You've been doing the work. The journaling, the reflecting, the quiet moments where something clicked that you can't quite explain yet. This episode is your chance to feel how far you've actually come.

In Episode 60 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we're closing out Season Five with a full-circle look at the identity shift that's been building all season. The shift from the woman who chased emotionally unavailable men and questioned her worth, to the woman who trusts herself, chooses wisely, and lets love meet her there.

This is the episode that brings it all together.

What's Inside This Episode:

• The quiet but profound thing that happens on a date when you've genuinely changed
• Why dating can finally start to feel intentional, peaceful, and even fun
• What it really means to trust yourself in real time, not just in theory
• The identity that makes emotional availability your new standard
• How to carry everything you've learned into your daily life going forward

🎧 Listen now and give yourself credit for the woman you're becoming.

And grab the free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 + How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

And if you want support embodying that woman even more deeply, my Magnetic Love Bundle includes guided meditations to help you release fear, reset your energy, and stay open and grounded while attracting emotionally available partners. Click here to find out more 👉 [Magnetic Love Bundle]

You can't make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. Love is closer than you think.

You're not hiding behind healing anymore. You're not stuck in the waiting room. You're actually at the door.

And somehow... you're still not walking through it.

Here's a clue that something has quietly shifted. The guys who once had you glued to your phone, analysing every text, every pause, every "seen at 9pm but no reply until Tuesday"  they're starting to feel exhausting. And the calm, consistent guy who actually shows up? He's starting to feel kind of amazing.

That's not a coincidence. That's readiness. And this episode is going to help you recognise it.

What's Inside This Episode:

✨ The surprising way all that healing work trips you up on dates
✨ The subtle sign that you're already more ready for healthy love than you've been telling yourself
✨ What changes when you stop waiting to feel perfect and make this one quiet decision instead
✨ The shift that moves you from exhausted longing into something that finally feels calm and possible
✨ What it feels like to be on a date when you're actually ready to receive love

If you're ready to trust your intuition and date with clarity and confidence, the Intuitive Path to Love Course is linked below.

And grab the free guide The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 + How to Spot Unavailable Guys Fast here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Intuitive Path To Love Course: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/IPTL

You can't make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. Love is closer than you think.

If you’re dating after 40 and keep finding yourself in the role of emotional caretaker, always understanding, always giving the benefit of the doubt, always staying longer than feels good, this episode is for you.

In Episode 50 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about one of the biggest hidden blocks to healthy love: the emotional caretaker identity.

This is the pattern where love gets confused with effort…
where overgiving feels like chemistry…
and where emotionally unavailable men keep showing up because you’ve been trained to manage, fix, and emotionally hold everyone but yourself.

What’s Inside This Episode:

• The real reason overgiving feels so automatic (and why it has nothing to do with being “needy”)
  
• What quietly happens to attraction when you become the emotional manager in dating
  
• The surprising truth about why calm, available men can trigger disinterest at first
  
• The identity shift that changes everything—from trying to make it work to simply choosing
  
• What “receiving love” actually looks and feels like when you’ve spent a lifetime earning it

This episode is part of Season 5: Embodiment, Identity & Lasting Love, where we stop trying to date differently and start being someone who dates differently.

✨ Integration prompt from the episode:
“Am I relating to him… or managing him?”

🎧 Listen now and begin releasing the belief that love requires effort, fixing, or emotional labour.

Magnetic Love Bundle: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/magneticlove

Remember:You can’t make Mr. Unavailable love you, but you can choose someone who does. And love is closer than you think.

If you’re dating after 40 and keep feeling drawn to emotionally unavailable guys even though what you want is calm, secure love, this episode will help you understand why.

In the first episode of Season 5, we’re talking about something many women experience but rarely question: why healthy love can feel flat or even uncomfortable when your nervous system has been shaped by intensity, uncertainty, or chasing.

For a lot of women, what’s been labeled “chemistry” is actually adrenaline. And when connection feels calm, steady, or emotionally safe, it can be dismissed too quickly as boredom or a lack of attraction. In this episode, I break down how those patterns form, why they repeat, and what begins to shift when you stop chasing love and start choosing it.

We also explore the quieter identity shift that happens when you stop dating from hope, fear, or longing and begin trusting yourself. This isn’t about forcing yourself to like someone you don’t like. It’s about understanding why your body responds the way it does, and how that response can change over time.

• Why that intense pull toward someone can feel so convincing and what it’s actually signaling
  
• What’s really happening when calm connection feels unfamiliar
  
• The subtle difference between chasing someone and choosing a relationship
  
• How adrenaline gets mistaken for chemistry
  
• The identity shift that quietly changes who you’re drawn to

If your heart knows what it wants but your body hasn’t caught up yet, the Magnetic Love Bundle can help bridge that gap. Grab it here: https://learn.trulyeleanor.com/magneticlove

🎧 Listen to the full episode of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys and begin the shift from chasing to choosing.

Remember love is closer than you think.

If you’re a single woman over 40 who’s tired of choosing emotionally unavailable guys, doubting yourself, or wondering why dating feels so exhausting, this episode gives you the roadmap you’ve been missing. In this season finale, you’ll learn the 3-step method designed to help you emotionally reset, trust yourself again, and finally attract the kind of healthy, deeply connected love you’ve been longing for.

Season 4 has been all about emotional healing, because healing is what creates clarity, confidence, and the ability to choose men who can actually show up for you. In today’s wrap-up, you’ll see how each part of this season fits together and how these pieces form a proven dating method that helps women over 40 break old patterns and step into the love they truly deserve.

Whether you're feeling stuck, burnt out, or secretly afraid it might be “too late,” this episode shows you why it isn’t and gives you the steps to move forward with intention, self-trust, and hope.

• The #1 reason emotional healing is non-negotiable for finding real love after 40
• The 3-step Method that helps you stop choosing unavailable guys
• Why “perfect on paper” relationships fall apart and how to avoid repeating that pattern
• The mindset shift that instantly saves you time, energy, and heartbreak in dating after 40
  

If you’re ready to understand why your dating patterns have repeated and how to finally break free, this finale episode will give you clarity, direction, and hope.

👉 Click now and listen to the Season 4 finale your path to lasting love begins right here.

If you’re dating after 40 and you feel like you are the thing getting in your own way, this episode is going to help you finally move forward. Today we’re unpacking the one pattern that kept me single for years and delayed meeting my husband until I was 44: self-doubt.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

• Why self-doubt is not a personality flaw, it’s a learned pattern
• The surprising connection between childhood conditioning and dating chaos
• The exact framework I used to break free
• A simple daily heart-expansion exercise that melts self-doubt and builds confidence
• The moment I finally stopped believing I was broken—and how everything changed
  

If you’ve ever gone back and forth on a decision… argued with yourself before a date… doubted every intuitive nudge… or felt like it’s too hard to start trusting yourself, this episode gives you a grounded path out of the mental maze.

You’ll learn how to reconnect with the most powerful guidance system you have: your heart + intuition.

👉 Click play now to learn how to silence self-doubt and step into confident, intuitive dating after 40. Don't forget to grab my free dating guide here: https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Hey, friends! I’m so excited you’re here for episode 3 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast because we’re diving into a topic that’s near and dear to my heart—what I call "Pinch Me Love." You know that feeling when a relationship feels so good, so fulfilling, that you almost have to pinch yourself to believe it's real? Well, we’re going to explore that today, and I can't wait to share my insights and experiences with you.

What We Talked About:

- Defining "Pinch Me Love":It's so easy to focus on what we don’t want in love, but what about what we *do* want? I walk you through why it’s so important to define the kind of love you’re looking for—especially if you’re navigating dating after 40.

- Real Client Stories: I share some heartwarming emails from clients who’ve found their version of *Pinch Me Love* through working with me. You’ll hear stories about how they went from challenging relationships to feeling safe, empowered, and connected in ways they never imagined.

- My Own Journey to Love: After being single into my 40s, I finally found the kind of love I always wanted. I talk about how my husband and I share emotional safety, laughter, and even those small, intimate moments that make me feel so grateful to have him by my side.

Key Takeaways:

- *Pinch Me Love* isn’t about perfection or living in a fairy tale. It’s about finding a love where you feel emotionally safe, deeply connected, and truly seen for who you are—flaws and all.

- Even in the midst of disagreements or tough times, *Pinch Me Love* means you and your partner are committed to working through it with empathy, patience, and dedication. You don’t have to be constantly on the hamster wheel of “self-improvement”—you can just *be* yourself, and that’s enough.

- It’s okay if you’ve never experienced this type of love before, or even if you can’t fully imagine it yet. The key is staying open to the possibility that it’s out there for you—better than you ever thought possible.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

Goodbye Mr. Unavailable, Hello Mr. Right Toolkit: Ready to dive in? get your very own toolkit to help you find Mr. Right without wasting any more time on unavailable guys here

If you’re a single woman over 40 and tired of attracting Mr. Unavailable on repeat, this episode is for you. Dating after 40 doesn’t mean you’re doomed to heartbreak; you can break the cycle and finally create space for the love you deserve.

In this episode of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I dive into why releasing old heartbreak is essential if you want to welcome Mr. Right with open arms. We’ll talk about the hidden ways unresolved pain lingers in your body, how it quietly influences your choices in love, and the simple practices that help you release it without waiting years to feel “perfectly healed.”

You’ll hear real client stories, learn practical tools like journaling and daily rituals, and discover how to stop letting the past dictate your future in love. Because when you release old heartbreak, you open yourself up to hope, possibility, and lasting love that feels like home.

• Why old heartbreak lives in your body (and the sneaky ways it shows up in dating)
• The surprising triggers that signal unresolved pain is blocking new love
• A client story that proves healing heartbreak makes room for Mr. Right
• Practical rituals to gently release heartbreak one layer at a time
• How releasing the past transforms the way you see love, men, and your own future

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Hey there! If you're a single woman over 40 looking for love and tired of wasting time on the wrong guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive love coach, I'm diving into the green flags you should look for in dating—those signs that help you recognize Mr. Right when he's right in front of you. While red flags are important, today is all about focusing on the positives, so you can date with more fun, confidence, and clarity.

• Why Green Flags Matter: It’s easy to get caught up in red flags, but focusing on green flags can shift your energy and mindset for better dating experiences.
• What Potential Really Means: It’s not just about checking boxes but about feeling at home and at peace when you're with someone.
• Mindset Shifts for Dating Success: How to approach dating with an abundance mindset and avoid scarcity traps like "there are no good guys left."
• Emotional Green Flags: Feeling safe, calm, and grounded excitement on dates—what those feelings mean and why they matter.
• Practical Exercise to Find Your Mr. Right: I walk you through an exercise to identify the top five characteristics, behaviors, and feelings associated with your ideal partner.
• Affirmations for Dating with Intention: Powerful affirmations to strengthen your intuition and keep insecurities from making your decisions.

If you’re ready to shift from focusing on red flags to recognizing green flags in dating, this episode will help you feel more hopeful and open-hearted. Start noticing how you feel around potential partners and set the intention to find the guy who makes you feel safe, valued, and authentically yourself.

Stay tuned for our next episode, where we’ll dive into red flags and deal breakers—because yes, those are important too!

I hope you enjoy this episode and feel inspired to approach dating with a fresh perspective. If you loved this conversation, don't forget to subscribe and share it with a friend who might need a little dating encouragement.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

Goodbye Mr. Unavailable, Hello Mr. Right Toolkit: Ready to dive in? get your very own toolkit to help you find Mr. Right without wasting any more time on unavailable guys here

How to Stop Believing It’s Too Late for Love: A Guide for Women Over 40

If you’ve ever had that sinking fear that love has passed you by… you’re not alone. Dating after 40 can feel like a dizzying merri-go-round, with no way to jump off! One minute you’re hopeful, and the next you’re convincing yourself you should just buy the tiny house, adopt five cats, and call it a day. But here’s the real truth: it is not too late for you. And believing that it is? That’s the biggest lie single women over 40 are told.

In this episode, I’m breaking down where that fear really comes from and how it secretly shapes your dating choices (even when you think you’re still “open” to love). You’ll learn how to recognize subtle self-sabotage, rewire those hidden beliefs, and get back into the kind of aligned action that leads to the healthy, devoted relationship you actually want. Because love doesn’t expire… especially when you’re finally ready for the right guy.

If you’re craving hope, clarity, and a path forward that feels empowering instead of exhausting, this is your episode. 

• The sneaky ways fear shapes who you date

• The surprising secondary fear hiding under the surface of “what if it never happens?”

• Why feeling fear doesn’t mean you’re blocked and the mantra that moves you forward

• A reframe that instantly gives your confidence a power-up

• The moment I realized I was dating like love was already over and how everything changed

• The 3-part awareness framework that keeps you connected to real possibilities

If you’re tired of letting fear decide who you swipe on, who you chase, and what you believe is possible… hit play now. This episode will help you take the next step toward the love story you still get to have.

If you’re a single woman over 40 and feel like you keep repeating the same painful patterns in dating, this episode is for you. Many of the struggles we face in love don’t actually start in adulthood; they begin in childhood. Whether it’s growing up in a narcissistic family, feeling unseen, or learning to put everyone else’s needs first, those early experiences shape the way you show up in relationships today.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how childhood wounds can keep you chasing unavailable guys, ignoring red flags, or settling for less than you deserve. More importantly, I’ll share how to begin breaking free from these old patterns so you can finally create the kind of relationship that feels safe, healthy, and truly aligned with your heart.

You’ll walk away with both insight and action steps to start shifting your love story, because healing your past is the key to opening the door to lasting love after 40.

✨ What’s inside this episode:

• Why childhood patterns secretly show up in your dating life
• The #1 sign you’re stuck in an old cycle without realizing it
• How to identify where you’re still chasing emotional “crumbs”
• Practical steps to start rewriting your love story today
• Why healing your inner child is essential to finding Mr. Right

👉 Tune in now to discover how to break free from the past and attract the love you truly deserve.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Welcome to part one of my three-part series on how to meet Mr. Right after 40! If you're already rolling your eyes at the thought of meeting someone through friends and family, I totally get it. But hear me out—this episode is all about shifting your mindset, breaking past limiting beliefs, and opening yourself up to opportunities that may be closer than you think.

• Why your inner circle (friends, family, and close connections) can be a powerful way to meet someone
• How your mindset might be shutting down potential opportunities before they even arise
• The six degrees of separation and how it applies to your dating life
• How to work through emotional blocks like embarrassment or fear of asking for help
• Practical ways to reach out to friends and family without it feeling awkward or forced

I used to believe this avenue wouldn’t work for me, and I regret not trying it sooner. The truth is, you are likely much closer to meeting the right person than you realize. When you open yourself up, shift your mindset, and take intentional action, incredible things can happen.

So, are you ready to put this strategy into action? Start by considering the people in your life who truly know you. And stay tuned for part two of this series, where we’ll dive into the next way to meet Mr. Right after 40!

See you in the next episode!

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

Goodbye Mr. Unavailable, Hello Mr. Right Toolkit: Ready to dive in? get your very own toolkit to help you find Mr. Right without wasting any more time on unavailable guys here

If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done the healing work, raised your standards, and promised yourself “never again” but now find yourself feeling guarded, cautious, and a little closed off,  this episode is for you.

In Episode 58 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about the subtle shift from having standards to building emotional walls that quietly block the connection you want.

Because at some point, protecting your heart can start to feel like the safest option.

A very understandable, self-protective, quietly limiting way of dating.

And it makes sense. You’ve been hurt. You’ve learned the lessons. You’re paying attention now. But what if that protection is also keeping love at a distance?

This episode will show you how to hold your standards with calm confidence while staying open enough to actually experience connection.

What’s Inside This Episode:
✨ The surprising way “being careful” on dates can instantly shut down connection
✨ The subtle dating habit that feels smart and self-protective, but keeps you stuck
✨ What changes when you stop trying to read him and start tuning into yourself
✨ The shift that makes you feel open, grounded, and in control at the same time
✨ Why the men you actually want feel drawn to you when this clicks

🎧 Listen now and step into dating with an open heart, clear standards, and the kind of grounded confidence that lets love in.

Click for dating resources: https://trulyeleanor.com

Hey there, welcome to the season one finale! I can’t believe we’re already here—what a journey it’s been. First, I want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for tuning in and walking this path with me. Your Shero’s journey inspires everything I share here.

In this episode, I’ve got two big things for you:

1. A Holiday Survival Guide tailored for single women navigating the holiday season.
2. A sneak peek at what’s coming in season two—get ready for even more practical advice and inspiration!

This season was all about stepping into your power, reclaiming your worth, and getting clear on what you want in love. We covered so much:

• Episode 1: My mission to show you that love is possible at any stage of life.
• Episode 2: My personal Shiro’s love journey, from the “Hot Mess Express” to finding “Pinch Me Love.”
• Episodes 3-6: Debunking dating myths and uncovering the worst dating advice out there.
• Episodes 7-11: My “Let Love In” framework—step-by-step guidance to help you attract the love you deserve.

If you’ve missed any episodes, the holidays are a perfect time to catch up. Consider it your self-care playlist!

The holidays can be tricky, especially if you’re the only single person at the table. But I’ve got you covered with some practical tips:

• Reflect on Your Year: Take time to assess your patterns and progress in love. Journaling can help you uncover aha moments and themes.
• Set Boundaries: Call a supportive family member ahead of time to share how you’re feeling and ask for their help in steering conversations.
• Bring an Ally: If possible, invite a friend or ask a family member to back you up during holiday gatherings.
• Create Space for Yourself: Carve out time to relax and process your emotions—bubble baths and guided meditations can work wonders.
• Set Intentions: Decide how you want to feel during the holidays—peaceful, joyful, and grounded—and write those intentions down as a guide.

To make your holiday self-care even easier, I’m sharing a free gift: my Become a Love Goddess guided meditation series. It’s all about balancing your energy and connecting with your true self. You can find the link in the show notes.

As we wrap up the year, let’s also look ahead. Set some exciting intentions for 2025:

• “I’m ready to open my heart to the possibilities of love.”
• “I’m ready to meet my Mr. Right.”

Remember, love is closer than you think—it’s waiting for you in the new year. Thank you again for an amazing first season. I can’t wait to bring you even more in season two. Until then, take care, be kind to yourself, and enjoy the holidays.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

Goodbye Mr. Unavailable, Hello Mr. Right Toolkit: Ready to dive in? get your very own toolkit to help you find Mr. Right without wasting any more time on unavailable guys here

If you're a single woman over 40 who's exhausted by dating disappointments and tired of relying on logic that never leads to love, this episode is your game-changing invitation into a new way of attracting Mr. Right. In Part 3 of her manifestation series, Truly Eleanor shares three of her most powerful intuitive manifestation tools—EFT tapping, affirmations, and intentions—to help you align your energy, release self-doubt, and magnetize lasting love.

With 20 years of intuitive healing and coaching experience, Eleanor breaks down exactly how and why these tools work to guide you out of fear, second-guessing, and energetic burnout. You’ll hear her personal stories, client results, and a live demo of how to use tapping to shift heavy emotions that block love.

These are practical, empowering techniques you can start using today to direct your energy toward the love you deserve. Because love isn’t logical—it’s intuitive.

What’s Inside This Episode:

• How tapping (EFT) clears emotional blocks and awakens your intuition
• The surprising power of affirmations (and why they actually work)
• The difference between intentions vs affirmations (and how to use both)
• How to release stuck energy and access clarity about love
• Eleanor’s signature process to move from self-doubt to magnetism

If you're ready to stop circling the same old dating patterns, this episode is your invitation to shift how you show up—and finally start moving toward the love you desire.

Ready to go deeper and connect with your intuition to find real love? Check out the Intuitive Dating Activation Course, where you’ll get four powerful audio modules and seven guided meditations to help you trust yourself, stop second-guessing, and create a love life that actually feels good. Over 2,700 women have already transformed the way they date — you can be next.

If you’ve ever tried to “manifest love” and ended up more confused than connected, this episode is your breath of fresh air. As an intuitive love coach with 20+ years of deep inner work and coaching experience, I’m breaking down what manifestation really means — and how to use it in a grounded, heart-centered way to attract lasting love after 40.

In part 1 of this brand-new series, you’ll learn how to work with archetypes — powerful symbols from your subconscious — to connect with your intuition, break free from self-sabotaging patterns, and start manifesting love that’s aligned with who you truly are. You’ll even be guided through a beautiful visualization inside your Sacred Heart space to meet an archetype with a message just for you.

• Why most people misunderstand manifestation (and what actually works)
• What archetypes are — and how they help you break old dating patterns
• The rebellious inner teenager, the warrior, and other archetypes that may be shaping your love life
• A guided Sacred Heart visualization to meet the archetype who can help you in love right now
• How to decode symbolic messages from your subconscious (even if you don’t “see” anything)
• Journaling prompts to capture what your archetype reveals about love, trust, and healing

Want to go deeper? Check out the Intuitive Dating Activation Course – 4 powerful audio modules + 7 chakra-based meditations to help you trust your intuition, date with clarity, and find Mr. Right.

If you’ve ever looked at your dating life and wondered, “Is it even possible for me to find real love at my age?,” this episode will remind you that it absolutely is.

In this heartfelt conversation, Truly Eleanor, Intuitive Dating Coach, opens up about the moment she turned 40 and thought her chance at love was over. She shares how deep-rooted beliefs around age, worthiness, and scarcity nearly convinced her to settle and how confronting those fears became the turning point that led her to meet her husband in her 40s.

You’ll learn how to recognize and release the subtle doubts that keep you stuck, reframe limiting stories about age and dating, and start believing that love isn’t behind you, it’s ahead of you.

Love after 40 isn’t just possible; it’s easier than you think when you lead with self-trust, awareness, and connection.

• The hidden fears that quietly convince you love has passed you by
• How Truly Eleanor rewired her mindset at 40 and found her husband soon after
• The truth about why dating actually gets easier as you get older
• Simple reframes to dissolve doubt and spark renewed hope in love
• Why your self-acceptance is the secret ingredient to finding Mr. Right
  

Ready to flip the script on doubt and rediscover what’s truly possible in love after 40?

🎧 Tune in now to hear Truly Eleanor’s personal story of transformation  and find out why your best love story might still be ahead of you. Click to listen!

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Season 4 of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys is here and this time, we’re diving into the one thing most single women over 40 overlook on their way to finding Mr. Right: emotional healing.

If you’ve ever felt like dating after 40 is just a loop of attracting unavailable guys, this episode will open your eyes to what’s really happening beneath the surface. Truly Eleanor shares her own journey, client stories, and why emotional healing was the missing piece that finally helped her find her husband in her 40s.

You’ll learn why knowledge and action aren’t enough without healing, how unhealed wounds shape your dating patterns, and why you don’t have to be “fully healed” before finding love. This episode is your invitation to stop spiraling, start connecting with your true self, and finally create the healthy, lasting relationship you deserve.

• Why emotional healing is the real key to attracting Mr. Right after 40
• The client story that reveals how unhealed heartbreak keeps you stuck in dating loops
• How attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, ambivalent) show up in midlife dating
• The 3 parts of Eleanor’s framework that turn wounds into wisdom
• Why you don’t need to be “perfectly healed” to find lasting love
  

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

If you’re a single woman over 40 who keeps attracting Mr. Unavailable on repeat, even though what you really want is a secure, lasting relationship, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we’re diving into unconscious self-sabotage in dating: the sneaky ways your mind and heart can work against your deepest desires without you even realizing it. If you’ve ever said “I’m ready for love!” but keep finding yourself in confusing, unfulfilling situations with unavailable guys… there’s a gap between what you want and what you’re actually experiencing. And that’s where change begins.

I’ll share real client stories, common self-sabotaging patterns, and powerful healing tools to help you bring your unconscious blocks to light so you can finally align with the love you desire. If you’re ready to stop chasing, stop hiding, and start welcoming love with an open heart, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to get there.

• The surprising ways self-sabotage shows up in your dating life (even when you swear you’re ready for love)
• Why there’s often a gap between what you say you want and what you’re actually experiencing
• How “harmless” dating habits — like waiting for the universe to deliver or analyzing every text — can keep you stuck
• A real client story that reveals the emotional tug-of-war behind unavailable-guy patterns
• Two powerful healing tools to stop sabotaging your love life and start leading with your heart
  

Ready to Break the Cycle? Listen now!

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Welcome to the very first episode of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys! If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right but often find yourself dating the wrong guys, you’re in the right place! Join me your host, Truly Eleanor, as I share my journey from struggling with relationships to finding the love of my life.

In this inaugural episode, I open up about my own “Shero’s love journey,” discussing my decades of dating mishaps and how I finally broke the cycle. With 15 years of coaching women and a wealth of personal experience, I am here to guide you through practical tips and inspiration to go after the love you deserve.

• The Importance of Recognizing Patterns: Discover why simply telling yourself not to fall for unavailable guys isn’t enough and how to create new patterns for success in dating.
• Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: Explore the biggest beliefs that keep women over 40 single and how to challenge them.
• Defining Healthy Love: What does "Pinch Me Love" really look like? Learn about healthy relationship dynamics and how to identify them.
• The Worst Dating Advice: Navigate the murky waters of online dating advice and find out what to avoid to save yourself time and heartache.
• My Let Love In Technique: Gain insights into my unique approach to attracting lasting love based on her personal and professional journey.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’re a single woman over 40 struggling to find Mr. Right because you’re drawn to unavailable guys, this episode is for you. I’m kicking off Season 2 with practical tips on how to meet Mr. Right now—without falling for divine feminine gimmicks or self-abandoning to fit into someone else’s mold.

Here’s what I cover in this episode:

• Why the mindset of "waiting for the perfect time" to meet someone is holding you back.
• The hidden barriers you might be creating that keep love out of reach.
• My go-to question: What if you met Mr. Right today?
• How “undating” behaviors—like dismissing online dating, skipping events, or giving up on introductions—are sabotaging your chances.
• The three practical ways to meet your guy that actually work (hint: it’s not magic, it’s strategy).

I also dive into why staying open to possibilities is key, share my personal framework for finding love, and outline what’s coming in this season—including a guided first-date walkthrough!

Get ready to shift your mindset, take action, and open yourself up to the relationship you deserve. Let’s make it happen this season!

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Are you a single woman over 40 and over your non-existent love life?

Do you struggle to find lasting love with the right guy because you are drawn to unavailable guys, despite knowing deep down you are sabotaging yourself?

Hey, I’m Truly Eleanor, your host of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast. I’m an Intuitive Love Coach who found Mr. Right in my 40s after breaking my pattern of attracting unavailable guys on repeat-and you can too!

This podcast was born from years of successfully coaching women worldwide out of the same patterns I was stuck in. My mission is to help single women over 40 find the fastest path to Mr. Right without wasting time on UGs (unavailable guys).

In season 1, we’ll focus on effective tools to trust your intuition and break the pattern of chasing after love. I’ll share empowering dating tips, advice to avoid, and how to cut through the BS.

X No complicated, inauthentic phrases or scripts to “keep a guy’s interest”

X No talk of getting into your Divine Feminine to find love

X No advice that focuses on what guys need from you

Yes to feeling inspired

Yes to being your true self in love and life!

Yes to trusting yourself and listening to your intuition

When I’m not inspiring women to find love after 40, you can find me having a laughing fit with the love of my life, baking my heart out in the kitchen or owning my GenX ways: metallic eyeshadow and my old school journal!

If you’re ready to get take the first step, sign up for my free challenge at: www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com

Love is closer than you think!

xo Eleanor

If you're a single woman over 40 who's done with the dating games and tired of chasing unavailable guys, then you’re gonna want to stick around. We're diving into how to tap into your intuition, and trust me, it’s not just for psychics and crystal ball gazers! I’ll share my own journey, from being a total hot mess to finding true love, and we’ll even do some chill exercises to help sharpen those intuitive skills. We’ll break it down into three simple steps: awareness, acceptance, and connection.

You’ll learn how to sift through all that mental noise and really feel what your heart is saying. We’ll share some laughs about the struggles of dating in our 40s, and I’ll give you practical tips to help you clear out any emotional baggage that’s holding you back. I promise you, it’s not just about finding love; it’s about loving yourself first! So grab your favorite drink, kick back, and let’s explore how you can become your own dating guru, with a little help from me!

Takeaways:

• This episode is perfect for single women over 40 who are tired of dating games.
• Developing your intuition can help you identify and avoid unavailable guys in dating.
• The three key steps to develop your intuition are awareness, acceptance, and connection.
• Trusting your intuition is crucial for finding true love, so listen to your heart!
• Emotional clearing is vital; release past feelings to make space for new love.
• Testing your intuition with small actions can lead to surprising opportunities in dating.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve done all the things: therapy, journaling, inner child work, energy clearing, and you still feel like, “I’m just not quite ready yet”… this episode is for you.

In Episode 57 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about a pattern that looks like growth, but feels like you’re stuck in a waiting room with no one calling your name.

Because at some point, “I just need to heal a bit more” turns into a lifestyle.

A very noble, self-aware, deeply exhausted lifestyle.

And it makes sense. You want to get it right. You don’t want to repeat the past. But what if all that healing has quietly become a way of keeping yourself out of the game?

This episode will show you how to move from endless self-improvement into actual lived confidence where you date, choose, and experience love as you are now.

What’s Inside This Episode:

✨ Why you still feel “not ready” for love (even after doing all the work)
✨ The sneaky way healing keeps you stuck instead of moving you forward
✨ The shift that gets you out of “almost ready” and into actually dating again
✨ How to start experiencing real connection now, not someday when you’re “fully healed”

✨ Want support with this? If your brain is tired of looping and you’re ready to actually move what you’re feeling, the Heart Reset Journal gives you a simple, guided way to release it and come back to yourself without overthinking it. 👉Click here to grab your journal 

Link to blog post I talked about: https://trulyeleanor.com/twinflame

🎧 Listen now and step into love without waiting to become a different version of you.

If you’ve been dating after 40 and you’re starting to lose hope, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing the truth: feeling stuck isn’t a sign that love is passing you by, it’s actually the doorway to reconnecting to yourself, rebuilding confidence, and finding the kind of healthy love you truly want.

I’m sharing a personal story from one of the lowest points in my own dating journey when I was living on my mom’s couch, going through perimenopause, heartbroken, anxious, and convinced I had run out of time. That moment became the turning point that changed everything. And it can change everything for you, too.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn what to do when you're spiraling into doubt, how to reconnect with your heart instead of your fear, and how to shift from feeling hopeless to grounded, intuitive, and ready for the healthy love you’re meant for. These are the exact steps I used to rebuild my confidence and meet my husband in my 40s and they’re the same steps I now teach women all over the world.

What’s Inside This Episode: 

• The surprising reason losing hope can be a powerful turning point.
• The story of my rock-bottom moment and how it became the catalyst for love.
• How to reconnect to your intuition when your brain won’t stop spinning worst-case scenarios.
• The morning heart-expansion practice that instantly shifts your energy (and makes you more magnetic).

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Welcome to the Season 3 finale of Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast! In this episode, I’m doing something special by answering YOUR burning dating questions while highlighting the best moments from this season. From how to tell the difference between fear and intuition, to knowing when it’s time to pause your dating profile, to avoiding the endless messaging trap on dating apps, I’m covering it all.

This season was all about mastering your intuition to find love after 40. We explored practical ways to connect with your inner wisdom, avoid dating burnout, and create an intuitive dating plan that actually works. Whether you’re new to the podcast or have been following along, this finale is packed with dating wisdom that will save you time, energy, and heartache.

• Why endless messaging on dating apps is a trap—and how to move to an in-person date faster
• The exact deal breakers to clarify before meeting someone in person
• How to decide when to pause your dating profile (hint: it’s a mutual conversation, not a solo decision)
• What to do if you can’t feel your “yes” and “no” signals in your body yet
• The simple 3-step framework to stop beating yourself up for past relationship choices
• How to tell the difference between fear and an intuitive red flag
• A quick recap of Season 3

Tune in now to hear the full Q&A and get intuitive dating tips you can start using today!

If you’re dating after 40 and tired of chasing unavailable partners or following bad advice, this episode is for you! I’m sharing the framework I’ve used as a dating coach (and in my own life) to go from a "hot mess express" to married to the love of my life in my 40s. You'll learn how to stop chasing love and start letting it in with my three-pillar approach: Let, Love, and In.

In episode 8 of The Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, I also address the biggest myths in dating—why “knowing” what to do isn’t enough, how action changes everything, and why the “right guy” won’t just fall into your lap (spoiler: you have to put yourself out there).

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

The Let Love In Technique: My 3-pillar approach to finding love by letting go of old patterns, embracing self-acceptance, and trusting your heart.

• Awareness (The Let Pillar): How to detox from unavailable partners and recognize the patterns that keep you stuck.
• Self-Acceptance (The Love Pillar): Why loving yourself unconditionally is key and how to stop beating yourself up for past choices.
• Heart Wisdom (The In Pillar): How to connect to your heart, tune into your intuition, and radiate confidence that attracts authentic love.

The difference between dating from your head vs. your heart—and how to shift to a grounded, joyful approach to meeting the right person.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Welcome to the show! If you're over 40 and finding yourself chasing unavailable guys while searching for Mr. Right, this episode is for you. I’m sharing the final part of my three-part series on the Let Love In framework. This is the exact process that transformed my love life from “hot mess express” to happily married in my 40s—and it’s the same framework I’ve been teaching as a dating coach for over 15 years.

In this episode, we’re diving into the third and final part: "In"—Trusting in Your Heart and Connecting to Your True Self.

When you’re disconnected from your true self, it’s easy to fall into unhealthy patterns—chasing unavailable partners, ignoring red flags, or trusting others over your own intuition. But when you’re deeply connected to your true self, everything changes. You recognize what you truly want, trust your intuition, and naturally attract the love you deserve.

I shared stories of two clients who experienced this transformation:

Client #1: She went from seeking validation from emotionally unavailable men to meeting someone who truly saw her and loved her for who she was.

Client #2: Despite severe anxiety about dating apps due to childhood trauma, she used this process to build confidence, find joy in dating, and enjoy meaningful connections.

If you’re not connected to your true self, you might find yourself:

• Chasing romantic fantasies rather than reality.
• Trusting others over your intuition, ignoring actions that don’t match their words.
• Dating people you don’t truly like—or who don’t like you back.

Sound familiar? These patterns keep you stuck in a cycle of heartbreak and self-doubt.

Here are three steps to help you trust in your heart and connect deeply with yourself:

Celebrate and Express Yourself- Pick a creative outlet—cooking, painting, dancing, writing (even badly!). Regular self-expression allows you to feel at home in your own skin and lets your unique essence shine.

Manifest Your Desires- Get clear on what you truly want in a partner and a relationship. Create a vision board, write a list, or even draw it out. Speak these desires aloud and feel them in your heart.

Live Your Truth in Love- Stop trying to cater to others’ expectations. When you show up authentically and fully yourself, you’ll naturally attract the kind of partner who loves and values the real you.

Yes, letting go of control is hard—especially if you’re a planner like me. But when you allow the universe to surprise and delight you, incredible things can happen.

So, ask yourself: Are you willing to stop wasting time and energy on the wrong people and start trusting your heart to lead you to the love you deserve?

If this episode resonated with you, take a moment to reflect:

Are you truly connected to your heart and your desires? How can you start expressing yourself and living your truth today?

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Welcome to episode 6 and part two of this juicy three-part series where I'm diving deep (and yes, it’s getting a little controversial!) into some of the worst dating advice floating around for women over 40. Today, I'm taking on the concept of "divine feminine energy" and why this advice, while alluring, might be the very thing holding you back.

In this episode, I’ll share some personal stories and insights from my journey—not just as someone who has navigated this advice herself but as a spiritual teacher who’s worked in the energy healing world for decades.

I totally get why “finding your divine feminine” sounds like a magic solution to all our dating woes. We’ll talk about why it feels so shiny and seductive, especially if you've been told that embracing a “feminine” energy is the key to finally meeting your soulmate.

Beneath this advice is often a subtle (or not-so-subtle) message that something about you isn’t good enough. I’ll break down how this mindset can make you feel unworthy and how it turns dating into an exhausting performance instead of an authentic connection.

Instead of chasing a prescribed “feminine energy,” I’m going to show you how to attract genuine connection by being fully present, authentic, and unapologetically YOU. I’ll explain why your most attractive quality is not about how well you "do" feminine but how deeply you show up as yourself.

The "Let Love In" Technique

If this resonates, I’ll share a bit about the “Let Love In” method I teach in my "Pinch Me Love" course. This isn’t about fixing what's “wrong” with you; it’s about peeling back the layers to get to your true, whole self.

Remember, you don’t have to become anyone other than who you are to find love. The most powerful thing you can do is embrace your real, messy, beautiful self—and show up with an open heart. I can’t wait to hear what you think about today’s episode, so tune in, and let’s get real about finding love over 40.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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For the Gen X Woman Who's Ready for Real Love

You’re a single woman over 40, you're done chasing emotionally unavailable guys, and you're finally ready to tune into your intuition to find true love. But wait—how do you know it’s your intuition guiding you… and not just your fear in disguise?

I’m your host, Truly Eleanor—intuitive love coach, Gen X spiritual guide. I found my Mr. Right in my 40s (yes, it can happen!) and now I help women like you do the same—without wasting years on ghosters, love bombers, or emotionally allergic guys.

In This Episode:

💫 How to actually tell the difference between your intuition and your fearful thoughts

💫 Why your head may be the worst GPS for love (no offense, logic)

💫 The surprising way intuition really feels—spoiler alert: it’s not always a neon YES

💫 What self-sabotage sounds like (and how to lovingly call it out)

Key Takeaways:

✔ Intuition is calm, simple, and heart-centered—it feels like love, even when it's scary

✔ Fear and sabotage are loud, chaotic, and rooted in your past

✔ You don't need to "quiet your mind" forever—you just need to choose which voice to follow

✔ You’re allowed to be messy, nervous, and still divinely guided (hi, Bridget Jones)

✔ Your intuition won’t always come as a “lightning bolt”—sometimes it’s a whisper in the noise

🎧 Listen to this episode if you’ve ever asked:

• “Is this a gut feeling or just panic?”
• “How do I trust myself after so many disappointments?”
• “Am I self-sabotaging again... or protecting myself?”

🔥 Next Steps:

👉 Missed the first two episodes of the season?

• [Ep 1: Intuition 101 – What It Is & Why It Matters in Love]
• [Ep 2: How to Access Your Intuition to Find Mr. Right]

💖 And don’t forget:

Subscribe, share this episode with your friends, and leave a review if it spoke to your intuitive heart. Your support helps us reach more Gen X women who are so done with dating drama and ready for their real-life love story.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Resources I Created Just For You

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Hey there! Welcome to episode 7 of The Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast. This is Part 3 of our series, The Worst Dating Advice for Women Over 40, and let me tell you, this one gets a little spicy! We're diving into some of the most toxic, unhelpful dating advice out there and flipping it on its head. Spoiler: If you've ever felt like you needed a PhD in "understanding men" to find love, this episode is for you.

Here’s what we’ll unpack:

• Why advice focused on “attracting the guy” often backfires
• How hyper-focusing on men’s behaviors keeps you stuck
• My personal story of dating insecurity and toxic empathy—and how I turned it around
• The #1 reason women chase unavailable men (and how to stop doing it!)

Dating should not feel like a high-stakes game where you're constantly analyzing, second-guessing, and morphing into someone else to fit what you think a guy wants. Trust me, I’ve been there, and I want to help you break free from this exhausting cycle.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How to shift your focus back to yourself and your true desires

Why authenticity (quirks, messiness, and all!) is your superpower in love

Simple, powerful techniques to stay grounded, confident, and in your body during dates

The surprising reason repelling the *wrong* guys is a win

The right guy will love you—exactly as you are. You don’t need to overanalyze or overperform. When you embrace your authenticity, you naturally become magnetic to someone who truly values the real you.

Next week, we’ll dive into my signature framework for transforming your dating patterns and finally finding lasting love. Trust me, this is the game-changer you’ve been waiting for!

Remember, love is closer than you think.

See you next week! Until then, remember: You’re amazing, lovable, and worthy of the love you desire.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’ve ever felt like deleting every dating app, swearing off love, and resigning yourself to “maybe I’m just meant to be alone,” this episode is for you. Truly Eleanor shares her own hilarious (and slightly horrifying) story of the date that pushed her over the edge and how that rock-bottom moment became the turning point that changed everything.

You’ll learn how to process frustration and disappointment without giving up on love, how to regulate your emotions when dating feels impossible, and the exact steps to move from burnout to breakthrough. Dating after 40 isn’t for the faint of heart, but with emotional honesty, self-awareness, and a little intuition, you can transform your “enough is enough” moment into the beginning of something beautiful.

• The unbelievable story of Eleanor’s “doctor’s office” first date that nearly ended her dating life for good.
• Why your “I’m done with dating” moment might actually be your biggest breakthrough.
• How to process emotional overwhelm and hopelessness in healthy, powerful ways.
• The journaling exercise that helps you release frustration and reconnect with your heart.
• How to tell if you need a break or a reset in your dating journey.
• Three key pillars to help you regain clarity and confidence: Awareness, Acceptance, and Connection.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

Hey, friends! Get cozy and grab your favorite drink, because today, I'm sharing my deeply personal love story—the "Shero's Journey." This is my path of self-discovery, healing, and finding the love I had been searching for my entire life.

In this episode I am going to talk about the moment I decided that had to do things differently if I wanted a different result, what led up to that, and what happened when I got the support I needed to make lasting change and find authentic love.

I knew I had to do things differently. I started facing the deep-seated trauma I had avoided for years, connected with my inner child, and sought support—letting others help me heal. I embraced the discomfort and took real steps to break the cycle.

But here’s the real message: I had to learn to show up as my true self, to stop fitting myself into someone else’s life and narrative. The love I found was a reflection of the work I did on myself, setting boundaries, learning to express my needs, and building a relationship based on mutual respect and growth.

This journey wasn’t easy—it required me to get uncomfortable, face the hard truths, and step out of my comfort zone. But the love I found on the other side? It was worth every difficult moment.

If you’re feeling like it’s too late for you, or that you’ll never break out of your patterns, I want you to know that it’s never too late. You can create your own love story, and it doesn’t have to look like mine. You deserve the kind of love that makes you feel seen, heard, and valued, and you *can* attract it by connecting to your authentic self.

I hope my story brings you inspiration, hope, and the belief that love is closer than you think.

Key Takeaways:

- Breaking patterns starts with facing your inner struggles and seeking help when needed.

- It’s never too late to create the love story you desire.

- Authenticity is the key to attracting real, lasting love.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you're a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, and you're ready to learn the most underrated skill to save time and heartache, you're in the right place. In this episode, as an intuitive love coach, I'm sharing how to access your intuition to find love. 

As an intuitive love coach (and a fellow Gen X’er who’s been there, done that, and bought the Breakfast Club t-shirt), I’m showing you exactly how to access your intuition to find real, lasting love—without all the second-guessing, overthinking, or talking yourself into situations that deep down, you know are a no.

You’ll also hear how to spot your personal “Yes” and “No” signals in your body (spoiler alert: your body is way smarter than your head sometimes) and how to build a relationship with your intuition that’s as reliable as Duckie showing up for Andie in Pretty in Pink.

By learning to trust your inner wisdom, you’ll be able to bypass years of dating detours and heartache. No more wasting time hoping an unavailable guy will change. It’s time to do things differently than you did in your 20s—because you’re wiser now, and love can be easier when you listen to yourself.

Remember: Mr. Right is out there. Your intuition is the shortcut to finding him.

If you loved this episode, share it with a fellow Gen X girlfriend who's ready to stop chasing unavailable guys and finally find her Mr. Right. And don't forget to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Don’t miss this heart-to-heart chat that will empower you to break free from chasing unavailable guys and open the door to the healthy, loving relationship you've been waiting for.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’re dating after 40 and you’ve built a strong, independent life… but still find yourself attracting emotionally unavailable men or feeling completely drained by dating, this episode is for you.

In Episode 56 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re talking about a shift that sounds simple, but can feel wildly uncomfortable in real life: how to stay open to love without abandoning yourself. Because let’s be honest…

At some point, independence stopped feeling empowering and started feeling like, “Cool, I guess I’ll just carry all the groceries and my emotional needs alone forever.”

After years of disappointment, it makes sense to stay guarded. To rely on yourself. To keep your heart just slightly under lock and key. But what if that protection… is also what’s keeping love out?

This episode will show you how to move from hyper-independence into openness, so connection can feel safe, mutual, and actually supportive (yes, that exists).

What’s Inside This Episode:

• What hyper-independence really looks like (it’s sneakier than you think)
• How staying guarded quietly blocks the connection you want
• How to stay open without losing your standards or boundaries
• The shift that allows love in without losing yourself

✨ Want support with this?
If you’re tired of overthinking and second-guessing yourself in dating, this is exactly the work we do inside Intuitive Path to Love. Learn to trust yourself in real time and feel calm, confident, and secure choosing the right man.
👉 https://trulyeleanor.com/IPTL

👉Download my free dating guide: The Top 5 Dating Apps for Women Over 40 + How to Spot Mr. Unavailable Fast
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🎧 Listen now and start experiencing love without losing yourself.

If you’re a single woman dating over 40 and feeling like guys keep ghosting you for reasons you just can't understand—this episode is for you. I’m breaking down the top three dating mistakes I see as a love coach and the underlying limiting beliefs that keep you stuck. Let’s get real about what’s holding you back from finding a truly devoted relationship with Mr. Right.

Here’s what I cover in episode 4 of The Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast:

• Dating Mistake #1: "The Spark Obsession" Ever felt that electric spark and thought, “This is it!” only to ignore red flags as they pile up? I dive into why that intense excitement can often lead us to overlook compatibility and safety. Spoiler: it's rooted in the need for excitement, which can be a limiting belief keeping us in patterns that don’t serve us.
• Dating Mistake #2: "The Scarcity Trap" Sometimes, it’s easy to tell yourself, “There aren’t enough good guys my age,” so you stay with someone hoping their potential will shine through. I’ll discuss how this scarcity mindset leads to endless chances for Mr. Not-Quite-Right—and how to move past it so you stay open to a truly healthy connection.
• Dating Mistake #3: "Over-Compassion" We all want to be compassionate and understanding, but sometimes this trait can become a trap, leading us to ignore our own needs. I’ll share how to set healthy boundaries and avoid settling just to keep the peace.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Dating in your 40s can feel like a cosmic rollercoaster. One minute you’re certain today’s the day you meet Mr. Right. The next, you’re on the couch, wine in hand, convinced love ghosted you for good. 

In this episode, we’re talking about:

💔 The “I’m so close!” optimism high followed by the crash into hopelessness

🛟 How to emotionally support yourself while dating

🌊 The “cosmic surfboard” strategy for riding the waves

💌 10 ways to stay open to love even when it feels hard

Because when you’re dating after 40, the stakes feel higher, but the love you’re calling in is so worth it. And yes… it is closer than you think.

🔑 Key Takeaways

• You don’t have to “stay positive” You just need to stay authentic

• Your emotions aren’t a problem, repressing them is

• Your journey is preparing you for the love you asked for

• You can have bad days and still be moving closer to love

• Every action counts even couch-days with your cat 🐈‍⬛

🧰 Tools Mentioned

✔ 10 powerful strategies to manage emotional ups + downs

✔ Tapping through fear with the “Then What?” exercise

✔ Heart-connection practices

✔ Emotional support + expansion rituals

✔ The top resource to use when you feel discouraged

🔥 Don’t Miss This Part

The one belief to delete immediately if you want to find real love after 40. “I have to be positive or I’ll never meet someone.”

Authenticity is more magnetic than perfection ever will be.

Ready for love to feel exciting again, not exhausting?

Hit play now to learn how to ride the emotional waves of dating in your 40s (without spiraling every time someone ghosts). 🎧👇

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Hey there! If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, you’re in the right place. In this episode, I’m sharing essential first date dos that will help you get closer to meeting the love of your life. With over 15 years of experience as an intuitive dating coach—and having found my own Mr. Right in my 40s—I know firsthand what works and what wastes your time. Let’s dive into part one of this mini-series, where I’ll cover exactly what you should be doing on a first date.

• Why dating after 40 requires intention and self-awareness
• The importance of preparing yourself emotionally and mentally before dating
• How to use online dating as a tool for actually meeting potential matches
• Why staying open, willing, and playful is essential for success
• Setting clear parameters for deal breakers and must-haves
• The power of checking in with yourself before, during, and after the date
• Following your heart and intuition throughout the dating journey
• Deciding on personal boundaries ahead of time

First dates can be exciting, nerve-wracking, and full of possibilities—but they don’t have to be overwhelming. By preparing yourself emotionally, staying intentional, and checking in with yourself along the way, you’ll be in a strong position to attract the right person. Be sure to tune in to part two, where I’ll cover the biggest first date don’ts to help you avoid common pitfalls.

Want more practical dating strategies? Check out my previous episodes for journaling prompts, practical tips, and real-world strategies to help you find the love you deserve.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right and you’re ready to hear how to actually meet him—without the games and frustration—then you’re in the right place. In this episode, part three of my series Three Ways to Meet Mr. Right After 40, we’re tackling the dreaded world of online dating. Between fake profiles, married men, and time wasters, it’s easy to feel like online dating is more hassle than it’s worth. But I promise you, if done right, it can be an effective and powerful way to meet someone amazing. I’ve seen it work for my clients, and I even met my husband this way! So let’s break down how to make online dating a smart, intentional, and successful part of your dating journey.

What We Cover in This Episode:

• Why Mindset Matters: The way you approach online dating shapes your experience. If you go in thinking it’s a waste of time, guess what? That’s exactly what it will be.
• Internal Preparation Before You Sign Up: Before diving in, take time to reflect on your expectations and intentions. Ask yourself:
• What do I hope to get out of online dating?
• What kind of relationship am I looking for?
• Who do I believe is actually out there for me?
• How much time and energy am I willing to commit to the process?
• Shifting from Expectations to Intentions: Expectations can set you up for frustration, but intentions keep you in control. Instead of thinking, “I better meet someone immediately,” shift to “I intend to have fun and be open to meeting great people.”
• Handling the Emotional Rollercoaster: Acknowledge the emotions that come up—fear, frustration, even resentment from past relationships—so they don’t control your experience.
• Taking Practical Action: Once you’ve done the internal work, set yourself up for success with a structured approach:
• Schedule specific time slots for being on the apps (e.g., three times a week for 30 minutes).
• Approach it with curiosity and openness, rather than pressure and expectation.
• Recognize that quality connections take time, but a consistent and intentional approach will get you there.

Online dating doesn’t have to be a frustrating time-suck—it can actually be an empowering way to meet someone amazing. But it all starts with your mindset and approach. By getting clear on your intentions, managing expectations, and taking consistent action, you can make online dating work for you instead of against you. If you want to dive deeper into this framework and learn the exact process I used (and that I teach my clients) to meet Mr. Right, go back and check out Season One. And if this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear your thoughts—send me a message or share your biggest takeaway.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Are you a single woman over 40 who’s feeling drained by dating, wondering if you should take yet another break—or if love just isn’t in the cards for you? Before you delete the apps, swear off dating forever, or retreat to your cozy corner with your favorite blanket and reruns of The Golden Girls, take a pause.

When you’re dating from burnout, everything feels heavy and forced. But when you learn to recognize your intuitive yes, dating becomes lighter, easier, and way more aligned. In this episode, I’ll guide you to stop pushing through the noise and start listening to what your body—and heart—already know.

In Episode 6, You’ll Learn:

• How to recognize your intuitive yes (hint: it’s not about logic)
• Why "yes" doesn't always mean "he's the one"
• Why tuning into your body will save you time, energy, and heartache
• How I met my husband in 10 days by following my yes
• Simple daily ways to start practicing your intuitive yes

Perfect For You If:

• You’ve been second-guessing yourself after every date
• The idea of dating immediately brings on the exhaustion
• You’re tired of swiping and wondering if it’s all worth it
• You want dating to feel like something you GET to do, not something you HAVE to do
• You’re ready to shift from chasing guys to choosing love

Let’s get you back on the path to love—with your intuition as the compass.

Love this episode? Subscribe and leave a review so more women over 40 can stop chasing unavailable guys and find love that lasts. And don’t forget to catch Part 1 if you missed it!

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You don’t need to try harder.

You need to trust smarter—starting with yourself.

Let this course show you how to date from intuition, not insecurity… and finally call in the love that’s actually meant for you.

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Welcome to today’s episode! If you’re a single woman dating after 40 and struggling to find Mr. Right, you’re in the right place. We’re diving into the second step of my proven Let Love In framework: the LOVE pillar. This pillar is all about shifting your dating experience from chasing fantasies to embracing your truth and attracting real, lasting love.

The LOVE pillar is central to transforming your dating life. Unlike the common cycle of chasing unavailable partners, this pillar focuses on grounding yourself in self-love and acceptance. In this episode, we explore what it means to truly embrace yourself, release emotional baggage, and align with the kind of love you deserve.

1. Heal and Forgive Yourself

One of the first steps in the LOVE pillar is healing and forgiving yourself. Resentment and unprocessed emotions can cloud your judgment and block you from authentic love. We discuss why forgiveness isn’t about excusing past mistakes but about freeing yourself from their grip.

Personal growth doesn’t require perfection. You don’t have to be fully healed to attract a healthy relationship—just open to the process.

2. Befriend Your Emotions

Instead of rejecting your emotions, learn to welcome them. This allows you to build confidence and recognize your inherent worth. I share a deeply personal story about how embracing my anger transformed my emotional health and helped me see my true value.

Through journaling, EFT tapping, or guided meditations, you can create a safe space for your emotions to surface and be witnessed.

3. Untangle Yourself from Limiting Beliefs

Living in integrity means aligning your inner world with your outward actions. This requires facing and integrating the parts of yourself that you’ve been ignoring. We’ll explore how shadow work and intuitive practices can help you release old patterns and step into a more compassionate, empowered version of yourself.

By trusting your intuition, you open the door to self-respect and better choices in love.

Take some time to reflect on these prompts:

• What fears arise when you think about fully accepting and loving yourself?
• Why is self-love essential to your dating journey?
• How will your life change when you embrace the LOVE pillar and accept yourself with compassion?

• Journaling: Use journaling to connect deeply with your emotions and track your progress.
• EFT Tapping: Release emotional blocks by tapping on pressure points while voicing your fears or limiting beliefs.
• Guided Meditations: Archetypal healing meditations can help you connect with different aspects of yourself to promote healing and integration.

Remember, you don’t have to be “perfect” to attract a meaningful relationship. Self-love is a journey, and the LOVE pillar is your guide to building a fulfilling connection with yourself and others.

In the next episode, we’ll dive into the third pillar of the Let Love In technique. It’s the final and most transformative step to attracting a partner who truly aligns with you. Don’t miss it!

Remember: Love is closer than you think.

Are you a single woman over 40 who’s exhausted by dating, ready to give up, or tempted to let "divine timing" take the wheel? Before you throw in the towel (or adopt another cat), tune in. In this episode, we’re kicking off a brand-new 3-part series on using your intuition to avoid dating burnout—because finding love shouldn’t feel like an emotional marathon.

Dating burnout is real—and it’s one of the most common patterns I see among women over 40. But there’s a way out, and it doesn’t involve deleting the apps or sitting on the couch waiting for the universe to drop a guy in your lap.

In this episode, I’m sharing:

• How to spot the signs of dating burnout (even if you’re not sure you have it)
• The trap of relying on “divine timing”
• Why ignoring your intuition leads to emotional fatigue
• And most importantly—how to learn your NO so you can finally move toward your YES in love

This is your starting point to stop chasing, stop forcing, and start listening to your inner wisdom. Let’s get you back on the path to Mr. Right—with your intuition in the driver’s seat.

• Dating burnout is sneaky—it shows up as exhaustion, dread, cynicism, or even physical symptoms when thinking about dating.
• Divine timing isn’t a dating plan—waiting passively often masks giving up.
• Burnout is a sign you’ve been forcing, chasing, and ignoring your intuition.
• Your “No” is sacred—learning to recognize and honor it is the first step to finding aligned, effortless love.
• You’re not alone. This episode is filled with truth, tools, and a no-shame approach to healing from the inside out.

• You’ve ever said “I’m just too tired to date”
• You secretly hate dating apps but feel guilty for avoiding them
• You’ve been told to “just wait for the right guy” but it’s been... a while
• You’re done with emotionally unavailable guys and want to do things differently

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Welcome to Season 3 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast! I’m Truly Eleanor, your intuitive dating coach, and if you’ve ever felt like you keep dating the same guy in a different body or second-guess yourself constantly—this episode is so for you.

We’re kicking off this season with the most powerful, overlooked, and misunderstood tool in your dating toolbox: your intuition. If you've ever felt like love is just not happening for you—especially after 40—and you're feeling burnt out from trying to figure it all out with your head, it’s time to get out of your own way and into your heart.

In this episode, I break down:

• What intuition actually is (and how it’s different from empathy or being sensitive)
• Why Gen X women like us were never taught to trust it (hello, logic and people-pleasing conditioning!)
• How ignoring it keeps you stuck in a loop of chasing emotionally unavailable guys
• My personal journey from feeling like a hot mess express in love to meeting my amazing husband—because I finally listened to my inner guidance
• Why intuition is the foundation for everything we’ll dive into this season

If you're feeling like your dating life is a bad rerun of an ‘80s soap opera (hello, Days of Our Lives vibes), it’s time to tune in and start writing a new script—one where you trust yourself and attract the kind of love that actually lasts.

✨ Plus, I’m sharing insider gems from my popular course Master Your Intuition to Find Love, which has helped thousands of women transform their love lives—and this season, you'll get golden nuggets from it in every episode.

🌟 If you’re ready to stop overthinking and start trusting yourself in love, this episode is your must-listen.

🎧 Listen now and subscribe so you don’t miss a single intuitive hit this season!

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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Hey there! If you're a single woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right and tired of wasting your time on unavailable guys, this episode is for you. As an intuitive love coach, I'm breaking down what red flags really mean, how to recognize them, and—most importantly—how to stop chasing the wrong men. My goal is to empower you with practical dating strategies so you can date with intention and confidence. Let's dive in!

• What Red Flags Really Are: Understanding the signs of an unavailable man and why we often ignore them.
• Owning Your Dating Patterns: How acknowledging your past choices can set you free.
• Mindset Shifts You Need: Why recognizing red flags early on is key to avoiding heartache.
• Emotional and Physical Cues: How your body might be signaling you to run the other way.
• Practical Dating Strategies: What to do when you spot red flags on a first or second date.
• Affirmations for a Healthier Love Life: Simple statements to reprogram your mindset and attract the right kind of love.
• Exercises to Define Your Red Flags: How to create a clear picture of what Mr. Unavailable looks like for you.

I hope this episode gave you the insights you need to date more intentionally and avoid the pitfalls of chasing unavailable men. Remember, recognizing red flags isn't about judgment—it's about protecting your time, energy, and heart. If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to the previous episode on green flags so you can focus on what you do want, not just what you want to avoid. Until next time, keep dating with purpose and trust your intuition—you've got this!

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’re a woman over 40 looking for Mr. Right, this episode is for you. I’m wrapping up my three-part series on the best dating advice for women over 40, and today we’re diving into the hidden fears, anxieties, and habits that might be holding you back from the love you deserve. As an intuitive dating coach, I’ve worked with countless women (and done this work myself), and I know how powerful it can be to uncover and release these patterns. Let’s get into it.

Unpacking your dating fears:

• Fear of intimacy (being truly seen)
• Fear of rejection or heartbreak
• Fear of recreating toxic relationship patterns
• Fear of being trapped or stuck in the wrong relationship
• The underlying fear of ending up alone

How to confront your fears:

• The “Then what?” exercise to explore and release fears layer by layer
• Using emotional release techniques like tapping to clear emotional charges
• Turning your fears into new intentions that empower your dating journey

The 3 most common habits that hold you back:

Overthinking: Letting your mind take over instead of trusting your intuition.

Dismissing good matches too quickly: Judging potential partners based on surface-level details.

Playing it safe: Avoiding emotional vulnerability to protect yourself, which can prevent genuine connection.

Facing your fears and breaking free from unhelpful dating habits is essential to finding real, meaningful love. The goal isn’t to eliminate fear entirely—it’s to loosen its grip so it no longer controls your dating decisions. By building self-awareness, you can date with more clarity, confidence, and authenticity.

If this episode resonated with you, be sure to check out parts one and two of this series. And if you’re ready for deeper support on your dating journey, reach out—I’d love to help you attract the love you deserve.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’re dating after 40 and the only connections that feel exciting are the ones that leave you anxious, overthinking everything, and wondering where you stand, this episode will change the way you understand attraction.

In Episode 55 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys Podcast, we’re redefining chemistry and exploring why the “spark” you’ve been chasing might actually be your nervous system reacting to emotional unpredictability.

For many women, attraction has been conditioned through intensity: the adrenaline rush, mixed signals, and emotional highs and lows that feel exciting in the moment, but somehow keep leading you straight back to Mr. Emotionally Unavailable. But healthy love doesn’t feel chaotic.

It feels calm, grounded, and emotionally safe.

And if that feeling has ever made you think, “Hmm… maybe I’m just not attracted to him?” don’t worry you’re not the only one whose nervous system learned that love was supposed to feel like a rollercoaster at a questionable amusement park.

In this episode, we explore the identity shift from chasing anxiety-based chemistry to recognizing emotional safety as true attraction. When your body chooses steadiness instead of emotional rollercoasters, dating starts to feel clearer, calmer and more aligned.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• How emotional chaos gets mistaken for chemistry
• What emotionally safe attraction actually feels like
• Why calm connection can feel unfamiliar at first
• The identity shift that helps you choose healthier love

Because the kind of attraction that leads to lasting love rarely feels like fireworks.

It feels like coming home.

If you’re ready to stop chasing sparks and start embodying the calm magnetism that attracts real love, the Magnetic Love Meditation Bundle is the perfect next step. Click here to start:
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Hey there, welcome to episode 9! If you’re navigating the dating world after 40 and feeling like you’re stuck in a cycle of unavailable guys and repeating patterns, this episode is for you. I’m diving deep into the first pillar of my Let Love In framework: Letting go of the past.

I get it—letting go can feel daunting, even impossible. But trust me, it’s the key to breaking free from dating the same guy in a different body and finding the love you truly deserve. In today’s episode, I’ll walk you through how holding onto past baggage affects your dating life and share actionable steps to finally move forward.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why letting go of the past is so critical for finding love.
• How unhealed baggage keeps you stuck in painful patterns.
• What “dating while in your baggage” actually looks like (and how it might be sabotaging your relationships without you realizing it).
• How to identify and clear the emotional triggers and blind spots that trip you up.

We’ll explore how boundaries—or the lack of them—play a huge role in this process. I’ll also help you reconnect with your truth and gain clarity on the patterns and choices that have shaped your love life so far. And don’t worry, this isn’t about beating yourself up! It’s about compassionately uncovering the lessons from your past so you can create a different, brighter future.

Practical Tools and Tips Shared:

• Journaling prompts to help you reflect on your patterns and fears.
• The power of EFT tapping for releasing stuck emotions.
• How to set clear intentions to let go of your past and open up to new possibilities.

Letting go is the foundation of transformation. It creates the space for something new, something better, and something you truly deserve. So grab your journal, or just hit play and let’s explore this together.

Next week, we’ll dive into the second pillar of my framework: Love. This is all about acceptance, self-love, and opening yourself up to receive the love you’ve been searching for. Trust me, you won’t want to miss it!

Until then, remember—love is closer than you think.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you're a single woman over 40 and you're serious about finding a real, emotionally available partner — this one's for you. In this episode, I'm sharing the most important first date DON'Ts to help you stop wasting time and start getting clear on what actually moves you closer to love. These are the same patterns I had to break to find my own Mr. Right (yes, it happened in my 40s — and yes, it's absolutely possible for you too).

Think of this episode as a loving, intuitive wake-up call. I’m not here to sugarcoat — I’m here to help you become radically self-aware, so you stop repeating the same dating cycles and start honoring your feelings, your body, and your truth.

What we cover in this episode:

• Why ignoring your intuition is the #1 mistake most women make on a first date
• The two ways we talk ourselves out of or into dates — and how both can be self-sabotage
• How "making excuses" and "defending someone you barely know" could be hurting your chances at love
• The emotional red flags that signal you might need a dating break
• Why focusing too much on him pulls you out of your own power
• What it really means to emotionally check out — and how to reconnect with yourself before, during, and after a date
• The dating mindset shift that helps you stop pushing for a fairytale and start choosing from your intuition
• A powerful mantra to remember when you're tempted to settle: You can't love an unavailable man enough to make him into Mr. Right.

This episode is part two of my First Date Do’s and Don’ts series — so if you haven’t listened to the Do’s yet, make sure to go back and check out the previous episode. Both are designed to help you date with more clarity, confidence, and emotional safety.

Dating over 40 doesn’t have to be exhausting or disappointing. When you know what to stop doing — and start truly tuning into yourself — everything changes.

Let’s get you closer to love, without wasting one more minute on the wrong people.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to join us for the Detox Unavailable Guys Challenge at www.stopchasingunavailableguys.com 

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If you’ve ever left a date feeling confused wondering if you liked him, if he liked you, or if you accidentally ignored your intuition again, this episode is for you.

As an intuitive dating coach who found love in her 40s, I’m breaking down the exact post-date reflection process that helped me stop chasing unavailable guys and finally attract my husband.

You’ll learn how to check in with your body, emotions, and intuition after a date, instead of analyzing texts or second-guessing everything he said. These are the five simple, heart-centered questions that will change the way you date (and help you avoid weeks or months wasted on the wrong guy).

Because when you know how to tune in to your heart, not just your head, you make dating feel easier, lighter, and way more fun.

• The one post-date question that changes everything
• Why your intuition gives better feedback than your brain
• How to tell if you’re chasing validation or true connection
• A real dating story that shows how ignoring red flags keeps you stuck
• 5 post-date reflection questions that help you attract Mr. Right faster

• You’ve been second-guessing your dating decisions
• You keep overanalyzing what he said or did after a date
• You’re tired of dating confusion and ready for calm clarity
• You want to start trusting your intuition again (and actually enjoy dating)

Ready to stop guessing and start trusting yourself in dating?

🎧 Listen now to Episode 42 of the Stop Chasing Unavailable Guys podcast and learn how to use post-date reflection to attract love that feels like home.

I hope you enjoyed the show! Please hit subscribe and leave a review and if you’re ready to take the fastest path to Mr. Right, be sure to download my free dating guide at https://trulyeleanor.com/datingapps

If you’re a single woman over 40 looking for real, lasting love (not another confusing situationship or emotional rollercoaster), this episode is for you. You’re done chasing guys who can’t show up — and you’re ready to attract someone who actually gets you. In Part 2 of my manifestation series, I’m teaching you one of my most powerful tools to connect with your intuition and call in the love you desire.

If you’ve asked the Universe for a sign and then seen the same flower, animal, or image pop up over and over again… this episode will show you exactly what to do with that. In episode 9, I’m sharing a deeply personal (and powerful) technique to attract love: the personal symbol.

This isn’t just about cute signs or spiritual woo. This is about developing a consistent, intuitive connection to something greater than yourself — so that even in your most confusing or painful moments, you know you’re not alone. Whether you’ve already identified your symbol (like a daisy or dolphin) or you’re still trying to figure it out, I’ll walk you through how to discover, interpret, and use your personal symbol as a guide to manifest Mr. Right.

• What a personal symbol is (and how it’s different from a generic “sign”)
• How my personal symbol helped me navigate a painful healing journey
• The #1 feeling to look for when identifying your own personal symbol
• What to do if your symbol isn’t clear yet (hint: this episode helps you find it)
• A simple journaling practice to build a relationship with your symbol
• Why manifestation isn’t about "thinking positive" — and what it is really about

Listen now to get started on your intuitive dating journey!

💖 Ready to go deeper and connect with your intuition to find real love? Check out the Intuitive Dating Activation Course, where you’ll get four powerful audio modules and seven guided meditations to help you trust yourself, stop second-guessing, and create a love life that actually feels good. Over 2,700 women have already transformed the way they date — you can be next.