Has pride ever impacted your life? Ready to recognize and address hidden pride in your heart? Bible teacher, theologian, author, podcaster, book coach, husband and father of four, Dr. Joel Muddamalle and I discuss the profound topics of humility and pride. Dr. Joel shares his personal journey, revealing how a humiliating childhood experience shaped his understanding of humility and its significance. He explains that biblical humility is rooted in recognizing God and our true identity as His royal children. Pride, on the other hand, is the elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion. Dr. Joel emphasizes that humility acts as a protection, prevention, and preservation, and that curiosity without limits can be destructive. The conversation shifts to the crucial role of boundaries and limits in the context of curiosity and desire. Dr. Joel explains how God established boundaries in the pre-fallen world to safeguard Adam and Eve from self-destruction. He clarifies that limits are not punitive but rather a means to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires. Dr. Muddamalle also explores the concept of hidden pride, which can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit and lead to destructive behavior. He highlights the importance of humility in overcoming pride and accepting our limits and weaknesses. Key Points: Humility: A foundational understanding rooted in recognizing God and our identity as His children. Pride: The elevation of self, leading to chaos and confusion. Boundaries and Limits: Essential for protecting us from self-destruction and enslavement to unholy desires. Hidden Pride: A subtle form of pride that can corrupt the fruit of the Spirit. The Power of Humility: Overcoming pride, accepting limits, and embracing our weaknesses. Tag Joel @muddamalle and I @biancaolthoff to let us know what practical handles you are applying in your daily life. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Dr. Joel Muddamalle muddamalle.com  Book: The Hidden Peace: Finding True Security, Strength, and Confidence Through Humility Quote Hidden pride is so deceptive because the conversation is happening in the chambers of the human heart. Takeaways Biblical humility starts with an awareness of God and our identity as royal children of God. Pride is the elevation of self and leads to chaos and confusion. Humility is a protection, prevention, and preservation. Curiosity without limits is chaotic. Boundaries and limits were established by God in the pre-fall world to protect us from self-destruction. Limits are not a punishment, but a way to prevent us from becoming enslaved to unholy desires. Hidden pride corrupts the fruit of the Spirit and leads to destructive behavior. Humility is the antidote to pride and helps us accept our limits and weaknesses. Anxiety and shame can be addressed through humility and accepting our weaknesses. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to create a life that you love? Are you ready to take small steps to make it happen? My friend Stephanie May Wilson, a writer, speaker, and podcaster, and I talk about the unique challenges and pressures women face in their 20s and 30s, a time Stephanie calls the "everything era." This is a period marked by significant life decisions, societal expectations, and a whole lot of figuring it out. Stephanie shares her own experiences navigating this tricky terrain and offers some valuable takeaways: Embrace the Power of Choice: The 'everything era' is YOUR time to take the reins and create the life YOU want. It's about aligning your decisions with your values, even when those values don't always align with traditional expectations. Transition to the "I Get to Create It Now Era": Life throws curveballs. Embrace those detours as opportunities for personal growth and course correction. Each challenge is a chance to refine your vision and build the life you love. Don't Be Afraid of Disagreements: Navigating this phase can lead to conflicts with loved ones, especially when it comes to life choices. Use these disagreements as opportunities for open communication and mutual understanding. Listen in as Stephanie shares her personal journey of embracing the "I get to create it now era" and how a move to Spain opened up a whole new chapter of her life.  Follow us on social media at @biancaolthoff and @smaywilson. Stay connected with Stephanie through her adventures.   XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Stephanie May Wilson stephaniemaywilson.com Book: Create a Life You Love: How to Quiet Outside Voices So You Can Finally Hear Your Own Quote The 'everything era' is a time of uncertainty and pressure to figure out life. Takeaways The 'everything era' refers to the period in a woman's life, typically in her 20s and 30s, when she is making significant life decisions and facing societal pressures. It's important to define what success and happiness mean to you personally, rather than conforming to societal expectations. The transition from the 'everything era' to the 'I get to create it now era' is a defining moment for personal growth and decision-making. You have the power to decide how you want to live your life and make choices that align with your values and desires. When life doesn't go as expected, you have options: you can quit, keep moving forward, change tactics, or ask for help. Surround yourself with a supportive inner circle who can provide guidance and advice, but ultimately trust yourself to make the best decisions for your life. Creating a life you love may involve making intentional decisions that fit for a season but may not be permanent. Taking control of your own life and making decisions that align with your values and desires can lead to personal fulfillment and happiness. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/wgt to receive your 25% discount today.  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Youtube  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you fulfilling your God given destiny and unlocking your power? How have you embraced your calling with boldness and authority?  In this episode, I share a teaching from the book of Mark given at The Father’s House Orange County. In it I delve into the theme of being marked for power and purpose. We are marked by God, and with this divine marking comes the power to overcome any bondage or sin. Some of the key takeaways are: Being Marked by God: Exploring the profound concept that each one of us is marked by God, instilled with a unique purpose and the power to fulfill it. Lessons from the book of Mark: The book of Mark presents a radical explanation of the supernatural power of Jesus and the power that we, as disciples, possess. The Authority of Jesus: I focus on the authority of Jesus, particularly his ability to cast out demons, showcasing the extent of his divine power. Confronting Spirits: I encourage you to recognize and confront the spirits that may be tormenting you, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging these challenges in order to overcome them. Embrace Your Calling: I urge you to embrace your calling with boldness and authority, stepping into the power that has been bestowed upon you. Friend, I want you to recognize the power within you, confront the spirits that torment you, and embrace your divine calling with boldness and authority. Remember, you are marked by God for a unique purpose. Step into your power and fulfill your destiny.  You are MARKED for power and purpose. Embrace it! Let me know how you are stepping into your authority, confronting your challenges, and boldly embracing your calling by tagging me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS The Father’s House Orange County MARK’D Series Quote I want you to know that you are marked and that you have power to do what God's called you to do. Takeaways We are marked by God and have the power to overcome any bondage or sin. The book of Mark emphasizes the supernatural power of Jesus and the power we possess as disciples. We have the authority to confront and cast out the spirits that may be tormenting us. Embracing our calling requires stepping out of our comfort zone and confronting the spirits that hold us back. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Youtube https://youtu.be/8Zhi83TYi7U Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! We are on a break from our regularly scheduled podcast but between now and when we start our next season, I wanted to pop in and spread some love. If you're new around the podcast, let me welcome you and let you know that I'm excited that you've joined us for our podcast party! It's in my honor to create content that equips and inspires you. I decided to go back to my roots. At my core, I’m a word nerd and Bible teacher so I'm sharing some teachings from the book of James that both Matt and I shared at The Father's House Orange County back in 2020. Yes, the year of the pandemic. You also get access to a Bible study guide for the series that will help you in your journey through the book of James, and it's absolutely FREE. Send an email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your PDF today. And if you enjoy the podcast, it would be amazing if you left a positive review and subscribed to the podcast so you don't miss one episode. I hope you enjoy the series and I can't wait for season five. If there was more in season four then there is a vibe in season five! Love you friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Email podcast@inthenameoflove.org to get your James Series Guide https://tfhoc.org/ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to our LAST episode of season 4! Today, thanks to the help of author, poet, and Bible teacher Jackie Hill Perry, we are going to talk about moving from basic to holy. In short, holiness is doing things that please God. It’s what you do with your time and your actions. It is living to please God—and it bears fruit! You live holy because you are motivated by your relationship with and love for your heavenly Father. Of all the goals we have for our life, the most important is to pursue holiness because it is God’s goal for our life. If we truly love God we will commit to making holiness the primary purpose of our life. I was excited to have JHP on the show. As always, I LOVE giving away some of my favorite resources to podcast listeners. When you share this podcast on social media and tag @jackiehillperry and @biancaolthoff to be entered to win one of five books from her newest book, Holier Than Thou. Friends, without you, we would not have 70 episodes. I’m honored to be your friend from afar. Let’s stay connected via social media @BiancaOlthoff or through the teachings from The Father’s House OC on YouTube. I love you, friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Jackie Hill Perry book: Holier Than Thou: How God's Holiness Helps Us Trust Him Holy Spirit Series - Episodes 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41 Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” --- This episode is sponsored by Athletic Greens • Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Visit athleticgreens.com/WGT --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Loss is a common source for stress. Even in the greatest season of loss, you’ll never lose God’s presence. The key to going through the valley of the shadow of death is to turn your back to the shadow and look at the light. Trust God in your dark valleys. Keep your eyes on The Light of the world - Jesus! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello Friends! Having a peaceful life is something many of us strive for and in a world full of distractions and chaos, it can be hard to learn how to find it. In today’s episode, I’m talking with writer and mixed-media artist, Morgan Harper Nichols. Throughout our conversation, you’ll hear about how Morgan embraces her artistic nature and how her work is bringing peace to people across the globe. Morgan speaks about her journey of expressing creativity in childhood and how it’s evolved into the different types of art that she’s released. We also discuss Morgan’s diagnosis of autism in adulthood and how it empowered her to articulate how she’d been feeling for so long. My heart and my hope is that you find peace today, what is something that brings you peace? I’d love for you to share it on social media, you can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @MorganHarperNichols. I can’t wait to see what peace looks like for you. If this podcast inspired you in some way, pass it on to a friend, because sharing is caring! Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Morgan Harper Nichols book: Peace Is A Practice - https://morganharpernichols.com/peaceisapractice Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” --- This episode is sponsored by Athletic Greens • Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Visit athleticgreens.com/WGT --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You don’t need to handle rude people. God’s got it! Don’t use up all of your energy defending yourself. God is your Defender. You are most like Jesus, when you remain silent when under attack. God won’t let you down. Trust Him to be your Defender today! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi Friends! Today is the final episode of Love Is, a six-day podcast special about love, dating and sex. We've delved into defining love, singleness, dating, sex, intimacy and we're closing out with a conversation about communication. Communication is a crucial component in having a healthy relationship and it's something that not everyone is well versed in. So many people, both men and women struggle to vocalize their desires or even ask for clarity. This can come down to different factors such as our culture, history, psychology or simple insecurity. Wouldn't it be nice if we had permission to say everything that we wanted? Well, we do! And you know I'm going to back it up with some Bible.  One of my favorite Bible characters is Ruth, and when it came to her relationship with Boaz, she was smart, she was direct, she was clear. My hope is that after listening to this episode, you'll know how to have a DTR aka defining the relationship talk. We're going to learn how to have a DTR, when to have a DTR and also how NOT to have a DTR. Don't forget to share this podcast and the Love Is resources with your friends, community group and family. You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff to let me know all of the lessons you've learned about love and relationships. May you live and walk in love. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi Friends! Welcome back to day five of Love Is, a six-day podcast special about love, dating and sex. In today's episode, we're going to be talking about intimacy which is a crucial part of building a healthy, loving relationship. Intimacy can be described as close familiarity or friendship, or as my dad would say "into me, you see". It's a way of getting to know someone and as a by-product, building a deeper level of love and relationship. While many would say that intimacy is about sex and physicality, it's much more than that. It's spiritual, emotional and mental too. Practicing strong boundaries and using wisdom is the key when getting to know someone romantically. We're going to unpack practical tools on how to build intimacy over time. I'll also be sharing my No Go Bro list. These guidelines can be used as a reference point when getting to know a potential mate. (Think of them like handy red flags to look out for!) I hope you've found this series helpful in your pursuit of love and building healthy, whole relationships. Tag me @BiancaOlthoff  and let me know what you've learned from the series. You can also share this resource online and with your friends or small group. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” --- This episode is sponsored by Athletic Greens • Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Visit athleticgreens.com/WGT Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, welcome to day four of Love Is, a six-day podcast special about love, dating and sex. We're REALLY going there in today's episode as I'll be giving you the sex talk... yes, really! This conversation is for grown folks, so listener discretion is advised. This topic is something I'm passionate about as far too often the church doesn't speak about it. Instead, we let culture and media define what sex is and how it should look, which often leads to hurt and can create all sorts of problems. When sex is fulfilled within the covenant of marriage, it's a beautiful and wonderful experience that honors God. If you're looking for some Bible to back it up, just read Song of Solomon aka Song of Songs. (Helloooo!) My heart and my hope is that as you listen to this session you'll begin to see sex from God's perspective. It doesn't have to be a difficult, awkward or taboo topic of conversation. If you've found this episode helpful, share it with your friends! Don’t forget to post it on social media and tag me @BiancaOlthoff. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey Friends! Welcome back to day three of Love Is, a six-day podcast special about love, dating and sex. Today's conversation is centered around dating, we'll discuss how to date well and also define what dating actually is. Dating is a largely American concept and has evolved over time. With today's standard for dating being open for interpretation, it can be hard to define a romantic relationship. Culture's definition of dating can be seen as anything from hooking up to being in a long-term relationship, but what does the Bible have to say on the topic? While it doesn't specify how to date, the Bible talks A LOT about how we should treat others and how to interact with the opposite sex. Once our understanding is rooted in Scripture, we can define how to date well, which I like to call intentional dating. This may sound intimidating, so I've created a strategy to help you as you date with intention. The strategy for intentional dating looks like: 1. Intentionality 2. Clarity 3. Strategy 4. Timely I hope this provides clarity on such a huge topic and that you feel confident to date well. Don't forget to share this podcast with your friends, post it on your social media and you can tag me @BiancaOlthoff. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Revealing your feelings is the beginning of emotional healing. The root of your problem is relational. Don’t pretend that you have it all together. We cannot fully love with hidden sin in our hearts. When you shine your light on your secret, it loses its power over you. If you want healing, you’ve gotta stop concealing. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever experienced the pain of exclusion and rejection, particularly within the church?  Gird your loins friends because in today’s enlightening conversation with Dr. Anita Phillips we discuss the issues of race, exclusion and rejection that are often overlooked within the church. We also talk about the role that our emotions play in having healthy conversations and the impact they can have in leading to greater understanding and acceptance.  We discuss and dive deep into some key points that can help us reflect in our own experiences and attitudes like: Psychological safety and belonging Understanding the role of trauma and healing The need for humility, empathy, and intentional action in healing Regulating our emotions so that they don’t tell us what is right but our Bible does Dr. Anita’s words serve as a powerful reminder that the church, like any community, must continually strive for growth, inclusivity, and understanding. Through open conversations like this one, we can all learn, grow, and work towards a better future. Show Dr. Anita some love! Let us know how you are overcoming your own challenges by tagging us @dranitaphillips and @biancaolthoff. XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Dr. Anita Phillips Book: The Garden Within: Where the War with Your Emotions Ends and Your Most Powerful Life Begins In The Light with Dr Anita Phillips // The Betrayal Podcast Episode Quote The absence of humility is destroying us and it's necessary. Humility is the healing balm that is missing. Takeaways Experiencing rejection activates the same part of the brain as physical pain, highlighting the emotional toll of exclusion. Creating psychological safety and a sense of belonging is crucial for individuals to take risks and reach out to others. The church must address issues of race and create a safe space for healing and reconciliation. Curiosity about different perspectives and cultures can lead to a deeper understanding of God and a more inclusive church. Humility, empathy, and intentional action are necessary to heal and transform the church. ⋇ Watch on YouTube ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value! ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friend, are you single, like a pringle and ready to mingle? If so, this episode is for you! Welcome back to day two of Love Is, a six-day podcast special about love, dating and sex. In today's episode, we're going to talk about singleness and how it can be an asset as you serve God and prioritize yourself. When I was single people would always share some platitude with me about being patient and waiting for "the one" to come my way. Worse yet, they would treat my singleness as if it were a waiting room and that I was trying to get cured of my disease of singleness. While I wanted someone to do life with, I wasn't waiting around for a man to complete me, I'd already been transformed by Jesus. Marriage isn't a guarantee for everyone, so, it's important to focus on yourself and realize the fullness of who God made you to be. During your season of singleness, you can maximize your kingdom impact, travel the world, figure out your purpose and so much more. Our Savior, Jesus Christ, demonstrated the power of a life of singleness. And remember, you don't need a significant other to be significant. If this podcast has been an asset or a resource for you, send it to your friends, post it on social media and tag me @BiancaOlthoff because sharing is caring. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi Friends! Welcome to Love Is, a six-day podcast special about love, dating and sex. No matter how uncomfortable you may feel discussing these topics, if you commit to these sessions, it will change the way that you see, give, and receive love. Whether you're married, single, engaged or somewhere in between, my heart and my hope is that through these sessions you'll learn how to articulate what love is and how to love well in a world that complicates love. The foundation for healthy relationships is knowing the creator of L-O-V-E, that is J-E-S-U-S!. To love someone in wholeness, you must be wholly loved by a holy God. As we talk about love, we’ll root our understanding in a Bible passage from 1 Corinthians 13. As we journey through the next six days together, I hope this podcast fuels you to do love well and to understand who love is. Grab yo friends, yo prayer journal and yo Bible and get ready to deep dive into this series. You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff, I can't wait to see what you're learning and loving about this series. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Love Is Series videos and PDF - https://www.biancaolthoff.com/love Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” --- This episode is sponsored by Athletic Greens • Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Visit athleticgreens.com/WGT Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey Family! Let’s talk about creativity! Whether you want to write a book, paint a mural, launch a business or even create a math algorithm, that is all centered around the creative process. On today’s episode, I’m talking with award-winning singer and songwriter, Jeremy Camp. I learned about four main stages to developing an idea. They are: preparation, incubation, illumination and lastly, verification. While things may not always work out in this exact linear order, you can use this as a roadmap for your creative journey. It offers a direction if not a destination. The most important thing to remember is that everyone’s creative process looks slightly different. Mine looks more like a zig-zag or a spiral than a straight line. Throughout our conversation, you’ll hear about Jeremy’s creative process and how he tends to break a lot of the creative rules. I would love to hear about your art and creativity. Will you do me a favor? Send me a visual clue that you are participating in this creative process. Take a picture of your art, song lyrics, poem or business plan and tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @JeremyCampOfficial. And, if you love the creativity that comes through the art of podcasting, don’t forget to leave a positive review for this show so that we can reach more ears around the world. Love you, 🖤 B RESOURCES: Jeremy Camp Movie: I Still Believe - https://www.amazon.com/I-Still-Believe-KJ-Apa/dp/B085ZKKGZ9 --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What burden are you carrying today? Jesus is here to share your problems and your load. He’s going to take stress on himself and bare it with you.  Team up with Jesus! Take on a lighter load, reduce your stress, and make your problems easier to navigate. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello Friends! Something we often think about at the top of the year is transformation. This is the process of changing our lives around for the better. In today’s episode, I’ll be chatting with author, teacher, and preacher John Mark Comer about something that is crucial for the development of our souls, hearts, and minds: spiritual transformation. This is achieved through disciplines that align us to God so that we can do his will and work for our lives. Biblically speaking, some of the ways to practice and grow in your faith include reading Scripture, prayer, community, fasting, confession, submission, worship, and celebration. This topic of conversation is a bit like quinoa… Perhaps you’ve never tried the tasty, protein-packed superfood. But once you try quinoa (or spiritual disciplines), you’ll see that it’s good for your soul. Trust me. Spiritual transformation cannot be accomplished by our own efforts. However, we do participate in the process by partnering with God. While these aren’t a quick fix for your spirituality, if you create intentional habits and practices, you will find yourself closer to God and more spiritually empowered. If you eat quinoa this week, snap a photo and tag me @BiancaOlthoff so I can celebrate how quinoa is transforming our bodies and how @JohnMarkComer is transforming our minds. Love you! 🖤 B RESOURCES: John Mark Comer Book - Live No Lies: Recognize and Resist the Three Enemies That Sabotage Your Peace --- This episode is sponsored by Redeeming Love • For more information or to find tickets to a theater near you, visit: RedeemingLoveMovie.com --- This episode is sponsored by That Sounds Fun Podcast Live Tour • For tickets and to see the full list of cities and dates, go to anniefdowns.com. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

No matter how far away you feel from God today, there's a pathway back to him. Here are three things we can do to get back to God: 1) realize we need to change, 2) own up to our sin, and 3) give up control. True transformation happens when our hearts move from self-centeredness to God-centeredness. When you seek God seriously, you will not be disappointed. Love you, friends! B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! I hope that you had a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year! As we head into 2022, we often look at ways we can improve our lives and health. On today’s show, I’m chatting with author, advocate, and self-made chef, Danielle Walker. Throughout our conversation, you’ll hear about Danielle’s journey with an autoimmune disease and how food helped her heal. She shares her incredible journey, how she found ways to enjoy food once more, and how she’s bringing joy to others with her recipes and personal experience. Friends, if you know me, you know that I love cooking and in an alternate reality I’d be a chef. So, I’d LOVE for you to try Danielle’s Red Curry Butternut Squash Soup recipe and then share it with us on social media! You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @DanielleWalker. I can’t wait to see and share your posts! Wishing you a happy and healthy 2022! And, don’t forget to share this podcast with your friends, family and anyone else you know who loves food and podcasts! Love you, friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Danielle’s book: Food Saved Me Danielle’s website: https://daniellewalker.com/ Danielle’s blog: Against All Grain Red Curry Butternut Squash Soup Recipe --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt --- This episode is sponsored by Redeeming Love • For more information or to find tickets to a theater near you, visit: RedeemingLoveMovie.com Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I have this reminder to give to you, God made you to be you. Let Him determine your identity. The Bible says, our purpose is to please God not people. He alone examines the motives of our hearts. Fulfill the plan that God has for your life, not somebody else’s. That is real success. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! As we reach the end of 2021, many of us have had to face something that we didn’t plan for. Things have gone a little bit different than you might have thought, and you've had, what I call, a change of plans. Facing things that we didn't plan for can be jarring and can even rattle our faith. Sometimes we wonder why things aren’t going as planned and even wonder where God is. When we don’t know what is going on, we must hold on to what we know to be true: Though your plan may have changed, your purpose hasn’t. God has a purpose for you. The reason Jesus came to earth was for you. I want you to plant this truth in your heart.  Let me know how your plans have changed and where you see God show up in this season. You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff on your posts and also share this podcast with your friends and family. If this show is something you like, leave a rating and review so it can get into more ears around the world. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, friends! 🖤 B Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever had a Christmas where things were not as they should've been? God's truth reminds us that no matter the size of our holiday mess, we're not alone.  Friends, whatever you do, don't sit in your loneliness. Ask God for the courage to remember that He is with you. And then talk to someone, it'll change everything for you. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Imagine waking up each day and having a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit. How would that empower you in your daily life and ministry?  My good friend Alex Seeley has had profound experiences with the Holy Spirit since she was a young girl. She shares some of her stories and we discuss: The impact of the Holy Spirit in our lives  The blessings that come from living in relationship with Holy Spirit  Nurturing a relationship and seeking a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit brings empowerment, renewed strength and inspiration. What blessings have you discovered from living in an ongoing relationship with the Holy Spirit? Share your insights by tagging Alex @alexseeley and me @biancaolthoff. Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Guest Alex Seeley Book: The Opposite Life: Unlocking The Mysteries of God’s Upside Down Kingdom Quote I'm on mission to bring Jesus to a generation. And the most beautiful thing is, when they see that God sees them, it opens their heart and disarms them. And that's really what the Holy Spirit does. Takeaways Encountering the Holy Spirit brings a tangible and transformative presence into one's life. Living in relationship with the Holy Spirit brings blessings of peace, freedom, and fearlessness. Asking for a fresh encounter with the Holy Spirit empowers believers for ministry and service. The Holy Spirit enables believers to be used by God to bring healing, prophecy, and love to others. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Airdoctor. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code WGT you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! Exclusive to podcast customers, you will also receive a free 3 year warranty on any unit, which is an additional $84 value!  ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey friends, as we count down to the end of the year, many of us are contemplating this past year and what we are looking forward to next year. On today's show, we get to have a conversation on how to grow in your faith and impact the world around you with author, seminarian, and overall good guy, Zach Windahl. He wrote The Bible Study, and in this episode, I picked his brain on why the practice of reading God's word is important. My hope is that you love Zach as much as I do. Let us know what you learned from this episode by sharing on social media and tagging @BiancaOlthoff and @ZachWindahl. You can find all of his resources by going to The Brand Sunday. Friends, I want you all to know that in this season of gift-giving, you are a gift to me. Your comments, reviews, and emails keep encouraging us and are like wind to our sails. Love you and Merry Christmas, friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Zach Windahl Book: Launch With God --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin-free with Simply Earth's Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are the salt of the earth. This declares who we are and what our purpose is. We are called to add Christ flavor to whatever environment we are placed in. We are to preserve a Christ like culture in a morally decaying world. And we can cause others to thirst after the God that we have inside of us.  Stay salty my friends! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, when I think about the end of the year, I want to ensure that we’re setting ourselves up for a strong year to come. One of the practices I've developed in my life is finding a word or phrase for the year. Today I want to walk you through my process on how I find a word for the following year. There's nothing mystical or magical about this process, it's a guide to help you through not just daily or weekly activities, but to set an intention for the year. This one word will help center you when life gets crazy or you feel you’ve lost your way or your convictions. Three steps to follow are: Pause Think Create a List If you don't have a word for the year yet, I really encourage you to make time and really go through the process. When you get your word, I’d love to know what it is! You can tag me @BiancaOlthoff on your posts or you can share this podcast with your friends and family and do this activity together. As always, I’m honored to create content that I believe will shape and shift your life. If this show is something you like, will you consider rating and reviewing it so it can get into more ears around the 🌏? It would mean the world to me. Love you, friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Share - https://anchor.fm/weregoingtherewithbianca --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE  https://bit.ly/WGTRedeemingLove --- This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc • NOW is the time to prioritize your health. Go to Zocdoc.com/WGT and download the Zocdoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor.  https://bit.ly/WGTZocDoc Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What God gives to you, he wants to give through you. God is looking for people He can use. Will you be a cup or will you be a straw? If you're a cup, you just get filled up and that's it. But when you’re a straw God can channel His blessing through you to other people. When you're going through a tough time you still can say: God I don't have much but I'm willing to share. When you do this, God promises three things; first - you will grow spiritually, second -  He will use you to meet the needs of other people, and third - you'll bring Him glory. When you give away what you have, God will open the door of blessings in your life in ways you can’t imagine. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello friends! Today’s conversation is around pop culture. Why do many Christians want to shy away from this topic? I want to jump in and have a conversation about it. Why? Well call me crazy, but I believe that everything including culture is covered by God's control and love otherwise known as this word sovereignty. The guest on today's show was by far one of my favorite stars from ABC's TV show The Bachelor. Madison Prewett shares how the ancient story of Esther is still relevant today and how some of those parallel lessons she’s adopted in her own life help her navigate her journey, such as: Decide who you want to be before you step into your Big Moments Claim your confidence so you can get out of the comparison game Break free from the labels others put on you As always, I love letting our guests know the impact that they're having. And so it would mean the world to me if you share the love. You can tag her @MadiPrew and @BiancaOlthoff and let us know what you're learning. Also share and leave a positive review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or whatever platform you listen to your podcast. We appreciate you. And can't wait to chat next week. Love you, friends. 🖤 B RESOURCES: Madison Prewett book - Made for This Moment: Standing Firm with Strength, Grace, and Courage --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt --- This episode is sponsored by Dwell • To get started with Dwell, go to dwellapp.io/weregoingthere to get 10% off a yearly subscription, or 33% off Dwell for life. Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you want to hear God speak do this: find a quiet place, wait patiently and expectantly, and ask God to give you a picture of what he wants to say to you. Then, write down God's response to your questions. Start your spiritual journaling today. It will help you hear and remember what God is telling you. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, I love Thanksgiving! It's my favorite holiday. So today you have a chance to embrace gratitude and it is a way to get through this season with true JOY. But let's get real, who is responsible for your gratitude? It’s not your boss, your spouse, your kids, your pastor, or your friend. YOU are responsible for your gratitude. I’ve learned one definition of thankfulness that I love. It is: WANTING WHAT I HAVE. Thankful people want what they have. Let’s be content with what we have. Contentment is saying “I don't need it because I don't have it.” I have a loving Father who gets me every good thing that I need. I want you to join me and make this commitment this week and you can carry it through ‘till Christmas and onto the New Year: Every day make a list of at least six things for what you're grateful for Then two times during the day you share it with someone that you are thankful for I’m grateful for you, friends. You’ve made my list today and I’m sharing it with you. My hope and my prayer as we go into this holiday season is that you are content with what God has given you. Share this episode on social media and tag me @BiancaOlthoff. I can't wait to chat next week! Love you friends!  🖤 B RESOURCES: --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by Thistle Farms • You can find out more at ThistleFarms.org - when you checkout, enjoy a special 15% discount by using the code GOINGTHERE so that they know B sent you! --- This episode is sponsored by Redeeming Love • For more information or to find tickets to a theater near you, visit: RedeemingLoveMovie.com Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hello friends! Fathers play a role in every child’s life that cannot be filled by others. This role can have a large impact on a child and help shape them into the person they become. On today’s show, we have Stephen Kendrick, writer, producer, and director of popular films like Fireproof, Courageous, War Room, and Overcomer to discuss the recent documentary on fatherhood entitled SHOW ME THE FATHER. This documentary weaves four real-life fathering stories, providing an inspiring and hope-filled reminder of the importance of fathers in families and society. Friends, I know the topic of fatherhood might be hard for some to digest. So thank you for listening. My heart in doing this interview is that even if you don’t have a father present in your life, you might come to know your heavenly Father who loves you, fights for you, and adores you. If you enjoyed the episode, consider sharing it with your friends or leaving a positive review. This helps the podcast get into more ears and hearts around the world. Sending you so much love, friends! Can’t wait to catch you on next week’s episode. 🖤 B RESOURCES: SHOW ME THE FATHER Movie - https://www.showmethefathermovie.com/ SHOW ME THE FATHER/COURAGEOUS LEGACY (Available on Digital and DVD on December 7th) (Church licenses available November 17) --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by Dwell • To get started with Dwell, go to dwellapp.io/weregoingthere to get 10% off a yearly subscription, or 33% off Dwell for life. --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt  Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

God wants you to trust Him one day at a time. Four things that you can do daily to trust God are: Worry about nothing Pray about everything Thank God for all things Think about the right things Make today the day that you start trusting God one day at a time. 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Family, we are GOING THERE today! Please know that this episode is a labor of love and a passion project. I am not against social media. I love social media! I love the power of people being so connected. There is good coming out of social media. But I want to ask you some personal questions: ·       Do you feel better or worse about your life after your scroll on social media? ·       Do you feel better or worse about your body after you scroll on social media? ·       Do you feel emotionally full or spiritually empty? THAT is what I want to discuss social media today! Let’s just pause and evaluate. How IS social media impacting us? The answer is determined by you. Social media can tear you down or lift you up. No matter how much time you are spending on social media everyday, make sure you leave making the apps better than we found them. But its going to begin when we evaluate HOW we interact, HOW we feel afterwards we’re on them, HOW much time we spend on them, and WHAT are we doing to create the experience we want online. Friends, I LOVE being able to have real and relevant conversations with those who are part of this community. It would mean the world to me if you subscribed to the show and shared this episode with your friends. I’ll see you online. Love you, friends. 🖤 B RESOURCES: --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by ZocDoc • NOW is the time to prioritize your health. Go to Zocdoc.com/WGT and download the Zocdoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor. --- This episode is sponsored by Thistle Farms • You can find out more at ThistleFarms.org - when you checkout, enjoy a special 15% discount by using the code GOINGTHERE so that they know B sent you! Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you have a “game plan for crisis”? Is your goal to finish well in life? Just as athletes prepare for unexpected challenges, we should also anticipate the potential for crisis in our lives and be ready with strategies. Rest and rehabilitation are two strategies that Jesus used to intentionally take time for rest and healing. This serves as a reminder that rest is not a sign of weakness but a necessary part of our well-being. I shared a framework with my church team that has helped me build a plan to navigate adversity. It is the acronym CHIME which stands for Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. This intentional approach helps us face challenges head-on. Friend, I  invite you to reflect on your own lives, consider your responses to crises, and intentionally build resilience. Let me know how your plan for pain is coming along by tagging me @biancaolthoff  XO, B RESOURCES/LINKS Assignment Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. Quote If you don't turn your pain into purpose or meaning, it will be a stumbling block that you can't get over. Takeaways Having a game plan for crisis is essential for finishing well in life. It is important to be prepared for potential crises such as loss, death, unemployment, divorce, illness, and more. Rest and rehabilitation are both necessary for our well-being and growth. Knowing when to rest and when to seek rehabilitation is crucial for maintaining our physical, emotional, and spiritual health. Jesus' example shows the importance of taking time for rest and solitude, as well as seeking God's presence and guidance. Take care of yourself and don't rely on others to fix or heal you. Build a plan for pain using the CHIME framework: Connection, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. Know who you are and find purpose in your pain. Rely on the empowerment of the Holy Spirit. Create a plan for your pain to have handles for healing. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You're not going to hear from God unless you really, really want to. You've got to want to have a conversation with God more than anything else. If you search for him with all your heart and soul you will find him. It's guaranteed! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Well friends, welcome to season 4! I’m honored that you are in this space and place with me. Our guest today has spoken and written about fear many times. She's brave and bold and beautiful from the inside out. Sadie Robertson Huff is a reality TV star turned writer, podcaster and speaker. Sadie and I have some fun memories together that I can't wait for you to hear. We will also be sharing about: Overcoming fear and living with confidence Authentically celebrating every moment in life Dreaming big and living like it's on purpose Friends, I hope you enjoy Sadie’s wisdom! In this episode, I get to give away 10 copies of Sadie's devotional book Live on Purpose. All you have to do is post on social media where you're listening or what you learned in this podcast and tag @LegitSadieRob and @BiancaOlthoff to win your very own copy of this little gem. Thanks for joining in on another season of We're Going There! There are big things in store and it would mean the world to me if you share this podcast with your friends or leave a loving review of the show. This will help the show go faster and further. I can't wait to chat next week. Love you friends! Until next week! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Sadie Robertson Huff • Live on Purpose: 100 Devotions for Letting Go of Fear and Following God --- This episode is sponsored by Simply Earth • Have fun making your home toxin free with Simply Earth’s Essential Oil Recipe Box! Plus, get a FREE 80 ml diffuser when you subscribe using our URL, simplyearth.com/WEREGOINGTHERE --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt --- This episode is sponsored by Thistle Farms • You can find out more at ThistleFarms.org - when you checkout, enjoy a special 15% discount by using the code GOINGTHERE so that they know B sent you! Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, this bonus episode is on a series that I’ve been teaching at The Father's House Orange County for the last eight weeks and honestly it's changing our church. What's been seared in my mind is that: We are people who are marked for purpose because we have power and authority in Jesus Christ. I know that not everyone who listens to this podcast is a Christian, but do me a favor, stick around for about 30 minutes because I really want to share this with you Friends, I hope you enjoy this message. If you want to check out the full teaching series, you can go to TFHOC’s YouTube page and check out all the teachings. I love you and Jesus loves you too! 🖤 B RESOURCES: TFHOC || MARK'D Series FREE 15 day Choose To Lead leadership guide. Go to biancaolthoff.com/leadership to download the free PDF. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to a bonus episode, friends! I know that this word impossible, this word faith gets thrown around a lot, but do you know what the word impossible means? Impossible is: not able to occur or be done. Call me crazy, but I always say; Impossible is where God begins and miracles are what God does. When we talk about faith for the impossible, the person that comes to mind is no other than Mike Todd. Pastor Mike is my guest on the show today and we will be unpacking how to: Believe for the impossible Choose hope over fear Inspire crazy faith in others Friends, let's show Pastor Mike some love and let him know what his podcast episode has taught you. When you post and tag @iammiketodd and @biancaolthoff on social media about this episode with something you've learned or heard, you'll be entered to win one of five books that I'm sending to five lucky winners. What is your impossible? We have another bonus episode for you next Thursday. I hope that you are subscribed, so you don't miss any of our upcoming episodes especially as we launch into season 4. Love you friends! We'll catch you next week. 🖤 B RESOURCES: Crazy Faith: It’s Only Crazy Until It Happens by Mike Todd Get your FREE 15 day Choose To Lead leadership guide. Go to biancaolthoff.com/leadership to download the free PDF. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey friends! We’re back with a bonus episode. This week we have podcast host and thought leader Carey Nieuwhof. We will talk more about: Replacing chronic exhaustion with deep productivity Restructuring your days based on clarifying what tasks matters most and the best time to accomplish these How to set yourself up to enjoy a full month of vacation I know that you want to live At Your Best! You can get Carey Nieuwhof’s book and resources on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles and anywhere fine books are sold. If you are applying a principle or you learned something from Carey, tag him on social media @CareyNieuwhof to let him know. Show him some love. Can’t wait for more in season four. So subscribe to this podcast on your favorite platform and you won’t miss anything. Love you friends! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Carey’s blog: 7 Steps To A Great Vacation: How To Take A Full Month Off Work (Without Cheating) FREE 15 day Choose To Lead leadership guide. Go to biancaolthoff.com/leadership to download the free PDF. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey family! I'm popping in this week with a bonus episode. I don't consider myself a "leader", but I've always found myself leading. I wish I would've had a rubric on what leadership entails. I felt that I was battling the voices of my inner saboteur. Have you been there? Have you felt outside of your comfort zone? Have you had imposter syndrome?  We all feel inadequate and have had feelings of imposter syndrome at some point. Maybe you've asked yourself, How do I lead when I don't feel like I'm enough? How do I lead when I feel unqualified?  You might be a natural born leader or you might have been chosen to lead. As we have this conversation, I hope that you choose the invitation and step into the leadership that you have been called to. Because what do you do when leadership chooses you? You choose to lead! I have created a FREE resource called Choose To Lead. Go to biancaolthoff.com/leadership to download the free PDF. If you do the 15 day leadership guide don't forget to tag me @BiancaOlthoff and share your journey with  me. Can't wait to share more in season four! 🖤 B RESOURCES: FREE 15 day Choose To Lead leadership guide. Go to biancaolthoff.com/leadership to download the free PDF. --- This episode is sponsored by Dwell • Go to dwellapp.io/weregoingthere to get 10% off a yearly subscription, or 33% off Dwell for life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, it has been an amazing year for We're Going There podcast. My dream was to finish one season and today I get to celebrate the ONE year of the podcast.  We have had so many wonderful conversations from adulting, forgiving, and step-parenting to makeovers, singleness and most recently a mini-series on the Holy Spirit. All of the topics have been with you in mind. I can't wait to see what the next year brings. Tune in to celebrate some fun memories with us! Don’t forget to celebrate with us online by tagging me @biancaOlthoff and letting me know what you're celebrating this month. Can't wait to talk again in November for Season 4. Love you friends! 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by You On Purpose • Preorder the book from Amazon or wherever you get your books, then head to Barna.com/YouOnPurpose to claim your preorder bonuses. --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! Welcome back to CELEBRATION week! This week marks our ONE YEAR as a podcast and we are celebrating by posting several special episodes. Today marks the THIRD birthday of The Father’s House Orange County. We have so much to celebrate. What a JOURNEY it has been. From our living room with 15 people dreaming about a church to now being in a building, surviving a global pandemic and mandatory quarantine, to now welcoming new friends and faces to church is nothing short of a miracle. Listen in to learn how to recover from church hurt and hear why the Church matters. Don’t forget to celebrate with us at The Father’s House OC on Sunday at 9am or 11am PT. Love you friends! 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by Betabrand • Our listeners can get 30% off their Betabrand orders when you go to betabrand.com/GOINGTHERE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Friends, welcome to our anniversary week! In this episode of the podcast, I’m making my vows to you, podcast listener, and I intend on keeping them in the way I’ve kept my marital vows to Matthew Ray Olthoff. I promise to love and lead with full honesty I cherish our time together and commit to giving this episode all my love and affection For richer or poorer, I will create content that will instruct, guide, or inspire In sickness or health, I will record content that will make us love each other more or at least commit to loving each other even though we disagree Do you, podcast listener, take me, Bianca Juarez Olthoff as your podcast friend? If you agree, say “We’re Going There!” I now pronounce us podcast friends for life. 🖤 B --- This episode is sponsored by You On Purpose • Preorder the book from Amazon or wherever you get your books, then head to Barna.com/YouOnPurpose to claim your preorder bonuses. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! On today’s show, I’m truly honored to have a discussion with ABC news correspondent and host of The View, Paula Faris. She is in a new season of life, but she walks us through the power of a pivot and what she learned as she walked away from broadcast journalism to honor a new season of life. Today we talk about pivoting. A pivot is a fundamental change in strategy while staying grounded in your vision and facts. Listen in as Paula and I talk about several pivots in her life and how they led her to her true calling and destiny in life. Not only does Paula have her own podcast, she has a book walking people through identifying their calling in this season. You can find out about all she is doing by going to PaulaFarisOfficial.com or you can check out all the things on social media and tag @PaulaFaris and @BiancaOlthoff to share what you are applying to your life or what you learned. I know that it's always a gift to guests when they know their words have impacted your life. It’s definitely a gift to me. Speaking of gifts, as we roll into our one-year birthday next week, it would be a gift to me if you subscribed to this podcast and left a review. Not only does this inform you of when new podcasts are up, but it also helps this show get into the ears of new people. I can’t wait to celebrate our one-year party next week. Thanks for listening, friend! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Paula Faris Book • Called Out: Why I Traded Two Dream Jobs for a Life of True Calling --- This episode is sponsored by Betabrand • Our listeners can get 30% off their Betabrand orders when you go to betabrand.com/GOINGTHERE. --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you know how to acknowledge and process trauma effectively? Are you in need of strategies to help you through the process? You know I love to talk about how my “Bible Boyfriend” Paul The Apostle had grit, resilience and endurance. But what I had never spoken about before was all of the painful trauma that he had also experienced. Despite being beaten, battered, bludgeoned, and abused many times, Paul found the strength in God to lead in the midst of his trauma.  Ignoring or denying the existence of trauma in our lives is risky and can hinder our healing. That is why vulnerability is key to be able to address the trauma that we’re going through. Practice trauma-informed leadership by: Understanding what trauma is and what it is not Having honest and vulnerable conversations about pain Starting the healing process with trusted individuals Trauma impacts different aspects of our lives and it impacts those around us too. Don’t allow unhealthy coping mechanisms to keep you stuck in the pain. Seek help from professionals and prayerfully go to God for comfort.  Friend, acknowledging and processing trauma is crucial. Ignoring or denying it only prolongs the healing process. Are you finding purpose in your pain? Let me know by tagging me @biancaolthoff  Love you, B RESOURCES/LINKS Assignment Create a life map: Identify the trauma in your life over the past 10 years.  Quote The idea of being vulnerable feels terrifying, but we will never heal what we conceal. Takeaways Trauma is our response to a painful event, and it can be physical, emotional, spiritual, or mental. It is important to acknowledge and process trauma rather than ignoring or denying it. There are three types of trauma: acute, chronic, and complex. The healing process involves processing the pain with trusted people, prayerfully seeking God's comfort, and finding purpose in the trauma. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Bianca’s new book Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! Welcome back to another episode of We’re Going There! I invited my friend Nicole Crank to join the show to share her powerful testimony. I am a firm believer of sharing personal stories because there is power in your testimony. Nicole's story is deep and heavy but also full of forgiveness, love, trust in God and redemption. She talks about: Childhood and youth traumas Moving out of survival mode Finding redemption in Christ Trusting God for strength I’m so grateful for Nicole’s story and hope you find encouragement and resilience while listening to her. Not only does sharing our testimony help us heal, but our story can be the catalyst for healing in other’s lives. To find out more about Nicole or any of her amazing resources, you can follow her at @NicoleCrank or get her new book I Will Thrive on Amazon today! As always, if you love the show, we’d love to hear from you! You can leave a review or share this podcast with your friends. Until next week! 🖤 B RESOURCES: Nicole Crank Book • I Will Thrive: Find Your Fight to Claim True Freedom --- This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp • We're Going There listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com/wgt Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! If you know me, I love to cook. Before there was the Food Network's famed show CHOPPED, my dad taught me how to make a feast with a few random ingredients and a whole lot of love! Food is part of every family in every culture. Today I’m excited to talk to chef and TV personality Aarti Sequeira. She will talk about the powerful relationship of food and the table and friendship and Jesus. But before she became the Food Network Star, we learn about the crazy journey it took to find herself in her small Los Angeles apartment kitchen making recipes for YouTube. Here is a link to Aarti's very first cooking video: Aarti Paarti Ep. 1: Babaganoush!  I hope this podcast was bread for your soul and babaghanosh for your hope. Warm, delicious, and savory! If you liked this podcast, do me a favor and tag @AartiPartiPics on Instagram and let her know. Her story is great and I love when we affirm people who are taking risks and sharing the love. Speaking of which, if you haven’t written a review of the podcast or subscribed on whatever platform you listen to We’re Going There, it would mean the world to me and producer Mari to have you make this part of your routine. Sharing is caring and we love seeing the podcast shared with loved ones. Can’t wait to connect next week! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hi friends! Welcome to our final and last episode of our series on Understanding the Holy Spirit. If you have been here all week, I am so proud of you. Honestly, the stuff we're talking about is deep. There are so many Christians and so many people and so many churches that just won't even touch the topic. And I really believe when we apply these principles to our lives, we can literally grow leaps and bounds. I want to talk about the gifts that we have access to through the Spirit of God. I want to keep it simple and discuss these three categories: Motivational gifts Ministry gifts Manifestation gifts I want you to operate in the gifts of the Spirit. ask God to reveal his gifts to you. Friends, it has been my honor, my privilege, and my gift to be able to talk about a topic that a lot of people don't want to talk about. If this series has been a gift to you, share it with your friends and family and let me know when you post on social media by tagging me @BiancaOlthoff I love you friend! 🖤 B Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices