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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul.

In this week’s episode, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Joe Reeves, a wedding saxophone player whose career has taken him from school performances to playing for brands and names like Manchester United, Porsche, and Gymshark.

Joe shares honest insight into the biggest mistakes couples make when booking live wedding entertainment, and breaks down the reality of having a sax player at your wedding - beyond the Instagram hype. He opens up about his own journey, from starting out as a more reserved performer to becoming an artist who fully engages with the crowd and brings the party to life.

The conversation also covers budgeting for live entertainment, what couples should expect from the booking process, and the pros and cons of hiring a wedding sax player. Joe explains why couples should be cautious when searching for a bargain - and what can go wrong when price becomes the priority.

If you’re considering live music for your wedding, this episode is packed with real advice, industry insight, and behind-the-scenes truth you won’t want to miss.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul! 

On today's bonus episode, the pair are joined by Esme, one of the organisers of the hub wedding showcase. If you are recently engaged, or in the depths of wedding planning, you NEED to listen to this episode as it contains exclusive information about the upcoming wedding show on the 22nd February 2026.

• Live podcast experience
• Free goodies and discounts
• Advice from expert suppliers
• Food and drinks
• No venue pressure

We will see you there! 

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, we’re brushing up on all things bridal beauty with the fabulous Toni, owner of Hair by Toni - a pro wedding hairstylist who knows exactly how to make every bride feel like a million dollars on their big day. ✨

From achieving the perfect curl to handling those fussy bridesmaids with grace, Toni shares expert insights, tried-and-true techniques, and behind-the-scenes stories from years in the wedding industry.

If you’re planning your wedding, searching for the right bridal hair inspiration, or just want to know what it takes to create flawless wedding day hair, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and get ready to let your hair down - beautifully! 

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, they’re joined by Rhian, the creative force behind Bake-a-Licious, to talk all things wedding cakes - from design inspiration to delicious disasters. Rhian takes us behind the scenes of her meticulous cake-making process, revealing the artistry, planning, and precision that goes into creating the perfect centrepiece for a couple’s big day.

She also shares the latest wedding cake trends, what’s currently in fashion, and her top expert tips for avoiding any last-minute cake catastrophes. And of course, she answers the age-old question: do you really need a wedding cake at all?

Whether you’re deep in wedding planning, searching for cake ideas, or just curious if fruitcake is still a thing, this episode will leave you feeling confident, inspired, and maybe even a little hungry.

🎧 Tune in for insider advice, expert insights, and plenty of sweet laughs!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, the pair are joined by the incredibly talented Alison from Lasting Memories Wedding and Event Styling for a fun and inspiring chat all about luxury wedding venue styling. From expert venue dressing tips and design ideas to clever ways to repurpose ceremony décor for your evening reception, Alison shares how to make every wedding space look stunning and cohesive.

You’ll also hear her best advice for couples on the big day, including how to keep children (and guests!) from accidentally disrupting the décor or wedding videos.

Plus, Alison opens up about the shocking story behind her viral Instagram comeback after her original, years-in-the-making account was hacked and deleted. Her resilience and success in rebuilding her brand from scratch is an inspiring listen for wedding pros, business owners, and anyone chasing their dream.

✨ Packed with expert styling insights, wedding inspiration, and motivational moments, this episode is a must-listen for anyone planning a wedding or working in the industry.

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Isla and Paul!

This week, we’re turning up the volume with special guest Harry from HM Sounds, a professional wedding DJ who knows exactly how to keep the dancefloor packed and the vibes immaculate. 

Harry drops the beat and the knowledge as he unpacks what couples should (and definitely shouldn’t) do when it comes to their wedding music, DJ setup, and reception playlist. From wedding failures to crowd-pleasing anthems, this episode is full of insider tips, laughs, and real talk that every soon-to-be-wed couple needs before saying “I do.”

Whether you’re planning your dream wedding or just love a good behind-the-booth story, hit play and let’s spin through the world of wedding DJing, one track at a time. 

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In this episode of The Added Extra Unpacked, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Laura from Vision Wave, an award-winning wedding videographer, to unpack the wild, funny, and sometimes shocking world of wedding videography.

They dive deep into wedding day dos and don’ts, the most common mistakes guests make that ruin wedding videos, and essential wedding planning tips every couple should know before saying “I do.” Laura also reveals her biggest piece of advice for couples, her top wedding icks, and how to make sure your wedding video looks cinematic and stress-free.

If you’re planning a wedding, working in the wedding industry, or just love behind-the-scenes stories from wedding pros, this episode is packed with expert insights, funny wedding stories, and real advice from a professional videographer.

🎧 Tune in for hilarious moments, practical wedding planning tips, and a look at what really happens behind the camera on your big day!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by professional wedding content creator Lisa, who’s here to tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask: “Can’t my guests just record the wedding on their phones?” 

Lisa shares insider knowledge on why guest phone videos often miss the magic, plus the must-know benefits of having a dedicated content creator on your big day. From capturing the candid moments you’ll treasure forever to avoiding those wedding day “icks,” Lisa spills her top tips and industry secrets.

🎥 Expect hilarious behind-the-scenes stories, shocking real-life experiences, and practical advice every bride and groom should hear before saying “I do.”

✨ Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more expert wedding tips, venue secrets, and unforgettable stories on Unpacked with Isla & Paul!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by Liam from the stunning wedding venue Lion & Swan. Liam reveals an exclusive new package designed especially for grooms, plus insider venue secrets every couple needs to know before the big day.

From handling drunk guests and navigating family feuds to switching up your venue layout for maximum impact, Liam shares invaluable tips and behind-the-scenes advice straight from the wedding industry. You’ll also hear about the biggest “icks” wedding pros encounter-and how to avoid them!

👰🤵 Whether you’re a bride, groom, or part of the wedding party, this episode is packed with must-know insights to help you plan a smooth, unforgettable celebration.

✨ Don’t miss it-subscribe for more expert wedding tips, venue advice, and hilarious real-life stories on Unpacked with Isla & Paul!

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Welcome to a brand-new series of Unpacked with hosts Isla and Paul! 

In this week’s episode, they sit down with expert wedding coordinator Joella to dive deep into the world of wedding planning. Joella shares insider secrets about her role in guiding couples through the wedding process, the most common mistakes to avoid, and the must-know tips that can help your big day run smoothly and stress-free.

From hilarious (and slightly harrowing) real-life client dilemmas to practical advice every bride and groom needs before walking down the aisle, this episode is packed with valuable insights you won’t want to miss.

👰🤵 Perfect for brides, grooms, and anyone planning a wedding!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla! 🎙️

In this fun and honest chat, we dive into all things wedding — from unexpected icks (yes, sunglasses at the altar made the list) to essential tips you’ll actually use on your big day. Whether you're planning your dream wedding or just love the drama of bridal blunders, this episode is for you.

💍 Hear our personal wedding do's and don'ts
🍾 Laugh along with stories of drunken brides and awkward moments
💬 Share your own wedding icks in the comments!

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked!
This week, we’re joined on the sofa by a very special guest—Jen from the award-nominated Peony Rose Florist. Jen shares her expert wedding planning tips, common floral mistakes couples make, and insider advice every bride and groom should hear.

Whether you're newly engaged or deep in wedding prep, this is one episode you do not want to miss!

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, the wedding planning podcast hosted by Isla and Paul, where real couples get honest advice from real wedding experts.

In this episode, Isla and Paul are joined by Jenny, owner of Swanley Meadows Tipi Weddings & Events, a stunning outdoor wedding venue in Cheshire offering ceremonies under the open sky followed by tipi wedding receptions. Jenny shares expert, behind-the-scenes insight into what couples really need to know before booking a wedding venue.

Together, they dive into:
How to choose the right wedding venue for your style, budget and guest list
Money-saving tips couples often overlook when booking venues
The real pros and cons of outdoor and tipi weddings in the UK
What couples should prioritise - and what they can skip
Common mistakes couples make when choosing a venue (and how to avoid them)

Whether you’re deciding between an outdoor wedding venue, a tipi wedding, or a more traditional setting, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you plan with confidence and avoid costly regrets.

If you’re engaged and currently searching for the perfect wedding venue, this episode is a must-listen.

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Welcome back to Unpacked with your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla.

In this week’s episode, we explore our most popular wedding entertainment options that keep guests of all ages entertained. From the crowd-favorite wedding arcade machine to outdoor garden games and indoor soft play areas for kids, we’re sharing the best ways to elevate your big day.

Whether you're planning a rustic outdoor wedding, a modern celebration, or a family-friendly reception, these fun and interactive entertainment choices will keep your guests smiling from "I do" to the last dance.

✨ Watch now to get inspired and discover how to make your wedding truly unforgettable.

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County Brides Awards Recap | Celebrating Our Special Touches Win & Elenarda’s Unforgettable Night

Join Elenarda, Paul, and Isla as they relive the glitz and glamour of the County Brides Awards Ceremony, where they proudly took home the Special Touches Award! 🎉

In this episode, the team reflects on the incredible support from their brides and grooms whose votes made the win possible – thank you from the bottom of our hearts! 💍

Expect plenty of laughs as they share behind-the-scenes moments from the night, including Elenarda’s tipsy adventuresand her unexpected escort off the premises. 😂

Plus, a big shoutout to all the other County Brides winners – congratulations on your amazing achievements!

🎧 Tune in now for wedding industry insights, award night antics, and a few stories that are too good to miss.

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Are some wedding traditions just... outdated? In this episode, Elenarda, Paul and Isla dive into the customs that couples (and our audience) think should finally be left in the past. From bouquet tosses to garter rituals, we’re breaking down what no longer fits modern weddings — and why. Plus, as one of the industry’s leading event companies, we share our expert advice on what to do instead. Whether you're planning your big day or just love all things wedding-related, you won’t want to miss these fresh, modern tips.

🎙️ Topics we cover:

• Outdated wedding traditions that need to go
• Our take as a professional events company
• Expert tips to modernise your celebration
• Real opinions from our audience
• How to balance tradition with personal style

✨ Want a wedding that actually feels like you? Start here.

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked! This time, we’re switching gears. Elenarda, Paul, and Isla are diving deep into the world of weddings—no brochures, no sales pitches, just real talk. From must-know dos to those cringe-worthy “icks,” they’re sharing insider advice, hilarious anecdotes, and what truly makes (or breaks) the big day. Whether you're planning your dream wedding or just love the drama of it all, this episode is one you won’t want to miss.

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Welcome back to Unpacked with your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla — where event magic meets behind-the-scenes banter.

In this week’s episode, we’re diving into all things backdrops and neons! From foliage walls and sequin sparkles to bold balloon installs and eye-catching neon signage, we’re breaking down the trends, tips, and inspo that bring events to life. Whether you're planning a party, wedding, or corporate bash — this one’s packed with ideas to elevate your vibe.

🎉 And don’t miss the end — we’ve got a hilarious game lined up and a surprise visit from Jerry, our (possibly haunted) warehouse guest!

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Welcome back to The Added Extra Unpacked Podcast, where your hosts Elenarda, Paul, and Isla break down everything you need to know about product hire at events!

In this episode, we’re hitting the dance floor—literally! 💥 Join us as we dive into the pros and cons of having a dance floor at your event. Whether you're planning a wedding, corporate gathering, or private party, we’ll help you decide if the extra flair of a dedicated dance space is worth the investment.

Stick Around for the Fun Facts Section!
Don’t miss the end of the episode where we drop hilarious facts about dance. It’s a guaranteed giggle and the perfect way to wrap up!

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Wow, simply wow!  What an amazing wedding show that was.  A massive thank you to everyone who came and to all of the suppliers who worked their socks off to make this show the best one yet.  Sit down with Elenarda, Paul and Isla as they debrief this weekends Hub 3.0 show discussing the goings on of the day and the great vibes brought by everyone who attended.  

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Join Elenarda, Paul, and Isla for another fun-filled episode as they dive into the world of event walls! In this engaging discussion, they explore the different types of event walls available, share the pros and cons of each, and provide valuable insights to help you make the best choice for your next event.

But that's not all – stay tuned for the weekly quiz where you can test your knowledge and have some laughs along the way!

And don’t miss the heated debate at the end: Are Jaffa Cakes a cake or a biscuit? Tune in for some entertaining opinions and join the conversation in the comments!

🔔 Subscribe for more event tips, quizzes, and debates!

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Catch up with Elenarda, Paul, and Isla as they share all the exciting details about the upcoming Hub 3.0 Wedding Show this April! Tune in to hear about exclusive giveaways, unique entertainment ideas, and insights to the best suppliers to help make your big day truly unforgettable. Don't miss out—mark your calendars for April 13th for a day full of fun, delicious food, and amazing surprises. We can’t wait to see you there!

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Sit down with Elenarda, Paul and Isla as they discuss plans for the upcoming show on the 13.04.2025.  Enjoy exclusive insights into what to expect on the day as well as the chance to see how you can contribute to the public humiliation of Paul!  If you or someone you know is getting married, you won't want to miss this.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

On this week’s episode, the duo are joined by the incredible Amy, founder of Petal & Portrait, a live wedding illustration company bringing one of the fastest-growing wedding trends to life. Live illustrating is becoming an increasingly popular way to add a unique, personal touch to a wedding day - and Amy dives into exactly why it’s such a special experience for couples and guests alike.

From unexpected wedding-day disasters to unforgettable magical moments, Amy shares the honest truth behind what really happens when live illustrations meet real weddings. Along the way, she offers insider tips, behind-the-scenes stories, and expert advice on how to make your wedding day truly stand out.

This episode is funny from start to finish and packed with valuable insights to help ensure your wedding day is the best it can possibly be. ✨💍

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Sit down with Elenarda, Paul and Isla as they discuss everything sweet carts!  if you're curious to what a sweet cart is all about, or if you have one booked for your event or simply want to have a little nosy and a giggle, this episode is for you.

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So, The Hub 2.0 Wedding Show was a huge success. Join Elenarda, Paul and Isla as they discuss how they found the show and upcoming plans for their next one in the next couple of months.

Thank you to all that attended. We hope you had just as much fun as we did.

We hope to see you at the next one for more fun and excitement!

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In this episode we discuss the concept of the TAE Hub, consisting of a variety of reputable events suppliers that work together to make your big day extra special.  After the success of our first show last year, we decided to make the next one bigger and better.  With the next fayre less than a couple of weeks away, we explain what to expect on the day as well as tips and tricks to make the most of your visit.  If you are newly engaged you won't want to miss this episode.  See you on the 26th of January!

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In this episode we talk all things phone boxes. Not a Dr Who phone box, but our very special audio guestbooks. We chat about how to make the most out of this latest trend.

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In this episode we talk all things selfie mirrors. What is a selfie mirror? How can it zest up your event and add lots of fun to the occasion. Things to think about and much more. 

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In this episode we'll be talking about our range of LED Letters. White, Rustic, Metal Floral. From hearts to hashtags we'll be talking about what we think looks best and what to consider if you are considering having LED letters provide The Added Extra for your event. 

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Welcome back to another episode of Unpacked with Isla and Paul! 

This week, they’re joined by professional wedding content creator Lisa, who’s here to tackle one of the biggest questions couples ask: “Can’t my guests just record the wedding on their phones?” 

Lisa shares insider knowledge on why guest phone videos often miss the magic, plus the must-know benefits of having a dedicated content creator on your big day. From capturing the candid moments you’ll treasure forever to avoiding those wedding day “icks,” Lisa spills her top tips and industry secrets.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul.

In this week’s episode, the pair are joined by Vicky, owner of bridal boutique Swan Brides, for an honest and insightful conversation about what really goes into saying yes to the dress.

While many brides dream of the perfect dress moment, this episode lifts the curtain on the full reality - from the initial appointment and choosing the one, to alterations, timelines, and those all-too-common last-minute changes. 

Vicky shares expert insight into the do’s and don’ts of wedding dress shopping, helping brides avoid costly mistakes and future regret.

If you’re currently planning your wedding or about to start dress shopping, this is a must-listen episode packed with practical advice and real-world bridal expertise.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with hosts Isla and Paul.

In this short, snappy episode, the duo share details of their exciting giveaway. To enter, simply watch last week’s 12 Days of Christmas episode, head to the pinned Instagram giveaway post, and comment with the piece of advice you loved most. Like, follow, and share for a bonus entry.

They also dive into their recent TikTok virality - and the controversy it’s sparked in the comments. Love it or hate it, they want to hear your take, so head over and join the conversation.

As always, you’ll find plenty of honest advice across their socials to help take the stress out of wedding planning and make the journey to “I do” a little easier.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

In this festive CHRISTMAS SPECIAL, the duo brings you their twist on the 12 Days of Christmas - sharing 12 essential wedding tips every couple needs to hear before their big day. This episode is overflowing with expert wedding planning hacks and exclusive advice designed to simplify your journey from “Yes” to “I do.”

From smart budgeting strategies to navigating best man speeches, managing family expectations, and ditching outdated wedding traditions, this episode covers everything couples need for a smoother, stress-free planning experience.

And to say a massive thank you for all your support, Isla and Paul are hosting a Christmas GIVEAWAY! 🎁

To enter, head over to their social pages @totallyabsolutelyengaged for your chance to win some amazing festive prizes.

Tune in, take notes, and get ready to elevate your wedding planning with this holiday-packed episode!

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

This week, the duo are joined by the incredible DJ Chris G, an expert wedding DJ who brings far more than just great music. Chris shares his biggest piece of advice for brides and grooms, along with insider tips on how to keep the dancefloor packed from the first song to the final send-off.

From choosing the perfect first-dance track to transitioning into high-energy party anthems, plus games, crowd interaction, and clever ways to keep guests entertained, Chris breaks down the must-dos for creating an unforgettable wedding celebration.

If you want your wedding to be the one everyone talks about, you won’t want to miss this episode. 🎶💍

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

This week, they’re joined by Sophie from Sophie Brown Makeup, a professional makeup artist with years of experience in the bridal beauty industry.

Sophie shares her signature timeless bridal makeup style and explains why classic looks age far better than short-lived trends when you're looking back at your wedding photos. She also reveals her biggest makeup hacks to ensure your glam stays flawless, fresh, and unmoving from the moment you walk down the aisle to the last dance of the night.

Alongside this, Sophie offers her essential do’s and don’ts for both before and on the big day, giving brides everything they need to feel confident and look their best.

If you want expert advice to achieve perfect wedding-day makeup, this is the episode you won’t want to miss. ✨

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged! This week, Isla and Paul sit down with Laura, owner of Miss Deal Casino Tables, to explore one of the fastest-growing trends in wedding entertainment.

From cruise ships and corporate events to unforgettable wedding receptions, Laura reveals the insider secrets behind hosting casino tables at weddings. She breaks down everything couples need to know, from casino setup and easy to follow rule explanations to the exciting prizes guests can win on the night.

If you’ve never considered casino tables for your wedding before, this episode might just change your mind. Laura explains why they’re the perfect ice breaker, a brilliant way to warm up the evening, and a fun alternative to traditional reception entertainment.

Suitable for all ages and increasingly popular with modern couples, casino tables are fast becoming a must have feature for weddings looking to offer something a little different.

Tune in to discover whether casino entertainment could be the winning hand for your big day! ♠️💍

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Planning your wedding and wondering what stationery you actually need?

In this episode, we dive into wedding invitations, save the dates, and on-the-day stationery, breaking down what’s essential, what’s a waste of money, and whether DIY wedding invitations are really worth it.

We’re joined by Michelle from Rella Event Stationery, who shares expert wedding planning advice, insider tips, and the biggest mistakes couples are making right now.

We cover:

• Wedding stationery checklist (what you actually need)
• When to send save the dates and invitations
• DIY vs professional stationery
• Wedding trends for 2026
• Budget-saving tips for couples

If you’re planning a wedding, this episode will help you make smarter decisions and avoid unnecessary stress.

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If you’re planning a wedding or working in the wedding industry… this episode is a MUST listen.

We sit down with Duane from County Brides — one of the biggest names in the Northwest wedding scene — to break down:

• How wedding awards REALLY work
• What brides should be asking suppliers
• The biggest mistakes couples make
• How suppliers can actually stand out at wedding fairs
• The truth about budgets (from £90 weddings to £50,000+!)
• And how the industry has changed after COVID

We also dive into:
✔️ How to protect your wedding with smart payments
✔️ Why some suppliers lose bookings instantly
✔️ What goes on behind the scenes of wedding awards
✔️ And how cheating is actually prevented 👀

Whether you’re a bride, groom, or supplier… this episode will change how you see the wedding industry.

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In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Phil, owner and lead photographer of Zap Image, a highly experienced wedding photographer with over 15 years in the wedding industry and one of the original Hub members.

Phil shares his journey from a corporate sales career to becoming a full-time wedding photographer, including the personal story behind the name Zap Image and how photographing his own wedding sparked a career that now spans hundreds of weddings, destination shoots, and iconic venues across the UK and beyond.

This episode is packed with expert wedding photography advice for engaged couples, brides, and grooms. Phil explains his candid, documentary-led approach to wedding photography, why natural moments matter more than stiff poses, and how he captures real emotion by knowing when to step in and when to step back. He also shares practical insights on group photos, timelines, photo dashes, evening shots, and why guest interaction is key to relaxed wedding photos.

Isla and Paul dig into the questions couples really want answered, including how long wedding photographers stay on the day, how photos are backed up safely, turnaround times for previews and full galleries, and what couples often regret not having photographed. Phil also gives honest advice on choosing the right wedding photographer, understanding pricing, avoiding common planning mistakes, and how much creative control couples should give their photographer.

The conversation also covers behind-the-scenes realities of the wedding industry, from working with videographers and content creators to navigating tight timelines, lighting challenges, and unexpected moments. Phil shares his biggest tips for keeping wedding photography stress-free, authentic, and enjoyable, reminding couples that their photos are about memories, not perfection.

Whether you are newly engaged, deep into wedding planning, or simply love learning how weddings really work, this episode offers invaluable advice, real stories, and expert insight from someone who has truly seen it all.

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Welcome back to another episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged with your hosts Isla and Paul.

On this week’s episode, the duo are joined by the incredible Emma, co-founder of The Precious Pets, a professional wedding dog chaperone service she runs alongside her partner Ade. Together, they’ve appeared on Dragons’ Den and This Morning, sharing their expertise on including dogs in weddings.
In this fascinating and truly unique episode, Emma breaks down the entire process of preparing your dog to be part of your wedding day. From understanding your dog’s personality and temperament, to outfit fittings, assigned roles, rehearsal checks, and that all-important walk down the aisle - nothing is left uncovered.

Packed full of expert insight, heartwarming stories, and the weird and wonderful ways your dog can be involved in your big day, this episode is a must-listen for couples planning a dog-friendly wedding.

If you’re obsessed with your pets and couldn’t imagine saying “I do” without your furry family members, this is one episode you won’t want to miss. 🐶💍

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In this episode, Isla and Paul sit down with Emma, a professional bridal hairstylist from Finesse Bridal, with nearly 10 years of experience in the wedding industry.

If you’re planning your wedding, this episode is packed with expert bridal hair advice to help you avoid common mistakes and feel confident on your big day.

💍 We cover:

• The biggest bridal hair mistakes brides make
• Hair up vs hair down – what actually suits you
• How wedding hair trials really work (and how many you need)
• Do you need hair extensions for your wedding?
• How to prep your hair before the big day
• Wedding morning timelines & what to expect
• Bridal hair trends (messy updos, Hollywood waves & more)
• The truth about Pinterest & AI inspiration photos

💡 Emma also shares:

• Her journey into the wedding industry
• What makes a great bridal hairstylist
• Tips to make your hairstyle last all day

Whether you're newly engaged or finalising your look, this episode will help you look and feel your best on your wedding day.

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We took the podcast LIVE for the very first time… and brought together real wedding suppliers to answer the questions couples actually need to hear.

In this episode, Isla & Paul sit down with multiple wedding industry experts including jewellers, photographers, content creators and more — all sharing unfiltered, honest advice from real weddings.

💍 We cover:

• The biggest wedding planning mistakes couples make
• How to choose the right wedding suppliers
• What actually matters (and what doesn’t 👀)
• Red flags to watch out for before booking
• Wedding trends (including lab-grown diamonds 💎)
• Real emotional + funny behind-the-scenes stories

🔥 This episode is packed with:

• Honest opinions
• Expert wedding tips
• Live audience energy
• No-BS advice you won’t hear anywhere else

If you’re planning your wedding, this will help you save money, avoid stress, and make better decisions.

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Planning your honeymoon? This episode is a must listen!

We’re joined by honeymoon expert Alex Collins from Travel Counsellors to break down everything you need to know before booking your dream trip. From choosing the right destination and managing your budget to avoiding common mistakes couples make, this episode is packed with honest, practical advice.

We also dive into whether the Maldives is actually worth it, how to balance relaxation vs adventure, and why using a travel expert could save you time, money, and stress.

If you’re getting married or planning a once-in-a-lifetime trip, this episode will help you do it right.

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Wedding planning isn’t all Pinterest-perfect moments… sometimes it’s chaos, controversy, and completely unhinged stories 🤯

In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, it’s just us — no guests — diving into our viral TikTok and Instagram comments, reacting to the wildest takes, biggest debates, and funniest (and harshest) opinions from the internet.

From wedding DJs vs playlists to makeup artist horror stories, and even a debate that sparked serious backlash about taking your partner’s last name, we’re breaking it ALL down.

Plus… we share some of the most ridiculous real-life wedding stories we’ve ever heard (trust us, you are NOT ready for the post box story 😳).

💥 In this episode:
Why wedding DJs are so controversial right now
The truth about “overplayed” wedding songs
Should you trust your suppliers or control everything?
The BIG debate: do you have to take your partner’s surname?
Wedding timelines – are earlier ceremonies ruining the party?
Real wedding horror stories (including one you won’t believe…)

If you're planning a wedding or just love behind-the-scenes drama, this episode is unfiltered, honest, and hilarious.

🎧 Hit play now — and find out what people REALLY think about weddings.

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Planning a wedding and feeling overwhelmed? This episode is a must-listen.

In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we sit down with Hollie from Hollie B Events, an award-nominated wedding planner, to uncover what really happens behind the scenes of weddings.

From last minute disasters to the truth about DIY weddings, Hollie shares insider secrets, real stories, and practical advice that could save your entire wedding day.

Whether you're newly engaged or deep into planning, this episode will completely change how you approach your wedding.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why most couples underestimate wedding planning
• The #1 mistake couples make with suppliers
• What actually goes wrong at weddings
• DIY weddings: are they worth it?
• Venue coordinators vs wedding planners
• Hollie’s “hold hands” rule for your big day
• Wedding horror stories & real-life lessons

Key takeaway:
The right planning, people, and preparation can make or break your wedding day.

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In this episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, hosts Isla and Paul sit down with Marcus and Nathan from Your Singing Waiters, one of the UK’s most experienced wedding entertainment acts with over 20 years in the industry.

Marcus and Nathan reveal how the famous “singing waiters” concept works at weddings and why it has become one of the most memorable entertainment choices for modern couples. From surprise performances during the wedding breakfast to hilarious staged arguments, fake cake drops and even police interruptions, they share how the element of surprise turns an ordinary reception into an unforgettable moment.

The conversation dives into how the act first started, how the team pulls off the illusion by blending in with venue staff, and the acting skills required to make guests truly believe the chaos unfolding in front of them is real. With hundreds of weddings under their belts, they also share incredible behind-the-scenes stories from weddings across the UK and overseas.

For engaged couples planning their wedding, Marcus and Nathan also offer expert advice on choosing wedding entertainment, booking suppliers early, and making sure guests stay entertained throughout the day.

In this episode we cover:

• What singing waiters actually do at weddings
• How the surprise element works during the wedding breakfast
• The acting and planning behind the performance
• Funny and unforgettable wedding stories from real events
• Why entertainment is one of the most important parts of a wedding day
• Advice for brides, grooms and engaged couples planning their wedding

If you are newly engaged, planning your big day, or looking for unique wedding entertainment ideas, this episode is packed with insight, laughter and behind-the-scenes stories from the wedding industry.

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Welcome back to Totally Absolutely Engaged. In this episode, Isla and Paul sit down with the team from The Plough Inn, one of Cheshire’s most popular wedding venues, to talk about everything couples should know when choosing and booking their wedding venue.

For many engaged couples, finding the perfect wedding venue is one of the biggest and most exciting parts of wedding planning. The venue sets the tone for the entire day, from the ceremony and reception to the overall atmosphere and guest experience. In this episode we go behind the scenes with a venue that hosts weddings regularly to hear their expert advice, insights, and real experiences from countless wedding days.

We talk about the things brides and grooms often don’t think about when booking a venue, the practical details that can make a big difference on the day, and how couples can make the most of their venue to create a memorable wedding celebration. The conversation also includes some hilarious and unforgettable wedding stories that have happened at the venue over the years.

If you are newly engaged, currently searching for a wedding venue, or in the middle of planning your big day, this episode is full of helpful tips and insider knowledge to help make the process easier.

In this episode we cover
• What couples should consider when booking a wedding venue
• Behind the scenes insight from a busy Cheshire wedding venue
• Wedding planning advice for engaged couples, brides and grooms
• Common things couples forget when planning their wedding day
• Funny and memorable stories from real weddings

Totally Absolutely Engaged is the podcast for couples planning their wedding, featuring honest conversations, expert advice from wedding industry professionals, and real insights into weddings, marriage, and relationships.

Subscribe for more episodes with venues, suppliers, planners, and experts sharing wedding planning tips to help make your journey to “I do” as smooth and enjoyable as possible.

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In this episode, we explore why more couples are choosing celebrants for their wedding ceremonies and how celebrant-led ceremonies are shaping the future of modern weddings. If you are planning your ceremony and want something personal, meaningful, and completely reflective of your relationship, this episode is for you.

We touch briefly on the difference between a celebrant and a registrar, but focus mainly on what makes celebrant ceremonies so special. From personalised music choices and readings to speeches, storytelling, and meaningful moments woven throughout the ceremony, we discuss how couples can create a ceremony that feels truly their own.

The conversation highlights how celebrants work closely with couples to tell their love story, involve family and friends, and design a ceremony that feels relaxed, authentic, and memorable. Whether you want something romantic, modern, light-hearted, or deeply emotional, celebrant-led ceremonies offer the freedom to shape your wedding in a way that feels right for you.
Perfect for engaged couples, brides and grooms, and anyone in the early stages of wedding planning, this episode offers inspiration and gentle guidance to help you create a ceremony that goes beyond tradition and feels genuinely personal.

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Planning your wedding? This episode is FULL of honest advice that every bride, groom, and wedding supplier needs to hear.

In this solo episode of Totally Absolutely Engaged, we’re breaking down the biggest frustrations, misconceptions, and behind-the-scenes truths in the wedding industry — from BOTH the couple’s perspective and the supplier’s side.

We discuss:
• Why slow replies lose bookings
• Why wedding suppliers don’t always reply instantly
• The REAL reason wedding services cost what they do
• Why deposits matter
• Wedding planning mistakes couples make
• Why changing plans last minute causes chaos
• Whether wedding pricing is actually inflated
• How to build better relationships with your wedding suppliers
• Wedding budgeting tips
• Why trust and communication are EVERYTHING

If you’re currently planning a wedding, this episode will genuinely help you avoid stress, save money, and understand how the wedding industry really works behind the scenes.

Whether you're looking for wedding planning advice, wedding supplier tips, wedding budget guidance, or just love hearing the reality of the wedding world — this episode is packed with useful insight, funny moments, and honest conversations.

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