantic preferences. So, tune in this week for an insightful discussion about the culprits behind love’s blueprint, and discover tools for self-reflection! Visit Georgi Gardiner’s work on the following platforms: Website: https://sites.google.com/site/georgigardiner/home/ Tulane University: https://liberalarts.tulane.edu/philosophy/people/fulltime-faculty/georgi-gardiner/ The Conversation: https://theconversation.com/profiles/georgi-gardiner-1508044/articles/ Connect with Georgi Gardiner via email: georgicloud9@gmail.com Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Yvette Leech: Creating Shared Meaning — The Key to Lasting Romantic Relationships | Reloscope #52 | 09 May 2024 | 00:40:38 | |
Welcome back to another episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast! This week, host Marie Stella is joined by relationships counselor Yvette Leech to delve into the heart of what makes relationships go the distance: shared meaning. Hailing from the serene seaside Port Lincoln in South Australia, Yvette is not just a counselor, but also the mind behind Oceanside Health & Wellness. Her decade-long stint in the community aged care and disability sector is a testament to her genuine regard and passion for assisting diverse clients. With a non-judgemental and empathetic personality, Yvette always aims for her clients to feel at ease, understood, and valued. In this episode, she first shares that shared meaning is the foundation that reinforces the relationship when life gets tough. To achieve this, Yvette emphasizes the importance of healthy and open—albeit tough—conversations to be had on a regular basis. Together, Marie and Yvette discuss major challenges that might arise during such conversations, as well as how to overcome them. If you’re looking for expert advice on how to strengthen your relationship before the storms take over, this episode might be just what you need. Tune in for an enlightening conversation about negotiation and renegotiation in the quest for shared meaning. Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Dr. Ada Gonzalez: The Importance of Learning and Growth After a Breakup | Reloscope #51 | 25 Apr 2024 | 00:43:05 | |
Welcome to another episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast. Host Marie Stella is joined by the experienced marriage and family therapist, Ada Gonzalez, as they explore the intricate process of healing after a breakup. Moving beyond the melancholy that often accompanies a breakup can be challenging, but in this episode, Marie and Ada shed light on the importance of reflection and personal growth in the journey toward self-love. Ada Gonzalez, a seasoned speaker, author, and conversation strategist, brings over 30 years of expertise to the conversation. With a Ph.D. and a background as a licensed marriage and family therapist, she possesses a profound understanding of human behavior. Ada's multicultural upbringing and fluency in both Spanish and English have uniquely shaped her communication style, making her a dynamic force in the field of relationship healing. In this episode, Ada shares valuable insights drawn from her extensive experience helping couples and individuals heal their relationships. To navigate this challenging period, Ada emphasizes the importance of taking time to reflect. Marie and Ada delve into various modes of reflection, explore reflective prompts, and provide guidance on setting realistic short-term goals to facilitate the healing process. If you're seeking expert advice on how to navigate the aftermath of a breakup, gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your experiences, this episode is a must-listen. Join us for an insightful and engaging discussion that offers compelling advice and empathetic guidance to help you move forward with resilience and self-discovery. View Ada’s infographic here: https://www.yourheartconnection.com/transition-infographic Follow Ada’s work at http://www.adagonzalez.com/. Connect with Ada via the following social media platforms. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipDoctorforCouples LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adagonzalez Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationships.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent | |||
| Pooja Priyamvada: Dealing with Rejection in Search of a Partner | Reloscope #50 | 11 Apr 2024 | 00:53:54 | |
In today's digital age, where the act of swiping left and right has become almost like a casual pastime, dealing with rejection has become a common challenge. In this episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, your host Marie Stella is joined by grief counselor and academic expert Pooja Priyamvada. Together, they unravel the complexities of facing rejection in pursuing a romantic partner. Pooja, a versatile professional who wears many hats, including her roles as the academic director at the International Institute of Mass Media and a course facilitator for Leadership and Management in Health at the University of Washington, shares her wisdom. As a columnist for Women’s Web and Bonobology, she often documents her insights. During the podcast, Pooja emphasizes the importance of separating your online dating profile from your true self as the first step in handling rejection. Marie and Pooja delve into the nuances of modern dating, offering valuable coping mechanisms for the inevitable discouragement that can arise. They also discuss effective communication techniques that can reduce the likelihood of rejection. Join us for this insightful discussion and gain valuable insights into navigating the daunting world of modern dating with resilience and confidence. Follow Pooja’s work or connect with her via the following platforms. Twitter: www.twitter.com/soulversified Women’s Web: https://www.womensweb.in/author/pooja-priyamvada/ Bonobology: https://www.bonobology.com/expert/pooja-priyamvada/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255
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| Brooke Scerri: Relationship Satisfaction — The Key to Lasting Happiness | Reloscope #49 | 28 Mar 2024 | 00:57:04 | |
Welcome to another episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, where we delve into the profound world where love triumphs over heartbreak. Today, we're unveiling the secret recipe for satisfaction in a relationship. Join our host, Marie Stella, on this exhilarating journey alongside the psychologist, Brooke Scerri. Together, they are set to challenge your preconceived notions about what truly fuels the flames of passion in a relationship. It's not merely about maintaining a spark; it's about igniting a bonfire of love! However, Brooke Scerri is far from your ordinary therapist. She's embarked on a relentless quest for self-improvement, and her life story is a captivating mosaic of intricate experiences that have sculpted her into an empathetic and compassionate guide. Armed with wisdom from her own fascinating journey, she helps individuals transition from mere survival to genuine empowerment. In this episode, get ready for a revelation that will leave you awestruck: the path to relationship fulfillment lies in healing your inner child. Marie and Brooke will guide you through a labyrinth of enduring love, exploring soul-searching odysseys, and mastering effective communication techniques. Don't miss out on this riveting conversation filled with expert wisdom and real-life stories. It's time to embrace the power of love and uncover the secrets to lasting happiness in your relationship. Tune in for an insightful and engaging discussion that promises to transform your perspective on love and relationships! Follow Brooke’s work via https://www.nektarpsychology.com.au/. Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Dr. Rachel Hannam: How Your Family Shapes Your Love Life | Reloscope #48 | 14 Mar 2024 | 01:17:30 | |
In this episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella dives deep into the intricate connections between family dynamics and our romantic lives. Joined by relationships counselor and Director of North Brisbane Psychologists, Dr. Rachel Hannam, they explore the subtle yet profound influences of our nearest and dearest present-day romantic pursuits. Dr. Rachel, a fervent advocate for life-long learning and emotional self-care, co-founded North Brisbane Psychologists in 2012. She brings her wealth of experience to the discussion, shedding light on the significance of understanding and addressing one's family and childhood influences. Marie, in turn, candidly shares personal anecdotes from her past, revealing how these early experiences quietly shaped her love life. In 'From Childhood to Commitment: How Your Family Shapes Your Love Life', Rachel and Marie unravel patterns and behaviors rooted in family backgrounds. Together, they discuss the complexities of relationships while offering valuable insights into harmonizing differing views on commitment, especially when partners come from diverse family backgrounds. Join us for another insightful conversation about how our families often play the role of matchmaker or matchbreaker in our romantic lives. View Dr. Rachel’s work: https://northbrisbanepsychologists.com.au/team/dr-rachel-hannam/ Rachel’s ABC Radio podcast ‘Help Me! I’m a Comedian’: https://www.abc.net.au/listen/programs/editorschoice/help-me-im-a-comedian/12960338
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| Kristen Qualls: The Role of Daily Habits — Fostering Romance and Passion in Couples | Reloscope #47 | 01 Mar 2024 | 00:56:38 | |
A routine of daily habits running smoothly like a well-oiled machine can be what makes or breaks a relationship. But how, and why? To answer these questions, host Marie Stella is joined by Kristen Qualls, a seasoned counselor with a passion for empowering couples on their journey towards self-discovery and emotional well-being. Kristen’s approach to counseling is deeply rooted in understanding, respect, and the belief that healthy relationships are the key to a fulfilling life. This approach, along with her vast amount of experience, and more importantly, empathy, renders her a trusted guide for those seeking support and understanding amidst the hardest and darkest parts of their lives. In this episode, Marie and Kristen dig into why daily habits are so paramount to romance and passion in a relationship. They also tackle what daily habits can often look like, and how they differ from other forms of intimacy rituals. Kristen asserts that the roadblocks to achieving a smooth-sailing suite of daily habits often stem from lack of communication, and offers advice on how to remedy such a situation. Tune in to learn more about the subtle yet formidable effect daily habits have on your relationship! View Kristen’s work: https://www.kristenquallscounseling.com/ Connect with Kristen via social media: https://www.instagram.com/boundariesandgardens Resources and tools mentioned in this episode: The 7 Principles of Making Relationships by John Gottman: https://www.gottman.com/product/the-seven-principles-for-making-marriage-work/ 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman: https://5lovelanguages.com/store/the-5-love-languages Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch: https://www.booktopia.com.au/passionate-marriage-david-schnarch/book/9781921844423.html Attached by Amir Levine: https://www.amazon.com.au/Attached-Amir-Levine/dp/1529032172 Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson: https://www.amazon.com.au/Hold-Me-Tight-Successful-Relationships/dp/0749955481 Growing Yourself Up by Jenny Brown: https://www.amazon.com.au/Hold-Me-Tight-Successful-Relationships/dp/0749955481 Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/R_Sci_Labs Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent | |||
| Roohi Ahmad: Building Trust — Rituals for Couples to Enhance Trust and Communication | Reloscope #46 | 16 Feb 2024 | 00:55:52 | |
Welcome to this week's episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, where trust takes center stage. In this episode, Host Marie Stella and counselor Roohi Ahmad delve into the essential role trust plays in building healthy relationships, using the respected Gottman method and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Roohi, a registered counselor with ACA, shares invaluable insights about trust as the bedrock of emotional intimacy and security in a relationship. Through engaging conversation, Marie and Roohi explore various couple rituals from everyday gestures, from 'DC's (daily chats) to 'H2H' (heart-to-heart conversations), as coined by Marie. But it's not just about rituals; Roohi delves deep into the science behind these practices, explaining why they are so effective. With her expertise, she uncovers the intricacies of trust-building, offering practical approaches that couples can implement. Roohi also provides a wealth of additional resources for those eager to explore further. Join Marie and Roohi as they guide you through the nuances of trust and rituals, offering meaningful insights and actionable tips to help your relationship thrive. Tune in, take notes, and embark on a journey towards a deeper, more connected relationship. Follow Roohi’s work via www.connectwithcounselling.com.au. Connect with Roohi on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/roohiahmad/. Resources and tools mentioned by Roohi in this episode: The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com Esther Perel: https://www.estherperel.com Dr. Sue Johnson: https://drsuejohnson.com/books/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Jill Robin Payne: The Five Love Languages and how they impact compatibility | Reloscope #45 | 01 Feb 2024 | 00:47:21 | |
Compatibility hinges on speaking the same love language: trying to win a ‘words of affirmation’ enthusiast with a bouquet of roses is like reciting Shakespeare to a dog—it won’t quite hit the mark. As such, understanding and aligning your partner’s love languages can do wonders for the relationship. In this week’s episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by relationships and couples counselor Jill Robin Payne, to unravel the significance of love languages in a relationship. Jill’s insights have graced radio waves and television screens, and on top of it all, she’s a published author with a book on reciprocal communication to her name. She currently resides in vibrant Houston, Texas, where she operates a private practice and shares her life with her husband, Byron, and her son, Taylor. Together, Marie and Jill explore the importance of love languages and how they relate to romantic compatibility, shedding light on common misconceptions and challenges couples face in the process. That aside, Jill addresses the possibility of love languages evolving over time and offers guidance on recognizing and respecting each other’s preferences. So, tune in to this enlightening episode and get ready to dive into the heart of what makes or breaks a relationship. Follow Jill’s work via https://jillrobinpayne.com. Bempathy®: Looking through Children’s Eyes to Simplify Communication: https://www.bempathize.com/the_book Bempathy®: Meeting People; It’s Not a Game: https://www.amazon.com/Meeting-People-Its-Not-Game/dp/131268237X Connect with Jill on the following social media platforms. Twitter: https://twitter.com/jillrobinpayne Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JillRobinPayne/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jill-robin-payne/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/JillRPayne Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Lia Huynh: Confronting Infidelity — Honest Conversations and Pathways to Healing | Reloscope #44 | 19 Jan 2024 | 00:44:58 | |
Infidelity can shatter the very core of trust and intimacy in a relationship, leaving behind a trail of complexity and pain. Join us as we delve into this intricate journey with Host Marie Stella and Lia Huynh, two compassionate voices ready to explore the depths of healing through candid conversations. Lia Huynh, a distinguished Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in the vibrant San Francisco Bay Area, brings over two decades of expertise to the table. Her profound commitment to helping individuals, couples, and families cultivate robust relationships brimming with love and purpose shines through her work. Her insights have caught the attention of esteemed publications, like the New York Times, San Francisco Chronicle, and Newsweek, where she has shared her wisdom on subjects spanning mental health and relationships. In this episode, Marie and Lia steer us through the nuances of confronting infidelity head-on. While the healing journey is full of challenges, the power of courageous conversations emerges as a guiding light. Lia's wealth of experience, combined with her genuine passion for facilitating honest dialogues, offers a beacon of hope for those seeking to rebuild trust and foster connection. Beyond her professional accomplishments, Lia's personal journey adds an extra layer of authenticity to her insights. With a blissful 17-year marriage and two beautiful children, she not only brings her professional knowledge but also the relatable experience of navigating the complexities of relationships firsthand. Tune in to this thought-provoking episode as we embark on a voyage of exploration, empathy, and the pursuit of healing in the aftermath of infidelity. Don't miss this episode of Reloscope, and stay tuned for more insightful content! Follow Lia’s works at https://liahuynh.com/ or connect with her via Facebook: @therapywithlia, Instagram: @therapywithlia, or Youtube: @therapywithlia. Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Kelli Miller: New Year, New Hope — The Power of Effective Dialogue in Relationships | Reloscope #43 | 04 Jan 2024 | 00:44:45 | |
The new year is upon us, and it is an opportune time to re-evaluate, re-discuss, and re-negotiate relationship goals with your loved ones. This week on Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella is joined by psychotherapist Kelli Miller to talk about creating effective dialogue for a thriving relationship during the new year. A multifaceted expert, Kelli Miller is not only a seasoned psychotherapist who conducts seminars on relationships, but also a host to TV and radio shows by the likes of LA Talk Radio, wikiHow, and SIRIUS/XM Radio. To add, she has a wealth of writing experience under her belt, having recently authored 'Love Hacks: SImple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues' as well as the award-winning book 'Thriving with ADHD: A Workbook for Kids’. She has also contributed to over 12 well-established titles including Oprah Magazine and Wellness Magazine. In this episode, the best-selling author discusses communication techniques from her relationship book 'Love Hacks'—including one she dubs the ‘fast food drive-through’ technique—-that could prove useful for these New Year conversations. Together, Marie and Kelli talk about the importance of maintaining regular check-ins past the new year and ways to keep track of them. You can find the book here: https://a.co/d/er7LqQ5So, tune in for expert advice on effective communication and start on the right foot for 2024! Follow Kelli’s work at https://kellimillertherapy.com/. Connect with Kelli on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellimillermsw/. Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit http://re.lmsl.net/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbjaCqZj5gyYEBdnJL__VCQ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationships.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationships.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/R_Sci_Labs Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationships-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@relations.science.labs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent | |||
| Maryann Karinch: After Trauma — Nurturing Physical Intimacy | Reloscope #69 | 02 Jan 2025 | 01:01:01 | |
Trauma leaves deep emotional scars, sometimes affecting even the most intimate parts of a relationship. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella consults human behavior expert Maryann Karinch on the complexities of restoring physical intimacy in a relationship. Having published books on human behavior, sexual health, and relationships, Maryann Karinch is also a frequent contributor to Psychology Today on the theme of healthy intimate connections after trauma or illness. In this episode, Maryann Karinch reveals that one of the most common barriers to restoring physical intimacy post-trauma is the reluctance of one partner to touch, when it may be the very thing they need. However, she shares that a strong understanding of oneself and what offers them comfort can be a massive help in the recovery process. Together, Marie and Maryann Karinch canvass the various attachment styles, how they typically perform in such situations, and what solutions may work for them. So, tune in this week for an episode chock full of eye-opening information on one of the biggest challenges in a relationship! Visit Maryann Karinch’s work on the following platforms: Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/contributors/maryann-karinch/ Simon & Schuster: https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Maryann-Karinch/1438659/ Books by Maryann Karinch: https://www.amazon.com/Books-Maryann-Karinch/s?rh=n%3A283155%2Cp_27%3AMaryann+Karinch/ Connect with Maryann Karinch through the following platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/maryann.karinch/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryannkarinch/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Prof. Claude-Hélène Mayer — Navigating Emotional Dimensions in Multiracial Love during Christmas | Reloscope #42 | 21 Dec 2023 | 00:42:03 | |
The holidays are a time for celebration, new traditions, and family reunions to come together and spread love. However, how do you navigate the emotional complexities that may arise during Christmas, especially within multiracial couples? In this week's episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Claude-Hélène Mayer, an industrial and organizational psychology professor at the University of Johannesburg. With her background, Claude's unique career journey blends coaching, therapy, counseling, and mediation within corporate settings and with private individuals and families. Drawing from diverse psychological methods and having worked with clients on international scales, she is particularly attuned to the challenges of intercultural living and work. In this episode, Claude shares insights on overcoming challenges in multiracial relationships. She stresses the importance of having crucial conversations before celebrating significant events, such as Christmas, and how this can be applied to other areas of life. So, if you're looking for words of wisdom and insightful advice that honors your and your partner's heritage, don't miss this episode! Also, explore our other podcasts for more empowering relationship discussions. Follow Claude’s work at https://claudehmayer.com/. Connect with Claude on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/claudehelene/. Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Julie Griffin, PsyD: The Science of Routine — Understanding the Psychological and Neurological Effects of Couple Routines | Reloscope #41 | 07 Dec 2023 | 00:39:32 | |
Couple routines are integral in shaping a couple's daily life and exerting profound yet often subtle psychological and neurological influences in relationships that need to be aware of. That's why, in this week's episode of the "Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast," our host, Marie Stella, speaks with licensed clinical psychologist Julie Griffin to provide some helpful insights. They discuss the importance of understanding the impact of routines on relationships and offer practical tips on navigating these effects with care and empathy. Dr. Griffin is an experienced therapist who runs a private practice in Colorado. With a focus on promoting healthy relationships and emotional well-being, Dr. Griffin offers valuable assistance to individuals and couples seeking to improve their lives. In addition to traditional therapy sessions, Her innovative approach includes specialized two-day couples intensives, carefully designed to provide couples with the tools to enhance their bond and communicate more effectively, deepen their understanding of each other, and strengthen their relationship in a safe and supportive environment. In this episode, Marie and Dr. Griffin explore the fascinating science behind the daily routines of couples. They delve into how these routines can strengthen or strain a relationship and why they go beyond mere repetition. Dr. Griffin also shares some eye-opening insights into how routines affect the balance of neurotransmitters and emotions in couples who establish and stick to them. She also provides helpful advice tailored to couples at different stages of their journey together. Whether you're a seasoned couple or a new one, this episode makes you dive into couple routines and offers valuable information to strengthen your bond together as a couple. Don't forget to check out our other episodes and stay tuned for our upcoming episode on Reloscope, where we delve into the secrets of cultivating healthy and happy relationships in your life. Follow Dr. Griffin’s work via www.dynamic reflections psychology.com. Connect with Dr. Griffin on the following social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DynamicReflectionsPsych Instagram: www.instagram.com/dynamicreflectionspsychology Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Dr. Fran Davis: Moving Forward — Strategies for Recovery and Growth After Infidelity | Reloscope #40 | 24 Nov 2023 | 00:54:32 | |
Relationship infidelity can be a crushing blow, leaving deep emotional scars and making it difficult to rebuild trust and love. But remember, there's still hope for healing and growth, and you can move forward. Join Marie Stella and Dr. Fran Davis on this special episode of Reloscope as they explore what it’s like to get back on one’s feet following infidelity. Dr. Fran Davis is a licensed psychologist with years of experience in individual and couples therapy, specializing in helping couples navigate the challenges of infidelity and complex divorces. Her extensive background includes over 30 years at Harvard Business School and teaching at Harvard University, providing her with invaluable insights into rebuilding relationships. If you're ready to start your journey of healing, growth, and relationship revival, this episode of Reloscope is a must-watch. It's packed with valuable advice and support to help you move past infidelity and rediscover happiness. And don't forget to check out our upcoming content, designed to help you unlock your true potential and live your best life. Follow Dr. Fran Davis's work at https://www.drfrandavis.com/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Catherine E. Aponte, Psy.D.: Breaking Chains — Challenging Gendered Expectations and Stereotypes in Relationships | Reloscope #39 | 10 Nov 2023 | 01:23:54 | |
In a world where societal norms have long prescribed gender roles and expectations, dismantling these confines becomes imperative for fostering healthier, more balanced relationships. Join Marie Stella and Dr. Catherine Aponte as they embark on a profound exploration of the intricate realm of gender expectations and stereotypes within relationships. Dr. Aponte, a distinguished clinical psychologist, brings over three decades of experience from her private practice in Louisville, KY, USA, where she has been a guiding light for countless couples. Her insights are not confined to clinical spaces alone – she's an active contributor to leading platforms such as Psychology Today (https://psychologytoday.com/us/blog/marriage-equals) and The Good Men Project (https://goodmenproject.com/), advocating for equitable relationships and challenging traditional paradigms. A true visionary, Dr. Aponte's wisdom is encapsulated within her book, "A Marriage of Equals: How to Achieve Balance in a Committed Relationship." With a background including degrees from Duke University and the Spalding University School of Professional Psychology, she has also nurtured minds as an Associate Adjunct Professor of Clinical Psychology at Spalding University. Don't miss this opportunity to embrace diversity within relationships and gain actionable insights that will shape your understanding of partnership dynamics. Tune in to this enriching episode and empower your journey toward healthier, more fulfilling connections. Follow Dr. Aponte’s works via: https://goodmenproject.com/author/catherine-aponte/ Is Intimacy a Priority in Your Marriage? Leslie Doares, November 11, 2022 (https://webtalkradio.net/internet-talk-radio/2022/11/15/is-intimacy-a-priority-in-your-marriage-2/), Infidelity: Dealing with Betrayal, Damage & Recovery Triangle 411: July 19, 2022, Mary Insprucker/Catherine Aponte, Season 3, Episode 123. (https://triangle411.buzzsprout.com/892273/10988460-infidelity-dealing-with-betrayal-damage-recovery) Creating a Marriage of Equals with Catherine Aponte The Heart Center with Zach Beach (https://www.the-heart-center.com/?s=Creating+a+Marriage+of+Equals) October 10, 2021 The New Monogamy IDO Podcast with Chase and Sarah Kosterlitz (https://idopodcast.com/dr-catherine-aponte/) You can also connect with her via https://www.facebook.com/amarriageofequals/ or https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherine-aponte-1bb319b/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Shelby Riley, LMFT: Emotional Intimacy and Conflict Resolution — Managing Relationship Challenges | Reloscope #38 | 27 Oct 2023 | 01:08:49 | |
Conflicts are a natural part of any relationship, stemming from diverse viewpoints, needs, and expectations. How we navigate these clashes can significantly impact the dynamics we share with our loved ones. In this episode, Marie Stella and Shelby Riley will take you on a journey into intimacy and conflict resolution. Shelby Riley is a distinguished licensed marriage and family therapist and the visionary behind a thriving group therapy practice in Chester Springs, Pennsylvania. Shelby's impact doesn't stop at therapy sessions. Her expertise extends to clinical supervision and empowering fellow therapists through transformative business coaching. She's a sought-after speaker, sharing her insights on enhancing clinical skills and fostering business acumen in the field of therapy. Shelby's influence even stretches to the national stage, where she's played pivotal roles in leadership within the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. Beyond her professional achievements, Shelby's creative flair shines as a novelist, represented by the esteemed literary agent Chris Tomasino. Dive into this episode of Reloscope, where Marie and Shelby discuss the intricacies of modern relationships. Gain valuable insights into turning conflicts into opportunities for growth, with effective communication, empathy, and compromise leading the way. This conversation not only sheds light on conflict resolution but also offers a glimpse into nurturing robust and enduring love. Tune in and discover the keys to not just resolving conflicts, but nurturing intimacy that stands the test of time. Follow Shelby’s works via https://shelbyrileymft.com/ or connect with her social media via: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelbyrileylmft/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shelbyrileywrites/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100057342914687 Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Rebeca Islam: Revive Your Love: Reigniting the Spark in a Dying Relationship | Reloscope #37 | 13 Oct 2023 | 01:03:52 | |
In every journey of love, there are peaks of elation and valleys of uncertainty. The fervor that initially ignites a relationship can sometimes dim over time, leaving partners disheartened. But amidst this ebbing flame, lies the potential for revival. In this episode of Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Labs Podcasts, Marie Stella, is in an enriching conversation with Rebeca Islam. As a seasoned master life coach with a focus on leadership and marriage enrichment, Rebeca brings a wealth of wisdom to the table. Drawing from personal experiences of heartbreak and transformation, Rebeca embarked on a remarkable 13-year quest of self-discovery, spiritual connection, and the pursuit of harmonious matrimony. Her invaluable insights are now a guiding light for those seeking to expedite their own journey. A trailblazer in relationship and marriage fitness coaching, Rebeca specializes in rescuing joyless partnerships and rekindling the flames of connection. By reawakening the respect, intimacy, and authentic bond that defines the honeymoon phase, she empowers couples to script a new narrative of love. Moreover, Rebeca extends her expertise to individuals trapped in a cycle of attracting partners who leave them shattered. Her transformative guidance enables them to break free from this pattern and attract partners worthy of trust. Remember, challenges are the heartbeat of every relationship. The true measure of love and commitment lies in how couples confront and conquer these trials together. Through unwavering dedication, profound understanding, and an earnest desire to evolve, obstacles evolve into stepping stones, crafting a profound and enduring connection. Don't miss this riveting episode of Reloscope, where profound insights await. Tune in now to discover the art of revitalizing love and forging unbreakable bonds. Your journey to reignite passion starts here. Follow Rebeca’s works via https://www.youtube.com/@RebecaIslam or connect with her via Instagram: http://instagram.com/rebeca.islam, https://www.facebook.com/profile.php, http://instagram.com/rebeca.islam or https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeca-islam-2788b2176/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Chris Pye: The Role of Trust in Building Commitment in a Romantic Relationship | Reloscope #36 | 28 Sep 2023 | 00:37:24 | |
Trust is the foundation for a solid and lasting romantic relationship, nurturing emotional intimacy and commitment. Join Marie and Chris on this captivating episode of Reloscope as they explore the pivotal role of trust in building commitment. Chris Pye, a seasoned practitioner in applied theater and family counseling, shares his insights gained through diverse experiences. From his work with young people to his own journey as an adoptive parent, Chris brings a unique perspective to the discussion. Discover the power of trust in igniting passion and strengthening commitment in relationships. Don't miss this engaging episode as Reloscope dives deep into the heart of relationships. Tune in now for valuable insights and captivating discussions. Follow Chris's works via https://www.asinglestep.com.au/ or connect with him via https://www.facebook.com/asinglestepcoaching/ or https://www.linkedin.com/in/christopher-pye-679a9371/ Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Marie Stella Quek: Host Introduction | Reloscope #35 | 15 Sep 2023 | 00:53:52 | |
Welcome to the new episode of Reloscope: The Relationship Science Labs Insights Podcast, where we proudly introduce our new host, Marie Stella Quek. A distinguished Master's graduate in Media, Marie Stella's professional journey has intricately traversed the realms of food, travel, interior design, and lifestyle magazines across the vibrant landscapes of both Singapore and Australia. But Marie's narrative extends far beyond these accomplishments. She orchestrates thought-provoking podcasts on weekdays that delve into personal development and relationships. On weekends, she transitions into the role of a skilled photographer, capturing the essence of events and personalities through her keen lens. Emerging from the structured fabric of Singaporean society, she has undergone a profound transformation. Now firmly rooted in Melbourne, she's embraced the pursuit of self-evolution and the celebration of individuality. Prepare to accompany Marie Stella Quek on an enthralling exploration as she delves deep into the complexities of challenges within romantic relationships. Connect and visit Marie’s podcast show on Reloscope at https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipssciencelabs/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariequek/ Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Monica Kalra: Navigating Dating after Separation: Building New Relationships with Emotional Intelligence | Reloscope #34 | 01 Sep 2023 | 00:56:25 | |
Navigating dating after a separation or divorce can be emotionally challenging, as it signifies the end of a significant life chapter. However, you can confidently approach this new chapter and create healthy, fulfilling connections with emotional intelligence as your guide. Join Aditi on this episode of Reloscope as she welcomes Monica Kalra, a passionate and experienced Divorce and Relationship Confidence Coach. Monica's own inspiring journey of reclaiming personal power, breaking free from an abusive relationship, and rebuilding her confidence forms the foundation of her work. She empowers women to rise above victimhood, heals from generational relationship patterns, and become relationship warriors who own their power. In this insightful episode, Monica shares valuable tips for navigating dating after separation with emotional intelligence. Learn how to overcome stigmas, set positive boundaries, rebuild confidence, reclaim inner power, and nurture thriving, healthy relationships. If you're curious about finding love again after separation, don't miss out on this empowering episode of Reloscope. Tune in now and embark on a new chapter of love and connection with the guidance of emotional intelligence. Follow Monica’s work via https://monicakalracoaching.com/, you can also connect with her via Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100010680255998, Facebook Group: https://bit.ly/3FMaN8Y, LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monicakalracoaching/, Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicakalracoaching/ and she also have two published books you can access it via “How Do You Know He’s The One” - https://www.amazon.com.au/How-You-Know-Hes-One/dp/B0BW2BT1WZ/ and “How To Heal From A Toxic Relationship” - https://www.amazon.com.au/How-Heal-Toxic-Relationship-Relationships-ebook/dp/B0BXB2912B/ Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Kimberly Seltzer: Dating Styles in the Digital Age | Reloscope #33 | 18 Aug 2023 | 01:03:38 | |
The digital age has revolutionized nearly every aspect of human life, including how one connects and forms relationships. In romance, traditional dating styles have given way to a diverse range of approaches that cater to one’s fast-paced and technologically advanced world. In this episode of Reloscope, Aditi sits down with Kimberly Seltzer to explore some dating styles that have emerged in the digital age, showcasing how technology has shaped how one pursues love and companionship. Kimmy is a Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist, and Image Expert. With vast knowledge and experience as a therapist, certified style coach, dating coach, and matchmaker, she has helped people find lasting love and connection, attract success, and build valuable relationships using her unique “confidence makeover” process. Using an outside-in approach, Kimmy implements targeted style and emotional and social intelligence in people’s lives using her signature formula, “The Charisma Quotient,” working on body language, first impressions, image/wardrobe, and flirting and how it impacts attraction. This Los Angeles-based expert travels the country helping people discover confidence, charisma, and connection as a speaker at TEDx, National Matchmaking Conferences, eHarmony, Neutrogena, The Guild at Universal, UCLA, and iDate. Kimmy is also a regular contributor to the Huffington Post, with appearances in Cosmopolitan, Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Reader’s Digest, AskMen, Fox News Magazine, Yahoo, and the Washington Examiner, among a myriad of other publications. Moreover, Kimmy has been the leading love expert on the traveling live dating show The Great Love Debate, the cable reality series, The Romance, and now her new dating show, Dating IRL. You can listen to her on her podcast, The Charisma Quotient, and regular Ask Kimmy segments on the Chaz and AJ Morning Show on 99.1 PLR and 95.9 The Fox. Don't miss this engaging episode of Reloscope, where Adity Kutty and Kimberly Seltzer explore the complex topic of dating styles! To take up Kimmy’s quiz please visit https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/quiz/. You can also follow Kimmy’s work at www.kimmyseltzer.com and connect to her via: Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimmyseltzer/ LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/kimmyseltzer YouTube http://youtube.com/KimmySeltzer TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimmyseltzer Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Dr. Liz Jenkins: Tackling Relationship Stress — Navigating Couple Challenges | Reloscope #68 | 19 Dec 2024 | 01:06:01 | |
Even the strongest of relationships waver in hard times. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella consults relationship coach Dr. Liz Jenkins on how to identify sources of relationship stress and work through them as a couple. Dedicated to helping couples reconnect, repair, and reignite their love, Dr. Liz Jenkins has had a hand in swiftly transforming relationships and marriages to the connection and passion of their early years. A licensed marriage and family therapist with over 75,000 hours of focused time working with women and couples, Dr. Liz Jenkins is a trusted expert with a passion for guiding couples to relationship success. In this episode, Dr. Liz Jenkins describes relationships as systems, whereby issues that affect one will affect the other—big or small—from finances or parenting differences, to division of household chores or in-laws. Additionally, she reveals that relationship stress is one of the top reasons for divorce. Together, Marie and Dr. Liz Jenkins discuss how to identify signs of relationship stress and the best ways to approach potentially heated discussions. So, tune in this week for impactful information and advice on how to nurture your relationship back to health! Check out Dr. Liz Jenkins’s free resources: Love Languages Guide: https://learn.drlizjenkins.com/love-languages-guide Connection Call: https://calendly.com/drlizjenkinscoaching/couples-connection-call-with-dr-liz Couple’s Connection Checklist: https://learn.drlizjenkins.com/couples-checklist/ Visit Dr. Liz Jenkins’s work: http://www.drlizjenkins.com/ Connect with Dr. Liz Jenkins through the following platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrLizJenkins Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_liz_jenkins LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlizjenkins/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Nicole Mathieson: The Importance of Self-compassion in Relationships | Reloscope #32 | 11 Aug 2023 | 00:59:17 | |
Building and maintaining healthy relationships is essential for our well-being and happiness. On this episode of Reloscope, join host Aditi Kutty and special guest Nicole Mathieson as they explore the significance of self-compassion in relationships. Nicole is a counselor, couples therapist, and author dedicated to helping individuals develop more loving and connected intimate relationships, both with themselves and their partners. Her book, "The Beauty Load," exposes damaging beauty pressures and offers guidance on embracing self-acceptance. Discover the importance of cultivating self-compassion and its profound impact on the quality of your interactions and relationship health. Gain valuable insights and practical tips to integrate self-compassion into your journey of love and connection. If you're seeking to deepen your sense of compassion and create more harmonious and fulfilling relationships, don't miss this episode. Tune in and embark on a transformative exploration of self-compassion in relationships with Aditi Kutty and Nicole Mathieson. Follow Nicole’s work at www.nicolemathieson.com and connect with her via Instagram: @nicole.mathieson Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255
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| Amanda Lambros, CSP: The Role of Confidence in Successful Flirting | Reloscope #31 | 04 Aug 2023 | 00:50:57 | |
Prepare for a captivating conversation on successful flirting as Aditi Kutty sits down with renowned sexologist and relationship thought leader, Amanda Lambros. Amanda Lambros is an esteemed sexologist, captivating speaker, and revered authority in the field of communication and relationships. With a deep understanding of human sexuality and a passion for empowerment, she has made a significant impact in helping individuals navigate the complexities of intimacy. As a sexologist, Amanda's expertise extends beyond the physical aspects of sexuality. She explores the emotional, psychological, and societal factors that shape intimate experiences. Her compassionate and non-judgmental approach creates a safe space for individuals and couples to address concerns, explore their sexuality, and foster a healthy and fulfilling sexual life. Amanda's captivating speaking style and profound insights have captivated audiences worldwide. Through keynote speeches, workshops, and panel discussions, she fearlessly tackles taboo topics and challenges societal norms. Her ability to connect with her audience and provide practical advice sets her apart, igniting conversations on sexual empowerment, consent, and healthy communication. As a relationship thought leader, Amanda's contributions have influenced countless individuals seeking guidance in matters of the heart. Her research, writings, and media appearances provide fresh perspectives on building and maintaining meaningful relationships. From romantic partnerships to friendships and familial connections, Amanda offers an enlightened approach that inspires authentic self-expression, open communication, and relationships that bring joy and profound intimacy. Join Aditi Kutty and Amanda Lambros in this thrilling episode as they delve into the secrets of successful flirting. Don't miss this captivating conversation that will leave you with valuable insights and practical tips. Tune in now for an unforgettable episode of enlightening discussion and empowering advice. Follow Amanda’s work at www.amandalambros.com or connect with her via IG, Twitter, Linkedin: @AmandaLambros and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Amanda.E.Lambros/ Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Emma: The Benefits of Open Communication in Developing Shared Relationship Ideation | Reloscope #30 | 03 Jul 2023 | 00:51:57 | |
Effective communication is the foundation of any successful relationship, be it personal or professional. It is through open and transparent communication that shared relationship ideation can flourish. By fostering open communication, encouraging idea sharing, and practicing active listening, individuals can cultivate stronger and more collaborative relationships. This episode explored the numerous benefits of adopting open communication in the context of developing shared relationship ideation. In this episode, host Aditi Kutty engaged in a conversation with Emma, a compassionate and innovative counselor. Emma employs a range of tools and techniques, such as cards, Russian dolls, painting and drawing, and even video games, to help clients explore themselves. With academic backgrounds in psychology and counseling, Emma is also a registered member of the American Psychological Association. Having worked as a counselor and psychologist in different countries, she is dedicated to supporting her clients through difficult times, employing a pluralistic approach. Beyond her professional pursuits, Emma's zest for life extends to exploring philosophy and fables and embarking on solo road trips to new destinations. Join us as we delve into a discussion on the benefits of open communication in cultivating shared relationship ideation, with Emma as our insightful guide. You can follow Emma’s work at https://www.psychologytoday.com/nz/counselling/emma-qi-auckland-au/994451 or connect to her via https://www.linkedin.com/in/emma-qi/ Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationships-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f iHeart Radio: https://iheart.com/podcast/102784435 Podbean: https://relationshipsscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationships-sc-4911255/episodes/recent | |||
| Arsho Kalloghlian: The Link Between Personal Growth and Romantic Compatibility | Reloscope #29 | 23 Jun 2023 | 00:51:33 | |
In this episode of Reloscope, we're thrilled to have Arsho Kalloghlian, a highly experienced Psychotherapist practicing in Sydney's Northern Beaches area. With over 12 years of expertise in working with couples, she has encountered a wide range of relationship challenges. Her passion lies in imparting the relational skills she employs in her practice to the upcoming generations, empowering them to lead fulfilling lives as adults. Arsho delves into her perspective on romantic relationships, offering insights into romantic compatibility and the intricate connections between them. She generously shared practical techniques to nurture personal growth and enhance relationship compatibility. If you're seeking valuable advice to boost your personal growth and improve your romantic compatibility, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we engage in an enlightening and captivating conversation with Arsho Kalloghlian, exploring the depths of enhancing romantic relationships. Follow Arsho’s works via https://www.grassrootsapproach.com.au/ or connect with her via LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/arshokalloghlian/. Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255
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| Adam Bode: The Biology and Psychology of Romantic Love | Reloscope #28 | 16 Jun 2023 | 00:49:14 | |
On this episode of Reloscope, we are joined by Adam Bode, an interdisciplinary romantic love and human mating researcher who employs an evolutionary framework in his theory and analysis. He has a Bachelor of Psychology (Honours) and a Bachelor of Laws from the Australian National University. He is currently enrolled in a Ph.D. in Anthropology at the Australian National University. Adam’s research investigates romantic love using methods from evolutionary biology, biological anthropology, and evolutionary psychology. He is a proponent of a new approach to the science of romantic love, which takes a broad definition of romantic love, uses an evolutionary framework, and suggests it evolved by co-opting mother-infant bonding. In this episode, Adam shared his definition of romantic love and how it differs from other types of love, such as familial love or friendship. He also shared some interesting insights about the brain and body when one experiences love. Additionally, he shared best practices in relation to improving chemistry in romantic relationships. If you are currently seeking tips to enhance romantic love, then this episode is a must-listen! Join us as you engage in an insightful and engaging conversation with Adam Bode, and let’s dive deep into the realm of body movement and personal development. Follow Adam Bode’s works via https://adambode.net/ or connect with him via Twitter at @adambode4. Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Alicia Serrano: The Art of Keeping the Spark Alive in a Long-Term Romantic Passion | Reloscope #27 | 09 Jun 2023 | 01:07:11 | |
Maintaining a long-term relationship requires effort, creativity, and a commitment to nurturing the connection with your partner. While the initial phases of love are filled with excitement, sustaining the flame requires conscious acts and a deep understanding of each other's needs. Join host Aditi in this episode of Reloscope as she engages in a conversation with Alicia Serrano, a relationship coach and graduate student of clinical psychology. With three years of experience as a relationship coach and four years as a clinical psychology student, Alicia brings a primarily cognitive-behavioral and existential approach to her work, both professionally and personally. Alicia helps clients explore themselves, understand others, and work towards a relationship and personal goals. Her work is grounded in empathy, honesty, and objectivity, reflected in her no-nonsense yet compassionate approach. Tune in to gain valuable insights on nurturing long-term relationships from this enlightening discussion. Follow Alicia’s work at https://relationshiphero.com/coaches/Alicia or https://aliciaserrano-coaching.carrd.co/ and you can connect with her via Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alicia-therese-serrano/ Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Amber De Vos, The Seduxe: Overcoming Shyness and Social Anxiety in Dating and Relationships| Reloscope #26 | 05 Jun 2023 | 01:00:34 | |
Join us for an insightful episode of Reloscope, where our host Aditi engages in a transformative conversation with Amber De Vos. Amber is a dedicated advocate on a mission to help singles "go from clueless to coupled" by providing effective techniques and compelling advice that will help anyone improve their dating and communication skills. With her extensive experience as a top New York City celebrity photographer for 12 years, a BA degree in Anthropology, and a profound passion for personal development, Amber has spent over 4+ years as a matchmaker and dating coach, honing a unique coaching style that empowers her clients to grow and discover the best version of themselves on their romantic journey. In this episode, we delve into the challenges of overcoming shyness and social anxiety in the realm of dating and relationships. Amber shares invaluable insights about confronting obstacles with the right mindset. Through her expertise, she guides listeners on a path towards improved dating experiences and enhanced communication skills, ultimately fostering meaningful connections. Join us for an episode that combines informed discussions and insightful guidance. Get ready to conquer shyness and social anxiety as we unlock the secrets to building fulfilling relationships and establishing a strong connection with others. You can follow Amber’s work at http://www.theseduxe.com/ and connect with her via https://www.linkedin.com/in/amberdevos/ or follow her though her social media accounts: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeductionExpert, Instagram @The_Seduxe, and TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theseductionexpert Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255
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| Vanessa Antonio: Dating Tips and Techniques Based on Science | Reloscope #25 | 26 May 2023 | 01:06:27 | |
In this episode of Reloscope, host Aditi Kutty dives into the world of dating tips and techniques based on science with the renowned Filipina science-based dating coach Vanessa Antonio, popularly known as "Coach Vee." As the first US-certified Matchmaker in the Philippines, Vanessa combines her expertise in social sciences and scientific research on love and relationships to equip her audience with valuable insights for smarter dating. By distilling complex scientific concepts into fun and actionable dating tips, she empowers singles to enhance their chances of attracting a partner, securing second dates, getting more matches, and boosting their confidence in social interactions. Vanessa firmly believes that understanding the science behind dating provides a significant advantage in the modern dating scene. Through her engaging coaching style, she covers a wide range of topics, including the Science of Flirting, How to Ace Online Dating, How to be More Attractive to the Opposite Gender, How to Find ‘The One,’ and Best Dating ‘Mindsets,’ among many others. Not only is Vanessa a talented dating coach, but she is also a social researcher, leading her own research group in the United States. Additionally, she holds a Master's degree in Sociology from De La Salle University-Manila, Philippines, and is a certified Matchmaker from the prestigious Matchmaking Institute in New York City, USA. Vanessa's impact extends beyond coaching, as she is the visionary founder of Singles Events Manila—a prominent dating and social company that organizes large-scale gatherings for singles offline and online. Since its establishment in 2014, the organization has facilitated countless meaningful connections by guiding individuals to step out of their comfort zones, expand their networks, and make informed decisions about their romantic partners. They achieve this through coaching, matchmaking services, social clubs, podcasts, and exclusive events tailored to single professionals. Join Aditi Kutty and the insightful Coach Vee in this enlightening episode of Reloscope, where they unlock the secrets of science-based dating tips and techniques, providing singles with the tools they need to navigate the complex world of relationships and find lasting love. You can follow Vanessa via Instagram/Tiktok: DateCoachVee or via Facebook: Dating University and connect with her Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-antonio-b5175b252/?originalSubdomain=ph Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255
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| Marjorie Libourel: The Importance of Personal Growth and Self-Discovery in Maintaining Romantic Passion | Reloscope #24 | 19 May 2023 | 00:43:03 | |
In this episode of Reloscope, host Aditi Kutty explores the complex dynamics of romantic passion in relationships. While often associated with the early stages of love, romantic passion can endure and continue to enrich a long-lasting partnership. However, it's important to strike a healthy balance, ensuring that passion doesn't give way to unhealthy behaviors like obsession, jealousy, or possessiveness. Marjorie Libourel, an International Matchmaker & Relationship Expert, joins Aditi for an insightful conversation. With a successful career as an Elite Matchmaker in Europe, Marjorie brings a wealth of practical experience to the table. Drawing on her extensive work coaching and matching VIP clients, Marjorie understands the intricacies of modern love and relationships in today's society. With a strong educational background in Social Sciences, she offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of romantic passion. Through engaging discussion, listeners will gain valuable insights into maintaining a healthy balance of passion in their relationships. Marjorie's agency, ML Introductions, operates globally and provides matchmaking services, coaching, and counseling to clients, highlighting the importance of self-discovery and personal growth in finding and nurturing love. Tune in to this episode of Reloscope for an informed and engaging exploration of romantic passion, as Aditi and Marjorie delve into the nuances of modern relationships and provide valuable advice on cultivating and sustaining healthy love. To know more about Marjorie you can follow her work at www.mlintroductions.com or connect with her via Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/marjorielibourel/ Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Jourdan Travers, LCSW : The Role of Acceptance in Healing from Romantic Rejection | Reloscope #23 | 12 May 2023 | 01:11:35 | |
In today's episode, we dive into the painful experience of romantic rejection. Being in love can feel like a dream, but the sting of being "dumped" can leave us feeling devastated. Studies by Finkel and Baumeister (2019) have found that romantic rejection can have a profound impact on our mood, behavior, and cognitive functioning. Joining us on this episode is Jourdan Travers, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with extensive experience in treating anxiety, mood, substance abuse/dependence, and personality disorders. Jourdan holds a MSW from The University of Maryland and a B.A. in psychology from California State University Northridge. She is a highly skilled psychotherapist trained in several evidence-based therapies, including CBT, DBT, Trauma-Informed Care, Mindfulness, and Psycho-Education. Jourdan has worked with diverse patient populations, ranging from individuals with severe mental illness to those with less acute diagnoses. She believes in taking a holistic approach to mental health treatment, helping her clients navigate difficult emotions and thoughts, manage urges, and focus on their strengths to achieve long-term results. Currently, Jourdan serves as the Clinical Director at Awake Therapy. In this episode, we explore the complexities of romantic rejection and how it impacts us. Jourdan shares her insights and expertise, offering practical advice on how to cope with the pain of rejection and heal from it. Through our conversation, we hope to provide you with a greater understanding of this common human experience and how to move forward in a healthy way. You can check Jourdan Travers' work at https://www.awake-therapy.me and https://therapytips.org or follow Jourdan on Instagram: @JourdanTraversLCSW and Subscribe to her YouTube channel: @JourdanTravers. Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Dr. Treena Orchard: Sexual Health and Well-Being in Dating Apps | Reloscope #67 | 05 Dec 2024 | 00:50:11 | |
In a world where simple swiping and matching have become the norm, the dynamics of sexual health and wellbeing have taken on new dimensions, rendering it all the more vital to discuss. So, this week on Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Marie Stella sits down with medical anthropologist Treena Orchard to deconstruct the nuances of consent, boundaries, and sexual empowerment. Fascinated by digital technology and relationships of all kinds, Dr. Treena Orchard has penned her years of dating app experiences into her book ‘Sticky, Sexy, Sad’, which explains how these platforms are impacting sex, romance, and communication in the modern day, combined with her insights as an anthropologist. But that aside, she serves as associate professor at Western University’s School of Health Studies. In this episode, Dr. Treena Orchard shares her puzzlement at how difficult it was to get past the ‘texting phase’, recounting that most dating app exchanges go no further than through the phone. But beyond that, Dr. Treena Orchard expresses that most dating apps should do a better job of promoting sexual health awareness, suggesting campaigns where compelling information is integrated into the sign-up process, or even in their marketing collateral. Together, Dr. Treena Orchard and Marie discuss the future of sexual health and well-being, from technological advancements, to more holistic sex education in schools. So, tune in for a cathartic conversation filled with nuggets of personal anecdotes, sexual health wisdom, and more. Visit Dr. Treena Orchard’s work on the following platforms: Western University: https://www.uwo.ca/fhs/shs/about/faculty/orchard_t.html/ Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.com/citations?hl=en&user=--MjURkAAAAJ&view_op=list_works&sortby=pubdate/ Website: https://treenaorchard.com/ Connect with Dr. Treena Orchard via the following platforms: Twitter: https://twitter.com/stickysexysad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stickysexysad/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/treena-orchard-3b11b029/ Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/relationshipssciencelabs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Holly Jade Uhlich: Making Relationships Last: Building a Strong Foundation During the Initiation Stage | Reloscope #22 | 05 May 2023 | 01:02:32 | |
Welcome to the latest episode of our podcast, where we'll be exploring the unpredictable world of romantic relationships. Joining us today is Holly Jade Uhlich, a highly respected counselor, and holistic healing practitioner who is dedicated to promoting mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Whether you're searching for "the one" or dealing with a painful breakup, Holly's expertise in emotional healing is sure to provide valuable insights into navigating the complexities of romantic relationships. Together, Aditi and Holly will delve into the ups and downs of love, discussing everything from the joys of finding a soulmate to the challenges of heartbreak and separation. Drawing on her years of experience in supporting people on their journey toward becoming the best version of themselves, Holly will provide expert advice on how to cultivate healthy relationships and cope with the inevitable bumps in the road. So, whether you're currently in a relationship or simply interested in learning more about this fascinating topic, be sure to tune in to this episode of our podcast. With Holly's compassionate guidance and Aditi's insightful questions, you're sure to come away with a deeper understanding of the unpredictable world of romantic relationships. You can follow Holly’s work at www.holly-jade.com and www.counsellinginmelbourne.com.au, you can connect with Holly through her social media on Instagram: hollyjadehealing & holistichealingspace_podcast, Facebook: www.facebook.com/hollyjadehealing, you can also listen to Holly’s podcast at https://holistichealingspace.podbean.com and https://www.youtube.com/@hollyjadehealing Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255
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| Cristina Davy: Moving on from Separation with Grace and Forgiveness | Reloscope #21 | 28 Apr 2023 | 01:04:15 | |
Are you struggling to move on from a breakup? Do you find yourself still holding onto resentment and anger towards your ex, making it difficult to move forward? If so, then this episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast is for you. Host Aditi Kutty sits down with Cristina Davy, an international dating and relationship coach who is passionate about helping women heal from past abusive relationships and find healthy, long-lasting connections. Together, they explore tips and tricks to help you move on from separation with grace and forgiveness. Cristina's unique healing program, Become The One, and her revolutionary six-week relationship skills course,, Love Map, are designed to empower women to enjoy their dating experiences and successfully connect with their soulmates in a fast-paced world. Throughout the episode, Cristina shares her wisdom and insights on how to let go of past hurts, trust yourself, and create a more loving and uplifting intimate relationship. Her message is clear: with the right guidance and support, everyone has the power to create the connection necessary to birth more love into the world. Whether you're currently going through a breakup or simply want to learn how to let go of past hurts and move forward with grace and forgiveness, this episode of Reloscope is not to be missed. Join Aditi and Cristina as they explore the power of healing and love in the aftermath of heartbreak. Connect with Cristina via social media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/cristina.davy.1 LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristina-davy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/cristina_davy And you can also join her in Join Manifest Your Soulmate and Attract True Love Facebook Group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/527307431011585/?ref=share Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||
| Dr. Lisa Welling: Contraception Pros and Cons in a Relationship | Reloscope #20 | 31 Mar 2023 | 01:13:59 | |
Join host Lu Ngo in this episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast as she explores the topic of contraception beyond its commonly understood purpose of avoiding unwanted pregnancy. In a conversation with Dr. Lisa Welling, Associate Professor of Psychology at Oakland University, Michigan, listeners will learn about the pros and cons of using contraception in a romantic relationship. Dr. Welling is an accomplished scholar with a PhD from the University of Aberdeen and a wealth of research experience in the fields of evolutionary psychology and behavioral endocrinology. With over 80 journal publications and two edited volumes to her name, Dr. Welling is an expert in the area of human mate choice and related behaviors, with a particular focus on the impact of hormones on human behavior and preferences. In this episode, Dr. Welling discusses what contraception means and offers insights on how to use it effectively in a romantic relationship. Listeners will also gain practical advice on consulting with a doctor or counselor before making any decisions about contraception. Don't miss this informative and engaging episode of Reloscope, where Lu Ngo and Dr. Lisa Welling delve deep into the complex topic of contraception in relationships. Follow Dr. Welling’s works via https://www.wellingresearchlab.com/ or connect with her via social media below: Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/wellinglab Twitter - https://twitter.com/labwelling TikTok - @wellinglab Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255
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| Toya Ricci: Romantic Passion and The Benefits of Exploring and Expressing Sexuality | Reloscope #19 | 24 Mar 2023 | 00:58:54 | |
Are you feeling like the passion in your romantic relationship has dwindled, or wondering how to pursue romantic passion in the first place? The answer may lie in exploring and expressing sexuality. But how can we do this in a healthy and fulfilling way? Join host Aditi Kutty in this episode of Reloscope: The Relationships Science Insights Podcast as she delves deep into this topic with Melbourne-based creative sexologist and educator, Toya Ricci. With over 15 years of experience in facilitating creativity, art, and technology, Toya believes that sex is an act of creativity and is passionate about helping people embrace and express their sexuality for their overall health and wellbeing. Toya shares her thoughts on what defines a romantic relationship, how relationships have evolved over the years, and the best practices to improve romantic passion through exploring and expressing sexuality. With her insightful and engaging commentary, Toya offers a fresh perspective on this important topic, and provides listeners with practical advice on how to enhance their romantic relationships. So, get ready to explore the world of sexuality and romantic passion with Toya Ricci and Aditi Kutty in this exciting episode of Reloscope. You won't want to miss it! Follow Toya’s works via http://toyaricci.com/ or connect with her via Instagram @toyaricci and LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/toyaricci/?originalSubdomain=au Produced by the Relationships Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relationshipsciencelabs Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/relationship.science.labs/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationship.science.labs/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ReScienceLabs LinkedIn: linkedin.com/showcase/relationship-science-labs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@relationshipsciencelabs You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast/id1648297613 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqMt6V0Co77Dsa1CgM Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8ac0e92-9ca2-4e05-80e0-9b86f36da79f/reloscope-the-relationship-science-insights-podcast iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-reloscope-the-relationship-102784435/ Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.podbean.com/ PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/reloscope-the-relationship-sci-4911255 | |||