Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast What Really Matters: Everyday Spirituality
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| Ep. 179 How do I forgive myself? | 23 Jul 2026 | 00:28:30 | |
In order to grow spiritually forgiveness is one of the most important tasks we need to accomplish. And forgiving ourselves is a necessary step before we can fully forgive others. In a companion Soulcode Post I've written about why self-forgiveness is so hard to do. In this episode I share some practical steps to actually move through letting go of self-blame and guilt. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 178 Roses for Tracey and Grief with Wings | 21 Jun 2026 | 00:30:27 | |
This special Father's Day episode is a companion to my latest post on Soulcode: We Need Another Word for Grief. I'm sharing some thoughts about how grief grows and changes over time by telling the story of my niece who died too soon of cancer, and a synchronicity involving roses after she died. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 177 Grieving the Chosen Goodbye | 01 Jun 2026 | 00:19:27 | |
This episode is a companion to two previous EOLU Podcast episodes and a Substack post on Medical Aid in Dying. Here I share the story of a colleague with ALS who wanted to use MAID and my thoughts about grief after a chosen death. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 176 How Our Attention Shapes Our Experience | 27 Apr 2026 | 00:27:51 | |
This episode is a companion to the previous 3 episodes on Levels of Consciousness (173), Kindness (174) and Presence (175.) I share how what we pay attention to in our environment shapes our experience of reality and why we need tools to help us expand our awareness. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 175 Presence: The Most Important Skill for Uncertain Times | 15 Apr 2026 | 00:37:00 | |
In this episode I talk about the foundational skill of Presence: being able to focus on the present moment and also remaining calm in the midst of difficulties. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 174 Kindness is Contagious and We Need it Now More Than Ever | 01 Apr 2026 | 00:33:31 | |
In this episode I'm sharing research by Dr. Jonathan Haidt that demonstrates the ripple effects transmitted from each and every act of kindness. When other people see us being kind it changes them. And this moment in time--when people are feeling overwhelmed, polarized, frightened, and uncertain--is exactly when kindness is needed. "Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside, you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing." from the poem Kindness by Naomi Shihab Nye This episode includes:
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| Ep. 173 Why People See the World So Differently | 23 Mar 2026 | 00:37:31 | |
In this episode I share a useful and simple metaphor for levels of consciousness that can help us understand why there are so many opposing views of the world in our society right now - and how to navigate them. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 172 The Weight of Unforgiveness | 14 Mar 2026 | 00:23:31 | |
In this episde I share two interlocking stories about the burden we carry when we hold onto resentment, anger, self-blame, and self-loathing. Find out how I learned to begin to let it go. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 171 Keeping Vigil While the World is at War | 09 Mar 2026 | 00:25:42 | |
War is unfolding in many parts of the world right now, yet for many of us life continues largely unchanged. In this episode I reflect on the difference between how earlier generations experienced war—especially during World War II—and the distance many of us feel from today’s conflicts. Drawing on a story from my father’s experience in the war, I explore how we might remain present to the suffering of others without becoming overwhelmed or turning away. I also invite listeners to consider creating a simple Sunday evening vigil—a moment to pause, light a candle, and hold the people of the world in compassion. Download the Sunday Evening Vigil Learn about my books here Check out End-of-Life University Podcast Read my latest Substack post Make a donation here | |||
| Ep. 170 Practices for Preparing for Elderhood | 04 Mar 2026 | 00:36:48 | |
This episode is a companion for my latest post on Substack which you'll find a link to below. Many of us are reaching a stage in life where it is important to begin cultivating our life's wisdom in order to move into the role of an elder for our society. Read about that on the post first and then listen to this episode which includes practices for becoming an elder:
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| Ep. 169 My View of the Afterlife | 02 Mar 2026 | 00:18:43 | |
In this brief episode I'm sharing with you my own experience of the spiritual realm and the afterlife since many people have wondered whether or not I "believe" the afterlife exists. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 168 The Power of Lovingkindness | 14 Feb 2026 | 00:31:24 | |
In this episode I share with you a powerful tool that we all need right now: The Lovingkindness Blessing. You can use this every day to transform your life and relationships - the world is starving for lovingkindness right now so I hope you will give this practice a try! This episode includes:
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| Ep. 167 Finding a Path of Love in a Hate-Filled World | 01 Feb 2026 | 00:37:44 | |
In this episode I'm sharing my own up and down journey of learning how to step forward with love in this world where hatred surrounds us. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 166 Wisdom for the Long Arc of Societal Change | 12 Jan 2026 | 00:37:12 | |
In this episode I talk about the horrific state of affairs in the world and especially here in the US where we are confronted on a daily basis with violence, hatred, and inhumanity. We are awake now to the reality of the dark side of human nature and though we feel change is coming we don't know how long it will take. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 165 Going Nowhere and Why It Matters | 16 Dec 2025 | 00:17:11 | |
This episode is a post-illness reflection on what happens when all our plans and aspirations get waylaid and we end up getting nowhere that we had planned to be. It includes:
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| Ep. 164 The Ego and It's Immortality Projects | 08 Dec 2025 | 00:31:57 | |
In this episode I discuss "immortality projects" - a term coined by Ernest Becker to describe the ego's efforts to escape the fear of death. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 163 The 4 Elements of True Love | 01 Dec 2025 | 00:28:05 | |
Today I'm sharing Thich Nhat Hahn's 4 elements of true love, which is a Buddhist perspective on love that I find valuable. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 162 The Hidden Work of Bearing Bad News | 24 Nov 2025 | 00:26:14 | |
In this episode I talk about the timing of delivering bad news and the experience of carrying that bad news until the moment it can be shared. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 161 Tools for the Chrysalis: What to Do When Everything Falls Apart | 17 Nov 2025 | 00:32:42 | |
In this episode I'll share insights from my recent Substack post on the metaphor of the butterfly life cycle and why as a society we are in a "chrysalis phase" right now. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 160 Contemplating The Tao of Death | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:25:26 | |
This episode is Part 2 on the mini-series on dealing with the fear of death. Today we look again at the 5 doorways of exploring death and I share verses from The Tao of Death that can help us contemplate the deeper meaning of each doorway. The episode includes:
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| Ep. 159 How Do I Rise Above the Fear of Death? | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:35:54 | |
In this episode I share some thoughts from ChatGPT along with my own about how to deal with our innate fear of death. Next week I'll continue with this topic and share some wisdom from The Tao of Death but first we begin with a deep dive into death. This episode incudes:
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| Ep. 158 Into the Unknown: Using Frozen 2 to Talk About Grief | 27 Oct 2025 | 00:30:49 | |
In this episode I share how to use the Disney film Frozen 2--which I've been watching on repeat with my 3 year old granddaughter--as a catalyst for conversations about loss and grief. Here are some tips for using the film and a discussion guide you can download for your own family movie night. This episode include:
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| Ep. 157 The Healing Power of Visible Grief | 20 Oct 2025 | 00:30:12 | |
In this episode I share how my own grieving process was helped by experiencing the visible evidence of mourning I encountered when traveling through Italy (as written in Wild and Holy). This episode includes:
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| Ep. 156 How Grief Can Fuel Creativity | 13 Oct 2025 | 00:17:03 | |
In today's brief episode I share some thoughts about how my travels through Italy revealed to me that grief is a powerful source of creativity if we face it directly. This episode highlights the poetry of Andrea Gibson, whose journey through cancer sparked luminous creativity in the midst of grief. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 155 BONUS Introduction to Wild and Holy | 10 Oct 2025 | 00:12:07 | |
In this special episode I’m sharing with you the Introduction to my new book Wild and Holy! I hope you enjoy listening to this brief excerpt and that you’ll consider backing the Kickstarter campaign where you can receive many wonderful bonuses for your support. Wild and Holy has been named a “Project We Love” by Kickstarter, which is an amazing honor I’m happy to receive. Check it out and reserve your copy – available now only through Kickstarter! Go to this link: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/2136452733/wild-and-holy Thanks in advance if you choose to support the campaign! | |||
| Ep. 154 Clearing the Field to Improve Challenging Relationships | 06 Oct 2025 | 00:32:13 | |
Today I'm sharing a personal practice I've used to clear my own energy field when I'm faced with tense and challenging relationships. With all the polarization and hatred present in our society right now we need tools like this to help us find peace and reconciliation wherever possible. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 153 When Grief Comes Back Like a Volcano: The Second Wave | 29 Sep 2025 | 00:30:03 | |
In this episode I share my experience of having grief return to me in a sudden, unexpected wave like a long-dormant volcano erupting. This event is the subject of my new book Wild and Holy, which is launching on Kickstarter this week. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 152 Healing Grief to Heal the Heart | 22 Sep 2025 | 00:27:44 | |
In this episode I will share my own personal journey of healing for the heart condition I was unexpectedly diagnosed with last year. This story has a rather miraculous conclusion so listen to the end! This episode includes:
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| Ep. 151 Navigating the In-Between of Growth from Ego to Soul | 15 Sep 2025 | 00:31:49 | |
This episode is Part 3 of a mini-series on From Ego-Driven to Soul-Led: A Journey of Integration. In Part 1 we focused on the ego and Part 2 centered around the Soul, or Higher Consciousness. Today we cover the "dance" that occurs between the ego and the Soul as we gradually learn to hand control over to our higher selves. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 150 What it Means to be Soul-Led | 08 Sep 2025 | 00:33:53 | |
This is part 2 of the mini-series on From Ego-Driven to Soul-Led: A Journey of Integration. Today we are talking about the Soul (or Higher Self) and how we can learn to live more fully by the light of the soul after we transcend the ego. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 149 What the Ego Is and Why We Need It | 01 Sep 2025 | 00:32:44 | |
This is the first episode in a mini-series on Integrating the Ego and Soul. We begin with a primer on the ego to help us recognize our own ego, how it behaves, and when it might trip us up. This episdoe includes:
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| Ep. 148 A 5-Step Reset Ritual for Unsettled Times | 25 Aug 2025 | 00:29:22 | |
In today's episode I'm sharing a simple ritual that can help you get centered after being pulled into a negative spiral by the events of the day. This is a tool you can use anytime, anywhere that can quickly shift your energy and focus. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 147 Why Death Awareness is Essential for Spiritual Growth | 18 Aug 2025 | 00:35:27 | |
In this episode I talk about death awareness as a necessary step to help us manage the ego and begin to recieve guidance form the Soul. The episode includes:
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| Ep. 146 The 7 Lessons from the Dying: A Spiritual Path for These Times | 11 Aug 2025 | 00:43:40 | |
Today I'll be sharing with you the 7 Lessons from my book 7 Lessons for Living from the Dying. We'll look at how each of these lessons help form a soul map for our spiritual growth that is death-aware, ego-wise, and love-rooted. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 145 Why Spirituality Matters Now More than Ever | 07 Aug 2025 | 00:35:27 | |
In this episode I'll share some thoughts on why we need to talk about spirituality and its importance - apart from religion and even from belief in God. I'll share why I'm relaunching this podcast right now at this time in history. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 144 Where I've Been | 04 Aug 2025 | 00:31:02 | |
I'm back and in this first episode of the relaunched podcast I'll fill you in on where I've been for a year and a half. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 143 Following My Heart | 26 May 2024 | 00:18:38 | |
I'm back briefly after a long hiatus! In this episode I describe some health issues that began shortly after the previous episode and how I set out to manage them. I have been listening to my heart as a messenger for my soul and have been making some big changes in my life. You'll hear an update of what's going on right now and what to expect in the near future. I love sharing my own journey of spiritual growth and healing on this podcast so I will probably continue to provide updates from time to time. | |||
| Ep. 142 Part 11 Only Love is Eternal | 24 Jan 2024 | 00:23:21 | |
In this concluding episode of the series on my grief travel through Italy I share some insights I gathered on a subsequent trip that introduced me to a doctor who became a saint. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 141 Part 10 We're Here for Love and Grief | 17 Jan 2024 | 00:24:59 | |
In this 10th episode in the grief travel series we visit the city of Sorrento and the ruins of Pompeii for the final novena prayer. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 140 Part 9 Accepting Disappointment | 11 Jan 2024 | 00:34:01 | |
In this 9th episode from the series on grief travel in Italy we travel to the beautiful city of Assisi and learn about the beloved St. Francis of Assisi. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 139 Part 8 Lifting the Weight of Guilt | 03 Jan 2024 | 00:32:50 | |
In this episode of my ongoing series on grief travel through Italy I visit the village of Cortona Italy and learn how to carry the guilt that accompanies my grief. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 138 Part 7 Finding Purpose in Grief | 27 Dec 2023 | 00:32:07 | |
This episode is Part 7 of my ongoing series on grief travel through Italy. If you haven't done so already I recommend you listen to the previous 6 episodes first! Today we travel to Siena Italy where I came face-to-face with the depths of my grief. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 137 Part 6 The Healing Power of Nature | 20 Dec 2023 | 00:32:23 | |
In this episode of my series on grief travel through Italy we journey to the Cinque Terre region, which is a stunningly beautiful collection of 5 small villages along the Ligurian coast. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 136 Part 5 Grace and Growth | 13 Dec 2023 | 00:29:34 | |
In part 5 of the series on my grief travel through Italy we visit more sites in the great city of Florence and learn about grace, gratitude and growth. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 135 Part 4: Rising from the Ashes | 06 Dec 2023 | 00:27:41 | |
In part 4 of the ongoing story of my grief travel through Italy we arrive in Florence and learn about the history of the Renaissance which began in this beautiful city. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 134 Part 3 Grief is All Around Us | 29 Nov 2023 | 00:18:04 | |
Part 3 of the grief travel story takes place in Trastevere, the Jewish Ghetto of Rome, and an island in the Tiber River. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 133 Part 2 Light in the Darkness | 22 Nov 2023 | 00:22:45 | |
Part 2 of this grief travel story takes place in Rome and at the Vatican. Be sure to listen to Part 1 if you haven't already! This episode includes:
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| Ep. 132 Grief Travel in Italy Part 1 | 16 Nov 2023 | 00:31:00 | |
In this episode I begin a series of stories from a trip to Italy I took several years ago that was "ruined" by grief. I'll share the amazing insights and lessons I learned on that journey over the next several weeks. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 131 Knowing vs Believing | 08 Nov 2023 | 00:30:56 | |
In this episode I talk about the difference between knowing and believing when it comes to spiritual awareness and why that's an important distinction right now with what is happening in the world. This episode includes:
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| Ep. 130 How Transformation Can Follow Tragedy | 25 Oct 2023 | 00:24:45 | |
In this episode I discuss the history of a devastating earthquake in Lisbon in 1755 that I learned about on my recent trip to Portugal. The outcome of this tragedy reminded me that even the horrific wars that are taking place right now contain a tiny seed of hope for transformation. This episode includes:
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