STANDOUT From The Crowd – Details, episodes & analysis

In this special milestone episode—our 99th—we close out the Redefining ‘Having It All’ series with a grounded, inspiring conversation about what it means to protect your energy, lead with intention, and show up unapologetically as yourself.

Joining Darine is leadership and team coach Nataisha Revoy, a woman whose bold career pivots, values-based leadership, and deep belief in authenticity offer a fresh and deeply human perspective on how we define success.

From walking away from “secure” roles with no safety net, to building a business that empowers kind, people-centered leaders around the world, Nataisha Revoy opens up about the courage, mindset, and boundaries that helped her step into her true calling—and how you can do the same.

This is more than a conversation—it’s a reset. For anyone feeling the weight of overachievement, this episode will help you pause, realign, and redefine power on your own terms.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Letting go of hustle culture and choosing alignment
  
• The courage to pivot without a plan—but with purpose
  
• Boundaries as a leadership skill (and personal act of self-respect)
  
• Signs you’re out of alignment—and how to course correct
  
• Balancing ambition with emotional sustainability
  
• Building a leadership identity rooted in authenticity

Key Takeaways

• Boundaries aren’t selfish—they’re structures for sustainability.
  
• You don’t have to know the full path to take a first step.
  
• Balance is about intention, not perfection.
  
• Real leadership begins when you stop performing and start aligning.

Actionable Steps:

1. Boundary Check-In: Ask yourself: Where am I saying “yes” out of guilt instead of truth? 
2. Try This Script: “Thank you for thinking of me—this time, I need to say no.”
3. Energy Mapping:  Identify your peak hours of clarity and creativity. Protect them.
4. Reflection Prompt: What parts of my life or leadership still feel like performance?

Connect with Darine:

- On Instagram

- On LinkedIn

- Visit her website

Connect with Nataisha:

- On LinkedIn

- Visit her website

- Book a call with her

Subscribe & Review:

• If you found this episode valuable, don’t forget to subscribe to STANDOUT From The Crowd on Spotify | Apple Podcast, and leave a review!
• Subscribe to The STANDOUT Newsletter, your weekly 5-min reset designed to help you stay clear, grounded, intentional. Delivered straight to your inbox every Wednesday.
• Follow us on Tiktok | Instagram | YouTube to stay updated.
• Check out our partner, AFROA Beauty, for wellness-focused skincare products that support a radiant, healthy lifestyle.

Other episodes you may like:

From Exhaustion to Empowerment - Rewriting Your Definition of Success (3/4)

Superwoman Syndrome & How to Finally Let Her Go (2/4)

The Burnout Behind the Badge of Honor (1/4)

In Part 3 of our Redefining 'Having It All' series, we’re getting honest about a truth many ambitious women are waking up to: the version of success we’ve been taught to chase isn’t always aligned with our deepest values. In this episode, Darine explores how the constant pursuit of external validation—titles, promotions, status, and hustle—can silently drain our energy and disconnect us from what actually makes us feel fulfilled. You’ll learn how to reassess what success means to you, reconnect with your purpose, and design a life that fuels you, not just your résumé.

Key Topics Discussed:

• How traditional success metrics create invisible pressure
• Signs your definition of success no longer serves you
• The role of ambition in identity—and how to evolve it
• How to design your personal, values-aligned definition of success
• Why fulfillment is the new power move

Key Takeaways

• Success without alignment leads to burnout, not joy
• You are allowed to evolve your dreams and goals
• Ambition isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing what matters
• Fulfillment comes from alignment, not achievement alone

Actionable Steps:

1. Success Inventory: List your current goals and ask: “Do these still belong to me?”
2. Feeling First Exercise: Write down how you want your success to feel, not just look
3. Declare Your Own Definition: Complete the sentence: “For me, success means…”

Connect with Darine:

- On Instagram

- On LinkedIn

- Visit her website

Subscribe & Review:

• If you found this episode valuable, don’t forget to subscribe to STANDOUT From The Crowd on Spotify | Apple Podcast, and leave a review!
• Subscribe to The STANDOUT Newsletter, your weekly 5-min reset designed to help you stay clear, grounded, intentional. Delivered straight to your inbox every Wednesday.
• Follow us on Tiktok | Instagram | YouTube to stay updated.
• Check out our partner, AFROA Beauty, for wellness-focused skincare products that support a radiant, healthy lifestyle.

Other episodes you may like:

Superwoman Syndrome & How to Finally Let Her Go (2/4)

The Burnout Behind the Badge of Honor (1/4)

Healing the Gut and Recovering from Stress & Burnout

In this episode, I uncover the truth behind the overuse of "I'm sorry" and its impact on your perception of empowerment and competence.Over-apologizing can have negative consequences, particularly in the workplace, as it can lead to a perception of weakness or lack of confidence.

Do you find yourself saying "I'm sorry" a lot? 

• “Sorry, I'm late”; 
• “Sorry, I'm busy right now”; 
• “I'm sorry, I can't help you right now”; 
• “Sorry, Can I interrupt?"

What are you sorry for? 

Stop Apologizing NOW and reclaim your power! If you've ever found yourself apologizing out of habit rather than necessity, this is the wake-up call you need.

My Socials: 

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/

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⏱⏱ Video Chapters: ⏱⏱

(00:00) - Intro

(01:11) - Reasons for Frequent Apologies

(01:45) - Gender Dynamics in Apologizing

(02:53) - Strategies to Reduce Apologies

(04:21) - Outro

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Other episodes you may like:

How To Skyrocket Your Reputation
The Power of Self-Perception in Professional Growth
Think You’re Not Good Enough? Listen To This Now!

IMPOSTER SYNDROME IS A WOMAN'S CAREER KILLER

+ 4 TIPS to overcome Imposter Syndrome so you can build the career you deserve.

75% of women executives experience impostor syndrome.

28% of working women feel like imposter syndrome has stopped them speaking in a meeting.

And the list goes on...

What can we do - as women - to alleviate these feelings?

*** STANDOUT From The Crowd *** 

📍The Program: Have you always wanted to become a recognized industry leader? Tired of being a best-kept secret? Join the STANDOUT Program: https://bit.ly/3e8Xfc1

📍The Book: Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3n5SLb3

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Where to follow and listen to Darine:
➡LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/
➡Instagram: https://instagram.com/darinebenamara/
➡Website: https://thesmartwmn.com/

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Darine BenAmara is a global speaker, consultant and author who provides training programs and speeches to help high-achievers become the leaders they were meant to be. During the past ten years, she has helped tens of thousands of professionals and entrepreneurs build influence and increase their impact by building their skills in personal branding, effective communication and relationship building.

HOW TO USE CLUBHOUSE TO GROW YOUR NETWORK

Have you been using CLUBHOUSE strategically? This platform can be powerful to grow your network using Clubhouse.

*** STANDOUT From The Crowd *** 

📍The Program: Have you always wanted to become a recognized industry leader? Tired of being a best-kept secret? Join the STANDOUT Program: https://bit.ly/3e8Xfc1

📍The Book: Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3n5SLb3

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Where to follow and listen to Darine:
➡LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/
➡Instagram: https://instagram.com/darinebenamara/
➡Website: https://thesmartwmn.com/

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Darine BenAmara is a global speaker, consultant and author who provides training programs and speeches to help high-achievers become the leaders they were meant to be. During the past ten years, she has helped tens of thousands of professionals and entrepreneurs build influence and increase their impact by building their skills in personal branding, effective communication and relationship building.

3 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD BUILD A PERSONAL BRAND AT WORK

Personal branding, or the act of creating a distinct professional reputation for yourself, can be a powerful tool in advancing your career, particularly at a time when employers are looking to raise their own profiles in an increasingly competitive business environment.

Choose methods of building a personal brand that are appropriate for your role and industry. Bring your uniqueness to light and you'll become even more valuable to your company.

*** STANDOUT From The Crowd *** 

📍The Program: Have you always wanted to become a recognized industry leader? Tired of being a best-kept secret? Join the STANDOUT Program: https://bit.ly/3e8Xfc1

📍The Book: Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3n5SLb3

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Where to follow and listen to Darine:
➡LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/
➡Instagram: https://instagram.com/darinebenamara/
➡Website: https://thesmartwmn.com/

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Darine BenAmara is a global speaker, consultant and author who provides training programs and speeches to help high-achievers become the leaders they were meant to be. During the past ten years, she has helped tens of thousands of professionals and entrepreneurs build influence and increase their impact by building their skills in personal branding, effective communication and relationship building.

5 COMMON MISTAKES TO AVOID WITH YOUR PERSONAL BRAND

It's not uncommon to see people drawing conclusions about personal branding that are simply wrong.

Your personal brand can land you the job of your dreams—or get in your way.

So avoid these 5 common self-branding mistakes, and you’ll soon stand out from the crowd.

*** STANDOUT From The Crowd *** 

📍The Program: Have you always wanted to become a recognized industry leader? Tired of being a best-kept secret? Join the STANDOUT Program: https://bit.ly/3e8Xfc1

📍The Book: Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3n5SLb3

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Where to follow and listen to Darine:
➡LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/
➡Instagram: https://instagram.com/darinebenamara/
➡Website: https://thesmartwmn.com/

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Darine BenAmara is a global speaker, consultant and author who provides training programs and speeches to help high-achievers become the leaders they were meant to be. During the past ten years, she has helped tens of thousands of professionals and entrepreneurs build influence and increase their impact by building their skills in personal branding, effective communication and relationship building.

4 EFFECTIVE WAYS TO ELEVATE YOUR PERSONAL BRAND IN 2024

A strong Personal Brand helps clarify your strengths, build trust and credibility with others and ultimately position you as the go-to person in your industry.

*** STANDOUT From The Crowd *** 

📍The Program: Have you always wanted to become a recognized industry leader? Tired of being a best-kept secret? Join the STANDOUT Program: https://bit.ly/3e8Xfc1

📍The Book: Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3n5SLb3

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Where to follow and listen to Darine:
➡LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/
➡Instagram: https://instagram.com/darinebenamara/
➡Website: https://thesmartwmn.com/

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Darine BenAmara is a global speaker, consultant and author who provides training programs and speeches to help high-achievers become the leaders they were meant to be. During the past ten years, she has helped tens of thousands of professionals and entrepreneurs build influence and increase their impact by building their skills in personal branding, effective communication and relationship building.

3 WAYS TO USE YOUR STORY TO BUILD A LEADERSHIP PERSONAL BRAND 

The biggest excuses I get from clients looking to build a premium personal brand are “I don’t have a story,” or “my story is not interesting enough.”

There is so much self-consciousness — and as a result, self-sabotage — around using your life experiences as a story that’s compelling enough to captivate an audience and use as a foundation for a STANDOUT Personal Brand.

   

*** STANDOUT From The Crowd *** 

📍The Program: Have you always wanted to become a recognized industry leader? Tired of being a best-kept secret? Join the STANDOUT Program: https://bit.ly/3e8Xfc1

📍The Book: Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3n5SLb3

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Where to follow and listen to Darine:
➡LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/
➡Instagram: https://instagram.com/darinebenamara/
➡Website: https://thesmartwmn.com/

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Darine BenAmara is a global speaker, consultant and author who provides training programs and speeches to help high-achievers become the leaders they were meant to be. During the past ten years, she has helped tens of thousands of professionals and entrepreneurs build influence and increase their impact by building their skills in personal branding, effective communication and relationship building.

3 WAYS TO DEVELOP A GROWTH MINDSET

One's mindset stems from our own set of powerful beliefs.

The good news is beliefs can be changed when they no longer serve us or enable us to achieve our goals.

*** STANDOUT From The Crowd *** 

📍The Program: Have you always wanted to become a recognized industry leader? Tired of being a best-kept secret? Join the STANDOUT Program: https://bit.ly/3e8Xfc1

📍The Book : Get your copy here: https://amzn.to/3n5SLb3

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Where to follow and listen to Darine:
➡LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/darinebenamara/
➡Instagram: https://instagram.com/darinebenamara/
➡Website: https://thesmartwmn.com/

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Darine BenAmara is a global speaker, consultant and author who provides training programs and speeches to help high-achievers become the leaders they were meant to be. During the past ten years, she has helped tens of thousands of professionals and entrepreneurs build influence and increase their impact by building their skills in personal branding, effective communication and relationship building.