Lead Together – Details, episodes & analysis

In this episode of Lead Together, we sit down with Scottie Parker, former athletic trainer with the Seattle Seahawks, Portland Trail Blazers, and Atlanta Hawks, to unpack what elite sports taught him about leadership, identity, and calling.

You’ll learn:

• Why his “dream job” nearly crushed him
• What he learned about the disconnect between stated values and lived reality
• How Scottie rebuilt his leadership on faith, relationships, and clarity

This episode is for every high-achieving Christian professional who’s tired of leading from a place of pressure instead of presence.

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In this episode of Lead Together, filmmaker and faith-driven creative Anders Lindwall shares how storytelling can transform your grind into purpose. Anders is the director of Green and Gold, starring Craig T. Nelson, which premiered nationally and is now streaming on Amazon Prime and Angel Studios.

You’ll learn:

• Why every leader needs a “cathedral vision”
• The story that reframes ditch-digging as holy work
• How to cast vision that fuels both your team and your family

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In this episode, Nick and Kim Bogardus dive into the leadership skill of "extraction" - the art of drawing out deeper insights through reflection and thoughtful questioning. Whether you're leading a team at work or guiding your family at home, the ability to move beyond surface-level conversations is crucial for growth and alignment. Learn practical ways to create rhythms of reflection, ask better questions, and build feedback loops that transform both your professional and personal life. Discover why the pause between experiences might be your most powerful leadership tool.

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In this "Situational Awareness" episode of Lead Together, hosts Nick and Kim Bogardus tackle three timely topics that impact how we live and lead:

• The problem with lumping marriage and cohabitation together in research - and why the distinction matters for societal wellbeing
• Why "place" matters - exploring how physical locations, communities, and shared experiences shape us through the lens of recent California fires
• Eight essential readiness checks before giving kids phones - practical guidance for parents navigating technology boundaries

Through personal stories and current research, Nick and Kim offer insights to help listeners build stronger families and communities while navigating modern challenges. Part of Season 3: "Lead Where You Are," focused on practical skills for everyday leaders.

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Struggling with miscommunications at work or home? Feeling like your team or family members don't feel heard? In this episode of Lead Together, hosts Nick and Kim Bogardus tackle two game-changing communication skills that can transform your relationships and leadership effectiveness:

• "Deblurring" - Learn how to eliminate costly misunderstandings by turning vague statements into clear expectations
• Validation - Master the art of making others feel truly heard while maintaining progress toward goals

Through real-world examples from both workplace and family settings, Nick and Kim demonstrate how these practical skills can reduce stress, prevent conflicts, and build deeper trust. Whether you're managing a team or building stronger family relationships, you'll learn specific strategies for clearer communication and meaningful connection. This episode is part of Season 3: "Lead Where You Are," focused on practical skills for everyday leaders.

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In this kickoff to Season 3 of Lead Together, Nick and Kim explore why the most impactful leadership skills aren't grand strategies or secret formulas, but rather small, fundamental behaviors that can be learned and applied both at work and at home. 

Drawing from the Leader Lab book and their 17 years of marriage and leadership experience, they unpack two essential skills: curious questioning and playback. These foundational practices help leaders build trust, gain clarity faster, and develop stronger relationships in all spheres of life. 

Whether you're leading a team at work or guiding your family at home, this episode provides practical tools for becoming a more effective leader through intentional communication. Nick and Kim share personal examples, common mistakes to avoid, and actionable tips for implementing these skills in your daily interactions.

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As the year winds down, how can Christian couples leading at home and work take stock of their year and set a purposeful course for the next? In this episode, we:

• Discuss real-life challenges and growth moments from our own experiences this year.
• Share our top end-of-year reflection questions to strengthen your marriage, faith, and leadership.
• Give you a sneak peek of whats coming in Season 3
• Offer practical insights on setting goals for the future.

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Are you applying the right solutions to your leadership challenges? In this episode, Nick and Kim Bogardus break down the crucial difference between technical and adaptive change. Learn how to identify which approach you need in various situations, from streamlining work processes to navigating family dynamics. Discover practical tips for implementing effective change and fostering growth in all areas of your life. Whether you're a busy professional, a parent, or both, this episode will equip you with valuable insights to lead more effectively at work and home.

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In this special episode of the Lead Together Podcast, Nick and Kim Bogardus are interviewed by Joe Crabb, outreach pastor at Woodside, for a thought-provoking discussion on the importance of place and transitions in life. Drawing from their personal experiences of moving from Mongolia to Seattle to California to Michigan, they explore how geography, culture, and community shape us and our families. The conversation delves into the theology of place, the challenges of navigating change, and practical ways to engage meaningfully with our surroundings. Whether you're facing a big move or simply seeking to be more present where you are, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for making the most of your current place and season.

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In this episode of Lead Together, Nick and Kim discuss seven crucial aspects of effective church leadership often overlooked. From the importance of leadership development and accountability to avoiding burnout and valuing women in ministry, they offer practical wisdom for pastors and church leaders. Whether you're in ministry or simply interested in church dynamics, this episode provides valuable insights on creating healthier, more impactful churches. 

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