Making Polyamory Work – Détails, épisodes et analyse

In Part 2 of Libby's conversation with Emily Nagoski, there's a deeper conversation about the concept of "maintenance s*x" and how you may be doing it to safe your relationship, but it may actually be destroying it.

Emily Nagoski's website: https://www.emilynagoski.com/ Emily Nagoski on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski/

Emily Nagoski's books (highly recommended!): https://bookshop.org/contributors/emily-nagoski-4318b5e2-0f22-4415-963b-ce5a1f467607

The amazing Emily Nagoski joins Libby on Making Polyamory Work to drop truth bomb after truth bomb about sex in long-term relationships.

Emily Nagoski's website: https://www.emilynagoski.com/ Emily Nagoski on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski/

Emily Nagoski's books (highly recommended!): https://bookshop.org/contributors/emily-nagoski-4318b5e2-0f22-4415-963b-ce5a1f467607

Libby talks with AASECT-certified sexuality educator Aubri Lancaster about asexuality and aromanticism.

Aubri's website: https://acesexeducation.com/

Aubri's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/acesexeducation/

Taking a time out is so important when things get heated or uncomfortable. However, there are more useful and less useful ways to take a time out. In this episode, Libby lays out how to take a time out in a way that enhances, rather than disrupts, connection.

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Black Poly Pride: June 4-7, 2020 in Washington, DC

Terry Real's 10 Commandments of a Time Out

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EVENTS WHERE LIBBY IS PRESENTING

Atlanta Poly in Atlanta, February 29, 2020

Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, April 3-5, 2020

RelateCon in Boise, April 24-26, 2020

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The most essential skill to having healthier relationships.

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EVENTS WHERE LIBBY IS PRESENTING

Atlanta Poly in Atlanta, February 29, 2020

Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, April 3-5, 2020

RelateCon in Boise, April 24-26, 2020

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In this episode, Libby offers an idea on making upcoming difficult situations smoother, easier and more connecting.

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EVENTS WHERE LIBBY IS PRESENTING

Winter Poly Wonderland in West Virginia, February 13-16, 2020

Atlanta Poly in Atlanta, February 29, 2020

Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, April 3-5, 2020

RelateCon in Boise, April 24-26, 2020

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Libby answers a listener question about navigating sharing a home and sharing that home with other partners.

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Couple Privilege: having it doesn't necessarily make you an asshole (but it might) by Amy Gahran

5 Reasons Couple Privilege Doesn't Exist by Lola Phoenix

'why do couples stop having sex?' is the wrong question by Emily Nagoski

Navigating Difficult Conversations

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EVENTS WHERE LIBBY IS PRESENTING

PolyLiving in Philadelphia, February 7-9, 2020

Winter Poly Wonderland in West Virginia, February 13-16, 2020

Atlanta Poly in Atlanta, February 29, 2020

Southwest Love Fest in Tucson, April 3-5, 2020

RelateCon in Boise, April 24-26, 2020

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Libby explains the theory of attachment styles and what they might mean for your relationships.  (All of this stuff is Googleable, y'all, if you want to know more. ) ------------------------------------------------ Find Libby on the Web: https://libbysinback.com Apply for your free intro session at http://talktolibby.com

Libby talks about what to do when we don't feel seen by the people we love.

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SHOW LINKS

Feeling Understood — Even More Important Than Feeling Loved? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/201706/feeling-understood-even-more-important-feeling-loved

Neural Bases of Being Understood and not Understood: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4249470/

On Feeling Understood and Feeling Well: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2652476/

Loneliness: a disease? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3890922/

Brené Brown and True Belonging: https://ideas.ted.com/finding-our-way-to-true-belonging/

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Libby answers her first listener question on the show, where a listener asks, does it always make sense to disclose potential dealbreakers before the first date?  ------------------------------- SHOW LINKS Page Turner on Ambiamory: https://www.kinkly.com/youve-heard-of-polyamory-but-what-about-ambiamory/2/17832 Dating with HIV: https://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/relationships/a48131/dating-with-hiv/ I'm a Sex Worker and Dating is Awkward: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/im-a-sex-worker-and-dating-is-awkward_b_6770650 So You're Dating a Sex Worker: https://rewire.news/article/2017/11/27/youre-dating-sex-worker-heres-not/ What It's Like to Date Online as a Trans Person: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-its-really-like-to-online-date-as-a-trans-person_n_5b848aace4b0cf7b002e467b -------------------------------- Find Libby on the Web: https://libbysinback.com Sign up for coaching at http://talktolibby.com