You Probably Think This Story’s About You – Details, episodes & analysis

This episode references domestic violence and other mature themes. [Lou’s Story Part 1/3] Lou's story isn’t just about survival—it’s a battle cry of reclamation. In this chapter she unravels the deeply personal account of her entanglement with John, her manipulative and abusive ex-boyfriend. The emotional wounds of their relationship left scars that refused to fade, but it was the unexpected moment of seeing him again years later that pulled her back into the shadows of her past. As the trauma resurfaced, Lou found herself grappling with questions she thought she had buried. In retracing the steps of her formative years and confronting the weight of generational trauma, Lou begins to piece together a path toward recovery. But healing isn’t a straight line — it’s a labyrinth of pain, resilience, and startling realizations that could change everything.   All chapters are available ad free on Patreon: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd Share your story with Brittani. Production of BDE Unlimited Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  ___ RAINN Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network Helpline https://rainn.org/about-rainn   Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com   Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Season five of Nobody Should Believe Me tells the story of Sophie Hartman: a young, white midwestern evangelical missionary who travels to Zambia and comes home with two vulnerable sisters in her care. When she returns to the states, she lands far away from her family in Seattle, WA where she embarks on a medical odyssey with her younger daughter, C, reporting a variety of alarming symptoms: from chronic vomiting, to seizures, to days-long episodes of full-body paralysis.  Eventually, C is diagnosed with a rare neurological disorder called Alternating Hemiplegia of Childhood. Sophie weaves a tale of a child who could “leave us anytime” and uses the child’s illness to fundraise tens of thousands of dollars for special equipment and medical expenses, takes C on a Make-A-Wish trip, posts constantly about her family’s plight on her prolific social media accounts, and even writes a memoir about the story of her journey to adopt her. But is Sophie really the heroic mother of a sick child, or is she the ultimate unreliable narrator? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Brit sits down with Hugh Barber, a seasoned trial lawyer and former criminal prosecutor from Seattle. They discuss his extensive experience in prosecuting serious crimes such as aggravated murder and sexual assault.  The conversation touches on difficult topics including sexual assault, rape, and the profound impact of trauma on survivors. Hugh shares insights from his career, emphasizing the importance of supporting victims and the complexities of the legal system.  They also delve into issues such as manipulation in relationships and the nuances of consent. Brit reflects on her own experiences, making the discussion deeply personal and poignant. Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Produced by Larj Media  Executive Producer Brittani Ard Join me on Patreon for exclusive episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd _______________________ *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.  This episode may contain mentions and descriptions of addiction, suicide, mental health issues, and drug abuse.   If you are having thoughts of suicide or are in an unsafe situation. Please reach out to the resources below.     Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode we share the raw interview with Kanon’s coworker, Sarah. Sarah recounts experiences from her initial positive impressions and rapid friendship to discovering his extensive lies about his personal life, work experience, and manipulative behaviors. His actions not only impact personal relationships but also professional lives, leading to investigations, job reassignments, and emotional turmoil. Brit and Sarah shed light on the psychological impact of manipulation and the importance of communal support in healing.  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Executive Producer Brittani Ard Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd ________________________ *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.  This episode may contain mentions and descriptions of addiction, suicide, mental health issues, and drug abuse.   If you are having thoughts of suicide or are in an unsafe situation. Please reach out to the resources below.     Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Brittani Ard shares her interview on Peaceful Exit, a podcast about death, dying, and grief. Brittani and host Sarah Cavanaugh discuss how grief and loss shaped who she is and how she views the world. They also dive into the power of sharing personal narrative on the path to healing.   The Peaceful Exit catalogue is filled with fascinating and emotional explorations of loss, love and who we become in the wake of death. Brittani’s favorite recent episode featured brain scientist Mary Frances O’Connor. Be sure to follow Peaceful Exit wherever you get your podcasts and stay up to date with Sarah’s on social media for updates @apeacefulexit.  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd ________________________ *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.  This episode may contain mentions and descriptions of addiction, suicide, mental health issues, and drug abuse.   If you are having thoughts of suicide or are in an unsafe situation. Please reach out to the resources below.     Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Danielle opens up about the challenging journey through her past relationships. With vulnerability and courage, she shares her experiences of marriage, co-parenting challenges, and encounters with partners who didn't honor her true value.  In a heartfelt conversation with Brit, Danielle reflects on learning to recognize warning signs in relationships and the transformative power of seeking support. Their discussion offers hope and understanding to women who may be facing similar hardships, emphasizing the strength it takes to heal and rediscover one's inherent worthiness.  This episode stands as a testament to resilience, providing a compassionate space for listeners to feel seen and supported. It gently reminds us that even after difficult times, there is always a path towards healing, self-love, and authentic connections.  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Executive Producer Brittani Ard Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd ________________________ *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.  This episode may contain mentions and descriptions of addiction, suicide, mental health issues, and drug abuse.   If you are having thoughts of suicide or are in an unsafe situation. Please reach out to the resources below.     Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Brit and Gary discuss their unique family dynamics, showing love through problem-solving and witty remarks, these two grew up together and learn together. Brit shares her experience recovering from a manipulative relationship with a narcissist, emphasizing the importance of recognizing signs and maintaining boundaries. Gary offers support and advice for her moving forward, highlighting the value of resilience and maintaining strong relationships despite hardships.  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Executive Producer Brittani Ard Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd ________________________ *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.  This episode may contain mentions and descriptions of addiction, suicide, mental health issues, and drug abuse.   If you are having thoughts of suicide or are in an unsafe situation. Please reach out to the resources below.     Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are hard at work on Season 2. In the meantime, enjoy one of my new favorite show’s Family Secrets. We’ll be back with more bonus content from Season 1 next week.   Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd _____ 'I Dug It Up' is the first episode of the most recent season of Family Secrets. Growing up, Whit was extremely close with her mother. But when she becomes pregnant in her twenties, her mother extracts herself entirely; she spends the rest of her life pretending as if Whit simply does not exist. Why? To answer this burning question, Whit must dig and dig and dig.  More about Family Secrets: Family Secrets. We all have them. And while the discovery of family secrets can initially be terrifying or traumatic, often these discoveries have the power to liberate, heal, and even uplift us. Join Dani Shapiro, bestselling author of the memoir Inheritance, and her guests as they explore astonishing family secrets and uncover the extraordinary lessons the truth can teach us. More from Family Secrets: https://danishapiro.com/family-secrets/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tasya spills the tea on her relationship with Kanon. From their first date at Ikea to ghosting, in this raw interview Tasya candidly reflects on the red flags she missed and the ones she noticed. Brit and Tasya get real about manipulation, gaslighting, hard-learned lessons, and how Kanon impacted their lives moving forward.   Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors Executive Producer Brittani Ard Join me on Patreon for ad-free episodes, exclusive bonus episodes, merch, and early access to my Girls Night Out Tour: https://patreon.com/BrittaniArd ________________________ *Some names and details have been changed to conceal the identities of those who wish to remain anonymous.  This episode may contain mentions and descriptions of addiction, suicide, mental health issues, and drug abuse.   If you are having thoughts of suicide or are in an unsafe situation. Please reach out to the resources below.     Suicide & Crisis Lifeline Call or Text 988  https://www.988lifeline.org Childhelp Call or Text 800.422.4453  https://www.childhelphotline.org/ National Drug Helpline call 844.289.0879 https://www.drughelpline.org/ National Domestic Violence Hotline  www.thehotline.com HelpGuide  Narcissist Abuse Resource https://www.helpguide.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are hard at work on Season 2. In the meantime, enjoy Crimes of the Heart. We’ll be back with updates and bonus content from Season 1 next week.   ---------- In this episode, Rory Uphold speaks with author and unqualified but highly-skilled secret agent Gabrielle Stone about what to do when your husband cheats on you.   Together they talk about potential warning signs, getting back in the dating pool after a breakup or divorce, and how you can turn the worst thing that happened to you into a best-selling book that helps other women struggling along the way!  Follow Rory Uphold on Instagram @icouldbeblonder and on TikTok @roryuphold  Got a Question? Wanna submit a story? Email us at rory@crimesoftheheartpod.com or on my Instagram & TikTok  Sponsor information at https://brittaniard.com/sponsors  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices