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In this compelling episode of Behind the Paddle, Porcelain Victoria, tells all about the unique challenges of dating while working as an escort and dominatrix. Together, we dive deep into the personal and emotional complexities of balancing a career in the sex industry with romantic relationships.

We explore critical questions such as: When and how do you disclose your profession to someone you’re dating? What are the biggest challenges in maintaining boundaries between work and personal life? How do societal stigmas affect your relationships, and what strategies help manage the emotional demands of both worlds?

Misstress Victoria shares memorable stories, addresses common misconceptions, and offers advice to others in similar situations. Whether you’re curious about the intersection of love and sex work, or simply looking to understand a different perspective, this episode provides eye-opening insights into the realities of dating in the world of escorting.

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What does the Japanese Penis Festival (Kanamara Matsuri), Disney's Moana, and the cult horror film "Teeth" have in common? They all reflect aspects of ancient cautionary tales about sexuality, power, and fear. In this episode, we explore the ancient and fascinating concept of vagina dentata—the myth of a toothed vagina found in folklore around the world. We dive into folk stories from different cultures, examining how they use vagina dentata to warn, control, or empower. Through these modern and historical lenses, we explore how these myths are retold and reimagined today.

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What if the most misunderstood force in the world was flowing through our bodies every month?

In this episode of Behind the Paddle, we explore the raw, untamed power of menstruation from ancient myths of death and fertility to cutting-edge research in medicine and longevity. Can periods repel natural disasters? Kill with a glance? Or are they simply nature’s most potent secret, dismissed for centuries?

Join us as we unravel the duality of the menstrual cycle its role in both creation and destruction and investigate how this sacred, stigmatised force could revolutionise science, technology, and how we view feminine power itself.

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What happens when pleasure is prolonged… or completely denied?

On this episode of Behind the Paddle, hosted by Porcelain Victoria, we enter the tantalising realm of edging and chastity two deeply psychological practices rooted in control, submission, and the exquisite ache of anticipation. We break down the techniques, mental states, and dynamics involved in these rituals of restraint, and explore how denial can heighten intimacy, obedience, and erotic energy.

Whether you’re a seasoned submissive or curious newbie, this is your invitation to surrender to the slow burn.

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On this episode of Behind the Paddle, hosted by Porcelain Victoria, we dive into the shadowy world of financial discrimination. From closed accounts to denied services, we expose how banks treat sex workers and adult creators, share raw personal stories, and uncover what the government really has to say about it all.

Why are our bank accounts really being shut down and who benefits from keeping us out?

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Does kink deserve its place in Pride?

Let's find out.

Let's go back to the very beginning of Pride: when did it start, who helped start it, and what is Pride all about?

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In the electrifying debut episode of Behind the Paddle, host Porcelain Victoria is joined by two experienced kinksters for a deep dive into the world of electric play.

From essential safety protocols to the tools that tingle, sting, and seduce, this episode explores how controlled currents can create unforgettable sensations and psychological intensity. Whether you’re curious about violet wands, TENS units, or just want to understand the thrill of the zap this is your beginner’s guide to electrifying your play.

Tune in to learn how electric play can heighten intimacy, trust, and erotic connection with a partner, a playmate, or all on your own.

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In this episode, we dive into the current consultation in Scotland, where a pivotal decision is being made about the future of sex work in the country. The Scottish government is considering whether to introduce the Nordic Model, a controversial approach that criminalizes the purchase of sex but not the selling. We explore what this could mean for sex workers' rights, public safety, and the broader implications for society.

We feel that true justice lies in the full decriminalization of sex work—where the focus shifts to protecting the rights and dignity of workers, rather than criminalizing their livelihood. We discuss why the Nordic Model may not be the solution Scotland needs and examine alternative approaches that prioritize harm reduction, human rights, and empowerment.

Tune in as we unpack the complexities of this critical issue and advocate for a future where sex workers are supported, not punished.

Decrim Now's Open Letter opposing the Nordic Model

English Collection of Prostitutes "No Nordic Model – Criminalising Clients Undermines Sex Workers’ Safety"

Check out "Unbuyable" the proposed Nordic Model implementation in Scotland Consultation and add your views before the 30th of September 2024!

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 In this week's episode join us for a captivating interview with Miss May, a professional dominatrix based in London, as she delves into the intriguing world of BDSM and the nuanced differences between working in the scene in the UK and Germany. Broadcasting from her fully equipped dungeon in E1, known as E1 DARKROOM, Miss May shares her insights into the art of domination and submission, the thrill of control, and how cultural attitudes shape the kink experience across borders. Tune in to explore the seductive and extreme side of life with Miss May, where shame is shed, and desires are fully embraced. 

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On this week's episode, we sit down with the insightful and irreverent Kaytlin Bailey, founder of Old Pros Online and host of The Oldest Profession Podcast. Kaytlin takes us on a wild ride through her latest show, "Whore's Eye View," a captivating and fast-paced exploration of 10,000 years of sex work history. Along the way, she shares deeply personal stories from her own life, blending historical insights with humor and raw honesty. Join us as we dive into what goes on behind the scenes of, telling untold stories of sex workers throughout the ages and get a fresh perspective on the oldest profession in the world.

Whore's eye view is on throughout the Edinburgh Fringe! Grab your tickets here.

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