Explorez tous les épisodes du podcast Train Your Own Horse with Stacy Westfall
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| Episode 302: Words Matter: How Language Shapes Your Equestrian Experience | 28 Aug 2024 | 00:33:13 | |
Stacy Westfall discusses the overuse of the phrase "I'm sorry" in everyday situations and how it relates to horsemanship. She recounts observing excessive apologizing in a workshop setting and at grocery stores, questioning whether these apologies are genuine expressions of remorse or habitual responses. Westfall emphasizes the importance of understanding one's emotional defaults and how they impact interactions with horses. She encourages riders to examine why they apologize during lessons or while sharing arena space, suggesting that many of these apologies are unnecessary and may stem from misplaced feelings of inadequacy. Westfall advocates for clearer communication and understanding of riding etiquette to reduce the need for constant apologies. The podcast also touches on the emotions involved in buying and selling horses, prompting listeners to reflect on their initial emotional responses to these situations. | |||
| Episode 301: Indecisive No More: Conquering Decision Fatigue, and Miserable Maybes | 21 Aug 2024 | 00:28:27 | |
This episode of the podcast explores the concept of "decision fatigue" and the challenges of navigating the "messy middle" or "miserable maybe" when faced with big life decisions. Stacy shares how this process can be similar to what a horse expereinces when being trained to approach and relax around scary objects. Key takeaways: - Decision fatigue is similar to physical fatigue - making too many decisions can mentally "overwork" the brain Overall, this episode provides practical strategies for handling the challenge of big, complex decisions and avoiding the mental strain that can come with prolonged indecision. | |||
| Episode 292: You are Invited: Two Invitations Horses Offer Riders | 19 Jun 2024 | 00:14:58 | |
In this podcast episode, Stacy Westfall introduces the concept of viewing a horse's behavior as an "invitation" that riders can choose to accept or decline. She explains that horses often present two types of invitations to riders: - Emotional invitations: When a horse becomes anxious, jumpy, or displays a particular emotional state, it can be seen as an invitation for the rider to join that emotional state. Stacy encourages riders to: - Recognize these invitations from their horses | |||
| Episode 291- Lessons Learned on the Trail and Foal Update | 12 Jun 2024 | 00:19:34 | |
In this podcast, Stacy recaps her experience with the Tevis Cup Virtual Challenge. She shares that she will do it again, and what she will do differently next time. Key takeaways: There is still time to sign up for the 2024 Tevis Cup Virtual, and if you are listening to this after the registration closes, you can begin thinking about signing up next year! | |||
| Episode 290-The Power of Touch: Building Connection Through Contact | 05 Jun 2024 | 00:18:51 | |
In this episode, Stacy emphasizes the importance of establishing contact with horses in order to achieve connection. Contact refers to physical touch, whether direct or through tools like reins or whips. Connection, on the other hand, has two meanings: the flow of energy through the horse's body in dressage, and the relationship bond between horse and human. Key takeaways:
Overall, Stacy stresses the necessity of contact to foster a willing, connected partnership. | |||
| Episode 289: Recovery Time: The Missing Piece of Your Training Plan | 29 May 2024 | 00:10:17 | |
When pursuing long-term goals with your horse, it's crucial to intentionally plan for both physical and mental recovery time. While most riders allow physical recovery for their horses after intense events, they often neglect their own need for mental rest and rejuvenation. By taking intentional breaks, postponing further work until a set date, and observing your body's and mind's recovery patterns, you can learn to better support yourself before, during, and after challenging events. Honoring your recovery needs allows you to show up fully for your horse and increases your chances of successfully achieving your goals together. Key Takeaways: • Plan recovery time for both physical and mental rejuvenation | |||
| Episode 288: Dancing with Discomfort: Steps of Faith and Evidence | 22 May 2024 | 00:20:51 | |
| Episode 287: Distracted: Should I let my horse stop and look, or keep him moving? | 15 May 2024 | 00:26:40 | |
| Episode 286: When Words Fall Short: How You See It vs. How I See It | 08 May 2024 | 00:26:21 | |
In this episode, Stacy dives into the challenge of using words to describe what happens with your horse. She starts with a common experience: reading a student's description, then watching a video to match it with reality. This exercise often reveals discrepancies. For instance, while a student might describe a horse as "reactive" or "stuck," the video might tell a different story.
She also introduces the Resourceful Rider program, which helps riders connect through shared terminology and mutual understanding, aiming for consistency in describing horse behavior. | |||
| Episode 285: Five levels of distraction you can see in a horse. | 01 May 2024 | 00:29:36 | |
In this podcast, Stacy shares five levels of distraction that she see in horses. This is important to think about, because if you can recognize it in layers, or levels of distraction, then you have a chance to see the progression. Level 1: Checked Out Listen and identify which level you are at, and learn more about the common challenges with each level | |||
| Episode 284: How Riders Can Avoid These 3 Self-Created Obstacles | 24 Apr 2024 | 00:25:09 | |
| Episode 283: Switching Gears: Mastering Multiple Roles with Your Horse | 17 Apr 2024 | 00:28:26 | |
This podcast episode discusses the dual roles riders embody: the supportive advocate and the accountable coach. The challenge arises when riders need to switch between these roles depending on the situation with their horse.
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| Episode 300: The Challenge of Choosing Change | 14 Aug 2024 | 00:25:12 | |
In this milestone 300th episode, Stacy Westfall explores the challenges and benefits of choosing change. She reflects on her journey of creating weekly content for over a decade and how it has shaped her perspective on change. Stacy discusses the constant nature of change and the importance of distinguishing between changes we can control and those we can't. She shares personal experiences, including breeding her horse Gabby after losing another mare, to illustrate how choosing change can build resilience and prepare us for unexpected changes. Key points: Change is constant and inevitable, even when we try to keep things the same Choosing change often feels challenging due to the uncertainty it brings Recognizing "red flags" when considering change for the wrong reasons is crucial Building mental resilience through consistent habits helps in navigating both chosen and unexpected changes When others disagree with the change you choose (for example: choosing to sell a horse) you'll likely experience an additional layer of challenge | |||
| Episode 282-Riding Towards Understanding: the Virtual Tevis Cup Challenge | 10 Apr 2024 | 00:24:32 | |
In this episode, Stacy Westfall explores the power of goal-setting and learning in layers, using her own experiences and the upcoming Virtual Tevis Cup as examples. If you're interested in participating in the Virtual Tevis Cup or exploring layered goals for yourself and your horse, visit Stacy Westfall's website or social media for more information. | |||
| Episode 281- Earning Wisdom: Two Stories of Personal Growth | 03 Apr 2024 | 00:23:22 | |
Today's podcast explores the concept of wisdom as something attainable through experiential learning, rather than mere accumulation of knowledge. Through two compelling success stories, you will see examples of how two women have taken the information they were given, applied it to their lives, and have discovered wisdom. Topics include:
Through hearing Mel and Heather's experiences, you will have the opportunity to discover how wisdom is earned. | |||
| Episode 280: Gratitude Amidst Adversity: Caring for Orphaned Foals | 27 Mar 2024 | 00:23:52 | |
Stacy Westfall shares a deeply personal journey of unexpected challenges and gratitude in her latest podcast episode. Following the sudden loss of her husband's mare Lucy, who left behind a ten-day-old foal named Lefty, Stacy found herself unexpectedly caring for two orphaned foals. She adopted another foal, Stormy, from Last Chance Corral to raise alongside Lefty, leading to a whirlwind of emotions and physical demands. Through this experience, Stacy emphasizes the importance of embracing contrasts in life. Despite the exhaustion and concern of caring for the foals, she finds moments of rest and contentment. Stacy draws parallels between her own emotional resilience and the foals' physical and mental growth, noting how they stretch their comfort zones and quickly return to a state of equilibrium. Reflecting on her past experiences, including raising orphan foals in 2016, Stacy expresses gratitude for her preparedness and the resources to care for the foals. She credits her mindset mastery work for enabling her to navigate a range of emotions and embrace the challenges as choices rather than burdens. Ultimately, Stacy sees caring for the orphaned foals not as an obligation but as an honor and a gift, highlighting the importance of choosing to embrace life's challenges. She concludes with a message of gratitude and resilience. | |||
| Episode 279-The Pitfalls of Regret: Tracing Its Effects on Thought Patterns | 20 Mar 2024 | 00:18:30 | |
In this episode, you will hear a segment from a recent Zoom call where Stacy celebrates a student's first horse show experience. Within this conversation, three key themes emerge: the show as an evaluation of training, the challenge of riding within a structure, and the subtle presence of regret. Topics include:
This episode highlights the subtle way that thinking patterns impact our future choices. | |||
| Episode 278: Rushing Forward: Overcoming the temptation to rush | 13 Mar 2024 | 00:18:40 | |
In this episode, Stacy shares a challenging moment she very much wants to rush through. Drawing parallels between human behavior and equine tendencies, Stacy emphasizes that rushing is not merely a physical action but a way of thinking that can impact emotions. Using her expertise in horse training, she provides insights into how rushing manifests in both riders and horses, affecting the overall training experience. | |||
| Episode 277: Two ways you may be disconnecting from your horse | 06 Mar 2024 | 00:20:20 | |
Topics include:
Noticing how these things happen in 'real life' is an amazing opportunity to understand yourself better, which will improve your time with your horse. | |||
| Episode 276: Resolving Resistance: Believe your horse's feedback | 28 Feb 2024 | 00:22:32 | |
In this episode, Stacy explains how to know if your horse is ready to move to a more advanced technique, or combination of cues, or when you should return to the basics. Topics include:
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| Episode 275: The biggest relationship mistake I see riders make with their horses. | 21 Feb 2024 | 00:19:16 | |
| Episode 274: From Doubt to Discovery: See your horse more clearly to bring back the wonder and joy | 14 Feb 2024 | 00:30:26 | |
Anger, frustration, fear… to wonder and joy. Also listen for how they have learned to support and guide their horse's training. * shifting away from, 'oh, no, there's something wrong with me' This episode is filled with valuable insights, and by the end, you'll see how it was possible for them…and it's possible for you too. | |||
| Episode 273: "From 'I Don't See It' to 'I See It!': Breaking Down the Barrier Between Seeing and Understanding" | 07 Feb 2024 | 00:17:45 | |
Stacy shares valuable insights into how riders unintentionally slow their learning. With actual tips for how to improve, and a blend of humor, expertise, and relatable anecdotes, this episode encourages riders of all levels to embrace the journey from seeing to understanding, one identifiable detail at a time. Whether you're a seasoned pro or a curious beginner, saddle up for an episode packed with wisdom, encouragement, and the joy of newfound revelations in the world of horse riding. | |||
| Episode 299: Thematic Thinking: Unlocking New Perspectives | 07 Aug 2024 | 00:24:55 | |
In this episode, Stacy explains how she picks and maintains a theme when working with her horses. She shares how studying one theme over a longer period reveals the many angles that are possible. It also helps her see how the theme applies to non-horse parts of life as well. Key takeaways: | |||
| Episode 272: Stuck at the Start: the 5 steps riders use to improve and why many get stuck on step one | 31 Jan 2024 | 00:24:15 | |
In this episode, Stacy explains the five essential steps riders undertake to enhance their horseback riding skills and their training techniques. She emphasizes how each cycle of this process contributes to the continual improvement of a rider's abilities. The focus is on the pivotal first step, where many riders often encounter obstacles. Stacy explains how this is a particular challenge for women entering the equestrian world later in life. Can you clearly identify these 5 steps in a recent situation? | |||
| Episode 271: The Unseen Connection: Counting Strides vs. Navigating Emotional States | 24 Jan 2024 | 00:23:00 | |
In this episode, you'll hear a conversation that perfectly illustrates the connection between what is going on in our mind, and how it is often reflected in our experience with our horse. Listen as Stacy asks questions to find the intersection of what is going on when riding, as well as what is going on in Kristin's thinking. You'll hear the breakthrough at the end of the conversation. Also notice that specific physical riding advice is given,
The best news is that you can learn to transition between emotional states, and it will improve your riding. | |||
| Episode 270: The Art of Being: Embracing a Way of Being Approach | 17 Jan 2024 | 00:28:29 | |
In this episode, we will explore how to pursue a feeling state as a goal. A way of being goal is an exploration of your experience of life. The direct goal becomes the exploration of your experience, the indirect goal becomes what you choose to do, for example, showing your horse. This shift in focus transforms the show from a mere competition into a platform for self-study. Topics include:
Steven Pressfield's book, "The War of Art" is also recommended as an additional resource on the subject. | |||
| Episode 269: Catalyst for Change: 3 Steps to Shift Your Way of Being | 10 Jan 2024 | 00:14:23 | |
In this episode, you'll learn a simple 3-step process for turning your 'way of being' into something actionable. Examples of "Way of being goals." include:
The problem or challenge with these types is that they often seem hard to define, and even harder to move into action, but it is possible. In less than two minutes a day, you can achieve a transformation that will not only impact you, but those around you…including your horse. | |||
| Episode 268: Seeing your horse dream on a daily basis | 03 Jan 2024 | 00:19:06 | |
| Episode 267- Dream bigger, measure backward, and let things count. | 27 Dec 2023 | 01:15:09 | |
An important part of setting future goals is reviewing and learning from the past.
Topics discussed include:
How your habit of reviewing (or not reviewing) throughout the year is often reflected in your yearly review. | |||
| Episode 266: Red zone, yellow zone, green zone | 20 Dec 2023 | 00:17:54 | |
If you notice that you find yourself thinking or saying, 'look, I messed up there' In this week's episode, we discuss a simple tool that can help reduce the fear of mistakes and the trap of perfectionism. As riders develop the ability to feel more while riding, the heightened awareness will reveal both the things that ARE working, as well as the things that are not. One tool for adjusting your perspective is to categorize by zones—red, yellow, and green. Once you understand what these zones represent, you'll understand why 'perfect' timing isn't always necessary. This same concept is also a useful way to think when planning, goal-setting, and reviewing your progress. | |||
| Episode 265: Raw reactions vs. rewarded responses | 13 Dec 2023 | 00:25:50 | |
In this episode, Stacy Westfall delves into the intricacies of raw reactions versus rewarded responses, using her new yearling horse, Ember, as an example. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and influencing a horse's mental state alongside their physical actions. Stacy shares her approach to teaching Ember to stand quietly when tied, highlighting the challenge of discomfort that arises when horses make mistakes. She stresses the need for consistency in rewarding specific emotional states to transform raw reactions into desired responses. Stacy draws parallels between horse training and human behavior, encouraging listeners to be intentional in their actions and aware of their thought patterns. The episode explores the concept of horses reflecting on their training sessions, thinking about the process after it concludes, and detecting patterns. Stacy likens this reflective process to intentional thinking, which humans can practice for personal development. The narrative shifts to Presto, another horse with thought loops, illustrating the importance of guiding horses through reactive states. Stacy relates this to human experiences, cautioning against unintentionally causing one's fears. The episode concludes with a call for self-reflection, urging listeners to review their actions and thought patterns from the past year, emphasizing the value of looking back for personal growth. | |||
| Episode 264: The hidden cost of how you treat you. | 06 Dec 2023 | 00:26:07 | |
Dread. Topics discussed include:
When you're not all wrapped up in judging yourself, or pretending everything is fine, you can see your horse more clearly. Living and learning about your responses will strengthen your internal resilience, unlocks compassion for others, and make it easier for your horse to read your body language. | |||
| Episode 263-Messy Middle or normal process: reducing frustration and increasing fun | 29 Nov 2023 | 00:45:48 | |
| Episode 298: Mimicry's Limits: How Horses Move Beyond This And You Can Too | 31 Jul 2024 | 00:22:00 | |
This podcast explores the crucial difference between mimicking and understanding in learning processes, using examples from horse training and human skill acquisition. Stacy emphasizes that while mimicking is often the initial step in learning, it's merely the beginning. True mastery comes from developing a deeper understanding of the 'why' behind actions and behaviors. Stacy shares how young horses, like Lefty, start by copying behaviors without fully comprehending their meanings. Similarly, humans may imitate training techniques without grasping their underlying principles. This superficial approach can lead to incomplete learning and ineffective application of skills. Stacy stresses the importance of moving beyond imitation to develop nuanced understanding, which enables learners to adapt techniques to various situations and truly master a skill. Key takeaways: | |||
| Episode 262- Unlocking Potential: Recognizing the layers of training | 22 Nov 2023 | 00:46:33 | |
"…there are hundreds of exchanges that are happening between horse and rider, and being able to observe those in as much detail as you can really helps you unlock what's happening with the communication." In this episode, two students join me, and we discuss the breakthroughs that are possible when the rider begins seeing the layers of training. The depth of learning lies in perceiving these layers and how they are impacting communication. Topics include: Creating cycles of curiosity
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| Episode 261: Becoming congruent: The skill of shifting your perspective | 15 Nov 2023 | 01:03:46 | |
Three students join me and share their challenges, and life lessons learned through horses. Topics discussed include:
I hope that by sharing their stories, you'll hear that what they've achieved and realize it is possible for you too. | |||
| Episode 260- Frustration dissolves when you learn to structure and evaluate your rides | 08 Nov 2023 | 00:46:09 | |
Frustration is an emotion that many riders report they feel. In this episode, Kathy and JoAnn share their personal journeys, which include leaving every ride feeling fulfilled and happy.
This episode is filled with valuable insights, and by the end, you'll see how it was possible for them…and it's possible for you too. | |||
| Episode 259- The value of seeing the whole process | 01 Nov 2023 | 00:56:03 | |
In this episode, you'll have the opportunity to experience a glimpse behind the scenes into the lives and journey of two students inside the Resourceful Rider program. Through these heartfelt conversations, you'll gain insight into their personal journeys. They'll share their stories of overcoming challenges, celebrating successes, and experiencing life-changing moments that have shaped their paths.
This episode is filled with wisdom and inspiration, and by the end, you'll see how it was possible for them…and it's possible for you too. Let's get started!
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| Episode 258: Choosing and Celebrating Success | 25 Oct 2023 | 00:20:33 | |
In this episode of Stacy Westfall's podcast, she delves into the concept of defining and celebrating success. Stacy reflects on why she didn't mention Gabby's recent winnings, contemplating whether it was due to societal pressures and fear of being labeled as bragging. She also highlights the importance of introspection, explaining that she didn't share her winnings because her focus was on the lessons learned from smaller, more meaningful moments during her training with Gabby. Stacy emphasizes the shift in her perspective about measuring success. Instead of fixating on external achievements, she now values personal growth and the journey with her horses. She believes that horses enjoy learning, whether it leads to showing or simply enhances their training. The podcast episode is followed by testimonials from listeners who have implemented Stacy's techniques in their horse training. They share stories of success and personal growth, illustrating the transformative power of understanding oneself and one's horse. The episode underscores the importance of mindfulness and self-awareness when working with horses, emphasizing that this approach leads to a more fulfilling and successful partnership between horse and rider. | |||
| Episode 297: Marking Mistakes: Why Non-Reactivity Matters in Horse Training | 24 Jul 2024 | 00:17:05 | |
Stacy Westfall discusses marking behavior as a fundamental aspect of horse training. She explains how this technique, often used in clicker training, can quickly reinforce desired behaviors, or can accidentally mark a mistake as well. Key points include:
Stacy emphasizes that a deep understanding of marking behavior and its implementation can greatly enhance training effectiveness and improve overall communication between humans and horses. | |||
| Episode 296: From Theory to Saddle: Building Your Equestrian Toolbox | 17 Jul 2024 | 00:33:29 | |
| Episode 295: Allowing Choices: Empowering Your Horse's Mind | 10 Jul 2024 | 00:26:13 | |
Stacy Westfall introduces the concept of "allowing" versus "making" in horse training. She emphasizes that both approaches have their place, with "making" including positive actions like guiding or shaping behavior. The power of allowing is highlighted as a tool to influence a horse's mind and encourage desired behaviors. Stacy uses the example of teaching a horse to slow down. She first asks the horse to go, potentially "making" them if necessary, then allows them to slow down. This method teaches horses to seek opportunities to slow down and engages both "hot" and "cold" temperaments. There is value in allowing horses to make choices within a structured framework, fostering their intelligence and curiosity while maintaining control and safety. Stacy explains how this principle applies to basic interactions as well as advanced concepts like collection and self-carriage. | |||
| Episode 294: Predictable vs Unpredictable: From 'Oh This Again' to 'Oh, I See It There!' | 03 Jul 2024 | 00:18:36 | |
In this episode, Stacy discusses the importance of addressing predictable problems in horse training before tackling unpredictable ones. She argues that focusing on known issues is more effective, as it allows for better planning and addresses both the horse's and rider's thought patterns. Stacy emphasizes that riders often ignore or make excuses for predictable problems, making it challenging to choose to address them. She encourages riders to examine their own thought processes when facing recurring issues with their horses, as this self-awareness can lead to more effective solutions. Stacy illustrates her points with examples ranging from basic groundwork to advanced riding techniques. She notes that as riders progress, recognizing predictable challenges becomes exciting rather than frustrating, as it allows for targeted problem-solving. The key takeaways are: • Categorize challenges as predictable or unpredictable | |||
| Episode 293: Recalibrating Your Horse Goals: A Step-by-Step Guide | 26 Jun 2024 | 00:20:54 | |
Stacy addresses the common feeling of being "behind" in horse training, offering a framework to reassess and recalibrate goals. She provides four key questions to ask yourself when feeling behind, then offers two action steps to move forward productively. Key points: This approach will help you transform feelings of being behind into constructive action. | |||
| Episode 303: Consistency is Key: Transitioning from Arena to Trail | 04 Sep 2024 | 00:29:41 | |
Stacy shares insights on transitioning horses from arena training to trail riding. She emphasizes the importance of embracing challenges as opportunities for growth, rather than avoiding them. The podcast highlights the differences between controlled arena environments and unpredictable trail settings. Stacy explains her approach to introducing her new horse, Luna, to trail riding, starting by leading her and gradually testing her responses to manufactured challenges.
1. Embrace challenges: Viewing problems or questions as opportunities for growth is crucial in horse training. Avoiding challenges can lead to limitations in where and how you can work with your horse. 2. Consistency is key: Whether in the arena or on the trail, maintaining a consistent approach to handling questions and challenges that arise is essential for effective training and safety. 3. Gradual transition: When moving from arena to trail riding, start by leading the horse and gradually introduce controlled challenges to assess their readiness and build confidence. 4. Safety line concept: There's a metaphorical "safety line" in horse training. More training puts you further above this line, increasing your ability to handle various situations safely. 5. One-mile settling point: Many horses tend to settle into a rhythm around the one-mile mark of a ride, especially less experienced ones. This insight can help in planning and managing trail rides effectively. | |||
| Episode 304: The Anticipation Paradox: When Good Training Creates New Challenges | 11 Sep 2024 | 00:18:30 | |
In this episode, Stacy addresses a common issue in horse training: anticipation. A listener from Denmark asks how to handle a horse that performs learned exercises without waiting for cues. Stacy explains that anticipation is initially a positive sign of successful training, likening it to the first half of a rainbow arc. However, as training progresses, excessive anticipation can become problematic. | |||
| Episode 305: Listener Q&A: How Can I Increase My Confidence In My Goals? | 18 Sep 2024 | 00:39:17 | |
| Episode 306: Listener Q&A: Enhancing the Relationship between a Novice Rider and a Capable Horse | 25 Sep 2024 | 00:18:22 | |
In this podcast episode, Stacy Westfall responds to a listener question from Laura, who has a highly trained and well-behaved horse named Parker. Laura says, "he's just so good. And me being new, I kind of wonder what I can offer him." Stacy offers four angles for Laura to consider: 1. Use Parker's excellent behavior as a model to study and apply to her other horses. Stacy emphasizes the importance of shifting one's paradigm to see training as a multifaceted process that can enhance even the most well-trained horse. | |||
| Episode 308: Maintaining Momentum: Riding Through Life's Interruptions | 09 Oct 2024 | 00:22:26 | |
Here's a cleaned-up version: This episode explores the challenge of maintaining momentum when faced with interruptions in your horse training plans. Whether you're a planner or a go-with-the-flow rider, you'll find valuable insights for keeping your equestrian dreams on track. Using personal experiences and insights from students, Stacy covers: Delve into the psychology behind the desire to quit when facing obstacles, especially near the end of a goal's timeline. By understanding these impulses, you can better navigate setbacks and maintain your resolve. Stacy emphasizes the value of flexibility in goal-setting and execution, encouraging you to find creative solutions when interruptions occur. | |||