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Autism Fitness Blueprint: A New Approach to Autism Exercise with Eric Chessen | Season 2 Episode 25
In this powerful episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse welcomes Eric Chessen, founder of Autism Fitness, to explore the long-term importance of physical health for autistic individuals.
Eric shares his journey from personal trainer to autism fitness pioneer, offering insights into motivation, movement planning, and individualized training for children and adults on the spectrum.
With practical advice, personal stories, and thoughtful strategies, this episode empowers dads to prioritize their child's physical health—regardless of age or verbal ability. From behavior-specific praise to handling meltdowns in the gym, Eric delivers tools and encouragement for every autism dad.
TOPICS:
Why fitness is a lifelong priority for children and adults with autism
How behavior science and fitness training intersect in Autism Fitness
Strategies for motivation, including choice and behavior-specific praise
Adapting exercise programs to individual needs and communication styles
The importance of consistency, reinforcement, and celebrating small wins
Managing meltdowns and behavior issues in fitness sessions
How fitness translates into confidence and independence over time
"There’s no such thing as an autism-specific exercise—it’s all about the implementation."
"Choice and behavior-specific praise
are my biggest coaching go-tos."
"Fitness is an investment—compound interest over time builds capability and confidence."
"I’ve seen athletes go from unable to squat to dominating ninja courses."
"Even if they can’t communicate it, they often appreciate the structure and movement."
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
In this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse welcomes fellow autism dad Mark Kendall for a heartfelt conversation about navigating public life with children on the autism spectrum.
Drawing from personal experiences with his 22-year-old nonverbal daughter, Mark Kendall opens up about the emotional and logistical challenges dads face—from handling staring strangers to managing safety in unpredictable situations.
Together, they share practical tips, honest stories, and a strong message of encouragement: you can go out, you can be confident, and you are your child’s best advocate. Whether you’re wrestling with your first family outing or planning a vacation with accommodations, this episode offers relatable support and empowering advice for autism dads everywhere.
TOPICS
The role of autism dads as public advocates and "ambassadors"
Tips for preparing outings with autistic children, including safety bags and routines
How public expectations change as autistic kids become adults
Strategies for handling unwanted attention and educating others
Navigating travel, vacations, and community inclusion with autistic children
Safety protocols, water risks, and long-term planning
Emotional insights on adapting to autism parenting over time
“You didn’t sign up to be an ambassador for autism—but you are one.”
“Dads need to feel confident bringing their kids into public spaces.”
“Everybody has their time limits—neurotypical or not.”
“Sometimes pulling the ripcord is the best decision for everyone.”
“If you're not prepared, you’re not protecting—so have a plan.”
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
In this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Mark Olson, founder of LTO Ventures, to tackle one of the biggest concerns for autism dads: What happens when we’re gone?
Mark shares his journey as a father to two daughters with developmental disabilities, his struggles navigating long-term care options, and how he turned a personal challenge into a mission—building sustainable, inclusive communities for individuals with autism and other disabilities.
From financial planning to policy advocacy, Mark offers crucial insights into securing a future for our children beyond our lifetimes. Whether you're a parent in the trenches or looking for actionable advice, this episode is packed with wisdom, resources, and inspiration.
TOPICS COVERED
The critical question: What happens to our children when we’re gone?
Mark Olson’s journey as an autism dad and founder of LTO Ventures
The financial realities of long-term care and why planning must start early
The challenges of finding housing and support for autistic adults
How parents can take action and build autism-friendly communities
Advocacy efforts for disability rights and policy changes
"There are 50,000 kids turning into autistic adults every year. Where are they going to go?" - Mark Olson
"Every autism parent asks the same question: What happens after I’m gone? I decided to stop asking and start solving." - Mark Olson
"You need to start planning for your child’s future when they’re five—not when they’re 50. The financial reality is, you can’t afford to wait." - Mark Olson
"I woke up at 3 AM in a cold sweat and thought—what kind of place would my daughter actually want to live? That’s how LTO Ventures started." - Mark Olson
"Too many parents feel alone in this. The truth is, there’s a whole community ready to help—you just have to reach out." - Mark Olson
DISCLAIMER
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
In this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Jacob "Cheech" Cook, a dedicated father raising two sons—one autistic and one neurotypical.
Together, they dive into the unpredictable transitions that come with autism, from evolving communication challenges to sensory preferences and food aversions. Jacob shares his personal journey of recognizing the signs, navigating diagnosis, and learning how to adapt as his son, Beau, grows.
With humor, honesty, and real-life experiences, Mark and Jacob discuss everything from the importance of early diagnosis to the role of ABA therapy, as well as the unique sibling dynamic between Beau and his older brother.
They also touch on self-care for dads, the power of patience, and the surprising ways autistic children perceive the world. If you’re in the trenches of autism parenting, this episode offers both reassurance and practical insights.
TOPICS COVERED:
Recognizing early autism signs & the journey to diagnosis
How autism behaviors evolve over time (sensory habits, communication, food preferences)
The unique sibling relationship between a neurotypical and autistic child
Strategies for handling self-harm, meltdowns, and communication frustration
The importance of self-care for autism dads and finding outlets like music, exercise, and hobbies
How exposure to autism helps build empathy and understanding in siblings and the broader community
QUOTES:
"If there was a toy with a tag on it, he wouldn't play with the actual toy. He would flap the tag back and forth, back and forth." – Jacob Cook
"He knows where we're at in town—if we pull up to the rec center, he knows right away. He’s all stoked, hands flapping, making a bunch of noise." – Jacob Cook
"He’s the only kid I have that will drive for four hours and not even make a peep." – Jacob Cook
"He used to eat everything—ramen, spaghetti, rice, cheeseburgers—and now I’m like, ‘Oh no, what happened?’" – Jacob Cook
"If you're mad, they’re gonna probably be mad too. They feed off your energy." – Jacob Cook
DISCLAIMER:
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
Fatherhood is a journey—but raising a child on the autism spectrum adds layers of complexity, resilience, and growth that few understand. In this episode of Dads in Autismland, Mark de Grasse sits down with Patrick Hurley, a dedicated father balancing life with both a neurotypical and autistic son.
Patrick shares his raw and unfiltered experience—from the early signs of autism and the diagnosis process to navigating therapy, school transitions, and the emotional toll of meltdowns. He reflects on how shifting his mindset—from "fixing" his child to adapting his own approach—made all the difference.
This episode is for fathers who seek practical strategies, honest conversations, and a sense of solidarity in the autism parenting journey. Whether you're managing therapy decisions, advocating in the school system, or balancing your marriage and career with special needs parenting, this conversation offers insight, support, and real-world wisdom.
TOPICS COVERED
The emotional journey of an autism dad: From diagnosis to acceptance
How therapy, structure, & school choices shape progress
Balancing attention between neurotypical & autistic children
The reality of meltdowns and how to manage them effectively
Why self-care is not a luxury, but a necessity for autism dads
QUOTES
"I spent many years thinking there was something I could do to fix him. It took a long time for me to accept that he doesn’t need to be fixed—I needed to fix my approach toward him."
"At the end of the day, they just didn’t have the resources. And they admitted that. They said, ‘We can’t provide him the level of support he needs.’ That was a hard pill to swallow as a father."
"My son knows he has autism, but I don’t think he sees himself as different. He just sees himself as Patrick. And I think there’s something really powerful in that."
DISCLAIMER
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
In this heartfelt episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Scott Bisbee, a father of four, navigating the unique challenges of raising two children on the autism spectrum.
Scott opens up about his son Alex’s pathological demand avoidance (PDA), food struggles, and the unexpected journey of discovering his diagnosis during the pandemic. He also shares insights into supporting his younger son, who is also showing signs of autism, while balancing the needs of his neurotypical children.
Mark and Scott discuss coping strategies, sensory-friendly home adjustments, and the emotional toll on parents, including the impact on mental health and marriage.
From building a sensory room to understanding the ever-changing food preferences of autistic kids, Scott shares the raw realities of parenting with honesty, humor, and wisdom. Tune in for an authentic, unfiltered look at what it truly means to be a dad in Autismland.
TOPICS
Discovering Autism at Home – How Scott first recognized Alex’s signs during the pandemic
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – What it is and how it impacts daily life
Sensory Rooms & Special Diets – Practical adaptations for a smoother routine
Mental Health for Autism Dads – Why self-care is a must, not a luxury
Balancing Neurodiverse & Neurotypical Kids – Avoiding the appearance of favoritism
The Struggles of Feeding an Autistic Child – Managing avoidant restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID)
Finding Support & Respite – Why community matters for fathers of autistic kids
QUOTES "I used to push myself nonstop—work, kids, everything—until I finally admitted: My mental health is more important than constantly grinding."
"We fought the healthcare system for support, but they act like autism is just kids who don’t talk. They don’t get that it’s so much more than that."
"My advice? Just do your best. Your other kids know you’re trying, even when it feels like you’re not doing enough."
DISCLAIMER Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
On this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse dives deep into the critical role of self-development for fathers raising children on the autism spectrum.
As the lifelong caregiver of his 12-year-old son Damien—who is nonverbal and requires full-time care—Mark shares his journey of acceptance, physical transformation, and mental resilience.
He explores how fitness, faith, and self-care are not just personal luxuries but essential tools for sustaining a lifetime of caregiving.
From unconventional training methods to breathwork, meditation, and therapy, Mark reveals the strategies that have helped him prepare for the long road ahead.
Whether you’re struggling with burnout, feeling isolated, or simply looking for practical ways to stay strong for your family, this episode is packed with insights and encouragement to help you thrive—not just survive—as an autism dad.
TOPICS COVERED - Accepting the reality of lifelong caregiving for a child with severe autism - Why self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential for long-term resilience - Functional fitness: unconventional training for real-life strength - Diet and inflammation: how nutrition impacts energy and well-being - The power of faith, therapy, and meditation in navigating fatherhood - Finding support through community, church, and self-improvement - How to start small: one self-development habit at a time
QUOTES "Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s a requirement if you’re going to take care of your family for the long haul." "I don’t train to look good—I train to be strong enough to care for my son, no matter how big he gets." "It doesn’t matter which self-improvement habit you start with—just pick one and begin."
DISCLAIMER Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
Ever felt like you were handed a puzzle with no picture on the box?
In this unfiltered episode of Dads in Autismland, Corey Michael opens up about the rollercoaster of raising a neurodiverse family. With a five-year-old daughter on the spectrum, a wife with ADHD, and his own journey with Tourette’s, Corey knows firsthand what it’s like to piece together a life that doesn’t fit the traditional mold.
From recognizing Evie’s early autism signs to navigating the overwhelming world of therapies, school systems, and public perceptions, Corey shares what it's really like to parent with intention—while also processing his own childhood experiences. We tackle the emotional weight of diagnosis, the trial-and-error of finding what works, and the faith that keeps him grounded through it all.
This isn’t about fixing our kids—it’s about understanding them. It’s about embracing neurodiversity as a different brain style, not a disorder. And it’s about having the conversations most dads never get to have.
Listen now to hear how one father is turning uncertainty into empowerment, one day at a time.
TOPICS COVERED: - Recognizing early autism signs in Evie and the journey to diagnosis - How a neurodiverse family adapts and supports one another - The role of faith in accepting and embracing neurodiversity - Navigating ABA therapy, school accommodations, and daily challenges - Managing emotions as a father and supporting a highly empathetic child - How routines and structured transitions make a difference in parenting
GUEST LINKS: Corey Michael - https://www.linkedin.com/in/thecoreymichael/
In this solo episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse takes on a frustrating but all-too-common topic—how to handle trolls, critics, and public judgment as an autism dad.
Whether online or in person, autism parents frequently face uninformed, judgmental, or outright cruel comments about their parenting choices.
He breaks down the three types of trolls, explores why people react negatively to autism behaviors, and offers practical strategies for managing these encounters with calm, confidence, and perspective.
Most importantly, he encourages autism dads to stand strong, support each other, and never let public opinion dictate their child’s experiences.
TOPICS
Understanding Trolls: The three types—uninformed, judgmental, and cruel
Public Judgment vs. Private Strength: Why autism parents face criticism
Strategies for Handling Negativity: Ignoring, educating, or engaging?
Personal Stories: Dealing with restaurant stares, airplane complaints, and online attacks
Why Taking Your Child Out in Public Matters: Visibility, acceptance, and normalizing autism
QUOTE
"If you're dealing with trolls, sorry about that. But thank you for keeping your cool. It's the best for your family, and it's the best for your mental health, too." - Mark de Grasse
DISCLAIMER
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
Whether you're navigating the autism journey yourself or simply seeking insight into fatherhood's deeper moments, House's blend of vulnerability and quiet strength offers wisdom that resonates. His candid reflections and hard-earned perspective make this episode one worth your time.
Between exploring stem cell therapy and running a tight ship at home, House opens up about the daily plays and audibles of autism parenting. The former defensive back brings his A-game to breaking down sibling dynamics, celebrating progress, and turning setbacks into comebacks.
Whether you're walking a similar path or just curious to hear an unfiltered story of fatherhood, House's reflections on persistence, growth, and unexpected joys make this conversation uniquely compelling. He shares his reality without polish or pretense—just honest words from one dad to another.
TOPICS
Sibling Struggles & Breakthroughs – The complex relationship between his twin boys and the unexpected moments of connection.
Fatherhood & Resilience – How Davon balances raising twins with autism while recovering from surgery.
Exploring Stem Cell Therapy for Autism – Davon’s research, decision, and experience traveling to Mexico for treatment.
The Role of Routine & Structure – How disruption impacts autistic children and the strategies that help stabilize them.
The Emotional Toll & Rewards of Autism Parenting – Learning to embrace the journey and celebrate the small victories.
GUEST LINKS Davon House – https://www.instagram.com/davonhouse31/?hl=en
In this powerful episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse takes on a difficult but necessary topic—the use of the R-word and why it will never be acceptable. Mark dives into the word’s history, its dehumanizing impact on the autism community, and how language shapes public perceptions of disability.
Drawing from personal experience and historical context, he explores the dangers of normalizing offensive language and how it has been used to justify discrimination.
This episode isn’t just about calling out harmful language—it’s about education, advocacy, and protecting the dignity of autistic individuals and their families. Mark also shares practical ways to address the use of the R-word in everyday conversations, encouraging dads to stand up for their children with confidence and compassion.
If you've ever wondered how to respond when someone uses the term, this episode is a must-listen.
TOPICS
The historical origins of the R-word and why it became offensive
The real-world impact of dehumanizing language on the autism community
How harmful language has historically led to discrimination and worse
The importance of speaking up when you hear the R-word used
Practical ways to educate others and advocate for respectful language
The role of inclusion in shaping a better future for autistic individuals
QUOTE “It doesn’t just dehumanize and devalue the autistic community—it also devalues everybody who supports the autistic community.” - Mark de Grasse
DISCLAIMER Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
In this emotional and eye-opening episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Alfred Samson, a dedicated father navigating the complexities of raising his autistic daughter, Sophie. Alfred shares the raw and deeply personal journey of discovering her condition—marked by seizures, an epilepsy diagnosis, and a potential Harvard medical study that could provide crucial insights into her condition.
Through candid storytelling, Alfred discusses the emotional struggles, the toll on marriage, and the resilience required to accept and embrace an unexpected parenting journey. From early signs of autism to learning to grieve the life he once imagined, he offers powerful advice on coping mechanisms, therapy, and the importance of support systems. Whether you’re a dad feeling overwhelmed or someone seeking inspiration, this episode is a must-listen.
TOPICS COVERED ✔️ Early Signs & Diagnosis – The unexpected medical episodes that led to Sophie’s autism & epilepsy diagnosis ✔️ The Emotional Rollercoaster – How Alfred struggled with resentment, exhaustion, and eventually found peace ✔️ Seeking Help – The power of therapy, faith, and support systems in navigating the challenges of special needs parenting ✔️ The Impact on Marriage – How Alfred and his wife strengthened their bond despite the hardships ✔️ Choosing to Have Another Child – The thought process and fears behind expanding their family ✔️ Words of Wisdom for Dads – The importance of grieving, adapting, and embracing the unique journey of raising a neurodivergent child
QUOTE “You have to grieve the life you thought you’d have and learn to love the life you’ve been given.” – Alfred Samson
DISCLAIMER: Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
In this heartfelt episode of Dads In Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Allan Young, founder of Autism Acres, a purpose-built sanctuary for children with autism and other special needs.
Allan shares his powerful journey from military service to creating a five-acre haven in Rochester, Washington for families like his own—including his three sons on the spectrum and a foster daughter with Down syndrome.
Listeners will learn about the hands-on life skills training Allan offers at home, the carefully designed features of Autism Acres (from elopement-safe fencing to sensory swings), and how he and his wife are fostering a safe, welcoming community grounded in compassion and faith. It’s an inspiring story of resilience, resourcefulness, and redefining support for families navigating autism.
TOPICS
The origins and mission of Autism Acres in Washington
Parenting multiple children on the autism spectrum and one with Down syndrome
Designing a safe, sensory-friendly environment for children with special needs
Transitioning from military life to full-time caregiving and homeschooling
Building community through faith-based service without preaching
Personal wellness and stress management strategies for autism dads
The importance of structured flexibility in daily routines
“My son now has friends—it’s awesome. We needed this just as much as the families we’re trying to help.”
“We designed everything at Autism Acres with safety in mind—because eloping isn’t just a possibility, it’s a reality for a lot of us.”
“Caretaking is hard. Being alone in the house is hard. Coming home from work is hard. That’s why me and my wife make sure each other gets a break.”
“We didn’t want a structure so rigid it became a problem—we wanted routines that help our kids feel secure without trapping them in them.”
“We’re not a Christian organization—we’re an organization run by Christians. We’re not here to preach, we’re here to serve.”
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
In this heartfelt episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse takes listeners on a personal journey exploring the unexpected blessings and silver linings that come with raising a child on the autism spectrum.
Drawing from his experience as a father to Damien (12, severe nonverbal autism) and Declan (11, neurotypical), Mark offers a refreshingly honest perspective on the different paths of fatherhood.
Through candid reflection and genuine vulnerability, he challenges the narrative that autism parenting is solely about challenges, revealing the profound ways his son has transformed his life for the better.
TOPICS
The Freedom from Social Expectations: How autism parenting can liberate both parent and child from societal pressures
Celebrating Different Victories: Finding joy in unconventional milestones, from pointing to keeping a jacket on
Living Authentically: Learning from children who experience life without masks or pretense
Personal Growth Through Parenting: How having an autistic child motivated positive life changes
The Power of Present Moment: Embracing a different perspective on time and achievement
QUOTE:
"My son loves me. That's the biggest thing I could ever want or wish for in life. And I have that every day, so I'm doing good." -Mark de Grasse
Note: Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
In this heartfelt episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Dennis Procopio, a father navigating the complexities of raising his 14-year-old son, Bennett, who lives with moderate-to-severe autism and achondroplasia dwarfism. Dennis shares raw, unfiltered insights into his parenting journey, from grappling with initial feelings of frustration and loss to embracing the unique bond he has with his son.
The conversation dives into the challenges of raising a child with additional needs, including navigating aggressive behaviors, advocating for school support, and fostering resilience through humor and understanding. Dennis also discusses how his personal growth, martial arts training, and empathy have helped him become the dad Bennett needs. Filled with wisdom, humor, and practical advice, this episode is a must-listen for any parent learning to thrive in the unexpected.
TOPICS
Parenting Through a Triple Diagnosis: Autism, dwarfism, and unique challenges
Emotional Vulnerability: Overcoming societal expectations of fatherhood
Advocacy in Schools: Fighting for special needs rights and education
Martial Arts & Parenting: How Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu helps manage behavior safely
The Father’s Role: Providing strength, humor, and love in difficult moments
GUEST LINKS
Dennis Procopio: https://www.manuplifecoaching.com/
When doctors suggested institutionalizing his 6-month-old son, Steve Levine faced a defining moment in fatherhood. Now, 35 years later, he shares how rejecting that advice led to an extraordinary journey of discovery, determination, and joy. His son Nathan - once considered "too disabled" for regular school - has become an award-winning employee at a major Austin hotel, challenging everything society assumes about severe autism.
But this isn't just a story about autism success. It's about a father who refused to treat his autistic son differently from his other children, who discovered that being "just a dad" was exactly what all his kids needed. Through hilarious stories of dumpster diving for precious toys, heartwarming moments at live music venues, and the daily symphony of door alarms and safety measures, Steve reveals how fatherhood transcends diagnosis.
In this episode, you'll discover:
How to identify and build on your child's natural interests and strengths
Creative approaches to workplace success beyond traditional "disability jobs"
Practical home adaptations that actually work
Why being "just a dad" is exactly what our kids need
💡 Share Your Story: Comment below with your experience finding meaningful work opportunities for your autistic child. Your story matters!
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
Are you wondering if your child might be on the autism spectrum? One dad's powerful journey of discovery could help you find answers sooner. Mark de Grasse describes the early years of his autism journey with his son Damien.
In this episode, you'll discover: - Critical early signs of autism that are often overlooked - How to navigate the diagnosis process with confidence - Game-changing routines that actually work - Expert-approved therapy options that make a difference
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🔍 Resources Mentioned: Central Texas Autism Center Fortis Therapy (Dripping Springs) River Kids Therapy
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ℹ️ Note: Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
In this heartfelt debut episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse introduces listeners to the mission behind the podcast: creating a supportive space for fathers raising children on the autism spectrum. Sharing personal stories about his son Damien, who is severely autistic and nonverbal, Mark candidly reflects on the challenges and triumphs of navigating fatherhood in Autismland.
From traveling with a child who craves sensory input to the importance of community understanding, Mark provides relatable anecdotes and practical advice. He discusses the transformative journey of parenting a child with autism, touching on themes of resilience, empathy, and personal growth. Mark’s openness about his own emotional evolution and his goal to empower other dads creates a warm, inclusive environment.
Tune in for honest conversations, shared experiences, and insights to help fathers embrace their unique journey in Autismland.
TOPICS
Mark’s journey as a father to a nonverbal, severely autistic son.
Challenges and strategies for traveling with a child with sensory needs.
Building patience, empathy, and personal growth through fatherhood.
The societal pressures and misconceptions fathers of autistic children face.
The importance of fostering connection and community among autism dads.
Setting realistic expectations and embracing the highs and lows of autism parenting.
A preview of future episodes featuring other autism dads and their stories.
In this heartfelt episode of Dads In Autismland, host Mark de Grasse welcomes guest Matt Anderton, father of three-year-old Beckett, who was diagnosed with autism at just 13 months old.
Matt shares the emotional and practical aspects of their early diagnosis journey, the critical role nutrition and therapy have played, and his life-altering decision to leave a demanding job to become a full-time caregiver.
From the challenges of sleep deprivation to the triumph of Beckett saying his ABCs again, Matt's story is a testament to dedication, adaptability, and the power of community. This candid conversation offers insight, empathy, and encouragement for every father navigating life on the autism spectrum.
TOPICS:
The impact of early autism diagnosis and the rapid shift in developmental behavior
How functional nutrition and supplements supported Beckett’s therapy progress
The life-changing decision to leave a full-time job for full-time caregiving
The daily realities of meltdowns, dietary sensitivities, and sleep disruption
Tools and tips for sensory integration and public acclimation
Building a supportive care network and finding the right professionals
The emotional and relational toll — and strength — found in autism parenting
GUEST LINKS:
Spencer Dupre, Functional Medicine Practitioner: https://www.empowerchirotx.com/team
"We got two choices: put him on a prescription for life, or figure this out."
"It was like he wasn’t there—he went from talking to total silence. We thought he went deaf."
"I left my 70-hour-a-week job to be a full-time caregiver. We changed our whole life for our son."
"Sometimes you feel alone, and then someone sponsors your son for a speech camp, and you just break down."
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
In this powerful episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse welcomes Graeme Wright—a father, entrepreneur, and recovery coach—who shares an inspiring, faith-driven journey through adoption, autism, addiction, and personal transformation.
Graeme opens up about adopting two children from China, one of whom was later diagnosed with autism, and how this experience unearthed hidden wounds from his past. From relapsing into addiction to rebuilding his capacity to love and lead, Graeme shares how faith, community, and vulnerability reshaped his understanding of fatherhood.
With raw honesty, he explores the spiritual and emotional depths of raising a child on the spectrum while advocating for other fathers to break isolation and seek healing. Whether you’re a dad in crisis or one seeking connection, this episode offers insight, encouragement, and hope.
TOPICS:
Adopting two children from China and discovering an unexpected autism diagnosis
How faith and scripture helped reshape Graeme’s response to adversity
Why secure attachment is critical for children, especially those with trauma
The importance of community and male vulnerability in healing
Lessons from operating a business that employed autistic adults
Practical insights for dads learning to lead through love, not control
"Adoption didn’t just change my family—it revealed how selfish I really was. God used my son to break that in me."
"When life is all about you, you can’t see God’s plan. But when it becomes about His story, everything starts to make sense."
"You're not alone. Get out of the dark room, step into the light, and let other men surround you with love and truth."
"My son’s autism didn’t ruin my life—it refined it. I wouldn’t change anything, because through him, God brought me closer to who I’m supposed to be."
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
In this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with entrepreneur and father of six Jason Vance, whose 21-year-old son is on the autism spectrum.
Jason shares the deeply personal and practical journey of raising a child initially diagnosed as moderately to severely autistic—who now lives independently with his grandparents and contributes daily to their small farm.
They discuss parenting philosophies, managing family dynamics with five daughters, the importance of prioritizing marriage amidst challenges, and the power of maintaining long-term dreams even when life detours.
Jason’s core belief in “raising healthy adults” shapes his family’s values and resilience. From teaching life skills to coping with public meltdowns, this episode offers insight, relatability, and inspiration for autism dads everywhere.
TOPICS - Transitioning from diagnosis to independence in autism parenting - The philosophy of “raising healthy adults” despite special needs - Balancing the demands of a large family with a child on the spectrum - Coping with public meltdowns, social judgment, and shifting expectations - Prioritizing marriage and long-term dreams as the foundation for family resilience - The emotional journey of mourning “normal” and embracing a new reality - Jason’s practical tips for building independence in autistic children
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QUOTES "Our underlying philosophy sort of goal for the kids is raising healthy adults."
"We just always believed for more, right? That he could have a normal life."
"You have to mourn normal."
"We literally cooked a separate meal for him every day for his entire life."
"It was really hard letting him go. It's like, yes, you're 21, but you're probably 11 or 12 as far as like, you know, your ability and your mind."
ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
In the season finale of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse reflects on the journey so far—what inspired the podcast, the powerful stories shared, and what lies ahead in Season Two.
With honesty and heart, Mark opens up about his personal experiences raising a son with severe autism, the emotional toll many fathers face, and the need for authentic male support.
He calls on fellow autism dads to embrace connection, vulnerability, and growth. From the importance of self-care to the sobering realities of fatherhood in the autism world, this episode is both a heartfelt goodbye to
Season One and a bold invitation to join the next chapter. Tune in to hear what’s next for the Dads in Autismland community—including the launch of the Pathfinder Collective membership group and bi-monthly workshops.
TOPICS - The origin story of Dads in Autismland and its mission - Why autism fathers often feel alone—and how this podcast aims to change that - Personal insights from raising a son with severe autism - The dangerous stigma around men seeking support and self-care - The launch of the Pathfinder Collective: a private, judgment-free space for autism dads - How exposure and community can change society’s understanding of autism - A call to action for advocacy, communication, and fatherhood transformation
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QUOTES "Being tough doesn’t mean staying silent. It means stepping up, speaking out, and building something better—for us and our kids."
"If your battery’s drained, everything suffers. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s essential fatherhood."
"Autism fatherhood isn’t just about what we give—it’s about what we learn. My son taught me empathy, patience, and what real strength looks like."
"There’s no standard for how people should live. The more we share our reality, the safer and more supported our kids will be."
"This podcast started because I wondered if there were other dads like me out there—and now I know we’re not alone."
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On this heartfelt episode of Dads In Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with autism dad and founder of The Spectrum Hope Fund, Tim Huck.
The two dive deep into the emotional and financial realities of raising a child on the spectrum—from the early days of diagnosis, ABA therapy, and mounting expenses, to losing friendships and navigating the complexities of fatherhood.
Tim shares how his own challenges inspired him to start a nonprofit that helps other families pay for life-changing ABA therapy.
With candid storytelling and raw honesty, this episode shines a light on the often-overlooked emotional and financial toll autism parenting can take—and how dads are stepping up to support each other.
If you’ve ever wondered what it really takes to raise a child with autism and still show up as a dad, partner, and provider, this episode delivers insight, solidarity, and most of all—hope.
TOPICS
The emotional toll and isolation of autism parenting—and why dad support matters
Tim Huck’s personal journey through early autism diagnosis and ABA therapy
The financial struggle of affording intensive autism care and how families cope
Founding The Spectrum Hope Fund to support other autism families
Why ABA therapy early intervention can be transformative
Parenting multiple children while navigating the needs of a child on the spectrum
Creating inclusive spaces for autistic kids and building supportive community networks
QUOTES
"There’s no office you go to when you get the diagnosis. No roadmap. You just start Googling and hope you land somewhere helpful."
"We paid $35,000 over three years for ABA therapy because we knew our son needed it. We trusted the process—and scraped by to make it happen."
"There are resources for autistic kids—but what about the parents? What about us dads?"
"When my son was diagnosed, I felt like I was trying to learn a whole new world—but no one was handing me a manual."
"Being a dad to a kid on the spectrum? It’s lonely sometimes. But if we don’t talk about it, who will?"
DISCLAIMER
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
In this heartwarming episode of Dads In Autismland, host Mark de Grasse welcomes Roger Kuhrt, a devoted father who shares his inspiring and humorous journey of adopting his son Gordy from South Korea during the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Roger opens up about the parallel challenges of adoption and autism—initially mistaking Gordy’s behaviors as effects of adoption, only to later receive a life-changing autism diagnosis. The episode explores early intervention, ABA therapy, and the emotional highs and lows of discovering your child’s unique path.
With a dash of humor and a Lord of the Rings twist, Roger offers a relatable and deeply human perspective on parenting a neurodiverse child. If you've ever felt like you're on an epic journey of your own in fatherhood, this one’s for you.
TOPICS - Navigating international adoption during the pandemic - Overlapping traits of adopted and autistic children - Early signs of autism and how diagnosis unfolded - Impact of ABA therapy and special education on Gordy's development - Fatherhood as a "Lord of the Rings" adventure—unexpected and epic - Unique obsessions: Gordy’s love for vacuums and washers - Real advice for autism dads on trust, sleep, and staying proactive
QUOTES
"At first, I thought it was just adoption-related behavior. I didn’t realize it could be autism."
"We were the fourth set of caregivers he'd had before age two. Trust had to be built from scratch."
"Where are we going? Oh—we’re going to Mount Autism."
"Getting the diagnosis wasn’t heartbreaking—it was a relief. We finally knew what we were dealing with."
"He used to headbang and scream. Now, thanks to ABA, we don’t even track it—it’s gone."
DISCLAIMER
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
Autism, Mental Health & Suicide Prevention: Neal Tricarico’s Journey of fatherhood, loss, & Finding a New Mission | Dads In Autismland Season 1, Episode 16
In this powerful episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Neal Tricarico, a devoted father and founder of Endurant Movement. Neal shares his deeply personal journey of raising his autistic son, Anthony, whose silent struggles with mental health ultimately led to tragedy.
Through heartbreak, Neal and his family have transformed their grief into a mission—raising awareness about the critical gap between autism and suicide prevention. He opens up about the signs he missed, the emotional complexities of parenting a child on the spectrum, and how society’s perception of autism needs to change.
This conversation isn’t just about loss—it’s about hope, healing, and advocacy. Neal’s nonprofit, Endurant Movement, is leading the charge to bridge the gap between neurodiversity and mental health support. If you're a father raising an autistic child, this episode is a must-listen.
TOPICS
Recognizing early signs of autism and anxiety in children
The hidden struggles of autistic individuals who "mask" their condition
The high risk of depression and suicide among autistic teens
How COVID-19 intensified mental health challenges for autistic youth
The importance of changing the autism narrative—removing the stigma of "disorder"
Neal’s journey from grief to advocacy with the launch of Endurant Movement
Practical advice for parents navigating autism & mental health
QUOTES
“To know one kid with autism is to know one kid with autism.”
“When that black-and-white mind decides they’re done, they’re done. It’s not for attention—it’s final.”
“We started to explore this idea and came to know that the only ones looking at it are in the United Kingdom. There’s a significant gap between autism, neurodiversity, and mental health.”
“When we had to make that difficult decision to take him off life support, we were doing it with him, and it created this energy of love and community.”
“We’re being called to something greater, and we have to keep our eyes open for it.”
DISCLAIMER
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.