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541: How to Know When to Push Your Child… and When to Back Off
27 oct. 2026
00:23:37
When should you push your child to do something hard, and when is it better to back off? Today Karen and Emily are answering questions straight from our Wire Talk Insiders about stubborn kids, sibling bickering, big feelings, and building confidence. If you've ever wondered whether you're being too tough, too lenient, or just plain overthinking it, this episode is for you!
Episode Recap:
Thanks to our WT Insiders for the questions today! (3:03)
How do I motivate my stubborn and shy child?? (4:01)
If I give my kids an inch, they take a mile. Help! (8:20)
How do I handle sibling bickering? (10:43)
How do I help my 7 year old handle big (to him) new things? (14:30)
How do I build confidence in my kids? (18:30)
How do I honor my husband when we disagree on something? (22:00)
Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) — “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”
Discussion Questions:
Is there an area where you're pushing your child too hard or letting them off the hook too easily? How do you know the difference?
What is something your child is afraid to try right now? How can you help them face that fear?
Do you tend to overcorrect your kids or let things slide? What makes it hard for you to find the middle ground?
When you and your husband disagree about parenting, how do you handle it? Are you working as a team or letting your differences create tension?
Reach out to have Karen or Erin come speak in your community.
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily keep answering our Insider’s questions! Karen shares how she learned to trust her instincts as a mom, what to do when a parenting decision doesn't work out, and how to stop second-guessing every little thing.
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
540: Are You Helping Your Kids - Or Holding Them Back? with David Thomas
20 oct. 2026
00:34:51
What if making life easier for our kids is actually making it harder for them to grow up? Counselor David Thomas joins Karen and Emily to explain why struggle is GOOD for our kids and how doing hard things builds confidence and capability. Listen in and you’ll be challenged to resist the urge to rescue your kids and give them room to grow!
Episode Recap:
The pace of life has drastically changed in the last 30 years (3:00)
Capability and confidence are built in the struggle to do hard things (7:15)
We put too much emphasis on happiness (10:57)
Why David intentionally signed his son up for a losing team one season (14:31)
Narrating our own capability helps kids learn what it looks like in the real world (17:33)
How can parents re-train their brains to allow more struggle in their kids’ lives? (24:47)
A challenge for moms of boys! (30:30)
Scripture: Romans 5:3-4 (NIV) — “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”
Discussion Questions:
Where are you making life easier for your kids when you need to be allowing them to struggle? Where should you step back?
Do you let your kids see when life gets hard for you? How do you model perseverance in your own life?
Are you more focused on your child’s happiness today or their character in the long run? How does that affect the decisions you make as a parent?
Reach out to have Karen or Erin come speak in your community.
Want More of This Conversation? Dads bring something unique to the parenting table! In Wire Talk+, David Thomas shares how dads help build capability in their kids, plus practical advice for moms who want to connect better with their sons and dads who want stronger relationships with their daughters. Don’t miss this extra conversation!
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
539: Raising Kids Who Don’t Need You with Elizabeth Pehrson
13 oct. 2026
00:23:00
What if one of the best things we can do for our kids is let them struggle? Mom of eight and founder of The Exchange, Elizabeth Pehrson, joins Karen and Emily to talk about parenting for the long game. If you have a hard time watching your child fail, forget, or face the consequences of their choices, this conversation is for you! We hope it will encourage you to loosen your grip and trust God with the outcome.
Episode Recap:
Your job as a parent is to make sure they don’t need you - the hardest part is accepting your success (4:26)
Long game parenting asks, “Who do I want my child to be at 25, 35, 45?” (6:45)
How do we get more comfortable with watching our kids struggle? (9:37)
Allowing them to experience natural consequences is loving (12:02)
Practical examples of starting out small with independence (16:00)
Trusting the Lord is the foundation of success in parenting (19:29)
You are preparing them for leaving you (22:00)
Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV) — “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Discussion Questions:
How comfortable are you letting your child fail or experience natural consequences? What makes it hard for you to step back?
Think about your child at 25, 35, or 45. What kind of adult are you hoping to raise, and is the way you're parenting today moving them toward that?
Where do you need to loosen your grip and trust God more with your child?
Reach out to have Karen or Erin come speak in your community.
Atlanta moms - sign up for Mom Core Live! - a short term group with Karen and Erin
Want More of This Conversation? In Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily ask, “How much should I really know about my kid?” They talk about technology (hello Life360), over-functioning, and knowing when staying informed crosses the line into keeping our kids from growing up.
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
538: Parenting Your Neurodivergent Child with Dr. Chinwé Williams
06 oct. 2026
00:17:34
Parenting a neurodivergent child can feel lonely, especially when the people around you don’t understand what everyday life looks like. Counselor Dr. Chinwé Williams joins Karen and Emily to unpack neurodivergence, executive functioning, and the important difference between “won’t” and “can’t.” Whether you’re raising a neurodivergent child or want to better understand a friend who is, this conversation will help you respond with more empathy and grace.
Episode Recap:
What does neurodivergent mean and who falls under that umbrella? (2:56)
How do I know if it’s an actual skill deficit or simply a will deficit?’ (4:41)
What is executive functioning and how do I know if my kid struggles with it? (7:53)
Don’t get into unnecessary power struggles (13:08)
How do we advocate for our child without removing all obstacles for them? (14:50)
Scripture: 1 Corinthians 12:18 (NIV) — “But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be.”
Discussion Questions:
Where are you most tempted to compare your child’s abilities or behavior to other kids their age?
How could asking, “Is this a skill deficit or a will deficit?” change the way you respond to frustrating behavior?
Where are you getting pulled into unnecessary power struggles with your child? What could you do differently?
How can you advocate for and support your child while still allowing them to experience challenges that build independence and resilience?
Reach out to have Karen or Erin come speak in your community.
Atlanta moms - sign up for Mom Core Live! - a short term group with Karen and Erin
Want More of This Conversation? In Wire Talk+, Dr. Chinwé Williams opens up about her own journey processing an autism diagnosis and gets practical with specific strategies for the real-life parenting moments that can leave us wondering, What do I do now?
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
537: Raising Calm(ish) and Confident Kids with Dr. Chinwé Williams
29 sept. 2026
00:29:09
Big emotions can leave even the most confident mom wondering, Is this normal… or should I be concerned? Counselor Dr. Chinwé Williams joins Karen and Emily to explain what’s happening in our kids’ brains when they completely lose it and how we can partner with them to teach coping skills so they can move toward handling hard emotions on their own.
Episode Recap:
Are kids struggling with mental health more these days or are we just better at recognizing it? (2:32)
As young as age 5, kids are struggling with ‘task persistence’ (4:41)
Anxiety is a sign - it’s not the enemy (8:54)
Understanding the upstairs vs. downstairs brain (15:48)
How do we help our child via co-regulation? (20:04)
Where’s the line between attachment science and gentle parenting? (22:50)
Scripture: James 1:19 (NIV) — “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
Discussion Questions:
When your child has big emotions, what’s your first instinct: fix it, stop it, discipline it, or help them through it?
Dr. Williams said anxiety is a sign, not the enemy. What might your child’s anxiety be telling you right now?
How well do you stay regulated when your child is dysregulated? What tends to send you over the edge with them?
Is there an area where you’re stepping in too quickly instead of giving your child a chance to struggle, persist, and build confidence?
Reach out to have Karen or Erin come speak in your community.
Atlanta moms - sign up for Mom Core Live! - a short term group with Karen and Erin
Want More of This Conversation? In Wire Talk+, Dr. Chinwé Williams gets incredibly practical about what to say and do during a meltdown—including how to respond when your child’s big emotions trigger your own.
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
536: Finding Peace As A Working Mom with Erin Mashaw
22 sept. 2026
00:20:00
Working moms carry a lot, and sometimes we make the load even heavier by carrying things God never asked us to! Erin Mashaw joins Karen and Emily to talk about mom guilt, comparison, and that nagging feeling that you’re always disappointing someone.If you’re constantly wondering whether you’re doing enough at work or at home, we hope this conversation will help you put down some of that weight!
Episode Recap:
Every season looks different in the life of a working mom (0:50)
Being a working mom can feel like you are constantly disappointing someone (3:30)
Between the physical and the emotional, working moms are constantly busy (6:00)
The story of Martha shows us that we often carry things God has not given us (8:20)
How do we move away from a comparison mentality? (11:25)
Our kids don’t need perfect moms, they need us to be honest and real (14:26)
Your ‘race’ is unique to your family and your circumstances (17:21)
Scripture: Luke 10:40-42 (NIV) “But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
Discussion Questions:
Where do you feel the most pressure to “do it all” right now? Is that pressure actually coming from God?
Do you ever feel like you’re disappointing someone no matter what you choose? How does that affect the way you show up at work or at home?
Where are you comparing your family or your motherhood to someone else’s?
What are you carrying right now that God may never have asked you to carry?
Reach out to have Karen or Erin come speak in your community.
Atlanta moms - sign up for Mom Core Live! A short term group with Karen and Erin beginning the week of October 13th.
Want More of This Conversation? Wire Talk INSIDERS will hear Karen and Erin share helpful boundaries they have put in place to balance and honor both work and family. Plus - don’t miss the printable chart to help you assess “What’s Mine to Carry?”
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
535: How to Set Boundaries Without Building Walls with Debbie Causey
15 sept. 2026
00:26:49
Boundaries can feel uncomfortable, but they’re essential for healthy relationships! Counsellor Debbie Causey joins Karen and Emily today to explain what healthy boundaries actually look like, how over-functioning hurts the people we’re trying to help, and how to know when it’s time to say no. If boundaries are hard for you, you’ll walk away with practical tools, including how to start with a few “baby nos” to protect your relationships without building walls.
Episode Recap:
Why are boundaries a universal struggle? (2:40)
Healthy boundaries aren’t a wall, they’re a fence with a gate (4:11)
We need to learn the difference between a burden and a backpack (6:45)
How can I tell if I have a boundary issue with someone else? (10:54)
Over-functioning teaches people to be lazy and steals their confidence (14:15)
What's the difference between setting a boundary and just avoiding people? (16:00)
Get someone objective in the situation if you need to (22:36)
Practice saying “ baby” nos (23:31)
Scripture: Galatians 6:2-5 (NIV) “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves. Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else, for each one should carry their own load.”
Discussion Questions:
Is there a relationship where you’re carrying someone else’s “backpack”? What would it look like to hand that responsibility back to them?
Where are you over-functioning for someone in a way that may actually be keeping them from growing?
What’s one “baby no” you need to practice saying this week? What makes that ‘no’ difficult for you?
Resources:
Need more on Boundaries with your kids ? Listen to episode 494!
Pick up a copy of Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & John Townsend
Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community.
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Debbie shares a personal story of when she got it really wrong by not having boundaries and leaves us with encouragement about how boundaries can change your life for the better!
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
534: Relationships that Make Parenting Harder
08 sept. 2026
00:19:04
Sometimes it's not the kids - it's the adults around them that make parenting so difficult! Today we are answering your questions about difficult in-laws, boundaries with extended family, and tricky friendships that can make even simple parenting scenarios more complicated. Tune in and learn something practical to help you navigate whatever you're facing this week.
Episode Recap:
Should I re-engage my family of origin? Historically, it has been painful. (5:30)
I’m struggling with my sister-in-law who tries to parent my kids (8:30)
We are raising our kids far from family - how do I bring this grief to God? (11:55)
One of my close friend’s children is just plain destructive, how do I handle that? (16:07)
Scripture: Romans 12:18 (NIV) “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
Discussion Questions:
Generally speaking, are boundaries easy for you to create?
Is there a relationship in your life that regularly makes parenting harder? What specifically is creating tension?
Where do you need a clearer boundary with extended family? What keeps you from setting it?
Are you carrying grief over the family relationships you wish your kids had? Have you honestly brought that disappointment to God?
Pick up a copy of Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & John Townsend
Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community.
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily share real-life examples of how boundaries have brought freedom to their relationships and Karen offers her best in-law advice!
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast!
533: When Your Child’s Behavior Scares You
01 sept. 2026
00:21:39
Have you ever looked at your child and wondered, Where in the world is this behavior coming from? If you’re feeling overwhelmed by big emotions, difficult behavior, or a child you just can’t seem to figure out, this episode is for you. Karen and Emily share practical insight and tools to help you better understand your child and respond with confidence instead of frustration.
Episode Recap:
Sign up for SOAR today! (1:32)
My 10 yr old is so domineering that other kids don’t want to play with him (3:44)
My ADHD daughter cannot control her temper and hits frequently (5:39)
My son has been horribly mean to us lately, what could be wrong that he has started to treat us this way? (10:05)
It’s okay to pause and remind your kids of your family’s rules (13:25)
When we discipline our son, he takes his anger out on our Sheetrock (18:09)
Scripture: James 1:19-20 (NIV) “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.”
Discussion Questions:
What behavior in your child scares/worries you the most right now? Are you dealing with what’s actually happening, or are you catastrophizing about where it could lead?
Karen talked about knowing her children’s sin tendencies. Do you know your child’s? Have you asked God to show you what’s really going on in their heart?
When your child loses control, do you tend to lose control too? What would it look like for you to pause before responding?
Is there a behavior you’ve been excusing that actually needs a clear boundary or consequence? What do you need to address this week?
Listen to past ADHD specific episodes: 207, 208, 530
Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community.
Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount!
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen pulls back the curtain on what discipline really looked like in the Stubbs home, plus she and Emily talk about how to keep from catastrophizing when our kids’ behavior scares us.
Become an Insider today to get bonus content each week, join quarterly Zoom calls with Karen and sustain the ministry of this podcast.
532: Am I Making the Right Parenting Decision?
25 août 2026
00:18:35
Ever wish God would just TELL you what to do? Today, Karen and Emily tackle parenting decisions that don’t have a clear right or wrong answer; from kindergarten readiness and family size to going back to work and navigating technology at school. If you’re facing a parenting dilemma, we hope this episode helps you pray, trust God’s guidance, and move forward with confidence.
Episode Recap:
SOAR is only one month away! Sign up today (2:00)
Should I redshirt my Kindergartener? (2:40)
How do you know when you are done having kids? (5:39)
Is there a time that it’s wise to stop having kids? (7:20)
How do I know if it’s time to go back to work or if I should continue staying home? (10:44)
I’m frustrated about the amount of technology my young child is using at school (14:58)
Practical capability exercises for each age group (18:00)
Scripture: Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV) “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Discussion Questions:
Is there a parenting decision you are wrestling with right now?
What influences your decisions most: fear, opinions, practicality, or prayer?
How can you invite God into a decision you’re facing?
What parenting decision once felt huge but seems much smaller in hindsight?
Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community.
Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount!
Want More of This Conversation? Wire Talk+ moms will hear Karen share some of the parenting decisions that kept her up at night!
Become an Insider today to hear more from Sissy and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
531: Are We Making Our Kids Less Capable? with Sissy Goff
18 août 2026
00:20:33
Kids today are becoming increasingly afraid of risk and discomfort- are parents part of the problem? Today bestselling author and counselor Sissy Goff joins Karen and Emily to talk about her new book, Capable, and why loving our kids well sometimes means encouraging them to do hard things. Sissy shares how moms can manage their own anxiety and trust their parenting instincts to prepare their kids for greater confidence. Don’t miss the absolutely brilliant catchphrases she offers for reminding kids that hard isn’t a bad thing!
Episode Recap:
Sissy is a therapist and counselor in Nashville who has been counseling families for 33 years! (1:30)
Kids today more than ever are risk and discomfort avoidant (2:18)
Parents are abdicating intuition for the sake of experts (5:19)
We need to re-evaluate what it means to love our kids well (7:00)
How can we let go of our own anxiety to help our kids step up in independence? (13:30)
The three Cs of Capability (16:17)
Practical capability exercises for each age group (18:00)
Scripture: James 2:1-4 (NIV) “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”
Discussion Questions:
Where are you most tempted to step in and remove risk, discomfort, or struggle for your child?
How might your own anxiety be affecting your child’s willingness to try hard things independently?
What is one responsibility or challenge your child may be ready to handle without your help?
What words could you use this week to remind your child that something being hard does not mean it is bad?
Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community.
Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount!
Want More of This Conversation? Wire Talk+ moms will hear practical capability-building exercises for preschoolers through teenagers, along with specific phrases that help kids believe they can handle hard things.
Become an Insider today to hear more from Sissy and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
530: How to Stay Calm When Your Child Isn’t with Josh Thames
11 août 2026
00:20:04
If you've ever lost your temper with your kids, this conversation is for you. Counselor Josh Thames shares practical tools to help moms stay calm, communicate more effectively, and respond with confidence, even when emotions are running high. Whether you're parenting a child with ADHD, anxiety, or just big feelings, you'll walk away with practical encouragement you can use today.
Episode Recap:
Josh is an LPC with a background in teaching (1:30)
Are we making parenting decisions out of fear? (5:18)
Remaining steady is critical, especially for parents of kids with ADHD (8:07)
How can I stay calm on crazy, back to school mornings? (10:22)
A practical illustration of what tasks are like for an ADHD brain (14:29)
How can I bring down the emotional climate in my home? (17:30)
Having kids who are wired differently is a really good thing! (20:11)
Scripture: Isaiah 40:11 (NIV) "He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young."
Discussion Questions:
Josh said our job is to be shepherds, not engineers. How does that change the way you think about your role as a parent?
When your child becomes emotionally overwhelmed, what usually happens inside of you? How can you become the calm your child needs?
Which parenting habit would make the biggest difference in your home this week: using more concrete language, planning better transitions, or slowing down your own reactions?
Josh reminded us that success isn't measured by our child's behavior on any given day. How would redefining success change the way you parent this week?
Reach out to have Karen come speak in your community.
Become a WT+ Insider this month and get an exclusive SOAR discount!
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Josh shares practical advice for connecting with teens who don't want to talk, helping kids navigate transitions, and learning how to stay calm when your own emotions start to rise. This extra conversation is full of real-life parenting wisdom you won't want to miss!
Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
529: You Don't Have to Disciple Your Kids Alone
04 août 2026
00:23:08
You don't have to carry the weight of discipling your kids by yourself! In this episode, Karen and Emily sit down with children's ministry leader Kendra Fleming to share how partnering with your church can strengthen your family's faith without adding more to your plate. As we head into a new school year, we hope this episode encourages you to lean into the support God has already provided.
Episode Recap:
Kendra has been working in children’s ministry for 30+ years (3:30)
Church gives your kids another trusted voice and a place to serve (7:00)
What are some church rhythms that are worth protecting this school year? (11:00)
What does spiritual development look like at the different stages of childhood? (15:50)
Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 "Two are better than one...if either of them falls down, one can help the other up."
Discussion Questions:
When you think about discipling your children, do you feel excitement, pressure, fear, or something else? Why?
Has your church encouraged or supported your family in ways you couldn't have done on your own?
What rhythms around church have been most life-giving for your family? Are there any you've allowed to slip?
Is there a children's ministry leader, small group leader, or mentor you could intentionally encourage or build a relationship with this fall?
What practical step could your family take this year to more intentionally partner with your church in helping your kids grow in their faith?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Kendra continues to encourage us to be authentic in our relationship with Jesus, plus Kendra and Karen each give advice to their younger selves!
Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
528: Marriage First: Why Your Spouse Comes Before the Kids [RE-AIR]
28 juil. 2026
00:45:40
In this listener-favorite episode re-air, Karen and Greg pull back the curtain on nearly four decades of marriage—the good, the hard, the early years, and the season they’re in now. This conversation will make you smile, and maybe even tear up, as they remind us that we serve a faithful God who wants the best for us and our marriages.
Episode Recap:
How Karen and Greg back met in 1984 (4:00)
What were some of your biggest differences as newlyweds? (7:50)
How did you stay connected during the early years of raising kids? (10:09)
What has been the hardest season of your marriage? (18:48)
How has your relationship changed now that your kids are grown and gone? (31:35)
What has surprised you about becoming grandparents? (37:19)
Lightening round questions (40:12)
Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV) “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”
Discussion Questions:
Karen and Greg talked about prioritizing their marriage even while raising young kids. How do you currently make space for your spouse in a busy season of parenting?
Greg shared the advice he received from his dad: “Your family is your hobby.” What might it look like for you to protect your margin for your family?
Karen described her “needy gal” season where she learned to depend on God to meet her needs. How have you experienced God providing for you in a hard marriage or parenting season?
What small rhythms (like a daily debrief, date nights, or intentional quiet time) could you adopt to strengthen your connection with your spouse?
Looking ahead, what do you hope your marriage will look like when you reach the “high five” finish line of raising kids together?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Greg and Karen share advice for making it through difficult seasons of family life and don’t miss the very end of this conversation, when they share some of their biggest fights that they laugh about now!
Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
527: The Secret to Stress-Free Potty Training [RE-AIR]
21 juil. 2026
00:27:28
If you’ve been thinking that summer is the perfect time to potty train, this one’s for you! Christine Clark joins Karen and Emily today - she’s a mom, preschool teacher, and pro who’s successfully potty trained 17 children. From handling accidents with grace to dealing with fear, regression, or defiance, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement for moms in the potty-training trenches.
Episode Recap:
Christine runs an in-home daycare and LOVES toddlers (2:33)
Personality definitely feeds into potty training (5:58)
Is there a difference in training girls vs boys? (7:25)
Give us a step-by-step for those who are new to this (8:55)
What are the biggest mistakes parents make? (12:00)
How to support your child’s training at daycare (14:16)
What about kids who have “accidents” out of defiance? (16:35)
What if a child is afraid to go #2? (22:21)
Scripture: Galatians 6:9 (NIV) “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
Questions for Discussion:
What’s been your biggest potty training challenge so far, and what mindset shift could help you handle it with more patience?
How can you bring fun and encouragement into the process instead of frustration?
What does “everything can be cleaned” look like for you in this season of motherhood?
What other “hard things” have you done recently that remind you you’re capable of more than you think?
During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily share some of their own adventures in potty-training and remind us once again that everything can be cleaned!
Become an Insider today and help us reach our goal of 400 subscribers this year!
526: [RE-AIR] How to Handle Big Emotions and Bigger Attitudes
14 juil. 2026
00:29:10
From tantrums to name-calling to after-school meltdowns, this listener-favorite episode is packed with practical help for moms dealing with big emotions…and even bigger attitudes. Karen and Emily talk about red temperaments, ADHD outbursts, and how to handle disrespectful behavior without losing your cool. Listen in for advice on teaching kids to pause before reacting, role-playing tough situations, plus learn why setting boundaries with screens and school is worth the fight.
Episode Recap:
Meltdowns can happen at 6 or 16 (2:10)
Lean into the Lord and He will help you (5:14)
What do I do about a 10 year old who dominates her friends all the time? (6:31)
Role playing is a powerful teaching tool (8:56)
My daughter resorts to name calling when she’s angry - any advice? (9:39)
Anger is a secondary emotion (18:00)
I’m struggling with the amount of screen time that is embedded in school/homework, it clearly changes my kid’s behavior. What can I do? (24:00)
Scripture for Reflection:
Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
Questions for Discussion:
How do you typically respond when your child is disrespectful or melts down?
What do you think is really behind your child’s anger in those moments?
What boundaries do you need to reinforce in your home around disrespect, screen time, or emotional outbursts?
How could role-playing or using tools like the feelings wheel help your child grow in emotional maturity?
During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily talk about why so many parents are afraid to address disrespectful behavior and they discuss how to use devices intentionally so they serve your family instead of becoming a parenting crutch.
525: [RE-AIR] Do Less For Your Kids - Parenting for the Long Haul
07 juil. 2026
00:29:53
We're re-airing one of our most popular episodes this week! Karen and Emily sit down with Elizabeth Pehrson to discuss how moms can parent with purpose by focusing on the long game. In this conversation, Elizabeth shares her no-nonsense approach to raising independent, contributing adults. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of parenting littles or wondering how to prepare your teens for the real world, this episode will leave you inspired and equipped.
Episode Recap:
Elizabeth is a long time friend of BOAW Moms and a breakout speaker at Soar (2:09)
Most women live a Groundhog Day kind of life, but they don’t have to (8:08)
We can’t love others when we’re not loving ourselves well (10:32)
How did The Exchange come about? (12:37)
We need to raise adults who are contributors, not consumers (18:25)
We are overprotecting and under preparing our kids for the real world (21:00)
Keep the long game in mind! (25:01)
Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 (ESV) Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it."
Questions for Discussion:
What areas of parenting do you feel pressured to “do more,” and how might adopting a “do less” mindset bring freedom to your family?
How are you currently preparing your children for independence, and what’s one practical step you can take to help them contribute more?
Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of rediscovering yourself as a mom. What’s something you used to enjoy that you can reintroduce into your life?
How can shifting your focus from short-term achievements to long-term character development change the way you approach parenting?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily talk about why it’s easier to do for our kids than to teach them to do for themselves and Emily shares her new chore routine for her kids this summer.
Pornography exposure is happening younger and more often than most parents realize, and it’s affecting both boys and girls. In this episode, Karen and Erin Mashaw are joined by returning guest Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, for a practical conversation about what to do when your child has been exposed to pornography.
If you’ve been avoiding this awkward conversation, today’s discussion will motivate you and equip you to help your child navigate this topic.
Episode Recap:
We want our kids to have a plan to reject pornography when they see it (1:30)
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Kristen explains what's happening in a child's brain after pornography exposure, why these images can become "sticky," and how parents can help prevent repeated viewing from becoming a long-term struggle.
Summer doesn't have to be packed with fancy vacations or elaborate plans to be memorable. In this episode, Karen and Emily share simple, practical ways to add more laughter, spontaneity, and fun to your family's everyday moments. From DQ runs to dance-party cleanups, we hope this episode gives you some ideas and encourages you to let go of the pressure and just enjoy your kids this summer!
Episode Recap:
We’re talking about creating fun this summer with your kids (2:02)
Does summer feel daunting or fun to you? (4:35)
Fun isn’t trivial, it creates connection (9:53)
It’s okay to let your kids be bored (12:10)
Ask yourself, “is there a FUN way to do this?” (18:33)
Fun is the antidote to anxiety! (20:57)
I’m a blue, what if “fun mom” is just not my personality? (22:38)
Nothing is ever enough for my kids (26:22)
My kids are always bored, no matter what I do (27:11)
Scripture:
Proverbs 17:22 (NIV) "A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones."
Discussion Questions:
What are some of your favorite summer memories from childhood?
Which ideas from this episode for adding fun into everyday life could you try with your family this week?
Do you feel pressure to create a "perfect" summer for your kids? How might that expectation be stealing joy from your family?
How does your temperament influence the way you approach fun and play with your children?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk +, Karen and Emily dive into how temperament affects the way moms experience and create fun at home. They also discuss why cultivating joy and laughter in your home matters in the long run.
522: How to Build Work Ethic in Your Kids This Summer
16 juin 2026
00:20:01
Summer brings more snacks, more messes, and more opportunities to teach our kids valuable life skills! Today Karen and Emily are talking about why building a strong work ethic starts at home and why moms should avoid overfunctioning for their children, plus Karen gives practical ideas to teach age-appropriate responsibility. We hope this conversation will encourage you to play the long game this summer as you prepare your kids for real life!
Episode Recap:
You don’t have to be the one cleaning all the messes this summer (1:50)
Helping around the house instills confidence in kids (3:15)
We want to raise contributors, not consumers (5:00)
Teach your children to go the extra mile (8:10)
What are good kids' chores at each stage of development? (12:00)
How do you handle kids who push back on doing chores? (18:50)
Scripture:
Colossians 3:23-24 (NIV) "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving."
Discussion Questions:
How were chores and household responsibilities handled in your home growing up? Are you mimicking that environment or handling the workload differently in your own home?
Are there areas where you might be "over-functioning" for your children? What is one responsibility you could begin transferring to them this summer?
Which age-appropriate chore or life skill would be most beneficial for your child to learn right now? What would the training phase look like?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily get real about how chores work in Emily’s houses and Karen demonstrates how to fold a fitted sheet! Don’t sleep on becoming an Insider - learn today!
Summer is a perfect time to help our kids learn to look beyond themselves. In this episode, Karen and Emily share simple, practical ways families can serve together, whether that’s visiting a nursing home, helping with food recovery, serving on a mission trip, or just paying attention to the needs around you. We hope this conversation encourages you to start small, think intentionally, and discover how serving others can grow your family's faith this summer!
Episode Recap:
Snack time strategies for summer (2:00)
Serving with your kids can feel daunting (3:52)
Start small wherever you are (5:36)
Organizations like Lighthouse have opportunities for your whole family (13:17)
When you open your eyes, you’ll start to see opportunities everywhere (15:55)
Pray and ask God to show you ways to give back with your kids this summer (18:00)
Scripture: Philippians 2:3–4 (NIV) "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."
Discussion Questions:
What opportunities already exist in your community for your family to serve together?
What keeps your family from serving more often, and what’s one small step you could take this summer?
Karen talks about how serving helps us get outside our own "bubble." Where might God be inviting your family to lift your eyes beyond your bubble this summer?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen shares a personal story about taking Abby on a mission trip to China when she was just 9 years old - you never know how God is going to use your kids in service!
520: How to Grow Spiritually Alongside Your Kids This Summer
02 juin 2026
00:33:21
We’re kicking off a brand-new summer series today! All month long, we’ll be talking about how to make the most of the new rhythm summer brings to your home. In this episode, we’re talking about simple, practical ways moms can grow spiritually alongside their kids. We hope this conversation encourages you that you don’t have to do this perfectly to take meaningful steps of growth toward Jesus together as a family.
Episode Recap:
Whether you look forward to summer or dread it, try to enjoy it! (2:00)
You do not have to entertain your child all summer long (4:14)
Which kind of summer mom are you? (7:15)
You want your kids to see Jesus shining through you to your kids (11:35)
Let your kids see your real struggles (appropriately) (14:00)
Pray BIG with your kids (17:00)
Walk your kids through unanswered prayers when you are praying together (20:31)
Model humility and repentance (22:00)
What does this look like at different ages? (25:30)
Scripture: Deuteronomy 6:6-7(NIV) “These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.”
Discussion Questions:
Which part of this conversation felt most challenging to you: praying big, modeling repentance, letting your kids see your struggles, or something else?
Which one of these do you feel like you’re already doing?
How can you create small, intentional spiritual rhythms in your home this summer without putting pressure on yourself to “do it perfectly”?
What is one practical step you could take this week to help your kids see authentic faith lived out in everyday life?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily answer listener questions about kids pushing back against going to church and asking big questions about God.
As we wrap up our Mothers of the Bible series, we’re looking at one of the most complicated and heartbreaking stories in Scripture: Bathsheba. Her life was marked by loss, pain, shame, and circumstances she never would have chosen, yet God was still at work redeeming her story. In this episode, Karen and Emily talk about how our worst moments do not define us, how God meets us in brokenness, and why it’s never too late for redemption.
Episode Recap:
Soar is coming up in September - join us and see Karen live! (4:00)
What we know of Bathsheba’s story begins with David’s lust (6:54)
Bathsheba becomes the mother of Solomon (11:12)
Bathsheba was not in control of what was happening to her (12:35)
God is in the business of redemption (14:00)
Our worst days or seasons do not define our identity (16:00)
No one is too far gone for God to use in His story (18:19)
Do not let Satan convince you that you are unworthy (19:20)
Scripture: Matthew 1:6 (NIV) “David was the father of Solomon, whose mother had been Uriah’s wife…”
Discussion Questions:
Have you ever felt defined by a mistake or painful season in your life?
What parts of Bathsheba’s story stand out to you the most, why?
Is there an area of your life where you struggle to believe God can bring redemption?
What does it practically look like to separate your identity from your past?
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily share a family story that illustrates the importance of bringing our sin into the light and allowing Christ to redeem our past.
Naomi’s story is one of grief and disappointment, but ultimately, it’s about redemption. Today on Wire Talk, Karen and Emily continue our Mothers of the Bible series by looking at how God was working behind the scenes even when Naomi felt abandoned and bitter. If you’re walking through loss, broken relationships, or a season that feels nothing like the life you imagined, we hope this look at the life of Naomi reminds you that God is not absent and He is still writing your story.
Episode Recap:
This week we’re looking at Naomi’s story (1:26)
When this story begins, Naomi is living through one crisis after another (3:00)
Naomi’s outlook on her future was bleak (7:30)
God works to weave a thread of redemption through Naomi’s life (13:42)
God never abandons us even when it feels like He has (15:33)
We are not writing our own stories (18:19)
Scripture: Ruth 4:14 (NASB) “Then the women said to Naomi, “Blessed is the Lord who has not left you without a redeemer today, and may his name become famous in Israel.”
Discussion Questions:
Have you ever gone through a season where disappointment or grief changed the way you viewed your life or even God?
Are there losses or disappointments you’ve tried to “move past” without honestly grieving them?
Is there a story you’re currently telling yourself that may not actually be true? (“God has forgotten me,” “Things will never change,” etc.)
Which truth from Naomi’s story do you most need to hold onto right now:
Want More of This Conversation? During Wire Talk+, Karen shares more personally about seasons in her own life that didn’t turn out the way she expected and how God redeemed her disappointment.
Today we’re continuing our Mothers of the Bible series by looking at Hannah’s story in 1 Samuel. Hannah was a woman who longed for a child and wrestled with seasons of waiting and disappointment. Listen as Karen teaches through this story, reminding us that God invites us to trust Him, even when our prayers feel unanswered. If you’ve ever waited on God for something close to your heart, we hope you are encouraged to persevere today.
Episode Recap:
This week we’re looking at Hannah’s story (0:43)
Don’t miss the BOAW birthday party after the Soar Conference this year! (2:30)
Hannah is where, “...for this child I have prayed.” comes from (5:00)
Hannah had dealt with infertility for years (7:00)
Your pain may be different from Hannah’s but we can learn from her response (11:03)
Hannah and Jochebed both had hearts that were surrendered to the Lord (12:40)
Hannah recognized that it was the Lord who made her strong (16:00)
Like sheep, we need to follow first (17:28)
We must continually remind ourselves that God is good (19:06)
Scripture: 1 Samuel 2:1-2 (NIV) “Then Hannah prayed and said:
“My heart rejoices in the Lord; in the Lord my horn is lifted high. My mouth boasts over my enemies, for I delight in your deliverance.
“There is no one holy like the Lord; there is no one besides you; there is no Rock like our God.”
Discussion Questions:
What is something in your life that feels like a “waiting season” right now?
How do you typically respond when God doesn’t answer a prayer in your timing?
What would it look like to surrender that situation fully to God, like Hannah did?
Where are you tempted to compare your life to others, and how is that affecting your heart?
How can you remind yourself daily that “God is good” even when life feels hard?
Practically speaking, what does it look like for you to let God be your strength instead of trying to do it all yourself?
Insiders will hear Karen share a personal story of a season of waiting in her own life and what God taught her through it. Head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
516: Letting Go and Trusting God With Your Child
05 mai 2026
00:18:13
This week, we kick off our month of celebrating moms with a new series: “Mothers of the Bible.” Today we’re looking at the life of Jochebed, a woman who faced unimaginable fear and made an unthinkable choice to save her son. Through her story, Karen and Emily unpack what it looks like to do our best for our kids and trust God with the rest. If you’ve ever struggled to let go, this conversation will meet you right where you are.
Episode Recap:
We’re kicking off a new series by looking at the lives of some mothers in the Bible (0:49)
Jochebed was Moses’ mom (2:00)
She did everything in her power to keep Moses alive (4:10)
God enabled Jochebed to nurse Moses after his adoption by Pharoah’s daughter (8:00)
Jochebed did everything she could and left the rest up to God (9:50)
Jochebed was not Moses’ savior (10:20)
Only God can reach our children’s hearts (10:55)
Let go of your need to be a perfect parent (11:35)
Children are a blessing - try not to hoard the blessing (15:05)
Scripture: Psalm 56:3 (NIV) “When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.”
Discussion Questions:
Where in your parenting are you trying to “be the savior” instead of trusting God?
What does it look like practically to “open your hands” and give your children back to God each day?
How can you balance doing your part as a parent while still surrendering outcomes to the Lord?
In what ways might striving for “perfect parenting” be keeping you from trusting God more deeply?
Want More of This Conversation? In Wire Talk+, Karen and Emily go deeper into real-life parenting moments, sharing honest stories about when letting go has been hardest for them and how they navigated situations they couldn’t fix for their kids.
515: Trusting Your Mom Gut with special guest Dr. Laura Bleekrode
28 avr. 2026
00:30:56
Are you trusting your mom gut or Googling yourself into anxiety?
In this episode, pediatrician Dr. Laura Bleekrode shares wisdom from nearly 40 years of experience to help moms cut through the noise and parent with confidence. We talk about how social media and constant information can erode your instincts and how to get back to trusting yourself. You’ll be reminded that you know your child better than anyone and that matters!
Episode Recap:
Dr. Bleekrode is a mom of 8 who owns a pediatric practice and has been practicing medicine for 36 years (1:11)
How does Dr. Bleekrode “do it all”? (4:36)
What are you seeing in today’s families that moms didn’t face 20 years ago? (6:15)
Our “social networks” used to be personal (6:30)
God gave mom’s intuition for a reason! (8:53)
What symptoms require immediate medical or psychological attention? (12:13)
My toddler is not sleeping for hours at a time, multiple times a month (15:55)
What does a healthy sleep routine look like for a toddler? (20:06)
Have you noticed parents trying to control all outcomes for their children? (27:20)
How does your faith shape the way you counsel your patients? (28:13)
Scripture: Isaiah 26:3 (NIV)"You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.”
Discussion Questions:
When you feel anxious about your child, where do you tend to turn first; your friends, your instincts, or Google?
Can you think of a time your “mom gut” was right? What helped you trust it (or ignore it)?
What outside influences (social media, advice, comparison) tend to shake your confidence as a mom?
How can you create stronger, real-life support systems instead of relying on online answers?
What is one area where you can release perfection and trust God more in your parenting this week?
514: You Can’t Do It All (and That’s Okay): Surviving May
21 avr. 2026
00:17:39
May can feel overwhelming for moms, filled with endless events, expectations, and emotional moments.Today Karen offers practical wisdom to help you navigate the busyness without losing your joy (or your mind.) From setting realistic expectations to prioritizing what truly matters, this conversation is full of encouragement.
Episode Recap:
May is just December with sunscreen! (0:30)
May feels chaotic with elementary schoolers - how do I get through? (4:40)
Sit down with your high schooler and help them prioritize (9:10)
Don’t be a wet blanket on your high schooler’s parade (10:15)
Working mom here struggling with school events - help! (11:15)
This season has me emotionally up and down with my Senior(14:35)
Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV) “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.”
Discussion Questions:
What part of May feels the most overwhelming for you right now?
Are you trying to attend everything? What might you need to let go of?
How can you involve your kids in deciding what matters most this month?
Where are you feeling guilt, and is it justified or self-imposed?
What is one small way you can slow down and enjoy this season?
Want More of This Conversation? In the extended WT+ conversation, Karen and Emily get even more practical. Karen shares her system for breaking down exactly how to prioritize without feeling overwhelmed or stretched too thin. If you’re craving less stress and more clarity this month, don’t miss this part of the conversation!
Mom guilt can make even the best moms feel like they’re falling short. In this episode, Karen and Emily talk through the pressures we carry and the expectations we place on ourselves. They offer a practical, biblical perspective to help you recognize what’s true and what isn’t. We hope you walk away encouraged and ready to let go of unnecessary guilt!
Episode Recap:
Supermoms are a modern day myth (2:00)
Stay tuned after the show for Wire Talk+ (6:20)
I have been pregnant or postpartum for the past 4 years, everything feels uphill from here. How does anyone do this? (7:04)
How do I make the transition to being a stay at home mom? (12:42)
My 6 yr old’s incessant talking overwhelms me, help! (15:19)
My fuse is pretty short these days, how do I work on this? (19:20)
Join us for more questions on WT+ - link in show notes! (26:29)
Scripture: Isaiah 40:11 (NIV) “He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.”
Discussion Questions:
When do you tend to feel mom guilt the most, and what usually triggers it?
What expectations are you placing on yourself right now that aren’t necessary or realistic?
How can you distinguish between conviction from the Holy Spirit and unnecessary guilt?
What is one practical way you can “let go” of guilt this week and focus on what truly matters?
On WT+ today we are answering more questions about guilt, including questions about love languages and dealing with in-laws. Don’t miss it, subscribe today!
Family dynamics can get complicated quickly, especially when expectations, boundaries, and communication styles start to clash. Today we’re talking about how to navigate tension with extended family without losing your peace (or your voice.) We hope you’ll walk away with practical ways to communicate clearly, pursue peace, and love your extended family well.
Episode Recap:
Moms can easily get stuck in the middle of family conflicts (1:59)
I’m stuck in the middle of conflicts between my mom and my husband, help! (4:02)
My MIL is extremely difficult, even mean and petty toward me (7:47)
How can I be good friends with my mother in law and still have boundaries? (11:30)
How can grandparents be closer to the grandchildren of divorced parents? (14:33)
Join us for more questions on WT+ - link in show notes! (18:00)
Scripture: Romans 12:18 (NIV) “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
Discussion Questions:
Where do you feel the most tension right now with extended family or in-laws? What makes that situation difficult?
Do you tend to avoid conflict or confront it quickly? How does your temperament affect the way you handle family tension?
Are you currently acting as a “middleman” in any relationships? What would it look like to step out of that role in a healthy way?
What does it look like to “live at peace…as far as it depends on you” in your current situation?
What is one practical step you can take this week to improve communication or reduce tension in a family relationship?
Want More of This Conversation? On WT+ today we are answering more questions about extended family - how to make vacations and extended time together work well - and Karen shares her insights on keeping family connected and what to do when someone pulls away.
511: When Nothing Seems To Work: Second Guessing Your Parenting Instincts
31 mars 2026
00:15:20
Ever find yourself second guessing your parenting decisions? You’re not alone. In this episode, Karen answers questions from moms navigating school struggles, motivation, and knowing when to step back. We hope you walk away feeling encouraged to trust God with the parenting choices you are making.
Episode Recap:
One parenting decision won’t make or break your child (1:50)
My 1st grader doesn’t work hard in school and I can’t make her care! (2:30)
How do I motivate my 10 year old yellow/green son? (5:00)
My son is reluctant to participate in extracurriculars, how should I handle this? (11:42)
Don’t project your fears and anxieties onto your child (14:15)
Ask God for the wisdom you need to make parenting decisions today (15:00)
Scripture: James 1:5 (NASB) “But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach and it will be given to him”
Discussion Questions:
When do you find yourself second guessing your parenting the most? What tends to be the trigger?
Are there areas where you might be over-helping (or enabling) instead of allowing natural consequences to teach your child?
What practical systems (routines, checklists etc.) could help your child take more ownership?
Are you projecting fears about your child’s future instead of focusing on what’s true today?
What would it look like to release your parenting decisions to God and trust Him with the outcome?
Want More of This Conversation? In WT+, we dive into tougher parenting moments: attachment struggles, discipline that isn’t working, and navigating disagreements with your spouse. Plus, you’ll hear Karen’s practical ways to stay consistent when it feels like nothing is sticking.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I ruining my teenager’s life?” - you’re not alone. Today, Karen answers questions from moms navigating strong personalities, emotional pushback, and the tension between protecting and preparing their teens. With her trademark practical wisdom, she reminds us that what feels like conflict is often part of God’s process for refining our kids.
Episode Recap:
As moms, we can see the writing on the wall but our teens literally can’t (1:45)
My daughter and I fight all the time, I just do not like her right now (4:02)
You cannot take their attitude and/or push back personally (7:43)
How do I motivate my lazy teenage son? (9:01)
We don’t need to coddle our sons (11:09)
Look into our new study: How to Teach Your Kids the Bible (13:30)
My daughter’s career dreams are unrealistic, how do we talk to her about it? (13:45)
Any tips for a blue mom raising a melancholy 15 year old teen? (17:36)
Our job is not to solve all our kids’ problems, it’s to point them to the Lord (19:41)
Scripture: Galatians 6:9 (NLT) “So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.”
Discussion Questions:
When have you felt like your teen misunderstood your intentions? How did you respond?
Where are you tempted to take your teen’s behavior personally?
What would it look like to “get out of God’s way” in your parenting right now?
How can you stay emotionally steady when your teen is not?
What is one boundary you need to hold with confidence this week?
Want More of This Conversation? WT+ listeners will hear Karen encourage you to stand firm in your parental convictions without damaging the relationship. Karen shares personal stories of the fruit that both she and her children have reaped from maintaining stricter boundaries in the teenage years.
If you’re in the stage of parenting where tears, tantrums, and big emotions seem to take over every day, you’re not alone. Today Karen and Emily are tackling questions from moms navigating the emotional ups and downs of preschoolers and early elementary kids. They discuss why some kids cry more than others, how to handle tantrums without giving in, and how to guide sensitive kids through big feelings. If you’re in the thick of it these days, we hope this episode reminds you that this stage is normal and it won’t last forever!
Episode Recap:
All of our kids go through hard phases, you are not alone (1:08)
My 5 year old boy cries about EVERYTHING - help! (3:05)
My son’s temper tantrums are out of control, what can I do? (7:08)
My 4 yr old is very dependent on her brother, I’m worried about her clinginess (9:11)
How do I approach the “stranger danger” conversation with my outgoing girl? (12:39)
You’re not going to change the way your kid is wired, but you can understand it (20:00)
Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Discussion Questions:
How do you usually respond when your child cries or throws a tantrum? How’s that working for your family?
Karen talked about helping kids learn that not every situation is a “10 out of 10.” How do you teach your children perspective when they’re upset?
What are some practical ways you can help your child learn to express feelings with words instead of tears?
How does remembering that this stage is temporary change the way you respond in the moment?
Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week. Today Karen and Emily are sharing tips for how to make mornings easier with reluctant risers.
508: Parenting Strong-Willed Kids Without Losing Your Cool
10 mars 2026
00:20:08
Last week, Karen talked about the temperaments. This week, she takes that conversation one step further by answering real questions from moms who are navigating strong-willed kids, harsh words, whining, and emotional outbursts. If you’ve ever looked at your child and thought, I know their heart is sweet, so why is this coming out so sideways? this episode is for you. Karen shares practical wisdom for understanding your child’s wiring, correcting with grace, and helping them grow.
Episode Recap:
Last week, we talked about blue and red temperaments (2:00)
My blue/green son often comes across as critical and harsh (3:00)
My rising Kindergartener is controlling and bossy and can be physical (7:23)
My daughter used to love being the center of attention, now she’s self-conscious (12:25)
What is the temperaments book you reference all the time? (16:05)
Pick a “lane” when you take the temperaments test (18:57)
Scripture: Hebrews 12:11 (NIV) “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”
Discussion Questions:
Which of my child’s behaviors may be connected to their temperament, and which ones need clear correction?
Do I tend to react to my child’s tone or behavior in a way that escalates things?
How can I better coach my child after the emotional moment has passed?
Where does my own temperament make parenting this child especially hard?
What would it look like to be more patient and intentional in helping this child grow over time?
Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week! Today Karen delves deeper into how moms’ own temperaments affect the way they respond to their kids and gives a helpful rundown of the core needs of each temperament.
Today Karen and Emily tackle listener questions about kids with big emotions; the pouters, the perfectionists, the rule followers, and the fiercely competitive. Whether your child melts down when they lose, struggles to say they’re having fun, or takes rules a little too seriously, this episode will help you parent the way they’re wired instead of fighting against it.
Episode Recap:
Join Wire Talk+, our VIP club for listeners (3:45)
Is it okay to let my sensitive child pout in his room? (4:27)
My “blue child” never says she’s having fun and it’s discouraging to me (9:55)
How do I handle an overly strict rule follower? (13:30)
My 9 yr old cannot bear losing - should I give him consequences for meltdowns? (17:28)
You’re not going to change the way your kid is wired, but you can understand it (20:00)
Scripture: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) “Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”
Discussion Questions:
Does my child need space or correction in emotional moments?
Am I reacting to their personality, or am I training their character?
Do I expect my child to respond emotionally the way I would?
Where do I need to be more consistent with consequences?
How can I model emotional regulation in my own responses?
Are you parenting a Gen Z child and wondering why everything feels so different from when you were growing up? Today Karen and Emily sit down with leadership expert Tim Elmore, founder of Growing Leaders, to talk about the unique pressures facing this generation.
From overexposure to information and technology and underexposure to real-world experiences, Tim helps moms understand what’s really happening beneath the surface in a Gen Z kid. Don’t miss his fantastic illustration of what it means to be a “velvet-covered brick” as a parent!
Episode Recap:
Growing Leaders was created to help parents understand the next generation (00:54)
Who is the Gen Z kid? Who is Gen Alpha? (2:00)
Gen Z makes us better leaders (4:20)
Gen Z is overwhelmed by their overexposure to information (8:25)
This generation is underexposed to experiences (10:09)
How can a generation be so connected and still so lonely? (13:06)
How do I equip my kids to overcome hardship? (16:04)
Parents allow their kids to risk too little, and then rescue too much. (18:54)
What intentional habits can make a difference for this generation? (22:44)
Enter our giveaway on @birdsonawiremoms to win one of Tim’s books (27:20)
Scripture: James 1:2-4 (NIV) “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”
Discussion Questions:
Where am I most tempted to rescue my child instead of coaching them through something hard?
When my child says they’re overwhelmed, how do I typically respond?
How well am I balancing “be yourself” with teaching my child to belong to something bigger than themselves?
What is one real-life experience I could intentionally create this year to help my child grow up (not just grow older)?
Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week! Today Tim shares his perspective on the top 3 mistakes parents of teens are making with this generation.
Do you ever feel overwhelmed, overtouched, overstimulated and find yourself wondering, why does this feel so hard?
Today Karen answers real questions from moms about marriage, resentment, anxiety, exhaustion, and the emotional weight of motherhood. From mismatched sex drives in the toddler years to school-day overload and traveling husbands, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone. Motherhood can be beautiful and exhausting at the same time- and good and hard can truly run on parallel lines.
Episode Recap:
Good and hard can run on parallel tracks! (3:10)
How can I honor my husband’s higher sex drive and actually enjoy sex right now? (4:33)
My afternoons are exhausting with 3 school age daughters - is this normal? (6:57)
My husband travels for work & chooses golf on weekends, I feel resentful (12:50)
My job and homeschooling has me feeling so anxious, I dread my day to day life (18:28)
Scripture: Philippians 4:19 (NIV) “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.”
Discussion Questions:
Where am I currently feeling the most overwhelmed — marriage, work, parenting, or emotionally?
Is there resentment quietly building in my heart? What honest conversation needs to happen?
What small buffer or margin could I create this week?
Am I trying to solve everything myself instead of laying it before the Lord?
Where do I need to remind myself that “good and hard can run on parallel lines”?
Listen to episode 131 or 165 on having a healthy sex life after kids
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Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week! Today Karen shares a personal story about a painful season when she had to “bend the knee” to God’s will in her life. Join us and we hope you’ll come away encouraged.
Friendships in motherhood are rarely as simple as we expect them to be. Today Karen and Emily are continuing our friendship conversation by tackling comparison, conflict, cliques, and what to do when a friendship changes. They answer listeners’ questions about unmet expectations and learning when to lean in and when to let go. If friendship feels confusing, discouraging, or just plain messy right now, we hope this episode encourages you!
Episode Recap:
What is happening over on Wire Talk+? (4:01)
Where do your friendship expectations come from? (10:30)
How have your healthy friendships naturally changed over time? (12:56)
Ask God for what you need - even in your friendships (14:52)
Friendship doesn’t always look exactly like what we have imagined (18:02)
How do we handle conflict and tension in friendship? (18:30)
You can create space without ghosting people (21:37)
How do I make friends when everywhere around me is full of cliques? (22:00)
My friend continually brings up a topic of conversation that irritates me (25:25)
Scripture: Proverbs 17:17 (EST) “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”
Discussion Questions:
How has comparison (especially through social media) shaped your expectations of friendship?
Are there friendships in your life where proximity (distance, schedules, seasons of life) has changed the relationship?
When conflict or tension shows up, do you tend to address it or pull away? Why?
What kind of friend do you have the capacity to be right now? What kind of friendship do you realistically need in this season?
Is there one practical step you could take this month to strengthen a current friendship or pursue a new one?
503: Why Mom Friendships Feel Harder Than We Expected
03 févr. 2026
00:19:18
Friendships in motherhood can feel complicated, especially when old wounds and insecurities get stirred up in new seasons. In this episode, Karen and Emily talk honestly about why friendships can feel hard for moms and how to move forward with grace, healthy expectations, and a “generous explanation” for the people around us.
Episode Recap:
Friendship is difficult as a mom (2:23)
We all have past hurts that impact how we receive or offer friendship today (4:30)
How do we prevent self-sabotaging friendships? (6:17)
Communicate clearly when you have moved into a new season of life (8:06)
Choose a generous explanation whenever possible (10:02)
How do I handle someone who is not a good fit wanting to be friends?! (13:54)
How do I maintain friendships in a very full season? (16:45)
Continue this conversation on WT+ at the link below (20:16)
Scripture: Ephesians 4:2 (NLT) “Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love.”
Discussion Questions:
Have you had a friendship since becoming a mom that didn’t turn out the way you expected. What made it hard?
When friendships feel disappointing or painful, what past experiences or insecurities tend to get stirred up for you?
Where do you think your expectations in friendships might need to shift to match the reality of your current season?
What would it look like for you to give a “generous explanation” instead of assuming the worst in a friendship right now?
What is one practical way you can pursue friendship with more grace this month without overextending yourself?
Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week! Today Karen and Emily share how their past relationships have affected the kind of friend they are today.
To become a Wire Talk+ Insider, head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
502: Parenting Adult Children: How to Let Go Without Losing the Relationship with Jim Burns
27 janv. 2026
00:31:12
Parenting doesn’t end when your kids turn 18. In many ways, it gets more complicated! Today Karen and Erin are joined by longtime parenting expert Jim Burns for a wise and honest conversation about parenting adult children. They talk about releasing control, shifting your role, navigating boundaries, resisting unsolicited advice, and discerning the difference between helping and enabling. Whether your kids are still at home, newly launched, or already raising families of their own, this episode will help you parent with clarity, peace, and long-term perspective.
Episode Recap:
Jim is the founder of Homeward Ministries (3:06)
When our children become adults, we have to give up control (4:43)
What does it look like to embrace a new “job description” as moms? (7:00)
How can we offer wisdom to our adult children or do we just bite our tongues? (11:37)
Resist the urge to become a “one topic” parent (13:15)
What’s the difference between helping your kids and enabling them? (15:45)
How do we place good boundaries when adult kids move back in? (19:10)
What does it mean to, “wear beige and keep your mouth shut?” (24:00)
Can you cast vision for the grandparent years? (28:00)
Continue this conversation on WT+ at the link below (32:00)
Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (ESV) – “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven.”
Discussion Questions:
What part of parenting adult children feels most difficult for you right now? If you don’t have adult children yet, what fears or worries do you have about that season of life?
How can you shift from giving advice to asking permission before speaking?
Is there an area where helping may have crossed into enabling dependency?
What expectations need to be clearly communicated in your family right now?
How can you focus on relationship building rather than behavior correcting?
Resources:
Listen to the rest of our conversation with Jim over on WT+: boaw.mom/insider
Wire Talk+ listeners get extended conversations every week! Today we go deeper into parenting wayward adult children, setting boundaries, and navigating complicated family dynamics.
To become a Wire Talk+ Insider, head HERE and join us for the full conversation.
501: Parenting Principles From Proverbs (Part 3): The Fruit of Faithful Discipline
20 janv. 2026
00:25:58
Discipline is hard, especially when the results feel slow or invisible. In this final episode of our Parenting Principles from Proverbs series, Karen and Emily shift the focus to the long-term fruit of faithful discipline and the peace it brings to both children and parents.
Drawing from Proverbs and Hebrews, Karen reminds moms that discipline is discipleship. It is not about control or behavior management in the moment, but about shaping hearts, building security, and leaving a generational blessing. Don’t miss the end of today’s episode, when Emily announces our big winners from last week’s giveaway!!
Episode Recap:
What does the fruit of discipline look like? (2:30)
Discipline now will bring peace later (7:10)
How do I teach my son to obey without all the drama? (11:30)
How do I stay calm while disciplining my bonus child? (14:12)
My kids argue and whine about everything. I’m exhausted! (17:30)
Discipline takes time and repetition (21:17)
Discipline leaves a generational blessing (22:54)
Our big giveaway winners announced! (24:42)
Scripture: Hebrews 12:11 (ESV) – “For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.”
Discussion Questions:
Why do you think discipline feels especially hard when results are not immediate?
How does seeing discipline as discipleship change your perspective?
Which scripture from this episode encouraged you the most and why?
Where might God be asking you to stay consistent, even when you feel tired?
What kind of long-term fruit do you hope to see in your children ten years from now?
500: Parenting Principles from Proverbs (Part 2): How to Be a Wise Mom
13 janv. 2026
00:38:57
We are celebrating 500 episodes of Wire Talk and using this milestone to talk about something every mom wants: wisdom that actually works in real life. Today Karen breaks down what it means to be a wise mom, not a perfect one, and offers a simple grid for everyday moments by asking, “Will my response build my house or tear it down?” From discipline to independence, this conversation focuses on proactive parenting that shapes our kids over time.
Episode Recap:
Wire Talk is celebrating 500 episodes - don’t miss our BIG GIVEAWAY (2:34)
A wise mom builds her house up in all she does (7:10)
Children are born with a sin nature (11:00)
Being intentional is hard work (14:31)
What is the difference between teaching, training, and discipline? (15:50)
Consistency builds trust (20:30)
Discipline sets your child up for success long term (23:40)
Listener question - how do I discipline my biter? (26:44)
Listener question - is it too late for me to disciple my child in faith? (29:39)
How do I discipline tantrums in public? (31:52)
I don’t know how to help my daughters solve sibling conflict… (33:30)
Scripture: Proverbs 14:1 (NIV) – “The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.”
Discussion Questions:
Karen’s guiding question is, “Will my response build my house or tear it down?” Where do you most need that filter right now? (Discipline, mornings, homework, sibling conflict, or marriage?)
Where do you tend to parent reactively, and what would it look like to be proactive instead?
How does remembering your child’s sin nature change both your expectations and your compassion?
Karen talks about how tearing down can show up in our words with kids or a spouse. Where do you need to shift from criticism to building up?
Which do you lean toward most: teaching, training, or disciplining, and which one do you tend to avoid? Why?
Where do you need to ask God for help right now, one specific area where you are asking Him to meet you with encouragement?
Resources:
Join our giveaway by commenting on this episode over on YouTube!
499: Parenting Principles from Proverbs (Part 1): How to Parent with Confidence Instead of Anxiety
06 janv. 2026
00:32:23
Karen and Emily are kicking off the year with a three-part series about parenting principles we can learn from the book of Proverbs. Today, Karen addresses the confusion many moms today feel around discipline, authority, and the pressure to “get it right.” Drawing from Solomon’s teaching, she reminds us that children need leadership, clear boundaries, and parents who are willing to direct them with confidence rather than fear. We hope this conversation encourages you to trust God for wisdom no matter what you are facing this week!
Episode Recap:
Wire Talk is celebrating 500 episodes next week
Subscribe to our YT podcast so you don’t miss the giveaway
Gentle parenting does not work
Stop Googling and start getting into the Word of God
We are bombarding ourselves with information overload
Moms are afraid of messing up and uncertain of what to do
What are the 3 stages of discipline?
How do I discipline without introducing shame?
Children are so resilient, we do not give them enough credit
Trust that God will give us wisdom exactly when we need it
Scripture: Proverbs 1:1-5 (ESV) – “The proverbs of Solomon son of David, king of Israel: for gaining wisdom and instruction; for understanding words of insight; for receiving instruction in prudent behavior, doing what is right and just and fair; for giving prudence to those who are simple, knowledge and discretion to the young—let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance…”
Discussion Questions:
What messages about parenting have influenced you the most in recent years—culture, social media, your upbringing, or Scripture?
“More information is not always good information.” Where have you felt overwhelmed or anxious because of too much advice?
Why do you think the word authority has become uncomfortable in parenting conversations?
How does Proverbs reframe discipline as protection and love rather than punishment?
What is one area of parenting where you need to ask God for wisdom instead of trying to figure it out on your own?
As Christmas approaches, we are turning our focus to love this final week of Advent. In this episode, Karen and Emily unpack what it looks like to love like Jesus in everyday moments: choosing presence, serving quietly, pausing before reacting, and remembering that we love others because Christ first loved us. If the holidays have stretched your patience thin, we hope this conversation will help you refocus your heart on what truly matters!
Episode Recap:
We’re talking about love this week (6:05)
How do we respond to God’s love practically? (7:55)
Loving others looks like not being selfish (8:44)
Take an interest in others this Christmas (12:34)
Choose presence over perfection (15:54)
Speak life with your words (16:31)
Pause before you react (18:42)
Enjoy simple moments (20:20)
Serve quietly (21:15)
Focus on gratitude (22:42)
Scripture: Philippians 2:1-5 (NIV) “Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus.”
Discussion Questions:
Why do you think loving others feels harder during the holidays?
In what ways do you catch yourself trying to impress others rather than love them?
Which part of Philippians 2:1–5 challenges you the most right now?
What does “choosing presence over perfection” look like in your home?
What is one thing you can do this week to respond with love instead of frustration?
Resources:
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497: How to Tune Your Heart to Joy This Christmas
16 déc. 2025
00:16:41
Joy doesn’t just happen, our hearts have to be tuned to it. In this third week of Advent, Karen and Emily talk honestly about how hard it can be to find joy in the middle of exhaustion, family stress, and the very real unmet expectations of the season. Using the picture of tuning an instrument, they unpack how joy comes when we continually refocus our hearts on Jesus, not on our circumstances. If you’re longing for a steadier joy this Christmas season, this conversation is for you!
Episode Recap:
Intro (00:00)
Today we’re talking about joy (2:10)
We have to tune our hearts to joy (4:12)
Jesus often becomes a secondary thought in this season (5:55)
Remind yourself on a daily basis that this life is not about you, it’s about Christ (7:50)
Find ways to re-center yourself on Christ this Christmas (10:30)
Decide to have NO expectations each day, live with an open hand (11:35)
Focusing on God makes the trivial things of this world fade away (16:01)
Scripture: Luke 2:10-11 (ESV) “And the angel said to them, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.”
Discussion Questions:
When you hear the idea of “tuning your heart to joy,” what stands out to you personally?
What tends to pull your focus away from Jesus most during the Christmas season?
Can you identify a recent moment where unmet expectations robbed you of joy?
What practical practices help you re-center on Christ?
How does Mary’s response to God’s plan challenge the way you respond to interruptions or disappointments?
What would it look like to hold your plans and expectations with open hands this season?
Resources:
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496: Preparing Your Heart for Christmas
09 déc. 2025
00:25:03
It’s easy to find ourselves in the middle of December with a packed calendar and an unprepared spirit, carrying bitterness, comparison, or disappointment into every day. Drawing from Matthew 3:3, Karen talks about what it means to “prepare the way for the Lord” so we don’t miss Jesus in the middle of our own expectations. You’ll come away with simple, practical ways to prepare your heart for Christmas, no matter what your circumstances are like.
Episode Recap:
Today we’re talking about preparation (2:15)
We must prepare our hearts so we don’t miss Christ (3:54)
We prepare through self-reflection, repentance, readiness (5:06)
It’s hard to see the condition of your own heart, so pray about it (6:12)
This world is full of trouble, but Christ has overcome the world (13:09)
We have to take our thoughts captive over and over and over again (14:45)
Practically, how do we prepare our hearts? (17:13)
Scripture: Matthew 3:3 (NIV) – ‘Prepare the way for the Lord, make straight paths for him.’
Discussion Questions:
When you look at this Christmas season, where do you see that your heart might be “unprepared”? (Bitterness, comparison, resentment, fear, exhaustion, etc.)
What “self-talk” tends to get loud for you during the holidays (i.e.: life isn’t fair, I never have enough, no one appreciates me)? Which scriptures could help you renew your mind with truth instead?
Karen shared practical ideas for preparing your heart: starting the day with Jesus, lighting a candle, sitting in silence, simplifying your schedule, serving someone in need. Which one could you realistically try this week?
Is there one thing you could say no to this December to create more space for peace, presence, and noticing Jesus? What would it look like to trust God with that decision?
Resources:
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Today we’re kicking off our Advent series with a focus on hope. December fills up fast with activities, expectations, and pressure for a picture-perfect holiday, making it easy to place our hope in circumstances, schedules, and our spouses. But what do we do when Christmas doesn’t go as planned?
In this episode, Karen invites us to ask a powerful question: Where am I placing my hope this Christmas? If you’re craving a calmer, more Christ-centered Christmas, this conversation will help you anchor your hope in Him alone.
(Psst! If you’re listening with littles, you may want to skip to 3:30, we talk about Santa early on.)
Episode Recap:
Karen and Emily talk Santa and gift purchasing (1:45)
What is one thing about Christmas you love & one thing you could do without? (4:15)
Karen went on an advent deep dive this year (7:59)
Everyone can use more hope (12:27)
There’s a lot of grief and sadness at the holidays (14:50)
Emmanuel means ‘God with Us’ (16:52)
Our hope cannot be in our circumstances (18:02)
Where are you placing your hope right now? (19:07)
Scripture: Micah 7:7 (NIV) “But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me.”
Discussion Questions:
Where are you most tempted to place your hope: your spouse, finances, health, kids’ behavior, or a “perfect” holiday?
Have you ever walked through a Christmas marked by grief, disappointment, or loneliness? How did God meet you there (or how are you asking Him to now)?
What would it look like, practically, to shift your hope from circumstances to Christ this month?
How can you help your kids see Christmas as a season of hope in Jesus, not just presents and activities?
Resources:
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Today Karen is tackling your questions about navigating the teenage years, from motivating strong-willed teens to handling independence, changing relationships, and the ever-present “that’s not fair!” Karen shares what worked in her home, including how to stay connected to strong-willed teens, helping boys who are pulling away, and parenting through the ever-changing norms of phones, jobs, and freedom.
Episode Recap:
You can be strict in the teen years and have great relationships with adult kids (4:00)
Give them a “no, because…” during the teen years (5:54)
How do I motivate my 15 year old to help out around home? (7:25)
Help! My 13 yr old thinks he knows everything! (11:37)
My teenage son is pulling away, I feel sad and rejected (15:35)
How do you handle keeping things “fair” during the teenage years? (18:40)
We have to remember our teens are growing up and that’s messy (22:01)
Scripture: James 1:5 (NIV) “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”
Discussion Questions:
Where do you struggle most in balancing independence and safety with your teen?
Are you naturally stronger in boundaries or connection? What needs strengthening?
How does remembering your teen is still maturing affect your responses to them?
Who supports you during the teen years, and how can you invite more support?
If you’re staring down the potty training season with dread, this one’s for you! Karen and Emily are joined by Christine Clark—a mom, preschool teacher, and pro who’s successfully potty trained 17 children. From handling accidents with grace to dealing with fear, regression, or defiance, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement for moms in the potty-training trenches.
Episode Recap:
Christine runs an in-home daycare and LOVES toddlers (2:33)
Personality definitely feeds into potty training (5:58)
Is there a difference in training girls vs boys? (7:25)
Give us a step-by-step for those who are new to this (8:55)
What are the biggest mistakes parents make? (12:00)
How to support your child’s training at daycare (14:16)
What about kids who have “accidents” out of defiance? (16:35)
What if a child is afraid to go #2? (22:21)
Scripture: Galatians 6:9 (NIV) “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
Discussion Questions:
What’s been your biggest potty training challenge so far, and what mindset shift could help you handle it with more patience?
How can you bring fun and encouragement into the process instead of frustration?
What does “everything can be cleaned” look like for you in this season of motherhood?
What other “hard things” have you done recently that remind you you’re capable of more than you think?
492: How to Handle a Difficult Mother-in-Law (Without Starting a Family War)
11 nov. 2025
00:23:30
This week, Karen tackles listener questions on navigating everything from over-involved mother-in-laws to family disagreements and unmet expectations. Karen shares wisdom from her 39 years of marriage about when to speak up, when to set boundaries, and how to keep your marriage strong even when extended family drama threatens your peace!
Episode Recap:
How do we make our relationships with our MILs stronger and better? (2:53)
As a MIL, how can I best help my DIL when Baby #3 arrives? (4:25)
My MIL doesn’t get along well in family situations, should I intervene? (8:35)
Boundaries are for you, not the other person (10:17)
My SIL never prioritizes our family, should I talk to her? (12:25)
My MIL is upset over our parenting choices, (15:18)
My husband and I are at odds over how best to honor his family (18:20)
Scripture: Matthew 11:28 (NIV) “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
Discussion Questions:
When have you found it hardest to set boundaries with family? What helped you hold firm?
How can you and your spouse stay unified when you see a family situation differently?
What practical ways can you show love to your in-laws while still protecting your family’s peace?
When conflict rises, what would it look like for you to “take it to the Lord” instead of trying to fix it yourself?