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Boudoir After Dark Podcast

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Welcome to the B.A.D. Podcast! Where we (he photography team behind Boudoir After Dark) have one on one, intimate conversation, questioning and celebrate all legal and consenting sexual walks of life. Hearing stories, sharing in triumphs and pains, and most of all: learning.

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Boudoir After Dark Podcast 018 - The One Kink Even Kinky People Won't Watch

Épisode 18

vendredi 11 septembre 2026 • Durée 01:32:44

At kink events _Heather_ gets put in a corner so the dominant men don't have to watch. She teaches the one thing even the kink community squirms at.

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🎧 THE EPISODE _Heather_ teaches CBT — a kink most people react to before they understand it. Her argument is that the reaction is the problem: the word "torture," a lifetime of being told that area is off-limits, and the assumption that any of this is about humiliating someone.

She'd rather call it torment, and she'd rather you knew the medical side before you tried it. This conversation is heavy on safety, because she leads with it: the fertility risk almost nobody mentions, why she won't reuse implements, why she caps scenes at 45 minutes, and the night a flogger tip landed somewhere it shouldn't have. Jaysin came in visibly uncomfortable and says so on mic. He does not stay that way.

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0:00:00 Intro

0:03:01 What CBT actually stands for

0:03:42 Why the word torture scares people

0:04:40 Put in a corner at her own class

0:07:27 Torment instead of torture

0:09:13 The fertility risk nobody mentions

0:10:54 What else can go wrong

0:14:37 What a tasting looks like

0:20:16 Wear gloves. Seriously.

0:23:11 Why she enjoys it

0:24:07 Building the scene

0:29:33 Technique that avoids the risk

0:33:08 Why her line is always longest

0:38:55 When you have to pause

0:40:50 A negotiation, walked through

0:44:13 The intense end of the toy bag

0:49:47 Using your voice as a tool

0:54:11 Why she calls herself a switch

0:56:55 The night it went wrong

1:05:23 Marks as art

1:09:13 Why she caps scenes at 45 minutes

1:13:21 What sounding actually is

1:24:52 Pain relief and chronic pain

1:26:57 The mistake beginners make

1:30:01 Where to find Heather

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🎙️ THIS WEEK'S GUEST

👤 _Heather_ — kink educator

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🖤 FOLLOW B.A.D.

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📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boudoirafterdark_chicago/

▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BoudoirAfterDark

We're the team behind Boudoir After Dark — a bold, sex-positive, kink-friendly boudoir photo and video studio in Chicago, built for people who want to feel like rock gods. Consensually, artistically, and with zero cringe.

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📸 SHOOT WITH US

Moody, cinematic boudoir photo and video.

Couples, solo, and kink-friendly sessions with consent-forward direction — you never have to already know how to pose. Albums, prints, wall art, highlight films, full edits.

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If this episode hit you in the feelings (or the courage), drop a comment with what stuck or what topic you want next. Likes, comments, and shares help more than people realize.

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🎬 CREDITS

🎥 Produced by Jaysin Osterkamp, Hilda Burke and Donna Van

🎵 Music by Temple of Hunger

🎙️ Episode 18

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⚠️ CONTENT NOTE + LEGAL

This episode is an explicit discussion of genital sensation play, including injury risk. Full content notes: boudoirafterdark.com/ep18 Nothing here is instruction, and nothing here replaces medical advice. Educational and entertainment purposes only — not medical, legal, or mental health advice. 18+. Guest views are their own. All audio, video, and photo content © Boudoir After Dark. #podcast #kink #sexpositive

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Boudoir Art Dark 017 - The Most Advance Kink Nobody Talks About

Épisode 17

vendredi 4 septembre 2026 • Durée 01:24:01

Mistress Autumn is back, this time on fear play

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🎧 THE EPISODE

Mistress Autumn is back, this time on fear play — the kink that lives almost entirely in the mind. She walks through an interrogation scene she watched at Kinky College, built layer by layer: senses stripped one at a time, a hated song looped for fifteen seconds, a safe word written into the story instead of a color, and a surprise the bottom never negotiated for. She explains why fear play is advanced rather than beginner territory, where consensual non-consent fits and why it gets confused with wanting rougher sex, what a dungeon monitor is actually doing when they stand next to a scene, and how a simple hood can trigger someone in two seconds with no warning. Jaysin also finally explains where his lifelong love of scaring people came from.

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🖤 FOLLOW B.A.D.

🔗 Everything: https://linktr.ee/BoudoirAfterDark

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/boudoirafterdark_chicago/

▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BoudoirAfterDark

We're the team behind Boudoir After Dark — a bold boudoir photo and video studio in Chicago, built for people who want to feel like rock gods. Consensually, artistically, and with zero cringe.

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SHOOT WITH US

Moody, cinematic boudoir photo and video. Couples, solo, and kink-friendly sessions with consent-forward direction — you never have to already know how to pose. Albums, prints, wall art, highlight films, full edits.

Boudoir After Dark 016 - The Most X-Rated and G-Rated Episode We've Done

Épisode 16

jeudi 3 septembre 2026 • Durée 01:40:59

Donna invited her neighbor to his first dungeon night. He lasted about ten minutes. A few days later he told her he'd stick to bingo.

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🎧 THE EPISODE

Donna was our very first guest and the person who opened the door to all of this for us — she leads Kane County Kinksters, close to 4,000 members and coming up on three years. This one has no agenda. It's just stories: the five-question test that ended a relationship, the neighbor who noped out of a dungeon in ten minutes, a car crash that ended in laughter, and the scene she designed to take back power from something that happened decades ago. Along the way she explains subspace, drop, service subs, red versus yellow, who actually holds the power in a scene, and why she'd rather be honest about all of it than let people learn it the hard way. It's the most X-rated and G-rated episode we've made.

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🖤 FOLLOW B.A.D.

🔗 Everything: https://linktr.ee/BoudoirAfterDark

📸 Instagram: / boudoirafterdark_chicago

▶️ YouTube: / @boudoirafterdark

Boudoir After Dark 015 - The Truth About Bratting: It's Not What You Think

Épisode 14

jeudi 3 septembre 2026 • Durée 01:21:20

Casey pushes her husband until he stops holding back. That's the entire point. A conversation about bratting, and why brats get such a bad name.

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🎧 THE EPISODE

Casey didn't know "brat" was a word for anything until she got into the lifestyle — she just knew she was snarky, sarcastic, and constitutionally incapable of falling in line. She spent twenty years of marriage not asking for what she wanted, then left a letter on the bed and changed everything. Now she and her husband lead a kink group in a farm town of 900 people, run a September camping event, and have survived being publicly outed at a village board meeting by a man holding a folder of printouts. This episode covers what bratting actually is, why the label carries so much baggage in old-school BDSM circles, the difference between playful defiance and just being inconsiderate, and how to vet the people and events you're trusting with your safety.

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🖤 FOLLOW B.A.D.

🔗 Everything: https://linktr.ee/BoudoirAfterDark

📸 Instagram: / boudoirafterdark_chicago

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Boudoir After Dark 014 - We Were in Amateur Entertainment and Didn't Know It

Épisode 15

jeudi 3 septembre 2026 • Durée 01:33:41

Alibi Ja ne has been a swinger since 19, accidentally appeared in early amateur adult content before the internet made that a thing, discovered erotic hypnosis through a dom who conditioned her to orgasm without being touched — and then she demonstrated a live induction on camera that left our host not wanting to come back. This is the episode about the most powerful kink of all: the one that lives entirely inside your mind.

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🔥 She Hypnotized Us Live — 4 minutes into a live demonstration, HIlda's shoulders dropped, her head started tracking imaginary objects, her eyes glazed red under studio lights, and she reported her headache dissolving and feeling like she was floating. The meadow, the leaf, the door — all of it landed.

🔥 The Accidental Amateur Story — Before the internet existed, Alibi Jane was traveling to events with a group where "everyone had video cameras, so you didn't think twice." They found out later the group was producing early amateur adult content — and they were in it.

🔥 Orgasm on Command — Women can be hypnotically conditioned to orgasm without any physical stimulation. Alibi Jane experienced this herself with an "orgasm control dom" — and realized almost immediately that she had done most of it herself through the power of sustained anticipation and belief.

🔥 The Cicada Arousal Trigger, Doll Play & a Buried Alive Fantasy — A tour through some of the most creative hypnotic scenarios in the episode: a trigger set so that the sound of cicadas produced arousal (active all summer during the double cicada year), a doll play session where she felt her brain filling with hard plastic and her body becoming an object, and a "buried alive" scenario drawn from a Wes Craven film that remains on her bucket list to revisit.

🔥 Confidence Through Kink — born into a world where women couldn't own credit cards without a husband's signature. She talks about how moving from submissive to dominant didn't just change her kink life — it fundamentally rewrote her sense of self-worth, confidence, and power in a way that decades of cultural conditioning had stripped away. She sought rough, dangerous situations before she found kink because she didn't have language for what she needed. Finding the community gave her that language — and then some.

Boudoir After Dark 013 - She Found Her Soulmate, Built a Business & Survived Cancer

Épisode 13

vendredi 7 août 2026 • Durée 01:45:08

In Episode 13 of Boudoir After Dark, we sit down with MissKyleigh — cancer survivor, grad student in clinical mental health, kink educator, top-leaning switch, aftercare and drop presenter, and co-founder of Smacks & Wax — the wildly popular handcrafted kink toy and wax play candle business she built with her wife in under two years.

MissKyleigh came in as a vendor neighbor and left as someone who might genuinely change how you think about kink. This episode goes everywhere: how a stolen toy bag inspired a business, why she hand-selects exotic wood and hand-delivers candles in summer heat to protect quality, the full breakdown of wax play temperature science (and why beeswax at 180° will absolutely burn you), and how lightning fractal paddles are made — from three feet away, with a button, because electricity must be respected.

But it's the personal stories that will stop you cold. MissKyleigh talks about falling for her wife across a munch table, waiting patiently through five years and a gender transition, proposing ten days after cancer surgery with a ring box hidden in a Christmas ornament and 37 written reasons she should say yes. She opens up about the fibromyalgia she only discovered after a car accident, the drop she experienced after a convention, the mental breakdown she nearly didn't come back from, and why she took over an aftercare class the week a beloved presenter suddenly passed away — and why she won't stop giving that class.

This is the episode about what it looks like to love your community so hard you cross the country alone in an SUV, nearly pass out at 8,640 feet of elevation, and still set up your booth.

🛒 Find Smacks & Wax on Etsy: SmacksAndWax 📍 FetLife: MissKyleigh

🌐 More from us: boudoirafterdark.com

⚠️ This podcast is for adults 18+. For education and entertainment only. Not medical, legal, or mental health advice.

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Boudoir After Dark 012 - Black, Kink & Healing: The Doctor of Kink is In

Épisode 12

vendredi 31 juillet 2026 • Durée 01:19:59

In Episode 12 of Boudoir After Dark, we sit down with Dr. Yulinda Renee Rahman — aka DocYuRoc — doctor of sexology, licensed therapist, kink educator, founder of the Therapeutic BDSM Collaborative Network, creator of Self-Reconciliation Therapy, director of the Kink Professional Standards Alliance, publisher of the Journal of Kinking Community, and one of the most compellingly brilliant humans we have ever had in this studio.

She came in to talk about kink. She ended up dismantling everything we thought we knew about trauma, healing, identity, anger, and what it actually means to reconcile with yourself.

Doc Yu Roc breaks down why 90% of her therapy clients had some form of sexual trauma — and why 64% of people overall are interested in kink, making kink the statistical majority, not the exception. She unpacks her landmark dissertation "Healing the Angry Black Woman," explains why she created a safe space specifically for Black folks to talk about kink without shame, and introduces us to her four-pillar Self-Reconciliation Therapy framework: self-awareness, acceptance, self-attunement, and atonement.

She also shares her first-ever therapeutic BDSM session — virtual, deeply vulnerable, and more revealing than six years of doctoral research — and drops one of the most quotable lines in BAD history: "It's not about forgiving anyone else. It's about forgiving yourself for forgetting who you are."

And she did all of this while raising three kids, working out of her own pocket, getting told she'd never be published — and responding by starting her own journal.

This is the episode we'll be talking about for years.

🌐 Find Doc Yu Roc:

👤 Our Guest: Dr. Yulinda Renee Rahman, Ph.D.

🔥 Home | Ecosystem of Excellence: https://ecosystemofexcellence.org/

🔥 Power & Praxis: https://ecosystemofexcellence.org/power-praxis-2/

Boudoir After Dark 011 - I Spent 29 Years in the Wrong Body

Épisode 11

vendredi 24 juillet 2026 • Durée 42:13

In Episode 11 of Boudoir After Dark, we sit down with 6M — a trans woman whose journey to herself wound through denial, a professional dominatrix, a kink-aware therapist, years of hormone therapy, and more courage than most of us will ever have to find.

6M opens up about everything: the intrusive thought she'd had since childhood that she rationalized away as a fetish, the moment in front of a mirror at a dominatrix's studio where the word "dysphoria" finally clicked, the year she spent in therapy before making any decisions, and the step-by-step physical reality of HRT — skin softening, breast growth, muscle loss, three rounds of puberty, laser hair removal, switching from pills to patches to injections, and shrinking three inches in height as her connective tissue changed.

She talks about emotional numbness and what it felt like to finally be able to feel things fully, her family's complicated but ultimately loving response, the job that gave her a clean slate to begin presenting as herself, and what joy — real joy, not just day-to-day happiness — feels like when you're finally living as who you actually are.

This is one of the most honest, warm, and quietly powerful conversations we've ever had.

🌐 More from us: boudoirafterdark.com

⚠️ This podcast is for adults 18+. For education and entertainment only. Not medical, legal, or mental health advice.

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Boudoir After Dark 010 - Philosophy of a 24/7 Dominant: Why Connection Changes Everything in a Scene

Épisode 10

vendredi 17 juillet 2026 • Durée 01:32:28

In Episode 10 of Boudoir After Dark, we welcome Evil Johnny — edge player, sadist, service top, Daddy Dom, dominant, fire play specialist, and self-described reaction junkie — who drove four hours to be here and gave us one of the wildest, most surprisingly philosophical episodes we've ever recorded.

Evil Johnny has been in the lifestyle since 2013 and lives it 24/7. He owns over 200 implements including his legendary hardwood paddle "Captain Caveman," a 49-inch, 8-pound flogger called "Cousin It," and a fire whip he commissioned on a whim and learned to use in front of an entire campground. He brands his toys with his name, and if one ever draws blood — it goes home with the bottom permanently. That's his code.

We dig into what it actually means to be a sadist (hint: it requires trust, connection, and genuine consent — not just someone to hit), why he ends scenes before the safe word gets called, the CNC torture scene that ended with a branding iron and a blood-curdling scream heard across a campground at breakfast, and the top drop that followed. We talk fire flogging, fire bubbles, fire whipping, Florentine technique, fluid bonding, relationship anarchy, hydration and lotion as impact prep, the kink dispenser problem, and why bloodied implements belong to the person who bled on them.

And then — unexpectedly — one of the most grounded conversations about joy, needs versus wants, and what it means to truly hear someone we've ever had on this show.

🔗 Find Evil Johnny on FetLife: Evil-Johnny

🌐 More from us: https://linktr.ee/BoudoirAfterDark

⚠️ This podcast is for adults 18+. For education and entertainment only. Not medical, legal, or mental health advice.

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Boudoir After Dark 009 - Age Play, Pet Play & the Kinks Nobody Wants to Talk About

Épisode 9

vendredi 10 juillet 2026 • Durée 01:24:04

In Episode 9 of Boudoir After Dark, we sit down with Alice — a licensed therapist, certified kink educator with over 15 years of experience, neurodiversity specialist, and one of the most compelling voices we've ever had in this studio. She specializes in marginalized kinks, neurodivergent identity, and the emerging field of therapeutic BDSM, and she brought enough knowledge to fill a semester.

We go places this show has never gone. Alice breaks down age play, dark age play, ABDL, pet play, pony play, kitten play, and otherkin with zero judgment and total clarity. She explains why some of the most stressed-out people in the world — air traffic controllers, caregivers, executives — are drawn to the little space, and why a giant Nerf war at a Chicago age play convention made her feel more healed than she had in years.

But the moment that stopped everything? Her answer to whether kink comes from trauma. It doesn't — she says. What does come from trauma is the self-awareness that leads someone to kink in the first place. That one sentence will change how you think about this entire community.

We also dig into consent fatigue, kink frenzy, the double empathy problem in neurodivergent relationships, why fear play is a legitimate kink with zero sexual component, therapeutic BDSM as an emerging clinical model, how to find a kink-competent therapist, and the KPSA certification program trying to standardize kink education for the first time.

This is the most academic, most therapeutic, and somehow most fun episode we've ever done.

🔗 Find Alice on FetLife: Alice is Missing 🔥 Resources: KPSA - https://thekpsa.org/ National Coalition for Sexual Freedom - https://ncsfreedom.org/ Kink Aware Professionals Directory - https://www.kapprofessionals.org/ BDST Test - https://bdsmtest.org/

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