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Walking your dog is a crucial part of raising and training them; thus, knowing the two types of dog walks can make a HUGE difference to your training experience.

"Doggy Dan, is there more than just one way to do dog walks?"

Yes… and my goal is to help dog owners tap into the power of switching walking styles to make the most out of dog walks.

In this blog, I will talk about the two types of dog walks, why you need to know both, and how to know which type to use best.

Read on to learn more.

The Two Types of Dog Walks: Why You Need More Than Just One Type of Walk

All walk and no play makes your dog a very irritable and restless pet.

A common misconception among dog owners regarding walking dogs is that there's only one walking style to follow from start to finish.

As a dog trainer who has helped dogs and their owners make walks effective while having fun, I know that sticking to one walking style can make your time outdoors an absolute struggle!

Because let's be honest: our dogs are playful, and the outdoors is the perfect setting for unleashing their love for fun!

Expecting them to follow one style of walking (and nothing else!) sets you and your dog up for frustration!

So, what do you do to make outdoor walks more effective? Here are the two types of dog walks you should follow.

The Structured Walk

The first dog-walking style is the “structured walk”.

Even though it is not THE ONLY walk you can do, it is undoubtedly the most important walk you should master.

Most dog owners feel this type of walk is the gold standard, the only way to do things. (More on this later.)

During the structured walk, your dog walks with a leash, and you absolutely are in control of the entire walk.

You give commands, you decide what your dog can and can't do, and your dog is expected to follow your charge.

This is the walking style that tells your dog, "I am in charge of the walk. I make the decisions. You listen to my commands."

When you engage in a structured walk, you drive the entire walk, and your dog has to follow YOUR charge.

The Social Walk

Now, this walking style is what your dog loves!

The walk becomes social when your dog can roam free and do what they want for a time.

The walk doesn't have a structure, and dogs are more accessible to sniff posts, or check out areas they want to see.

Compared to The Structured Walk, this more relaxed option allows your dog to really have fun and socialize!

Two Types of Dog Walks: What the Structured Walk Teaches Your Dog

Walking your dog the structured way sends them this important message: you're in charge of the walk, not them.

The Structured Walk is crucial because it can solve typical dog walking problems such as leash pulling, aggression, overexcitement, and outdoor anxiety.

Sure, you will be giving your dog the freedom to roam around and freely explore, but before you do that, your dog must understand you make the calls.

And it is during the structured walks that your dog firmly gets the message that makes them say, "Ahh, I should listen to my owner's commands before I do anything during the walk."

I actually talk more about The Structured Walk in my blog on the best way to walk dogs, the fifth in my Five Golden Rules series.

In a nutshell, The Structured walk is critical because it teaches your dog they're not in charge. And when your dog knows they don't make the calls, they relax, they become less aggressive, and they come to your call (which is an absolute need if you're going to switch to The Social Walk).

What the Social Walk Teaches Your Dog

The Social Walk is about having fun!

Here's the truth: we can't expect our dogs to spend the entire 30 minutes of their time outdoors just following a structured walk.

They're already outdoors; they need to explore, run, sniff, and play.

The social walk allows your dog to enjoy a little fun and downtime during your walk.

Which Should You Do With Your Dog: How to Know Which Walk to Choose

So, how do you know which walk to choose between the types of dog walks?

When To Use the Structured Walk

If you live in a city with limited free space for your dog to roam around, most of your dog walks will be structured (aka, dog on a leash with you commanding your dog what to do).

However, if your place has ample space, I recommend using the first five to ten minutes of your time outdoors doing a structured walk BEFORE letting your dog walk more freely.

I also recommend using a Structured Walk at the start and the end of EVERY walk to establish and re-establish your role as the one in charge of your time outside.

Before you stop the Structured walk to make the switch to Social, I encourage you to ask the following questions:

• Is my dog coming to me when I call them?
• Do they have spiked-up energy levels?
• Do they tend to be aggressive?
• Does my dog understand boundaries?
• Have I established clear dog-walking commands with my dog?

If safety is an issue for your dog and others, I recommend staying on structured walks before it's absolutely safe to give them freedom.

When to Use the Social Walk

Your dog WILL become restless after a few minutes of Structured Walks. The outdoors is so exciting for them to stay still.

There is a problem if you wait for your dog to pull the leash before you allow them to have their free time.

Because a simple tug on the leash is like your dog saying, "Hey, it's fun time!" when you give in to the pull, you're sending the message that your dog makes the call.

So here's what I recommend you do:

• Assess when your dog starts becoming restless. Observe how long into the walk they start pulling the leash.
• Start the walk structured. Continue with the structured walk for five to ten minutes before they tell you to let them run.
• Let them enjoy their social walks.
• Before you end, switch back to the Structured Walk to re-establish leadership.

How Using Two Types of Dog Walks Can Change Your Walking Experience With Your Dogs Perfect Balance

Think of structured walks like school time, where your dog learns the rules, and social walks like playtime, where they just get to be a dog. Mixing it up means your dog gets a healthy dose of discipline and fun!

More Fun for Everyone

Ever get bored of the same old routine? Your dog does, too! Switching between structured and social walks keeps things interesting for both of you. It's like sometimes you're the teacher, and other times you're both just pals exploring the world together.

Clear Leadership and Joy

On structured walks, you're the boss, and your dog learns to follow the leader — that's you! But you show them you're not the uptight, no-fun leader during social walks. You still let them have fun. This balance shows your dog that you're not just in charge, but you're also their buddy who loves to see them happy.

Spot-On Walks

With a clear plan for each walk, you're not juggling too much at once. Structured walks focus on training, while social walks are all about exploration and play. This means your dog learns better and faster, and you both enjoy your time more.

Fewer Problems

Mixing walks can really cut down on those pesky walking issues. Structured walks nip destructive behaviors in the bud by reinforcing your leadership. Social walks let your dog burn off that extra energy and curiosity in a positive way. Together, they make for a smoother, more enjoyable walk.

Learn How to Do The Two Types of Dog Walks Better with the Dog Calming Code™️

Dog walks are my favorite thing in the world.

It gives me and my dogs a mighty great time when done right!

However, I understand so many things can go wrong when walking a dog. This is why The Walk is a big part of The Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules. When dog walks are done right, YOU CAN BE THE ABSOLUTE LEADER IN THE EYES OF YOUR DOGS.

If you want to do both types of dog walks, I recommend you check out The Dog Calming Code where I talk more about Rule #5: Dog Walks.

Because when your time outdoors with your dog is done well, the benefits are amazing!

When dog owners come to me for help on how to stop leash pulling, I feel for them, especially when I hear the frustration in their voices.

It's understandable why having a dog pulling the leash can be such a pain! If all you want is to enjoy a quiet, peaceful walk with your dog, the constant struggle for control can be exhausting.

And most of the time, the leash pulling happens at the start of the walk, making you wonder, "Is going out for a walk even worth it?"

Why do dogs do this? Why is there even a power struggle? And should you persist?

In this blog, I will talk about my biggest theory of why dogs pull the leash at the start of every walk… and what you can do to change it.

Read on to learn more.

Key Takeaways:

• Understand the Instincts: Dogs pull on the leash due to instincts derived from their wolf ancestors, seeing walks as a time for hunting and leading. They will naturally take the Alpha role if they don't sense a leader, hence the pulling.
• Be the Alpha Leader: To stop leash pulling, you must establish yourself as the leader in all aspects of your dog's life, not just during walks. This means setting boundaries, giving consistent consequences for pulling, and showing calm, assertive energy.
• Prepare and React Appropriately: How you start the walk sets the tone. Go out first, decide when to walk, and be ready with calm responses to pulling, like pauses or changing direction. Letting your dog lead or not giving consequences encourages pulling.

Stop Leash Pulling: Understanding Why Dogs Pull the Leash Right Before You Start Your Walk

You walk to the door; your is already pulling on the leash.

You step outside down the stairs, and your dog pulls and pulls as if telling you to "Hurry up!"

Your time outdoors is all about having to regain control of the leash.

If you've experienced the things I mentioned above, you get how challenging it is to have a dog who wants to take charge of the walk from start to finish.

But why do dogs pull the leash at the start of every walk?

Let me answer that using dog psychology.

You see, our dogs have the DNA of a wolf — 99.98%, to be exact. Why is this significant? Because how your dog acts can be connected to how wolves act in the wild.

For the wolves, everything is about survival. When they head outdoors, a walk is not just a walk; it's all about hunting for food.

The most interesting thing about wolves is they don't push through with their walk until the Alpha — the pack leader — steps in to lead the way, signals "Let's go!" and goes on to make all the big decisions.

Even though our dogs have become more domesticated than their ancestors, they still think like wolves.

Someone has to lead, someone has to decide, someone has to be followed, someone has to call the BIG shots.

FACT: If your dog doesn't feel like an Alpha is in charge, they will take over.

Why?

Because dogs, by nature, will always look for the leader. If that isn't filled, they immediately have to assume the role.

It’s hardwired into the DNA.

And leaders lead…thus, your dog is out front and there is endless leash pulling, especially at the start of every walk.

Have you ever observed your dog becoming more in tune whenever the walk happens? They're gearing up to make the big decisions!

So… what can you do?

To Stop Leash Pulling, You Have to Know That Control Matters to Dogs

Control is a powerful concept in dog psychology!

Why? Because your dog knows control is essential for survival. The Alpha is their protector! The Alpha tells them how to survive the wild and find food.

Your dog pulling the leash shows they have taken the role of the Alpha. Their pulling sends the message, "I'm making the big decisions now. I will tell you what to do!"

So when your dog pulls the lead, they aren't deliberately disobeying you or getting on your nerves.

They pull the lead because they feel they're the pack leader, and they need to make every crucial decision to make the walk successful because that's what pack leaders do.

5 Things You Can Do To Stop The Dog From Pulling the Leash

The biggest solution to stop leash pulling is to actually show your dog they can pass on the hat of leadership to you.

Here are some ways you can do it.

#1: Be the Leader in Everything

Just as the Alpha wolf leads the pack, you need to establish yourself as the leader of your pack.

I want to be very clear: to stop leash pulling, you need to be the leader of EVERYTHING, and not just of walking outdoors.

Some dog owners assume they only need to show their authority and leadership during the walk, and what happens before or after the walk doesn't matter.

I 100% encourage you to take charge of everything, from the walk to the feeding to giving affection and attention.

Becoming the leader in your dog's eyes requires an all-round approach, and that's why I made my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️.

This dog training program is dedicated to helping you become an all-round leader in your dog's eyes by guiding you on how to feed dogs, give attention, respond to calls for danger, and how walks should be done.

So when you need to go outdoors, your dog already knows who to listen to!

#2: Set Boundaries and Consequences

When it comes to walking, I recommend these simple options if you're looking for a way to incorporate discipline during your time outdoors.

Consequence #1: The Pause

Do the pause if your dog starts pulling the leash. This consequence is your way of saying "Hey, we won't continue walking if you keep on pulling."

Wait 2-5 minutes and see if your dog stops the pulling the lead.

Consequence #2: The 180

If pulling, aggression, or rowdiness doesn't stop after a couple of pauses, turn the other way around and abandon the walk. I know this could be heartbreaking, especially when your dog has been looking forward to time outdoors. However, doing the 180 can help your dog understand that ultimately, YOU are the decision maker, the one in charge, and they should be listening to you.

Your dog will eventually get it, and will follow habits you expect them to do.

#3: Know What to Do Before Stepping Out of the House

This one is crucial because how you walk out of the house predicts how your walk will go.

Even if you've already showed you're the leader, one power move from your dog can change the dynamics.

What do I mean by this?

I mentioned earlier that dogs are all about control. Your dog is smart and will subtly challenge your leadership before the walk.

Some dogs will attempt to jump through the door before you do as if to say "Ha! I lead now!"

Sometimes, dogs will attempt to take control by tugging at you, or handing you the leash to tell you "Hey, it's time for my walk!"

In both circumstances, if you give in to your dog, you WILL lose control.

So before stepping out of the house, here are three things I want you to remember:

Tip #1: You Go First

You need to be the CEO of the walk every. single. time.

This concept means if your dog attempts to go in front of you, you calmly lead them back to your side to walk WITH you.

Don't let your dog have any semblance of control.

Tip #2: You Decide When To Go for a Walk

I talk more about this in my blog about the Doggy Dan Rule #5: How to Walk Your Dogs.

The main principle: the go signal comes from you and not from your dog.

Sure, your dog will attempt to convince you to bring them outside whenever they want. This could be tempting, especially when they can't hide their eagerness. But stay strong, furmom and furdad.

Ignore the request for a few minutes then call your dog. Doing this establishes that you — not them — decide when the walk should happen.

Tip #3: You Decide If A Walk Should Actually Happen

Keep an eye on your dog's behavior to see if you should push through with the walk.

Some factors that indicate you should not push through include:

• a high energy that doesn't go down
• extreme aggression that could harm others
• a rowdy behavior that doesn't respond to commands
• persistent leash pulling even after you reprimand them

If you see these factors in your dogs, don't hesitate to call a rain check on your walk.

#4: Stay Calm

Your dog can sense your emotions, so if you're tense or frustrated, they'll pick up on that and may become more difficult to manage. Keep your cool, even when they're testing your patience. A calm demeanor reinforces your role as the leader.

4 Things You Should Not Do If You Want to Stop Leash Pulling #1: Get Angry With Your Dogs

Yelling or getting frustrated only escalates the situation.

For your dog, the one who doesn't easily flinch or fold wins and takes the leadership hat.

But what do you do when the constant leash pulling becomes too much for you?

I want you to remember this: give calm, consistent consequences.

A consequence given with calmness can teach your dog what they need to do more than shouting or using force can.

When you're angry, your dog will more likely become stressed, making it hard for them to really understand you.

#2: Giving Up and Letting Your Dog Have Their Way

Before you continue reading, I want you to know I completely understand your frustrations.

I've had conversations with dog owners where I asked them "What happens during the walk?"

A lot of them said "Well, the leash pulling becomes too much, we just let them lead the way. We figured it was better than abandoning the walk altogether."

Definitely a big misconception!

If you are a dog owner who thinks giving in to your dog will make training easier along the way, I'm here to tell you it won't.

When you let the dog control the walk, you're also giving them control over everything.

Dog barks and snaps at everyone and everything? It's because they're in control.

Dog doesn't respond when you call? Why should they listen to you if they're in control?

Dog runs far from you even if you command them to stop? Again, you're not in charge.

If you give dogs control, everything will be on THEIR terms, not yours.

#3: Not Giving Consequences

If there's no consequence for bad behavior, there's no reason for your dog to stop.

Even though our dogs can be prone to showing headstrong tendencies, they are quick learners and learn through consequences.

Giving them consequences helps them understand what they should and should not do. It's the best way to build your dog's best walking habits.

#4: Letting Your Dog Make the Decisions

You're the leader, not your dog.

Allowing them to decide the pace, direction, or when the walk ends undermines your role and encourages leash pulling.

Show them you're the Alpha by letting them know "Hey, you can chill. I make the big decisions here." And stick with it.

Stop Leash Pulling By Being the Strong, Smart, Confident, and Capable Alpha. The Dog Calming Code Will Help You!

The entire concept of dog leadership includes a lot of concepts, and it's easy to fall into the cracks when you're working to become a true leader in your dog's eyes.

I created The Dog Calming Code for dog owners who really want to set the leadership right. The Dog Calming Code discusses the Five Golden Rules of dog leadership; five essential concepts that — when done right — will cement your place as the Alpha your dogs WILL trust.

Because when you're the Alpha, you won't only be able to stop leash pulling; you can always enjoy a peaceful, calm, successful walk.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

 

Training tips for aggressive dogs flood the internet, all promising miraculous results!

There’s a mix of positive reinforcement, showering dogs with treats, and even giving dogs really scary punishments!

While all these solutions work for a while, I know one thing from my experience as a top dog trainer: you need to get to the heart of the problem to see real progress.

The key to addressing snappy behavior in dogs goes beyond mere techniques.

In this article, I'll explore why even non-aggressive dogs can become snappy and aggressive.

By understanding these root causes, we can use a more gentle yet effective training to transform our beloved dogs into well-behaved and calm pets.

Key Takeaway

• Snappy behavior in dogs often stems from fear, not aggression. Creating a secure environment and providing positive training can help them overcome this behavior.
• Establishing yourself as a confident and protective pack leader can alleviate a dog's anxieties, reducing their tendency to be snappy.
• Dogs can become protective of their personal space and territory. Respecting their boundaries can help minimize snappy behavior.

LEARN HOW TO HANDLE SNAPPY DOGS WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Table of Contents

1. Why Are Snappy Dogs Different From Most Aggressive Dogs
2. Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs: The 2 BIGGEST Reasons Behind Snappy Behavior
3. How Being The Pack Leader Can Help Snappy Dogs
4. Training Snappy Dogs: What Causes Snappy Dog Behavior?
5. 9 Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs
6. How the Dog Calming Code Can Change Snappy Dogs

  Why Are Snappy Dogs Different From Most Aggressive Dogs?  

First, let’s talk about why snappy dogs are unique dogs, especially when it comes to aggression.

Snappy dogs possess a unique behavioral trait, distinct from outright aggression.

Their inclination to snap arises primarily from fear and boundary concerns.

Unlike overtly aggressive dogs, they may not intend harm but resort to snapping when they sense perceived threats.

You can see this in small dogs getting barky and feisty once you touch them. You can also see this in seemingly calm dogs whose energy levels spike up from a level two to a level nine when their personal space is threatened.

This behavior often emerges when unfamiliar people or situations encroach on their comfort zones or possessions.

Snappy dogs are not inherently aggressive but exhibit a protective mechanism driven by apprehension.

Understanding this uniqueness is vital for responsible ownership, emphasizing patience, positive training, and creating secure environments to help these dogs overcome their fears and develop more confident, non-snappy behavior.

UNDERSTAND SNAPPY DOGS BETTER WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs: The 2 BIGGEST Reasons Behind Snappy Behavior REASON #1: Your Dog is Always on High Alert Because They Think They Are In Charge.

For dogs, survival is the name of the game. Therefore, when they think they are the ONLY ONES dealing with danger, dogs become fiercely protective.

Our dogs are instinctively wired to seek a leader within their pack.

When they perceive a lack of clear leadership, they become anxious and agitated, always on high alert for potential threats.

This constant unease can lead to snappy and aggressive behavior as they attempt to assert control and protect themselves.

REASON #2: They Are Protective of Their Space

Consider this scenario: you're walking down the street, and a stranger suddenly comes up to you and say "Oh you're so cute, I love you!"

You'd likely feel violated and possibly react angrily. After all, somebody just got into your space without permission.

Dogs are no different; they can become snappy when they feel their territory or personal space is threatened.

And for dogs, space is a big deal!

This crossing of boundaries is a common scenario among small, popular breed dogs. These dogs are stranger magnets because they can be so adorable; being constantly mobbed by strangers can make them feel overly-protective and aggressive.

How Being The Pack Leader Can Help Snappy Dogs

Being a pack leader is crucial in addressing snappy dog behavior for several reasons.

First, Dogs Have a Natural Instinct to Establish a Hierarchy Within Their Social Groups

If they perceive themselves as the leader, they may feel responsible for handling threats or dangers around them, something that can contribute to snappish behavior.

You can flip this by embracing your role as the pack leader. It's like tapping your dog on the head to say, "Hey, buddy. I got this. You can chill and hand the danger to me."

When you help establish a strong association with you as a fierce, protective, confident, and reliable leader, your dog will learn to ease up and become more tolerant.

Second, Dogs Rely on a Pack Hierarchy for Survival

They needed a cohesive group to protect themselves from threats.

When a dog doesn't feel it can rely on a leader, it might take on this role, resulting in increased stress and potential aggression.

Third, Taking the Leadership Role Can Make Your Dog Feel Secured

This sense of security can lead to decreased anxiety, making them more tolerant and less prone to snapping.

By establishing yourself as the pack leader, you create a harmonious environment that allows your dog to flourish mentally and emotionally.

TEACH YOUR DOG HOW TO SWITCH OFF BY BEING THE PACK LEADER WITH THE HELP OF THE DOG CALMING CODE Training Snappy Dogs: What Causes Snappy Dog Behavior? Fear or Anxiety

Dogs may become snappy when they feel threatened, scared, or anxious by strangers and people they know.

Loud noises, unfamiliar people or animals, stressful situations, and changes in the environment are just some reasons for fear and anxiety.

Non-aggressive dogs can show their fangs as a typical response to perceived threats.

Pain or Discomfort

Dogs in pain or discomfort may become snappy as a defensive mechanism.

When dogs feel weak, they have all the more reason to be really, really protective.

Physical issues such as injuries, dental problems, or internal discomfort can lead to irritability and aggression. If you have an ailing dog, err on the side of safety.

Territorial Aggression

Dogs are territorial animals, and they may become snappy when they think a threat is getting near their territory or possessions.

The causes for territorial aggression can include guarding their food, toys, or living space.

Lack of Socialization

Dogs not adequately socialized during their critical developmental periods may become fearful or aggressive in unfamiliar social situations.

This can result in snappish behavior when encountering new people or animals.

Frustration or Resource Guarding

A frustrated dog trying to protect a valuable resource, like food or a favorite toy, has a higher chance of snapping.

Resource guarding is one of the core by-products of trying a dog’s desire to survive.

WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE, YOU CAN HELP YOUR DOGS CALM DOWN AND SWITCH OFF 9 Training Tips for Aggressive Dogs 1. Be the Pack Leader Who Deals with Danger

When it comes to snappy dogs, here’s a formula I want you to remember:

You as the Pack Leader + Proper Training = a Calm, Chill Dog.

(Actually, this is the heart of my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️!)

Dogs are all about survival. They want to be safe, they want to feel protected. If you don’t make them feel that they can hand all the worrying to you, THEY WON’T STOP BEING SNAPPY…however hard you train them!

My 5 Golden Rules to becoming the pack leader in your dog’s eyes (which you can find in The Dog Calming Code) will solidify your leadership. You can take these simple but highly effective steps to make your dog say “Now that’s a pack leader I can trust to protect me and the pack!”

2. Know the Triggers of Your Dog

I’ve had dog owners come to me expressing their shock at how their non-aggressive dog attacked someone!

“We don’t know what caused them to react like that!”

Trust me: your dog WILL SHOW signs they’re triggered. We just need to really, really be keen in knowing what these triggers are.

Identify the specific triggers that cause your dog's snappy behavior.

Is it random strangers, other dogs, or specific situations? Perhaps a change in the environment?

When you know the triggers, you increase the safety of your dog and the strangers that interact with them.

THE #1 ONLINE PROGRAM RECOMMENDED BY 88,000 DOG OWNERS! 3. Err on the Side of Safety

Ensure that your dog is securely leashed and has appropriate gear to prevent harm to others in case of aggression.

I know it’s tempting to trust on your dog’s natural, kind character. But aggression is unpredictable; you have to take every step to prevent your dog from hurting others.

4. Introduce Your Dogs to Strangers Slowly

I totally understand this: you simply want to show your cute dog to your friends or to strangers you meet. However, your dog might not share the same enthusiasm.

When it comes to introducing your dogs to strangers, a slow introduction is key.

Gradual exposure to strangers can help desensitize your dog. Take your time and allow your dog to adjust at their own pace.

5. Don't Use Harshness

Avoid harsh training methods, as they can confuse and exacerbate your dog's aggression. Gentle, positive reinforcement techniques are more effective.

6. Practice Timeout When Needed

Implement timeouts when your dog displays snappy behavior. This gives them a chance to calm down and learn that aggression won't be tolerated.

WHAT CHANGES SNAPPY DOGS? FIND OUT WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE 7. Retreat from Strangers

If your dog becomes aggressive with a stranger, calmly remove them from the situation to de-escalate tension.

8. Ask Strangers to Respect Boundaries

Inform strangers about your dog's needs and boundaries. Most people will appreciate your proactive approach.

9. Limit Exposure to Strangers

Don't overwhelm your dog by exposing them to too many strangers at once. Gradual socialization is key to success.

DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN BE THE LEADER IN YOUR DOG’S EYES How the Dog Calming Code Can Change Snappy Dogs It Shifts the Dynamics

By implementing The Dog Calming Code, you assume the role of the protector in your dog's eyes.

Not just one they need to protect, but one they can give all the protecting responsibilities to.

This shift in dynamics reassures your dog that there's no need for them to resort to aggression. They begin to trust your leadership and guidance, making them feel safe and secure.

It Uses Dog Psychology

This program delves deep into the intricacies of dog psychology.

It unravels the core reasons behind aggressive dog behavior, addressing the root causes rather than surface-level symptoms.

This comprehensive understanding is vital for creating lasting change.

It Has Shown Proven Results

The Dog Calming Code boasts a track record of success, having been tested and proven effective in over 88,000 dogs.

These dogs have transformed, becoming calmer, more relaxed, and placing increased trust in their pack leaders – their beloved owners.

The program offers a tested path to a harmonious and fulfilling relationship between dogs and their caregivers, fostering a more peaceful and loving home environment.

If you want to learn more about The Dog Calming Code, click here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

 

Doggy Dan, why is my dog overexcited? Also, how to calm overexcited dogs?

I often get this question from dog owners dealing with dogs that are always all over the place, jumping on the couch, on them, and on other dogs.

They bark, run, and lunge all because they are excited… something that causes a lot of stress not only to their owners but to other dogs as well.

These overexcited dogs often get shouted at or barked at because they're constantly invading space, always not listening.

In other words, these dogs always get into trouble.

And who wants that for their dogs, right?

You're in the right place if you have an overexcited dog and want to get to the bottom of the issue.

If you're looking for ways to calm an overexcited dog, I have important tips.

Read on.

Key Takeaways

• Overexcitement in dogs can manifest in various behavioral signs, including incessant barking, hyperactive jumping, pacing, and the inability to remain still. This behavior often arises from underlying issues related to the dog's perception of its role as the pack leader, a lack of physical and mental stimulation, and overstimulating environments.
• Establishing yourself as the pack leader is crucial to calming an overexcited dog. By taking charge of mealtime, attention, walks, and all aspects of the dog's life, you communicate that you are the one in control, which can help reduce the dog's overexcitement and restlessness.
• Additional strategies to calm an overexcited dog include providing regular physical exercise and mental stimulation, consistent obedience training to establish a stronger bond and outlet for the dog's energy, and creating a tranquil home environment that includes a safe space for the dog.

LEARN HOW TO HANDLE OVEREXCITED DOGS WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Table of Contents:

1. How to Calm Overexcited Dogs: What Are the Signs to Look Out For
2. What Causes a Dog to be Overexcited?
3. When You Show Leadership, You Calm an Overexcited Dog
4. Apart From Being the Pack Leader, How Do You Calm an Overexcited Dog?
5. How the Dog Calming Code Can Change Your Overexcited Do

How to Calm Overexcited Dogs: What Are the Signs to Look Out For

Is your dog really just happy or are they starting to show signs of being an overexcited dog?

The easiest way to tell is to look at the signs. From non-stop barking to hyperactive jumping, here are some critical signs that you have an overexcited dog who needs help.

Sign #1: Incessant Barking (AKA A Dog Who Just Can’t Stop Barking Because of Excitement)

This dog is relatively easy to spot. An overexcited dog barks at other people or dogs to get their attention.

It's like saying, "Hey, I want to play. Notice me! I'm here!" And when attention is not given, the barking gets more and more persistent.

An overexcited dog may bark persistently and excessively, often without reason. This non-stop barking behavior is always a manifestation of heightened arousal, and these dogs often continue barking despite attempts to calm them down.

In short, simply telling your dog to "Stop barking!" does not really work.

Sign #2: Hyperactive Jumping

When faced with excitement, a dog might jump uncontrollably, especially when greeting their owners or encountering new visitors.

This jumping can become particularly overwhelming, making it challenging for the dog to focus or listen to commands.

UNDERSTAND OVEREXCITED DOGS BETTER WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Sign #3: Hyperactive Pacing

When your dog gets their excitement meter through the roof, they often engage in rapid and erratic pacing, making them unable to settle down or relax.

Once your dog gets piqued up, they will find it hard to really calm down or tune in.

Sign #4: Inability to Remain Still

Overexcitement may render a dog unable to remain still, even for short periods.

You can see it in how they fidget, shift positions, or show restlessness.

Sign #5: Overzealous Playfulness That May Escalate Into Rough or Aggressive Behavior

Overexcited dogs might demonstrate excessive enthusiasm during playtime, which can sometimes turn into overly rough behavior or even aggression. Especially when the other dog don't share their excitement!

This behavior can result from the dog's inability to regulate their excitement levels, leading to potential behavioral challenges during interactions with other animals or people.

What Causes a Dog to be Overexcited?

Understanding the underlying triggers contributing to a dog's overexcitement is CRUCIAL in devising the best training plan for managing their exuberant behavior.

When you understand the cause of dog overexcitement, it helps you address the issue clearly. You'll also know how to correct this issue in its roots.

Reason #1: Your Dog Thinks They’re the Leader, Thus the Heightened Energy

If you don’t establish yourself as the pack leader, dogs will take on that role. And when they do, they will find it difficult to regulate their excitement levels.

Without clear guidance and reinforcement of desirable conduct, these dogs may become easily overwhelmed and struggle to remain composed in various situations.

(I teach the nitty gritty of how you can combat this through my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code.)

Reason #2: Pent-Up Energy

A surplus of unused energy due to insufficient exercise or mental stimulation can contribute significantly to a dog's overexcitement.

Always calling rain check on your walks and exercise? Don’t!

A lack of movement and exercise cause dogs to exhibit restlessness and hyperactivity, making it challenging for them to maintain a state of calmness and relaxation.

TEACH YOUR DOG HOW TO SWITCH OFF BY BEING THE PACK LEADER WITH THE HELP OF THE DOG CALMING CODE Reason #3: Overstimulating Environment

Environmental factors such as loud noises, crowded spaces, or frequent disruptions can overstimulate a dog's senses, leading to an increase in their overall arousal levels.

In such environments, dogs may find it difficult to focus or remain composed, resulting in heightened excitement that manifests through various behavioral cues.

And if you, their dog owner, come home with a frenetic, overexcited energy, your dog will absorb that.

Reason #4: Lack of Mental Engagement

Dogs, especially those with high intelligence or specific breed traits, require regular mental stimulation to prevent boredom and subsequent overexcitement.

Without engaging activities or interactive play that challenge their cognitive abilities, dogs may resort to hyperactive behaviors as a means of seeking stimulation and attention.

When You Show Leadership, You Calm an Overexcited Dog

The very root of overexcitement is this: your dog feels that they are in charge.

It's not only the aggressive, fierce dogs who think they run the show… even the hyperactive, overly playful one feels the same.

Why?

Because they think they're in charge of playtime. They are the leader in their minds, so when they lunge, jump, or bark excitedly to signal to everyone it's playtime, they think everyone should listen.

And if the other dogs don't respond as your dog wants them to, they won't stop lunging or jumping at them.

You may have already seen this scenario play out in a park.

The excited dogs are working up every other pet in the vicinity because they can't stop asserting their authority through overexcitement.

What you expect as a quiet, calm, chill day with your dog at the park turns into a bark-fest, with your dog as the instigator.

WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE, YOU CAN HELP YOUR DOGS CALM DOWN AND SWITCH OFF The Solution to Helping an Overexcited Dog Calm Down is Simple: Be the Pack Leader

Let's go back to the park scene.

In the park, some dogs are ABSOLUTELY calm and tranquil and just so in tune with the commands of their owners.

So different from your dog with a ranging level 8 energy level!

Let me tell you this: the only difference between your dog and the calm dog at the park is this: the latter knows who is in charge.

Your overexcited dog gets wired up every single time because they think they are the decision-maker.

They decide when playtime is.

They decide when to pull the strings of other dogs.

They decide on everything!

And if you're the decision maker, you can get overwhelmed. And this overwhelm often translates to overexcitement.

If you want to remove the factors that cause your dog to display frenetic behavior, become the pack leader who knows how to handle things.

Being a Pack Leader: How it Helps Calm Overexcited Dogs

When you take the leadership hat off your dog, it will show them that they're not in charge.

They're not in control of playtime.

They're not in charge of rounding up the animals for playtime.

They're not in charge of initiating play.

"But Doggy Dan, how can I show my dog I'm in charge?"

I have an entire series dedicated to this which you can check here. But let me give you a snippet:

• When your dog takes control of mealtime, they don't see you as a leader.
• When your dog thinks they can get attention from you any time they want, you're not a leader in their eyes.
• When they take over a walk while you're outdoors, they think they're the leader.

So when you take charge of EVERY SINGLE THING (food, attention, danger, walks) related to your dog, you're sending a message that you're the pack leader, the one in charge of everything.

They don't have to worry about playtimes at the park.

Or the dogs that don't play with them.

It's a matter that should be dealt with BY YOU.

It calms them down!

(You can learn more about how to become the pack leader with my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️.)

THE #1 ONLINE PROGRAM RECOMMENDED BY 88,000 DOG OWNERS! Apart From Being the Pack Leader, How Do You Calm an Overexcited Dog? Tip #1: Physical Exercise and Mental Stimulation

Help your dog diffuse their overexcitement by engaging them in regular physical exercise, such as brisk walks and interactive play sessions.

Incorporate mental stimulation activities, like puzzle toys or training exercises, to help channel their focus and promote a sense of calmness.

Tip #2: Consistent Obedience Training

Establish a stronger bond with your dog through consistent obedience training, introducing commands like "sit," "stay," and "leave it."

These aren’t just commands for teaching discipline. But they also provide a constructive outlet for your dog's energy.

Tip #3: Creating a Tranquil Environment

Reduce your dog's overexcitement by creating a tranquil home environment. I would recommend that you build a safe space for your dog.

Minimize stress triggers, such as loud noises or sudden disruptions, and implement a regular daily routine that will provide a sense of security and balance in your dog's life.

Also very important: check your energy. Your dog can absorb your overexcited energy!

WHAT CHANGES OVEREXCITED DOGS? FIND OUT WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Tip #4: Seeking Professional Guidance

If persistent overexcitement poses challenges, seek guidance from a professional dog trainer or behaviorist.

Their insights and tailored strategies can assist in managing your dog's hyperactive tendencies.

Approach the training process with patience, compassion, and a commitment to gentle leadership to help your dog find inner peace and develop a harmonious relationship with their surroundings.

Tip #5: Practice Proper Discipline

Maintaining a consistent and gentle disciplinary approach is essential in preventing dog overexcitement.

Precise and positive reinforcement techniques, along with establishing boundaries, help dogs understand acceptable behavior, fostering a sense of security and predictability.

Tip #5: Safe Spaces and Time Outs

Providing dogs with designated safe spaces and implementing time-outs when necessary can contribute to regulating their excitement levels.

Safe spaces serve as retreats where dogs can relax and unwind. Time-outs offer powerful opportunities to help you establish rules, boundaries, and expectations.

DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN BE THE LEADER IN YOUR DOG’S EYES How the Dog Calming Code Can Change Your Overexcited Dog

In the dog training world, a lot of trainers know how to excite a dog. However, not a lot know how to calm an excited dog down.

And when dogs are wired up, worked up, and constantly on the go, they’re always tired, always anxious, always excited and aggressive.

This was one of my goals when I created my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code.

I know that a calm dog is the HAPPIEST dog. And I know each dog deserves to just calm down and chill!

So if you’re on a mission to help your overexcited dog FINALLY calm down, The Dog Calming Code is for you.

Learn about the Dog Calming Code here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

If you are wondering how to deal with an overprotective dog, you MUST know that these animals are NOT naturally inclined to cause harm.

In fact, dog aggression from overprotectiveness is a case of a dog’s desire to keep harm away from you and the property they’re protecting.

But when is a protective dog too much? And how do you deal with an aggressive, overprotective dog?

In this blog, we’re going to talk about dog aggression coming from overprotectiveness and how you, as a dog owner, can help your dogs.

Read on to learn more.

Key Takeaways

• Giving dogs treats hoping it will stop their overprotectiveness doesn’t work at all. Your dog has to know they can count on you to protect them.
• Being the leader who shows your dog that you are in charge can ease your dog’s overprotectiveness.
• “Security dog” and “border patrol dogs” are just some examples of the types of overprotective dogs. Although different, both dogs exhibit behavior connected to their need to protect: barking, charging towards the threat, even biting!

LEARN HOW TO HANDLE OVERPROTECTIVE DOGS WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Table of Contents

1. How to Deal with an Overprotective Dog: Why Are Dogs So Overprotective?
2. What Role Do You Play in Dealing with an Overprotective Dog: Take Charge!
3. 9 Signs of an Overprotective Dog
4. 8 Ways To Deal with an Overprotective Dog
5. How to Deal With an Overprotective Dog: The Dog Calming Code Can Help You!

    How to Deal with an Overprotective Dog: Why Are Dogs so Overprotective?

What is an overprotective dog?

This kind of dog is easy to spot. One of the overprotective dog types is the “security guard” dog.

They usually spring up at the very first sound of the doorbell. Their energy levels can go from 2 to an instant 10! They get up from their little corner to run and bark at the person or animal on the other side of the door.

The other kind is the “border patrol” dog. This overprotective dog restlessly goes around the property checking on gates and fences and making sure nothing gets in.

Although different, these dogs exhibit aggressive behaviors that drive their dog owners crazy.

UNDERSTAND OVERPROTECTIVE DOGS BETTER WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE

But really, what causes a dog to be overprotective?

Dealing with an Overprotective Dog: This Dog Thinks They Are in Charge

The number one reason for a dog who charges towards the door from the slightest knock or from a doorbell is this: they think they’re in charge.

 

Let me explain through an analogy…

Let’s say you come visit my house.

I ask you to sit, give you refreshments, and entertain you with conversation.

All of a sudden, the doorbell rings. Will you get up to get it?

You would probably say “No, I won’t because it’s not my house.” You know that it’s not your job to answer the door.

That’s the homeowners job because they’re in charge of everything related to their home.

And it’s the same with our dogs: because they think it’s their responsibility to answer to anyone who comes near the house, they go frantic at the sound of a doorbell, or bark when someone gets too close to your property.

They think they’re the leader of the house, so they are the first to the door.

They think they’re in charge of you and the property, so they rove and guard non-stop to keep you safe.

In short, these dogs are stressed, agitated, exhausted, and just can’t relax. All they have on their mind is protect, protect, protect.

So how can you help?

TEACH YOUR DOG HOW TO SWITCH OFF BY BEING THE PACK LEADER WITH THE HELP OF THE DOG CALMING CODE What Role Do You Play in Dealing with an Overprotective Dog: Take Charge!

In your relationship with your dog, who is responsible for answering the door?

You could say that “My dog knows I am the one in charge.”

But do they really?

If your dog believes they are in charge, they will continue to be aggressive towards anyone near the door or fence.

The “security guard” and the “border patrol” dogs are constantly barking at the door, constantly patrolling the area with an aggressive energy because they think they’re in charge of it!

You're a big deal in your dog's world, and that can sometimes lead to them being a tad overprotective. In your dog’s eyes, you and the property are priority #1.

But you don’t want that! You just want your dogs to be calm and chill, and let you do all the worrying.

WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE, YOU CAN HELP YOUR DOGS CALM DOWN AND SWITCH OFF

Here’s where the challenge comes in.

You’re probably thinking “I need to get a training program to stop this aggression.” A good move, yes. But which program?

Because here’s what I’ve observed so far: most programs aimed at stopping overprotectiveness by just giving dog treats so they will stop worrying.

Treats and rewards are not enough. You have to learn how to show them they have NOTHING to worry about.

How do you do this?

    How to Deal with an Overprotective Dog? Be the Pack Leader By Showing Them You Deal with Danger!

Remember this ONE CRUCIAL TRUTH before we discuss additional steps to handling an overprotective dog:

Your dog is overprotective because they don’t see you as the leader who will do the protecting.

“But Dan, I do all my best to protect my dog!”

I have no doubt you do.

But dog psychology is more complex than what us humans understand. Your actions can send your dog a different message.

(Dog psychology comes with various concepts that are essential for dog owners to understand. I talk more about cracking the dog code with my online training program The Dog Calming Code™️.)

The bottomline is telling your dog “Don’t worry, I’m in charge here” just won’t do it.

So how do you show your leadership, especially when it comes to answering the door?

Here are several examples of what you can do (taken from Doggy Dan’s Golden Rule #4: Dealing with Danger).

• If your dog is barking at someone from a distance, show them that you acknowledge what they’re barking at BUT DON’T MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT.
• Calmly reassure the dog that you saw their perceived threat, and they have nothing to worry about by telling them “Thank you” and walking away.
• If your dog still barks after doing this, take them to a room to help them let some steam off and bring their energy level down.
• Always make sure your energy is not stressed or agitated as well. Because even if you say “Thank you!” and walk away IF your energy level is anything BUT CALM, your dog won’t be calm.

These are just some examples of dealing with a dog who can’t stop barking and worrying about their perceived threat.

(Important note: Remember, it’s you who needs to do the worrying!)

I talk more about dealing with perceived danger in Doggy Dan Golden Rule #4. I have a blog dedicated for this which you can check out here.

THE #1 ONLINE PROGRAM RECOMMENDED BY 88,000 DOG OWNERS! 9 Signs of an Overprotective Dog They’re Constantly Vigilant

Dogs, with their innate sense of alertness, are often found keeping a watchful eye on their surroundings.

They are always alert, prepared to notice any possible intrusions or disturbances, whether it's the sound of leaves rustling or distant footsteps.

Standing Alertly

In the presence of unfamiliar sounds or movements, dogs can be seen standing tall, ears perked up, and muscles tensed, all in preparation for any potential encounter.

Their alert posture serves as a testament to their acute awareness and readiness to react.

They Center Their Focus on a New Stimulus All the Time

At the slightest hint of a new presence in their environment, dogs swiftly redirect their attention.

Their keen focus on the newcomer reflects their instinctual need to assess potential threats or new companions, gauging whether they pose any danger or warrant a friendly approach.

DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN BE THE LEADER IN YOUR DOG’S EYES Growling or Barking at Perceived Threat

When sensing a possible threat or intrusion, dogs often resort to vocal cues, expressing their unease or asserting their authority.

Their growls or barks serve as a clear warning, communicating their readiness to defend and protect their territory or loved ones.

Going Back and Forth Between You and Perceived Threat

In moments of perceived danger, dogs instinctively position themselves as a shield, placing their bodies between their loved ones and the potential harm.

This protective behavior showcases their loyalty and unwavering commitment to ensuring the safety of their human companions.

Returning to Normal Once the Threat is Gone

Once the situation deems itself safe, dogs swiftly ease back into their usual demeanor, relinquishing their defensive stance and resuming their ordinary activities.

Their ability to swiftly switch between defense and ease highlights their responsive and adaptable nature.

WHAT CHANGES OVERPROTECTIVE DOGS? FIND OUT WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Overly Aggressive, Threatening Stance

In the face of what they perceive as a genuine threat, some dogs may adopt an overtly aggressive posture, with their heads held high and hackles raised, signaling a clear message of intimidation.

This defensive stance is a visual display of their readiness to confront and defend against any potential harm.

Overreacting to New Situations

In some cases, dogs may showcase an exaggerated response to new or unfamiliar situations, often reacting with heightened anxiety or aggression.

Their overreaction might stem from a place of heightened protectiveness, where they interpret the unknown as a potential threat to their territory or loved ones.

Urinating to Mark Territory

Through the act of urinating in specific locations, dogs establish their territorial boundaries, leaving behind scent markers to communicate their ownership or presence.

This instinctual behavior serves as a means of asserting their claim over their environment, highlighting their innate need to protect and secure their space.

TURN YOUR OVERPROTECTIVE DOG INTO ONE THAT IS CALM AND WELL BEHAVED WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE 8 Ways To Deal with an Overprotective Dog Be the Leader in Charge of EVERYTHING

To address dog aggression problems such as overprotectiveness, it is important for dog owners to take control of their dog's entire life, not just when there is a threat.

The reason behind this is you can’t tell your dog that you’re in charge of danger, while you let them take charge of everything else.

It will confuse your dogs.

Most dog owners don’t know their dog is already in control of EVERYTHING in their home.

This is where you take the reins.

Taking charge of the food, of the attention, of the cuddles and hugs, of the walk you do outdoors: this will build you as a strong, capable leader that your dog CAN TRUST.

This is the heart of my online dog program, The Online Dog Calming Code. I will teach you not just to tell the dogs “don’t worry,” but how to show them you’re the leader they can hand over their worries to.

      Set Boundaries

Dogs are fast learners; they catch up quick especially when their owners set clear and consistent boundaries.

If you have an issue with your dog running to the door every time someone goes to your house, establish a boundary.

You can teach boundaries better through timeouts.

Whenever the dog starts barking and charging towards the door, calmly bring them to a room for a timeout. It’s also a great way for them to de-stress and steam off from the red zone.

DEAL WITH FEAR AGGRESSION THE BEST WAY WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Make Sure Your Energy Says “There’s Nothing to Worry About”

Dogs get your message clearer if your words match your energy.

You can shout “Stop it!” all you can, but if your dog picks up a stressed, angry, anxious, or worried energy, they won’t stop it.

Your energy matters to your overprotective dogs more than your words.

Don’t Give Cuddles and Attention… Especially If Your Dog Crossed the Boundary

After fiercely barking their hearts out to protect you, it’s tempting to just give them a hug and say “Oh, you’re such a good dog!”

But let me tell you this: don’t!

Giving affection to your dogs even after they exhibit overprotective aggression can confuse them. Affection can encourage them to continue the behavior… the very behavior you want them to stop.

Be Aware of the Warning Signs

Stay attentive to any changes in your dog's energy levels or behavior. If you notice any signs of heightened protectiveness, assert control immediately.

Redirect their attention and help them bring their energy levels down.

Have a Designated Room for Your Dogs to Let Off Steam

Create a safe space where your dog can unwind and release built-up tension.

Encourage them to relax and de-escalate any anger or stress they may be experiencing. Providing a designated room or area can give them the necessary privacy to regain composure.

Give Distance and Introduce Slowly

When introducing your dog to new people or environments, ensure you maintain a safe distance initially.

Allow your dog to adjust gradually to the new stimuli, helping them feel more at ease and less threatened. Slow and steady introductions can promote a sense of security and comfort.

THE DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN DEAL WITH FEAR AGGRESSION IN DOGS BETTER Socialize Your Dog

Early and consistent socialization can be pivotal in preventing overprotective behavior. Expose your dog to various social situations, other dogs, and people from a young age.

If your dog lacks socialization, seek guidance from a professional canine behaviorist. Implement a gradual and safe socialization plan to help your dog adjust positively to new interactions and environments.

How to Deal With an Overprotective Dog: The Dog Calming Code Can Help You!

Here’s the goal: to make you the strong, sure leader that can handle danger.

It’s the only way to make your dogs feel that they no longer have to spring to the door to do the protecting. They understand it’s your job. Even when the doorbell rings, they won’t have the tendency to react aggressively.

This is the goal of The Dog Calming Code: to make you the strong, sure leader that KNOWS how to handle danger.

I’ve seen this online program work for 88,000 dogs and I have the full confidence it will work for your aggressive, protective dog as well.

To learn more about The Dog Calming Code and how it can transform your protective dog into a chill, calm pet, you can check the program here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

When you deal with a fear biter, you have to understand that this dog’s tendency to bite is not fueled by the desire to simply bite.

These fear biters are fierce protectors.

When dog owners come to me and ask about aggression due to fear, I tell them when they deal with a fear biter, they have to halt the training until they solve the problem on a deeper level.

Because most of the time, fear-based aggression that causes biting is not a matter of lack of training but a lack of tactic.

In this blog, I’m going to talk about the number one reason why dogs bite due to fear, and how you — their dog owner — can actually change fear biters.

Key Takeaways

• Fear biters don’t bite out of habit. They use biting as a way to protect you and the property from danger.
• The number one reason why fear biters continue to bite is because they feel that they are in charge, so they have to do all the protecting.
• The Dog Calming Code teaches the 5 Golden Rules, a set of rules that can help establish YOUR leadership in your fearful dog’s eyes.

UNDERSTAND FEAR BITERS BETTER WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Table of Contents

1. How to Deal with a Fear Biter: The #1 Reason a Fear Biter Bites
2. How to Deal With a Fear Biter: Change Dog Biting Aggression By Being the Pack Leader
3. So… How Do You Become the Pack Leader That Stops Fear Biting Aggression?
4. How to Deal with a Fear Biter: How Being a Pack Leader Changes Biting Due to Fear Aggression
5. How to Deal With Biting Due to Fear Aggression: Other Reasons Why Dogs Become Fear Biters
6. Fear Biting Dogs: What Are The Signs to Look Out For?
7. How to Change the Fear Biting Aggression in Dogs
8. How to Deal with a Fear Biter: Let the Dog Calming Code Help You!

How to Deal with a Fear Biter: The #1 Reason a Fear Biter Bites

So why do fearful dogs bite?

Like what I always mention in my previous blogs, dogs fueled by fear are driven by their primal responsibility to protect.

This issue puzzles dog owners: they usually have a pretty well-mannered dog, until a perceived danger or threat comes near.

They immediately show their fangs, and they don’t hesitate biting anything or anyone who they think disrupts safety.

I want to emphasize again: fear biters don’t just bite out of habit — they perceive themselves as the one in charge of their owners and their property so… they bite to protect.

Here’s a scenario that can explain it better.

As parents, we’re actually pretty chill when we’re alone. It’s a different story when we have kids that are under our care.

We become more wary about things around us — even anxious! — and always on the edge to protect our kids from the danger of strangers and threatening circumstances.

Why? Because we know that when it comes to our kids, we are the ones in charge.

And it’s the same with our dogs.

Of course they will be scared. Of course they will be protective!

TEACH YOUR DOG HOW TO SWITCH OFF BY BEING THE PACK LEADER WITH THE HELP OF THE DOG CALMING CODE

The fearful biter is a dog that sees themselves as the pack leader and they want the source of danger to know that. They bite to make the danger stay away.

So how do you let the fear biter know that there’s nothing they should be worried — or biting — about?

How to Deal With a Fear Biter: Change Dog Biting Aggression By Being the Pack Leader

Dealing with a fear biter requires both understanding and proactive steps. Becoming the pack leader is a powerful way to effectively address your dog's fear aggression.

Here's a detailed guide on how to do it:

Our Dogs Have to Know That They Are Not the Leader, It’s Us

Dogs often have a natural tendency to assume leadership, which can lead to constant anxiety, vigilance, and eventually fear-based aggression.

The best remedy is to assert ourselves as the leaders. Here's how:

#1: Stay Calm in the Face of Danger

Dogs pick up on our reactions.

When they sense danger, try to remain composed.

Even if their barking or biting tendencies can get into you, demonstrate that you are unfazed.

Let them see that you acknowledge the situation but are not troubled by it. This reassures them that there's nothing to worry about because YOU will do all the worrying.

#2: Use Calm and Consistent Corrections

If your dog continues to exhibit anxious or aggressive behavior despite your calm leadership, use calm and consistent corrections, such as timeouts.

Over time, this can help reinforce your position as the pack leader and correct any bad behavior before it becomes extreme.

WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE, YOU CAN HELP YOUR DOGS CALM DOWN AND SWITCH OFF Dogs Should Know They Can Transfer Leadership to Us for Peace of Mind

A dog’s primal desire to protect is really strong.

So even if you tell them “Don’t worry about it!” they will still worry about it, especially if they don’t see you as the leader who can actually handle dangerous business.

By assuming the role of the strong, sure, undeterred pack leader (one they can confidently, totally trust), they can hand the baton of leadership to you.

Dogs Should Know You Deal with Danger, Strangers, and Strange Noises Confidently

As the pack leader, you have the responsibility to handle potential threats, whether they be danger, strangers, or unfamiliar sounds or objects.

Your confidence in dealing with these situations conveys to your dog that they are safe under your care.

By showcasing your ability to take charge and face challenges with confidence, your dog gains a sense of security. They recognize that you are there to protect them, reducing their need to resort to fear-based aggression. So… How Do You Become the Pack Leader That Stops Fear Biting Aggression?

After years of working with thousands of dogs as a top-notch dog trainer, I've got the lowdown on how to be the kind of pack leader your dogs can really rely on.

And guess what? I'm spilling the beans in the Dog Calming Code™️, an online dog training program that spills all the secrets of the 5 Golden Rules of dog leadership.

In the Dog Calming Code, you'll uncover everything you need to know about stepping up as the pack leader, earning your dog's trust, and helping them overcome their tendency to bite out of fear!

You can learn more about the Dog Calming Code here.

How to Deal with a Fear Biter: How Being a Pack Leader Changes Biting Due to Fear Aggression

Biting due to fear aggression changes when our dogs see us as the Alpha. Our dogs start to understand that they don’t really have to protect us, we are going to protect them.

Now if they start to see you as a pack leader, your call to build confidence instead of fear BECOMES BIGGER.

Here’s a quick analogy:

Imagine there’s an ice cream truck in the middle of the woods.

This ice cream truck is a strange, very random sight to the wolves in there.

How will the rest of the pack react to this foreign thing? Totally depends on the pack leader!

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If the pack leader or the alpha panics after seeing the ice cream truck, guess what will happen? The rest of the pack will panic, too.

If the pack leader or the alpha pees all over the ice cream truck, the pack understands they have nothing to worry about it.

If the pack leader ignores the ice cream truck, you can bet a dollar that the rest of the pack will ignore it, too.

However the pack leader reacts, the rest of the pack follows.

How to Deal With Biting Due to Fear Aggression: Other Reasons Why Dogs Become Fear Biters Reason #1: When Dogs Deal with a New Environment

Dogs can exhibit fear aggression when introduced to new environments.

They may feel overwhelmed or anxious in unfamiliar surroundings, leading to defensive behavior, including biting.

When you do have to introduce a new environment to your beloved dogs, please do so gradually. A gradual introduction provides positive experiences and reassurance to ease their anxiety.

When You Introduce New Routines

Is the change of season calling you to change routines as well? Well, you might soon deal with an anxious fear biter.

Changes in routines can trigger fear aggression in dogs because they find comfort in a frequently-followed flow.

A sudden disruption in their daily schedule creates stress and uncertainty. Just like navigating around new environments, try introducing routine changes one at a time.

DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN BE THE LEADER IN YOUR DOG’S EYES When Dogs Meet New Animals

If your dog has dealt with scary past experiences with other animals, introducing them to a new pet can spell trouble.

Fearful dogs may react aggressively when confronted with unfamiliar animals as a defense mechanism.

Careful and controlled introductions to other animals, under supervision, can help reduce fear-based aggression.

When Dogs Deal with Stranger Danger

The most common fear biting trigger in dogs is stranger danger.

When dogs perceive a person as a threat, they may resort to aggression as a way to protect themselves or their owners. When a sound or an object looks strange enough to simply be ignored, your dog will be on high alert.

The solution to a fear biter’s problem with stranger danger? Socialization and consistency in showing your dogs YOU take care of danger! These are key to helping dogs become more comfortable around strangers.

Gradual exposure to new people, along with positive reinforcement, can help them overcome this fear.

WHAT CHANGES FEAR BITERS? FIND OUT WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Fear Biting Dogs: What Are The Signs to Look Out For? Sign #1: Immediate Aggression to Strangers

Immediate aggression towards strangers is a clear sign of fear-based aggression in dogs.

When they perceive someone they don't know as a threat, they may react defensively by growling, barking, or even biting.

This response is their way of trying to protect themselves or their owners from what they perceive as a potential danger.

Sign #2: Reactive to Strange Noises, Sounds, Environment

Dogs with fear-based aggression can be highly reactive to unusual noises, sounds, or changes in their environment.

Sudden loud noises, unfamiliar sounds, or any environmental changes can trigger anxiety and fear, leading to aggressive behavior.

Dogs may bark, growl, or even attack when they feel threatened or startled.

Sign #3: Growling

Growling is a common warning sign that a dog is feeling fearful or threatened. It's their way of communicating their discomfort or distress.

When a dog growls, it's essential to pay attention and address the underlying cause of their fear.

Ignoring this warning sign can lead to more severe aggression if the fear is not addressed.

TURN YOUR FEARFUL DOG INTO ONE THAT IS CALM AND WELL BEHAVED WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Sign #4: Prancing Towards Someone or Something

A dog prancing towards someone or something can be a manifestation of heightened alertness and anxiety.

It's often a display of their readiness to react to a perceived threat. This behavior is typically seen when a dog is on high alert and may precede more aggressive actions if the threat continues.

  Sign #5: Raised Tail

A raised tail can indicate fear or anxiety in dogs. While some dogs may raise their tails as a sign of confidence, in fearful dogs, a raised tail is often a defensive posture.

It can be accompanied by other signs of tension, such as stiff body language or growling.

Sign #6: Perked Ears

Perked ears are another sign of heightened alertness in dogs.

When a dog's ears are pricked forward and rigid, it indicates that they are paying close attention to their surroundings, possibly due to fear or uncertainty.

This is a way for them to gather as much information as possible about potential threats.

Sign #7: Bared Teeth

Baring teeth is a more overt sign of aggression and fear. When a dog shows their teeth, it's a clear signal that they are feeling threatened or defensive.

It's often a precursor to biting and should be taken seriously. Dogs displaying this behavior should be approached cautiously and with care.

DEAL WITH FEAR AGGRESSION THE BEST WAY WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Sign #8: Body Stiffness

A stiff or rigid body posture is a common indication of fear and anxiety in dogs.

When a dog's body becomes tense and immobile, it's a sign that they are on high alert and ready to react defensively.

Stiffness can be seen in conjunction with other fear-related behaviors like growling or baring teeth.

How to Change the Fear Biting Aggression in Dogs Tip #1: Be a Confident Leader Who Deals with Danger

As the pack leader, you must exhibit confidence in dealing with potential dangers.

Dogs look to you for guidance, and your calm and composed demeanor can reassure them that you have the situation under control.

Confidence in your leadership helps reduce their anxiety and fear.

Tip #2: Watch Your Energy – Your Dog Feels It (If You’re Scared, They’ll be Scared, Too)

Dogs are highly attuned to their owners' emotions and energy. If you are fearful or anxious, your dog will pick up on those emotions and mirror them.

Maintaining a calm and confident energy is crucial when dealing with fear aggression, as your dog's reactions are often a reflection of your own state of mind.

Tip #3: Calm Dogs Down with a Safe Space

Providing your dog with a safe space they can retreat to is essential.

I usually tell dog owners to bring their dogs to a safe space once they sense fear aggression picking up.

THE DOG CALMING CODE: HOW YOU CAN DEAL WITH FEAR AGGRESSION IN DOGS BETTER

This safe haven should be exclusive to the anxious dogs, free of distractions and disturbance. A crate, a quiet room, or a space far from the triggers can help your dogs diffuse anxiety.

Tip #4: Introduce New Animals, Things, and Environments Slowly

Gradual exposure to new animals, objects, and environments is crucial for dogs prone to fear aggression.

Rushing introductions can heighten their anxiety and trigger defensive behavior. Take your time to introduce them to new stimuli at their own pace, using positive reinforcement to build their confidence.:

Tip #5: Understand and Be Familiar with Triggers

Identifying the specific triggers causing fear aggression in your dog is essential for effective management.

Keep a record of situations or stimuli that provoke their fearful reactions; this can help you avoid or mitigate these triggers in the future.

How to Deal with a Fear Biter: Let the Dog Calming Code Help You!

Just one look at a dog with a fear biting aggression, and one can say “This dog needs help!”

If you have a fear biter, the terrified look on their face whenever they have to toughen up to ward off danger can be too much.

The good news is that YOU can help.

I know it can be overwhelming because you have to do things right.

But with the Dog Calming Code, you don’t need to change your fear biter on your own.

My step-by-step guide in helping you establish leadership and letting your dog know:

• They’re not in charge can change your fearful dog into one who knows they’re not in charge of danger.
• They don’t need to bite just to protect us.
• They don’t have to bear the stress of keeping danger away.

If you want to learn more about how the Dog Calming Code can change your fear biter, click here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

The question of how to handle a bossy, dominant dog is common among dog owners who are exhausted, frustrated, and overwhelmed by their bossy dogs.

Bossy, dominant dogs have a distinct characteristic: they always want to be in charge over every dog they encounter. They love challenging authority, they display brute strength, and they don’t hesitate in showing aggression.

One can say “Oh, but that’s just a dog’s personality!”

Though it can be true, dominant behavior not corrected can lead to more serious challenges including your dog dominating you.

Stopping aggression in dogs is crucial to avoid other problems including your dog hurting another dog, a disorganized home, and having a dog that just doesn’t listen to you.

If you have an aggressive dog, you’re in the right place…

In this blog we’re going to talk about the dog psychology behind aggression, the 8 powerful strategies to stop aggression due to dominance, and the mistakes dog owners make that set their dogs back.

Key Takeaways

• A bossy, aggressive dog has one mission in mind: to let other dogs (and people!) know that they’re the one in charge.
• One of the best ways to handle an aggressive dog is to start establishing YOUR leadership at home. Your dog has to know that you’re the pack leader, and the one in charge.
• The Dog Calming Code™️ program comes with lessons that can help you regain control over your dominant, aggressive dog.

TRAIN BOSSY AND AGGRESSIVE DOGS BETTER WITH THE HELP OF THE DOG CALMING CODE Table of Contents

1. How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: What’s Going on In a Bossy Dog’s Mind?
2. How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: Aggressive Dog Signs and What They Mean
3. How to Tell When a Dominant Aggressive Dog is Asserting Their Dominance on You
4. Training a Dominant Dog: 10 Best Strategies to Stop Dominant Dog Aggression
5. Five Mistakes Dog Owners Make That Cause Dog Dominance
6. Learn How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior with the Dog Calming Code

  How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: What’s Going on In a Bossy Dog’s Mind?

What truly drives your dog's need to assert dominance and display aggression?

Let me give the explanation through a common scenario often encountered by dog owners with aggressive and bossy dogs.

Picture this: when you take your bossy pet to the park, they tend to gravitate towards other dogs, sizing them up.

Dogs typically approach each other with erect ears, engaging in a circling ritual as they assess one another.

Soon enough, you might hear a chorus of barks, each dog unrelenting!

So, why do they behave this way? Especially when there is no food or toy around?

The answer is rather straightforward: they exhibit aggression because they want to know who is in charge.

The bossy aggression happens when your dog perceives themselves as the alpha… the leader of the pack, so to speak.

They have this HUGE need to assert themselves, and if either you or another dog fails to comply with their desires, they resort to aggressive behaviors to assert their dominance.

WANT TO TRAIN A DOMINANT DOG? THE DOG CALMING CODE CAN HELP YOU! How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: Aggressive Dog Signs and What They Mean

Signs of aggression in a dominant dog is different from a dog with aggression driven by fear. The aggressive behavior of bossy dogs come from their want to assert authority and put other dogs in their place.

Dog owners, knowing these signs by heart can protect you and your other pets from aggressive outbursts of your bossy dog.

Here are aggressive dog signs that gives you the cue you need to remind your dog “Hey, it’s me who is in control here.”

Barking

Is your bossy dog the king of non-stop barking?

Dogs use barking as a means to assert themselves as the leader of the pack. It’s their way of commanding attention, demanding for resources, or forcing compliance from other dogs or humans.

It's a vocal display of their perceived authority.

Growling

Growling is a sign you can’t simply brush off!

When a bossy dog growls, it's a clear warning that says “You are pushing the boundaries!”

A bossy dog can resort to growling in instances such as:

• Another dog getting into their space
• When they see another dog — or you — as a threat to their authority
• When other dogs are challenging them

The growling can escalate to aggression if the perceived threat persists.

It's a signal that the bossy dog believes they have the right to control the situation and are willing to use force if necessary.

Stance That Says "I'm Ready to Fight"

You’ve probably seen this if you have a bossy dog: the dominant stance, which includes standing tall with their head held high, and a stiff body posture.

Aggressive, dominant dogs use this stance to communicate their readiness to engage in a confrontation if challenged.

It's a serious way of saying "I'm in charge, and I'm prepared to defend my position."

IF YOU HAVE A DOMINANT DOG, THE DOG CALMING CODE CAN HELP YOU REGAIN CONTROL! Bumping Heads

In the dog kingdom, head bumping is a show of dominance.

One dog asserts dominance by positioning its head above the other's, signaling its victory in the hierarchy struggle. The opposing dog resists and attempts to gain the upper position, leading to occasional head collisions.

The more they push back, the more they’re communicating “No, I AM THE BOSS not you.”

Circling Around

When a dog circles another, it’s an act of assessing their opponent.

Circling allows them to size up the competition, anticipate movements, and potentially find an advantage in a confrontation.

A dog who circles around strategizes on how he can completely cement his position as the alpha.

Attacking Forward

When a bossy dog attacks forward, it usually occurs when they feel their authority or dominance is being questioned or threatened.

TURN AGGRESSIVE DOGS INTO CALM, OBEDIENT PETS WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE How to Tell When a Dominant Aggressive Dog is Asserting Their Dominance on You

Do dogs also exhibit dominance over their owners?

They can and do!

Some of the signs that your dog is showing dominance over you includes them refusing to come when called, persistently climbing onto your bed and couch despite your objections, or displaying aggression towards you. Recognizing these signs is crucial because they show that you have potentially lost control of your dog.

And when you lose control over a dominant dog, it can be the start of difficult behavior issues.

So, how can you prevent these issues from escalating?

There are four signs that you should 100% watch out for.

Invading Your Space

Picture this: dogs encroached upon your personal space, freely climbing onto your bed without an invitation, perching on your head, or occupying your lap without consent.

It might sound sweet at first (“Yay, my dog wants me!”) but they are actually very subtle ways of dogs taking over the leadership. Even a dog lying on your feet is their way of showing dominance.

And the more your dog invades your space, the more they start to think “I can do this because I'm the one in charge here.”

Growling at You

When dogs growl at you, it's a significant sign.

This is because growling can be a precursor to an attack.

It suggests that your dog perceives you as a threat to their authority and security, prompting them to growl to assert dominance.

Ignoring Your Commands

You call your dog, but there's no response.

You command them to stop, but they disregard your instructions.

Regardless of how loudly you may shout, they simply do not heed your words.

It’s a silent but powerful way of letting you know “Why should I listen to you?”

Making Decisions

Dogs take matters into THEIR OWN PAWS, making decisions without waiting for your input.

They decide when to eat food, nudge you for cuddles, or fetch their leash to signal their desire for a walk. These actions may seem harmless, but they slowly build into a wrecking ball that eventually crushes your control.

Once these signs become evident, it's essential to regain control. I am sharing the powerful strategies for training bossy dogs I’ve learned from my experience. Read on below.

LEARN HOW TO BE A LEADER IN YOUR BOSSY DOG’S EYES WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Training a Dominant Dog: 10 Best Strategies to Stop Dominant Dog Aggression #1: Start in the Home

The journey of teaching your dog essential lessons begins right at home, and it's an indispensable starting point.

In fact, home is where the foundation for good behavior is laid, and there's no better place for this crucial groundwork.

By focusing on your dog's behavior within the home environment, you'll be better equipped to help them become less aggressive when they venture outdoors.

#2: Learn the Five Golden Rules of Doggy Dan Through the Dog Calming Code™️ Program

In my years as a dog trainer, I have seen how even the most bossy, authoritarian dogs turn into calm dogs who learn how to listen and chill.

These transformations inspired me to make the Dog Calming Code program featuring the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules.

These Five Golden Rules of Dog Training were created to help dog owners like you TAKE BACK CONTROL through SIMPLE but POWERFUL strategies.

Here’s a quick preview of how you’re going to achieve leadership in your bossy dog’s eyes through the Dog Calming Code.

Doggy Dan Golden Rule #1: Control the Food

Your bossy dog has to know that you control the food and everything that comes with eating: mealtimes, scraps, eating habits.

Food is HUGE for dogs, and the one who controls the food is the one who is in charge.

Read more about Rule #1 here.

Doggy Dan Golden Rule #2: Delay Attention

After separation, your dog will challenge your leadership by going to you. This rule teaches dog owners the power of delaying acknowledgement to establish leadership, just like leader of the pack would.

Read more about Rule #2 here.

Doggy Dan Golden Rule #3: Doing Things On Your Own Terms

Your bossy dog has to see this: all the decisions come from you. They’re not the one in charge, so they absolutely just have to chill and hand all the decision making to you.

Read about Rule #3 here.

Doggy Dan Golden Rule #4: Deal with Danger

A dominant dog who thinks they’re in charge will always call out danger (thus the barking!). Rule #4 is about helping you become that calm, confident, CAPABLE leader who knows how to say to dogs “I am the one in charge here, so I take care of danger.”

Read about Rule #4 here.

Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5: Take Control of the Walk

Controlling dog aggression should not just stop at home. Even while you are outdoors, your dog has to know you’re in charge. This keeps them from challenging other dogs because they know it’s you who is the leader. Rule #5 makes this possible.

Read about Rule #5 here.

LEARN ABOUT THE DOGGY DAN FIVE GOLDEN RULES HERE #3: Be Calm

No one earns a dog’s affection even more than a caring dog owner who’s also sure and firm in their role as the pack leader.

A dog who knows their owner isn’t one to chicken out easily, they’ll see your authority.

However, if you’re not taking control, they will sense your emotions, including fear and worry about them.

By remaining confident and not easily fazed, you establish yourself as the dependable leader your dog can trust and follow.

#4: Protect Your Space

Your personal space is important, and your dog understands that. When they invade your space without invitation, it sends a clear message that they can boss you around.

To maintain your authority, protect your space by only giving attention on your terms. This reinforces the idea that your dog has no power over you because YOU are the leader.

#5: Don't Let Your Dog Make the Decisions

Dogs that are given too much freedom to make decisions may start to believe they are in control.

Be resolute in not granting your dog decision-making privileges. It's you who leads them, and you have the final say in matters.

#6: Be Firm With Your Rules and Boundaries

Dogs may test your authority from time to time, probing to see if you'll bend the rules. Stay steadfast and unwavering in your boundaries.

Consistency is vital in reinforcing the rules you've set.

WHAT MAKES BOSSY DOGS CALM DOWN: THE DOG CALMING CODE HAS THE ANSWER! #7: Practice Calm, Consistent Corrections

When correction is necessary, opt for timeouts as a method. This approach encourages a loving connection with your dog without resorting to threats or aggression. It reinforces the idea that your relationship is built on mutual respect and understanding.

#8: Socialize Your Dogs

Expose your dogs to proper socialization experiences.

Once you’ve started letting your dog know they’re not the boss, you can start to slowly socialize them with other dogs.

My recommendation as a dog trainer is to start in a place where your dog is comfortable and where they can meet other dogs as their equals.

    Sign-up to join more than 65,000 dog lovers! Weekly Pupdates + Your Inbox = Happy Dogs!   YES, KEEP ME PUPDATED! Five Mistakes Dog Owners Make That Cause Dog Dominance #1: Not Correcting The First Sign of Dominance

One of the most common mistakes dog owners make is failing to address the initial signs of dominance in their dogs.

Dogs often give subtle cues when they are testing their boundaries and asserting dominance.

These signs can include pushing their way to the front during walks, growling when asked to give up a toy, or attempting to claim your personal space.

Ignoring these early warning signs can allow the problem to escalate.

It's crucial to address these behaviors promptly with appropriate training and correction to prevent them from becoming ingrained patterns of dominance. I often recommend using Timeout to nip these behaviors in the bud.

HOW TO RAISE DOGS WHO ARE CALM, CHILL, AND OBEDIENT. USE THE DOG CALMING CODE AS A GUIDE! #2: Thinking Dominance Aggression will Just Go Away

Some dog owners mistakenly believe that dominance aggression will naturally subside over time.

They may assume that their dog will "grow out of it" or that it's just a phase.

However, dominance aggression rarely resolves on its own and often worsens if left unaddressed.

This type of behavior can become deeply ingrained, making it more challenging to correct as time goes on. It's essential to take proactive steps to address dominance aggression through training, socialization, and consistent enforcement of rules.

#3: Letting the Dog Rule the House

Allowing your dog to rule the house is a common mistake that can contribute to dominance issues.

This can manifest in various ways, such as allowing your dog to claim the best spots on the couch or bed, letting them decide when and where they eat, or permitting them to demand attention whenever they please.

When dogs believe they are in charge, it can lead to a host of behavioral problems, including aggression, barking around the property and lunging on the leash. To prevent these, establish clear boundaries and rules within your home and consistently enforce them.

#4: Lack of Consistency in Rules and Boundaries

When rules aren’t reinforced consistently, your dog will fall back into a pattern of aggression.

For example, if you allow behavior that allows them to be the boss again (even though you’re training them not to be) it sends mixed signals to the dog.

To address this, it's crucial that you follow through with the rules and boundaries you’ve st. Make sure other family members are on the same page.

CHECK OUT WHY DOG OWNERS LOVE THE DOG CALMING CODE! #5: No Proper Training in Place

Perhaps the most significant mistake is not having a proper training routine in place from the beginning.

Some dog owners realize too late that they need to be a leader in their dog’s eyes.

A reliable training program introduced early on can save dogs and dog owners from the problems of dominant behavior.

Learn How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior with the Dog Calming Code

Training your dog to see you as the ALPHA of your pack requires you do things right.

Why? Because there are so many small, seemingly insignificant mistakes that can mess up your training.

If you want a training guide for dominant dogs, I encourage you to check out The Dog Calming Code.

I made sure the training instructions are simple for even new dog owners to understand but POWERFUL enough to cover the issues that lead to dog aggression.

Because I believe that dominant, bossy dogs — when trained right — will happily switch off and pass the baton of leadership to you.

And every dog deserves to switch off, relax, and feel “I am not the leader here. I don’t need to fight with other dogs. I don’t need to be brave and alert all the time. I can absolutely chill!”

That’s an absolute gift to your pet.

If you want to learn about the Dog Calming Code, you can check it out here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

If you’re eager to know how to help fearful dogs, I know where you’re coming from. Fearful dogs are exhausted. You can read their exhaustion through their habits and body language: they can’t easily sleep, they’re reactive, and they’re triggered by the littlest things.

If you own a dog that is highly fearful, you already know telling them “Please, calm down” doesn’t work.

So what do you do as a dog owner to truly pacify your dog’s fears?

I’m sharing an IMPORTANT dog trainer tip I’ve learned through the years. Read on to learn more.

Key Takeaways:

• If you want to know what causes dog fears, it’s important to check your fears as well. You can directly influence your dog’s reaction to things!
• Helping fearful dogs overcome their fears starts with letting them see our calm, confident, unfazed energy. When we don’t give attention to things that worry them, it sends a message that they can ignore it, too.
• Becoming the pack leader is an important ingredients to stopping fearful dogs from becoming more stressed!

RAISE CALMER DOGS, BRAVER DOGS WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE! Table of Contents:

1. Dog Owners and Dog Fears: The Story of the Woman with a Reactive Dog
2. How to Help Fearful Dogs: The #1 Reason For Your Dog’s Fearful Energy
3. Helping Fearful Dogs: Other Reasons Why Dogs Are Afraid
4. 10 Signs of a Fearful Dog
5. How to Help Fearful Dogs at Home
6. How to Help Fearful Dogs Outdoors
7. Dog Calming Code: Helping Fearful Dogs Become Calmer and More Confident

    Dog Owners and Dog Fears: The Story of the Woman with a Reactive Dog

My heart is close to dogs struggling with fears and anxiety. So when a lady told me that she had a problem with her reactive dog, I recommended a consultation.

When I met them, I couldn’t sense any agitated energy in her dog.

So we started rolling the camera to record the dog’s interactions as part of the consultation.

(And boy, I’m sure glad we did!)

When I asked them to walk, the dog was chill… until they had to walk past my dog.

The woman’s dog snarled, barked, and poised to attack the other dog.

That immediately made me wonder “What caused the change?” I knew the dog was reactive, but the way they shifted from calm to aggressive caught my attention.

We decided to review the tapes to see what caused the change.

And the moment I saw it, I immediately knew the exact reason.

During the walk, both owner and dog carried a happy, calm energy. When the dog had to walk past my dog, the owner did a slight, almost unnoticeable tug on the leash.

A gesture that meant “Hey, there’s a dog and I’m quite worried with what you’re going to do. Don’t come near him.”

And the dog immediately thought “Oh, so that dog is danger!”

The reasonable next step is for the dog to react to the threat — it was their way of protecting their owner from something they think is scary.

WHAT MAKES BETTER, CALMER DOGS? THE DOG CALMING CODE IS THE ANSWER! CHECK IT OUT HERE. How to Help Fearful Dogs: The #1 Reason For Your Dog’s Fearful Energy

I'm about to share a game-changing secret from my experience as a top dog trainer. When it comes to helping fearful dogs: your energy matters more than you might think.

Now, let's dig deeper with a few questions:

• Have you ever noticed that your fears influence your dog’s fears?
• Do you observe your dog getting more fearful when you’re also feeling anxious or worried?
• Has your dog shown fear toward things THAT SECRETLY SCARE you?

If you find yourself answering “yes” to all these questions, it’s time to understand a fundamental principle: “Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes.”

What does this mean, exactly?

It means that if you're focused on things that trigger either YOUR fears or YOUR DOG'S fears, there's a good chance your dog will start to fear those things too.

Let me illustrate this with an example:

Think back to the woman I mentioned earlier. When she paid no mind to my dog, her dog remained calm and unbothered.

But the moment she started to react with worry, her dog sensed that worry and began displaying fear-based aggression.

Now, picture a different scenario: What if that woman— instead of panicking — decided to ignore my dog and redirect her dog's attention elsewhere?

Do you think her dog would react with the same level of aggression?

I'd bet my bottom dollar that the dog wouldn't be as aggressive.

In essence, your energy and attention play a pivotal role in shaping your dog's feeling towards certain things.

THE DOG CALMING CODE CAN HELP DOGS BEHAVE BETTER Helping Fearful Dogs: Other Reasons Why Dogs Are Afraid

Now that I laid out the number one cause for dog’s fears — which is your own fear as a dog owner — it is also important to talk about the other reasons that cause fearful dogs.

Lack of Socialization

Lack of socialization causes fearful dogs because they feel everything and everyone is a stranger to them.

And unfamiliar people and things can cause fear!

Insufficient exposure to different people, animals, environments, and experiences during the critical socialization period (typically between 3 and 14 weeks of age) can lead to fear of the unfamiliar later in life.

Past Trauma or Negative Experiences

Dogs who have experienced trauma, abuse, or negative encounters in the past may carry emotional scars that result in long-lasting fear reactions to certain stimuli or situations.

Genetic Predisposition

Some dogs may have a genetic predisposition to anxiety and fearfulness. Breeds or individual dogs with a more nervous temperament may be prone to fear-related issues.

Medical Issues

Medical conditions that cause pain, neurological problems, or sensory deficits, can make dogs more prone to anxiety and fearful behavior. It's essential to rule out any underlying health concerns when addressing fear in dogs.

Lack of Confidence

Dogs with low self-esteem or a lack of confidence may exhibit fear-based behaviors as a way of coping with unfamiliar or challenging situations.

THIS IS THE DOGGY DAN PROGRAM THAT HAS CHANGED THE LIVES OF 88,000 DOGS! 10 Signs of a Fearful Dog

“Doggy Dan, how can I tell if my dog is starting to absorb my fearful energy? What are the signs of fear in dogs that I should look out for?”

The best way how to help fearful dogs is to know what signs to look for. Here are some examples.

Excessive Cowering or Trembling

Picture your dog on a stormy night, cowering in the corner as thunder rumbles outside. If your dog senses your fear of the sound, your dog may start trembling or retreating in a corner.

Avoidance Behavior

Have you ever seen your dog hide under the bed when the vacuum cleaner comes out? This avoidance behavior shows they're scared of the noisy machine.

Excessive Barking or Whining

Imagine a scenario where your dog encounters a large, unfamiliar dog at the park.

If random dogs startle you, too, your dog may bark and whine as a signal of their unease and discomfort in that situation.

Tail Tucking

Think about when a stranger approaches your dog on a walk, and suddenly, their tail tucks between their legs. This is their way of saying, "I'm scared."

LEARN HOW TO HELP A FEARFUL DOG BETTER WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE! Panting and Drooling

After a visit to the vet, your dog might pant excessively or drool due to anxiety. These physical signs can indicate their stress.

Aggression

If your dog growls or snaps when a child gets too close to their food bowl, it's a sign of fear. They feel threatened and react defensively.

Excessive Shedding

During a thunderstorm, your dog might shed more fur than usual due to their anxiety. It's a visible sign of their emotional distress.

Potty Accidents

Consider a situation where you leave your dog home alone for an extended period. When you return, you find a mess on the floor. This can result from their fear of being alone.

Dilated Pupils

When your dog encounters a loud noise like fireworks, their pupils may dilate. This shows they're in a state of fear and arousal.

Lack of Appetite

If your dog suddenly refuses to eat when you introduce them to a new environment, it could be related to their fear of the unfamiliar surroundings.

A CALM DOG STARTS WITH A CALM OWNER. LET THE DOG CALMING CODE HELP YOU BECOME ONE! How to Help Fearful Dogs at Home

If dogs are within our property, they should feel safe enough to feel protected from any danger, right? Well, that is a common misconception.

You see, the reality is a bit different.

Even when dogs have a loving home, if their owner doesn't establish themselves as the leader of the pack, dogs will think they're in charge of protecting the home themselves.

This can actually lead to some unexpected anxieties and fears in our dogs.

Here are a few examples and how you can help.

Fear of Random Sounds

Any unfamiliar sound is a sign of danger for a dog that feels they are in charge.

I talk about this being one of the fears that dog owners can resolve with the help of the Doggy Dan Rule #3: Dealing with Danger.

In golden rule #3, the solution is simple: you have to show your dog that the random sound doesn’t faze you.

You have to send the message “Don’t you worry about that. It doesn’t worry me. And if that one’s danger, then you can let me worry about it. You just chill out.”

Your dog will feel your confidence as a pack leader, and they will see you’re not fearful at all!

And if your dog feels your calm energy, they can stop worrying, too.

Fear of Other Animals in the Home

To help your dog overcome their fear of other animals, consider introducing them to a new fur-sibling outside your home, such as a park. This neutral environment can facilitate a more relaxed initial meeting.

FROM SOCIALIZATION TO TRAINING WITHOUT FEAR, LEARN THE STRATEGIES WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Fear of People

When dealing with your dog's fear of people, it's crucial to approach introductions gradually and with sensitivity.

Begin by having the person your dog is afraid of maintain a calm and non-threatening demeanor. Allow your dog to approach them at their own pace.

How to Help Fearful Dogs Outdoors

Is going out such a stressful thing for your dog? Here are ways you can help.

Anxiety in the Great Outdoors

It's a challenge many dog owners face: your dog might be calm and collected at home, but once you step outside, it's like a whole new world.

Here's the deal: being the pack leader in the comfort of your home is fantastic, but it's equally a must to assume that role outdoors to boost your dog's confidence and security.

One of the best ways to ease your dog's anxiety during outdoor adventures is to demonstrate that you're in charge of the walk, which happens to be Doggy Dan's Golden Rule #5!

As the leader, you take the lead, ensuring that if any potential dangers arise, you're there to face them head-on and handle the situation.

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Understanding the social nature of dogs is key to making them feel comfortable around other pups.

Rather than overwhelming your dog with unfamiliar faces at the dog park, focus on regular playdates with a select group of familiar furry friends. This builds positive bonds and reduces anxiety.

Don't forget, your own demeanor matters too! Stay calm when introducing your dog to new pals, as they often take cues from your reactions on how to behave themselves.

Fear of Scary Stuff in Outdoor Environments:

Outdoors can be full of surprises for our dogs.

From strange-looking sticks to crossing streams, these new experiences can sometimes trigger fear in our dogs.

But here's a simple formula to keep in mind when helping dogs navigate through outdoor things that scare them:

First, show your dog that there's no need to be afraid. If you're crossing a stream, demonstrate how it's done calmly and safely. Your confidence can be contagious!

Then, shift their focus to something positive, like their favorite toy or a game of fetch. This helps them build a positive connection with the environment.

Remember, once your dog sees and feels that there's nothing to fear, they'll feel much more at ease.

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Doggy Dan's Dog Calming Code transforms the lives of owners and their cherished pets!

As an experienced top dog trainer, I know how closely linked an owner's stress and their dog's fears can be.

It's a cycle that feeds off each other, making it vital to address our dogs' fearful behaviors before they turn worse.

Enter the Dog Calming Code, my online training program. Here, you'll discover the key to becoming the calm, confident pack leader in your dog's eyes.

When your dog senses your confidence, it sparks a chain reaction, boosting their own self-assurance.

The Dog Calming Code also equips you with practical knowledge and techniques to effectively ease your dog's fears. It's a holistic approach that cultivates peace and security that you and your dog so deserve!

~ Doggy Dan 😄

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Any loving dog owner gets concerned about the factors that cause dog stress. After all, we just want the best for our pets, from their physical to mental health.

You can attribute the cause of dog stress to multiple factors: unhealthy upbringing, violent history, a chaotic environment, and strained relationships with owners and other dogs.

But what most dog owners usually overlook is a stress trigger that affects more dogs than we know it: dog owner stress.

Yes, you read that right: your stress as a dog owner affects the stress levels of your dogs.

And although it is quite heartbreaking to know that dogs can absorb our stress, there’s a bright side: it is also YOU that can make it better for your beloved dogs.

This is what I’m going to share with you today. Read on to learn more.

What Research Says About Dog Owner Stress Being a Cause of Dog Stress

A research found out that dog owners’ acute and long-term stress has a direct impact on their dog’s stress levels known as cortisol.

In one of the studies published in the Scientific Report where a team studied 58 dog owners and their pets, it was discovered that stress are synchronized between dogs and the ones caring for them.

Whenever dog owners get elevated stress, dogs exhibited a spike in cortisol as well.

It also indicated that the closer the bond and the stronger the reliance, the more susceptible dogs are to absorbing their owner’s stress and emotions.

The senior zoologist conducting the research, Lina Roth, emphasized that dogs truly understand their owners, especially in the emotional aspect.

“Dogs are quite good at understanding humans,” Roth added.

Hearing this can make a dog owner go “Awww…” but this sweet fact comes with a downside: when we’re sad and stressed, our dogs feel it, too.

Your Dog Feels Emotions Rather Than Hear Words, And That’s One Thing That Causes Dog Stress

I always say this: your dog can’t always hear what you say because your actions and emotions are louder than your words.

When you communicate with a dog, they assess your body language and tone of voice to make sense of your words.

You might say “I always tell my dog to calm down, Dan. I encourage them to not go crazy with stress!”

But here’s a dog trainer insight: no matter how much you assure your dog, if your stress levels are through the roof, they will know.

“Calm down” is just a phrase if your dog can see the worried, nervous, or annoyed energy behind your words.

Your dog can go “Wait, why are they worried? Why do I sense panic? Should I worry? My owner looks worried so I think I should be, too!”

And the cycle goes on and on: you’re wondering why your dog can’t seem to understand your request, while your dog can’t stop picking up the panic and frustration in your voice.

As a top dog trainer that has seen this scenario play out thousands of times, here’s a simple rule I always encourage dog owners to remember: your dog is your mirror.

Before they do anything, they must first see it in you.

Your Dog Is Your Mirror: A Chill Dog Owner = A Chill Dog

I have seen a real life example of a dog owner directly affecting the personality and energy levels of their pets.

One day, while I was on my way to a consultation, I saw an interesting sight: a dog owner walking oh-so-calmly with his dog.

From the get go, it would sound like nothing out of the ordinary. But the dog in this story is a pitbull.

A dog that is so notorious, so scary, and always exuding boss energy!

But on that day, I was totally taken by surprise at how calm the dog was. So calm, they follow their dog owner wherever he goes.

The dog had no leash, and showed zen-like calmness.

It only took one look for me to know why.

His dog owner was absolutely chill. No worried stance, steps light and easy, and it looked like he was having a great time in their outdoor stroll.

It confirmed to me: yes, indeed, the pitbull was chill because his owner was absolutely chill.

Why Dog Owners Cause Dog Stress: Top 3 Reasons from a Top Dog Trainer

If the man in my story can influence his dog to be relaxed and diffuse agitated energy, imagine the opposite: what will happen to our dogs if we perpetually show stress.

“But why are dogs influenced by our stress, Doggy Dan?”

The moment these dogs come into our home, they become our companions. When it comes to reacting, perceiving danger, and socializing they will be looking up to you as their example. Whatever you do, they will do.

But it does not stop there.

Whatever you feel, they also feel.

So if you’re wondering why dog owners cause dog stress, here are the reasons.

Dog Owners Don’t Understand That They Cause Dog Stress

I totally know the look on your face right now. It’s the same look I usually get when I tell dog owners that they unintentionally cause dog stress.

But before you feel guilty, I want you to know that you’re not alone on this boat.

Even the most loving, most protective owner can make dogs feel stressed even without meaning to.

For example:

• Reacting in a worried tone all the time tells your dog they should always be on the lookout for danger.
• Pacing back and forth with agitated energy confuses dogs into thinking there’s something bad they should worry about.
• If we’re always angry, always shouty, always wired up, our dogs will act the same!

These actions are easy to overlook as stressors for dogs, but they are. Being aware that our reactions and emotions cause our dogs stress can be the first step to change.

Dogs Absorb Energy, and the Energy They Absorb The Most is From Us

Our dogs are highly attuned to our emotions. They sense energy, and they take on the energy they’re exposed to.

Because dogs spend most of the day with us, the chances of them absorbing our energy is high.

So when we constantly carry a heavy, stressed energy, it won’t be a surprise if our dogs will start to show signs of stress as well.

They Feel Our Emotions More Than They Hear Our Words

Ever had a dog that seems to be constantly scared despite your constant reassurance?

It’s great if you can take a step back and ask: am I also scared? Is my dog picking up the energy of fear from me?

Remember: dogs feel what you feel. Dogs tend to feel and act like their owners, so if you want them to be more confident, you should start by showing them you’re calm, sure, and confident yourself.

5 Ways You Can Reduce Your Dog’s Stress Keep Your Energy in Check

Be mindful of your own energy and emotions around your dog.

Because we’re dog owners, we have to remember that dogs are quietly observing us and absorbing whatever energy we radiate.

Try to maintain a calm and positive demeanor, as this can have a soothing effect on your dog.

For example:

• Instead of reacting in an angry voice, take a few seconds to regulate your emotions by breathing in and out.
• If we do need to release emotions, we have to be careful not to let it out on our dogs.
• We have to ensure that we take time to let release stress so dogs won’t have to deal with the consequences of our pent-up stress.

Always Spend Some Quiet Time with Dogs

Dogs, like humans, need downtime.

Spend quality, quiet time with your dog where you engage in gentle activities like petting, cuddling, or simply being together in a calm environment.

In my previous blog, I shared the Three-Minute Quiet Time to help calm dogs down.

Here’s how you can do it:

• Every morning, start your day with a quiet, calm energy. Sit in silence for 30 seconds to 3 minutes.
• Quietly observe how this change in energy affects your dog. Are they calmer? Are they more relaxed?
• Once you feel that both you and your dog are calm, call them. You will see how relaxed and receptive they are.

Provide a Safe Space for Your Dog

Ensure your dog has a designated safe and comfortable space, like a crate or a cozy corner.

This little corner should be designed as a place they can retreat when they need a break from stimulation or social interaction.

Make this safe space off limits from kids or other dogs so your dog can let off steam and diffuse stress without any distraction.

Be Mindful of Your Actions

Having a dog also means being responsible not only with how we react, but how we act as well.

Stomping our feet because we’re angry causes stress. Banging on doors causes stress. Even dropping stuff forcefully because of irritation causes stress.

And our stressed-induced actions can turn our calm dog into one that’s also on the edge.

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At the heart of the Doggy Dan Dog Calming Code™️ Program is this: dog owners who become calm and confident leaders raise calm and confident dogs.

Unregulated stress can cause a strain in your relationship and training with your dog (which can even cause more stress!).

The Dog Calming Code helps with that by teaching YOU how to be the pack leader that sets the rules, takes charge, and knows how to help dogs become calmer.

(And when you do set rules and take charge, it takes a chunk of stress of your dog’s mind!)

Your dog is your mirror; if they see you as the leader they can trust, they will learn how to switch off from stress.

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We know that dog owners cause dog stress, but it’s time to break the cycle!

The Dog Calming Code is a roadmap that helps dog owners raise and train dogs in a way that:

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• Helps dog owners connect with their dogs
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If anyone comes to me for tips on how to get dogs to listen more, I always ask them to do this:

“Think of the most connected, most effective conversations you’ve had with a loved one. Were they done with shouting, or were they filled with calm, understanding energy?”

Surely, you would say the latter.

And it’s true. As a parent, the most effective conversations I've had with my children are ones done in absolute calmness.

No anger.

Without raised voices.

No hurtful words.

And like what I mentioned in my book “What The Dogs Taught Me About Being A Parent”, it’s the same with our dogs!

One of the best ways to make dogs listen and connect with us is to practice silence and calm energy whenever we communicate with them.

Read on to learn more about this.

Key Takeaways:

• Dogs listen and connect with us more when we have a calmer energy.
• Starting the day with a calmer energy helps our dogs become calm and receptive to us.
• What we consider as regular noise can already be too overwhelming for our dogs. Making sure our energies and noise are regulated can help dogs tune in better.

CONNECT WITH YOUR DOGS BETTER WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE™️ Table of Contents:

1. How to Get Dogs to Listen: We Listen More to Silence Than the Noise
2. Why Silence Is Important in Making Dogs Listen to Us More
3. 5 Reasons Why a Dog Is Not Responding To You 3.1 Reason #1: They Are Overwhelmed 3.2 Reason #2: The Energy You Have Speaks Differently Than Your Voice 3.3 Reason #3: You're Shouting a Lot, and They No Longer Know What's Urgent and What's Not 3.4 Reason #4: You Are Not Connected with Your Dog 3.5 Reason #5: They Don't See You as a Leader They Can Trust
4. Use this Quick Exercise on Silence and Calm Energy To Make Your Dog Listen More 4.1 Step 1: Start Your Day Quietly 4.2 Step 2: Observe the Effect on Your Dog 4.3 Step 3: Call Your Dog Calmly
5. How to Get Dogs to Listen More: Why Yelling Is Not the Answer 5.1 Reason #1: Yelling Tells Your Dog You’re Not a Confident Leader, Making It Hard for Them to Follow You 5.2 Reason #2: Yelling — as a Knee Jerk Reaction — Rarely Builds Any Connection 5.3 Reason #3: If We Go About Yelling Every Time, Our Dog Will Constantly Carry a Stressed Energy With Them
6. The Dog Calming Code: The Program That Helps Calm Dogs Down and Makes Them Listen More

  How To Get Dogs to Listen: We Listen More to Silence Than The Noise

Let me share a simple story that shows why quiet moments matter when communicating with dogs.

 

My wife and I went on a double date with our friends one evening.

We all started chatting in the car and having a great time.

But during the trip, something interesting happened.

My friend and I stopped talking and focused on listening to our wives speaking softly.

My friend turned to me and said, "Hey, mate, I think they're talking about something important!"

We spent the rest of the drive in complete silence, eager to hear what they were discussing.

This experience made me realize that sometimes, being quiet and calm helps you communicate better than shouting!

This lesson from everyday life also applies to training dogs. Our dogs respond better to calm and quiet energy than loud noises.

If you really want your dog to listen, focus on the silence and the calm.

LEARN HOW TO CONNECT WITH YOUR DOGS BETTER WITH THE DOG CALMING CODE Why Silence Is Important in Making Dogs Listen to Us More

Important note: I have to add here that when I say silence, I don’t mean you say zero words to your dog. It is being intentional with words, ensuring we keep what we say, and our energy, in check.

So, why is silence important for dogs?

In the wild, dogs are calmer and quieter. They are not used to hearing shouting. In fact, they only use their sound — like barking and howling — to communicate danger and to protect the pack.

They use noise for the REAAAALLY important stuff.

It’s a different story for our domesticated dogs.

Every single day, they have to deal with different kinds of noise like:

• The hustle and bustle of morning preparations when kids and adults start their day.
• The busy reunions at night time when everyone has to scramble to prepare for dinner or family time.
• Loud sports matches on TV and the hyperactive energy from watching these kind of programs.

And what seems to be regular noise to us is already too much for our dogs. Too much that it makes dogs tune out and not hear what we are saying!

And this overwhelm and tuning out makes it hard for dogs to understand your commands, which can make you wonder, “Does my dog even listen to me?”

5 Reasons Why a Dog Is Not Responding To You

I always tell dog owners this: a dog who doesn’t seem to listen is a dog who has tuned out.

Dogs are not inherently disobedient and defiant. Sometimes, it’s just hard for them to get you.

Here are some factors that could contribute to their inability to listen and respond to your commands.

Reason #1: They Are Overwhelmed

Just like humans, our dogs can become overwhelmed by their surroundings or situations.

If your dog is exposed to too much stimuli, such as noise, new people, or unfamiliar environments, they may need help to focus on your commands.

It's crucial to recognize when your dog might be feeling overwhelmed and take steps to create a calmer and more controlled environment.

What to Do

If you suspect your dog has tuned out, retrace what happened before. Have you been shouting more? Is the noise at home louder this time? Is there increased activity in your home?

Knowing what caused your dog to tune out can help you understand what’s causing your dog to become unresponsive to your commands.

Reason #2: The Energy You Have Speaks Differently Than Your Voice

Dogs are highly attuned to energy and body language.

In fact, they can sense your emotions and intentions often more accurately than they can understand your words.

Feelings of anxiety, frustration, or impatience… your dog feels them.

When they pick up on these negative emotions, it becomes more difficult for them to respond positively to your commands.

What to Do

Always make sure that your energy matches your words. If you ask your dog to “Please calm down," you have to be calm as well.

Remember: dogs understand energy more than words! When they see that you’re calm, they can calm down, too.

DOG CALMING CODE: TEACHES DOGS TO REALLY LISTEN TO YOU Reason #3: You're Shouting a Lot, and They No Longer Know What's Urgent and What's Not

Consistent shouting or using a loud, commanding tone can lead to confusion for your dog.

The louder you shout, the more they are desensitized to your voice, not knowing when a command is really essential.

As dog owners, there are crucial moments when shouting is a NEED. If you’re always shouting for every single command, you lose the power of a louder voice.

What to Do

Use clear and consistent commands with a normal tone of voice.

Only use loud or urgent commands when you want immediate action from your dog. This way, your dog will better understand when it's CRUCIAL to respond promptly.

Reason #4: You Are Not Connected with Your Dog

A strong connection with you is what makes dogs understand what you’re asking from them.

Your dog should have a strong connection with you to know that your commands are always for the better.

If you haven't invested enough time in building this connection and trust, your dog can go and think:

“Should I trust them enough to do what they’re commanding me to do?”

What to Do

Connect with your dog using a non-threatening and calm energy. When your dog is agitated, calmly check for the reason and avoid reacting harshly.

Reason #5: They Don't See You as a Leader They Can Trust

Dogs are pack animals and naturally inclined to follow a leader they can trust.

Our dogs will constantly check on us to see if we’re the leader they can rely on. They will sometimes test us, checking if we’re easily provoked or if we are truly the leader capable of leading the pack.

The more we show a calm, sure, confident energy, the more they will trust us.

What to Do

Establish yourself as a trustworthy leader by setting clear boundaries and rules for your dog. And always do things with a calm energy.

If your dog refuses your commands, you can use the strategy I call the Three C’s: the calm, consistent, consequence to an action. An example of this is gently leading your dog to a timeout when a behavior needs to be corrected.

It’s timeout with absolutely zero angry energy. It’s powerful for dogs!

DOG CALMING CODE: THE ONLINE PROGRAM THAT HAS CHANGED 88,000 DOGS! Use this Quick Exercise on Silence and Calm Energy To Make Your Dog Listen More

A routine that begins in silence is one effective exercise to strengthen your bond with your dog and encourage a more attentive response. th

Here's how you can try it:

Step 1: Start Your Day Quietly

In the morning, when you check in with your dog, aim to keep your energy low and your actions almost silent.

You can start with as little as 30 seconds of this calm interaction, or if you're up for it, extend it to three minutes.

The key is to connect with your dog in a very calm, very serene way.

Step 2: Observe the Effect on Your Dog

While you enjoy the calm, start observing how your dog responds to your quieter demeanor. This exercise will show you how your dog react to a positive change in your energy.

Step 3: Call Your Dog Calmly

After a few minutes of this serene connection, gently say your dog's name, crouch down, and calmly call them over to you.

Observe how they respond as they approach you. They will exhibit a far calmer energy compared to when you initiate interactions with a more elevated energy level.

And when a dog is calmer, they’re more ready to listen to you.

THE DOG CALMING CODE: THE ONLINE DOG TRAINING PROGRAM TRUSTED BY DOG OWNERS How to Get Dogs to Listen More: Why Yelling Is Not the Answer

I know that not yelling at dogs is easier said than done, especially when we feel like our dogs just don’t pay attention to what we are saying.

If you do struggle with yelling, here are some things I want you to remember the next time you feel triggered to raise your voice at your dogs.

Reason #1: Yelling Tells Your Dog You’re Not a Confident Leader, Making It Hard for Them to Follow You

The pack leader often exudes a calm and confident energy. They can’t be challenged because they know they’re capable. Even in danger, they show the pack they can handle it.

Dogs are pack animals, and if you want them to listen to you, you have to show them you’re worthy of being listened to.

How? By showing calm and confident energy… just like a pack leader would!

If you’re running around anxious, or if your dog’s actions trigger a stressed reaction, your dog will start to think

“They aren’t confident and brave enough as a pack leader. When I’m stressed, they get more stressed! They’re worried! They’re scared! Should I trust them? Can they really make me safe? Should I really listen to them?”

Remember this: in your dog’s eyes, leadership is not always synonymous with shouting.

Reason #2: Yelling — as a Knee Jerk Reaction — Rarely Builds Any Connection

Let’s take the example of a dog who does not stop barking.

Dogs bark when they feel the property they’re protecting is threatened.

Some dog owners think that dogs bark just because, and a “Stop it!” — in a shouty fashion — is enough.

It’s not enough.

As long as the dog isn’t pacified that you’ve seen the threat, you’ve analyzed the threat, and you’ve shown your dog that you got it covered, the barking will not stop.

(I talk more about this in Doggy Dan Golden Rule #4: Danger)

Calmly approaching a barking episode can help you see what really triggers the barking. Your calmness also tells your dog “I’m the leader and I’m not worried. I got it all covered for you. You’re safe. You can stop barking.”

It’s a connection that only happens when we stop yelling at our dogs !

TEACH YOUR DOGS TO LISTEN TO YOU WITH THE HELP OF THE DOG CALMING CODE Reason #3: If We Go About Yelling Every Time, Our Dog Will Constantly Carry a Stressed Energy With Them

Your dog doesn’t just feel your energy; they absorb it, too.

If you’re running stressed all around the house, your dog will absorb that stress, too. And a stressed dog is rarely a dog that obeys and listens.

If you want a calmer dog, the calm energy should start with you.

The Dog Calming Code: The Program That Helps Calm Dogs Down and Makes Them Listen More

Choosing to be calm is such a journey for every dog owner. But it’s one worth taking because it comes with amazing benefits such as:

• A calmer dog
• A healthier relationship built on trust
• A loving connection with your dog
• A more peaceful home
• A dog who isn’t always stressed and agitated
• And so much more!

My online program, The Dog Calming Code™️, is for any dog owner who wants to know how to make dogs listen and obey more without using force or shouting.

Following this program lets you communicate with your dogs calmly and clearly. When calmness prevails in your relationship, you can enjoy a dog who connects with you, listens to you, and obeys you without any need for you to shout.

To know more about The Dog Calming Code, click here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄