Bossy Bruja Broadcast – Details, episodes & analysis

howdy! first let’s do a little trigger warning - i talk about death and substance abuse disorder and addiction in this episode. 

thank you for stopping in for a quick listen to this episode. i just wanted to make sure that anyone who needs it knows the name of the podcast where i found the hypnosis session that helped me permanently kick the habit of smoking. it’s called THE HYPNOTIST and it’s hosted by Adam Cox. just wait until you hear his voice - i found it extremely effective and easy on the ears lol. 

if you’d like to learn more about how to do banishment majik, consider subscribing to BRUJAS app (available in the Google Play Store and Apple App Store) and check out the BANISH lesson in the WORK section of the app. great luck to you and happiest new year. 

xx

bliss to you! in this episode i offer some gentle reminders of why we should certainly be venerating the Ancestors. 🥹 we are officially in spooky season, the season of the witch, three weeks til samhain and i am thinking of the Ancestors.

i also talk about Paulo Coelho's THE ALCHEMIST which I recently re-read and highly recommend to anyone reading this. also also - i briefly mention why i steer clear of witches that get off on hexing other people and constantly engaging in witch wars. 🫠

i have released a new oil called VENERATION 🥀 to support your connection with our Beloved Dead. great luck and great love to you.

xx

TRIGGER WARNINGS: In this episode, I mention a couple crimes I heard on true crime podcasts and one news story out of Miami. I mentioned domestic violence and abuse as well as murders without going too deeply into details.

This podcast episode is about loving ourselves enough to leave relationships where we don't feel loved by our "partners." Or at the very least choosing peace before we find ourselves 60 YEARS OLD calling the phone of someone who isn't even interested in the man who is stringing us along.

Have fun xoxo

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for clarity, here are my suggestions in no specific order:

1. ask yourself powerful questions rather than simply stating your struggles; for example, you might ask yourself, "when am i most consistent and motivated in my spiritual practice?" from there you can find ways to recreate some of those internal and external environmental factors that support your consistency.

2. is it possible that you don't have time for your practices because you're giving too much time and attention to things that do not require your direct involvement? are there ways that you can couple spiritual practices with things you're already doing?

3. your spiritual practice does not need to look the same as it has in the past. it also does not need to look like anybody else's practice.

4. you don't actually need to be constantly casting spells; some of the people you see online casting a lot of spells are casting spells for other people (because it's their job); they likely are not casting so many spells for themselves (this does not include maintenance work like spiritual baths and weekly prosperity burns).

5. ask yourself what your spiritual and majikal practice entails. it is more than casting spells. what are some other ways you practice tapping into spiritual wisdom and energy?

6. do not judge yourself, chances are you're doing better than you think.

7. figure out why you're practicing in the first place. when you start to recognize the benefits of a having a spiritual practice, chances are you will find it easier to lean into your practice. in other words, get clear within yourself about the spiritual benefits of your practice.

I hope you enjoy this episode and I hope that my suggestions and thoughts on supporting yourself are clear. I had some experiences with close relatives recently that, while they didn't come from a mean-spirited way, still let me reeling emotionally. It can be overwhelming and even seem impossible to be everything to everybody and I really feel that we should give up even trying. Instead, I think becoming masterful at taking excellent care of ourselves and choosing what is best for ourselves even if and when others cannot support or agree is best in the long run for our own health and the health of our relationships.

Lovingly,

bossy

Hello love! Thank you for taking the time to listen to this short episode of the Bossy Bruja Podcast. I hope you find some of the ideas I share here useful or worth considering. The idea as communication as a process of loving people gently and earnestly is on my heart tonight. My heart hurts for individuals who are estranged from loved ones due to issues around communication. It seems to me that when we have a conflict with someone and cannot properly communicate those issues (either because we don't know how or fear we will not be heard or are met with resistance) then the original problems are only compounded by the new problem of communication.  I feel confident that one of the best things we can do in relationships we desire to maintain (with people we love) is to either invite in an objective third-party we can both trust and respect, or to soften and be the first to listen to understand. My hope and prayer for us all is that we experience love that is safe, gentle, kind, and patient. And that we give this love to ourselves always.  Peace and blessings and good luck!  God bless.  -Bossy

As promised, here's the link to my YouTube video that documents some of the places where I spent time around my city as a Youth. Check it out here: https://youtu.be/fNdLgIN404w Find me on Instagram.com/bossybruja Thanks for taking the time to listen and share.  Peace and blessings.  Talk soon.

life is definitely teaching right now and i am paying attention even though it hurts sometimes. i hope that if any of your out there are experiencing grief, pain, or loss - you don't feel alone. i hope that you have people around you who see you, hear you, understand you, love you, keep you lifted in prayer, and pour into you. and i hope that you take excellent care of you.

xoxo

bossy

HERE IS THE LINK TO THE TRANSCRIPT FOR THIS EPISODE: TRANSCRIPT

STOP LETTING THESE BITCHES HURT YOU.

• I got tired of feeling hurt by people, so I stopped making their choices my problem. 

• I started seeing rejection, separation, redirection, space, and delays as part of my Spirit Team’s work to guide me toward what is aligned and away from what is not. 

• I stopped letting people’s opinions be so damn important to me. Now, I don’t care who you are - I pick and choose which opinions matter. 

• I piped down with all the expectations. I have high standards for me, not for y’all. 

• I stopped telling people how to treat me and simply watched instead. Your choices will tell me everything I need to know. How a person moves naturally tells you a lot. 

• I started to understand that instead of using my time to win people over, I could simply use that same time and energy to connect with people who are already on the same type of time I’m on, period.

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