Rat Girls – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Welp! Trump won the election. And we are joined by Regan, the host of the F the Nice Guy Podcast, to dissect what this means for dating and sex! We cover the male loneliness epidemic, the 4B movement, women haters, Nick Fuentes, de-centering men, the patriarchy, self-love, safe sex, and more. 

We are back deep-diving into your sex questions! We talk about how to prepare for anal, what to do if your partner doesn't come during sex, where a couple can begin to find a third, the best positions for a small p3nis, how to keep your mouth wet while giving a BJ, how to know if your vagina smells normal, what to do if your partner doesn't want to touch you, your partner being too tired when you want to do it, how to deal with feeling rejection if your partner has a lower sex drive than you, butt hair, BV prevention, how to ask your partner for clit stimulation, why you cry after an orgasm and more. 

My fiance, Jesse Townes, is on the pod this week, and we are discussing everything we've done to prepare for the wedding! We share all the tips and tricks we've learned along the way and how we've prepped our relationship. We touch on wedding costs, combining finances, balancing family expectations, bridezillas, mental health, body confidence, wedding diet culture, cold feet, relationship anxieties, planning regrets, thoughts on kids, etc. 

My fiance, Jesse Townes, is back to answer your relationship questions! We cover: my husband refuses to give oral. How do I get around it?, Navigating when to say I love you and what to do if they don't say it back, what to do if your partner's sex drive is lower than yours, spontaneous desire vs responsive desire, feeling doubts during an engagement, when is the appropriate time to try and win your ex back, how to emotionally support your partner when they have a hard time maintaining an erection, is it okay to have a work wife?, how to handle the division of emotional and physical labor, mental load, how to release resentment, my ex came back and has seem to have changed what do I pay attention to?, moving into a partner's place, how to discuss money and splitting bills. 

We also nibble on periods, tampons, smut books, reality TV, door dash prices, and Wheel of Fortune. 

Another episode on bjs!! We answer all your burning questions. Like should you put your tongue in the pee hole, how to give a bj to someone with a foreskin, the proper way to face f*ck, using a vibe during a bj, how to build up sensation and tension, what to do if your arms get tired, enthusiasm, what to do with your teeth, is 53 too old to learn how to give a good bj, how to bring up trying new things to your partner, how to talk about s*x with your partner, how long bjs should take, whiskey d!ck, and more! 

Jesse Townes, my fiance and overall hot person, joins us to answer your relationship questions!! We cover p0rnography, jealousy, strategies for fighting healthy, what to do when you have different love languages, encouraging your partner to go to therapy, backsliding, being friends with your ex, boundaries, bringing up kinks with your partner, reconnecting after an argument, not being in the mood after a fight, the importance of sexual attraction, desire types, what to do if your partner tells you to lose weight, how to align on your goals, communication, and more. 

We also nibble on Swifties, Love Island, bees, boxing, etc. 

Abigail answers your most pressing BJ questions in this episode of Rat Girls podcast! We talk about deep throating, gag reflex, partners who can't come from bjs, what to do if you have GERD or struggle with acid reflex, what to do if your partner is super big or your mouth is small, hand motions, what to do if your tongue is short, how to handle a sore jaw, feeling confident, avoiding boredom, giving the balls some love, what to do when they finish, how to tell your partner you hate bjs, where they can come, and hawk tuah, and more! 

In this week’s episode, we get honest about our anxiety journeys. We break down how we discovered we had anxiety and how we now treat it. From therapy to Prozac to breathing techniques to healing your inner child, we cover it all! We also talk about how anxiety affects our relationships with our partners and parents. If you have anxiety, this episode is for you! 

We also nibble on loneliness, bachelorette parties, sexism, Jumanji, Wall Unit AC, reparenting, and more. 

Youtuber and bestie Colton David joins us on this week’s episode!! He takes us through his journey to realizing and embracing his sexuality! He walks us through how he discovered he was gay to how he lives proudly now. We talk about coming out to family, queer inspirations, finding what you like, gay dating, hookup culture, and grindr.

https://www.youtube.com/c/ColtonDavid

https://www.instagram.com/coltondavidd/

We also nibble on West Hollywood, Vanderpump Rules, getting the ick, hookups, bisexuality, morning people, the church, and more. 

This week, we are joined by intimacy expert Susan Bratton. She is brilliant and hilarious and walks us through how to have the best orgasm possible. We are truly in awe of her as she teaches us about orgasmic potential, the p-spot, self-love techniques, nipplegasms, nipple play, throat-gasms, female ejaculation, vibrators, vulva sensitivity, and more.