howdy! first let’s do a little trigger warning - i talk about death and substance abuse disorder and addiction in this episode. 

thank you for stopping in for a quick listen to this episode. i just wanted to make sure that anyone who needs it knows the name of the podcast where i found the hypnosis session that helped me permanently kick the habit of smoking. it’s called THE HYPNOTIST and it’s hosted by Adam Cox. just wait until you hear his voice - i found it extremely effective and easy on the ears lol. 

if you’d like to learn more about how to do banishment majik, consider subscribing to BRUJAS app (available in the Google Play Store and Apple App Store) and check out the BANISH lesson in the WORK section of the app. great luck to you and happiest new year. 

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bliss to you! in this episode i offer some gentle reminders of why we should certainly be venerating the Ancestors. 🥹 we are officially in spooky season, the season of the witch, three weeks til samhain and i am thinking of the Ancestors.

i also talk about Paulo Coelho's THE ALCHEMIST which I recently re-read and highly recommend to anyone reading this. also also - i briefly mention why i steer clear of witches that get off on hexing other people and constantly engaging in witch wars. 🫠

i have released a new oil called VENERATION 🥀 to support your connection with our Beloved Dead. great luck and great love to you.

xx

TRIGGER WARNINGS: In this episode, I mention a couple crimes I heard on true crime podcasts and one news story out of Miami. I mentioned domestic violence and abuse as well as murders without going too deeply into details.

This podcast episode is about loving ourselves enough to leave relationships where we don't feel loved by our "partners." Or at the very least choosing peace before we find ourselves 60 YEARS OLD calling the phone of someone who isn't even interested in the man who is stringing us along.

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for clarity, here are my suggestions in no specific order:

1. ask yourself powerful questions rather than simply stating your struggles; for example, you might ask yourself, "when am i most consistent and motivated in my spiritual practice?" from there you can find ways to recreate some of those internal and external environmental factors that support your consistency.

2. is it possible that you don't have time for your practices because you're giving too much time and attention to things that do not require your direct involvement? are there ways that you can couple spiritual practices with things you're already doing?

3. your spiritual practice does not need to look the same as it has in the past. it also does not need to look like anybody else's practice.

4. you don't actually need to be constantly casting spells; some of the people you see online casting a lot of spells are casting spells for other people (because it's their job); they likely are not casting so many spells for themselves (this does not include maintenance work like spiritual baths and weekly prosperity burns).

5. ask yourself what your spiritual and majikal practice entails. it is more than casting spells. what are some other ways you practice tapping into spiritual wisdom and energy?

6. do not judge yourself, chances are you're doing better than you think.

7. figure out why you're practicing in the first place. when you start to recognize the benefits of a having a spiritual practice, chances are you will find it easier to lean into your practice. in other words, get clear within yourself about the spiritual benefits of your practice.

I hope you enjoy this episode and I hope that my suggestions and thoughts on supporting yourself are clear. I had some experiences with close relatives recently that, while they didn't come from a mean-spirited way, still let me reeling emotionally. It can be overwhelming and even seem impossible to be everything to everybody and I really feel that we should give up even trying. Instead, I think becoming masterful at taking excellent care of ourselves and choosing what is best for ourselves even if and when others cannot support or agree is best in the long run for our own health and the health of our relationships.

Lovingly,

bossy

Hello love! Thank you for taking the time to listen to this short episode of the Bossy Bruja Podcast. I hope you find some of the ideas I share here useful or worth considering. The idea as communication as a process of loving people gently and earnestly is on my heart tonight. My heart hurts for individuals who are estranged from loved ones due to issues around communication. It seems to me that when we have a conflict with someone and cannot properly communicate those issues (either because we don't know how or fear we will not be heard or are met with resistance) then the original problems are only compounded by the new problem of communication.  I feel confident that one of the best things we can do in relationships we desire to maintain (with people we love) is to either invite in an objective third-party we can both trust and respect, or to soften and be the first to listen to understand. My hope and prayer for us all is that we experience love that is safe, gentle, kind, and patient. And that we give this love to ourselves always.  Peace and blessings and good luck!  God bless.  -Bossy

As promised, here's the link to my YouTube video that documents some of the places where I spent time around my city as a Youth. Check it out here: https://youtu.be/fNdLgIN404w Find me on Instagram.com/bossybruja Thanks for taking the time to listen and share.  Peace and blessings.  Talk soon.

life is definitely teaching right now and i am paying attention even though it hurts sometimes. i hope that if any of your out there are experiencing grief, pain, or loss - you don't feel alone. i hope that you have people around you who see you, hear you, understand you, love you, keep you lifted in prayer, and pour into you. and i hope that you take excellent care of you.

xoxo

bossy

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STOP LETTING THESE BITCHES HURT YOU.

• I got tired of feeling hurt by people, so I stopped making their choices my problem. 

• I started seeing rejection, separation, redirection, space, and delays as part of my Spirit Team’s work to guide me toward what is aligned and away from what is not. 

• I stopped letting people’s opinions be so damn important to me. Now, I don’t care who you are - I pick and choose which opinions matter. 

• I piped down with all the expectations. I have high standards for me, not for y’all. 

• I stopped telling people how to treat me and simply watched instead. Your choices will tell me everything I need to know. How a person moves naturally tells you a lot. 

• I started to understand that instead of using my time to win people over, I could simply use that same time and energy to connect with people who are already on the same type of time I’m on, period.

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Welcome to Aquarius Season -- when the impossible becomes possible. I've had a come to Mother Mary moment and I wanted to tell you all about it. Tap in and then come play with me on twitter and instagram.

This whole episode is basically about how we should respect the Ancients + their indelible connection to Nature which we sorely need to reclaim and find again for ourselves. 

With love, 

Bossy

This episode of the podcast draws on an article from WOMEN AGAINST ABUSE.  I wanted to share this episode of the podcast while we are still in Human Trafficking Awareness Month. I wanted to specifically draw attention to different forms of abuse that may be occurring in personal/intimate relationships. If you're experiencing any of these, hopefully this podcast is enough to help you take stock of the experience with a sober mind and take safe appropriate action, or help someone in your community who may need support. I wish you well. 

Here are some resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline. Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service 800-799-7233

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i have always gotten folks asking me about ways to stay consistent with their practice and the number one recommendation i would offer anyone is to make it easier and more convenient for yourself.

a couple simple ways to do this is to get yourself on a schedule (you can stick to), simplify your altars, batch your candles/herbs/oils/incense, and prepare your spiritual baths in gallon jugs and leave them in the fridge so they're ready to go as needed.

have a serious conversation with yourself and reflect on your practice - do you notice that when you're doing your spiritual workings you feel better, clearer, and lighter? what are some of the other benefits you notice from maintaining your practice? and have you noticed that you feel off when you're not taking time for your spiritual practice?

i find that sometimes i simply have to remind myself of the benefits of doing the work and the disadvantages of not doing the work and that gets me going.

for example, when my prosperity altar is light and fresh - my money flows better (and more abundantly). i notice that when that altar is not lit and fresh - i can definitely feel it in my pockets.

if you don't do anything else, please keep the lines of communication between yourself and your precious SPIRIT open with ongoing prayers/conversations throughout the entire day. that is the best thing i think anyone can do for themselves spiritually. i strive to make my first conversation of everyday between me and my Spirit through a simple, quick prayer of gratitude (Thank you for waking me up Old Partner!)

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Blessings, 

Welcome back to the bossy bruja podcast. I am grateful you are here. I just wanted to come share some reminders that you're FREE to choose thoughts that are pleasing, empowering, and useful to you! Enjoy. Join me on instagram @bossybruja

Here are the messages I share in this episode: 

- Be careful who you are devoted to, you're too precious 

- Be careful who you commit yourself to, especially when the commitment will be permanent 

- Let people have their lessons; sometimes you have to leave people where they are + progress without certain people

- Only pour from a full + overflowing cup

- Just because you have it to give, doesn't mean you always should 

- Loving Black men is not martyrdom

- Surgically remove the limitations you have in your mind around love + other manifestations 

- Once lines get crossed + someone demonstrates they're unwilling or unable to love you, it's time to reassess what you're pouring into that relationship 

- Don't allow people to make their emergencies your problem; the only things that are urgent are the goals you've set for yourself 

- Take your sweet time; take time to think about investments; don't act rashly or too quickly

- You have time! 

- Intentionally slow down with people who are trying to pressure you into any decision, especially where investments of time, resources or money are concerned 

- Whatever you want to do, do it now -- there are only so many tomorrows. -Michael Landon (Take action, my love!!)

- Don't commit yourself out of a pressure that someone else is applying to you

- God will restore the years the locusts have eaten -Joel 2:25

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Peace + Blessings 

Bossy

This is a requested episode. I hope you all enjoy listening to it as much as I enjoyed recording it. And I hope you feel a sense of renewed inspiration if you're going through an ebb season in your life during this time. There are many benefits to tap into during these phases and I hope to direct your thinking to those with  this episode.

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There is no shame in seasons of ebb. They are a literal part of Nature and Life. Learning to manage yourself and your resources during these seasons will ensure you remain emotionally lifted and satisfied even when the resources and opportunities are waning and ebbing.

In this episode, I took a look at some words we hear often in the spiritual community. My objective was to determine what these things mean in real life and how they are workable toward achieving our goals and experiencing more of our desires.  I hope you enjoy. 

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Thank you for listening.

Just a few words for those of you joining me in 3 months of honoring our bodies. 

I hope this is well-received, because I meant every word and I think it is highly useful to us. A degraded approach to magick, spirituality, and religion will not yield high results. I believe when Jesus taught: "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you," this was a tip to humanity to keep first things first. Our approach to magick, spirituality, and religion can be with high aims and clear priorities. I think it is a mistake to make other people the priority of our magick, religion, and spirituality. What if instead we made our connection to God, deepening our understanding of life, the universe, universal laws, our own inner peace, knowledge of self, heightening our consciousness and supporting our healing and faith our focus? How might our lives be transformed for the better, from the inside out? 

Something to think about...

Have you wondered about ways to use my Hypnotism oil? I've got you covered. Enjoy the story and listen for the instructions on how to use it.

I really don't know how people don't take things personally. I be taking everything personally especially when it affects my work and my goals. This is a long ass story about how relocating from Miami to Las Vegas actually went and how I am recovering from it all. I find a lot of the things that happened to be funny, now. But at the time, I was going THROUGH it. I was fighting not to slip into depression and fighting against my urge to go crazy on people. In the end I had to acknowledge I’m a terrible boss and now I understand why it is advised we not hire friends. No hard feelings against anyway, these are all necessary lessons and my slow ass took a long time to learn them. I hope you find this cautionary tale helpful and useful. If you're not feeling the story, skip to the end and listen to the last 12 minutes of the podcast for ideas to recover from a rough transition.  Find us on Instagram @bossybruja

Welcome back to the podcast, dear. I am so happy and relieved to be back.

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i just started reading ATOMIC HABITS by james clear and i am so happy i did. it reminded me that when i change how i see myself, i can easily change my habits and achieve my goals. the audiobook is available on spotify. xo

In this episode, I touch on generational curses and how our closest relationships affect us. This topic feels very personal to me, and I've been considering it for weeks. I consider this topic to be extremely important and I urge my listeners to consider it seriously for themselves. I hope you find value in this recording. Thank you, always, for listening. If you're interested in joining my online training portal, you are welcome to join by going to this here.

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Shame is a largely useless and damaging emotion to choose for oneself. In this quick podcast I'll share some ideas that will hopefully clarify its uselessness and help you opt out and transcend. For more spiritual guidance and teachings, please join our online teaching portal here.

Here's the link to the BOSSY RESET: tips and suggestions BLOG on my website: https://bossybruja.com/bossygrimoire/2021/5/27/bossy-reset-tips-and-suggestions

In this podcast, I am suggesting that during those times when you know it would benefit you to keep to yourself, you do just that. But if you start to feel the uncomfortable feelings of loneliness then here are three things I recommend (and practice myself). 

They all fall under the umbrella of what I call "Entering the Creative Process." 

There are three things you are can (and you can do one of them or all of them, whatever you choose). Those three things are: Make art; Make your environment(s) more beautiful; and/or Create the next chapter of your life. 

In this podcast, I will explain the four step process you can use to change your consciousness and thus automatically change your life. 

If you enjoy this podcast, give us a great review, subscribe, share it with a friend and then join us over on Instagram for more discussions like this one. You can find us here. 

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Talk soon!

NOBODY SAYING IT, SO I'MMA SAY IT.

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I would love to hear your thoughts and ideas about how to make life more enchanted. Come find me on instagram.com/bossybruja and share your practices for making life more majikal.

AFTER TWO YEARS OF BEING SINGLE, i want to go another 2 years. i've loved my time alone. the peace is remarkable; the money saved is staggering; the freedom is soul-refreshing; the deep state of rest and wellness - outstanding. my confidence and self-trust has been restored. i feel like myself.

i've quit smoking. i've grown my teaching platform. i've read dozens of books. i've been writing again. i feel better.

it took some time to get to a place replete with such PEACE, but it happened and i think it can happen for you too. i do not want you sitting around miserable because someone is mistreating you, especially if there is even the slightest possibility they are harboring the worst of thoughts toward you.

i share my thoughts in this podcast, but only because i've been subjected to so many conversations regarding people's relationships lately. here is my advice.

Enjoy. 

Join Chyrsalis and I as we discuss our thoughts in light of recent events. It gets a little racy, but having this conversation was healing for me even though parts of it were very difficult. I believe witches and BLACK WITCHES, in particular, having more conversation like this will be extremely healing. Enjoy. 

Listen until the end... To join our team follow the link: https://retail.totallifechanges.com/39370913/products. Please note if you have not used the products before you will need to purchase products as well. I recommend the "Sip, Soothe, and Strengthen kit" Please also, check out Chrysalis Sun's episode on B The Vibe Radio in the "Unpopular Opinion" series titled "Being Spiritual Does Not Mean Being Broke." https://anchor.fm/bthevibe

Sex work, death, sensuality, divine masculine, tantra, spiritualism, involuntary monogamy, initiation, sisterhood, CRYSTALS, and honoring the Dead—OH MY. This conversation definitely deserves a part two! In this episode get to know my wonderful friend and sister Ms. Chrysalis Sun, or as some of her clients call her, Madame Liberty—a dom who wears pink, heals with crystals, and who would rather help you curse someone than cast a love spell. 😉😘😇 ENJOY! The Complete Guide To Crystal Medicine — B The Vibe https://anchor.fm/bthevibe/episodes/Initiation-Nobody-Can-Give-You-What-You-Already-Have-e9hlb2

First of all, if you’re aware enough of yourself to acknowledge the fact that you’re feeling insecure—I’m proud of you! Second: get some of my secure oil and work with it daily! In this episode I’m sharing my thoughts about what brings on feelings of insecurity and how to process it! Press play and share this episode with ones who might need to hear these ideas.

Darlings Tre Xavier (Sir Xavier) has come to take his place as KING of the Astrological Ball! I am so happy for y'all to meet my friend. I don't know many people who are as obsessed with Astrology as he is! He lives it. He breathes it. He's speaks it in every waking moment while managing to be the gentleness Divine Masculine you're eyes have ever seen. And STILL will put a bitch in her place (that bitch is me.) We're really in for a treat. He giving us Virgoan accuracy while indulging all our Venusian fantasies! He's bringing brilliant simplicity to his interpretation of the stars! He's dispensing endless wisdom and giving us Astrology as the original psychology realness!! He's stepping on the Ptolemies and the Copernicuses and mixing up a Sun, Moon, Rising centric natal chart cocktail for an affordable price near YOU! Follow Xavier @thenightskyseer

Loving you

Guilt implies a criminal offense. It is the result of our failure to honor a moral or legal obligation. Some of the things that we assume we are obligated to do are pure fantasy! And if we're really being honest with ourselves the only reason we do some of this stuff is that we are convinced it's the only way to be a "nice girl" or a "good boy" in others' eyes. I am suggesting that we drop the bullshit approval-seeking, people-seeking antics and get back to ourselves. After all, if we can experience bliss and wellness what good are we to anybody else? I am advocating for putting and keeping yourself first and enjoying more of what interests and pleases YOU. 

These are some of the ideas which have helped me tremendously in my craft and business. 🥰💕 I hope you find benefit in listening to it. Of course, everything which has worked for me may not work for everyone. “Eat the fish and spit out the bones.” African Proverb 🐠

In this episode, I share the thoughts and experiences from a day of sauntering, wandering and exploring. In a recent meeting with my coach I was advised to spend more time being creative and in-flow because this is a necessary part of my spirituality and creativeness. I took the day to go purchase a new book, sit at a bar, enjoy a coffee and a daiquiri followed by a meal with the barman. I'm at home responding to emails now (It's 11:48 PM) but I had to share some of the thoughts and ideas I've been facing on my road from surviving to thriving. I hope you enjoy and I hope you can follow along--this episode has a meandering quality to it, much like my day today. 

June 3, 2023 at 11:58 PM CT was my last conversation with Honey of the Honey Jar - this is our unedited conversation.

xoxo

Happy birthday Honey xoxo

In today’s episode, Rhiannon from The Hag's Cottage, shares with us tales of running barefoot through the woods and discovering her witchy path in the occult section at Borders. She’ll share her experience with sea magic, her experiences with supporting clients in breaking generational curses and why effective witching requires you to get comfortable with doing some nitty gritty work. Follow Rhiannon on Instagram and Facebook @thehagscottage for witchy wisdom, to book a reading or to inquire about her exclusive products. 💋

I have four major recommendations for LIVING YOUR BEST WITCHY LIFE: 1. Be clear about what YOU desire for YOU. 2. Control your Self. 3. Plan for the future and stick to the plan. 4. HUSSLE ⚡️

Today's podcast is...interesting. We have a blast from my Past (*cough* MAGNETISM *cough*). His name is Sbk (Sebek) and he's a Pisces Mathematician Medicine Man - and in the name of our LOVE INVOCATION we will speak about TANTRA and SEX MAJIK. Whew. Get your wine ladies. We will share our tips for engaging sacred sexuality responsibly. Enjoy!

In this episode we have award-winning artist Ms. Sophie Lisa Smith from Northeast England! She shares her incredible journey of becoming a thriving, full-time artist, her beliefs about the nature of creativity, and resounding encouragement for all aspiring artists (and creative humans everywhere). If you desire to become a thriving artist despite societal pressures and need a little inspiration tune in! You can find Sophie on Instagram @sophielisasmith! ❤️