No 2 Gays About It – Details, episodes & analysis

In this episode, Michael and Tom tackle the complexities of voting, breaking down everything from the Electoral College to swing states and more. With Election Day just around the corner, they’ll explain how the system works and, most importantly, share practical ways for you to get involved and make your vote count this election season. Whether you're a first-time voter or a seasoned pro, this episode is packed with useful insights to ensure your voice is heard!

Take a moment to visit Vote.org to double-check your voter registration. It only takes a few minutes to ensure you’re ready to cast your ballot!

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

In this episode, Tom and Michael revisit listener feedback from their recent discussion on PTSD, uncovering a common theme: as gay men, we’ve all endured multiple layers of trauma—often sharing similar experiences. While we can’t solve this issue in a single episode, continuing the conversation is a crucial step toward healing. Join us as we delve deeper into the many facets of gay trauma and explore how, together, we can begin the healing process.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

Whether you're no stranger to it or you're experiencing it for the first time, loss is something we all will come to experience... but is it something that we as gay men over 50 experience differently? What does loss and grief do to our lives, our body? And how can we overcome loss, especially when it keeps on coming?

We'll explore all these topics as it pertains to loss, and more.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about.
Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

 

After years of being labelled by others, Tom and Michael explore why we gay men over 50 still feel the needs to label ourselves... are labels good, bad, useless? We'll talk about it all, as well as the many different types of sexual labels that exist in the wild, aka Dating Apps.

💙, Tom & Michael

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about.
Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

***Trigger Warning***
SUICIDE & DEPRESSION
Today we have an open and honest discussion about the Loneliness Epidemic; why and how it's affecting our aging gay community. This is an important conversation for us to have because at some some point, we have or will experience loneliness.

You are not alone.

We share ways you can cope and overcome loneliness, as well as how you can help others who might be suffering.
💙,
Tom & Michael

RESOURCES FOR HELP
• DIAL or TEXT 998 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
Or click here: https://988lifeline.org/
• SAGE - Advocacy and Services for LGBTQ+ Elders https://www.sageusa.org/
• PSYCHOLOGY TODAY - To help you find a therapist in your area that not only searches by type of insurance accepted but sexual orientation and types of therapy. https://www.psychologytoday.com/

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about.
Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

The gay sex act after 50 is one that can be riddled with hardships and obstacles, especially if it's your main way of defining yourself. In this video, we'll unpack the different challenges we face with sex after 50, solutions to those challenges, and how to be intimate when sex is truly off the table.   If you've sworn off sex and relationships in your silver years, this episode is especially for you.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about.
Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

Like it or not, friends and friendship are important aspect of life for the aging gay male, but at this point, it might feel too difficult to make friends, let alone keep them.   In this episode, Michael and Tom explore the many different kinds of friendships, the difficulties of making and keeping friends, and whether or not it's truly important for us gay men over 50 these kinds of companions.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 3 is about COMPANIONSHIP. Join us as we explore this important topic for all Gay Men over 50. We want to hear from you! What kind of COMPANIOSHIP do YOU want us to talk about?

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
Find us on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

Over 36 years of marriage has taught Tom some things, so let's do this. Let's get into the nitty gritty of gay marriage over 50.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you!
Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

Michael's doing it. Tom never has. And even if you're somewhere in between, Hookups are part of our gay culture. In this episode, we explore what they are, how to do them, and if they're enough.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

This season is all about COMPANIONSHIP. We explore the different ways we as gay men over 50 seek it and provide it, and why it's so important to us.

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

 

In our Season 2 Finale, Tom and Michael discuss all the things they learned over the last 12 episodes. After exploring the many different relationships we as gay men over 50 have, there are four different ways we can apply these lessons that will help us have healthier and happier lives.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 2 is all about the varied and various relationships of Gay Men over 50, and we want to hear from you!
Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2023