UnMuted Love with Ce Eshelman – Détails, épisodes et analyse

Today's episode is all about stepping out of the drama of playing various unhealthy roles inside ourselves and within our families. Ce briefly shares parts of the Karpman Drama Triangle and how replacing it with the Empowerment Triangle can save you from Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer behaviors in your family interactions. Stop the chaos by stepping out of the drama.

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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Ce interviews Naomi Houston about her journey from being adopted from China by American parents through her recovery from complex developmental trauma.. Naomi has written a lovely account of her therapeutic recovery to date from abandonment trauma in adoption in her first book, A Glimpse into the Unknown. Naomi speaks frankly about her childhood struggles and gives her thoughts on what to do or not to do when parenting children who are struggling after adoption. I hope you enjoy the show.

I recommend this book for deep-thinking, teen readers, as well as, for young adults who have experienced trauma in their early years. It may be hard to read for some who are not used to complex sentence structures, analysis, or insight into the trauma recovery process; but, for some, it will be a lovely roadmap to freedom from self-destruction, self-loathing, and grief. There will be more books from Naomi, I feel certain, in the future. She has a beautiful, writing voice, and a sound therapeutic sensibility.

A Glimpse Into The Unknown by Naomi Houston is available now on Amazon.

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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Ce shares some startling statistics about how teen girls were impacted by the pandemic as well as how they are fairing with the toxic influences of social media. When you know the data, your head with spin. This is an opportunity to tune in and open up communication with girls to lift their feelings of depression, anxiety and social pressure in this "anxious generation."

Resources:

Girls on the Brink by Donna Jackson Nakazawa

Dial Down the Drama by Colleen O'Grady

No More Mean Girls by Katie Hurley

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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Ce takes you on a journey to explore the tip of your blocked parenting iceberg. The Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program takes a deeper dive into blocked care and Ce gives you an overview here to help you get yourself on a healing path. You can warm your tepid, blocked heart. You can check out Love Matters Parenting Society below for more information about becoming more healing in your relationship with your child from difficult beginnings.

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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Ce welcomes you to the first podcast of 2025 and shares her thoughts about resolutions and why she doesn't make them anymore, plus some of her thoughts on how to deal with social media in the years ahead. 

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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Contrary to popular belief, Ce doesn't work around the clock. She is on a holiday break from the podcast, and her incredible producer, Siah Clark, has stepped in to give you a little mash-up of podcasts past. Thank you for being such loyal listeners. You are the moon and the stars to us here at UnMuted Love. Let's sail into the new year with intention in our minds, determination in our bones, and love in our hearts. We are wishing you little glimmers of happy all through the New Year.  

Eileen Divine, who is featured in a clip today, can be found at https://www.eileendevine.com

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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Sometimes we, parents, just need something running through our minds that reminds us that "every little thing is gonna be alright." Today's podcast is a very long list of mantras you can pick from to run around in your brain to remind you of what is important while living with children from difficult beginnings. You can also listen to this podcast on repeat for a lovely long list of affirmations to put you to sleep, pick you up, and/or carry you forward through the rest of the holiday season. Remember, your love matters, when more than love is required. Happy holidays from Ce and the UnMuted Love team. 

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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UnMuted Love - Episode 36: Spotlight on Holidays and Vacations with Ce Eshelman. Holidays and vacations require just a little bit more thought than most of us wish. If you are visiting friends and family for the holidays or going somewhere new, beware, kids like routine and by definition holidays and vacations are off routine. That means the dysregulation is on. Listen to this podcast to prepare for challenges ahead. You got this.

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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"The holidays" start every year in October and they keep on rolling until after the New Year. Let's face it, "fun" can be stressful for everyone. Ce Eshelman knows you can create joyful experiences this holiday when you consider each person's capacity to tolerate social, physical, and emotional stimulation. It helps to have the right tools, too. It is possible to enjoy all the seasons' festivities with children from difficult beginnings if you plan thoughtfully for the hustle and bustle. It never seems like we have enough time for slowing the rush and simply breathing into the holiday spirit. Enjoy today's episode to get some timely tips for what holidays are ahead.

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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Ce Eshelman interviews Ginger Healy, the Director of the Attachment and Trauma Network (ATN), a parent-created national organization supporting traumatized children and their parents. In 1995 three mothers who were parenting children diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder met to support one another only to find how similar their journeys were and that they truly were “Not Alone,” ATN was born. Ginger is an incredible champion of parents of children from difficult beginnings all over the country. 

The mission of ATN could not be more aligned with Ce's mission at The Attach Place and in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. These are ATN's posted beliefs that resonate deeply with Ce, as every day she walks the same path with the same beliefs:

• We believe that children impacted by trauma and those with attachment disorders can heal.
• We believe that parents, who are supported and taught therapeutic parenting, are the best healing agents of their traumatized child.
• We believe that children impacted by trauma need trauma-informed, attachment-focused therapies.
• We believe that all children learn best in trauma-sensitive schools where strategies are in place to help the children and adults feel safe, stay regulated, get connected, and not be re-traumatized or triggered. We believe trauma-informing schools empower trauma-responsive educators.
• We believe that providing resources to the families from the start is the best way to minimize crises and promote healing.
• We believe that ongoing peer-to-peer support is critical to empowering caregivers and communities with strategies, resources, and strength to persevere daily.
• We believe that “touching trauma at its heart” is more than a tagline, it’s a healing mission.

From Ce Eshelman:

Are you searching for a community of parents who will get you; who offer an attentive ear and open arms in the worst of times; who give you a standing ovation for the monumentally big "small steps" forward you make with your child? It is so painful to walk the jagged trail of this parenting journey alone and no one is ever alone in the Love Matters Parenting Society Therapeutic Parent Program. You will feel seen, understood, and actually deeply cared for. We know it as "love." The Society is a virtual program for parents of children who experienced trauma and others who support them or work with them professionally. You don't have to wait a minute longer. We are right here waiting for YOU!

Access Free Resources!

✨ The VIP Parent Program has been discontinued, but you can still access all the handouts and more free resources at our Free Resources Page!

Additional Resources:

📖 Get your copy of Ce's new book: 20 Things Children from Difficult Beginnings Wish Friends and Family Knew

📖 Get your copy of Drowning with My Hair On Fire: Insanity Relief for Adoptive Parents

▶️ Watch Ce's YouTube Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@CeEshelman

🧐 Subscribe to the blog: https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/blog

🔍 Check out my websites: LoveMattersParenting.com and AttachPlace.com

📣 Hear the Success Stories: LoveMattersParenting.com/testimonials

👉 Find Ce on Social Media:

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovemattersparenting

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovemattersparenting

Unmuted Love is a free podcast for parents of children from difficult beginnings of adoption and abuse trauma. Ce is an adoptive mom of two, step-mom of two, and an Attachment and Trauma Specialist. The Unmuted Love Podcast is part of Love Matters Parenting Society and The Attach Place Center for Strengthening Relationships, LLC. For more information about joining this vibrant community of parents, https://www.lovemattersparenting.com/lmps1.

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