Explore every episode of the podcast Candid Divorce Lawyer
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| Am I Making the Right Decision to Divorce? | 09 Sep 2025 | 00:29:16 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, host Kimberley Davies speaks with family therapist Sarah Cole about the emotional and practical challenges of deciding whether to separate or divorce. They explore how to tell the difference between a rough patch and a deeper disconnection, and the emotional toll this decision can take. Sarah explains:
For more information about Sarah and her therapeutic services, visit her website: www.thefamilyconflictclinic.co.uk | |||
| Navigating the stages of grief during Divorce with Katie Lloyd | 22 Nov 2024 | 00:30:57 | |
In this episode, Kate Lewis and divorce coach Katie Lloyd discuss the emotional journey of divorce, comparing it to the stages of grief. Katie offers advice on managing these feelings and emphasizes the importance of a supportive network, including empathetic lawyers and emotional support. Together, they explore how to transform divorce-related grief into personal growth. | |||
| Candid Questions | Can my ex stop me from seeing the children? | 10 May 2024 | 00:10:02 | |
In the next episode of our bitesize series Candid Questions Zoe and Sara explore discuss whether your ex can stop you from seeing your children during a separation or divorce. | |||
| Candid Questions | How do I protect my pension? | 26 Apr 2024 | 00:08:16 | |
In the next episode of our bitesize series Candid Questions Zoe and Sara explore how you can protect your pension interests on separation and divorce. | |||
| The money coach: Understanding your financial standing post-separation | 12 Apr 2024 | 00:31:48 | |
In this episode, Kimberley speaks with David Hole, an accredited money coach, to explore how he can assist clients to gain understanding and clarity about their current financial position as well as their future financial position after a separation.
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| What is One Couple One Lawyer Divorce? | 27 Mar 2024 | 00:23:16 | |
In our latest episode, Kim and Grant look at a new exciting and innovative approach when a couple are separating and are looking to sort out their finances and the arrangements for their family moving forwards in a constructive and amicable way where they can come together to meet one lawyer to get the advice and assistance they need to help them reach an agreement on whatever issues they may face. | |||
| Candid Questions | Who gets the house if we get divorced? | 12 Feb 2024 | 00:07:23 | |
In the first of our bitesize series Candid Questions Zoe and Sara explore how the court determines who gets to keep the house during a divorce. | |||
| What to think about when you are buying a house with someone | 08 Aug 2023 | 00:09:35 | |
Emma and Lucy consider what you should think about before you buy a house with someone else, including when one contributes more to the purchase price, if parent wants to help that couple to buy and what should happen in the event of a death. | |||
| Do I need consent to take my child on holiday? | 10 Jul 2023 | 00:20:06 | |
In this episode, Kimberley and Dawn talk about the things you need to think about before taking your child abroad. Many parents mistakenly assume they can take their child on holiday without the other’s permission and that is not always the case. The consequences can be dire and so it is important you are well prepared. If you want to move abroad permanently with your child then you really need to reflect on what is best for your child. Kimberley and Dawn discuss all the legalities so that informed choices can be made.
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| Why do I need to think about my will and estate planning when going through a separation? | 15 Jun 2023 | 00:25:40 | |
In this episode, Kimberley talks to Adam Scott, a specialist private client solicitor in relation to wills, estate planning and all the other related matters you need to think about when going through a separation. This is a really useful episode to highlight some of the things that can be overlooked when facing a relationship breakdown. | |||
| What is a MIAM? | 17 Mar 2023 | 00:21:50 | |
Kim and Laura explain what to expect from your initial individual mediation appointment – known as a MIAM (a Mediation, Information and Assessment Meeting). This is a helpful episode to help you prepare for your appointment, and find out more about how the mediation process works. The information in this podcast does not constitute legal advice and is for informational purposes only. | |||
| Bonus Episode | Do I need to say yes to a pet-nup? | 24 Feb 2023 | 00:13:56 | |
Andrew and Grant consider the much loved family pet and what you may want to consider if your relationship ends, such as who gets the dog, who is going to pay the vet’s bill and who has “walkie” rights. | |||
| What to expect when you first go to court | 01 Nov 2024 | 00:15:18 | |
In the next episode of our bitesize series Candid Questions Laura and Zoe discuss what to expect when you first go to court. | |||
| Good Divorce Week | Mediation – what does this involve? | 02 Dec 2022 | 00:22:19 | |
Kimberley and Grant look at how mediation works when relationships end and there are changes in the family unit. Emotions run high when a couple are facing a divorce and talking face to face can be really difficult. Sometimes the couple need help to get discussions going on matters arising from their separation and to focus on what really matters which is where mediations comes in. | |||
| Good Divorce Week | Arbitration & Private FDR’s what are they? | 01 Dec 2022 | 00:17:39 | |
Emma and Laura for Good Divorce Week focus on how arbitration can be used in family cases and when and why you would consider a private FDR. | |||
| Good Divorce Week | How your solicitor can assist with negotiations in family law matters. | 30 Nov 2022 | 00:15:14 | |
Amy and Helen explore for Good Divorce Week how Solicitor negotiation can assist in family cases and an explanation of ‘round table meetings’ and when they can be used to assist with the negotiation process. | |||
| Good Divorce Week | What is the collaborative approach? – Is it the better way? | 29 Nov 2022 | 00:11:30 | |
Emma and Andrew explain all about the collaborative process to help you assess whether it is the right approach for you and your family. | |||
| Good Divorce Week – The Resolution Way | 28 Nov 2022 | 00:14:22 | |
Over the next five days we shall be supporting Resolution, Good Divorce Week 2022 - Ending the Family Court Crisis Grant and Kimberley explore what a good divorce means and how Resolution, the national family law organisation, looks at constructive and creative approaches to help couples going through a breakdown of their relationship. Separation is a difficult time and having the right professional advice and support can make all the difference. | |||
| Things to think about in the aftermath of a relationship breakdown, part 2! | 04 Nov 2022 | 00:23:39 | |
Kimberley and Rosie follow on from their last episode by looking at new roles as co-parents following the breakdown of a relationship. | |||
| Considering menopause in family law | 18 Oct 2022 | 00:25:09 | |
On World Menopause Day Helen Clarkson and special guest Imogen Robins talk about how family law can become menopause friendly. | |||
| Things to think about in the immediate aftermath of a relationship break down. | 07 Oct 2022 | 00:16:25 | |
Kimberley and Rosie look at the things you need to think about in the immediate aftermath of a relationship breakdown; exploring the emotional side of relationship breakdown and the support network you may need. | |||
| When do I say "I do" to a Pre Nup? | 23 Sep 2022 | 00:16:35 | |
Grant Cameron and Andrew Mercer explore the desirability and reasons for entering into a nuptial agreement and the tests that need to be followed for it to be persuasive before a Court, should the need arise. | |||
| Frequently asked questions concerning children and family law | 16 Aug 2022 | 00:16:50 | |
Kimberley and Rosie chat about the questions they are frequently asked by parents when separating! | |||
| Can I kill my spouse? Asking for a friend | 18 Oct 2024 | 00:19:13 | |
This latest episode dives into a question that's as shocking as it is thought-provoking: "Can I kill my spouse? Asking for a friend."
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| The Split’ How realistic is the BBC Drama part 2! | 24 May 2022 | 00:28:02 | |
Rosie and Helen are back again giving their thoughts on the hit BBC drama ‘The Split’ and how realistic they think the series is to real life. This episode focuses on the themes shown throughout episodes 4-6 and it's a podcast not to be missed. WARNING! This episode of the Candid Divorce Lawyer contains spoilers for episodes 4-6 for the BBC drama ‘The Split’. The information in this podcast does not constitute legal advice and is for informational purposes only. | |||
| What is parental alienation? | 25 Apr 2022 | 00:17:32 | |
Parental alienation is often in the headlines and alleged by many separated parents who are being denied time with their children. But what is ‘parental alienation’ and how do the courts deal with it? | |||
| ‘The Split’ – how realistic is the BBC drama? | 22 Apr 2022 | 00:29:59 | |
Rosie and Helen bring a slightly different style of podcast in this episode, where they consider how true to life the BBC drama ‘The Split’ is. They also explain some of the lingo used throughout the first 3 episodes of the series so ‘spoiler alert’ if you’ve not watched it all yet! If you are as hooked as Rosie and Helen and have watched it then this episode is not to be missed! WARNING! This episode of the Candid Divorce Lawyer contains spoilers for episodes 1-3 for the BBC drama ‘The Split’. The information in this podcast does not constitute legal advice and is for informational purposes only. | |||
| Bonus Episode: The lowdown on no-fault divorce | 06 Apr 2022 | 00:14:43 | |
In this bonus episode, Grant and Helen discuss how the introduction of 'no-fault divorce' will work in practice which is due to come into force on 6 April 2022. The information in this podcast does not constitute legal advice and is for informational purposes only. | |||
| Will my contributions be taken into account upon divorce | 11 Mar 2022 | 00:16:24 | |
In this episode, Amy and Helen discuss in what circumstances contributions within the marriage (financial or otherwise) could make a difference to the overall financial division on a divorce. | |||
| What is common law marriage and is it a myth? | 25 Feb 2022 | 00:17:27 | |
In this episode Grant and Helen will discuss the myth that is common law marriage and the implication this has for cohabiting couples upon separation. | |||
| What are Non-Molestation and Occupation Orders? | 11 Jan 2022 | 00:28:35 | |
In this episode, James and Rosie discuss the ‘who, what, why, where and when’ of Non-Molestation and Occupation Orders. They look at the legal jargon and what it means, as well as the legal process. They also cover what to expect if you are considering applying for an Order or if an Order is made against you. The information in this podcast does not constitute legal advice and is for informational purposes only. | |||
| The lowdown on no-fault divorce | 11 Jan 2022 | 00:17:09 | |
In this episode, Amy and Helen discuss upcoming changes to divorce law in England & Wales with the introduction of 'no-fault divorce' due to come into force on 6 April 2022. The information in this podcast does not constitute legal advice and is for informational purposes only. | |||
| Top tips for your first appointment with a family lawyer | 11 Jan 2022 | 00:19:18 | |
In our first episode, Rosie and James give their top tips for attending a first appointment with a family solicitor. They discuss the importance of finding the right solicitor for you, what to expect from your first appointment and talk about the likely costs. They also discuss how you can make the most of your first appointment with a solicitor, including what information to provide them with and asking questions. | |||
| How do you divorce a narcissist? | 23 Aug 2024 | 00:30:21 | |
Tune into this episode as we unravel the complexities of divorcing a narcissist and how to protect yourself and loved ones throughout the process.
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| "It's not fair" - How you might be feeling | 09 Aug 2024 | 00:28:07 | |
Step into our podcast as we explore the rollercoaster of emotions post-separation, shedding light on the common sentiment of 'it's not fair'.
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| Candid Questions: Do I have to go to court? | 19 Jul 2024 | 00:08:59 | |
In the next episode of our bitesize series Candid Questions Zoe and Sara discuss when you may be asked to attend court. | |||
| The fear of losing your children following separation | 28 Jun 2024 | 00:19:32 | |
In this episode, join us as we discuss the heart-wrenching fear of losing valuable time with your children after separation. | |||
| Candid Questions: What are my rights if my ex wants to move away with my children? | 14 Jun 2024 | 00:06:39 | |
In the next episode of our bitesize series Candid Questions Zoe and Sara explore discuss what your rights are if your ex wants to move away with your children. | |||
| How to communicate effectively with your former spouse | 24 May 2024 | 00:20:26 | |
Discover effective strategies for navigating communication with your ex-partner as we delve into the intricacies of co-parenting.
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| Telling My Spouse I Want a Divorce | 16 Sep 2025 | 00:37:27 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Divorce Coach and Relationship & Psychosexual Therapist Elinor Harvey talks to host Kimberley Davies about one of the toughest conversations you can have: telling your partner you want a divorce. Elinor explains:
In this episode: 00:00 Introducing Elinor Harvey 3:43 The benefits of independent divorce coaching 6:43 Combining legal and therapeutic services 9:29 How to prepare for the difficult divorce conversation 15:28 Navigating threat responses 21:12 De-escalating anger and processing post-divorce feelings 30:49 Discussing divorce with children For more information about Elinor and her relationship therapy services, visit Elinor's: Website: www.relationshiptherapypractice.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/that.relationship.therapist/ LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/elinor-harvey-b71692198/ Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5 star review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com | |||
| Understanding the Divorce Process | 23 Sep 2025 | 00:22:58 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, host Kimberley Davies and Family Partner & Solicitor Grant Cameron provide a clear, step-by-step guide to the UK divorce process, including legal, emotional, and financial considerations. Grant covers:🎙️ - When is the right time to seek legal advice during a separation or divorce - What does the divorce process actually involve, and do you need to go to court - How has the no-fault divorce law changed the experience for separating couples - What support—legal, emotional, and financial—should you consider during a divorce - Are financial and child arrangements automatically handled in a divorce- What should you look for when choosing the right solicitor for your situation In this episode:✨ 00:00 Meet Grant Cameron and his journey in family law 1:47 The importance of early legal advice in divorce 3:11 Understanding the one couple, one lawyer model 5:50 Beyond paperwork: a solicitor's role 7:49 The three pillars of divorce client support 9:53 Finding the right family lawyer for you 12:05 Navigating the UK's no-fault divorce process 15:20 Understanding the divorce timeline 17:21 Financial, child arrangements and avoiding court 20:35 Essential advice and resources for starting divorce proceedings 22:11 Wrapping up and what's next on the podcast For more information about Trethowans' family law services visit: www.trethowans.com Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer | |||
| Coping with Divorce: Helen Thorn on Grief, Humour and Finding Your Strength | 14 May 2026 | 00:40:16 | |
In this candid and deeply moving episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer Podcast, comedian and bestselling author Helen Thorn shares her personal journey through sudden divorce, grief, single motherhood, dating, fitness transformation, and rediscovering herself. Helen talks openly about
This episode is honest, funny, emotional, and packed with reassurance for anyone navigating separation, divorce, or major personal upheaval. 🔗 Follow Helen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsmehelenthorn/?hl=en 🔗 Follow the Scummy Mummies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scummymummies/?hl=en 📖 Purchase Helen's new book: https://ow.ly/akVq50YYe46 ✅ Follow or subscribe to the Candid Divorce Lawyer Podcast ⭐ Leave a review to help others find support and expert guidance during divorce 👋 Follow The Candid Divorce Lawyer on socials: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com | |||
| Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce | 04 Nov 2025 | 00:23:44 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, founder of Mum about Town, Daisy Harris-Reid, joins Kimberley Davies to share her experience of divorce, being a solo parent and how the separation has been a catalyst for her new career and helped her to rediscover herself and find joy. Daisy talks about: - Her 11-year marriage, the early age at which she married, and how she and her ex-husband changed over time, leading to their divorce - How her divorce was amicable but the years following were emotionally turbulent. She found comfort in writing her book to help others going through similar experiences - How counselling helped her process her emotions independently of her friends and family - The financial impact of her divorce, including the need to become the breadwinner and manage her finances more carefully - Her challenges of co-parenting and how she initially struggled with her son spending time with his father - How she tries to enjoy the process of dating again and not putting too much pressure on finding a new partner Follow Daisy on Instagram: @mum_abouttown Purchase Daisy's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/about-Towns-Separation-Survival-Guide/dp/0957020961 Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon MusicLeave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com | |||
| The Final Stages of Divorce | 21 Oct 2025 | 00:25:46 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Director and Chartered Financial Planner Cheryl Bowden talks to host Kimberley Davies to discuss the financial implications of divorce, particularly in the final stages. Cheryl emphasises the importance of understanding one's financial situation post-divorce, including budgeting, debt management, and pension planning. Cheryl covers: - Why is it important to seek financial advice before finalising a divorce? - How can you create a realistic budget after separation or divorce? - What should you know about pension sharing and how does the process work? - How should you manage a lump sum received during a divorce settlement? - How do financial priorities differ after divorce based on your age or life stage? - Why are regular financial reviews important after a divorce? For more information about Cheryl and her businesses, visit: https://bowdenevolve.com/ or connect with Cheryl on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cheryl-bowden-012a2422/ Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast or please share with someone contemplating separation or divorce Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com | |||
| Navigating Children Matters & Co-parenting After Separation | 14 Oct 2025 | 00:30:40 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Kimberley Davies is joined by Marcie Shaoul, award-winning founder of The Co-Parent Way and Author of The Co-Parenting Method to discuss co-parenting post-separation. Marcie shares: - Her personal journey with co-parenting which began over 15 years ago - The inspiration for writing her book which has been endorsed by Sir Andrew MacFarlane, the President of the Family Division - Six steps to raising happy kids after separation and divorce including long-term mindset, setting boundaries and communicating without conflict - Prioritising self-care activities to build resilience and the ability to thrive as a co-parent - How to address challenges like new partners and stresses the importance of focusing on the child's long-term well-being Learn more: Purchase Marcie's book, The Co-Parenting Method, here: https://amzn.eu/d/bx0ynjZ Follow Marcie on Instagram: @thecoparentway Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast or please share with someone contemplating separation or divorce Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com | |||
| The First Financial Steps Following Separation | 07 Oct 2025 | 00:22:23 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Kimberley Davies is joined by Family Solicitor Kate Lewis to explore important financial matters following a separation. They cover topics such as financial disclosure, legal entitlements, interim financial arrangements, and the value of seeking early legal and financial guidance. Kate addresses: - What are the first financial steps to take after a separation, and why is full financial disclosure so important? - How should interim financial arrangements for bills, mortgages, and shared accounts be handled during separation? - What legal protections exist for joint bank accounts, credit cards, and occupation of the family home? - Can one partner be forced to leave the family home, and what are the legal challenges involved? - How are assets and debts divided fairly when there is no legal agreement in place? In this episode: 00:00 Introduction to Family Solicitor Kate Lewis 02:59 Handling bills and mortgages during separation 05:01 Safeguarding joint accounts and credit card debts 06:51 Understanding your rights to occupy the family home 10:06 Fairly dividing assets and debts after separation 13:10 Navigating finances and emotions post-separation 16:59 Crucial steps: avoiding pitfalls and getting early legal guidance Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast or please share with someone contemplating separation or divorce Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com | |||
| Do You Have to Go to Court to Get Divorced? | 30 Sep 2025 | 00:21:18 | |
In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Barrister Helen Brander joins host Kimberley Davies to explore the changing landscape of divorce and dispute resolution, highlighting a move away from traditional court proceedings toward alternative dispute resolution (ADR)methods such as mediation, early neutral evaluation and arbitration, which all offer several advantages. Helen outlines:🎙️ - How legally enforceable are agreements reached through alternative dispute resolution (ADR) methods like mediation or arbitration? - What are the main cost and time advantages of ADR compared to traditional court litigation in divorce cases? - What is alternative dispute resolution (ADR),and what different methods are available for resolving family disputes? - How does the emotional and financial impact of litigation compare to ADR in divorce proceedings? - Why is early legal advice and financial disclosure important in achieving fair outcomes through ADR? For more information about Helen, visit her profile: https://www.pumpcourtchambers.com/barrister/helen-brander/ For more information about non-court dispute resolution methods, click here: https://www.trethowans.com/services/individual/family-law-solicitors/non-court-dispute-resolution-methods/ Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer | |||