Explore every episode of the podcast Less Stress, More Joy with Amy Leneker
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| Stress Isn’t the Price of Success (And Work Isn’t Working) | 05 Jan 2026 | 00:27:59 | |
If you’ve ever woken up on a Monday already exhausted, this episode is for you. In the premiere of Less Stress, More Joy with Amy Leneker, Amy introduces the “joyful rebellion” against burnout and toxic positivity. She unpacks why stress is at an all-time high, why so many teams are stuck in chronic stress, and why the most dangerous belief in modern work culture is that stress is the price of success. Amy breaks stress down into clear, usable categories (eustress vs. distress; acute vs. chronic), explains how chronic stress impacts health, thinking, and decision-making, and shares what she sees in thousands of high-stakes workplace conversations as a certified mediator. This episode also calls out a common leadership trap—toxic positivity—and offers a more honest, effective alternative: holding reality and hope at the same time (the Stockdale Paradox). Finally, Amy closes with simple, practical steps you can take immediately to reduce stress and build more connection at work and at home. What You’ll Learn
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📩 Send Amy your questions (or a voice memo/video): amy@amyleneker.com 📚 Pre-order Cheers to Monday: The Surprisingly Simple Strategy to Lead and Live with Less Stress and More Joy (wherever books are sold), or here: amyleneker.com/book Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Less Stress, More Joy 00:52 Work Isn’t Working: Why We Have to Talk About Stress 03:21 Eustress vs. Distress: Not All Stress Is the Same 04:31 Acute Stress: The Kind We’re Wired For 05:09 Chronic Stress: When Fight-or-Flight Never Turns Off 07:40 What Chronic Stress Feels Like in the Body 08:00 The Workplace Cost of Chronic Stress 11:20 Naming It: What Are We Going to Do About Stress? 12:49 What We’re NOT Doing: Toxic Positivity 13:35 The Stockdale Paradox: Reality + Hope 15:55 Why Toxic Positivity Spreads Stress 16:49 Emotional Contagion: How Stress Spreads Through Teams 18:41 Authenticity Builds Trust 20:00 Choose Your Awkward: Have the Conversation 22:00 Connection Is the Antidote 23:55 Three Things You Can Do Today 26:00 When Work Stress Follows You Home 27:00 Follow, Share, Review + Pre-Order + Send Questions | |||
| Introducing 'Less Stress, More Joy with Amy Leneker' | 29 Dec 2025 | 00:02:08 | |
Hi friend — I’m Amy Leneker, and welcome to the Less Stress, More Joy podcast. I created this podcast because I made every burnout mistake in the book… truly, all of them. If I can help even one person avoid the absolute hell I went through, this show will be a wild success. Here’s what I know: you were meant for a joy-filled life. We spend a third of our lives at work, and you deserve to lead — and live — with less stress and more joy. In this podcast, I’ll teach you the simple three-step method that changed everything for me. We’ll talk about how to see stress differently, how to sort it so you know what to do with it, and how to solve it in a way that actually frees your time, your energy, and your life. If you’ve ever woken up on a Monday already exhausted, you’re in the right place. Tune in every Monday, and let’s break the cycle together. You can also pre-order my book Cheers to Monday everywhere books are sold. | |||
| How to Do The Next Right Thing | 16 Mar 2026 | 00:16:01 | |
The RIGHT Questions: Acting on the Next Right Thing at Work What if the biggest thing we’ve been taught about success at work is wrong? This week on Less Stress, More Joy, Amy Leneker challenges the belief that stress is simply the price we pay for achievement. Instead, she argues that stress is often a signal that something in the system needs to change. Amy shares a personal leadership story she still regrets: answering a work request just 48 hours after coming home from the hospital with her newborn daughter — a moment that led her to work through most of her maternity leave. From that experience, she developed the RIGHT Questions Framework, a simple tool leaders can use when facing stressors they care about and have the power to influence. The RIGHT Questions help leaders pause and act with intention by asking:
Amy also explores how our decisions ripple outward — shaping team trust, workplace culture, and the signals we send about what leadership actually requires. This episode is for leaders, parents, and professionals who want to break the cycle of chronic workplace stress and lead differently. Less stress. More joy. Zero toxic positivity.
Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Work Stress Lie 01:03 The Right Questions Framework 01:47 Maternity Leave Regret Story 03:59 R I G H T Steps Explained 09:37 Impact, Power Dynamics, and Wrap-Up | |||
| Why Gen Z Is So Stressed at Work (And What Leaders Are Missing) | 09 Mar 2026 | 00:25:18 | |
Why are younger generations experiencing more stress at work than everyone else? On this episode of Less Stress, More Joy, leadership coach Amy Leneker shares new insights from her national study on stress and joy at work — including why Generation Z is experiencing significantly more workplace stress than older generations. Amy explains the five types of work stress that affect employees, why sudden stress and schedule stress are hitting Gen Z the hardest, and what leaders can do to create healthier workplaces across generations. If you lead a team, work with younger employees, or simply want to understand how stress impacts today’s workforce, this episode offers practical ideas for creating workplaces with less stress, more joy, and zero toxic positivity. On this episode you'll learn: • Why Gen Z experiences more stress at work • The five types of workplace stress affecting teams • Why sudden stress has the biggest negative impact • How schedule stress and meetings increase workplace pressure • How leaders can reduce stress and remove barriers to joy Because joy at work isn’t a luxury — it’s what helps people do their best work. Chapters: 00:00 Gen Z Stress Preview 00:51 Study Setup and Generations 02:24 Two Big Takeaways 05:34 Five Types of Work Stress 07:56 Fix Sudden and Schedule Stress 13:15 Talk About Impact Without Stereotypes 17:09 Barriers to Joy and Wrap Up Pre-order: Cheers to Monday, The Surprisingly Simple Strategy to Lead & Live With Less Stress & More Joy everywhere books are sold. Questions? amy@amyleneker.com. | |||
| Why Toxic Positivity Backfires at Work (And What Actually Creates Joy) | 02 Mar 2026 | 00:15:13 | |
On this episode of Less Stress, More Joy, Amy Leneker unpacks one of the most well-intentioned — and most damaging — leadership habits in modern workplaces: toxic positivity. From “good vibes only” messaging to cringe-worthy icebreakers, forced joy often increases stress, reduces trust, and disconnects teams. Drawing from her national study, The State of Stress and Joy at Work, Amy shares powerful data on what’s actually exhausting employees — and what truly creates sustainable joy. You’ll learn:
Chapters: 00:00 Why Good Vibes Backfire 03:01 Icebreaker Cringe Story 05:13 Connection Without Weird 08:09 The Data on Exhaustion 10:49 Top Barriers and Drivers 13:40 Stop Toxic Positivity Pre-order Amy’s new book: Cheers to Monday: The Surprisingly Simple Strategy to Lead & Live With Less Stress & More Joy at amyleneker.com/book Have a question for a future episode? Email: amy@amyleneker.com Less stress. More joy. Zero toxic positivity. That’s the joyful rebellion. | |||
| The Diplomatic Hostess: Leading High-Stakes Teams Without Burnout | 23 Feb 2026 | 00:31:22 | |
How do you lead high-stakes, no-fail work without burning out yourself or your team? On this episode of Less Stress, More Joy, Amy sits down with Shelley McDermott, President of FirstRule Group, to explore leadership, stress management, boundaries at work, and building a high-retention team culture. Shelley leads complex public sector consulting projects — from retirement systems to opioid response initiatives — where the stakes are high and failure isn’t an option. Yet her team thrives. Her secret? She calls it being a “diplomatic hostess.” In this conversation, you’ll learn:
If you’re a leader, manager, public sector professional, or high achiever navigating workplace stress, this episode offers actionable tools for stress reduction, sustainable leadership, and creating a people-first culture. Because you can build a wildly successful career without sacrificing your health, your family, or your joy. Less stress. More joy. And maybe even… cheers to Monday. Order Amy's book 'Cheers to Monday' amyleneker.com/book Chapters: 00:06 Meet Shelley McDermott & the “Diplomatic Hostess” Superpower 02:41 Leading High-Stakes, No-Fail Work With More Joy 05:08 People-First Culture 08:12 Leadership Lessons 12:58 Team Stressors 19:03 Service as Success + Practical Stress Tips Shelley McDermott is the President of FirstRule Group — a small, woman-owned business consulting firm headquartered in Olympia, Washington. Everyone at FirstRule has a superpower and Shelley is known as the Diplomatic Hostess — a nod to her leadership style and her love of cooking. Shelley and her business partner Stacy Steck started the firm in 2019 because they wanted to create a different kind of company where they could "hire great people and then love and care for them" knowing that if the consultants felt supported, they would provide great service for clients. You can read more about FirstRule Group at firstrulegroup.com. Shelley and Stacy would love to connect, you can reach them at ShelleyMcDermott@firstrulegroup.com or StacySteck@firstrulegroup.com. Shelley lives in Olympia with her husband, eats at local restaurants, and deeply values being of service. | |||
| 3 Feedback Triggers That Derail Hard Conversations at Work | 16 Feb 2026 | 00:09:52 | |
On this episode of Less Stress, More Joy, leadership coach Amy Leneker explores why feedback conversations so often go wrong — not because of bad intent, but because they activate deep psychological triggers tied to trust, identity, and belonging. If you care about building high-trust teams, creating psychological safety at work, and leading with both clarity and compassion, this episode will resonate. Amy breaks down three powerful feedback triggers outlined in the book 'Thanks for the Feedback' by Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen that derail even strong leaders: • The Truth Trigger — when someone’s story about themselves collides with the story you’re telling • The Relationship Trigger — how trust (or lack of it) shapes how feedback is received • The Identity Trigger — when feedback feels like a threat to who we believe we are Drawing on research and real workplace examples, Amy shares practical tools to help leaders give honest feedback without creating shame, defensiveness, or disconnection. You’ll learn how to: • Lead difficult conversations with courage and emotional intelligence • Strengthen trust before you need it • Separate performance from identity • Build cultures rooted in accountability and psychological safety • Reduce workplace stress by normalizing clear, compassionate feedback This episode is for leaders, managers, founders, and professionals who believe that trust is the foundation of performance — and that better conversations create better cultures. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Feedback Challenges 01:18 Understanding the Truth Trigger 03:46 Navigating Relationship Triggers 07:13 Managing Identity Triggers 🔔 Subscribe for weekly leadership tools to reduce burnout, lower workplace stress, and build healthier teams. 📘 Based on Amy’s upcoming book Cheers to Monday: The Surprisingly Simple Strategy to Lead and Live with Less Stress and More Joy. | |||
| 3 Types of Effective Feedback | 09 Feb 2026 | 00:20:49 | |
Feedback is one of the most stress-inducing parts of work — for leaders and for employees. On this episode of the Less Stress, More Joy podcast, Amy Leneker breaks down why feedback so often goes wrong and how to do it in a way that actually builds trust, connection, and performance. Drawing on her experience as a certified mediator and workplace conflict specialist, Amy explains the three types of feedback every workplace needs, why the feedback sandwich doesn’t work, and how mixing feedback types can overwhelm the nervous system. You’ll also learn simple, practical ways to reduce stress during feedback conversations — whether you’re the one giving feedback or receiving it. If you want feedback conversations that are clearer, calmer, and more effective, this episode gives you tools you can use immediately.
00:00 Introduction: Why Feedback Increases Stress at Work 00:39 Why Feedback Conversations Go Wrong 02:56 The Three Types of Feedback 03:53 Appreciative Feedback: What It Is — and Why It Matters 04:47 Coaching Feedback: Helping People Get Better 05:45 Evaluative Feedback: Expectations, Gaps, and Performance 06:52 Why “No News Is Good News” Doesn’t Work 09:18 When Appreciative Feedback Backfires 11:10 Common Feedback Mistakes (Including the Feedback Sandwich) 13:30 How to Use Gratitude Without Creating Confusion 15:23 Avoiding Cognitive Overload During Feedback 18:42 Building Feedback Into Regular One-on-Ones 19:46 Final Thoughts: Reducing Stress Through Better Feedback
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| One Simple Way to Stop Stress from Spreading at Work | 02 Feb 2026 | 00:06:42 | |
Stress spreads faster than we realize — and not just in person. On this short episode of the Less Stress, More Joy podcast, Amy Leneker breaks down why stress is contagious in workplaces, how it travels through emotional pathways, and what leaders and teammates can do to stop the ripple before it impacts an entire organization. If you’ve ever walked into a meeting and felt the tension — or noticed stress spreading through emails, texts, or Slack — this episode will help you understand why that happens and how to respond differently. Amy shares research-backed insights on emotional contagion, explains why stress itself isn’t an emotion (but still spreads), and introduces one simple, practical tool you can use today — at work or at home — to reduce stress contagion and increase calm. On this episode, you’ll learn: * Why stress spreads through teams like a virus * How stress travels emotionally, even in virtual workplaces * Why “fake calm” doesn’t work — and what does * How leaders and peers influence stress levels in the room * One simple way to surface and manage stress before it escalates Chapters: 00:00 – Introduction & What You’ll Learn Amy introduces the idea of stress contagion and promises one practical tool listeners can use today—at work and outside of work. 00:45 – Why Stress Feels Contagious (Even Though It’s Not an Emotion) Amy explains why stress spreads through teams by traveling along emotional pathways tied to frustration, overwhelm, and anxiety. 01:55 – Anxiety as “The Emotion of Community” How stress and anxiety ripple through workplaces, teams, and organizations—and why humans instinctively pick up on each other’s stress. 03:05 – Stress Spreads Digitally, Too Why stress doesn’t just spread in offices, but also through emails, texts, emojis, and virtual communication. 04:05 – The Stress Ripple Effect at Work How unmanaged stress moves through teams like a virus—and why awareness is the first step to stopping it. 05:05 – Calm Is the Antidote (and It Has to Be Real) What research shows about leaders who demonstrate genuine calm, and how it reduces stress and increases engagement. 06:05 – One Tool to Stop Stress Contagion: The Stress Ruler How to use a simple 0–10 check-in to surface stress early and prevent it from spreading. 06:35 – Wrap-Up, Book Mention & Call to Action Amy closes with encouragement, invites listeners to follow and share the show, and mentions Cheers to Monday. 📚 Resources & Next Steps Explore the Stress Ruler in a previous episode of Less Stress, More Joy Learn more in Amy’s upcoming book, Cheers to Monday (available March 24) 💬 Stay Connected * If this episode resonated with you: * Follow the podcast * Share it with a colleague or friend * Leave a quick review — it’s the best way to help others find the show 📩 Questions or thoughts? Reach out at amy@amyleneker.com | |||
| From Survival Mode to Sustainable Leadership (with Dr. Lizzy Perez & Joni Goodman) | 26 Jan 2026 | 00:30:31 | |
In this deeply human and hopeful conversation, Amy Leneker welcomes her very first podcast guests to Less Stress, More Joy: Dr. Lizzy Perez and Joni Goodman—both leadership coaches, certified Dare to Lead facilitators, and champions of emotional intelligence and nervous system regulation. Together, they explore the real cost of hustle culture, the hidden stress messages many leaders inherit, and why managing stress isn’t just a wellness strategy—it’s a joy strategy. From personal stress stories and nervous system tools to hobbies, play, and the courage to slow down, this episode is an invitation to lead—and live—with less stress and more joy. Chapters: 00:00 — Meet the Guests Dr. Lizzy Perez & Joni Goodman join Amy Leneker 04:30 — One Good Thing Slowing down, nervous system trust & living with intention 09:00 — Our Stress Stories Anxiety, hustle culture & inherited stress messages 14:00 — Stress Lives in the Body Perfectionism, burnout & nervous system regulation 18:00 — Joy Is a Strategy Vulnerability, play & emotional safety 22:00 — Tools to Reset Stress Grounding, cold exposure, movement & pauses 26:00 — Hobbies & Fun Reclaiming joy, where to find the guests & closing 🌟 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
🧠 Memorable Moments & Insights
🛠️ Practical Stress-to-Joy Strategies Shared
💬 Call to Action If you’ve ever answered “I don’t know” to the question “What do you do for fun?” let this episode be your invitation to rediscover joy, play, and rest—without guilt. 👥 About the Guests Dr. Lizzy Perez Leadership coach, facilitator, and researcher with a PhD in Leadership Studies. Her work sits at the intersection of emotional intelligence, courage, perfectionism, and nervous system regulation.
Joni Goodman Chief Breakthrough Officer of JDG Advisors, certified Dare to Lead facilitator, leadership catalyst, and author of Rappel. Specializes in women’s leadership, emotional intelligence, and transformative facilitation.
📢 Stay Connected Love this episode? ✔️ Follow the show ✔️ Share it with a friend ✔️ Leave a quick review ✔️ Pre-order Amy’s book everywhere books are sold Reach out with thoughts or feedback—you just might hear them on the show. Less Stress. More Joy. Zero Toxic Positivity. | |||
| Work-Life Balance Is a Myth: 6 Leadership Questions About Stress & Joy | 19 Jan 2026 | 00:30:15 | |
What if the questions keeping you up at night as a leader are the same ones everyone else is quietly asking? On this Q&A episode of Less Stress, More Joy, Amy Leneker answers six real questions submitted by leaders across the country — all centered on stress, burnout, relationships, and how to lead with more clarity and humanity at work. From debunking the myth of work-life balance to navigating toxic positivity, overwhelming workloads, difficult bosses, and the fear of asking for help, Amy offers grounded, research-backed guidance leaders can actually use. If you’re feeling stretched thin, questioning whether your job is sustainable, or trying to lead well without burning out — this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn
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Call to Action If something in this episode sparked a question for you, Amy wants to hear it. 📩 Email: amy@amyleneker.com 📘 Pre-order Cheers to Monday — available wherever books are sold ⭐ If you enjoyed this episode, follow the show, share it with a colleague, and leave a quick review — it helps more leaders find their way to less stress and more joy. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Less Stress Q&A 01:04 Debunking Work-Life Balance 04:36 Navigating Workplace Relationships 06:57 Managing High Workload 11:13 Dealing with a Difficult Boss 16:31 The Challenge of Asking for Help 23:15 Understanding Toxic Positivity | |||
| The Stress Ruler: A Simple Tool for Less Stress and More Joy | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:10:13 | |
Stress doesn’t stay neatly at work or at home—and neither do we. On this episode of Less Stress, More Joy, Amy introduces The Stress Ruler, a simple, powerful tool you can use anywhere in your life: before a tough meeting, during a one-on-one, or even at the dinner table. The Stress Ruler asks just one question: How challenging has your stress been on a scale of 0–10? And what makes it effective is what it doesn’t include:
Amy shares real-world stories from leadership teams where stress scores revealed hidden disconnects, unspoken assumptions, and opportunities for trust, delegation, and better conversations. She also explains how leaders can use this tool without becoming therapists—and why simplicity matters more than ever in today’s workplace. On this episode, you’ll learn:
🎯 Download the Stress Ruler and try it this week. If this episode sparked a question, email Amy at amy@amyleneker.com. And if you found it helpful, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review—it helps others find their way to less stress and more joy. 📘 Pre-order Amy’s new book, Cheers to Monday, wherever books are sold. Our mission: Less stress. More joy. Zero toxic positivity. That’s the joyful rebellion—and you’re part of it. Chapters: 00:00 – Workplace Stress & Life Stress Are Connected How stress at work affects stress at home (and vice versa) 00:33 – A Stress Management Tool for Work and Life One simple framework you can use anywhere 00:54 – What Is the Stress Ruler? A simple stress assessment tool for leaders and teams 01:29 – How to Measure Stress Without Judgment Why “challenging” works better than “bothersome” 01:58 – Why You Shouldn’t Separate Work Stress and Life Stress Understanding whole-person stress 02:21 – Why Most Stress Check-Ins Don’t Work How time-based stress questions miss the real issue 03:00 – Leadership Mistakes That Increase Team Stress A mediator’s perspective on missed signals 03:45 – How Leaders Should Use Stress Scores A better way to talk about stress at work 04:08 – How to Check Your Stress Before Hard Conversations Emotional awareness and self-regulation at work 04:56 – How Teams Can Track Stress Over Time Using stress levels to prevent burnout 05:20 – Using Stress in One-on-One Meetings Supporting employees without becoming their therapist 06:00 – When Leaders Underestimate Their Stress Impact How leader stress affects team performance 06:55 – When Leaders Hide Stress From Their Team Why over-functioning creates mistrust 08:21 – Why Talking About Stress Is Easier With Numbers Psychological safety and stress conversations 08:43 – How to Spot Burnout Warning Signs Recognizing stress spikes and outliers 09:02 – Teaching Kids Emotional Awareness With Stress Tools Using the Stress Ruler at home 09:29 – Stress, Leadership, and the Joyful Rebellion Less stress. More joy. Zero toxic positivity. | |||
| Asking for Help: Why It’s Hard and How to Do It Better | 04 May 2026 | 00:33:31 | |
When was the last time you asked for help? Not offered it. Not powered through on your own. But actually paused and said, “I need support.” On this episode, Amy explores why asking for help feels so difficult—even for high-performing, self-aware leaders—and what the research says about how to do it more effectively. You’ll learn:
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Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Less Stress 00:41 Why Asking Feels Hard 02:25 Unstressing Matrix Basics 07:03 Stories and Research 11:06 Autonomous vs Dependent 14:56 HELP Framework Steps 25:34 Build a Help Culture 30:29 Key Takeaways and Goodbye This episode is for anyone interested in asking for help, how to ask for help, why asking for help is hard, leadership skills, workplace communication, psychological safety, vulnerability at work, stress management, burnout prevention, emotional intelligence, workplace stress, leadership development, productivity at work, teamwork and collaboration, asking for support, help seeking behavior, autonomous help seeking, dependent help seeking, build trust at work, professional growth, career development, workplace culture, manager training, team communication, overcoming fear of judgment, confidence at work, mental health at work, connection and community, reduce stress at work, less stress more joy, unstressing method, help framework, leadership coaching, personal development, or work life balance. | |||
| Managing Rejection Without Losing Momentum | 27 Apr 2026 | 00:17:02 | |
Comparison doesn’t just “steal joy”—it actively increases stress and keeps you stuck. On this episode, Amy shares a personal story of rejection (including her latest pitch to Harvard Business Review) and the simple, practical method she’s using to move through comparison and rejection without spiraling. If you’ve ever felt behind, not good enough, or stuck measuring yourself against others—this episode gives you a way out. Chapters 00:00 Comparison Steals Joy 00:44 Harvard Rejection Story 03:56 Step One Self Compassion 07:23 Step Two Celebrate Others 12:53 Try It and Wrap Up What You’ll Learn
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| You're Not the Problem. Work Is. | 20 Apr 2026 | 00:19:18 | |
Amy's new book, national bestseller 'Cheers to Monday' was selected by the The Next Big Idea Club as one of their must reads, and they invited Amy on their podcast to talk about her big takeaways from the book. This week's episode of 'Less Stress, More Joy' is a feed drop of Amy's episode on 'The Next Big Idea Club Daily' podcast. Amy shares a practical, research-backed framework to help you rethink stress, redesign your work, and create space for more joy. You’ll learn:
If you’re a leader, manager, or high performer feeling stretched too thin, this episode will help you shift from survival mode to sustainable success. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome and Big News 00:58 Why Mondays Feel Heavy 02:52 Work Is Broken 05:43 Stress Stories 09:20 The Stress Ruler 12:47 Types of Stress and How to Un-Stress 18:26 Wrap Up and Next Steps Share this episode with anyone interested in stress awareness month, leadership coaching for women, work stress, leadership coaching, burnout recovery, workplace stress, stress management, employee wellbeing, leadership development, productivity, mental health at work, burnout prevention, workplace culture, stress and performance, joy at work, Cheers to Monday, or nonfiction authors. Order 'Cheers to Monday' here: https://www.amyleneker.com/book | |||
| How Your Values Shape Stress, Conflict, and Joy at Work | 13 Apr 2026 | 00:29:18 | |
What if your stress at work isn’t just about your workload—but a misalignment with your values? On this episode of Less Stress, More Joy, Amy Leneker explores how identifying and aligning with your core values can transform how you experience stress, conflict, and joy at work. Drawing from leadership coaching, workplace mediation experience, and research featured in her bestselling book Cheers to Monday, Amy shares a practical framework to help leaders and teams reduce stress without pretending it disappears. You’ll learn why stress and joy are not opposites, how high stress pulls you out of your values, and how reconnecting with those values can improve decision-making, workplace relationships, and overall well-being. This episode is especially valuable for leaders, managers, and professionals navigating workplace conflict, burnout, and team dynamics. Through real-world examples—including leadership coaching insights and conflict mediation cases—you’ll see how values like collaboration, autonomy, integrity, and honesty shape team culture and communication. Amy also dives into:
Whether you're a leader, team member, or entrepreneur, this episode will help you lead with clarity, reduce stress, and create more joy—without toxic positivity. 🎧 Perfect for: leadership coaching for women, workplace conflict resolution, stress management at work, burnout recovery, emotional intelligence, team leadership, organizational culture, values-based leadership, and personal development. Chapters: 00:00 Why Values Matter 02:34 Joy and Stress Aren’t Opposites 05:11 Find Your Top Values 07:30 Values in Workplace Conflict 12:05 When Values Shift 16:43 Include Yourself in Values 21:20 Connection and Hope at Work | |||
| The Un-Stressing Method: 3 Steps to Less Stress and More Joy | 30 Mar 2026 | 00:30:34 | |
Stress is not just a personal problem — and joy is not just a nice-to-have. On this episode, recorded live during the "Cheers to Monday" book launch, Amy Leneker shares the Un-Stressing Method, a simple but powerful framework for understanding stress, responding with compassion, and creating more joy at work and in life. Drawing from national research on stress and joy in the American workforce, Amy walks through the five types of work stress, the three drivers of joy, and the barriers that get in the way. She also explains how to use the Un-Stressing Matrix to move from overwhelm to action, why compassion is the highest level of connection, and how one unforgettable story from her 13th birthday shows what compassion in action really looks like. If you’ve been feeling overloaded, disconnected, or stuck, this episode offers a practical way forward. On this episode, Amy covers:
Stress thrives in isolation, and relief is gonna come through connection. Chapters 00:00 One Good Thing 01:07 Stress and Joy Research 02:06 Step One See Stress 05:40 Step Two Sort Stress 13:57 Step Three Solve It 24:37 Compassion Connection Ladder 26:34 Birthday Story and Wrap | |||
| Just Because You Can Doesn't Mean You Should | 11 May 2026 | 00:31:08 | |
What if one of the biggest sources of stress at work is everything you keep fixing that was never yours to carry? On this episode of Less Stress, More Joy, Amy Leneker explores Quadrant 4 of the Un-Stressing Matrix: stressors that are within your control, but not actually important for you to solve. Through a personal story about boundaries, leadership, and people-pleasing, Amy unpacks why “just because you can” doesn’t always mean you should. On this podcast for leaders navigating stress and burnout at work, Amy also shares 6 key benefits of learning to accept without fixing:
Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Less Stress 00:44 Unstressing Method Recap 01:52 Quadrant Four Explained 02:58 Sharpie Toddler Metaphor 04:30 Boundary Break Story 11:08 People Pleasing Caveat 14:17 Six Benefits of Letting Go 23:54 Practical Steps and Wrap Up You’ll walk away with practical ways to recognize unhealthy fixing patterns, protect your energy, and create healthier boundaries at work and in life. If this episode resonates with you, follow the show and share it with someone who needs a little less stress and a little more joy this week. Learn more: amyleneker.com #StressAtWork #Leadership #Burnout #PeoplePleasing #WorkplaceStress #AmyLeneker #LessStressMoreJoy #LeadershipDevelopment #Boundaries #MentalHealthAtWork | |||