Hello, Good Bis! – Détails, épisodes et analyse

We're back and we're changing up the format to be a little shorter and sweeter to fit our schedules. We'll be diving into the latest bisexual news, events, clubs, and activities. As always, you can drop us a line at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com... which we will definitely figure out the password to verysoon.

REFERENCES

• Zoë Kravitz Says Catwoman Is 'Definitely' Bi https://www.papermag.com/zoe-kravitz-catwoman-bi-2656845879.html
• Catwoman is officially bisexual https://www.theverge.com/2015/2/27/8123489/catwoman-bisexual-dc-comics-lgbtq
• HBO Max's Peacemaker Just Confirmed This Superhero Is Bisexual https://www.out.com/television/2022/2/11/hbo-max-peacemaker-just-confirmed-superhero-bisexual
• Supreme Court rejects case of Christian group and bisexual lawyer https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/supreme-court-rejects-case-christian-group-bisexual-lawyer-n1292534
• Ted Cruz’s Teenage Daughter Says She’s Bi, Disagrees With Him https://www.advocate.com/people/2022/1/07/ted-cruzs-teenage-daughter-says-shes-bi-disagrees-him
• Watch Miss Universe Australia Come Out as Bisexual on Television https://www.pride.com/comingout/2022/1/13/watch-miss-universe-australia-come-out-bisexual-television
• Olivia Benson's Son Comes Out as Bi in Sweet Law & Order: SVU Scene https://www.pride.com/tv/2022/1/19/olivia-bensons-son-comes-out-bi-sweet-law-order-svu-scene
• Luke Radford, 21, of the UK's biggest family breaks down on 22 Kids and Counting as he reveals how hard it was to come out as bisexual after hiding his true self since the age of 14 https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-10392093/Luke-Radford-21-cries-comes-bisexual-family-22-Kids-Counting.html
• The Voice Winner Sawyer Fredericks Comes Out as Bisexual https://www.advocate.com/arts-entertainment/2022/2/07/voice-winner-sawyer-fredericks-comes-out-bisexual
• Former Gucci Mane Artist Lil Wop Comes Out as Bisexual https://hiphopdx.com/news/id.68062/title.former-gucci-mane-artist-lil-wop-comes-out-as-bisexual#
• Stephanie Beatriz addresses bisexual Encanto theories: ‘Queer kids have that kind of feeling’ https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2022/03/22/mirabel-encanto-stephanie-beatriz-disney-bisexual/
• Bisexual athlete Ireen Wüst makes Olympics history with sixth gold medal https://www.metroweekly.com/2022/02/bisexual-athlete-ireen-wust-makes-olympics-history-with-fifth-gold-medal/
• How a video game about unpacking gets the bisexual experience spot on https://i-d.vice.com/en_uk/article/7kbj54/unpacking-bisexual-video-game
• Meet Jonathan, the 190-year-old bisexual giant tortoise https://www.avclub.com/jonathan-bisexual-tortoise-oldest-living-land-animal-1848432673

NYC HAPPENINGS

• Spicy Laps with Spin Peaks Mon 8 PM in Prospect Park https://www.instagram.com/spinpeaksracing/?hl=en
• NightCAP, Tues at 7PM https://www.instagram.com/nightcap_brooklyn/?hl=en
• New queer bar Oddly Enough https://www.oddlyenoughbar.com/
• Effort to open a new lesbian bar in Queens https://www.instagram.com/daveslesbianbar
• Cheer New York https://www.cheernewyork.org/
• Brooklyn Community Pride Center & BiRequest Discussion Group lgbtbrooklyn.org
• Dyke beer, team hosts monthly events https://www.instagram.com/dykebeer/?hl=en

OVERVIEW With daylight hours dwindling, it’s the perfect time to curate your queer winter reading list and get ready to cuddle up with a good book as the temperature drops! Annie and Rose talk to creative nonfiction author, Audrey Jennifer Smith about the importance of queer representation in media and her favorite queer authors, short stories, and books. Anything we missed? Email us at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com and let us know! REFERENCES Audrey Jennifer Smith online! https://mobile.twitter.com/lipstick_smitty  Tough Titties - Audrey Jennifer Smith https://www.hippocampusmagazine.com/2018/01/tough-titties-by-audrey-jennifer-smith/ Kerry Howley http://kerryhowley.com/ To Kill a Mockingbird - Harper Lee https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780060935467 The Golden Compass - Phillip Pullman https://www.indiebound.org/book/9784105389048 A Separate Peace - John Knowles https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780743253970 The Diary of a Young Girl - Anne Frank https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780553296983 Learning Anne Frank is a Bisexual is a Gamechanger https://blogs.timesofisrael.com/learning-anne-frank-was-bisexual-is-a-game-changer/ Ramona Quimby series by Beverly Cleary https://www.indiebound.org/search/book?keys=ramona+quimby Judy B Jones series by Barbara Park https://www.indiebound.org/search/book?keys=junie+b+jones   Fun Home - Alison Bechdel https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780618871711 On the Move - Oliver Sacks https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780804170932 I Might Regret This - Abbi Jacobson https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781538713273 Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe - Benjamin Alire Sáenz https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781442408937 A Cup of Water Under My Bed - Daisy Hernandez https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780807014486 Whip Smart - Melissa Febos https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780312561024 Abandon Me: Memoirs - Melissa Febos https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781632866585 Tin House Summer Writing Workshop https://tinhouse.com/workshop/summer-workshop/

It's Valentine's Day and love is in the air-- and on the air waves! We got together with Rob and Alex, co-hosts and creators of a podcast we love. If you haven't listened to Two Bi Guys, what are you waiting for? Actually, finish this episode first and then go binge their first season. We talk about bisexuality, podcasting, and asked the guys listener questions. Want to submit questions for future guests? Follow us on @HelloGoodBis on Instagram to hear the latest or email us at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com to tell us what you think of the episode!

SPOILER ALERT

50:06 - 52:00 Rose spoils Atypical

REFERENCES

Two Bi Guys

- Website https://www.twobiguys.com/

- Instagram https://www.instagram.com/twobiguys/

- Twitterhttps://twitter.com/twobiguys

Bi Request NYC http://www.birequest.org/

Slutever episode about bisexual men https://video.vice.com/en_us/video/bisexual-men-1-774/5c0a974ebe407728f37431ce

They Both Die at the End by Adam Silvera https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780062457806

Looking for the perfect song to subtly hint to your crush that you’ve caught feelings takes on an added challenge when you don’t know any queer tunes! Rose and Annie toiled all night working on the perfect mix just for you. In this episode, we talk about why bisexual representation in music matters and some of our favorite bisexual musicians and songs. Did we miss anything vital? Send us a tune to hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or on Instagram to @HelloGoodBis. 

References and show notes were too long to fit in this description! Here you go: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1nR-cJTQKK-DHHap4Abn5nD8gs2TnEEks6BzZdm22obw/

TIMESTAMPS

BiSexual Artists 21:00
Bilights 1:02:46
Bi History 1:15:45
Bising Stars 1:18:46
Call for AdBice1:22:16

We’ll miss saying "20-bi-teen," but we're excited to embrace the New Year! Lots of folks like to set resolutions, but do they work? How can you make them more effective? What about making a queer resolution? Rose and Annie dive into the internet and each other’s minds to help you select and set your goals (Uhm, keeping them is on you…). 

Did we miss something? Wanna share your resolution? Email us at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis. 

REFERENCES 

• History of New Years Resolutions https://www.history.com/news/the-history-of-new-years-resolutions 
• Some Stats on Effectiveness of Resolutions https://www.inc.com/peter-economy/10-top-new-years-resolutions-for-success-happiness-in-2019.html 
• Yup, people vote the most during the presidential election https://www.fairvote.org/voter_turnout#voter_turnout_101 
• Our coming out episode is #3 called The Good The Bi and the Ugly https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/The-Good--The-Bi--The-Ugly-Coming-Out-e4so7t 
• Sober Pride Resources https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7xgevd/how-to-party-at-pride-if-youre-sober https://myslutbox.com/out-proud-sober-how-to-have-fun-at-pride-without-liquor/ 
• Straight Edge https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straight_edge 
• Our episode about finding someone to love is #10 called Dating Bi-os https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/Dating-Bi-os-e9ad2k 
• When Brooklyn Was Queer (the book Annie forgot the name of) https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781250169914 
• Clementine Morrigan, physical consent https://www.instagram.com/clementinemorrigan 
• Figure skater Amber Glenn comes out as bisexual/pansexual: ‘I don’t want to hide who I am’ ’https://www.outsports.com/2019/12/17/21024753/amber-glenn-figure-skating-bisexual-pansexual-olympics-texas-team-usa 
• Former MMA Fighter Jason Ellis: Let Bi Men Like Me Into the Community https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2019/12/10/former-mma-fighter-jason-ellis-let-bi-men-me-community 
• Saying Bi, Bi, Bi to a Decade of Increased Bi+ Visibility https://www.hrc.org/blog/saying-bi-bi-bi-to-a-decade-of-increased-bi-visibility 
• Vaping ads often target bisexual women of color, study finds https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/vaping-ads-often-target-bisexual-women-of-color-study-finds-130533558.html 
• Quit Like a Woman, Holly Whitaker https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781984825056 
• The UK has elected the ‘gayest parliament in the world’: 8% say they’re gay or bisexual https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/the-uk-ha-elected-the-gayest-parliament-in-the-world-8-say-theyre-gay-or-bisexual 
• What you need to know about the Olivia Nicole Duffin TikTok biphobia drama https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30292626/olivia-nicole-duffin-tik-tok-biphobia-ex-boyfriend-liam-casey/ 
• Julie d’Aubigny https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julie_d%27Aubigny 
• Two Bi Guys https://www.twobiguys.com/ 
• Jen Winston http://instagram.com/jenerous 

TIME STAMPS 

Our Resolutions 00:49
How to Set Resolutions 9:13
History of Resolutions 12:08
Uh, Do Resolutions Work? 14:55
How to Keep On Track 15:49
Queer Resolutions 19:11
Listener Mail 39:56
Bilights (Bisexual News) 41:18
Bi History 46:04
Adbice 50:18

Believe it or not, but Rose and Annie definitely don’t know everything there is to know about sex. To be honest, sometimes they’re not even sure what sex is, so we called in the expert. Eva Bloom, a pleasure positive sex educator, youtuber, host of Sex Ed, and bisexual who just got her Masters in SEXTING comes on to talk to us about obtaining consent in a digital world, ettiquette of responding to nudes, what to do when your sex drive doesn’t match your partner’s and SO MUCH MORE.  TIMESTAMPS  Interview with Eva Bloom of @WhatsMyBodyDoing 00 - 32:32 Bilights 32:32 Bising Stars 40:40 Adbice 43:20  REFERENCES  Eva’s Channels &References Patreon https://www.patreon.com/WhatsMyBodyDoing  Youtube http://youtube.com/whatsmybodydoing  Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing  Twitter https://twitter.com/whatsmybodydoin?  Sex Ed School https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkfkcik9TOYgBh4RlhIXj-_  Want, Will, Won’t List http://old.mojoupgrade.com/  Sending nudes with invisible ink - check our instagram, we’ll post soon  Sex Positive Families https://www.instagram.com/sexpositive_families  Sex Positive Families Reading List https://sexpositivefamilies.com/sex-positive-families-reading-list/  Nadine Thornhill, Save Sex Ed https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkxd09MEgeleRJW-k73nEtI  Stevie Boebi https://www.youtube.com/user/SassiBoB  What’s Wrong With Molly Margaret https://www.instagram.com/whatswrongwithmollymargaret/  The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/  Give $3 a month to get the sex research letter https://www.patreon.com/join/WhatsMyBodyDoing/signup?ru=%2Fjoin%2FWhatsMyBodyDoing%2Fcheckout%3Frid%3D1881643%26  Andrew Gurza, Disability & Sex http://www.andrewgurza.com/  Bilights & Other References Lex Dating App https://www.vogue.com/article/lex-queer-dating-app  Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Equality Index https://www.hrc.org/mei  Lots of animals are bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/19/gay-animals-bisexual-same-sex-behaviour-evolution-yale-school-forestry-environmental-studies/  Bisexual people who are out to their partners may have worse sex https://www.insider.com/bisexual-people-out-to-their-straight-partners-have-worse-sex-2019-11  Bisexuality & Race on Dating Apps https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2019-11/uoia-rei111419.php  Kathleen Hanna http://www.kathleenhanna.com/  Le Tigre’s Feminist Sweepstakes https://open.spotify.com/album/0sba5xAGgB7VP3X6BSzIOg?si=ATE-6UcZRMyXFf1G7YiC_w

Have you ever Googled “how to do sex?” If the answer is yes, have we got a podcast for you! In this episode, Rose and Annie explore getting consent, having pleasurable sex, and the public school system that failed to teach them how to do either. Together, they discuss what constitutes sex and share some explicit sex acts you can do with your partner (and how to make sure everyone's consenting). Want to tell us about the sex acts we missed (but in a totally non-pervy way)? Email us at HelloGoodBis42069@gmail.com or slide into our DMs over on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

TIMESTAMPS

Consent 17:30
Sex Education 25:00
EXPLICIT SEX ACTIONS 38:10
Protection and STI Testing 1:12:15
Bilights (Bisexual News) 1:20:23
Bising Stars 1:24:47
Adbice 1:28:27

There comes a time in every bisexual’s life when you’ll ask yourself: what do I normally do with my hands and are they always this sweaty? This my friends is called a crush. Join Annie and Rose as they talk about all things attraction, flirtation, and dating! From matching online to meeting IRL, saying “I love you” to ending things--we answer some of the questions you had about how to pursue the one you want. Did we get anything wrong? Let us know by emailing us at HelloGoodBis42069@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

RESOURCES

• A Smart Girl’s Guide to Boys https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Boys/dp/1584853689
• Stevie Boebi, “How to Compliment Girls” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByGp5e6RVoc
• Old Guard apps: Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, Hinge, Match
• Queer Apps: Grindr, Her, Scruff, Chappy
• About angel shots: https://www.businessinsider.com/angel-shots-help-women-on-bad-dates-2017-1
• Dear Therapist: I’m Afraid My Boyfriend’s Sexuality Will End Our Relationship https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/11/im-worried-my-boyfriend-is-gay/601231/
• Regan Gascoigne, son of football legend Paul Gascoigne, just came out as bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/04/regan-gascoigne-paul-gascoine-bisexual-coming-out-football/
• Ad appearing to attack Democratic City-County Council candidate draws ire on social media https://www.indystar.com/story/news/politics/elections/2019/10/28/election-2019-ad-appears-to-attack-lgbtq-council-candidate/2485034001/
• Director Desiree Akhavan Is Flipping the Script on Coming-Out Stories https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/j538gy/desiree-akhavan-the-bisexual-interview
• Kori Michele, Let’s Talk About Bisexuality https://korimichele.myportfolio.com/lets-talk-about-bisexuality
  

TIMESTAMPS

How do I approach someone IRL? 28:06
Knowing when they aren’t interested 32:04
How to spot a queer in the wild / How to show off that i’m queer 35:00
Connecting online 37:35
Taking it offline 45:11
Ending a date 51:31
Rejecting someone and getting rejected 1:00:31
What if everything works out? 1:09:31
Weekly Bilights (bisexual news) 1:12:38
Bising Stars (queer people we like) 1:17:09
Call for AdBice 1:19:55

TV and movies surround us from a young age, shaping our understanding of the world and our expectations of others. Annie and Rose explore their first exposure to bisexual characters, the history of bisexuality on the bi screen, why representation matters, and what TV and movies get right (er… more often wrong). Tell us who we missed by writing to hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com and follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

SPOILERS

Sex and the City | 5:39 - 12:03, 19:40 - 20:18
Dr. Who | 14:10 - 17:40
Grey’s Anatomy | 36:14 - 36:56
Madame Secretary | 37:56 - 38:20
Buffy the Vampire Slayer | 38:28 - 40:25
Broad City | 40:31 - 43:58
I Might Regret This - Abbi Jacobson | 42:25 - 43:05
Insecure | 44:00 - 46:00
A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila | 46:00 - 47:15
The OC | 47:15 - 48:40
Brooklyn 99 | 48:53 - 49:09
The Good Wife | 49:09 - 49:37
House of Cards | 49:37 - 49:49
Insatiable | 49:49 - 50:27
The Politician | 50:27 - 50:53
Crazy Ex Girlfriend | 50:53 - 52:05
Game of Thrones | 52:05 - 52:15
Killing Eve | 52:15 - 52:43
The Bisexual | 52:43 - 53:16
Big Mouth | 53:16 - 53:25
True Blood | 53:25 - 53: 45
House | 53:25 - 54:00
Bones | 54:00 54:28
Orange is the New Black | 54:28 54:46
Friends | 54:46 - 55:12
How I Met Your Mother | 55:12 - 55:30
The Good Place | 55:30 - 55:28
Chilling Adventures of Sabrina the Teenage Witch | 55:28 - 55:43
Sakura Cardcaptors | 55:43 - 55:59}
Family Guy | 55:59 - 56:09
Bob’s Burgers | 56:09 - 56:48
Thor: Ragnorok & The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo | 57:57- 58:00
Atomic Blonde | 58:00 - 58:45
Rocky Horror | 58:45 - 58:53
500 Days of Summer | 58:53 - 58:57
Scott Pilgrim vs. the World | 58:57 - 59:04
Chasing Amy | 59:04 - 1:00:25
Cabaret 1:00:25 - 1:00:55
The Comedian | 1:01:04
Jennifer’s Body 1:01:04 - 1:03:35

RESOURCES

Jenny Bick’s twitter for you to get at her https://twitter.com/JennyBicks
Podcast About Matthew Shepard
GLBTQ Archive History of Bisexuality of Cinema http://www.glbtqarchive.com/arts/bisex_film_A.pdf
This podacast helped form Rose’s opinion of Jennifer’s Body https://anchor.fm/girls-guts--giallo/episodes/Jennifers-Body-2009-e5148r/a-ankm3m

TIMESTAMPS

Our First Times & Why Representation Matters 5:00
Brief History of Bisexuality in Cinema 26:56
Traps & Troupes 30:13
Examples of Bisexual  36:14
Rampant Speculation of Bi Characters 1:03:40
Bi-lights (Bi news) 1:06:17
Bi-sing Stars (Queer people we like) 1:10:34
AdBice (Advice) 1:15:32

Join Rose and Annie as we hop in the TARDIS, take the DeLorean up to 88, and spin our time turners to take a look back at bisexual throughout history and the evolution of bisexuality in general. Want to tell us what we got right, wrong, should talk about next? Email us at hellogoodbis42069@gmail.com or leave us a voice message anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/message. 

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REFERENCES

1. International Pronouns Day https://pronounsday.org/
2. https://www.bustle.com/articles/40282-a-brief-history-of-bisexuality-from-ancient-greece-and-the-kinsey-scale-to-lindsay-lohan
3. https://www.theguardian.com/music/2010/oct/11/two-spirit-people-north-america
4.  https://radicalbi.files.wordpress.com/2012/12/bisexuality-in-psychoanalytic-theory.pdf
5. https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/historical-report-diversity-of-sexual-orientation.php
6. https://www.cnn.com/2015/06/19/us/lgbt-rights-milestones-fast-facts/index.html
7. https://thestonewallinnnyc.com/
8. https://www.them.us/story/brenda-howard
9. http://www.glbtqarchive.com/ssh/bisex_movements_S.pdf
10. Donny The Punk’s obituary http://www.columbia.edu/cu/gables/hiv/mem/donaldson.html
11. More examples of bisexuals in the LGBTQ equality movement https://bi.org/en/articles/the-bisexual-warriors-of-the-gay-movement
12. Bisexual Chic https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psychology-yesterday/201308/bisexual-chic-0
13. Bisexual Men & HIV in 1980s http://www.binetusa.org/bihealth.html
14. Bisexual Women & Radical Feminism https://books.google.com/books?id=XS_SnVPixE8C&pg=PA82&lpg=PA82&dq=%22bisexual+feminism%22&source=bl&ots=n32nIC-3XC&sig=h7jkH9Tq2dtkR0gs9Q7hmvNMzZ4&hl=en&sa=X&ei=zrdsUIKQLeWC0QHKqYHwAQ&ved=0CDAQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q&f=false
15. SCOTUS Hears Two Cases on Workplace Discrimination Based on Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity https://constitutioncenter.org/blog/supreme-court-hears-two-major-cases-today-on-title-vii-and-discrimination
16. LGBTQ Townhall https://www.cnn.com/2019/10/01/politics/bernie-sanders-cnn-lgbtq-town-hall/index.html
17. Securing LGBTQ+ Rights and Equality, Elizabeth Warren’s plan https://elizabethwarren.com/plans/lgbtq-equality
18. RuPaul’s Drag Race: Scaredy Kat was ‘terrified’ because he’s not gay https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/e076a58f-862a-4c2b-b803-4a25b5dcb1e5
19. Big Mouth Pansexuality vs Bisexuality Episode Stumbles Over Itself https://www.advocate.com/television/2019/10/07/big-mouth-pansexuality-vs-bisexuality-episode-stumbles-over-itself
20. Fans Think the Lyrics to Harry Styles' New Song "Lights Up" Mean He's Part of the LGBTQ+ Community https://www.seventeen.com/celebrity/music/a29441076/harry-styles-lights-out-lyrics-meaning/
21. Amid 'Kill the Gays' bill uproar, Ugandan LGBTQ activist is killed https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/nbc-out/amid-kill-gays-bill-uproar-ugandan-lgbtq-activist-killed-n1067336
22. Lily Singh  https://people.com/tv/youtuber-lilly-singh-comes-out-bisexual/
23. BiRCH https://biresource.org/research-spotlight-bisexual-research-collaborative-on-health-birch/

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TIMESTAMPS

Pronoun Day 4:06
Early Bisexuality and Psychology 6:49
Bisexuals in LGBTQ History 26:04
Bilights (Bisexual News) 46:49
Bising Stars (Queer People We Like) 56:30
Call for Adbice (Advice Please) 1:00:45