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Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar

Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We've got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety, how to find the right events, what to expect once you're there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our November 8th Meet & Greet at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) and the December 5–7 Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, where we'll host a live Beyond Monogamy show with audience Q&A.

➡️ Full Events Page (dates, times, maps, updates)

• Time: 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM (we may stay later if it's poppin')
• Where: Inside Forbidden Fruit (Austin's oldest locally owned adult boutique; block-party vibes with neighboring local shops)
• What's happening: Photos, lives, light Q&A, merch, and meet-the-hosts energy
• Parking tip: It's tight—street or neighborhood parking recommended. Worth the walk!

Full address, updates, and reminders are on our Events Page.

• Weekend takeover: Lifestyle community, day events, and night parties
• We're performing: A live Beyond Monogamy podcast + audience Q&A (seating + mic setup on site)
• Heads-up: Rooms are moving fast—see the Events Page for info & booking details

Traveling in to see us? Tell us you're coming—we love meeting out-of-towners.

• Check vetted platforms like SDC and Kasidie for party & meet-and-greet listings.
• Local Facebook communities (often invite-only)—meet people at clubs and ask for a group invite.
• At meet-and-greets, introduce yourself to the host or a connector; start with one person, let them introduce you onward.

• It's normal to be nervous—your first event is the hardest; it gets easier fast.
• Have a drink if you want, but avoid overdoing it—staying aware keeps you safe and confident.
• Safety first: watch your surroundings, stick together, and honor consent like it's sacred.

• 🗓️ All Events (first stop): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/beyond-monogamy-events/
• 🌐 Main Site: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com
• 📬 Beyond Monogamy Confessional (anonymous): https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/confess/ 
• 📻 Full Swap Radio: https://fullswapradio.com — catch us Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM Central
• ❤️ Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/c/BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris 
• 📱 SDC (events/platform): https://www.sdc.com 
• 📱 Kasidie (events/platform): https://www.kasidie.com 

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In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories.

• 💧 Jaime's work: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com
• 🌐 Our site: www.beyond-monogamy.com
• 📻 Listen on FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com
• ❤️ Support us on Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris

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Meet Us IRL: We'll be at Forbidden Fruit (Austin) on November 8—come say hi and join our live Q&A session!

• How labels help—when they're guides, not molds
• Swinging vs. Polyamory: sex-forward vs. romance-forward dynamics
• Jealousy isn't the villain: safety, communication, and growth
• Latin culture, masculinity, shame, and sexual autonomy
• Consent, agency, honesty & compassion as relationship pillars
• Why community is the #1 unlock for sustainable ENM

Jaime Gama is a psychologist and Gestalt therapist, international educator on ethical non-monogamy, and author of Si te duele, ahí no es. He leads workshops, writes, and creates hugely popular content that makes complex relationship ideas practical and accessible.
Website: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com

• Beyond Monogamy: www.beyond-monogamy.com
• FullSwapRadio (Thursdays 1 PM & 6 PM CST): FullSwapRadio.com
• Patreon: @beyondmonogamywithadampris
• Guest site: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com

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Forbidden Fruit (Austin) — November 8
Meet-and-greet + listener Q&A. Can't wait to see you there!

In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about the impact of bad swinging experiences and why one flop doesn't have to end your lifestyle journey. From erectile dysfunction struggles to mismatched vibes and awkward first encounters, they break down the most common reasons people walk away after a negative night — and how to process, communicate, and bounce back stronger. Adam shares why he believes in second chances and growth, while Pris explains why her instinct is to shut it down after one bad vibe. Together, they show how balancing those approaches can save your confidence, protect your relationship, and help you find better connections. If you've ever thought, "One bad swinging night means this isn't for me," this episode proves you can reset, learn, and still create amazing experiences in the lifestyle.

Episode Title: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

Episode Summary:
What happens when your first (or even tenth) swinging experience doesn't go as planned? Adam & Pris dive into how to handle those moments without letting them ruin your outlook on the lifestyle. From bad sex, awkward vibes, or ED issues, they share personal stories and practical strategies for reframing those nights into valuable lessons.

What You'll Hear in This Episode:

• Why one bad swinger night can feel like a dealbreaker (especially for newbies)

• Pris's "no second chances" rule vs. Adam's "everyone deserves another shot" mindset

• The role of communication, forgiveness, and learning in navigating bad encounters

• Red flags that truly are dealbreakers vs. just one-off bad vibes

• How to reset expectations and give the lifestyle another try

• Why some of the best nights happen right after the worst ones

Why This Episode Matters:
So many couples quit the lifestyle after a negative experience. This conversation shows you how to move forward instead of letting one bad night define your entire journey.

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Family law gets real when you're living outside the box of traditional monogamy. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Maryland/DC attorney Jonathan Lane, a polyamorous lawyer who specializes in ethical non-monogamy, custody battles, divorce, inheritance, and family protections.

Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directives, employment discrimination, and how judges actually view non-traditional families in court.

Whether you're a swinger, poly, or exploring ENM, this is one of those conversations that could protect your kids, your partners, and your lifestyle. If you've ever worried about being "outed" in court, losing custody, or what happens if your throuple breaks up—this episode is packed with answers.

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In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the legal side of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging with Jonathan Lane, a Maryland/DC attorney who is out as poly himself and dedicated to protecting non-traditional families in the courtroom.

• ⚖️ Custody & Courts — How judges view ENM parents, the "best interest of the child" standard, and why outcomes often depend on your county.

• 👩‍👩‍👧 De Facto Parent Status — What it means, how it protects non-bio/non-adoptive parents, and the strict criteria involved.

• 💔 Divorce & Breakups — Why written agreements, even texts, matter when disputes over cheating or swinging arise.

• 🏡 Property, Inheritance & Wills — How throuples/quads can own property together, protect assets, and secure inheritance rights.

• 🏥 Medical Directives & Power of Attorney — Why ENM partners should set these up before emergencies.

• 👩‍⚖️ Employment Discrimination — Why "at will" jobs can be risky, and where (Cambridge, Somerville, Berkeley, Oakland) ENM is starting to see protections.

• 🌎 Cultural Shifts — How awareness and acceptance of non-monogamy are growing nationwide, even if the laws are still catching up.

Jonathan also shares stories from real cases where polyamory and kink showed up in court, from custody battles to divorce disputes—and what lessons we can all take from them.

• Connect with Jonathan Lane: JD Lane Law - www.jdlanelaw.com

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• Stream us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com

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If you love hanging out with us every week, please take a minute to leave us a review, hit that subscribe button, and share the show with your friends. It may not seem like much, but reviews are the lifeblood that keep Beyond Monogamy growing. It only takes a few seconds, and it helps us reach more open-minded, curious, and lifestyle-friendly listeners just like you.

In today's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into one of those ouch moments almost every couple in the lifestyle has faced:
👉 What do you do when someone makes it crystal clear they're into your spouse… but not into you?

This episode is raw, funny, and a little sting-filled as we unpack:

• Real stories from our own encounters when attraction wasn't mutual.

• How being "the partner left out" can stir up jealousy, frustration, or even self-doubt.

• Why delivery matters — the difference between respectful honesty and underhanded sneaking.

• The role communication plays in softening the sting (and why sugarcoating sometimes happens).

• How to handle being iced out, ignored, or overlooked without letting it kill your confidence.

• Tips for reframing rejection so it doesn't ruin your night — or your relationship.

We don't just talk theory; we get vulnerable about the awkward moments that made us sour, laugh, and learn. And like always, we keep it playful while shining a light on the deeper emotional side of ethical non-monogamy.

If you've ever thought "Wait, why don't they want me too?" or if you've had to sit with the sting of rejection in the lifestyle, this episode is for you. We share practical ways to deal with it, plus a few laughs that prove you're not alone.

Thanks for listening and supporting Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris!

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• Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com

📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST — streaming alongside some of the best voices in the lifestyle community.

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We're celebrating YOU with a sexy Review Giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin.

Here's how to enter:

1. Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.

2. Screenshot it.

3. Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.

📅 Ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at 11:59 PM CST
📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025 during our QUICKIE episode + on socials.

Your reviews help new listeners find us — and each entry is a chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit.

This week on Beyond Monogamy, we're joined by the brilliant Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi (aka Rabbi Nikki) — queer, poly, sex-positive rabbi, writer, and educator. Together, we explore how faith, spirituality, and ethical non-monogamy intersect, and how breaking the silence on desire in religious spaces can transform lives.

🔥 Topics include:

• Coming out as polyamorous in religious and professional spaces.

• What sacred texts really say (or don't say) about non-monogamy.

• Queerness, feminism, and sex positivity in modern Jewish life.

• Why honesty, consent, and ethics matter more than outdated dogma.

• Real-life ENM experiences — from dating apps to married life.

Rabbi Nikki brings wisdom, humor, and lived experience to the mic, making this a must-listen for anyone exploring the deeper spiritual side of ethical non-monogamy.

✨ Learn more about Rabbi Nikki: www.rabbinikki.com

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📻 Tune in every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio.

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• YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris

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💥 Review Giveaway Alert! 💥
We're giving back to our community with a sexy review giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin. Here's how to enter:

• Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.

• Screenshot it.

• Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.

📅 Giveaway ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025, at 11:59 PM CST
📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025, during our QUICKIE episode + across all socials.

Your reviews help new listeners find our show — and every entry boosts your chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. Don't wait, get your review in today!

In this spicy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris play an unfiltered game of "Would You Rather?" with an ethical non-monogamy twist. From sexy lifestyle scenarios to hilarious couple debates, nothing's off the table.

🔥 Topics we cover:

• House Party vs Lifestyle Club — where would you rather play?

• Flirt all night vs play fast — which gets your motor running?

• Pool party fun vs themed costume parties — which vibe wins?

• Threesome vs Full Swap — which brings more intimacy and connection?

• Watch or be watched? — the ultimate ENM performance question.

• Same-room vs separate-room play — where do couples feel most comfortable?

• Plus: conversations about time in play sessions, neighbor fantasies, sexy yacht vs mansion parties, and even a wild round of glory holes vs blindfolds.

This episode blends humor, personal stories, and real insights into how couples navigate swinging, poly, and ethical non-monogamy in all their messy, fun, and sexy forms.

🎧 Listen everywhere: Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris.
📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST.

📲 Follow & Connect:

• Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com

• Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u

• TikTok: @beyond.monogamy + @adam&beyond

• X (Twitter): @beyomono

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• Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy

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What happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, and unfiltered approach, Savage Swingers have built a huge following by showing the lifestyle as it really is: messy, sexy, and authentic.

We dive into their story—from a wild tent camping first experience at a music festival, to becoming lifestyle content creators with thousands of followers. Along the way, we laugh about resting bitch face problems, talk through misconceptions about swingers, and explore how communication and education are the real keys to keeping relationships strong.

If you've ever wondered what it's like to live your truth publicly in the ethical non-monogamy world—or you just need some savage laughs with your lifestyle inspo—this episode brings it all.

• How Savage Swingers went from nervous TikTok posts to lifestyle influencers

• Their not-so-glamorous first experience (tent camping, no A/C, and yep… still fun)

• The biggest swinger lifestyle myths they want to bust

• Why communication + education are everything for newbies

• How they handle jealousy, insecurities, and staying authentic

• What it's really like to be recognized at lifestyle events

• The importance of showing not just the sexy highlights, but the real struggles too

• Savage Swingers interview

• TikTok swingers

• swinger lifestyle myths

• ethical non-monogamy podcast

• open relationship communication

• ENM content creators

• jealousy and reassurance in swinging

• Beyond Monogamy podcast guests

• TikTok: SavageSwingers 1.0, 2.0, 3.0

• YouTube: Savage Swingers

• Patreon: The Savage Swingers

• Website: savageswingers.com

Find more episodes, blogs, and community spaces at: www.beyond-monogamy.com

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Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn't about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn't perfect) and what they've learned along the way.

They share:

• Timing matters – don't drop the "lifestyle bomb" in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks.

• The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings.

• Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, "Am I not enough?" and that's okay.

• Reassurance isn't optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid.

• Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun.

• Consent is sexy – not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way.

Adam & Pris keep it 100% real about jealousy, insecurities, ultimatums, and the mistakes they made as newbies—and they drop practical advice for how couples can avoid the crash-and-burn moments while setting themselves up for success.

At the end of the day, "having the talk" isn't a one-time thing. It's a conversation that will keep evolving with your relationship, and the key is staying honest, open, and connected.

Episode Title: QUICKIE – Having The Talk: Lifestyle 101 with Adam & Pris
Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why timing and setting are critical when you bring up non-monogamy.

• How to use a preamble to ease your partner into sensitive conversations.

• The role of reassurance and emotional safety in keeping your relationship strong.

• Why rules, boundaries, and safe words matter for beginners.

• How alcohol and ultimatums can derail healthy conversations.

• The truth about consent—between partners and with others.

Links & Community:

• Leave us a review on our website

• Apple Podcasts reviews

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• Reddit community

• Discord community

• SDC promo link (Promo code: 38236)

Also streaming on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, YouTube, and every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.

In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging.

Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as "just trauma" or non-monogamy as "abnormal."

Together, we dive into:

• How fantasies are shaped by trauma, culture, and healing opportunities.

• Sacred Kink practices that transform play into intention, empowerment, and soul connection.

• Addiction vs. vibrancy — how to tell when desire is a compulsion and when it's authentic.

• Erotic hypnosis, empowerment scenes, and fantasy integration for deeper intimacy.

• Menopause & vitality: how to break the cultural curse of aging, embrace bioidentical hormone replacement, and keep passion alive in long-term relationships.

• Jealousy reframed: why Francesca says "don't call it jealousy" and how to uncover the deeper roots of those feelings.

This is one of those episodes that's hot, spiritual, and full of practical wisdom. Whether you're kinky, poly, swinging, or just curious, Francesca brings tools and insights that can change the way you approach intimacy.

🔥 Guest Links & Resources

• FrancescaGentille.com

• ShamanicKink.com

• Sol y Luna Festival

• Foundations Weekend – Belgium

• Shamanic Kink Immersion – Sicily

🎙️ What You'll Learn in This Episode

• The shamanic roots of BDSM and why kink can be sacred.

• How trauma and fantasy connect — and how to heal without losing your desires.

• Why menopause doesn't mean the end of sex (and how to advocate for hormone health).

• Practical ways couples can juggle family, non-monogamy, and still keep intimacy alive.

• How reframing "jealousy" can unlock deeper self-understanding and stronger connections.

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If Francesca's story and wisdom resonate with you, share this episode with a friend or partner, and let's keep breaking stigmas together.

📲 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

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• YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris

• TikTok: @beyond.monogamy | @adam&beyond

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• Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy

• Stream Thursdays on Full Swap Radio at 1 PM & 6 PM CST

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